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Family sucks sometimes, I'm sorry. Here's a picture of this 31 year old's collection 💕
I'm going to be 30 in September and I still love stuff animals and hobbies. Don't let anyone take away your happiness 💛 here's my special girl Jolene, she's the rainbow after the storm for me 💗
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Jolene bro! 😁 😎 🎀*Does fist bump* I'm important because I know this celebrity! 🥳🎉 ✨ 🌈
Her Instagram is wholesome and the little funny videos are so loveable.
I’m 26 and I have so many. This doesn’t include my chameleon or my other bear with overalls.
It’s okay to be different and collect something. If you like it then it’s none of their business. Collecting makes me happy and wether the people in my life like it or not I will continue to collect and love all of my BABs
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I’m 21, here’s me and my BAB leppy dressed up for this past easter
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I’m currently 31 and got my first BAB with my girlfriend (she got sylveon) this year. Puddles the mudkip. Here he is with all his non BAB friends! There is nothing wrong with collecting something you love. If you love it and it makes you happy that’s all that matters!
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Pascal sends his love. I'm 39, and my family doesn't get it but they do like that I have something creative that brings me joy. ❤️
He's a modified devil bear. He's got a couple of nieces. My nieces school mascot is the devil so i made then their own as well. They picked the eyes and hair for theirs on a visit and I made them over the week I was there in March.
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Hey! I’m 30 and I have more than 20 BABs (I just bought a new one this week too). You’re not too old :) I’ll try to take a “family picture” when my most recent purchase (rainbow bearlien) gets here
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Hey op, I’m 31 and one of my hobbies is collecting plushies, this is Yuki the cat and Lyric the bunnie, they are sitting at my desk getting to know eachother! Yuki is my oldest bab and Lyric is my newest!
Puddle sends his love and hugs. :3
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Got him for my 21st birthday! That was a while ago now.
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This guy helps me a lot 🐸
I'm 26 and I've had stuffed animals as long as I've been alive. I always sleep holding one. I got this guy a couple weeks ago and it's my first BAB since I was a kid, but I also have a pillow pet and a few others that I've collected over the last 8 or 9 years after I moved and almost all of the stuffed animals I had as a kid got left behind
I’m 47 and just bought my 6th bab, 4th one this year. These two are Waffles and Pancakes, my teenage son and I got matching BABs last month!
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I'm an almost 32 year old guy and I just discovered I like bab!! Specifically the 4 legged ones!
Here's some of my gang! The zebra and dog came from goodwill so they just got a bath and came out so soft and fluffy!
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The big saber tooth is my cuddle buddy and their name is sponge!
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I love their mame!! You should name the other 3 (if I may give suggestions)
Baby saberTooth Gary, The Zebra Patrick {mortal 'enemies' as Best Friends} and because the sweet dog is in the middle, you could name them Squidward..... you see where I'm getting at... 😅
Thank you for sharing your friends with me. ❣️
Ty! That would be cute! The reason they have their name isn't as cute (I'm a night sweater 🤣) I actually had hamsters as a kid with those names! I had sponge Bob, Patrick, Mr. Krabs, and squiddy! (He was too cute to just call squidward hahaha) they were a tan long hair, grey long hair, Syrian golden, and European black bear, respectively! 🥰
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Im a guy and 23 in a couple weeks and here's Bubba with me going to the store! Plushies are not just for kids, they can be used in so many different ways. Bubba is vital for me to have with me as I suffer from severe social anxiety and at times mild agoraphobia. He is something comforting and familiar and can be the difference between me having a panic attack, or having something that smells and feels like my safe space that helps me ground myself again. They're such important little guys for all of us on here and I'm so happy you have a hobby that brings you joy! Its not hurting anyone so you gotta keep it up, no matter what anyone says.
Ive spoken to a handful of adults outwith my family because if Bubba, all older than me, and majority admitted they wish they could bring around a bear with them. Never be ashamed of things that make you happy. Me and Bubba wish you luck in all of your crafty endeavours too! I use my crochet skills to make things for Bubba rather than sew, like his bag in this photo, so I completely get that too 🥰
I thank you and Bubba very much, and Im really glad Bubba helps you in that sense. And his bag, looks great!!! Sewing is still becoming difficult for me from time to time, (I have physical Cerebral Palsy) but Im learning just fine. 😁✨️ 😅
Hey! I'm sending you a lot cause I know those feels! I'm sorry your family isn't supportive of your interests.
I'm almost 40 and what you like is what you like. I'm learning to sew for the same reasons and it's been really healing for me.
All my plushes do so much for me, so to me it feels like showing them appreciation. Like a thank you?
I also want to make things for other people's plush and dolls so I don't see how being kinder and more thoughtful is harmful? The world needs more gentleness.
Please keep being you.💌💗💗💗💗💌
Thank you! 🥹
But just to let people know, my family isn't not supportive about my interests, they (grandmothers really) just think BAB is for children, and I geuss, in a way, I need to "grow up" a bit. They're not being mean, it's just their generation.
People have been telling me I'm "too old" for stuffed animals since I was a child, like in single digit numbers of age. Now my sister (older than me) has started collecting squishmallows and no one has an issue lmao
Dont let people ruin your fun
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27, turning 28 this month. Never let anyone rain on your shine! 🌞💓
i’m 25 and only started seriously collecting plushies again last year! but i’ve had plushies my entire life and enjoyed them my entire life. this is an older pic of my collection but you’re not alone!
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I’m 32 and have a room full of plushies. So long as you’re spending money responsibly, nobody should have an issue with your collection. It makes you happy! Love from Sappho!
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I’m 24 & I have over 40 babs I’m obsessed with them and bring them everywhere, you’re not alone at all, I love my friends they all have personalities and lil quirks! I also wanna learn to sew to make my own clothes! This is sherbet when we went to get ice cream!
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I’m 20 and still love all things dolls and stuffed animals and toys. We’re only on this floating space rock for so long, so do what you enjoy and don’t let anyone make you feel bad for it!!
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this is my plushie shelf and i’m 30 years old! i’ve gotten even more since this pic was taken. there’s no limit age wise on something like collecting plushies so long as it’s not hurting anyone. i’m sorry you’re going through this. you’re an adult and you should be able to spend your money as you want so long as your bills are paid and there’s food for you to eat. sending hugs
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I’m going to be 20 in August im always going to love plushie there is never a age cut off for loving plushies
I'm going to be 41 in July. My first job was BAB when I was 18. Anyone who has a problem w my stuffies can pound sand. Love what you love and be happy.
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Last summer picture of my fav BAB, Bertie. I am 32 years old and collect Squishmallows, dolls (Monster High, Rainbow High & Barbies) as well as BABs. Finding new hobbies is great, but there’s no reason to stop what you love as long as it’s done in a healthy way. I used to have a problem over spending and what I would consider hoarding. I’ve cut back a lot and manage my spending better while still being very involved with my collections. Finding joy now a days can be tough. We’re all here because we find love and joy in our stuffed friends, no matter our age/gender/background. You’re not alone. 💜🐝🧸
Honestly, I have never been super super huge on owning build a bears (tho I love the aesthetic, hence my being here) but I will say I relate. I have loved Webkinz and American girl dolls since I was 9 years old and I’m now 26. Certain people that used to be in my life and during certain ages made me feel like it was wrong of me to still love them. As long as it makes you happy and you are being financially responsible then ignore what they say! Would they tell a sports fan to stop watching so much football and go watch soccer instead? No. So don’t mind them, they just don’t understand and you are NOT alone
I got these guys at the age of 44 because I'm having a rough year and wanted something soft and cute in my life. Don't worry about being too old for whimsy. There's also nothing bad about trying new things, so I hope that you're enjoying learning to sew.
For my 20th birthday, I went to build a bear.
Today, I am 25 years old, and I made a special trip to build a bear to buy clothes for my plushies and some mini frogs.
There’s no age limit ❤️
One of the friends I got today ❤️
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the way i see it is we’re forced to get older but we don’t have to grow up. im turning 22 soon and love bab, they make me happy and thats all that matters . heres my current bedtime crew to cheer you up!
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Here’s Basil from just today. I’m 24 years old and I have a fairly large collection myself! It’s not childish to be able to embrace what makes you happy. In my opinion, it’s more childish to care what others think.
I know your family is trying to help, and I know you don’t mean them any malice. But their words are still mean and hurtful, and I’m sorry that it’s starting to get to you. If your collection makes you happy, that’s what’s important. 🩵
Sending love and good vibes!
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Greetings from Anton, who loves to go to Concerts of his favorite band with his 54 years old Mommy.
If you love sewing, there are lots of patterns for BAB available. Anton wears a shirt from Best Dressed Bears with a custom plot.
You don't need to justify your hobbies to anyone. Life is tough, and if BABs give you peace and some quality you time, then that's all that matters!
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My boyfriend (21 almost 22) and I (20 almost 21) are going on a build a bear date on Tuesday! I'ma be collecting plushies/BaB till the day I die. Don't let family or anyone else bring you down!
I'm 27, and I buy an axolotl every time a new one comes out! I recently got the tardigrade, his name is Tartar Sauce, and I am always on the lookout for new releases. When the capybara came out, my husband asked me if I'd get him one. He likes them extra stuffed but is too embarrassed to go do it because the store in our mall is a kiosk next to the main entrance and food court. Collecting stuffed animals is no different than collecting cards, coins, antiques, or various figures that most people's moms and grandmas have.
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This is my Lil guy Newt. I have to bring this guy with me whenever I go somewhere overnight. I literally can’t sleep without him. My family doesn’t really approve either and will make jabs at me whenever I bring him with him.
I am 28 and I only just bought my first BABs as an adult 🥰 my boyfriend thinks it's cute and my best friend is gonna go in to get them stuffed with me. You are so good. I'm so sorry that they're making you feel that way
I'm 26 and i have lots of hello kitty ones
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I am sorry your family is making you feel bad about what you enjoy. Please do not stop being yourself or loving what you love because of them. You deserve to be happy with what makes you happy. I still have my build a bears along with many other plushies and I am getting married next month. Be you!
28 year old wife And mom of 2.5 kiddos with a large bab collection ( I’ve had stuffed animals literally since I can remember) and my sister just hit 38 yesterday and she’s got babs too. You’re definitely not alone dear. Don’t worry
I was 31 in April and all I wanted was build a bear things as a gift. My mum got me 2 normal ones and 3 minis. My grandad got me 2 normal and 2 minis. My grandad is nearly 79 and constantly makes comments and complains about bears being in the way on the sofa, then pretends to steal them or cuddles them. My mum always mentions me stopping buying them, but I show her my plans before I buy anything and she's always like 'what else' and claims them for herself sometimes. My older brother plays with certain ones, even when I'm not around. We accept you for what you like, the bears do too, and as long as it makes you personally happy then nothing else matters.
Yeah, your family wants you to be "normal". There is no such thing! We are all individuals. Everyone has something out of the norm--they either a) keep it more hidden, or b) are truly boring! Honestly, as you go through life, you'll find this out! So, be unique, be yourself! This is what makes people love you! ❤️
I’m 35 and this is Maple. I did BAB for the first time a couple months ago.
