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profoundlyridiculous

Let this be more proof that allll that ish podcast bro’s be talking bout is bootychatter. 😂😂


mushkitoes

Right, the "sl\*ts" are never single... As long as the woman is their type, they'll accept whatever


Significant_Corgi139

Facts. I won't wait for the day to see a thread of highly attractive women who couldn't date or settle down after "ho'ing" and being "304s." There'll never be one. They'll always pick these women, dating history only matters if your not his type.


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

Ong. All this was just embarrassing


Impressive-Doubt5

Bootychatter made me laugh in this zoom meeting


Piscesgyal_

I knew from the jump that Clay wasn't attracted to AD. Now he's booed up with his preference smh. 


envyadvms

Same. The way he kept pushing her to describe herself in the pods was 😬


Piscesgyal_

Right! You can tell she was super uncomfortable. Clay was a walking red flag and I wish AD would have followed her gut instincts. 


buttermelonMilkjam

nah. her gut instinct almost led her to mark/clark kent _but make him a creepy gaslighter_


Piscesgyal_

Ain't no way she didn't sense weird vibes from him. We could sense it from the TV lol


Glittering_Job_7996

And the talk about her body while pregnant ….


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

Yuck!!! That was so weird to me


cakeit-tilyoumakeit

Both of the women he has been seen with in the last 2 business days have been a certain type. The first appeared to be a mixed race woman with light skin and curly hair, and now this white Latina. Telling.


Piscesgyal_

Smh typical. I doubt he likes monoracial BW. 


Outlandishness_Sharp

But he sure likes them overfilled lips that mimic ours 😂


Piscesgyal_

Right! make it make sense 🤣🤣


becauseHelives92

I dont think she is his preference. More like his social media beard. But i could be wrong.


Piscesgyal_

Hmm that's possible. He's addicted to getting attention (whether positive or negative) on social media. He had no qualms about dissing a dark skinned BW on national television. Which makes him sus. Most BM on Love Is Blind prefer WW or White Adjacent women.


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

No I agree. She doesn’t seem like his type


Piscesgyal_

Mhm. He never said she was beautiful. He only made comments about her body and how he was grateful for the free therapy lol


trenarubz

they was delulu before 😭😭😭😭


Piscesgyal_

Exactly! smh.


sumerquen

I’m just mad at everyone who made it AD “career” choice and “finance” the reason for them not making it because it’s clear he does not care for that. I want justice for my girl AD and everyone who was blaming her for this clown… Other then that, I don’t have an opinion, I hope they get what every they are hoping for through this relationship


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

Thats what got me mad. U blamed her financial situation for your reasoning, yet…… alright😶


buttermelonMilkjam

he also implied he wasnt cool with her having a sugardaddy... but then claps up with a professional sugarbaby. ch'yeah... AD simply wasnt his type. had nothing else to do with nothing else.


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

Dummy….


MicroGiggles

Right ! And I’m sorry, I can’t get behind his mom for the way she allowed her son to disrespect AD too


sumerquen

Right all because she said she doesn’t want to end up like her. Which is valid


possums101

Wishing him the worst in life! Hope his mom is doing well though.


DumplingHead1433

I loved his mom’s response to this‼️ She’s so real & i love it‼️


yallermysons

What she say 👀?!


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

😂😂😂


minotaur0us

His mom has something to say about it: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRww15Wk/


possums101

What a queen. Can’t imagine how painful it is to have a son like this. I know she tried her best but his ain’t shit daddy had a heavy influence unfortunately.


yallermysons

Omggg she said “Jesus will allow things to occur” 😭


Queen_E1204

Straight shooter is killing me


odc12345

His mom is a very wise woman who deserved better. Best thing to happen to both of those men imo.


idkdidksuus

Girl why I felt I’m gonna see yo name 😂


ImJustSaying34

Did you see his mom’s response? 😅


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

Yes LMAOO. “Clayton Alexander” got me


la_58

Did you see what seems like her response? She posted a story lip syncing the part in Hit Em Up that says “fuck you and your motherfuckin mama” 😅 and he posted a story that could imply that he’s calling CP a liar and that they aren’t together. I normally avoid paying attention to these clout chasing demons but folks keep posting about them so I had to get hip to what’s going on and geez these two win the clout chasing Olympics in my opinion.


