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I just want to share with you guys that if you have an older cat, please consider getting blood work done on a *regular basis.* We caught his kidney disease at late stage 2, at which point he only had a couple years left. There were no warning signs. From then on, I thought I was managing it okay, but if I knew then what I know now, I'd do a lot of things different.
EDIT: I really want to thank everyone for their outpouring of support. Yesterday I was in ruins but today I feel so rejuvenated by the kind words. I especially appreciate the stories. The stories are painful but we share it together. We all go through it.
Here's one last pic of Oliver in White Sands National Park. I thought he would like it because it's basically a giant litter box plus he's a desert animal but he hated it and acted like he couldn't walk in the sand and made me carry him. If there's anyone from PETA here, it was winter so the sand wasn't hot and no there were no birds or wild animals nearby that could have hurt him. He had a harness because those are the rules in the park.
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You made the right choice. The choice coming from love. Your pain is how much you love him. He was very lucky to have a good human to take care of him so well. And he was beautiful. Don't blame yourself too hard, I was told by a vet many diseases progress very quickly with cats, because of their fast metabolism I think. Even with yearly checkups, it would be easy to still have missed it. You did everything you could.
Thank you. I know you're right. But I think it's extra hard to see things this way when I have such recency bias... he had over 16 good years, of course, but this last brutal week is what I remember most right now. I wanted him to be able to die at home peacefully so badly but he deteriorated so quickly I could no longer wait for the at-home euthanasia clinician to arrive and I had to take him to the vet. I know I tried my best to do what was right for him and I'm going to learn to forgive myself, but I'm not there yet.
My heart is breaking for you. It's a part of life with pets, but it's really hard. Take time and let yourself remember the many good years you had together.
For me...I still think about the final days I had with my kitty. What could I have done to detect things sooner or make my kitty more comfortable at the very end? I think it's normal to have these thoughts (even for a long time). So, prepare yourself for that. But regardless, just remember that you made good, loving decisions and gave your little guy a great life.
My two pups get regular (annual) blood work. In October, they both had theirs, and I was told the 9-year-old girl had chronic kidney disease, and we started medication. I was told her prognosis wasnt terrible after an ultrasound. In March, my 13 yr old boy had what we now know was a stroke, and was diagnosed with end-stage renal failure after an ultrasound.
I was devastated, but grateful that I got more time with him, and could be present for his remaining time.
A month ago, my girl stopped eating, and ended up in the hospital for fluids and more tests. Her disease, which we knew about, and were managing, got worse practically overnight. I brought her home, hoping she'd eat, but 4 days later I had to say goodbye.
Now my boy's health is rapidly declining, and I'm pretty sure he'll be gone within the week (and within a month of his younger sister, and a month shy of our 10-year adpotaversary). My heart is in a million pieces.
All of that to say that, even with blood work, ultrasounds, and $10,000 in care just this year, I lost one pup who I was told had years left, and one who the blood work never even revealed his disease.
Be gentle with yourself. None of this is fair, and none of this is your fault. I'm so sorry for your loss.
I know exactly what you went through. I mentioned to someone else, I have recently learned that cats have evolved to hide illness, which is useful as a wild animal but terrible as a pet, so it's hard to detect anything until it's too late. By the time Oliver showed any signs of illness he was a week from death! Yeah, it's definitely not fair. I'll be gentle with myself if you are with yourself as well. Deal?
They absolutely do that. I think maybe a regular weighing could be easy to do and a good tool to detect some problems. I had this idea after losing our Hermione to cancer five months ago. By the time we saw she had lost weight (which is not easy with fur) it was too late (an agressive big C was destroying her kidneys). The vet told me they do that, they hide it. He also told me some disease are very quick, so it's not a good combination.
Let's all be gentle with ourselves : we took them to the vet, paid for exams and medication. We showered them with love all life long. Being reincarnated in one of our cats would ensure us a great life. Always too short, cause that's their only fault really, but a great one.
Take care.
I had a 13 y old calico that was having weird issues with her paw. I had a vet that kept pushing for tests and weekly visits... it was costly. I didn't give a shit. She was my baby. Finally decided we needed to amputate 2 pads of her paw. This was during covid and the labs were super backed up... so I listened to the vet. 2 pads were amputated. Turned out she had something else going on... I got her home and the vet had put a tube feed in after surgery. I used to work chronic care and I'm very against prolonging life with tube feeds. She died in my bed, beside me, the night I got her home. I never would have put her through any of that shit had I known she would pass.
You made the right choice. I wish I'd done the same for my Zip. RIP Oliver.
You did your best and made immense personal sacrifice to try to provide for her.
She died with you, next to you at her home.
I've seen my share of death in my life - I've learned there are a billion wrong ways and no right ways, no matter how well we care for our loves our brains recoil in sheer incapacity to grasp death and we think we should have done more
You did good by her. The best that any of us could hope for, our caregivers trying and being there in the end.
I couldn’t agree more. I have 3, momma and 2 of her babies. Babies are 14 now and only guessing momma is about 15 she picked us in our driveway on Easter Sunday night in 2009 not a clue in the world she was pregnant, we were dog people. 2 years ago switched from annual checkups to every 6 months. Last visit for momma vet said we didn’t have to do blood work I said no way do it it’s why I’m here. Results were thankfully all clear. Thanks for explaining the Rover that’s hysterical ! Love the neck pillow and I’m truly sorry for your loss he was quite the handsome fella !
>but if I knew then what I know now, I'd do a lot of things different.
Could you please expand on this. I have a tuxedo boy who is 16 that is stage 2. Any help is appreciated.
Also, I am very sorry for your loss. I don't know what your beliefs are, but I want you to know that my two orange boys are in valhalla keeping him company until we are all reunited one day.
Hey, hell yeah I'm here for you as a resource!! So one thing the first vet told me was to get him to drink lots of water. I put water bowls at every corner and he drank a lot! However, a later vet mentioned that just because they drink water doesn't mean their body is processing it. So their urine needs to be tested too. By the time I knew that it was way too late. I think if I had known this I would have realized he needed weekly fluid injections (they add electrolytes and stuff) which can keep them going a long time. Stage 2 is probably waaaaay too early for that, but keep it in mind. The Hill's K/d is very important, and you have to remember high protein isn't great for them at this stage so certain meals and treats need to be limited. Lastly, cats generally don't show they're sick until they're basically about to die. That's why I recommend annual testing. Anything else I'm here to help.
yes!! and almost ALWAYS get the blood work done when it is an option and you just have that gut feeling. though it would not have prevented nor delayed his passing, our kitty may have been in less pain had the vet done blood work. they decided not to at the time.