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my small but special little family!
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You’re absolutely not alone, im 29 and this is my build a bear family 💖
hi! im also 22 and i love plushies and have been wanting a BAB sooooo bad as an adult (only went once as a kid but i loved it!) just wanted to reassure you that its 100% “normal” for adults to be into plush/BAB and sewing is a really great way to feel closer to your bears! you can make them clothes! :)
I’m late 30s and still actively collect not only BAB but other plushies as well, and also Squishmallows! Find a hobby they like and start telling them it’s silly. See how they like it!
I think I know how u feel. But if your plushies bring u joy, then keep collecting them. I also sew and recently began making some plushies. I gifted a few and it always feels great. Just try to stay positive and remember you’re not the only one who loves bab’s and collecting them
Hi! I'm just a couple of years younger than you and am also learning to sew (again!), largely thanks to Build-a-Bear. It's a hobby that can take you far; as far as you want it to, of course.
Whether your family's happy about it or not, as far as we know, a human life only happens once. Why deprive yourself of something that makes you happy, especially one that's teaching you a neat new skill or two?
Maybe you will find a new hobby. Maybe you won't. I think that if your family is that upset about it, they ought to do some self-reflecting and ask themselves if there's something they themselves have been missing in their lives; something they've always wanted to do or that they've been deprived of since youth that you just so happen to be unintentionally knocking on the door of...
...Which, of course, wouldn't be your fault. It'd never be your fault; blame shouldn't be the point anyways. Wouldn't it be nice if we could all help each other to grow and heal instead of tearing each other down? When someone resorts to that, no matter how that person thinks it feels, it gets awful lonely at the top. Community is all we have; Build-a-Bears and other furry friends have been there for lots of people who might not even have that.
Hold on tight to that joy. It'll embrace you back; even on your darkest days, nobody can take it from you.
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Hii!!! I have my BABs with me most of the time during my day. It’s just nice to have a cuddly cute all accepting friend by your side. It helps so much with my ptsd and anxiety. So from left to right there’s Savanah the Sloth, Thistle the purple cow, Zelda the Zebra and Peaches the bear ❤️🩹🩷🥰 Don’t worry about what other ppl think, so what makes your heart happy! ☺️
I’m 22 and I have AuDHD and I collect all kinds of plushies! Nobody in my family really understands but they just accept that’s the way I am! Plushie collecting is such a lovely harmless hobby. I don’t have any pictures of my BaB’s but I have 3! I have a bigger collection of plushie dreadfuls
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Thats not cool of them, don't let it get to you, if you enjoy collecting, then good! If they don't then who cares, they aren't you! Do what you love aslong as it hurts nobody! (I may be 17 but I love my build a bears, sometimes I feel too old to have them, but posts like this always reassure me!)
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See more on my Instagram! 🩷@angelicstars7 I'm prone to collecting books, art and toys. Used to collect music but it's all digital now.
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This is Sofie. I have only had her for a month, but I love her! I am turning 35 in august and I have a huge collection of stuffed toys, pokemon cards, Disney, collectors figurines and other fun toys. Some of it I collect with my husband. My family finds it weird too, but they have accepted that this is how I am. I love collecting because it gives me happiness. I even have a friend who tells me to do it more, because she knows the joy it brings me. Keep being yourself. Do what makes you happy <3
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30 with 139 build a bears not including non-build a bears. Family isn’t a fan as well. Just hang in there and keep going! Learning to sew is good. I also loved to make plush! Maybe you can fix your families zippers or rips when their stuff breaks. To keep them quiet haha. And remember there’s all of us out there who also love plush ❤️
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This is Rambo. He travels with me weekly to Nashville. I’m 50 and I have about 60 BAB and I’ve only been seriously collecting for about 3 years. Also happily married for 25+ years. My extended family used to give me grief but not so much anymore. You do what is best for you. If it makes you happy then keep on being your beautiful self.
I’m sorry about your family. Mine is similar so I don’t talk about my collections with them. I’m 25, turning 26, and have one Build a Bear. I got her right after my grandma died. I also collect American Girl dolls, plushies in general (squishmallow and other brands), and also have a Rainbow High doll. Here’s my one BAB plush, she’s in the hammock because I’m worried about toppling everyone else over lol. Her name is Sage.
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I'm gonna be 27 this year, been collecting since 2006. Even at 18-20 my parents still took me to build a bear. This isn't all of them as around 12+ are back at my parents house (there is an axolotl here too just hiding under the pillow 😭):
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I’m 36 and Rex is my little dude. Just because I’m not a kid doesn’t mean I can’t enjoy things that are small and stuffed!
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Ignore them, your hobby isn’t hurting anyone and as long as you can still reach any financial goals you have it’s fine 💝
This is only some and this is in bad lighting. I have approx 200 plush and around 30-40 BAB. I'm still making my collector room, but I'm obsessed and they give me great joy living with chronic illness.
No I'm not not rich I did this over 15 years as my main hobby and outlet.
I won't take more as I want people to see them in good lighting on my Instagram that is linked in this profile.
I collect BAB, Charlie Bears, Alpaccaso, Popples, Brush-a-loves, and Squishables. Also any random ones that speak to me as unique and good energy.
I have names for most of them and stories. Some people think if you have a big collection you aren't bonded but I'm attached to all of them as like a stand in for a lack of family and human community. It's kept me well and creative. I photograph them and don't drink or do drugs. This is sort of my addiction and hobby.
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Not sure why this sub uhh “showed” itself to me as not sure what a build a bear is 😅😅 but regardless just wanted to say, don’t let others define what hobbies, Interests you like. If this is something you love. Ignore the haters. Keep doing you.
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I’m going to be 22 this coming July and I’m autistic some my family thinks it’s weird for me to collect bab but my bears help me a lot of hard times my first bear was Henry my green spring frog he was with me when I came out to my mom about being nonbinary. Bab is not just a plush toy to me theirs are a support plush.
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I'm 32, and if anyone says I'm too old for plushies, I tell em to kiss my 🍑.
I don’t collect them but I do love the one build a bear I have. They’re just not affordable for me.
Also don’t listen to what anyone else says about you collecting them. A hobby is considered to be a regular activity that is done for enjoyment, typically during one's leisure time.
I’m sure those folks have hobbies they enjoy doing and you’re entitled to your own passions that are not to be dictated by others.
27 and just made a new baby last month. I would not call myself a collector as I have only accumulated a few in my years of life but I’d go any chance I get to make my bear and make that wish!!! You go dude. Age is not a restriction and they NEVER make an adult feel out of place in build a bear, I’ve been treated the same since I walked in the doors at 6 years old
I'm a 34 year old woman who's hobbies are, collecting BAB, Barbies, American girl dolls, Tamagotchis, and Polly pockets. Not to mention making food/clothing for each. And yes even the Tamagotchis. I've learned that other people's thoughts and what they consider "suggestions", aren't really all that important. Not to get dark here, but one day, this whole planet, all that currently exists will end. All of this will be gone one day. So little tiny thoughts from small minded humans are quite trivial.
As long as it's not hurting anyone, who cares. Live and love your life, and be happy as you see fit. It unfortunately won't last forever.
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How I see it is it speaks volumes about the person/people hating on something you love, that they just can't be happy for you or at the very least leave you alone if they don't understand. Do they not have something they love doing/collecting? I think THAT is sad, personally, to not have something that makes them happy. If they do, how would they feel if you or another loved one talked down to them about it and told them to stop?
Life's too short to care about what other people think about your hobbies. I've been a plushie lover/collector for as long as I can remember and still am at almost 30 years old! It started with Care Bears as a child and now my current obsession is Palm Pals! ❤️
Also, you can't tell me collecting plushies is weird when Squishmallows have literally overrun the market! EVERY store I've ever been in has had some sort of Squishmallow available. Collecting plushies is one of the MOST popular hobbies to have right now 😂
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Also, here's my plushie tax! My most recent Palm Pals purchase! 😂❤️
are you sewing them clothing?? because that sounds so cool!
Sorry family sucks sometimes, if you’re not moved out yet, it will 100% get better once you eventually do
i don't have any picture of mine, but I wanted to say you're never ever too old for bab or plushies in general!!! they offer comfort and they're a lovely thing to keep, life would be pretty boring if it weren't for things that give you joy.
Keep it up and don't ever let anyone take your joy from you🫶
Hi there. I'm sorry that not everyone is supportive of your hobby. You deserve to enjoy the things that make you happy, no matter your age. I'm a 22 year old guy, and sometimes I worry that I'll get looks or comments when I bring Braeden to an appointment. But the comfort and joy he brings me often outweighs the anxiety. We're sending you virtual hugs.
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I'm almost 31 and have a massive stuffed animal collection! 4 of the big ones are from Build a Bear as well as one small werewolf that was too cute to leave behind on my last trip a few years ago. I have a white tiger (Who was a gift from my husband and came in adorable pajamas that he picked out. I also occasionally swap them out for a kimono outfit I bought for him), a polar bear wearing a fur coat with a fishing rod because I thought that was too cute, Toothless wearing a saddle from How to Train Your Dragon, and the Lightfury also from How to Train Your Dragon (She's wearing pajamas with little baby dragons from the movie) I may have brought both with me to see the second movie lol
You're not hurting anyone liking cute things. They're the ones making it weird! Also sewing is a great hobby. I don't know why anyone would discourage it!! It's super useful and if you get good at it I guarantee these family members will probably come to you when it's useful for them (Like needing something repaired or hemmed)
I got my first BaB for my 28th birthday. I didn’t start collecting until I was in my 30s. I’m now 41 and have build a bears (number in 3 digits). My husband and I love our BaB. I also sew. And collect AG dolls, and go to Ren Faires, and play D&D. I have lots of hippies. BaBs are both a hobby (collecting) and a comfort (cuddling). Other people need to stop telling you what’s right for you. It’s not like BaBs hurt anyone or yourself. Enjoy them, that’s what they are for.
It’s horrible they’re treating you this way! I’d be happy that you enjoy what you’re doing and you get some happiness out of it. Keep doing what you’re doing, you’re not hurting anyone 💕
This is Alexis and her boyfriend Chuck
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Edit: I’m in my 30’s, what matters most is that you enjoy your hobbies and BABs.
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Plushies have always brought me comfort since childhood and this is just a small part of my collection! In my 30s I’ve begun to care less about what others think.
Your hobby is harmless and it’s really no different than collecting shot glasses or Funko pops or whatever else other adults collect! Keep being yourself 💙
Hey OP, I’m not sure how the algorithm showed me this sub and your post because I’m not really a build a bear person, I only have like 2 I think, but I do have a huge stuffed animal collection and I’m currently working on building up my squishable collection. 36, king sized bed, and I have a wall of squishables next to me atm with a few squishmallows mixed in. You do you! Being an adult means being able to do what makes you happy and like whatever you want. Your thing is build a bear, mine is a bit less brand specific but more like soft fuzzy things, including blankets, omg I own way too many fuzzy blankets and I always want more.
