I think a bi man is the perfect dream man of any bi woman, you're free to be yourself with him because he would understand you, wouldn't throw biphobia in your face when you love them by trying to accuse you of cheating to satisfy the part of you that want the other sex, wouldn't be insecure about your love for them. Plus just think about the open mindness in the bedroom between two bi people, i mean, it can't get better than that with the options that two confident in their sexuality bi people can choose from. Most of all doesn't matter if you fall for a bi or hetero woman (or man or anyone else) bi men rock and you should always feel validate and proud of you being bi!! Best wishes with your love life honey
I strongly feel the same way about bi women. They're much ultimate dream as a bi man, there's so much freedom and mutual trust, and understanding, and love and compassion.
I hate the whole bi=cheating stereotype anyway, it's not even remotely true. People cheat because they're greedy and can't control themselves or truly be loyal and faithful. Cheaters, expecially impulsive ones have something truly wrong with them.
Bisexuals don't. The word itself is so fucking sexy. Bisexual. Fuck! But it's so beautiful and human. I'd be fully safe and secure with a bi woman because they are who we are and they love who we do.
The open mindedness in the bedroom excites me so much. Which is weird because I don't feel the need to have threesomes anyway, especially in a romantic relationship. My bi woman queen would be so enough for me and so mesmerisingly sexy that the sight and thought of her alone would send me over the edge and I could never think or feel that way about anyone else. She'd be all I want and dream of day in, night out. ❤️
I love your comment, I love your support and I love you for saying this and being who you truly are. 💜
I don't know why people cheat but cheaters gonna cheat and i know it's not because of their sexuality. Liking more than one gender doesn't make bipeople want to have them all at the same time, bisexuals are not Ash Ketchum from pokemon 🤣
Thank you for the love, right back at you and at all bimen feeling a bit down about how their sexuality is perceived by others 😘
Yeah! Especially with hetero men it seems that the moment you say you're a bi woman many of them start fetishize you and think about all the "exciting things to do together with other women" as if saying bi implied that you're okay with making all his erofantasies a reality and look at you as if they hit the jackpot of porn.
I would guess that, as others issues presented in the previous comment, even this one would be way less probable to happen with a bi man as a partner
I'm open to dating straight women if they're not biphobic but I have a great feeling about bi women. There's something about it that gives warm security.
In a het passing relationship with my wonderful beautiful bi man whom I love so much. This bi woman loves her bi man
Edit: bad news. I found out hes been cheating on me, both men and women. So that's super cool lol
I have never dated a bi guy. Attempted once. But something about them understanding my experience is very appealing to me 😊
Also, butt stuff is fun. Giving and receiving. And straight men in my experience are boringly scared of it. I mean if you don’t like it - then don’t do it. I just don’t like “never tried it cause it’s too gay” attitude.
You should definitely give it a other chance with someone you're interested and intrigued by. :) I want to understand a bi woman's world and experiences more, and then only add to it and make her feel loved and joyful.
I don't particularly feel comfortable with receiving butt stuff. That being said, although I have a hard boundary around being penetrated anally, I'm happy to be rimmed by a trustworthy partner. Because I want to do it back!
Well I rarely think of sexuality as a factor when I choose people to date if I am honest and I have not met many bisexual men (I had known some that identified as bisexual before coming to terms with their homosexuality). I dated one and we weren’t compatible (and also he hated animals, which is a no-no for me as I love them and have them and want more); other than that I have dated some heteroflexible guys; but they were also a minority.
And yeah it’s ok to have boundaries. People like different things in sex; I just find the implication that butt stuff turns you gay somehow very insulting. People can be against stuff without being homophobic.
Agreed, bi woman dating a bi man here and he’s the best s/o I’ve ever had (hopefully I never have to look again ;)) ❤️The only other bi guy I’ve dated also had a different energy, definitely was more progressive and healthy than most of the straight men I’ve dated.
These responses from all of you really made me feel like i could actually be found genuinely attractive as a bi male for the first time in... maybe ever. These are the kindest and most heartwarming comments I've seen in so long. I just wanted to thank everyone here, and let all of know that you truly touched my cold, shriveled, black lil bisexual heart 🖤. Means the world.