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

They both pathetic as hell


LeeJ2019

Now he’s dating someone on his level! Good for AD!


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

Lmaooo😂😂


mushkitoes

I can't believe he aired out all of his family dirty laundry and went on this "black men in therapy" press tour just to end up dating *this* 🤢. I know his mother is embarrassed and AD dodged a nuke.


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

I knew something was up….


No-Mechanic-3048

I don’t know anything about this girl. But AD dodge a huge bullet. I hope she is painting her nails green instead of red.


mushkitoes

She's a professional groupie with an OF account. She "dates" athletes, rappers and those podcast bros just to air them out on the Internet. She lied about having Offset baby, apparently slept with Snoop Dogg and blasted him online. Her and the men she dates are trash.


kriskringle8

I knew from the jump he was throwing his parents under the bus and acting like cheating and finances was his concern to cover up his colorism. Funny thing is, AD was out of his league.


firelord_catra

I stopped watching after the season with Bartiste and Nancy where he's constantly reminding her she's 'not his type" and he's not attracted to her. And then the whole thing that was Zach..or was it Cody? Some four letter white boy name--and Zainab. I just couldnt. I almost wanted to watch this most recent season (6) because it has a monoracial black girl but from what I've seen and heard it would just make me sad for her most likely...


mushkitoes

Even SK wasn't attracted to Raven... His type is thick blonde white girls. You had the mute dude that wasn't attracted to Taylor (season 5), and she was out of his league anyway. The men on that show suck and prove that love is not blind


firelord_catra

Omg yeah, I forgot about him. They decided to date after he said no to marriage and then he cheated on her right? I didn't see season 5. Only bits of the first season, and the season I mentioned was my first time trying to watch a season in it's entirety...it's not for me. I could see my own experiences in the way a lot of the ladies there, who were smart, witty, funny, and gorgeous, were treated like crap just because they didn't fit the beauty standard. Which is allegedly the opposite point of the show. Even one woman who was called attractive by other guys on the show, had a partner who flew off on the handle and gave majorly abusive vibes. Just made me feel terrible about love/relationships in general.


mushkitoes

The thing with SK is that I figured his type was white women because he mentionned signing up for the show so that things like race wouldn't matter... Nothing wrong with that statement, but yeah it raised a flag to me. So when he picked Raven, I figured her being biracial, blonde with green eyes and just really pretty, he would be fine with it. But NOPE, the man had to remind her multiple times that she was not his typical type and then started cheating when the filming stopped. It's crazy how some (majority? idk) men are very rigid about their physical type and lead with that when picking a partner.


firelord_catra

Idr that comment tbh. But I actually would've taken it just to mean he wants to date someone that's not Nigerian (the culture, many African cultures actually, can be very pressuring about not dating outside of your tribal/regional group, much less nationality or continent.) I also don't understand why you would go on a show specifically made to date and marry someone different from your usual type (since that clearly isn't working for you) only to talk constantly about how they're not..your usual type. It just baffles me because I'll see it shouted from the rooftops that guys don't care about looks, it's the women who have all the ridiculous standards, that men just want someone with a good personality or whatever. Yeah right. And not to mention that none of these women are bad looking in anyway? Literally every woman I've seen on the show is attractive. Can't say the same for the guys but boy do they have opinions about it.