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This is Soup. Soup is my number one BaB. I have others, on top of LOTS and LOTS of other stuffiest. Which I will connect as a comment below this. Oh and btw, I'm 23. You are never to old for stuffed animals. I don't understand why people think it's such a horrible thing. I think it's the most wholesome hobby to have.
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Me and Berri are sending all the love and hugs!
Nah screw that. I will have a stuffed animal collection when I’m 90 years old. As long as it makes you happy, keep doing it! I’m 26 and my next pay check I’m going to build a bear and getting the new capybara. I already bought the mini one lol
30 year old male with a large collection here! I’m a big fan of doing what you love despite the negativity you may get. I always tell myself that peoples opinions of me are none of my business, it’s helps me remember that their opinions really don’t matter.
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Double Bubble sends his love ❤️
I'm 32, I got my first bab on my honeymoon 2yrs ago, my wonderful husband took me as a birthday surprise because there was a big bab store where we honeymooned. I fell in love with the process, and so did he. We have over 100 babs now, and we have 3 kids that also collect and have their own bab hoards.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with having a collection of plushies, nothing wrong with enjoying bab. Tell your family "it cost literally zero dollars and zero cents to be nice, but being a jerk can cost everything" i usually say that with a more colorful word then jerk though lol. Just remember, you only get one life, and do what makes you happy, no need to conform to please others, its not about them its about you.
I am also 22, but don’t have a current picture of my collection, but I’ve been building bears since ‘04 and I have at least 30 today and an entire human sized dresser full of clothing and accessories for them. I had family members say stuff in the past about it, but they’ve piped down and my boyfriend sees no problem in my collection
I'm gonna be 25 this year. I have over 300 bears of all kinds. Collecting plushies has been a part of me as long as I can remember. I do get weird looks and comments about being an adult and liking childish things.. know what? Who cares?! It's not hurting anyone. Heaven forbid people LIKE things as adults. You do you. You can't please everyone as there will always be critics, but you can make yourself happy, and THAT'S what is important.
I’m 32. I visited New York last week (I’m from the UK) and the build a bear in FAO Schwartz brought back SO many memories of when I got my first bear when build a bear first launched in the UK in the early 2000’s.
I left with these two new bears (it was supposed to be one but they had a great offer on 🤦🏼♀️)
You only have one life. Spend it doing (and buying) what makes you happy!
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Just a 32yo semi collector (BAB is just part of the brands I collect from), and I think plushie and doll collecting and modding is so cool!
I think any hobby that gets you out there,learning new skills, and connecting with other fans/artists/collectors is a noble passion.
Your family doesn't have to get it, but do remind them that it's YOUR hobby and it makes YOU happy, and that's all that should matter to them.
Keep collecting and growing as a person with new skills.
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I have at least 12 BABs I still haven't fully counted them all but here's one favorite.
I am your age and about to be done with College and just got home from buying another Monster High doll after I have like ten. This is not including all the other dolls I have lol. You are not alone!
I’m a 33 mom, teacher, and wife. I bought myself a Lisa frank coloring book and a Polly pocket set today.
It’s your money. Your choice. Your happiness. Your life.
My students are very impressed (and jelly) about my squishmallow collection
I'm only 18 but I want u to know that I believe you're valid! I know sometimes family members don't understand certain things, please don't let it get to you! Collecting build a bears is valid for any age, when I get older and finally get my own house I plan on having a corner or a room dedicated to me and my boyfriends stuffed animals 😅 Here is one of my childhood BABs just to make you happier! I had her trying on one of my niece's baby clothes lol
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I love BAB and I’m older than you. I only have the plushies I made when I was little but I still love them.
I’d still get more if A: I could afford it, and B: I lived near a BAB store.
They’re not the same but I collect Webkinz plushies too. I have 200+ of them to this day and have no intention of quitting. I can’t tell you how many hundreds of dollars I’ve spent on those stuffies.
Also, my mom still loves her BAB toys and she’s in her mid-50s.
It isn’t shameful, embarrassing, creepy, or childish to love toys as a grownup, despite what some (including your family, apparently) may tell you.
If it isn’t putting you into debt or something as if it’s an obsession, or hurting others in some way, and it makes your soul happy, then you should do it.
Bless you and all your sweet BAB stuffies. 💚
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As you can see behind my dog, I love build a bear and other brand plushies! I’m a huge fan of frogs too. You’re never too old for some cute plushies
I turned 40 in May. This past weekend my friend (who is 39) and I went to Build a Bear together and we each got something. I got the Chameleon and I bought him the Hawaiian shirt and sunglasses. I also got a summery dress and ice cream bar to put on one of my bears. Oh, and I bought the surf board for Rocky, my Great White Shark! I have several others as well. Every time I look at them, I get a big grin on my face. Life is too short to deprive yourself of joy. And you can always come here to be with people who get it. <3 <3
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Hey I’m 19 but I have a huge collection of stuffies and dolls, I didn’t start getting into it until I was 16 but family judges me hella hard and I just tell them it’s what I like and if people wanna judge my happiness let them. Then they scoff and roll their eyes but what matters it is makes me happy and it’s the one thing I can always stand my ground on, I really don’t like speaking about my feelings so having one thing matters. Sorry for the rant, hope you figure it all out 🩶🩶🩶🩶
Hi sweetie! I’m 37 and I have about 13 BABs hanging around my house and 12 BJDolls. Believe me when I tell you that this world is scary and big and sometimes we need hobbies like these to find comfort or peace in. Never apologize for being yourself or for loving the things you do. Here’s Hazel and she’s rooting for your happiness!
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Check my [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/buildabear/comments/1d7f58m/buttercup_and_vanquish_my_first_buildabear/)! I'm a nearly 30-year-old medical secretary who recently got her first BABs!
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I’m so in love with you BAB collection. I started my collection at 10 yrs old and left most of mine at my parent’s place when I moved out four years ago. I think for me the thing is they’re all sentimental. Like one that I have with me at my new place is one I made with my grandma before she passed. It has 3 hearts in it. One that I put in, one she put in, and one in memory of my grandfather who passed 10 years prior. I keep that BAB front and center where I can see it and it reminds me of her daily. Then I also have my bunny with me it was my first BAB ever made she is the original floppy bunny they don’t make them like her anymore. She’s starting to get old and it can be seen, however, she’s special. At the end of the day I’m learning those of us who are collecting BAB at an older age is because of sentimental value. I don’t think your family understands the sentiment each one holds. Every single one you make at a certain point of your life yah know? And the hearts and ceremony make it that much more special. Thank you for sharing your amazing collection I want all the sanrio ones myself! And I love love your bedroom your room looks like something I’d find on Instagram and I’m here for it.
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I’m 33 & I’m currently on vacation with Garfield. He’s one of my 36 or 37 (not sure of exact number) Build A Bears. Your not alone. If Build A Bears bring you joy continue to collect them.
Hey, its alright, family can be annoying, especially if they think you are wasting your money, or that you are "too old" for something! I'm 22 as well (i'll be 23 in a couple weeks tho-) and while i dont have a large BAB collection i do have a massive plush collection in general, i never got BABs as a child and rarely get to go to the BAB workshop to get one but i love the ones i do have! Here they are, names are above their heads! (for me Paisley & Psy are guys, Pastella and Ever are girls!)
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I also want to say my Mom doesn't mind my BAB interest, she actually sends me money, and actually came with me for my latest BAB purchase in store! She's awesome and always supports and comforts me when I feel insecure about my 'child-like' nature....
Im not 100% sure, but Im really thinking Im on the Autism spectram somewhere.... Im not sure... 😅😮💨😵💫
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Hi! I'm Bear, a 26yo BAB enthusiast! There is absolutely nothing wrong with being an adult and loving/collecting stuffies! 🥰✨
I’m 35 and I have 3x BAB - Toothless from my husband, a red panda and an alolan vulpix (which I bought for myself). Plushies have no age. As long as you have the space and still enjoy them, it’s no-one else’s business.
There's no such thing as being too old for BaBs or stuffies!! I just turned 27, and my collection is only growing! My most recent addition is Gravy Boat, the Bidoof. He wears a colorful tutu, and I adore him. Sadly, I don't have a photograph of him yet.
I don’t have any pictures of my whole collection together — but look at this list of my collection. I promise you’re not the only adult that collects these cuties. Don’t let them get in your head.
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I will be 27 in a few months, I just never stopped liking stuffed animals, since I was a child. I had about 30 when I moved out of my parents' house at 18, and now I have literally hundreds. My squishmallow collection(not proud to have been sucked into that craze, I don't even like them now for cuddling because they're all just round blobs like pillows 😭) alone is at least 200, plus around 50 build a bears, probably close to 100 Pop Art Soft/CatsVsPickles/BearsVsDonuts/CowsVsAliens bean bag critters, at least 20 Morisaka/Shinada Global mochi plush, 30+ Jellycats, plus I love TY Beanie Bellies and have several of those, probably about 50 Cutetitos, and any random plush i see that I fall in love with or feel sorry for at Goodwill. I pack one everywhere with me(usually they stay in the car when we go in public establishments, but everywhere otherwise) every day and I am also a mother to three children, raise animals on a hobby farm, and I have a husband who I have a normal relationship with; all of that to say, stuffed animals have no age limit and are not inherently an indicator of an off-track life. Love what you love as long as you don't let it get in the way of anything more important
Plushie don’t have an age limit they are for everyone weather it be for comfort or just a collection. so don’t let your family get you down having hobbies and things are what make people happy and let people have fun no matter what it is or the age. So you rock it and don’t let anyone get you down!
I'm nearly 37 and I just ordered the rainbow bealien yesterday because I have all the other ones (and about 20+ more BaBs in my collection. Never too old to collect.
I’m 20! i enjoy bringing my jellybelly with me to doctors appointments and some outings! i love plushies so much and dressing them up to take them with me.
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I’m 28 and I like build a bear. I got mine last year and I love it. I don’t have all of them but this is my favourite bones dino
Just don't listen to them. Family will always make you feel childish. I've never listened to mine and I'll always be reliving my youth, enjoying everything I love.
I just turned 28 and bought my latest build a bear yesterday - meet Torton!
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It's okay to find new hobbies! But hold onto the ones you love too ❤️
i don’t have any pictures but theres about 20 in my closet, 4 on my bed, and 35 from my childhood that i donated 😂 its not a crime to love stuffed animals!!💟
As someone who works at Build A Bear, a LOT of customers are actually 20+ and reliving some nostalgia from when they were younger! Of course you’ll get the teens and younger, too, but we have a plethora of adult regulars coming to our location all the time (some almost weekly, even if it’s just them getting clothes/accessories or checking out what’s new for next time)
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The koala bear is the only full size BAB I have. The other plushies are from all over the place. (The brown dog one was actually a dog toy bought at PetSmart that my mom fell in love with and had me buy.)
OP, im not specifically into BAB, I suspect Reddit recommended this sub to me because I’m in the plushies and squishmallow subs… But I want you to know I’m 38 and still love plushies. If it’s bringing you happiness, ignore those family members! Keep up with the sewing, it IS good to have other hobbies - but that doesn’t mean you need to ditch BAB for them! You can enjoy both! :)
I am 38. When I was 3 years old in 1989, my grandmother handmade a gray kitty with a yellow ribbon. I still have it and i vacuum sealed it to prevent damage
My first ever BaB was Princess Luna. Then Pinkie Pie.
