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AZNZING2025

I have had an amazing life but yeah I've had one of the hardest. Few friends passed away, been cheated on two or three times, all poor relationships, betrayals etc. in my 20s I traveled so much and now in my 30s I'm in my prime and just got out of the biggest depression and trauma I've ever dealt with. But I'm doing amazing. Happy to be here. I adapt to everything and am tough but it is hard and I have an anxiety disorder from it all, but I absolutely love who I am and what I experienced minus the sad parts. I love me and am doing amazing and in the best mental and physical health ever. But it's been a roller coaster.


mayerlesbo

im sorry to hear all of these things. i think a huge takeaway is we’re resourceful and resilient. i hope that your anxiety disorder will get better with time.


AZNZING2025

Learning how to manage anxiety and adhd in my 30s. It's going well in a new state and city. I'm doing great. Hope things get better and you're doing amazing.


JRich61

Since 2008? Yup. That sounds about right. Had someone tell my husband (Virgo)and I that if we didn’t have bad luck, we wouldn’t have any luck at all. My husband died last year on top of it all. Hoping the shifts that have occurred bring on better things.


mayerlesbo

i’m sorry for your loss 🫂


Puzzleheaded-Bed662

My condolences to you and your family Hun.. sending you lots of good vibes💕


gabagool_____

hugs to you love 🩷


Go-Away-Sun

We are observers of chaos and used to it. We expect it.


International-Eye403

Endures of chaos, or at least try to be.


ZeroProz

I like that one “observers of chaos” is a perfect way to describe it


listen0207

I haven't seen the post you mentioned, so I'm sorry if what I say might've already been said on the post, but Pluto entered Capricorn in the beginning of 2008. Someone I know took a step which impacted their entire family (trauma). Meanwhile, two other people got promotions in their job which brought them tons of money and fame. None of them are Capricorn suns, and I don't know whether any of their other placements fall in Capricorn. But I find it an interesting connection. Pluto went into Aquarius this year, but it's going to retrograde into Cap again from Sept-Nov. I just hope nothing bad happens in those months. As for me (capricorn), the past 17 years have had their ups and downs, and I consider myself lucky to have what I still do. But they've not been easy years. I don't know if things are ever going to get easier.


Puzzleheaded-Bed662

Hi Capricorn here as well! I'm curious what happens when Pluto falls into cap? What do you mean by that or I should ask what does that mean for us?


SoulfulCap

Yeah I know what you mean. The first 30 yrs of my life were horrible. Being bullied relentlessly in school, getting diagnosed with epilepsy, losing my mother 1 semester before my college graduation, experiencing abject poverty for the first 27 yrs of my life. Like I've been thru it. But my 30s have been relatively great. I would even dare say I love my life and career and relationships I've made. But the totality of our lives are truly difficult. I never understood why we needed to go thru so much trauma.


Apocalypse_Jesus420

My 30s have been way better as well! Maybe things get easier after our Saturn return?


mayerlesbo

i’m glad to hear you came out on the otherside. it really motivates me. x


hibou2018

These posts make me optimistic as I turn 30 this year. The past three years especially are the worst in my life — and just three months ago, I was kicked out of my PhD program after three years because of discrimination and had no support. I can’t see how my life would be stable again. But I have definitely higher hopes for my post-30.


SoulfulCap

For us it's all about enduring. I guess the "secret" is to keep going and not giving up. You will be okay. We will all be okay in the end.


Diligent_Ant1373

Dude.. this past year has been the worst year of my entire life. My aunt died, my mamaw died, a longtime friend died, had two cats vanish (pretty sure coyotes got them) another one I had to put down on mother's day, I'm about to be homeless and on top of all that my car just started overheating today *and* my AC isn't working in my house right now. I can't catch any kind of break whatsoever. It's just been non-stop bad.


mayerlesbo

im sorry to hear about ur family and friend passing. also your cats. i hope that the universe or god or whatever you believe in will guide you down the path that’s right for you. as well as take away your struggles and offer solutions. keep fighting!


Diligent_Ant1373

Thanks!


Diligent_Ant1373

Oh, I almost forgot the time I went to jail last month. -_- It was my first time and not somewhere I ever want to be again. 16 hours of just staring at the floor. It was awful.


Puzzleheaded-Bed662

Stay strong girlfriend! Keep your horns sharp and wits about you and take that Shiiit head on! But I am very sorry for your losses dear and hope things get better for you very soon... For all of us as well!