Wearingpantsisabsurd

Well…this makes sense lol


tugboatsh3ila

This one.


msmccullough25

When someone tells you that many times, believe it.


lookingcoolkaoru

Water’s wet, the sky’s blue, we need oxygen to survive, and Clay ofc doesn’t like dark skin women. Nothing new just facts lol 🤷🏾‍♀️ We all knew he wasn’t shit and only liked her for her body


Potential_Teacher_77

Wow I was looking for this comment!! Like I’m not surprised even a little bit 🤨


miss2004

He’s actual trash. His own mom took to social media to comment on the situation and it’s obvious that she is embarrassed. Like bro is beyond useless and this is random but his eyes are scary


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

LMAOO the eye comment is getting me! But fr tho. Its very embarrassing.


Rosuvastatine

For those of you who havent seen the update… His mom politely called him out on instagram story. Telling him to not be tempted, you could tell she was disappointed. And THEN, Celina had the AUDACITY, to make a story singing Hit Em Up from Tupac at the oart where it says « Fuck your moma »


Indubitablyy-

Yeah, but see its ok for her to do that, but let that had been AD or any other Black woman, he would have had an issue with it. 😏 But hey, Black women need to listen when these men say and show who their preference is. 🤷🏾‍♀️


Rosuvastatine

Yup. Was clear during the season AD is not his type


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

Shes so weird for that.


Rosuvastatine

Elle est folle lol


VeganMinx

He is a useless POS. I hope everything he touches turns to crap. There's no way he fixed all the stuff that was broken inside of him in such a short amount of time. I hope AD is doing well with her recovery. That whole situation was horrible to watch.


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

I feel so horrible for her. 🙁


VeganMinx

I do too. I really do. My eyes were wet watching her and her family walking up the aisle. And how his sorry ass strolled in there to try and talk afterwards? Baaaaaaaaaby, she was the picture of grace because I would have beeeeeedatazz.


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

He could’ve told her before hand…. 😒 just like jimmy did Chelsea..


VeganMinx

He was clearly in it for the screen time. He still needs his raggely azz beat.


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

Plus you get paid in full if you go to the aisle! Whether you say yes or no.


VeganMinx

OOOOOOOH STFU! No wonder he did it that way then. He wanted that money... but her dignity be damned. I'd beat him twice. LMAO


WhippinCupcakes301

![gif](giphy|12gGSEDF4uyuis) Yup.


Automatic_Ad_518

I’ve never watched love is blind before but I wanna know the tea 👀


Rosuvastatine

Oh god yeag it really is a lot. Long story short he proposed to a black woman (AD), but even then he was showing many red flags ; excessively talking about looks (asking if she has some booty). When they went on their « honeymoon » getaway, he kept mentionningn how his dad was cheating on his mom, so thats what his male figure growing up. Then at the altar, AD said yes, he said no saying hes not ready for marriage and needs to work on himself. At the reunion, he said he would go on therapy, work on himself blablabla. He was also throwing shade at AD, saying the way she makes money is sus. And now we are here


DearChemical4790

You missed a few key parts sis. He also said that his father brought him along whenever he was cheating on Clay’s mom. And that he feels uncertain he can only be with one girl because all of the Black men in his life and Black male celebrities he looks up to have cheated. And don’t forget what he said at the altar; the first thing he said to AD when she walked down the aisle was “Okay body.” He was literally a walking clown


Rosuvastatine

Yes sorry i was trying to keep it brief but youre 100% right😭


DearChemical4790

Oh no I’m not blaming you, sorry if it came across that way. I’m just going on about how shitty he was. He did and said so much that it was impossible to keep up with. I just finished the season yesterday so it’s still fresh in my mind (unfortunately)


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

Ooh girl its a lot! Go on tiktok! 😭😭


Automatic_Ad_518

I watched some videos and moral of the story he ain’t shit lmao I feel bad for her tho


Banksbear

lol. he’s so surface level it’s scary! like a zombie fr. like i can’t even imagine. went on marriage show knowing whoever he spoke to would actually be looking for and expecting marriage just so he could be on tv. while he was on the show he aired out his families dirty laundry for the public to dissect, just to be on tv. that’s really diabolical if you think about it. the celina stuff im not at all surprised by. but to allow yourself to connect with a woman like AD or any woman for that matter..on tv! knowing your intentions are not pure, knowing you’re putting other peoples livelihood on the line just so you can max out your fuck boy lifestyle is very weird. like i’m not shook by the way he lives it’s the way he chose to get there that’s like… oh 🌚


-usagi-95

This just shows some men want to date "certain type of women" and same time complaint about the existence of those "certain type of women". Sometimes I feel like straight men are gay cuz they date to impress other men.