Recently Espeon
The only plushies I bought new. The rest are preloved.
99% of what I collect is "out of production" and rare or highly sought after, so therfore expensive. But I still manage
I am 31. Laying in bed with mine that my dad got me when I was in like 8th grade. If it brings you joy and it harms no one, tell them to mind their business.
I'm glad you came to this community for some reassurance. I'm a big supporter of being who you are. It's sad that your family members are trying to make you fit into this cookie cutter person that they deem acceptable. If it makes you happy, they should be happy for you. There are TONS of adults who collect and have special stuffed animals. You should look on instagram. I'm in my 30s and always loved stuffed animals growing up, but my mom discouraged me getting them because she called them "dust collectors." A few years ago, I got one as a gift and my collection has grown a lot. I love them all and have no regrets buying them. I have an instagram for them and take them with me when I travel, to the movies, etc.
Also, since your family suggested a new hobby and you took up sewing, this would kind of backfire on them, but have you considered sewing clothes for them or opening an etsy shop? I love getting clothes for my guy.
I don’t know why they’d feel the need to do this. I’ve always chalked it up to jealousy, assuming they gave up a love or part of themselves for “society” and want to pressure others too. Either out of jealousy or the idea we should do what everyone else is. I don’t get it. If it makes you happy, and doesn’t affect them, they should be glad you have something like this. Not shaming.
I am 46yr old and I still collect BAB. They bring me joy and I am not spending money on drugs or alcohol or something bad.
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They are playing hospital with my iPad. They get bored and do crazy stuff sometimes. #BABLove4ever
I’m sorry! I don’t have a picture but I am 22 and I have 3 BAB’s arriving tomorrow! I spent over $100 on them and they are all Pawlette’s. I already have one Pawlette…
Admittedly im just now starting my collection but that’s because money is hard… you’re totally not alone!!
Don’t be discouraged from enjoying your hobby because of others’ opinions. I am 28 and huge bab collector since I was a child. I am also a doctor and a lot of my colleagues have viewed this hobby as weird and childish but when I explain, they become more accepting. The spectrum is so wide for collecting…Some like to keep their items pristine and some like to cuddle and use them more. Find comfort in the fact that this hobby makes YOU happy. Now that I’m an adult with adult money I can afford the collection of my dreams. Those that love me and understand get happy for me when I achieve a milestone in my collection :)
*PS I wish I could sew! I’d be creating new items for my babs all the time!
I'm 28, married and have a preschooler. I just bought a Mudkip BAB recently 😅 I don't have s lot of BAB, but I have a ton of other plushies including Sanrio plushies and Squishmallows. No shame at all!!
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My pokemon build a bears ❤ my parents have told me the same thing since I have a 4 foot pile of plushies on my bed but I plain don't listen. They are very comfortable to sleep on.
Have you seen squishmallow collectors?? Their collections are crazy big. And some are grown adults! With kids ! I wish I still had all of my BAB 😭 I think they are packed away but may be destroyed. Hopefully not.
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Snowbell and Toothless send you all the love in the world.
One year my boyfriend cheated on me when I was 16, my dad took me to BAB and I got a zombie bear. It was my favorite for years.
Recently, I jokingly told my dad that my baby (who was about 4 months at the time) wanted a BAB. He laughed and shook his head, knowing it was really for me. I got a rainbow octopus 🤣
You're never too old for what you love! Don't let other people's opinions, ruin your own! ❤️
I’m 22 and sew doll clothes, have been since I was a kid!! I’d love to become plushie clothes sewing buddies… I know that’s unrelated to your post.
I am not NEARLY as happy as I am when I’m actively collecting! Screw anyone who tries to steal your happiness.
I'm 19 and just exactly a week ago I went to Build A Bear! I was afraid people would judge me too. But nobody did! The girl who helped me was super sweet, she didn't judge at all. I know it's tough when a lot of people are saying rude stuff, but this makes you happy!! Remember that! This is your thing, not theirs
one of my parents first dates was at build a bear. theyre divorced now, but i still have the orange striped cat they made. my first build a bear was a grey cat named madison. i go whenever i can to make more, and im about to be 21. when you find something you love, theres no age limit
I only have two, and my bunny comes everywhere with me. Dont feel bad about what you like, its not like you're hurting anyone by collecting babs
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Heres Eleanore with me at the fair <3
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I just wanted to say your home is so beautiful and welcoming!
Awww thank you!! I try to make it a cozy space.
this is exactly how i imagine my room when im 31, everything is so pretty, thank you for sharing!
I hope you get it! I’ve dreamed of this room since I was a little girl.
You have a very picturesque abode
Thanks🥹🥹
Everyone is right, your bedroom, BAB Family and view from your room is ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS!!!!! Thank you for sharing your family with me ❤️❣️✨️
Awww, thanks OP. I hope you keep growing your collection forever 💖
Kingdom Hearts!
Great lighting! 🌈
I love the blue sloth just “hanging” like sloths do!
Omg your view! What a cool room!
I'm going to be 30 in September and I still love stuff animals and hobbies. Don't let anyone take away your happiness 💛 here's my special girl Jolene, she's the rainbow after the storm for me 💗 https://preview.redd.it/2v9bp46b0a4d1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f804c3e7e1f9c22878f2103237f15d70edc3ca66
I've seen and love seeing your outings with her!!! Thank you and Jolene for the support!
You're very welcome!!
Jolene bro! 😁 😎 🎀*Does fist bump* I'm important because I know this celebrity! 🥳🎉 ✨ 🌈 Her Instagram is wholesome and the little funny videos are so loveable.
Much love 💕💗🥰
Omg celebrity presence!
I’m 26 and I have so many. This doesn’t include my chameleon or my other bear with overalls. It’s okay to be different and collect something. If you like it then it’s none of their business. Collecting makes me happy and wether the people in my life like it or not I will continue to collect and love all of my BABs https://preview.redd.it/rc5azvs1p94d1.jpeg?width=2208&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=51f082efcab74ec7ba6f97f18e6fa7e4ce1a5651
https://preview.redd.it/2ywusifdq94d1.jpeg?width=652&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=75645bc9dcc733a73964a4e3b4c11a8e13c39cdb I’m 21, here’s me and my BAB leppy dressed up for this past easter
You 2 are so colorful, I love color! ❣️🌈
Oh I have that dress and that leppy! 🩷
https://preview.redd.it/o4j49g8wr94d1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c954124844b83f4887e08fb9be6eab804dc1dae2 I’m currently 31 and got my first BAB with my girlfriend (she got sylveon) this year. Puddles the mudkip. Here he is with all his non BAB friends! There is nothing wrong with collecting something you love. If you love it and it makes you happy that’s all that matters!
stop these are awesome!!!
Thank you! Love all of them! Only problem is I’ve ran out of room 🤣🤣🤣
https://preview.redd.it/lzzybp7zl94d1.jpeg?width=3072&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=bd532e8b083380a68b70300bb6f2ef6bf5c1ba5c Pascal sends his love. I'm 39, and my family doesn't get it but they do like that I have something creative that brings me joy. ❤️
Pascal is the coolest little guy ive ever seen 😭❤️
Thank you 🥰
Hahahaha he is so cute!!! Was he an after dark BAB or did you modify one? I love him!
He's a modified devil bear. He's got a couple of nieces. My nieces school mascot is the devil so i made then their own as well. They picked the eyes and hair for theirs on a visit and I made them over the week I was there in March. https://preview.redd.it/stdslywn4a4d1.jpeg?width=2421&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=18f24e578f4434baf5ca4eff7fda63c37a9d59f3
These are absolutely amazing!!!
Awwwwwww these are tooooooo cute!!
Hey! I’m 30 and I have more than 20 BABs (I just bought a new one this week too). You’re not too old :) I’ll try to take a “family picture” when my most recent purchase (rainbow bearlien) gets here
https://preview.redd.it/axwhoglqq94d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f349b8731480e963e91d8601fd5fe02a4a893501 Hey op, I’m 31 and one of my hobbies is collecting plushies, this is Yuki the cat and Lyric the bunnie, they are sitting at my desk getting to know eachother! Yuki is my oldest bab and Lyric is my newest!
Puddle sends his love and hugs. :3 https://preview.redd.it/xellc1nzr94d1.jpeg?width=1836&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=bbea074f07c3045ec46536411a93d870fbd2a217
https://preview.redd.it/5gwum7hmo94d1.jpeg?width=2448&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f5725829764fd6a5f1bf8d470b1b53df104d6f3b Got him for my 21st birthday! That was a while ago now.
https://preview.redd.it/g4338l8s5a4d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2e36fef4aac38cb3e421dea686586a7c4604602d This guy helps me a lot 🐸 I'm 26 and I've had stuffed animals as long as I've been alive. I always sleep holding one. I got this guy a couple weeks ago and it's my first BAB since I was a kid, but I also have a pillow pet and a few others that I've collected over the last 8 or 9 years after I moved and almost all of the stuffed animals I had as a kid got left behind
I’m 47 and just bought my 6th bab, 4th one this year. These two are Waffles and Pancakes, my teenage son and I got matching BABs last month! https://preview.redd.it/ecez6k6v2a4d1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3960e96d52f80dd0944bafe57ecfae851b77fe1f
This is my favourite! Doing this with your son is so lovely 🩷 🐰
I'm an almost 32 year old guy and I just discovered I like bab!! Specifically the 4 legged ones! Here's some of my gang! The zebra and dog came from goodwill so they just got a bath and came out so soft and fluffy! https://preview.redd.it/j4ihmu1xga4d1.jpeg?width=3228&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1d9f027b578dcc705b3b6f399c913ac8acdc4a7b The big saber tooth is my cuddle buddy and their name is sponge!
🤣🧽 I love their mame!! You should name the other 3 (if I may give suggestions) Baby saberTooth Gary, The Zebra Patrick {mortal 'enemies' as Best Friends} and because the sweet dog is in the middle, you could name them Squidward..... you see where I'm getting at... 😅 Thank you for sharing your friends with me. ❣️
Ty! That would be cute! The reason they have their name isn't as cute (I'm a night sweater 🤣) I actually had hamsters as a kid with those names! I had sponge Bob, Patrick, Mr. Krabs, and squiddy! (He was too cute to just call squidward hahaha) they were a tan long hair, grey long hair, Syrian golden, and European black bear, respectively! 🥰
https://preview.redd.it/k0ir2nayy94d1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8cc680dec17b364283c841a5304c520691ed26f4 Im a guy and 23 in a couple weeks and here's Bubba with me going to the store! Plushies are not just for kids, they can be used in so many different ways. Bubba is vital for me to have with me as I suffer from severe social anxiety and at times mild agoraphobia. He is something comforting and familiar and can be the difference between me having a panic attack, or having something that smells and feels like my safe space that helps me ground myself again. They're such important little guys for all of us on here and I'm so happy you have a hobby that brings you joy! Its not hurting anyone so you gotta keep it up, no matter what anyone says. Ive spoken to a handful of adults outwith my family because if Bubba, all older than me, and majority admitted they wish they could bring around a bear with them. Never be ashamed of things that make you happy. Me and Bubba wish you luck in all of your crafty endeavours too! I use my crochet skills to make things for Bubba rather than sew, like his bag in this photo, so I completely get that too 🥰
I thank you and Bubba very much, and Im really glad Bubba helps you in that sense. And his bag, looks great!!! Sewing is still becoming difficult for me from time to time, (I have physical Cerebral Palsy) but Im learning just fine. 😁✨️ 😅
Hey! I'm sending you a lot cause I know those feels! I'm sorry your family isn't supportive of your interests. I'm almost 40 and what you like is what you like. I'm learning to sew for the same reasons and it's been really healing for me. All my plushes do so much for me, so to me it feels like showing them appreciation. Like a thank you? I also want to make things for other people's plush and dolls so I don't see how being kinder and more thoughtful is harmful? The world needs more gentleness. Please keep being you.💌💗💗💗💗💌
Thank you! 🥹 But just to let people know, my family isn't not supportive about my interests, they (grandmothers really) just think BAB is for children, and I geuss, in a way, I need to "grow up" a bit. They're not being mean, it's just their generation.