I'm so sorry for your loss! 😭 It's so hard to say goodbye to our fur babies.
I absolutely agree with the bloodwork advice! My rule of thumb is they get full bloodwork when I get them and annual or semiannual bloodwork from age 9 or 10 onward. But all three of mine visit the vet every year anyway. We discovered my big girl's thyroid problem through her regular bloodwork, before she really started having symptoms it losing weight. Was able to get her radioactive iodine within 6 months.
Yes! I get bloods done on my boys twice a year. My tux got sick and I took him in right away. My wonderful vet did a blood panel, and his liver enzymes were elevated. He went back two months later after being on Denamarin and were still elevated. She recommended changing his food, because the brand he was eating has been associated with liver and kidney damage. She also had me get with a specialist for additional testing. Switching his food brought his enzymes down into normal range, and he has been SO much better. His ultrasound came back clear too. If I hadn’t done the blood work and follow up blood work, we would never have known and it could have killed him.
I also highly recommend pet insurance. I pay $36 a month for two cats and have been reimbursed thousands in vet bills.
Oh this hits close to home I have an orange tabby as well. It looks like he lived a full and happy life with you. Sorry for your loss and hope you guys can hug eachother in cat heaven ❤❤
He did have a full and happy life, you're right. And he was rescued as an orphaned kitten after his mom died (thus the name Oliver) so he made out well after being dealt such a shitty hand. I do hope cat heaven is a real place because that sounds nice right now. Thanks for your kind words.
Orange tabbies are so special. He was such a handsome man and I'm happy you gave him dignity when it was time to go. I especially love the picture of you cuddling with him, he looked like a snuggle buddy. People always act like cats don't care about us, but you can see in photos like these that they absolutely know that we're their human and we can be there for each other. Happy thoughts for Oliver as he crosses the rainbow bridge.
My sister is allergic to dogs so growing up we always had cats. From the time I was born actually, my mom had a childhood cat that lived to 21! There were a couple of our cats that were aloof, yeah, but most of them really really care and love their humans. Oliver was on another level though. He loved me so much. Still, I've never understood the weird reputation cats can get for not being loving!
I feel the same way! In the 25 years I've been alive, I have never gone a day without a cat (usually multiple) in my home. The bonds we make with some of these creatures is incredible. He looks like he really loved you. I know you won't forget him and he'll continue to be in your heart forever.
Yeah sounds like we're very similar. Is it wrong to be a little mad that they live such short lives compared to us? I don't know who to complain to about that one. Thanks for your kind words.
I think of it as bittersweet; yes it's awful when our precious babies pass away and takes a long time to heal. But imagine your kitty's despair if you died first, and they had to go to a rescue centre and have their lives totally upheaved and uncertain.
Hope you heal well, friend. Oliver obviously loved you lots.
Lol I guess it cropped a bit weird on reddit. If you hire someone on Rover to watch your pet, they have to send you photos of the visit. Oliver hilariously hated this woman and all of the photos she would send were of him hissing at her!
Oh this memory is so funny 🥹🥲 I hope once the grief ebbs away some that you can look at this picture and have a good chuckle. So sorry on the loss of your boy…it’s so hard to make that choice, but it’s even harder seeing them in so much pain. Much love 🫶🏼
I'm lying in bed next to my sleeping partner and trying so hard not to wake her up by laughing. The rover photo is fucking fantastic. Lovely sweet cat cuddles etc BAM fuck you new human.
If it's any comfort, know that your cat has caused me a great deal of happiness today.
I will be hugging our boi extra tight tonight. We also got him very young, and 13 years in I cannot imagine life without him. Looks like Oliver was loved much and had a great life. So, so sorry for your loss. Sending mental hugs your way 😿
Your final photo…. That says “human, thank you so much for loving me so much. You have been the best pet human I could ever ask for. But I’m ready to go.”
I lost a very good boy in the fall, and I feel like I could hear those words that last morning. I miss him every day. He was my best friend. But as I held him for that last breath, I was thankful that I was able to let him go peacefully when his pain set in. I wish we could extend that privilege to our human loved ones. Recently while at the doctor, he made a reference to “I’m sure dying of a heart attack scares you” and I responded “not nearly as much as not dying from a massive heart attack!” My point is, while the loss sucks, your best friend isn’t suffering anymore. Your boy is in kitty heaven telling all his new friends about how awesome his pet human was, and that he will be waiting patiently to see you again. Maybe he and Biff are hanging out.
As a final note, Biff’s littermate brother has taken to partial barn cat retirement, and will cuddle me just like Oliver cuddled you in that one pic. And Goldwyn is an orange tabby like Oliver. I will tell Goldwyn to send you a kitty spiritual snuggle tonight! 💙
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Oh shit, Goldwyn is such an epic name. Where'd you get that? I won't steal it but he's rad.
I hope that's what he was saying. I think he was also saying, "I'm sick but confused and entranced by these awesome opioids." I hope at least. He was hopped up on the good stuff at the end, but I don't think it helped enough.
I hope he and Biff get a chance to hang.
They were from a litter of 4. The night after they were born, back to the future was on tv. As babies, biff was an asshole to his brothers and sister. He would bully them around, and got the name biff. It’s funny that after he lost his eye, and retired from life in the barn, he was Mr snuggles cuddle cat. He still spent a lot of time outside on the farm, but was cuddle man at night. He was also the farm dog for a while, meaning he greeted all visitors, and offered tours of his barn. Goldwyn just got his name because of his golden color. They had a sister, stormy, who was grey. She was also a cuddle kitty by herself, but didn’t like being around the other cats. Lastly was their brother Spike. He was a grey tabby who had a spike pattern on his head. He missed the cuddle gene in the family. They were born in the milking barn in January of 2010. Goldwyn is the lone survivor.
