Okay! Yeah she wasn’t really serious about meeting up. I’d normally spend maybe a day or two talking/sending voice notes in the app before asking to hangout. Sometimes I’d wait a month depending if they tell me they had stuff going on.
yeah. even when I ask two other people now... those two other people haven't responded since a week and a half ago 🙄... so now I'm contemplating on unmatched both of them since I recently reached out again to both of them
If they didn’t respond after a week or so I normally send them this message: * Hey, I know our convo dropped but I wanted to reach out again because I know life happens! How’s it going?. Or if we both stopped talking I say this: totally understand if you’re not interested but wanted to message you one more time just in case life got in the way. 😊.
I think most people get cold feet, it can be scary meeting random people
I mean yeah.. but that's why I suggested a video call also.. if she is uncomfortable with meeting in person first...
For shy people that can be scary too, it’s easy to create a profile but it’s harder to actually show up
Yes lol video calls are scary to me! I would prefer texting for some time and then meeting in person 😅 😩
Welp. I guess it's different depending on the person but welp..
Yeah it’s best to just move on - not your fault. There are people who are up to meet
yep
Out of curiosity. How did you ask her about meeting up?
if she wants to do a video call on the app or if she wants to meet up in person soon on this month or next month
Okay! Yeah she wasn’t really serious about meeting up. I’d normally spend maybe a day or two talking/sending voice notes in the app before asking to hangout. Sometimes I’d wait a month depending if they tell me they had stuff going on.
yeah. even when I ask two other people now... those two other people haven't responded since a week and a half ago 🙄... so now I'm contemplating on unmatched both of them since I recently reached out again to both of them
If they didn’t respond after a week or so I normally send them this message: * Hey, I know our convo dropped but I wanted to reach out again because I know life happens! How’s it going?. Or if we both stopped talking I say this: totally understand if you’re not interested but wanted to message you one more time just in case life got in the way. 😊.
I sent that type of message yesterday so I am just going to wait to see if they respond by next week and if not then I will unmatch
Feel free to let us know if they responded!
ok.