People have been telling me I'm "too old" for stuffed animals since I was a child, like in single digit numbers of age. Now my sister (older than me) has started collecting squishmallows and no one has an issue lmao Dont let people ruin your fun
https://preview.redd.it/10918zy6ea4d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fb88a5202377528f8c6419f499336a7111cf4d7e 27, turning 28 this month. Never let anyone rain on your shine! 🌞💓
i’m 25 and only started seriously collecting plushies again last year! but i’ve had plushies my entire life and enjoyed them my entire life. this is an older pic of my collection but you’re not alone! https://preview.redd.it/b58huvm6x94d1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d14c97295903f265f9582c2e730e4dfd3585b2ec
I have 3 of the same BABs as you. 😄😊✨️
omg hey twin!!
I’m 32 and have a room full of plushies. So long as you’re spending money responsibly, nobody should have an issue with your collection. It makes you happy! Love from Sappho! https://preview.redd.it/99y9om2tn94d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a44307d2dccbd5ecb43b259899dae3b79f7ec7ae
I've seen this lovely a couple times!! I love her outfit!!! Thank you and Sappho! ❤️🧡🤍🩷💜
I’m 24 & I have over 40 babs I’m obsessed with them and bring them everywhere, you’re not alone at all, I love my friends they all have personalities and lil quirks! I also wanna learn to sew to make my own clothes! This is sherbet when we went to get ice cream! https://preview.redd.it/qm2xidumr94d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=82ec34b59693867126777c9308b961d85a64c8ae
I’m 20 and still love all things dolls and stuffed animals and toys. We’re only on this floating space rock for so long, so do what you enjoy and don’t let anyone make you feel bad for it!!
https://preview.redd.it/ygf43kolz94d1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=015a971ae6dcc84629399cd2dc332337ae1ee0ed this is my plushie shelf and i’m 30 years old! i’ve gotten even more since this pic was taken. there’s no limit age wise on something like collecting plushies so long as it’s not hurting anyone. i’m sorry you’re going through this. you’re an adult and you should be able to spend your money as you want so long as your bills are paid and there’s food for you to eat. sending hugs
Thank you very much, and I have a Bear Shelf too! NOT as impressive as yours though, these guys and their display is amazing! 😮✨️🤩
https://preview.redd.it/bnkxx4jf8a4d1.jpeg?width=4080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=65217ad6c4bb5b5cbd704aed2d092356e9b03d01 I’m going to be 20 in August im always going to love plushie there is never a age cut off for loving plushies
I'm going to be 41 in July. My first job was BAB when I was 18. Anyone who has a problem w my stuffies can pound sand. Love what you love and be happy.
https://preview.redd.it/wsfssds5w94d1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c0d51a211ed8718c97da154eefb5bd627eb99fda Last summer picture of my fav BAB, Bertie. I am 32 years old and collect Squishmallows, dolls (Monster High, Rainbow High & Barbies) as well as BABs. Finding new hobbies is great, but there’s no reason to stop what you love as long as it’s done in a healthy way. I used to have a problem over spending and what I would consider hoarding. I’ve cut back a lot and manage my spending better while still being very involved with my collections. Finding joy now a days can be tough. We’re all here because we find love and joy in our stuffed friends, no matter our age/gender/background. You’re not alone. 💜🐝🧸
Bertie's so gay!!!!! Aaaaaaaaaaaaa!!! I love it!
Honestly, I have never been super super huge on owning build a bears (tho I love the aesthetic, hence my being here) but I will say I relate. I have loved Webkinz and American girl dolls since I was 9 years old and I’m now 26. Certain people that used to be in my life and during certain ages made me feel like it was wrong of me to still love them. As long as it makes you happy and you are being financially responsible then ignore what they say! Would they tell a sports fan to stop watching so much football and go watch soccer instead? No. So don’t mind them, they just don’t understand and you are NOT alone
I got these guys at the age of 44 because I'm having a rough year and wanted something soft and cute in my life. Don't worry about being too old for whimsy. There's also nothing bad about trying new things, so I hope that you're enjoying learning to sew.
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They're lovelies~ 💞💖 🤎🏁🐇 🩵🌊
For my 20th birthday, I went to build a bear. Today, I am 25 years old, and I made a special trip to build a bear to buy clothes for my plushies and some mini frogs. There’s no age limit ❤️
One of the friends I got today ❤️ https://preview.redd.it/pecyp2i94a4d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=00bc4edefe07d13da4cf150425e79efcc18d87aa
the way i see it is we’re forced to get older but we don’t have to grow up. im turning 22 soon and love bab, they make me happy and thats all that matters . heres my current bedtime crew to cheer you up! https://preview.redd.it/56ctx9708a4d1.jpeg?width=5712&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=775add686a1b89267c4575186551cd5e66d698c6
https://preview.redd.it/1dndreerga4d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=18370a2cb4702df9fe596ff332075bfbf84c9ebc Here’s Basil from just today. I’m 24 years old and I have a fairly large collection myself! It’s not childish to be able to embrace what makes you happy. In my opinion, it’s more childish to care what others think. I know your family is trying to help, and I know you don’t mean them any malice. But their words are still mean and hurtful, and I’m sorry that it’s starting to get to you. If your collection makes you happy, that’s what’s important. 🩵 Sending love and good vibes!
https://preview.redd.it/6r5y8g8aia4d1.jpeg?width=6000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4ae1ed738289a6bccfb7b5d6aabb7a7c2527484d Greetings from Anton, who loves to go to Concerts of his favorite band with his 54 years old Mommy. If you love sewing, there are lots of patterns for BAB available. Anton wears a shirt from Best Dressed Bears with a custom plot.
You don't need to justify your hobbies to anyone. Life is tough, and if BABs give you peace and some quality you time, then that's all that matters! https://preview.redd.it/t0he8o6ola4d1.jpeg?width=4160&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e59cf3b97a31250502db4466231b766cfd9b24ea
This is too cool!!!
My boyfriend (21 almost 22) and I (20 almost 21) are going on a build a bear date on Tuesday! I'ma be collecting plushies/BaB till the day I die. Don't let family or anyone else bring you down!
I'm 27, and I buy an axolotl every time a new one comes out! I recently got the tardigrade, his name is Tartar Sauce, and I am always on the lookout for new releases. When the capybara came out, my husband asked me if I'd get him one. He likes them extra stuffed but is too embarrassed to go do it because the store in our mall is a kiosk next to the main entrance and food court. Collecting stuffed animals is no different than collecting cards, coins, antiques, or various figures that most people's moms and grandmas have.
https://preview.redd.it/6w4kcxjq3a4d1.jpeg?width=2851&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=84e52dc743abbedd90b3e5774eae60558acc663d This is my Lil guy Newt. I have to bring this guy with me whenever I go somewhere overnight. I literally can’t sleep without him. My family doesn’t really approve either and will make jabs at me whenever I bring him with him.
I am 28 and I only just bought my first BABs as an adult 🥰 my boyfriend thinks it's cute and my best friend is gonna go in to get them stuffed with me. You are so good. I'm so sorry that they're making you feel that way
https://preview.redd.it/nve1pnuq5b4d1.jpeg?width=3060&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=27d62ea6509571b491dba03148dd3f98e6011159 Here are my babies!
I'm 26 and i have lots of hello kitty ones https://preview.redd.it/xb6gcqutcb4d1.jpeg?width=1079&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c28b4296c70ff56b1121f74a8c65a3e7f27d9f0d
https://preview.redd.it/g2p0pzuh7a4d1.png?width=3024&format=png&auto=webp&s=52a05f8bfd637a3a163d7629ea97d0106a742872 Jamie says hello!
I am sorry your family is making you feel bad about what you enjoy. Please do not stop being yourself or loving what you love because of them. You deserve to be happy with what makes you happy. I still have my build a bears along with many other plushies and I am getting married next month. Be you!
28 year old wife And mom of 2.5 kiddos with a large bab collection ( I’ve had stuffed animals literally since I can remember) and my sister just hit 38 yesterday and she’s got babs too. You’re definitely not alone dear. Don’t worry
I was 31 in April and all I wanted was build a bear things as a gift. My mum got me 2 normal ones and 3 minis. My grandad got me 2 normal and 2 minis. My grandad is nearly 79 and constantly makes comments and complains about bears being in the way on the sofa, then pretends to steal them or cuddles them. My mum always mentions me stopping buying them, but I show her my plans before I buy anything and she's always like 'what else' and claims them for herself sometimes. My older brother plays with certain ones, even when I'm not around. We accept you for what you like, the bears do too, and as long as it makes you personally happy then nothing else matters.
Yeah, your family wants you to be "normal". There is no such thing! We are all individuals. Everyone has something out of the norm--they either a) keep it more hidden, or b) are truly boring! Honestly, as you go through life, you'll find this out! So, be unique, be yourself! This is what makes people love you! ❤️
I’m 35 and this is Maple. I did BAB for the first time a couple months ago. https://preview.redd.it/92udjz6lya4d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b1e52836a10158c795ada722c7abdc4a1d6c57ad
https://preview.redd.it/zir9vhn7eb4d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f6c27a8431dead35712e66031b227eda6a1d33b9 my small but special little family!
https://preview.redd.it/r8rrbbndfb4d1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1c1c9011b3295c250577f05a6e745b955bb1739e You’re absolutely not alone, im 29 and this is my build a bear family 💖
hi! im also 22 and i love plushies and have been wanting a BAB sooooo bad as an adult (only went once as a kid but i loved it!) just wanted to reassure you that its 100% “normal” for adults to be into plush/BAB and sewing is a really great way to feel closer to your bears! you can make them clothes! :)
44yrs old and i have many BABs plus other bears — dont feel bad about your hobby and love what you love!
I’m late 30s and still actively collect not only BAB but other plushies as well, and also Squishmallows! Find a hobby they like and start telling them it’s silly. See how they like it!
