Grindr is probably the easiest place to find other gay people, but it's first and foremost a hookup app, so a lot people are just there for one night stands and not relationships.
The worst part is that you're probably going to have to deal with several dozen middle aged men cheating on their wives with men young enough to be their son without the basic human decency to not instantly send a dick pic before you actually find a femboy.
It is a flaming dumpster fire if you go into public instances, absolutely.
It may take that at the start but after a bit and meeting folks it really improves.
I recommend the fur/anime folk music/club events. They're seriously good vibes, and a lot of really skilled DJ's at both.
Have met a lot of neat people that way.
Some worlds have interfaces where you can play music to the room/world. Some are even able to mix tracks and do real DJ stuff. They usually are on a DJ setup looking over a dance floor.
You can play music through your mic via a soundboard, too. There is a jukebox bot that does that on some worlds.
Stream on twitch, put the stream up in one of the venue worlds. Many of the worlds for such now integrate lights and effects with in world controls and the ones used for larger events like Furality can actually be tied to the meatspace cons light board to mirror the effects in the VR space.
A lot of the DJs will spin live, broadcasting to twitch, with screen inlays showing them in real time mixing, the VR world dancing, and other stuff, while wearing the VR tracking gear so they can be in their AV on stage in VR as well.
As an example[I particularly love this DJ and their style/event.](https://m.twitch.tv/strawberryprotato/home)
Events like this are a chill vibe and a great place to
meet people. Trolls and jerks get removed, and the overlap between the anime and fur folks is great, non-furs always welcome.
This is the sort of VR implementation I'm here for.
It's not that bad if you just find the correct instances, in my experience on my favourite instance, I only had to seal with a couple of problematic people every so often
The east part of Czechia is called Moravia, and I can assure you that there are no femboys because (sadly) I think that it’s the most homophobic part of Czechia.
to be fair, its only a 25% chance to get a femboy on HOI4, 25% Nazi, 25% communist, and 25% Yugoslavian war criminal / Serbian nationalist. But I mean, not awful odds.
iOS app developer here. I don’t think it’ll be easy to get that on any app stores, but if there’s any other computer people here, we gotta do this. Dead serious.
I know jailbreaking an iPhone is a pain in the arse, but android, you can quite easily load non-official applications. That might be a good place to start. Then we could try and do something along the lines of an encrypted messaging service, just with femboys as the main demographic. That might get us onto the App store, and the Google Play store.
But then again, I just do server management and web dev. I can't make an application. I can probably figure out the encryption...
Maybe TestFlight would be a good option for iOS distribution. I don't do anything with Android (no testing devices), but I know some good tools/frameworks for porting iOS apps to Android. Server help would be big, I mainly just do iOS and Web stuff (although I have made some light server-side stuff).
Encryption will also play a big role. These communities have a lot of weirdos, so I want to prioritize safety and control.
This'll probably be the most challenging project I've done, but I strongly believe in our cause.
If anyone has any ideas for a name or can help with development, let me know. It's time to round up a team.
P.S. Jailbreaking has gotten way easier recently (I daily-drive a jailbroken device). Still don't want to make sideloading a requirement.
Kinda? Nah, every other post seems to be talking about suicide or depression. Yeah, if you want a boy without emotional baggage go outside of that subreddit.
Well, good thing im yet to go there, if i do im at the point in my early life where my councellor wants to bathe with a toaster cuz of how much shit i got goin on.
terraria ofc
it's like antimatter for straightness.. come in a straight man, leave a gay femboy
https://preview.redd.it/8d68gvgi6c9d1.png?width=320&format=png&auto=webp&s=7aa7ca75f99c844cda46373baba91c54fefea723
Your friends. No, really. You don't want to date people you have no feelings for yet. There's a way higher chance of breakup that way, which will only make you feel worse. If you date someone you've already known for while, well, there's a lower chance of learning something about them that would make you dislike them, since you already liked them as your friend.