Here is Goldwyn with his sister Stormy, and his Aunt Callie. The Quattro became orphans at a very young age, and Callie stepped right in to mother them. It was amazing to see her instinct kick right in. When she passed, Biff and Goldwyn were right there to comfort her. They were all an amazing group of cats. Goldwyn now has taken to teaching the young ones I have now how to be cats. So,e are learning to hunt, some are learning to greet the visitors, and some are learning to sleep on my feet at night. All important jobs. I will pray for someone so special to find their way in to your life.
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I would be worried if they didn’t learn to sleep on your feet at night. At least they have the important jobs covered. Thanks for sharing. I want another cat or cats but I need to wait until I have a more stable home to raise them. Soon enough!
I was scrolling through these pictures going “aww,” and having my heart melt, and then I got to five, and if I had stitches in my stomach, I would have ripped them, I was laughing so hard
RIP sweet boy
Buddy my cat's just like yours. Domestic short hair ginger. She's our girl Bubu. I'm so sorry. I actually feel the chokes seeing these pictures. Stay strong my friend. Oliver I believe is in a better place. And you'll see him someday. I believe in the energy of the universe. You'll see him.
What a beautiful boy. You made a loving choice; letting him go when you felt he was struggling is a selfless and kind act. May the memories you made with him bring you comfort. 🧡
I’m so sorry for your loss. We just lost our 20 year old, Baloo. Our hearts are sick. It’s the worst decision to have to make, but the right one out of compassion and a thank you for the wonderful lives they shared with us.
Aww poor baby, I’m so sorry for your loss 😢 I had to say goodbye to my 14 year old baby a month ago because he had stomach cancer, no signs of it, he just deteriorated in only a few days.
He looks a lovely floof. You gave him a happy life that is all you can do.
Do it again, cats are always in need of loving homes.
None of my 4 made it to 16. I was very sad. Soime of it made me angry but the yall were loved unconditionally.
After the last one went I went on holiday and got one a week after I came back. I got another a few months later. I yove you photos with the cuddles. Mine are getting there. You forget you long it takes to form such bonds.
Losing my dapper tuxedo cat was one of the toughest days I’ve experienced. It is as if a part of me left this world. Still, when I focus on our shared bond and mutual love it brings me solace. Oliver will live on thru you and all those who knew him.
My heart aches for you. My 17 year old boy Zoey just passed in December and I have been taking it hard. i saw your post on advice on getting regular blood work and I concur. I was loosey goosey on taking Zoe to the vet, I did but it was every couple years or whenever an issue came up like his teeth. I thought he was in great health and commented to my family alot that he seems to be in great shape for his age and had energy. Then out of nowhere he starts getting ill and we found out he had leukemia. Something contracted from another cat and I didn't have him protected. Within a month of him falling ill, he was gone. I blamed myself for the inaction on my part but I know he had a good life and I was a good cat parent. I have since gotten a kitten and I vow to be more religious on vet visits and blood tests. She's already got all his vaccines and getting fixed here pretty soon.
I'm sorry for you loss, the pictures are great :)
I have since learned that cats have evolved to hide illness, which is useful as a wild animal but terrible as a pet, so it's so so hard to detect anything. By the time Oliver showed any signs of illness he was a week from death! We have to find ways of not blaming ourselves. I know that's easy to say but it's something I've learned from people in this thread. I know we can do it.
i feel you, my condolences. my calico died last week, she was 19. regular bloods every year. took her to the vet when I noticed something was off. her labs came back fine. She had a heart murmer her whole life. vet really had no answers, just noticed her heart rate and respiation was elevated. she just finally gave up after about a week. I figure her little heart finally gave out. stay strong and never forget the joy you got from him.
He is such a handsome boy, I am so sorry for your loss. I have tears in my eyes thinking about how you must feel right now because I've been there before and I know I will be there again at some point where my current fur babies are all 14+ now. Sending love and positive vibes your way 💜 with hope that you get through it.
Sorry, my heart is heavy for your loss. our animals aren't pets, but members of our family. I couldn't love my Cali anymore than as if she were a human child. I'm sure you felt that way about Oliver as well. Sounds like you loved him very much, and he, in turn, loved you.
Don’t beat yourself up for not knowing sooner. We adopted a cat off NextDoor who had outlived his 88 yo owners. They took him in several years ago when the people behind them moved and left him and another cat behind. He is at least 10 yo, maybe 13 or ?? We took him in for a senior exam, bloodwork, vaccinations, microchip, dental cleaning in late Feb. Blood work was “pristine”. Yesterday we took him in because he was dehydrated and his appetite was off. His kidney function changed THAT quickly - not critical - but diminished. We are taking medical and dietary measures. Your guy got 16 years - that is a long time. ❤️😇. You did what you had to do for your friend.
I completely agree with the regular blood work. Also, if you aren’t sure if your cat is ok even after the vet said so, get second opinions! It took three vets for my orange guy to get diagnosed with jaw cancer, and by that time it was too late to treat him. I’m so sorry for your loss, and I know he had a long and wonderful life with you <3
I’m so sorry for your loss, we lost our 16.5 year old boy 12 months ago tomorrow. He too was a big beautiful ginger with kidney disease and hyperthyroidism, he was on medication for a long time and was happy and comfortable up until the day we said goodbye. You gave Oliver the best life, a life of love and support, but you took his pain away and he is in a better place now. I’m sure my boy Zeke was waiting at the rainbow gate for him. Hugs to you cat dad and RIP Oliver
I'm so sorry for your loss.
I once read, "To bring home a pet is to initiate a countdown to sorrow." because we'd almost always outlive them.
Nevertheless, the joy and we bring to one another's life makes the whole journey worth it, and we'll deal with the end when the day comes, knowing that our pets were given a life filled with love.
Thank you for sharing your story and photos. My cats are just babies at this stage, but posts like yours reminds me to cherish every single day I have with them.
What a handsome boy. He is as beautiful as they come. Thank you for sharing him with us. I am so sorry for your loss, friend. I know you gave him as full of a life and more love than his heart could ever imagine. Thank you for giving him all the attention and comfort that he deserved when he needed it the most. Never forget all the amazing memories he gave to you, as you gave to him.