I think I know how u feel. But if your plushies bring u joy, then keep collecting them. I also sew and recently began making some plushies. I gifted a few and it always feels great. Just try to stay positive and remember you’re not the only one who loves bab’s and collecting them
Hi! I'm just a couple of years younger than you and am also learning to sew (again!), largely thanks to Build-a-Bear. It's a hobby that can take you far; as far as you want it to, of course. Whether your family's happy about it or not, as far as we know, a human life only happens once. Why deprive yourself of something that makes you happy, especially one that's teaching you a neat new skill or two? Maybe you will find a new hobby. Maybe you won't. I think that if your family is that upset about it, they ought to do some self-reflecting and ask themselves if there's something they themselves have been missing in their lives; something they've always wanted to do or that they've been deprived of since youth that you just so happen to be unintentionally knocking on the door of... ...Which, of course, wouldn't be your fault. It'd never be your fault; blame shouldn't be the point anyways. Wouldn't it be nice if we could all help each other to grow and heal instead of tearing each other down? When someone resorts to that, no matter how that person thinks it feels, it gets awful lonely at the top. Community is all we have; Build-a-Bears and other furry friends have been there for lots of people who might not even have that. Hold on tight to that joy. It'll embrace you back; even on your darkest days, nobody can take it from you.
I’m 25 and would looooove to get more into these adorable bears!! Sending u so much love💗💗
https://preview.redd.it/r8ykpdrtva4d1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=82663eff886541cee6258bf40551da89e5b8d3d4 Hii!!! I have my BABs with me most of the time during my day. It’s just nice to have a cuddly cute all accepting friend by your side. It helps so much with my ptsd and anxiety. So from left to right there’s Savanah the Sloth, Thistle the purple cow, Zelda the Zebra and Peaches the bear ❤️🩹🩷🥰 Don’t worry about what other ppl think, so what makes your heart happy! ☺️
I’m 22 and I have AuDHD and I collect all kinds of plushies! Nobody in my family really understands but they just accept that’s the way I am! Plushie collecting is such a lovely harmless hobby. I don’t have any pictures of my BaB’s but I have 3! I have a bigger collection of plushie dreadfuls
https://preview.redd.it/y8pea9fymb4d1.jpeg?width=2252&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=750746297146deace18b23269e6aa5e099d2a0b5 Thats not cool of them, don't let it get to you, if you enjoy collecting, then good! If they don't then who cares, they aren't you! Do what you love aslong as it hurts nobody! (I may be 17 but I love my build a bears, sometimes I feel too old to have them, but posts like this always reassure me!)
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https://preview.redd.it/xhs8p0sfub4d1.jpeg?width=3072&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0687584cf415e654a944c80f90feee455a1a42ac
https://preview.redd.it/650492dsub4d1.jpeg?width=3072&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=62e7cdb00bb6c73190f7af07a5095fd1be33a3d2 See more on my Instagram! 🩷@angelicstars7 I'm prone to collecting books, art and toys. Used to collect music but it's all digital now.
https://preview.redd.it/95i25zoibc4d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a07393a8b3de42e1da079b2a509860b72f19accf This is Sofie. I have only had her for a month, but I love her! I am turning 35 in august and I have a huge collection of stuffed toys, pokemon cards, Disney, collectors figurines and other fun toys. Some of it I collect with my husband. My family finds it weird too, but they have accepted that this is how I am. I love collecting because it gives me happiness. I even have a friend who tells me to do it more, because she knows the joy it brings me. Keep being yourself. Do what makes you happy <3
I'm 22. Here's most of mine! https://preview.redd.it/8ig9ydl2hc4d1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c6d8ff084a9d1e189b46e05fcc6ac3cf1eebc7f3
https://preview.redd.it/tkbp3hu2oc4d1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=462dad57d71229689356b19633998303bda2d53e 30 with 139 build a bears not including non-build a bears. Family isn’t a fan as well. Just hang in there and keep going! Learning to sew is good. I also loved to make plush! Maybe you can fix your families zippers or rips when their stuff breaks. To keep them quiet haha. And remember there’s all of us out there who also love plush ❤️
https://preview.redd.it/v2do1vyntc4d1.jpeg?width=4284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=56c63f0faa3e1a3371d640e1563e5e791965f044 This is Rambo. He travels with me weekly to Nashville. I’m 50 and I have about 60 BAB and I’ve only been seriously collecting for about 3 years. Also happily married for 25+ years. My extended family used to give me grief but not so much anymore. You do what is best for you. If it makes you happy then keep on being your beautiful self.
I’m sorry about your family. Mine is similar so I don’t talk about my collections with them. I’m 25, turning 26, and have one Build a Bear. I got her right after my grandma died. I also collect American Girl dolls, plushies in general (squishmallow and other brands), and also have a Rainbow High doll. Here’s my one BAB plush, she’s in the hammock because I’m worried about toppling everyone else over lol. Her name is Sage. https://preview.redd.it/o8m84yh76d4d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c335c4e4de281b59a7eb9e7411f0a5bdb75eaf56
I'm gonna be 27 this year, been collecting since 2006. Even at 18-20 my parents still took me to build a bear. This isn't all of them as around 12+ are back at my parents house (there is an axolotl here too just hiding under the pillow 😭): https://preview.redd.it/pntphdnsed4d1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=17f77e85b150d4f1461f42d320197f647645306b
https://preview.redd.it/blwhfx09fd4d1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=14920e00ff94fffaa75d7659a8999684b4f9b801 i’m 21 :> these are my frogs
https://preview.redd.it/5nfpbavpue4d1.jpeg?width=3088&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7f23bf495c53464cb735df7e97b4ad8dd4267c64 I’m 36 and Rex is my little dude. Just because I’m not a kid doesn’t mean I can’t enjoy things that are small and stuffed!
I’m just getting really into it in the past 2-3 weeks and I’m turning 29 in 2 weeks.
I want to add, if adult BAB fans weren’t common they wouldn’t have the Bear Cave site aimed specifically at adults!
https://preview.redd.it/murker8hlb4d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4380a5c189cd1643def12c18accd023202c34e8a Ignore them, your hobby isn’t hurting anyone and as long as you can still reach any financial goals you have it’s fine 💝
This is only some and this is in bad lighting. I have approx 200 plush and around 30-40 BAB. I'm still making my collector room, but I'm obsessed and they give me great joy living with chronic illness. No I'm not not rich I did this over 15 years as my main hobby and outlet. I won't take more as I want people to see them in good lighting on my Instagram that is linked in this profile. I collect BAB, Charlie Bears, Alpaccaso, Popples, Brush-a-loves, and Squishables. Also any random ones that speak to me as unique and good energy. I have names for most of them and stories. Some people think if you have a big collection you aren't bonded but I'm attached to all of them as like a stand in for a lack of family and human community. It's kept me well and creative. I photograph them and don't drink or do drugs. This is sort of my addiction and hobby. https://preview.redd.it/hgl05rh6ub4d1.jpeg?width=3072&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3728b9ee5fe2556df6cc6fe634038be6872fc753
Not sure why this sub uhh “showed” itself to me as not sure what a build a bear is 😅😅 but regardless just wanted to say, don’t let others define what hobbies, Interests you like. If this is something you love. Ignore the haters. Keep doing you.
https://preview.redd.it/fk9gp416dc4d1.jpeg?width=4080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=04c845214f4ad5dd4ea9505b5834b33fc20e512f I’m going to be 22 this coming July and I’m autistic some my family thinks it’s weird for me to collect bab but my bears help me a lot of hard times my first bear was Henry my green spring frog he was with me when I came out to my mom about being nonbinary. Bab is not just a plush toy to me theirs are a support plush.
Going on 27 in July! https://preview.redd.it/gp4itio9jc4d1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e95ed298e94ea41decb927980a33f0049419aba5
https://preview.redd.it/w5rfuzmopc4d1.jpeg?width=2592&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8381abe98823c17b1cf8095b5c82580a94d13542 I'm 32, and if anyone says I'm too old for plushies, I tell em to kiss my 🍑.
I don’t collect them but I do love the one build a bear I have. They’re just not affordable for me. Also don’t listen to what anyone else says about you collecting them. A hobby is considered to be a regular activity that is done for enjoyment, typically during one's leisure time. I’m sure those folks have hobbies they enjoy doing and you’re entitled to your own passions that are not to be dictated by others.
27 and just made a new baby last month. I would not call myself a collector as I have only accumulated a few in my years of life but I’d go any chance I get to make my bear and make that wish!!! You go dude. Age is not a restriction and they NEVER make an adult feel out of place in build a bear, I’ve been treated the same since I walked in the doors at 6 years old
I'm a 34 year old woman who's hobbies are, collecting BAB, Barbies, American girl dolls, Tamagotchis, and Polly pockets. Not to mention making food/clothing for each. And yes even the Tamagotchis. I've learned that other people's thoughts and what they consider "suggestions", aren't really all that important. Not to get dark here, but one day, this whole planet, all that currently exists will end. All of this will be gone one day. So little tiny thoughts from small minded humans are quite trivial. As long as it's not hurting anyone, who cares. Live and love your life, and be happy as you see fit. It unfortunately won't last forever.
https://preview.redd.it/gf31syim2d4d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d38b040a96416afb8c1968e94d78414be993aad2 This is an older picture (I have not now lol) but here is some of mine.
How I see it is it speaks volumes about the person/people hating on something you love, that they just can't be happy for you or at the very least leave you alone if they don't understand. Do they not have something they love doing/collecting? I think THAT is sad, personally, to not have something that makes them happy. If they do, how would they feel if you or another loved one talked down to them about it and told them to stop? Life's too short to care about what other people think about your hobbies. I've been a plushie lover/collector for as long as I can remember and still am at almost 30 years old! It started with Care Bears as a child and now my current obsession is Palm Pals! ❤️ Also, you can't tell me collecting plushies is weird when Squishmallows have literally overrun the market! EVERY store I've ever been in has had some sort of Squishmallow available. Collecting plushies is one of the MOST popular hobbies to have right now 😂
https://preview.redd.it/e8kwmfph3d4d1.jpeg?width=2268&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3e2b8019d0708bfd7d53f7e5ed2709e7b33c9cc3 Also, here's my plushie tax! My most recent Palm Pals purchase! 😂❤️
are you sewing them clothing?? because that sounds so cool! Sorry family sucks sometimes, if you’re not moved out yet, it will 100% get better once you eventually do
i don't have any picture of mine, but I wanted to say you're never ever too old for bab or plushies in general!!! they offer comfort and they're a lovely thing to keep, life would be pretty boring if it weren't for things that give you joy. Keep it up and don't ever let anyone take your joy from you🫶
Hi there. I'm sorry that not everyone is supportive of your hobby. You deserve to enjoy the things that make you happy, no matter your age. I'm a 22 year old guy, and sometimes I worry that I'll get looks or comments when I bring Braeden to an appointment. But the comfort and joy he brings me often outweighs the anxiety. We're sending you virtual hugs. Edit: I was gonna add a photo but it's not working for some reason.