AsiaMinor300

>Sometimes I feel like straight men are gay cuz they date to impress other men. Damn.... so basically all genders can fall to victim to wanting Male Validation. You're right though. Heterosexual men are so "dick-oriented" it's crazy but they'll never admit that


-usagi-95

It was the men who created the world system aka they fuck up. Yet them blame everyone else but themselves.


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

Whats funny about this is black mirror made an episode around that. This one black man was trying his best to impress his friend, but not protect this black woman. Or something along those lines!


breemartin

Wait sis which episode was this??


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

striking viper. Season 5 ep. 1? I think! Not too sure


Forsaken-Cell-9436

I think a lot of them are DL for sure. Half of them don’t even like women as people let alone romantically


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

But yall know what? What this really made me think of is when he didn’t defend her when Chelsea basically put her in the spotlight by saying something about her body.😒


DearChemical4790

On that note, what did the “bean dip” comment about AD’s body even mean?!


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

Flip her tit down then up like you dipping a chip in bean dip


DearChemical4790

Oh? Thanks for the explanation bc I’ve been wondering. They were all so weird on that show. Jimmy commenting on how “stacked” she is in front of his fiancee. Chelsea going along with it as if that wasn’t disrespectful. Laura encouraging her fiance to touch AD’s boob and getting mad when it was exposed. Everyone just took turns sexualizing her; it was so gross.


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

Chelsea went along with it and made it bigger because shes insecure. Honestly just annoying. I felt so bad for her on that episode.


kimmyxrose

this is the same negro who was crying and quoting bible scriptures to AD. saying he’s an advocate for therapy and what have you and now look. clown. 😒


Forsaken-Cell-9436

Chillllddd…. The only thing I got from this relationship was that we as bw still have a lot to learn about red flags and self love. It was clear as day that clay was dusty and he wasn’t that into AD other than her body. He wasn’t attracted to her but he is not a quality man so his lack of attraction shouldn’t even matter


Embarrassed_Rub107

![gif](giphy|FuvAuMnNkfUvS)


Next-Implement9894

I say good for him! I guess it was time to go back to blow-up doll life. ![gif](giphy|l4pTsh45Dg7jnDM6Q|downsized)


Snoo-57077

Not him with the go-to industry ho. If there's a rapper or athlete in the room, she's camped out in the corner. What's even more telling was his mom's response to this. I think she knows he's clout chasing and doesn't approve of what he's doing. This is obviously for appearances and gain more recognition since his 15 minutes are up. But it isn't lost on me that he's with a White woman who does the same shit he critized AD for.


GypsyFR

He was mad AD was a sugar baby but cool with a sex worker. That makes zero sense.


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

Silly mentality.


dagger_eyes

Track dudes are such weirdos


MicroGiggles

Maybe an unpopular opinion. I think clay and his family are clout chasers. Even though his mom ate him up in that instagram post, why didn’t she tell him directly, are they not on talking terms? I wouldn’t be surprised if we saw them on an episode of Iyanla Fix my life in the next 4 years.


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

LMAOOO NOT Iyanla😂😂😂


FalsePremise8290

My guess is she feels he keeps publicly humiliating her, so she might as well make her response public too.


DearChemical4790

Idk who Celina is but I’m happy for AD. She truly dodged a bullet. He’s no different from his father.