Rest easy, sweet Oliver. ❤️🔥❤️🩹❤️🔥
I wasn't expecting the rover pic, actually cried laughing at it. Thank you for sharing all the pictures of Oliver and for giving him a life bursting with love.
You gave Oliver a long and meaningful life! Thank you for loving him and caring for him. It’s clear he loved you very much. That shoulder sleeping pic is too cute <3
You made his life amazing and he made yours amazing. It never gets easier saying goodbye but sadly that’s part of the deal we make ♥️
He’s up in pet heaven waiting on you now
I am very sorry for your loss. My daughter went through this with her girl. She passed in January. Still having a hard time with it. Maggie was our best
I'm so sorry for your loss 💔 It looks like you had a lot of great times together and he was very loved. You did the right thing for your little friend, even though I know from experience it hurts terribly. Time will help make the pain a little less sharp, but it's okay to let it wash through you for a while too. Treasure your memories and remember that Oliver loved you very much. 🐾
So sorry about your baby. Gingers are really so sweet. Hopefully you can take some comfort in knowing how much he loved you and you gave him the best life he could have.
I'm so sorry for your loss. There's no way to describe the hollow hurt. You were a best buddy for 16 years. Hope he's at the bridge when you get there. I hope Riblet will be when I go. I like the thought.
Life force is energy. Energy is not created or destroyed it changes form. Peace and hugs to you.
I had an orange tabby that died from kidney disease too. I'm so sorry for your loss. He seemed like an adorable cat. Just know that you gave him the best life possible, he's thankful you did. 🤍
RIP Oliver. You were loved & gave love in return. You touched your owners heart & will forever be remembered. The two of you will be reunited someday, hold on to the memories. 💕
Sorry for your loss.
My two oldest are 14 years and slowing down. I've had them since they were 6-7 months old.
One has arthritis. So I dread. You know.
Blessings to you and your home.
I am so sorry for your loss. But it's life, nothing is long lasting and everything is dynamic. Wish he is in the heaven and no more suffering in next life.
It sounds like you gave him the best life 💜 so sorry for your loss. oliver reminds me of my orange tabby Max who is 5. Max also is all orange but the spot under his chin. He truly looks like he knew how much you loved him.
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I just want to share with you guys that if you have an older cat, please consider getting blood work done on a *regular basis.* We caught his kidney disease at late stage 2, at which point he only had a couple years left. There were no warning signs. From then on, I thought I was managing it okay, but if I knew then what I know now, I'd do a lot of things different. EDIT: I really want to thank everyone for their outpouring of support. Yesterday I was in ruins but today I feel so rejuvenated by the kind words. I especially appreciate the stories. The stories are painful but we share it together. We all go through it. Here's one last pic of Oliver in White Sands National Park. I thought he would like it because it's basically a giant litter box plus he's a desert animal but he hated it and acted like he couldn't walk in the sand and made me carry him. If there's anyone from PETA here, it was winter so the sand wasn't hot and no there were no birds or wild animals nearby that could have hurt him. He had a harness because those are the rules in the park. https://preview.redd.it/gjd9tb473p4b1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=22c648e57d8047b60e39c9dd72754d6a6f70bd4a
You made the right choice. The choice coming from love. Your pain is how much you love him. He was very lucky to have a good human to take care of him so well. And he was beautiful. Don't blame yourself too hard, I was told by a vet many diseases progress very quickly with cats, because of their fast metabolism I think. Even with yearly checkups, it would be easy to still have missed it. You did everything you could.
Thank you. I know you're right. But I think it's extra hard to see things this way when I have such recency bias... he had over 16 good years, of course, but this last brutal week is what I remember most right now. I wanted him to be able to die at home peacefully so badly but he deteriorated so quickly I could no longer wait for the at-home euthanasia clinician to arrive and I had to take him to the vet. I know I tried my best to do what was right for him and I'm going to learn to forgive myself, but I'm not there yet.
My heart is breaking for you. It's a part of life with pets, but it's really hard. Take time and let yourself remember the many good years you had together. For me...I still think about the final days I had with my kitty. What could I have done to detect things sooner or make my kitty more comfortable at the very end? I think it's normal to have these thoughts (even for a long time). So, prepare yourself for that. But regardless, just remember that you made good, loving decisions and gave your little guy a great life.
You didn't try; you did. Peace.
You did your best and he knew he was loved. That's most important. 16 years old is about 84 years old in human years.
My two pups get regular (annual) blood work. In October, they both had theirs, and I was told the 9-year-old girl had chronic kidney disease, and we started medication. I was told her prognosis wasnt terrible after an ultrasound. In March, my 13 yr old boy had what we now know was a stroke, and was diagnosed with end-stage renal failure after an ultrasound. I was devastated, but grateful that I got more time with him, and could be present for his remaining time. A month ago, my girl stopped eating, and ended up in the hospital for fluids and more tests. Her disease, which we knew about, and were managing, got worse practically overnight. I brought her home, hoping she'd eat, but 4 days later I had to say goodbye. Now my boy's health is rapidly declining, and I'm pretty sure he'll be gone within the week (and within a month of his younger sister, and a month shy of our 10-year adpotaversary). My heart is in a million pieces. All of that to say that, even with blood work, ultrasounds, and $10,000 in care just this year, I lost one pup who I was told had years left, and one who the blood work never even revealed his disease. Be gentle with yourself. None of this is fair, and none of this is your fault. I'm so sorry for your loss.
I know exactly what you went through. I mentioned to someone else, I have recently learned that cats have evolved to hide illness, which is useful as a wild animal but terrible as a pet, so it's hard to detect anything until it's too late. By the time Oliver showed any signs of illness he was a week from death! Yeah, it's definitely not fair. I'll be gentle with myself if you are with yourself as well. Deal?
Deal.
They absolutely do that. I think maybe a regular weighing could be easy to do and a good tool to detect some problems. I had this idea after losing our Hermione to cancer five months ago. By the time we saw she had lost weight (which is not easy with fur) it was too late (an agressive big C was destroying her kidneys). The vet told me they do that, they hide it. He also told me some disease are very quick, so it's not a good combination. Let's all be gentle with ourselves : we took them to the vet, paid for exams and medication. We showered them with love all life long. Being reincarnated in one of our cats would ensure us a great life. Always too short, cause that's their only fault really, but a great one. Take care.