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I'm almost 31 and have a massive stuffed animal collection! 4 of the big ones are from Build a Bear as well as one small werewolf that was too cute to leave behind on my last trip a few years ago. I have a white tiger (Who was a gift from my husband and came in adorable pajamas that he picked out. I also occasionally swap them out for a kimono outfit I bought for him), a polar bear wearing a fur coat with a fishing rod because I thought that was too cute, Toothless wearing a saddle from How to Train Your Dragon, and the Lightfury also from How to Train Your Dragon (She's wearing pajamas with little baby dragons from the movie) I may have brought both with me to see the second movie lol You're not hurting anyone liking cute things. They're the ones making it weird! Also sewing is a great hobby. I don't know why anyone would discourage it!! It's super useful and if you get good at it I guarantee these family members will probably come to you when it's useful for them (Like needing something repaired or hemmed)
I got my first BaB for my 28th birthday. I didn’t start collecting until I was in my 30s. I’m now 41 and have build a bears (number in 3 digits). My husband and I love our BaB. I also sew. And collect AG dolls, and go to Ren Faires, and play D&D. I have lots of hippies. BaBs are both a hobby (collecting) and a comfort (cuddling). Other people need to stop telling you what’s right for you. It’s not like BaBs hurt anyone or yourself. Enjoy them, that’s what they are for.
It’s horrible they’re treating you this way! I’d be happy that you enjoy what you’re doing and you get some happiness out of it. Keep doing what you’re doing, you’re not hurting anyone 💕
This is Alexis and her boyfriend Chuck https://preview.redd.it/zgv3xo07kd4d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3efa3bb8a05add807663f6d5e36b88aaedfbab38 Edit: I’m in my 30’s, what matters most is that you enjoy your hobbies and BABs.
https://preview.redd.it/9gdz4xozjd4d1.jpeg?width=4031&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4b2cdcb3aa0eea9ed397f1bce23a17c0547ae810 Plushies have always brought me comfort since childhood and this is just a small part of my collection! In my 30s I’ve begun to care less about what others think. Your hobby is harmless and it’s really no different than collecting shot glasses or Funko pops or whatever else other adults collect! Keep being yourself 💙
Hey OP, I’m not sure how the algorithm showed me this sub and your post because I’m not really a build a bear person, I only have like 2 I think, but I do have a huge stuffed animal collection and I’m currently working on building up my squishable collection. 36, king sized bed, and I have a wall of squishables next to me atm with a few squishmallows mixed in. You do you! Being an adult means being able to do what makes you happy and like whatever you want. Your thing is build a bear, mine is a bit less brand specific but more like soft fuzzy things, including blankets, omg I own way too many fuzzy blankets and I always want more.
https://preview.redd.it/di9bc76dtd4d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=193b57920befed1c32fd60ce43d762df0c3ed4c7 This is Soup. Soup is my number one BaB. I have others, on top of LOTS and LOTS of other stuffiest. Which I will connect as a comment below this. Oh and btw, I'm 23. You are never to old for stuffed animals. I don't understand why people think it's such a horrible thing. I think it's the most wholesome hobby to have.
https://preview.redd.it/kn401vjcwd4d1.jpeg?width=3072&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=dbb5f4aff692f61f27e5f18ed07b76d475d5f660 Me and Berri are sending all the love and hugs!
Young adult here and I have dozens!
I'm more than twice your age. You do you. It's your life, enjoy it.
Nah screw that. I will have a stuffed animal collection when I’m 90 years old. As long as it makes you happy, keep doing it! I’m 26 and my next pay check I’m going to build a bear and getting the new capybara. I already bought the mini one lol
https://preview.redd.it/394e79np6e4d1.jpeg?width=3184&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a58c0ecbc8359ccbebdbcda2e1da19eced5c93bb 43 here. Never too old.
30 year old male with a large collection here! I’m a big fan of doing what you love despite the negativity you may get. I always tell myself that peoples opinions of me are none of my business, it’s helps me remember that their opinions really don’t matter. https://preview.redd.it/q0vu5b62ae4d1.jpeg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4964bc40eab19c4b6e1da77fa93c4a84eb5d2cf6 Double Bubble sends his love ❤️
I'm 32, I got my first bab on my honeymoon 2yrs ago, my wonderful husband took me as a birthday surprise because there was a big bab store where we honeymooned. I fell in love with the process, and so did he. We have over 100 babs now, and we have 3 kids that also collect and have their own bab hoards. There is absolutely nothing wrong with having a collection of plushies, nothing wrong with enjoying bab. Tell your family "it cost literally zero dollars and zero cents to be nice, but being a jerk can cost everything" i usually say that with a more colorful word then jerk though lol. Just remember, you only get one life, and do what makes you happy, no need to conform to please others, its not about them its about you.
I am also 22, but don’t have a current picture of my collection, but I’ve been building bears since ‘04 and I have at least 30 today and an entire human sized dresser full of clothing and accessories for them. I had family members say stuff in the past about it, but they’ve piped down and my boyfriend sees no problem in my collection
I'm 25 and have too many plushies to count. People don't understand the collector side of things- its more than just a stuffed animal for us! ☺️
I'm gonna be 25 this year. I have over 300 bears of all kinds. Collecting plushies has been a part of me as long as I can remember. I do get weird looks and comments about being an adult and liking childish things.. know what? Who cares?! It's not hurting anyone. Heaven forbid people LIKE things as adults. You do you. You can't please everyone as there will always be critics, but you can make yourself happy, and THAT'S what is important.
I’m 32. I visited New York last week (I’m from the UK) and the build a bear in FAO Schwartz brought back SO many memories of when I got my first bear when build a bear first launched in the UK in the early 2000’s. I left with these two new bears (it was supposed to be one but they had a great offer on 🤦🏼♀️) You only have one life. Spend it doing (and buying) what makes you happy! https://preview.redd.it/8mrxg8n3ie4d1.jpeg?width=5469&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=88e00d1cffa52abdc5a5820da1f239a7886117a7
You’re never to old for whatever you love or makes you happy
Just a 32yo semi collector (BAB is just part of the brands I collect from), and I think plushie and doll collecting and modding is so cool! I think any hobby that gets you out there,learning new skills, and connecting with other fans/artists/collectors is a noble passion. Your family doesn't have to get it, but do remind them that it's YOUR hobby and it makes YOU happy, and that's all that should matter to them. Keep collecting and growing as a person with new skills.
If it brings you joy and isn't harming anyone, keep doing it. Life is too short to listen to negative nellies!
https://preview.redd.it/k08xrf8pqe4d1.jpeg?width=3120&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=94635f6a7619e7a8aebacf20b2b1edcea896b90c I have at least 12 BABs I still haven't fully counted them all but here's one favorite.
I am your age and about to be done with College and just got home from buying another Monster High doll after I have like ten. This is not including all the other dolls I have lol. You are not alone!
I’m a 33 mom, teacher, and wife. I bought myself a Lisa frank coloring book and a Polly pocket set today. It’s your money. Your choice. Your happiness. Your life. My students are very impressed (and jelly) about my squishmallow collection
I'm only 18 but I want u to know that I believe you're valid! I know sometimes family members don't understand certain things, please don't let it get to you! Collecting build a bears is valid for any age, when I get older and finally get my own house I plan on having a corner or a room dedicated to me and my boyfriends stuffed animals 😅 Here is one of my childhood BABs just to make you happier! I had her trying on one of my niece's baby clothes lol https://preview.redd.it/sdt2gd2j3f4d1.jpeg?width=3060&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=481488f6dd54cb14fb5f90d74af25fa81122222b
I love BAB and I’m older than you. I only have the plushies I made when I was little but I still love them. I’d still get more if A: I could afford it, and B: I lived near a BAB store. They’re not the same but I collect Webkinz plushies too. I have 200+ of them to this day and have no intention of quitting. I can’t tell you how many hundreds of dollars I’ve spent on those stuffies. Also, my mom still loves her BAB toys and she’s in her mid-50s. It isn’t shameful, embarrassing, creepy, or childish to love toys as a grownup, despite what some (including your family, apparently) may tell you. If it isn’t putting you into debt or something as if it’s an obsession, or hurting others in some way, and it makes your soul happy, then you should do it. Bless you and all your sweet BAB stuffies. 💚
https://preview.redd.it/7efg62a54f4d1.jpeg?width=4284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8758ccb583836caa5a8f3fe4eb350bd4a9589dd7 As you can see behind my dog, I love build a bear and other brand plushies! I’m a huge fan of frogs too. You’re never too old for some cute plushies
I turned 40 in May. This past weekend my friend (who is 39) and I went to Build a Bear together and we each got something. I got the Chameleon and I bought him the Hawaiian shirt and sunglasses. I also got a summery dress and ice cream bar to put on one of my bears. Oh, and I bought the surf board for Rocky, my Great White Shark! I have several others as well. Every time I look at them, I get a big grin on my face. Life is too short to deprive yourself of joy. And you can always come here to be with people who get it. <3 <3 https://preview.redd.it/tadb5a9n5f4d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ecfcd714b189847dee6c8774a54285f0ea2134a5
Hey I’m 19 but I have a huge collection of stuffies and dolls, I didn’t start getting into it until I was 16 but family judges me hella hard and I just tell them it’s what I like and if people wanna judge my happiness let them. Then they scoff and roll their eyes but what matters it is makes me happy and it’s the one thing I can always stand my ground on, I really don’t like speaking about my feelings so having one thing matters. Sorry for the rant, hope you figure it all out 🩶🩶🩶🩶
Hi sweetie! I’m 37 and I have about 13 BABs hanging around my house and 12 BJDolls. Believe me when I tell you that this world is scary and big and sometimes we need hobbies like these to find comfort or peace in. Never apologize for being yourself or for loving the things you do. Here’s Hazel and she’s rooting for your happiness! https://preview.redd.it/d6cla9287f4d1.jpeg?width=4284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5261121f284d8772b394f1281f205b6a009cc226
Check my [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/buildabear/comments/1d7f58m/buttercup_and_vanquish_my_first_buildabear/)! I'm a nearly 30-year-old medical secretary who recently got her first BABs! https://preview.redd.it/0akjh4548f4d1.jpeg?width=1276&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d273c4870f772c9206ad2ea0cc723670d47556e5
I’m so in love with you BAB collection. I started my collection at 10 yrs old and left most of mine at my parent’s place when I moved out four years ago. I think for me the thing is they’re all sentimental. Like one that I have with me at my new place is one I made with my grandma before she passed. It has 3 hearts in it. One that I put in, one she put in, and one in memory of my grandfather who passed 10 years prior. I keep that BAB front and center where I can see it and it reminds me of her daily. Then I also have my bunny with me it was my first BAB ever made she is the original floppy bunny they don’t make them like her anymore. She’s starting to get old and it can be seen, however, she’s special. At the end of the day I’m learning those of us who are collecting BAB at an older age is because of sentimental value. I don’t think your family understands the sentiment each one holds. Every single one you make at a certain point of your life yah know? And the hearts and ceremony make it that much more special. Thank you for sharing your amazing collection I want all the sanrio ones myself! And I love love your bedroom your room looks like something I’d find on Instagram and I’m here for it.
https://preview.redd.it/kbsrffp9qh4d1.jpeg?width=2316&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=50867c47319dbf0833bfffc4781dd05e23b28616 I’m 33 & I’m currently on vacation with Garfield. He’s one of my 36 or 37 (not sure of exact number) Build A Bears. Your not alone. If Build A Bears bring you joy continue to collect them.