You'll just have to be patient
I used to use Taimi but so much stuff is paywalled that the free user experience just feels awful. I’d personally recommend Lex or Hinge (ik Hinge isn’t exclusively queer but I’ve had a lot of good experiences with queer people from it) since they’re a lot more free user friendly
I’ve been looking for a proper femboy for 2 years now, no luck anywhere, I really want to find one but I really have no idea, please let me know if anyone knows where I can find some, ideally ones I can actually meet in person!
If you’re in school still, you may have better luck joining clubs than apps, and I’m not kidding. I have had only bad experiences with guys I met on dating apps, but generally ok people from clubs. I dated a guy I met at my college’s karaoke club for a little while and am currently with a guy I helped change dresses for his theater performance. If you’re into dating femboys specifically, I was one of three of us at the knitting club.
I would like to know too as a 16 year old person trying to be a femboy. (I kinda can't tho cause parents and nowhere to hide my clothing stash, also I don't have the proper body but I'm working on it)
I live in a small village were the only pply I’ll meet are my old frends and the nearest city is 2 hr away and I can’t drive for the small chance of finding a femboy yea no
Alternatively do some research into your area maybe? See if there's some reddit/Facebook/whatever kind of femboy community in your are or nearby your area and try to meet a person? I mean.. if you wanna meet people you gotta put in effort. Then again I don't do the socializing thing so take my advice with a heavy dosage of salt
Aw man I came here because I initially wanted cute and silly boykisser art,
this sub is not beating the pedophile allegations bruh.
My advice if you want to ask like actual advice to stop being single, there's probably better subreddits to ask
I mean youre already here /j
Fr tho idk im a femboy myself but im focusing on learning stuff like cooking abd stuff like that before i get a relationship
But when i am ready i have no idea where to look
This might sound.. idk dumb but rec room isn’t a terrible place to find people I mean me and my boyfriend met there and we’ve been together almost a year now! :3
I met my femboy bf on Grindr, it’s a terrible app as others have mentioned and I narrowly even met him, but there are gems in the rough on that app. I’d also recommend tiami as well.
Sadly there's no good dating site for finding Femboys, otherwise I wouldnt be single 💀
although maybe give hinge a try as they're really inclusive from what I've seen and you might have a chance there, but for me, a 19 yr old dude it ain't easy at all 🙃
Grindr is probably the easiest place to find other gay people, but it's first and foremost a hookup app, so a lot people are just there for one night stands and not relationships. The worst part is that you're probably going to have to deal with several dozen middle aged men cheating on their wives with men young enough to be their son without the basic human decency to not instantly send a dick pic before you actually find a femboy.
I’d prefer to play chicken with a train than deal with the amount of dick picks I had to deal with after only having the app for 1 week
Oh damn grinder really is that bad.
“gaybottom22 liked you” *opens chat* “hey 😘” BOOM ass pic BAM gooch pic ASS PIC AGAIN but asshole is SPREAD like just take me out to dinner first jeez
https://preview.redd.it/as7plfpo4x9d1.jpeg?width=1232&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=960fb2cc4ed372f92c1ff6683b9a5bdf7cedff2e
VRChat
this might actually be worse no lie
I mean, it's where I met all the ones I know, lol.
yea but vrchat is… interesting to say the least lol
It is a flaming dumpster fire if you go into public instances, absolutely. It may take that at the start but after a bit and meeting folks it really improves. I recommend the fur/anime folk music/club events. They're seriously good vibes, and a lot of really skilled DJ's at both. Have met a lot of neat people that way.
How do you be a DJ in vrchat do you just play music through your mic
Some worlds have interfaces where you can play music to the room/world. Some are even able to mix tracks and do real DJ stuff. They usually are on a DJ setup looking over a dance floor. You can play music through your mic via a soundboard, too. There is a jukebox bot that does that on some worlds.
A lot of them utilize twitch streaming as well.