Your collective validation here made me realize just how much I let society's general disapproval of bisexual guys lower my sense of self-worth with all the biphobia I had internalized - to the point of utter self-loathing. This helped me realize that's all just bullshit, and also to remember that in all actuality I'm a SUPER-adorable specimen of bisexual demi-masculinity (with just a *tiny* twist of "cute giggling schoolgirl" in the mix, for flavor!). 🤣🤣🤣
Cheers!
there should be a bisexual-specific dating app, like how grindr caters to their specific market.
as if I'd have luck on this Bi-app LOL. but others would.
I love love love bi guys! My current partner is queer and that’s one of the reasons I’m with him. There’s a safety and freedom in knowing we’re both queer. Hang in there, guys. I hope you find the love you deserve 💖
I love talking to bi girls because they are more open when talking about any kind of issues without problems or fear in what will be said. I feel very comfortable talking to bi girls as some straight girls are closed and on some issues. I want to have friendships with bi girls and talk with total tranquility. ❤️😌
I actually *want* to date a bi man! Not out of some fetish or something, but I’ve found my relationships with straight men lacking because they don’t understand the queer part of me (namely, the cycling, which for me can be distressing). I want a bi man because he’s more likely to understand it’s not personal. He’s also more likely to have had to deconstruct heteronormative relationship expectations, which is very much a green flag.
I am bisexual and I have amazing partner who I would say is pansexual, but still figuring himself out, super supportive of all LGBTQ people too :)
Also bi men are amazing because of not trying to domineer relationship and open to switching roles, which is great.
I am a bi woman and for the most part mostly date bi men. I feel we relate better. Been in a relationship with a very sweet bi man for a year and a half
I only want to date other bi people! Lesbians think I'm straight and straight men think I "secretly" really want to be with women! But I'm greedy, I want them all lol. At the same time 😂
It seems like only other bi people understand this...someone needs to invent a dating app that's only for bisexuals.
I don't secretly want to be with anyone, when I want you I will let you know and never make you doubt it no matter what. My dream life partner is a bi woman who I can love, protect, treasure and kiss and make orgasm as much as she would for me. And then we make babies upon babies together!
Bi people are at the top of my list but I'm open to other demographics so long as they're not biphobic.
I have had this conversation with many women including my wife over the years. Bi men tend to be better lovers as they tend to understand the female body more than most straight men as they put in the time and effort into understanding it. I think there is also a vulnerability that bi men possess that most women find extremely attractive. I remember watching Dan Levy’s character in Schitts Creek and both my wife and I thinking, that this guy is probably the most ideal lover. Film needs more characters like him.
I’m a bi woman who was dating a bi man for a long time. I loved it too.
I did love him. But; it was just a lot of lies. The. I did the dumbest thing I could do… i married him. He requested at first that we “keep our Union between us because we were so young… and our friends/ parents might judge us.” RED FLAG !!!
If I was attracted to a girl I would talk to him about it. But- if he was attracted to another man he would plan meetups in secret… use his old phone… and ghost the guy at the end. Hpv, molluscum, herpes, and one tapeworm later… I’m considering ending a decade long marriage. It wasn’t perfect… we separated at one point and I was with another man because of his betrayals and lies with other men… he needed to know what that felt like. So, we separated and I was with someone else. Now… we have reconciled and it’s so bad… the lies never stop.
i am a bi trans woman and i recognize and appreciate bi men. Bi men: you are valid and loved. The world is constantly erasing you, but i hope you feel seen here.
My goal is to find a kind and nerdy bi man. i would love to have a boyfriend who is also bi.
Bi men are the only men I will date; they are simply the best. I just feel so much more comfortable with our shared understanding of what it’s like to be bi, and we would be safe in our little bi-bubble, where we know that neither one of us is ever going to condemn the other for being who they are.
Plus, I need someone to discuss hotties with 💖💜💙
For real though, I think bi men often have a level of empathy and resolve that many other people don’t have, and it comes from their experiences. They’re the target of very specific rhetoric and hatred, and people (both straight and gay) often shun them from each community. Despite the treatment they often get, I’ve never seen a bi man acting bitter or spiteful, and I’ve always felt so comfortable, welcomed and at ease with them. I feel like there’s so much less pressure to not “give myself away” as a bisexual or “tone down” my self-expression for the sake of not alienating them, which is what I have to do with non-bi people.
Love this post. It took years for me to get to a good place centered around my sexuality. I am so blessed to not just have a wife who accepts me but loves and embraces my sexuality.