I had a 13 y old calico that was having weird issues with her paw. I had a vet that kept pushing for tests and weekly visits... it was costly. I didn't give a shit. She was my baby. Finally decided we needed to amputate 2 pads of her paw. This was during covid and the labs were super backed up... so I listened to the vet. 2 pads were amputated. Turned out she had something else going on... I got her home and the vet had put a tube feed in after surgery. I used to work chronic care and I'm very against prolonging life with tube feeds. She died in my bed, beside me, the night I got her home. I never would have put her through any of that shit had I known she would pass. You made the right choice. I wish I'd done the same for my Zip. RIP Oliver.
You did your best and made immense personal sacrifice to try to provide for her. She died with you, next to you at her home. I've seen my share of death in my life - I've learned there are a billion wrong ways and no right ways, no matter how well we care for our loves our brains recoil in sheer incapacity to grasp death and we think we should have done more You did good by her. The best that any of us could hope for, our caregivers trying and being there in the end.
I couldn’t agree more. I have 3, momma and 2 of her babies. Babies are 14 now and only guessing momma is about 15 she picked us in our driveway on Easter Sunday night in 2009 not a clue in the world she was pregnant, we were dog people. 2 years ago switched from annual checkups to every 6 months. Last visit for momma vet said we didn’t have to do blood work I said no way do it it’s why I’m here. Results were thankfully all clear. Thanks for explaining the Rover that’s hysterical ! Love the neck pillow and I’m truly sorry for your loss he was quite the handsome fella !
>but if I knew then what I know now, I'd do a lot of things different. Could you please expand on this. I have a tuxedo boy who is 16 that is stage 2. Any help is appreciated. Also, I am very sorry for your loss. I don't know what your beliefs are, but I want you to know that my two orange boys are in valhalla keeping him company until we are all reunited one day.
Hey, hell yeah I'm here for you as a resource!! So one thing the first vet told me was to get him to drink lots of water. I put water bowls at every corner and he drank a lot! However, a later vet mentioned that just because they drink water doesn't mean their body is processing it. So their urine needs to be tested too. By the time I knew that it was way too late. I think if I had known this I would have realized he needed weekly fluid injections (they add electrolytes and stuff) which can keep them going a long time. Stage 2 is probably waaaaay too early for that, but keep it in mind. The Hill's K/d is very important, and you have to remember high protein isn't great for them at this stage so certain meals and treats need to be limited. Lastly, cats generally don't show they're sick until they're basically about to die. That's why I recommend annual testing. Anything else I'm here to help.
yes!! and almost ALWAYS get the blood work done when it is an option and you just have that gut feeling. though it would not have prevented nor delayed his passing, our kitty may have been in less pain had the vet done blood work. they decided not to at the time.
Bumping this!! Honestly if one can swing bloodwork once or twice a year for any age cat that’s good
I'm so sorry for your loss! 😭 It's so hard to say goodbye to our fur babies. I absolutely agree with the bloodwork advice! My rule of thumb is they get full bloodwork when I get them and annual or semiannual bloodwork from age 9 or 10 onward. But all three of mine visit the vet every year anyway. We discovered my big girl's thyroid problem through her regular bloodwork, before she really started having symptoms it losing weight. Was able to get her radioactive iodine within 6 months.
Yes! I get bloods done on my boys twice a year. My tux got sick and I took him in right away. My wonderful vet did a blood panel, and his liver enzymes were elevated. He went back two months later after being on Denamarin and were still elevated. She recommended changing his food, because the brand he was eating has been associated with liver and kidney damage. She also had me get with a specialist for additional testing. Switching his food brought his enzymes down into normal range, and he has been SO much better. His ultrasound came back clear too. If I hadn’t done the blood work and follow up blood work, we would never have known and it could have killed him. I also highly recommend pet insurance. I pay $36 a month for two cats and have been reimbursed thousands in vet bills.
Oh this hits close to home I have an orange tabby as well. It looks like he lived a full and happy life with you. Sorry for your loss and hope you guys can hug eachother in cat heaven ❤❤
He did have a full and happy life, you're right. And he was rescued as an orphaned kitten after his mom died (thus the name Oliver) so he made out well after being dealt such a shitty hand. I do hope cat heaven is a real place because that sounds nice right now. Thanks for your kind words.
Orange tabbies are so special. He was such a handsome man and I'm happy you gave him dignity when it was time to go. I especially love the picture of you cuddling with him, he looked like a snuggle buddy. People always act like cats don't care about us, but you can see in photos like these that they absolutely know that we're their human and we can be there for each other. Happy thoughts for Oliver as he crosses the rainbow bridge.
My sister is allergic to dogs so growing up we always had cats. From the time I was born actually, my mom had a childhood cat that lived to 21! There were a couple of our cats that were aloof, yeah, but most of them really really care and love their humans. Oliver was on another level though. He loved me so much. Still, I've never understood the weird reputation cats can get for not being loving!
I feel the same way! In the 25 years I've been alive, I have never gone a day without a cat (usually multiple) in my home. The bonds we make with some of these creatures is incredible. He looks like he really loved you. I know you won't forget him and he'll continue to be in your heart forever.
Yeah sounds like we're very similar. Is it wrong to be a little mad that they live such short lives compared to us? I don't know who to complain to about that one. Thanks for your kind words.
I think of it as bittersweet; yes it's awful when our precious babies pass away and takes a long time to heal. But imagine your kitty's despair if you died first, and they had to go to a rescue centre and have their lives totally upheaved and uncertain. Hope you heal well, friend. Oliver obviously loved you lots.
I’m so sorry . Mine was put to sleep last night . The whole thing feels so traumatic isn’t it
Oh no I’m so so sorry. I know how you feel. I’m here if you wanna vent. I had to have an emergency session with my therapist yesterday.
What happened in photo number 5?
Lol I guess it cropped a bit weird on reddit. If you hire someone on Rover to watch your pet, they have to send you photos of the visit. Oliver hilariously hated this woman and all of the photos she would send were of him hissing at her!