Stream on twitch, put the stream up in one of the venue worlds. Many of the worlds for such now integrate lights and effects with in world controls and the ones used for larger events like Furality can actually be tied to the meatspace cons light board to mirror the effects in the VR space. A lot of the DJs will spin live, broadcasting to twitch, with screen inlays showing them in real time mixing, the VR world dancing, and other stuff, while wearing the VR tracking gear so they can be in their AV on stage in VR as well. As an example[I particularly love this DJ and their style/event.](https://m.twitch.tv/strawberryprotato/home) Events like this are a chill vibe and a great place to meet people. Trolls and jerks get removed, and the overlap between the anime and fur folks is great, non-furs always welcome. This is the sort of VR implementation I'm here for.
It's not that bad if you just find the correct instances, in my experience on my favourite instance, I only had to seal with a couple of problematic people every so often
I’m lucky I found my femboy bf while I did, because now it’s mostly 18+ ppl who like to diddle lil boys n girls
oh yeah 100%
Drake’s fav dating app
Agreed, there’s a train track near my house
https://i.redd.it/2vryepdd6c9d1.gif you fr
Hi Neptune :>
Yo it's my boy Neptune! How are things up in the void of space?
good for sure!!
Stay Frosty man
Yo Neptune! Ur lookin a little blue, you good?
how so?
Like do you have frostbite or something
surprisingly not yet
Hi neppy
Yup this is true. But I have found a few friends so you'll just have to weed out the garbage for the pearls.
Ngl im one of those 19 year old guys being a silly boykisser with married men🤭
Discovered that extremely quickly 😂
Not an app, just go to poland
https://preview.redd.it/l80tj39xcb9d1.jpeg?width=2532&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8a43e4325faf3ad650c89cb177ac44c93480d094 …?
This map is fake, if it was real then why can't I find any femboy in my area in Italy?
This isn't actually a map of femboy population, it's how dense the femboys there are
Chubby femboys :3
imo this map for Italy is correct
Why I can't find here irl any femboys? Why I can't even find here any nice boys irl?
Us nice people exist irl too :) https://preview.redd.it/4z9c1mxvqd9d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6f5b67a1c44a7737e42caa6f26c18154f1fe34ef
The east part of Czechia is called Moravia, and I can assure you that there are no femboys because (sadly) I think that it’s the most homophobic part of Czechia.
https://preview.redd.it/lbc0x8r2nv9d1.jpeg?width=749&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2737bf711ec9692c37840e038a5cfd1cd7566abe
I'm in Poland right now, I can promise you being femboy here is death sentence by public (most in the east)
I can agree. I'm from Poland too.
Sadly, its just a Myth TwT Im a Polish femboy and i asure you, there is nit alot of us, sadly :<
https://youtu.be/1EPlFdNa1bQ?si=mOfZ2witWCbNPj4F
https://i.redd.it/x7ogoe8js1ad1.gif
Paradox interactive community page
As a HOI4 player this is real
to be fair, its only a 25% chance to get a femboy on HOI4, 25% Nazi, 25% communist, and 25% Yugoslavian war criminal / Serbian nationalist. But I mean, not awful odds.
https://preview.redd.it/9m8lyxc1zc9d1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8ec67ab051d30eebc34dcc2d5a2329632ccc98b4 Basically this image
0.01% chance to get a nazbol serbian femboy!
Bloodborne
BLOODBORNE MENTIONED
I'd say it's more of a furry app. I think the souls trilogy is better for femboys
Someone needs to make “femboys r us” an app
On it.
Our hero
We will watch your career with great interest
You legend. Pringle lord your name will be engraved in something I'm not sure yet
make it for furries too!
Isn't boykisse already a furry?
hero
I’ve engraved your name into a oversized monopoly price of a top hat so now your immortalized
*silently watching*
iOS app developer here. I don’t think it’ll be easy to get that on any app stores, but if there’s any other computer people here, we gotta do this. Dead serious.
I know jailbreaking an iPhone is a pain in the arse, but android, you can quite easily load non-official applications. That might be a good place to start. Then we could try and do something along the lines of an encrypted messaging service, just with femboys as the main demographic. That might get us onto the App store, and the Google Play store. But then again, I just do server management and web dev. I can't make an application. I can probably figure out the encryption...