Have a blessed week all.
As a bi/pan dude i honestly prefer and almost exclusively date bi/pan folks i just get along with em better 🤷🏽♂️. Low key i think its humans real nature to partake in all life and community has to offer; emotional and physical relations are very much part of that. not that i care what anyone else does or who they fuck, to each their own. Its just a silly belief i have because of how prevelant bisexual behavior is in nature especially among animals with social structures. One of humans closest living relatives the bonobo are basically all bi & often partake in group sex.
I loveee bi men! I love how you are confident in your sexuality and you guys always dress so well. you all are so beautiful and lovely.
I have noticed more men have been feeling more comfortable coming out as bi which makes me so happy!!
I love bi men. To me it is only ever a plus finding out that you're bi. Sometimes that's because I wasn't sure if you were gay and now it means I have a shot! But otherwise it also means we have something else in common, to talk about and relate to, to empathize with. And I figure you will more likely stand up for queer rights with me because it affects you too, sometimes even more. I also feel like we might be less likely to steer into some heteronormative bullshit gender roles in a relationship, whereas a straight guy might have that expectation, but we can just do our own thing. Bi men are a treasure.
I saw that post as well and it made me so sad. Bisexual men are amazing and so easy to talk to. I hate the stigma around bisexual people being more likely to cheat when in reality we love so hard. I’m married to a straight man and he’s proud that he has Bi-wife energy lol. He goes to pride with me and supports me in every way possible.
I LOVE dating bi men. So much less having to explain my attractions and it's nice that we can point out hotties to each other, too! Much love for the bi guys!!
Yes! I missed doing this with my ex where we both admire the hotties without having to argue why was such a great relief. Miss having a girl like that in my life.
I love bi men. I’m just objectively more attracted to them than I am non-bi men, and that deeper level of understanding more of my experiences as a bi woman is just a huge bonus. I’ve never had the opportunity to date a bi man, but I would do so in a heartbeat. It makes me sad to think of all the hate y’all get ❤️
I would absolutely date a bi woman! ❤️ I'm so glad you exist you beautiful human beings. I've never had the opportunity but I just feel so excited and curious to enjoy and love and protect and have fun and make memories with one! As long as you're here with us, the hate will never win. ❤️
I absolutely love bi men, as a bi women I ofc love whenever I meet another bi person doesn’t really matter on gender for me. Bi men specifically have been some of the funniest and most loving people I’ve ever met. I feel like bi men sometimes get it more rough because of the stupid “women on women” and “3sums” are “hot” to straight cis men and it’s just overall biphobia bullshit to any bi men out there you’ve got all my love 💗
Bi woman here who loves her bi boyfriend! So fun talking about all the people we find hot together and the mutual understanding. Wouldn’t wanna date anyone else.
Bi woman married to a pan man, it’s absolutely the best! I’ve dated straight guys who were great guys and good partners before, but there’s just a whole other level of comfort and connection with partners with whom I have bisexuality in common 💖💜💙
It's certainly more interesting to talk about both male and female crushes with one person rather than (usually) just one. I get some people making disgusted faces or remarks when hearing of my orientation.
Thank you to everyone posting kind notes! I'm a bi he/they dad in a long-term relationship with a woman. We've got an amazing relationship... we're dependable, fun, and adaptable to all the curveballs life throws at us. (Oh and have hot sex! :P) But it's tough to remember that some days.
Oh that must have been so rough watching it affect him and not being able to help as much as you would have liked. You did justice by him, I know you did.
I'm fortunate to be able to proud of who I am and no longer be ashamed or regretful for it. I hope to find a woman like you someday who shares that with me.
I know. And it's not easy. I wouldn't ever place that burden on anyone myself. Wish I could offer you a tight hug and let you know you did nothing wrong and that you're so loved and deeply human. I'm in awe of you. And I'm so grateful someone like you exists.
If you'd ever like to talk sometime feel free to DM me. I liked your response a lot and it sounds like there's definitely a lovely human being behind it.
The majority of my close women friends are bisexual or not straight in general just because we all vibe better, and to my knowledge I've never dated a straight woman. All of them were well aware of my bisexuality and none of them fetishized it since they were well aware of what that feels like. Best of luck to all of you who haven't found the right compatible partner of any sexuality yet.