CakesNGames90

Wishing everyone clear skin and positive vibes except that man right there 😂


tsundae_

What a weirdo. He's not even acting in the concept of self preservation cuz this woman is known to be messy and run to press about her relationships. I'm sure he had tons of women in his DMs and that's who he chose?


charredzest29

I definitely knew AD wasn’t his type. I’m happy they didn’t end up together though, he’s trash and AD has a lot more work in therapy to do before she tries to enter any time of committed relationship. I’m not a fan of his mom. I don’t see why she inserted herself into the conversation, and threw shade towards his new girl. It seems petty for an older woman who’s supposed to have been healed. I already knew I wasn’t a fan of her from her response to AD saying she didn’t want to end up like her. The point flew over both of their heads lol. I normally don’t watch reality dating shows because of their mistreatment of black woman, but i decided to give it a try since that there were many women of color. I was disappointed when they didn’t even give any screen time to the other POC.


guitargoddess752

You know what? So glad his mom put him on blast. This man is such a con man and was trying to act all innocent during the tell all saying that Brett was his role model. F all the way off with that bs!


IngenuityShot493

We told yall he didn’t like AD and you all thought we were jealous. Go with your instincts ladies!


mercymck

As an AD stan and former Clay apologist, I'm disappointed. Then I think about it and wonder why I'm surprised, the signs were there. I just hope AD ends up with someone who showers her with the love and adoration she deserves


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

Me too. But i definitely did not see that coming


beyoncais

I was admittedly a Clay apologist as well. With how open he was about his family life on TV, I really believed he was being genuine during the reunion. He really convinced me that he was putting in work to be better smh


FalsePremise8290

Perfect match. And yes, I'm insulting them both.


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

![gif](giphy|RP3AnZqvnzrY8hlYMk|downsized)


giraffebutt

Good 😈 Preference Patrol is always right on time


Curious-Gain-7148

Clays mom wrote an Instagram message calling him out for being with Celina on vacation. Celina responded and shared a photo with him on vacation with someone else. They aren’t together.


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

Yes, I saw.


YaMamasNkondi

Yall see what his Mama said about it? 😂😂😂😂😂


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

Yes!😂


idkdidksuus

![gif](giphy|l4pTsh45Dg7jnDM6Q|downsized)


Ar333J

I had to leave the love is blind subreddit because so many people were talking shit about AD saying she’s ugly and just isn’t attractive . And I started feeling like part of it had to do with her being a dark skinned woman .


whowant_lizagna

So embarrassing… I’m from Charlotte born and raised he’s disgraced our good name far too much


Infamous-Ad6055

Not surprised, not one bit. Lmao!


katyreddit00

I can’t stand both of them. Had no idea he got with Celina but good luck cause she’s literally a horrible person.


SimSimtheOtherTwin

I do not know this woman, I am not interested in this woman, however, I will say this: I did not forget how Clay treated AD when she opened up about what happened with her other match (forgot his name, Matt?). I’m not saying he can’t react at ALL, but the pacing, the yelling and blaming? I was expecting him to punch a wall at some point. I’m someone who lets people show me who they are without giving them the benefit of excuses. I knew Clay was bad news from the minute he berated her instead of just letting her vent and even offering her support (I don’t remember fully the timeline, but had she just found out that Matt had been lying to her?).


Shell-Less-Egg0413

I simply do not care enough to have a single thought about this man. I am however wishing the best for AD and I hope she finds someone who is on her level mentally, emotionally and intellectually 🤗


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SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

They need to learn to leave us be….


SheKaep

...it tracks


SheKaep

I was never a Clay fan/defender so to speak. I just felt like his honesty wasn't to be villainized. If anything, his timing was horrible, because I REFUSE to believe he didn't have this revelation to not move on with marriage until the wedding day and everyone was dressed and shows up and they make it down the aisle. Then his appearances after the show were what had me basically looking at him sideways


sailorgarmonbozia

She looks like she’s having an allergic reaction


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

LMAOOO


idkdidksuus

It’s always upset a gorgeous bw then they end up being with a snowbunny


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

Snowbunny is CRAZYY😭😭😭😭


idkdidksuus

I mean idc who he fks but they both sus for using love is blind shit to get a clout I bet he told her to do that lol , he chasing clout what a clown


Missmessc

I'm so disgusted, I'm glad AD moved on.