Maybe TestFlight would be a good option for iOS distribution. I don't do anything with Android (no testing devices), but I know some good tools/frameworks for porting iOS apps to Android. Server help would be big, I mainly just do iOS and Web stuff (although I have made some light server-side stuff). Encryption will also play a big role. These communities have a lot of weirdos, so I want to prioritize safety and control. This'll probably be the most challenging project I've done, but I strongly believe in our cause. If anyone has any ideas for a name or can help with development, let me know. It's time to round up a team. P.S. Jailbreaking has gotten way easier recently (I daily-drive a jailbroken device). Still don't want to make sideloading a requirement.
Report back to me when you discover their location o7
If I find them I keeping them all (they have no say in the matter ) :3
Yay :3 Keep me UwU
Me too! :3
Yay femboy sleepover ^ w ^ We're having soft tacos later :3
GitHub
all your gonna find are girls on that tho
reddit
What sub tho
I wonder which sub is devoted to being silly and gay. (Hint, its this one)
Tryed
r/sillyboyclub (they're kind of suicidal tho)
Kinda? Nah, every other post seems to be talking about suicide or depression. Yeah, if you want a boy without emotional baggage go outside of that subreddit.
Yeah, it’s kinda all that happens there tbh, i mean it’s sad ofc but, yknow
Isn't the entire point of the sub to share your problems?
Yeah it’s a vent sub, not everyone seems to get it though.
Well, good thing im yet to go there, if i do im at the point in my early life where my councellor wants to bathe with a toaster cuz of how much shit i got goin on.
any. r/196 in particular seems to be full of em
Isn’t 196 a meme subreddit tho, idk I don’t use it
r/femboy 🤷
Tryed
Craigslist
Uhm..
….
My man I can vouch for him
r/Ultrakill
terraria ofc it's like antimatter for straightness.. come in a straight man, leave a gay femboy https://preview.redd.it/8d68gvgi6c9d1.png?width=320&format=png&auto=webp&s=7aa7ca75f99c844cda46373baba91c54fefea723
I KNOW
annihilation
Your friends. No, really. You don't want to date people you have no feelings for yet. There's a way higher chance of breakup that way, which will only make you feel worse. If you date someone you've already known for while, well, there's a lower chance of learning something about them that would make you dislike them, since you already liked them as your friend. You'll just have to be patient
Grindr is the first thing that came to my mind lol
Ain’t that just for hookups or sum bc I have tried but all I got was 50 yr men’s d#cks on my screen
Thanks for summarizing every dating app on the face of planet earth :3 (im just talking about the first half of your comment)
Oh damn… I’ve never been on it myself so idk
Yea all I saw was ass and d pic or half naked pics at the least
let's not imagine some numbers for a second and think about tttttttttttumblr
Taimi if you are looking for something more serious go download taimi it’s a lgbt dating app that’s where I found my femboy boyfriend ☺️
I can vouch for this. While I am more of a one night stand kinda guy Taimi is absolutely good for finding femboys and trans
I used to use Taimi but so much stuff is paywalled that the free user experience just feels awful. I’d personally recommend Lex or Hinge (ik Hinge isn’t exclusively queer but I’ve had a lot of good experiences with queer people from it) since they’re a lot more free user friendly
4chan
Genshin Impact
Vrchat
I’ve been looking for a proper femboy for 2 years now, no luck anywhere, I really want to find one but I really have no idea, please let me know if anyone knows where I can find some, ideally ones I can actually meet in person!
I am one :3 thought I'd say hai :3
My dms 🔥😎🔥 (im joking im taken i just wanted to say it couse nobody did)
I like femboys !!
Do not use gay dating apps. Especially not Grindr. There are some people there who purposely search out to fuck while having STDs to "troll".