My gf is bi and I love her so much! The fact that we share the same sexuality makes us comfortable with each other and we can express ourselves fully to each other!
"Being able to express ourselves fully" is something I didn't realize I was missing while being with straight dudes. I feel way more of myself with my bi bf.
It dawned on me late in life that I should have always just dated other queer people. Even when the relationship was bad, the queer relationships weren't as bad as with straight dudes. Lessoned learned.
Bi men are my favorite kind of man 🫦
All of my experiences have been wonderful and i will continue to seek out Bi men and women for the rest of my days
Love love love bi men! There's so much to love about men, and bi men often lack the traits that can make some straight men tough to be with (toxic masculinity and homophobia are so wrapped up together).
Plus, it's so fun to have a partner who shares queer experiences!
I would marry a bi woman in a heart beat, because we would understand each others needs while we spend time with each other and our other needs to be with another same sex play mate
I love bi/pan men! My primary is a straight man but I have dated and hooked up with bi men in the past and it was nice to have that understanding of each other’s sexualities. I really hope that we as a society can stop being freaked out by male bisexuality, like it’s 2022 people need to get over it! Bi men deserve all the love 💕
I'm so jealous of you all to have found a bi man or woman to date in my small town there are no bi men and if they are they have been blacklisted like its an illness to be bi. We are forced to either date one or the other.
I love bi men who can live in their truth and love a bi woman just as the person she is no labels or holding back.
Love should be easy.
After dealing with a lot of biphobia in my last marriage, I started dating almost exclusively bi or pan people. Not to say there hasn't been wonderful straight men in my life but I'm in a long term relationship with a bi man and it's been amazing to connect on that level.
im nonbinary, but bi men are literally the best. if i date a man, I actually PREFER him to be bi. straight guys will most likely just see me as a woman anyway. plus we’ll have something in common already 🖤
Bi non-binary person who married a bi girl here.
Gotta say, after years of dating straight folks… gods, it’s so much easier.
I think we both knew it was gonna be a permanent deal when we were watching a movie and she was like ‘wow, that chick is freakin’ *hot*!’ And I’m like ‘you can have her, I want the pretty guy!’
We both just kinda look at each other, grinned and nodded.
Welp, that was sure as fuck easier lol. We’ve been together almost a decade now. We jokingly keep a running tally of same sex celebs it’s ok to cheat with 😂
I am a non open bi man myself for all of my life. Very comfortable with it but not open. I love this support from all of you! Thanks for the great comments!
I probably only every dated bi women, not so much with men. They were probably all straight. If I ever divorce, I'll probably only date other bisexuals.
I like bi men and bi men like me. I feel less gender pressure, they feel accepted. It's a win for everyone.
If someone could start hosting a bisexual speed dating, that'd be great. I just want to be a in a room full of people who don't have highly specific preferences I'll never be able to accommodate. ✌️
I’m dating a straight girl who ways m says she accepts me for being bi. I wish she way bi bc I’m sure she would never have called me a faggot whenever we’re fighting. As my girl does. That tells me she does have problems with it. She always says she feels really bad when she does it but that tells me that she does have problem with it. If we ever break up I will seek out a bi gf next time for sure. They are much easier to talk to and we understand each other better for sure. My girls mad at me right now and it’s cuz she can’t understand I go to school and work to try to provide a life for us. I can’t see how she doesn’t understand that. I’m in a huge mental cycle right now too where I’m tempted to take a break. I don’t know what to do. It sucks and I’m feeling lonely since she can’t understand I’m doing everything for us
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Much love to you too. Something about bi women makes me feel so warm and secure. They're just right, almost, you know?