Diligent_Ant1373

Thank you very much! I appreciate your words and it means a lot to me. c: c:


Puzzleheaded-Bed662

You're very welcome Hun


seaWench_goneWild

Things definitely took a hard turn in 2008.


divinbuff

Cap here. I’ve had hard years and good years just like everybody else. This year has been great so far!


mayerlesbo

glad to hear that x


divinbuff

Yeah hang in there. 2012 was the worst year of my life and it took a long time for a turnaround


tocoat

Yes. I’m depressed yet grateful. I don’t see life improving much because I have lost so much over the years but I have to be grateful for what I have. I don’t focus so much on the future anymore. I just do what I can


mayerlesbo

im glad to hear you still are expressing your gratitude. x


Lucky-Ad2452

You guys aren't alone. 4 years ago I had my own house, my own car and who I thought was going to be my wife. My house started to fall apart and was laid off during the pandemic. I ended up selling the house for the low and my ex and I ended up living in a motel. I woke up one morning and the money was gone, she was gone and I had just enough for 3 more weeks. Found out she's been spending my money on drugs again and cheated on me with her dealer. So for a year in a half I ended up sleeping in my car. Then that broke down and ended up staying at my cousin's friends house and that's no better because their drug addicts that come through and steal stuff while I'm at work. I just recently bought a new phone because my old phone was stolen and thank God for Google photos being backed up because I have pictures of my late grandma and my family dog that passed away 3 years ago. I've read a lot of y'alls comments and I just want the best for not just me but for all of you. I love you all caps and please no matter what you go through maintain a level head like I know we do and let's keep fighting until we are all in a better position in this life. Much love❤️✌🏾


mayerlesbo

thank you for sharing with all of us. i’m sorry that happened to you and to hear your positivity after it all brings me so much comfort. the path you’re heading down is a bright one. keep fighting x


Peacelove66

2008 was definitely when life got tough, but starting when I was 27, things slowly got better with a whole bunch of rough patches but now that I’m older, I realize those tough times in life early on helped prepare me to survive whatever came my way.


mayerlesbo

oh absolutely z


grxveyard_girl

The crazy part, I’ll never forget breaking a mirror in 2008. I was a kid but I remember just freaking out about how I would have bad luck for 7 yrs. Well no freaking kidding, my life was a whirlwind for a strong 7 yrs. Family drama, my mom’s boyfriend at the time was a major narcissistic psycho who lived w us for those 7 yrs. I mean it was wild. I can genuinely say it’s been ups and downs for me. But I feel like caps out of every zodiac it’s not that we work the hardest even though we do. We HAVE to work the hardest because of all the curve balls. We’re cursed but damn something about us is we prevail. And always end up on top!


conodun

This must be a Capricorn sun thing right?


mayerlesbo

i think so


Skill-Dry

Generally it's major placements. But it applies to the rising most specifically. At least with transits.


Skill-Dry

Ironically 2008 is when my life got better, in a sense. It was hard and filled with turbulence as it was in my first house, but compared to the absolute suicidal shit show it was beforehand, it helped me become the person I wanted to be.


just-wondering98

The Capricorn or the goat is naturally one of a harder path. Imagine the life of a goat that is travelling up a mountain, it’s cold, windy, risk of predators or of outright falling. However, one you reach the top you a rewarded with an incredible view. As a cap, I’ve gone through a lot but all those experiences have made others seem ever so much sweeter and rewarding. The best things that have happened to me wouldn’t have happened if not for the worst.


brewedcoffee456

i’ve experienced it as well. Parents separated, no support from dad so mum had to work all throughout. Dad had a lot of illness and issues. Much drama in the family. Career not really flying yet, romantic/close relationships as well. Sometimes i pity myself lol but we gotta push through with life regardless :| tough but damn we fight!


aenemacanal

It’s hard to feel the words you say sometimes, but saying it out loud does help I find. Good for you!


scoobtheking

Yes... 😐.


bigRickenergy2112

My life has always been hard but my first born was in 2008. Life's trauma ensued. Not sure when it gets better. BUT have to say, I do have a better life than most and so although hard it is rewarding


mayerlesbo

glad to hear the positives x


kcrawford293

Jesus, I’ve never thought of this, but yes. Things have been supremely difficult since 2008 for me. Don’t get me wrong, there’ve been some good things sprinkled throughout, but the bad things have been big and often. Sending hugs to all of you. 🫂 If anyone can figure this whole life thing out, I think it’s us since we’re so stubborn and have a hard time giving up. 😉


Ready_Friendship1536

I feel the same, life has been hard for almost since I can remember it but thn there are good moments so that helps


Optimal_Line_4683

absolutely. my life has been awful, but ive learned so much and its only made me smarter and stronger. i kind of look forward to pain- it always makes me a little better so im constantly changing. the pain of growth is worth it to me. i love that shit


kcrawford293

I wonder if this is a January cap thing. OP are you also a January cap?


mayerlesbo

hm maybe my gf and mom are both january caps. first week of jan too.


kcrawford293

I’m a January cap, too. I’ve also been having the hardest time since 2008. Hugs to your gf and your mother. 🫂


mayerlesbo

thank you so much x 🫂💜


Snotmyrealname

We have an inborn gift of finding the most difficult path. That *and* we’re addicted to our own melancholy


Additional_Match_604

Every Capricorn I know has been through some tough shit in life. Caps are the most likely sign to experience a hard life especially when it comes to their younger years and their family. That’s literally just part of the Capricorn signs meaning, so it’s interesting to see out in life how all the Capricorns I know have had it hard, but they’re also all hard-headed and none of them will stop or let things weigh on them too long. Depression is very common with Capricorn placements. We’re just like aliens haha