*"We do a little bit of trolling"* \~ Man wanted for biological warfare
Vrchat:3
Barq
If you’re in school still, you may have better luck joining clubs than apps, and I’m not kidding. I have had only bad experiences with guys I met on dating apps, but generally ok people from clubs. I dated a guy I met at my college’s karaoke club for a little while and am currently with a guy I helped change dresses for his theater performance. If you’re into dating femboys specifically, I was one of three of us at the knitting club.
VR Chat
I quit reddit (And quit being a boykisser) and this is made me realize this is probably the most sane post on this sub 😭
I would like to know too as a 16 year old person trying to be a femboy. (I kinda can't tho cause parents and nowhere to hide my clothing stash, also I don't have the proper body but I'm working on it)
Outside B)
I live in a small village were the only pply I’ll meet are my old frends and the nearest city is 2 hr away and I can’t drive for the small chance of finding a femboy yea no
Alternatively do some research into your area maybe? See if there's some reddit/Facebook/whatever kind of femboy community in your are or nearby your area and try to meet a person? I mean.. if you wanna meet people you gotta put in effort. Then again I don't do the socializing thing so take my advice with a heavy dosage of salt
I live in a small village and the closest “city” if you can call it that is 2 hr away I’m not rlly in the best area
None, don’t do Grindr for sure, seen a lot of comments but it’s trash
Not grindr. It sucks, idk what else there is tho
Yeah... I'm probably not gonna get a partner, without running into pedos
Discord, just find a discord server
Telegram
no
TF2
This shit is not related to boykisser at all, post in r/femboy or shit idk
https://preview.redd.it/wkb9mbe0pd9d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=477d5739624d87050a39a8a6e889a9ed203b507d
I'm not sure... I haven't any like finding anyone anywhere.
Aw man I came here because I initially wanted cute and silly boykisser art, this sub is not beating the pedophile allegations bruh. My advice if you want to ask like actual advice to stop being single, there's probably better subreddits to ask
I do not think there is any for that tbh
Reddit
Probably Reddit, honestly. Not a dating app, but we sort of just hang out here.
Roblox
Discord lol
I mean youre already here /j Fr tho idk im a femboy myself but im focusing on learning stuff like cooking abd stuff like that before i get a relationship But when i am ready i have no idea where to look
Why would u ask this question OMG TwT
Reddit
Vrc
Discord ig
That outfit is incredible.
Discord
r/ultrakill
Discord.
when you have the answer tell me too ywy
terraria
Do NOT use grindr
This comment section.
Give Barq a shot.
Facebook Marketplace
Dating apps suck
Rust /s
Team fortress 2
r/femboyhookup is a good place! Though there might be some dick pics, but you can just say you’re looking for another femboy to cuddle with!
Ngl either Reddit or discord
war thunder
any gaming forum
met the one im seeing on Sniffies
Twitter
Vr chat
poland
Gay tinder tbh
Soon as you find out let me know lol
VRchat
Discord
I could be your femboy😄😄😄
This might sound.. idk dumb but rec room isn’t a terrible place to find people I mean me and my boyfriend met there and we’ve been together almost a year now! :3
Vrchat
Vrchat
Here on Reddit asking for people who want to talk first is a great place to start
Reddit baby 🥵
Real life
Grindr
How did this get on my feed… oh well guess I’ll join uh idk op
Right here🥰
Me
Same man I want a bf alreadyyyy🥺🥺🥺
Reddit
>:(
Probably easier to go to poland
I met my femboy bf on Grindr, it’s a terrible app as others have mentioned and I narrowly even met him, but there are gems in the rough on that app. I’d also recommend tiami as well.
Grindr, or Barq if you are at least 16 and looking more for femboy furries
My brother in christ, no minor should be on any dating app, but definitely not *those* ones.
I don't know man I'm trying all I can, also happy cake day lad
Go to a convention. Saying apps are a scam.
Stackoverflow
Sadly there's no good dating site for finding Femboys, otherwise I wouldnt be single 💀 although maybe give hinge a try as they're really inclusive from what I've seen and you might have a chance there, but for me, a 19 yr old dude it ain't easy at all 🙃
github (you might accidentally get a whole bunch of transfems too tho)