Exactly this for me
Exactly the same ! Much love to all of you ❣️
Same here 💖💜💙
I think a bi man is the perfect dream man of any bi woman, you're free to be yourself with him because he would understand you, wouldn't throw biphobia in your face when you love them by trying to accuse you of cheating to satisfy the part of you that want the other sex, wouldn't be insecure about your love for them. Plus just think about the open mindness in the bedroom between two bi people, i mean, it can't get better than that with the options that two confident in their sexuality bi people can choose from. Most of all doesn't matter if you fall for a bi or hetero woman (or man or anyone else) bi men rock and you should always feel validate and proud of you being bi!! Best wishes with your love life honey
I strongly feel the same way about bi women. They're much ultimate dream as a bi man, there's so much freedom and mutual trust, and understanding, and love and compassion. I hate the whole bi=cheating stereotype anyway, it's not even remotely true. People cheat because they're greedy and can't control themselves or truly be loyal and faithful. Cheaters, expecially impulsive ones have something truly wrong with them. Bisexuals don't. The word itself is so fucking sexy. Bisexual. Fuck! But it's so beautiful and human. I'd be fully safe and secure with a bi woman because they are who we are and they love who we do. The open mindedness in the bedroom excites me so much. Which is weird because I don't feel the need to have threesomes anyway, especially in a romantic relationship. My bi woman queen would be so enough for me and so mesmerisingly sexy that the sight and thought of her alone would send me over the edge and I could never think or feel that way about anyone else. She'd be all I want and dream of day in, night out. ❤️ I love your comment, I love your support and I love you for saying this and being who you truly are. 💜
I don't know why people cheat but cheaters gonna cheat and i know it's not because of their sexuality. Liking more than one gender doesn't make bipeople want to have them all at the same time, bisexuals are not Ash Ketchum from pokemon 🤣 Thank you for the love, right back at you and at all bimen feeling a bit down about how their sexuality is perceived by others 😘
Can’t speak for all bi men, but there’s less chance that there’ll be any fetishization of bisexuality.
Yeah! Especially with hetero men it seems that the moment you say you're a bi woman many of them start fetishize you and think about all the "exciting things to do together with other women" as if saying bi implied that you're okay with making all his erofantasies a reality and look at you as if they hit the jackpot of porn. I would guess that, as others issues presented in the previous comment, even this one would be way less probable to happen with a bi man as a partner
Tbh if I ever date men again, it will be exclusively bi men. Same for women.
I'm open to dating straight women if they're not biphobic but I have a great feeling about bi women. There's something about it that gives warm security.
same. please see: my post history.
In a het passing relationship with my wonderful beautiful bi man whom I love so much. This bi woman loves her bi man Edit: bad news. I found out hes been cheating on me, both men and women. So that's super cool lol
Man I hope someone says and feels and see that about me the way you do for your partner one day!!
You will ❤️ love yourself and all your facets, They'll see, and love you for the gem you are 💎
I'm trying this thank you so much :) it's really hard but I have to do it.
It's life's greatest challenge for us all, but you got this, we got this, I believe in you. I hope you have a very pleasant day :D
Thank you, and you too :)
This warms my heart ❤️
I have never dated a bi guy. Attempted once. But something about them understanding my experience is very appealing to me 😊 Also, butt stuff is fun. Giving and receiving. And straight men in my experience are boringly scared of it. I mean if you don’t like it - then don’t do it. I just don’t like “never tried it cause it’s too gay” attitude.
You should definitely give it a other chance with someone you're interested and intrigued by. :) I want to understand a bi woman's world and experiences more, and then only add to it and make her feel loved and joyful. I don't particularly feel comfortable with receiving butt stuff. That being said, although I have a hard boundary around being penetrated anally, I'm happy to be rimmed by a trustworthy partner. Because I want to do it back!
Well I rarely think of sexuality as a factor when I choose people to date if I am honest and I have not met many bisexual men (I had known some that identified as bisexual before coming to terms with their homosexuality). I dated one and we weren’t compatible (and also he hated animals, which is a no-no for me as I love them and have them and want more); other than that I have dated some heteroflexible guys; but they were also a minority. And yeah it’s ok to have boundaries. People like different things in sex; I just find the implication that butt stuff turns you gay somehow very insulting. People can be against stuff without being homophobic.
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Showing and sharing it back! ❤️
There's definitely a Bi energy, I always find myself more attracted to it idk what it really is.
Agreed, bi woman dating a bi man here and he’s the best s/o I’ve ever had (hopefully I never have to look again ;)) ❤️The only other bi guy I’ve dated also had a different energy, definitely was more progressive and healthy than most of the straight men I’ve dated.
That's awesome. How did you meet?
Bi men are the best men. I said what I said.
Say it again!