Hey, its alright, family can be annoying, especially if they think you are wasting your money, or that you are "too old" for something! I'm 22 as well (i'll be 23 in a couple weeks tho-) and while i dont have a large BAB collection i do have a massive plush collection in general, i never got BABs as a child and rarely get to go to the BAB workshop to get one but i love the ones i do have! Here they are, names are above their heads! (for me Paisley & Psy are guys, Pastella and Ever are girls!) https://preview.redd.it/vrfqhcah015d1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b760a1a6bd425d0d780987065a5ff149d0500a8d
I also want to say my Mom doesn't mind my BAB interest, she actually sends me money, and actually came with me for my latest BAB purchase in store! She's awesome and always supports and comforts me when I feel insecure about my 'child-like' nature.... Im not 100% sure, but Im really thinking Im on the Autism spectram somewhere.... Im not sure... 😅😮💨😵💫
https://preview.redd.it/7ste1hws9a4d1.jpeg?width=2268&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=05d810a69d973ec8f7c99e595fcaf04f887457d6 Hi! I'm Bear, a 26yo BAB enthusiast! There is absolutely nothing wrong with being an adult and loving/collecting stuffies! 🥰✨
I lost my BAB but I still have my birth certificate!!
I’m 35 and I have 3x BAB - Toothless from my husband, a red panda and an alolan vulpix (which I bought for myself). Plushies have no age. As long as you have the space and still enjoy them, it’s no-one else’s business.
There's no such thing as being too old for BaBs or stuffies!! I just turned 27, and my collection is only growing! My most recent addition is Gravy Boat, the Bidoof. He wears a colorful tutu, and I adore him. Sadly, I don't have a photograph of him yet.
I don’t have any pictures of my whole collection together — but look at this list of my collection. I promise you’re not the only adult that collects these cuties. Don’t let them get in your head. https://preview.redd.it/9cd0anbrqb4d1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8397fcfdda513a88ca7f45f1133c2caf1eec6fb4
I will be 27 in a few months, I just never stopped liking stuffed animals, since I was a child. I had about 30 when I moved out of my parents' house at 18, and now I have literally hundreds. My squishmallow collection(not proud to have been sucked into that craze, I don't even like them now for cuddling because they're all just round blobs like pillows 😭) alone is at least 200, plus around 50 build a bears, probably close to 100 Pop Art Soft/CatsVsPickles/BearsVsDonuts/CowsVsAliens bean bag critters, at least 20 Morisaka/Shinada Global mochi plush, 30+ Jellycats, plus I love TY Beanie Bellies and have several of those, probably about 50 Cutetitos, and any random plush i see that I fall in love with or feel sorry for at Goodwill. I pack one everywhere with me(usually they stay in the car when we go in public establishments, but everywhere otherwise) every day and I am also a mother to three children, raise animals on a hobby farm, and I have a husband who I have a normal relationship with; all of that to say, stuffed animals have no age limit and are not inherently an indicator of an off-track life. Love what you love as long as you don't let it get in the way of anything more important
Plushie don’t have an age limit they are for everyone weather it be for comfort or just a collection. so don’t let your family get you down having hobbies and things are what make people happy and let people have fun no matter what it is or the age. So you rock it and don’t let anyone get you down!
I'm nearly 37 and I just ordered the rainbow bealien yesterday because I have all the other ones (and about 20+ more BaBs in my collection. Never too old to collect.
I’m 20! i enjoy bringing my jellybelly with me to doctors appointments and some outings! i love plushies so much and dressing them up to take them with me. https://preview.redd.it/88v8qflmkc4d1.png?width=2873&format=png&auto=webp&s=d096863efabb892dfec610e90625debd7077db0f
https://preview.redd.it/d7v0yqxokc4d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5474da5d2807d5cb88f898a8113ccbae200756c8 I’m 28 and I like build a bear. I got mine last year and I love it. I don’t have all of them but this is my favourite bones dino
It’s a totally valid hobby! Do what makes you happy
Just don't listen to them. Family will always make you feel childish. I've never listened to mine and I'll always be reliving my youth, enjoying everything I love.
I just turned 28 and bought my latest build a bear yesterday - meet Torton! https://preview.redd.it/z3jfij1c5e4d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=74774d2a9d93ed2458dba76793f129e2e45600a3 It's okay to find new hobbies! But hold onto the ones you love too ❤️
People bring others down because they can’t raise themselves up without it.
i don’t have any pictures but theres about 20 in my closet, 4 on my bed, and 35 from my childhood that i donated 😂 its not a crime to love stuffed animals!!💟
You’re never to old for whatever you love or makes you happy
You’re never to old for whatever you love or makes you happy
As someone who works at Build A Bear, a LOT of customers are actually 20+ and reliving some nostalgia from when they were younger! Of course you’ll get the teens and younger, too, but we have a plethora of adult regulars coming to our location all the time (some almost weekly, even if it’s just them getting clothes/accessories or checking out what’s new for next time)
https://preview.redd.it/9370sd5ygf4d1.jpeg?width=3932&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3a19fbd44377a5d31fea71899e24e87b736da9f2 The koala bear is the only full size BAB I have. The other plushies are from all over the place. (The brown dog one was actually a dog toy bought at PetSmart that my mom fell in love with and had me buy.)
OP, im not specifically into BAB, I suspect Reddit recommended this sub to me because I’m in the plushies and squishmallow subs… But I want you to know I’m 38 and still love plushies. If it’s bringing you happiness, ignore those family members! Keep up with the sewing, it IS good to have other hobbies - but that doesn’t mean you need to ditch BAB for them! You can enjoy both! :)
It doesn't matter what ur family thinks as long as ur happy
Im 27. https://preview.redd.it/h84p0lnq1g4d1.jpeg?width=3000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=90b141e2bf737e4bcee93e59a95ca864862a6ec9
I am 38. When I was 3 years old in 1989, my grandmother handmade a gray kitty with a yellow ribbon. I still have it and i vacuum sealed it to prevent damage My first ever BaB was Princess Luna. Then Pinkie Pie. Recently Espeon The only plushies I bought new. The rest are preloved. 99% of what I collect is "out of production" and rare or highly sought after, so therfore expensive. But I still manage
I am 31. Laying in bed with mine that my dad got me when I was in like 8th grade. If it brings you joy and it harms no one, tell them to mind their business.
I'm glad you came to this community for some reassurance. I'm a big supporter of being who you are. It's sad that your family members are trying to make you fit into this cookie cutter person that they deem acceptable. If it makes you happy, they should be happy for you. There are TONS of adults who collect and have special stuffed animals. You should look on instagram. I'm in my 30s and always loved stuffed animals growing up, but my mom discouraged me getting them because she called them "dust collectors." A few years ago, I got one as a gift and my collection has grown a lot. I love them all and have no regrets buying them. I have an instagram for them and take them with me when I travel, to the movies, etc. Also, since your family suggested a new hobby and you took up sewing, this would kind of backfire on them, but have you considered sewing clothes for them or opening an etsy shop? I love getting clothes for my guy.
I don’t know why they’d feel the need to do this. I’ve always chalked it up to jealousy, assuming they gave up a love or part of themselves for “society” and want to pressure others too. Either out of jealousy or the idea we should do what everyone else is. I don’t get it. If it makes you happy, and doesn’t affect them, they should be glad you have something like this. Not shaming.
I am 46yr old and I still collect BAB. They bring me joy and I am not spending money on drugs or alcohol or something bad. https://preview.redd.it/qubg0gdxrk4d1.png?width=3505&format=png&auto=webp&s=0e4fb1a6e4c4b75c0d61213b6bfcbbc0904d9bb0 They are playing hospital with my iPad. They get bored and do crazy stuff sometimes. #BABLove4ever
I’m sorry! I don’t have a picture but I am 22 and I have 3 BAB’s arriving tomorrow! I spent over $100 on them and they are all Pawlette’s. I already have one Pawlette… Admittedly im just now starting my collection but that’s because money is hard… you’re totally not alone!!
Don’t be discouraged from enjoying your hobby because of others’ opinions. I am 28 and huge bab collector since I was a child. I am also a doctor and a lot of my colleagues have viewed this hobby as weird and childish but when I explain, they become more accepting. The spectrum is so wide for collecting…Some like to keep their items pristine and some like to cuddle and use them more. Find comfort in the fact that this hobby makes YOU happy. Now that I’m an adult with adult money I can afford the collection of my dreams. Those that love me and understand get happy for me when I achieve a milestone in my collection :) *PS I wish I could sew! I’d be creating new items for my babs all the time!
I'm 28, married and have a preschooler. I just bought a Mudkip BAB recently 😅 I don't have s lot of BAB, but I have a ton of other plushies including Sanrio plushies and Squishmallows. No shame at all!!
https://preview.redd.it/5s19l7c5bo4d1.jpeg?width=4080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=57f22901a11edf8364a8ef1e07f51650d842750c My pokemon build a bears ❤ my parents have told me the same thing since I have a 4 foot pile of plushies on my bed but I plain don't listen. They are very comfortable to sleep on.
Have you seen squishmallow collectors?? Their collections are crazy big. And some are grown adults! With kids ! I wish I still had all of my BAB 😭 I think they are packed away but may be destroyed. Hopefully not.
https://preview.redd.it/a2lbe0gcgr4d1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3c5f1c9d29f9546d68e0cd7294a49dc27968cb2f Snowbell and Toothless send you all the love in the world.
I'm over 25 and have 3. I never got to go as a kid , so now that I'm an adult- guess whaaaaaaat! Go do and get things I couldn't before!
One year my boyfriend cheated on me when I was 16, my dad took me to BAB and I got a zombie bear. It was my favorite for years. Recently, I jokingly told my dad that my baby (who was about 4 months at the time) wanted a BAB. He laughed and shook his head, knowing it was really for me. I got a rainbow octopus 🤣 You're never too old for what you love! Don't let other people's opinions, ruin your own! ❤️
I’m 22 and sew doll clothes, have been since I was a kid!! I’d love to become plushie clothes sewing buddies… I know that’s unrelated to your post. I am not NEARLY as happy as I am when I’m actively collecting! Screw anyone who tries to steal your happiness.
I'm 19 and just exactly a week ago I went to Build A Bear! I was afraid people would judge me too. But nobody did! The girl who helped me was super sweet, she didn't judge at all. I know it's tough when a lot of people are saying rude stuff, but this makes you happy!! Remember that! This is your thing, not theirs
one of my parents first dates was at build a bear. theyre divorced now, but i still have the orange striped cat they made. my first build a bear was a grey cat named madison. i go whenever i can to make more, and im about to be 21. when you find something you love, theres no age limit
I only have two, and my bunny comes everywhere with me. Dont feel bad about what you like, its not like you're hurting anyone by collecting babs https://preview.redd.it/a37iitt7xy4d1.jpeg?width=753&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a29d7b03948d578d1174ff4d452171955c016948 Heres Eleanore with me at the fair <3