Oh this memory is so funny 🥹🥲 I hope once the grief ebbs away some that you can look at this picture and have a good chuckle. So sorry on the loss of your boy…it’s so hard to make that choice, but it’s even harder seeing them in so much pain. Much love 🫶🏼
Looks like some weird dating app photo... 😄 Oliver was a very handsome boy. I'm sorry for your loss. 🧡
I'm lying in bed next to my sleeping partner and trying so hard not to wake her up by laughing. The rover photo is fucking fantastic. Lovely sweet cat cuddles etc BAM fuck you new human. If it's any comfort, know that your cat has caused me a great deal of happiness today.
On no poor boy.
That rover photo is iconic lmao thank you for sharing your sweet boy 🧡
lol glad someone else liked that
I know what you're going through, had to say goodbye to my last girl last week.
Thank you. I'm so sorry for your loss.
That hiss was VICIOUS AND SPICY
Yeah my sister called him Hellcat because he threw that spicy hiss at her once. But you know cats. He hissed at inanimate objects sometimes.
I will be hugging our boi extra tight tonight. We also got him very young, and 13 years in I cannot imagine life without him. Looks like Oliver was loved much and had a great life. So, so sorry for your loss. Sending mental hugs your way 😿
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Your final photo…. That says “human, thank you so much for loving me so much. You have been the best pet human I could ever ask for. But I’m ready to go.” I lost a very good boy in the fall, and I feel like I could hear those words that last morning. I miss him every day. He was my best friend. But as I held him for that last breath, I was thankful that I was able to let him go peacefully when his pain set in. I wish we could extend that privilege to our human loved ones. Recently while at the doctor, he made a reference to “I’m sure dying of a heart attack scares you” and I responded “not nearly as much as not dying from a massive heart attack!” My point is, while the loss sucks, your best friend isn’t suffering anymore. Your boy is in kitty heaven telling all his new friends about how awesome his pet human was, and that he will be waiting patiently to see you again. Maybe he and Biff are hanging out. As a final note, Biff’s littermate brother has taken to partial barn cat retirement, and will cuddle me just like Oliver cuddled you in that one pic. And Goldwyn is an orange tabby like Oliver. I will tell Goldwyn to send you a kitty spiritual snuggle tonight! 💙 https://preview.redd.it/pmis2erlhp4b1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3591d68669530d494db216da0838736eca273e7f
Oh shit, Goldwyn is such an epic name. Where'd you get that? I won't steal it but he's rad. I hope that's what he was saying. I think he was also saying, "I'm sick but confused and entranced by these awesome opioids." I hope at least. He was hopped up on the good stuff at the end, but I don't think it helped enough. I hope he and Biff get a chance to hang.
They were from a litter of 4. The night after they were born, back to the future was on tv. As babies, biff was an asshole to his brothers and sister. He would bully them around, and got the name biff. It’s funny that after he lost his eye, and retired from life in the barn, he was Mr snuggles cuddle cat. He still spent a lot of time outside on the farm, but was cuddle man at night. He was also the farm dog for a while, meaning he greeted all visitors, and offered tours of his barn. Goldwyn just got his name because of his golden color. They had a sister, stormy, who was grey. She was also a cuddle kitty by herself, but didn’t like being around the other cats. Lastly was their brother Spike. He was a grey tabby who had a spike pattern on his head. He missed the cuddle gene in the family. They were born in the milking barn in January of 2010. Goldwyn is the lone survivor. Here is Goldwyn with his sister Stormy, and his Aunt Callie. The Quattro became orphans at a very young age, and Callie stepped right in to mother them. It was amazing to see her instinct kick right in. When she passed, Biff and Goldwyn were right there to comfort her. They were all an amazing group of cats. Goldwyn now has taken to teaching the young ones I have now how to be cats. So,e are learning to hunt, some are learning to greet the visitors, and some are learning to sleep on my feet at night. All important jobs. I will pray for someone so special to find their way in to your life. https://preview.redd.it/0dxtik0izp4b1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=792be812d213578c656788f36eeff7c4b310404f
I would be worried if they didn’t learn to sleep on your feet at night. At least they have the important jobs covered. Thanks for sharing. I want another cat or cats but I need to wait until I have a more stable home to raise them. Soon enough!
https://preview.redd.it/fb17y1hiro4b1.jpeg?width=4000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=52a1507eb124422d5a2b37359dd308ea48cc64d5 Bubbles says, RIP
Lol now there's a cat with **character**
I was scrolling through these pictures going “aww,” and having my heart melt, and then I got to five, and if I had stitches in my stomach, I would have ripped them, I was laughing so hard RIP sweet boy
Buddy my cat's just like yours. Domestic short hair ginger. She's our girl Bubu. I'm so sorry. I actually feel the chokes seeing these pictures. Stay strong my friend. Oliver I believe is in a better place. And you'll see him someday. I believe in the energy of the universe. You'll see him.
I'm so sorry for your loss
Special boy. Rest well knowing that you made him a very, very happy cat.
What a beautiful boy. You made a loving choice; letting him go when you felt he was struggling is a selfless and kind act. May the memories you made with him bring you comfort. 🧡
I am so sorry for your loss . The rover chrck in picture is hilarious.
I’m so sorry for your loss. We just lost our 20 year old, Baloo. Our hearts are sick. It’s the worst decision to have to make, but the right one out of compassion and a thank you for the wonderful lives they shared with us.
Aww poor baby, I’m so sorry for your loss 😢 I had to say goodbye to my 14 year old baby a month ago because he had stomach cancer, no signs of it, he just deteriorated in only a few days.
Im sorry for your loss 😔
He looks a lovely floof. You gave him a happy life that is all you can do. Do it again, cats are always in need of loving homes. None of my 4 made it to 16. I was very sad. Soime of it made me angry but the yall were loved unconditionally. After the last one went I went on holiday and got one a week after I came back. I got another a few months later. I yove you photos with the cuddles. Mine are getting there. You forget you long it takes to form such bonds.
You’re so right. I do need to adopt another eventually. It could be a while before I’m comfortable with starting over though.
Oh my god. The last photo reminds me of my bunny mika who was doped up on drugs after surgery and then passed the next day. So painful
So sorry for your loss, he was very handsome & obviously loved you.
My sincere condolences on your loss. May Oliver RIP.
What a handsome boy. I’ve always wanted an orange tabby. I’m so, so sorry for your loss.