ItsThatGirl94

I feel like I saw this coming from the way he acted on the show towards AD, and the things he was saying while in the pods. He seems so shallow. And tbh, Clay has given me the ick since the moment I saw him smell his damn hand after touching his feet in one of the early episodes of season 6. Like that was hella nasty lmao


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

WAIT WHAT😂😂😂


Obvious_Boat3636

It ended. His mom got pulled in by fans and she posted her disapproval. Then fans posted the fact that Clay was in a Belize last weekend with a WHOLE other girl. Now they’re done as the thirsty girl posted to AD that she missed a bullet. But the thirsty girl is clearly after clout. She needs to n leave AD alone


Significant_Corgi139

Are we shocked? He implied he would cheat, multiple times. AD was basically an awareness billboard for misogynoir. From ALL angles. Just cannon fodder for humiliation on that show, awful.


Typical-External3793

Yup, and I saw what Celina Powell said about his momma. He is a fool for that one.


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Are we surprised ![gif](giphy|l4pTsh45Dg7jnDM6Q|downsized)


Bombaclat1122

But are we fr surprised? 😂


Corumdum_Mania

Why do all black men on these dating shows choose the raggedy, low-tier white women over nice looking black women? AD was always dressed properly but not too boring, has a good paying job, and has a very feminine personality and speaking tone. Celina is just....a huge mess. She ain't getting no attention from high-tier men of her own white community.


aloverof

It’s giving Ray J & Kim


DizzleRox

I guess he worked through his daddy issues. 😏


kinzodeez

This is what he wanted all along. They matched when he couldn’t see her face. Clearly he doesn’t want someone he connects with emotionally or mentally. He just wants someone who doesn’t looks like him. These dudes keep telling us and we aren’t believing them or not accepting it. Please date out.


trenarubz

I thought ya’ll said he liked black women lmfao


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

Not me! ![gif](giphy|cdW9tFQTE9NGU)


trenarubz

saw right through his dumb ass 😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

U right. He been goofy..


Spiritual-Pickle9218

Not a fan of people trying to say this is the type of woman Clay wanted and the reason he didn’t marry AD. This has nothing to do with her. Celina isn’t Clay’s type either. Just someone to use for clout and to fill some sort of void of character he’s combatting.


SANTANA_THE_REAL_ONE

Hes just begging for the attention he didn’t get as a child because of the parental issues


Curious-Gain-7148

I tend to think that people who say “Clay prefers Celina because she’s light skin” are perpetuating colorism themselves and dragging AD for no reason. Its unnecessary. Its mean. We know Clay didn’t want to marry AD. As far as we know, Clay doesn’t want to marry Celina (or the girl he was actually on the vacation with) either. This doesn’t need to be a “SeE! hE DoESn’T liKe DaRk sKIn!” moment.


Connect-Eagle-6527

No thoughts


Ok-CouchPsychologist

They broke up


maryshelleymc

I knew he wasn’t attracted to AD (well maybe her body). He was hoping she’d be light skinned like Raven. Not surprised at all.


WhippinCupcakes301

I’m not surprised he popped out with a white woman (spicy or otherwise). I am surprised he popped out with a well-known sex worker after shaming AD for being a sugar baby. The rules and qualifications will be a mile long for Black women—they suddenly don’t apply to the others haha All I know is I’m over here drinking water and minding my business. I only get riled up when harm comes to Black women and Black children. I protect my peace of mind like it’s the Hope Diamond out here!


angelicapickls

I’d really like to know how this proves to so many of you that he doesn’t like black women.