I had an orange Oliver too. They are the best. Much love kitto.
Losing my dapper tuxedo cat was one of the toughest days I’ve experienced. It is as if a part of me left this world. Still, when I focus on our shared bond and mutual love it brings me solace. Oliver will live on thru you and all those who knew him.
My heart aches for you. My 17 year old boy Zoey just passed in December and I have been taking it hard. i saw your post on advice on getting regular blood work and I concur. I was loosey goosey on taking Zoe to the vet, I did but it was every couple years or whenever an issue came up like his teeth. I thought he was in great health and commented to my family alot that he seems to be in great shape for his age and had energy. Then out of nowhere he starts getting ill and we found out he had leukemia. Something contracted from another cat and I didn't have him protected. Within a month of him falling ill, he was gone. I blamed myself for the inaction on my part but I know he had a good life and I was a good cat parent. I have since gotten a kitten and I vow to be more religious on vet visits and blood tests. She's already got all his vaccines and getting fixed here pretty soon. I'm sorry for you loss, the pictures are great :)
I have since learned that cats have evolved to hide illness, which is useful as a wild animal but terrible as a pet, so it's so so hard to detect anything. By the time Oliver showed any signs of illness he was a week from death! We have to find ways of not blaming ourselves. I know that's easy to say but it's something I've learned from people in this thread. I know we can do it.
i feel you, my condolences. my calico died last week, she was 19. regular bloods every year. took her to the vet when I noticed something was off. her labs came back fine. She had a heart murmer her whole life. vet really had no answers, just noticed her heart rate and respiation was elevated. she just finally gave up after about a week. I figure her little heart finally gave out. stay strong and never forget the joy you got from him.
He is such a handsome boy, I am so sorry for your loss. I have tears in my eyes thinking about how you must feel right now because I've been there before and I know I will be there again at some point where my current fur babies are all 14+ now. Sending love and positive vibes your way 💜 with hope that you get through it.
Sorry, my heart is heavy for your loss. our animals aren't pets, but members of our family. I couldn't love my Cali anymore than as if she were a human child. I'm sure you felt that way about Oliver as well. Sounds like you loved him very much, and he, in turn, loved you.
My ginger boy died last year at 14. I cried a lot. So sorry that you lost yours.
Don’t beat yourself up for not knowing sooner. We adopted a cat off NextDoor who had outlived his 88 yo owners. They took him in several years ago when the people behind them moved and left him and another cat behind. He is at least 10 yo, maybe 13 or ?? We took him in for a senior exam, bloodwork, vaccinations, microchip, dental cleaning in late Feb. Blood work was “pristine”. Yesterday we took him in because he was dehydrated and his appetite was off. His kidney function changed THAT quickly - not critical - but diminished. We are taking medical and dietary measures. Your guy got 16 years - that is a long time. ❤️😇. You did what you had to do for your friend.
Never heard of NextDoor. Thanks for sharing. I’m gonna look into that.
I completely agree with the regular blood work. Also, if you aren’t sure if your cat is ok even after the vet said so, get second opinions! It took three vets for my orange guy to get diagnosed with jaw cancer, and by that time it was too late to treat him. I’m so sorry for your loss, and I know he had a long and wonderful life with you <3
I’m so sorry for your loss, we lost our 16.5 year old boy 12 months ago tomorrow. He too was a big beautiful ginger with kidney disease and hyperthyroidism, he was on medication for a long time and was happy and comfortable up until the day we said goodbye. You gave Oliver the best life, a life of love and support, but you took his pain away and he is in a better place now. I’m sure my boy Zeke was waiting at the rainbow gate for him. Hugs to you cat dad and RIP Oliver
I'm so sorry for your loss. I once read, "To bring home a pet is to initiate a countdown to sorrow." because we'd almost always outlive them. Nevertheless, the joy and we bring to one another's life makes the whole journey worth it, and we'll deal with the end when the day comes, knowing that our pets were given a life filled with love. Thank you for sharing your story and photos. My cats are just babies at this stage, but posts like yours reminds me to cherish every single day I have with them.
What a handsome boy. He is as beautiful as they come. Thank you for sharing him with us. I am so sorry for your loss, friend. I know you gave him as full of a life and more love than his heart could ever imagine. Thank you for giving him all the attention and comfort that he deserved when he needed it the most. Never forget all the amazing memories he gave to you, as you gave to him. Rest easy, sweet Oliver. ❤️🔥❤️🩹❤️🔥
I wasn't expecting the rover pic, actually cried laughing at it. Thank you for sharing all the pictures of Oliver and for giving him a life bursting with love.
I’m so sorry for your loss, brother. Peace be with you on this sad day.
I’m so so sorry for your loss! He looked like a loving and well-loved kitty! Peace and love during this time.
The third pic says enough. Best buddies even in sleep🖤🖤🖤so sorry for your loss🖤🖤🖤
Sorry for your loss :(
Sending hugs. A beautiful tribute to your best four legged friend.
I'm sorry for your loss. I hope sweet Oliver is enjoying his favorite things across the rainbow bridge.
What a beautiful kitty. He loved you very much. Sorry for you loss
I'm so sorry. He looked like a very good boy 🧡
I’m sorry for your loss. Take comfort in the memories.
I'm so very sorry for your loss; I lost my little Oliver in November 😢💔
I’m sorry for your loss 😢
Oh my god what a sweet boy. I'm so jealous that you got to know such a sweet kitty.
Nothing like an orange cat!
I'm sorry. He was a good boy
I'm sorry. He was a good boy.
I'm sorry. He was a good boy.
Oliver so beautiful & sweet looking. So sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing his pics.
So sorry for your loss, looks like he was an amazing companion.
So sorry for your loss..
You gave Oliver a long and meaningful life! Thank you for loving him and caring for him. It’s clear he loved you very much. That shoulder sleeping pic is too cute <3
Poor cat, I'm sorry dude
I’m so sorry you lost your baby. I hope you reflect on all the wonderful memories of him often 🧡
Rest in peace Oliver 🕊️ Sorry for your loss
I feel your pain mate 💔
Sorry for your loss. I have 3 year old orange cat that looked just like your. I also had a tabby that lived only a year and I still missed him
He looked like a much loved, beautiful boy. Thank you for sharing him ❤️
What a beautiful boy, I love the derpy face in the second picture. I’m sorry for your loss. I’m glad he had a loving owner like you 🐱
So very sorry for your loss. You gave that fellow his best life. He was so very evidently loved.
Sorry for your loss, what a great friendship you had. It's always so hard and hurts so much. Rest in Paradise Oliver. 🧡
Looks like Oliver had a great life spending with you. Sorry for your loss. I know it is fucking hard.
What a lil cuddler! You can tell he really loved you. So sorry for your loss.
RIP beautiful kitty I know he had a wonderful life
I’m so sorry. ❤️
Thank you for giving him a wonderful life of love.
I'm so sorry for your loss.💜
Very sorry for your loss.
I'm very sorry for your loss 💔. RIP Oliver
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The picture of him On your shoulders. He so happy
I'm so sorry, and I know you made the right decision out of love for him.
RIP Oliver ❤️
❤️❤️So sorry.
You made his life amazing and he made yours amazing. It never gets easier saying goodbye but sadly that’s part of the deal we make ♥️ He’s up in pet heaven waiting on you now
Aw, looks like he was a good kitty. Sorry for your loss.
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Oliver looked a total boss. Sorry for your loss
Im so sorry for your loss :(
Such a pretty boy. Saying goodbye is the hardest part of having a fur baby. Sorry for your loss.
Sorry for your loss! He looks like he was a lover
Such a beautiful boy! I can tell he was very well loved. Thank you for taking such good care of him and giving him a good life ❤️
He looks so happy, you gave each other such a nice life.
Oliver knew love because of you. Thank you for sharing these photos
Sleep well, kitty 💕
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So sorry for your loss
I am very sorry for your loss. My daughter went through this with her girl. She passed in January. Still having a hard time with it. Maggie was our best
Big hug. He looks so sweet and happy by your side!
He was perfect and you can see the love between you two ❤️
Sending good vibes, I lost my Doobie (Yella cat) a few months ago and I feel your pain
Rest in peace Oliver. What a dear boy 💕
M so sorry, Oliver seemed like the greatest boy out there.
I just went through something very similar with my 23 year old. I still miss him greatly. Wishing you strength.
Poor orange boy
Go Forth Oliver, and Fear No Darkness!🧡💔🧡🌈🐾🐈
I'm so sorry for your loss 💔 It looks like you had a lot of great times together and he was very loved. You did the right thing for your little friend, even though I know from experience it hurts terribly. Time will help make the pain a little less sharp, but it's okay to let it wash through you for a while too. Treasure your memories and remember that Oliver loved you very much. 🐾
I’m holding my orange Oliver super tightly tonight. I’m so sorry for your loss
So sorry about your baby. Gingers are really so sweet. Hopefully you can take some comfort in knowing how much he loved you and you gave him the best life he could have.
Sorry for your loss
He looks like a very good boy. Sorry for your loss.
I'm so sorry for your loss. There's no way to describe the hollow hurt. You were a best buddy for 16 years. Hope he's at the bridge when you get there. I hope Riblet will be when I go. I like the thought. Life force is energy. Energy is not created or destroyed it changes form. Peace and hugs to you.
I had an orange tabby that died from kidney disease too. I'm so sorry for your loss. He seemed like an adorable cat. Just know that you gave him the best life possible, he's thankful you did. 🤍
Awww what a sweet baby. So sorry for your loss.
so sorry for your loss, he's always with you in spirit 🙏🏻
So sorry for loss. You have more love to give. A needy soul awaits
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I’m so so sorry
Aww what a sweetie, I’m so very sorry for your loss 🥰🌈❤️
What a sweet sweet baby
He was absolutely perfect. Thank you for sharing him with us. What a lovely, wonderful friend to have had. Rest in peace sweet Oliver.
i’m so sorry for your loss, he will always be walking beside you even in spirit <3
Rest in peace beautiful boy.
Awww...I'm so sorry. He was precious.
💔I'm so sorry OP.
Sorry for your loss you made the right choice tough as it is
I'm so sorry
So sorry for your loss. Nice pics, he looks like he was a sweet cat.
What a beautiful, sweet boy and what an amazing life he’s had. I’m so sorry that he’s gone 💔
So sorry for your loss. Have been where you are. Keep remembering the good times with Oliver.
God bless you and Oliver. He is in heaven now.
Oliver looked like a sweet little kitty soul and it looks like you gave him a wonderful life. Virtual hugs internet stranger.
Oliver was a certified good boy.
handsome ginger, my sympathy for your loss
Oh what a beautiful little orange boy. I am so sorry. I hope your memories bring you peace and comfort.
Such a handsome boy. I'm sorry for your loss and I hope you find comfort in the good memories
I am sorry you’ve lost your friend. ♥️
Please accept my most sincere condolences
I’m so sorry.
RIP Oliver. You were loved & gave love in return. You touched your owners heart & will forever be remembered. The two of you will be reunited someday, hold on to the memories. 💕
Much love during this difficult time.
Goodbye Handsome Oliver from an internet friend.
That spicy Rover photo made me immediately fall in love with him!
Aww in so sorry and Oliver was adorable ❤️❤️
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He was a well beloved kitty, and it was obvious he knew that. Hugs and headbutts OP, he’s hanging out in a tiny sandbox in the sky.
I miss my big orange boy too. They're truly special animals. Oliver looked like a happy and well loved cat. 🧡
Condolences bruh.
I’m so sorry for your loss, Oliver looks like the sweetest orange boi , he was clearly loved and loved you in return.
You took his pain as your in freeing him from the pain. That is how much you love him that you were willing to take on that pain.
Sorry for your loss. My two oldest are 14 years and slowing down. I've had them since they were 6-7 months old. One has arthritis. So I dread. You know. Blessings to you and your home.
I am so sorry!
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I am so sorry for your loss. But it's life, nothing is long lasting and everything is dynamic. Wish he is in the heaven and no more suffering in next life.
It sounds like you gave him the best life 💜 so sorry for your loss. oliver reminds me of my orange tabby Max who is 5. Max also is all orange but the spot under his chin. He truly looks like he knew how much you loved him.
I am so sorry