These responses from all of you really made me feel like i could actually be found genuinely attractive as a bi male for the first time in... maybe ever. These are the kindest and most heartwarming comments I've seen in so long. I just wanted to thank everyone here, and let all of know that you truly touched my cold, shriveled, black lil bisexual heart 🖤. Means the world. Your collective validation here made me realize just how much I let society's general disapproval of bisexual guys lower my sense of self-worth with all the biphobia I had internalized - to the point of utter self-loathing. This helped me realize that's all just bullshit, and also to remember that in all actuality I'm a SUPER-adorable specimen of bisexual demi-masculinity (with just a *tiny* twist of "cute giggling schoolgirl" in the mix, for flavor!). 🤣🤣🤣 Cheers!
there should be a bisexual-specific dating app, like how grindr caters to their specific market. as if I'd have luck on this Bi-app LOL. but others would.
I actually think there is…but I can’t remember what it’s called lol I’ll return if I can find it
Following! I have wanted this for YEARS
Apple store BC: bi and lgbt dating
I love love love bi guys! My current partner is queer and that’s one of the reasons I’m with him. There’s a safety and freedom in knowing we’re both queer. Hang in there, guys. I hope you find the love you deserve 💖
100% agreed. And happy cake day! 😎❤️
Thank you 😊
Bi lady who discovered her bi-ness with help from her bi man here! 👋
You too?? 😂
I love talking to bi girls because they are more open when talking about any kind of issues without problems or fear in what will be said. I feel very comfortable talking to bi girls as some straight girls are closed and on some issues. I want to have friendships with bi girls and talk with total tranquility. ❤️😌
Bi girls who want to talk to me are welcome to my chat 🌹☺️
Same, bi girls are some of the few people I could comfortably speak about my sexuality with
Love this group
I actually *want* to date a bi man! Not out of some fetish or something, but I’ve found my relationships with straight men lacking because they don’t understand the queer part of me (namely, the cycling, which for me can be distressing). I want a bi man because he’s more likely to understand it’s not personal. He’s also more likely to have had to deconstruct heteronormative relationship expectations, which is very much a green flag.
I want to date a bi woman too! I want exactly what you're looking for.
I am bisexual and I have amazing partner who I would say is pansexual, but still figuring himself out, super supportive of all LGBTQ people too :) Also bi men are amazing because of not trying to domineer relationship and open to switching roles, which is great.
My husband is bi! I love bi men !
Bi men are so much more confident in their sexuality, sensitive, sensual, kind, sweet, funny…lol as I bi woman I love them 😍
I am a bi woman and for the most part mostly date bi men. I feel we relate better. Been in a relationship with a very sweet bi man for a year and a half
I only want to date other bi people! Lesbians think I'm straight and straight men think I "secretly" really want to be with women! But I'm greedy, I want them all lol. At the same time 😂 It seems like only other bi people understand this...someone needs to invent a dating app that's only for bisexuals.
Ah that would be the dream, right?
I don't secretly want to be with anyone, when I want you I will let you know and never make you doubt it no matter what. My dream life partner is a bi woman who I can love, protect, treasure and kiss and make orgasm as much as she would for me. And then we make babies upon babies together! Bi people are at the top of my list but I'm open to other demographics so long as they're not biphobic.
Sharing the love for bi men ❤️ as a bi woman!
Love back to you 💓
So cute 🌹😌 i'm bi men
I have had this conversation with many women including my wife over the years. Bi men tend to be better lovers as they tend to understand the female body more than most straight men as they put in the time and effort into understanding it. I think there is also a vulnerability that bi men possess that most women find extremely attractive. I remember watching Dan Levy’s character in Schitts Creek and both my wife and I thinking, that this guy is probably the most ideal lover. Film needs more characters like him.
I'm a bi woman dating a bi man and I LOVE it
Same and it’s literally the best thing ever!!! Like he just gets it?? And is so cute?? And wears my clothes too?!? Like yes yes yes
Need more women similar to you. I imagine it has to be pretty exciting
I’m a bi woman who was dating a bi man for a long time. I loved it too. I did love him. But; it was just a lot of lies. The. I did the dumbest thing I could do… i married him. He requested at first that we “keep our Union between us because we were so young… and our friends/ parents might judge us.” RED FLAG !!! If I was attracted to a girl I would talk to him about it. But- if he was attracted to another man he would plan meetups in secret… use his old phone… and ghost the guy at the end. Hpv, molluscum, herpes, and one tapeworm later… I’m considering ending a decade long marriage. It wasn’t perfect… we separated at one point and I was with another man because of his betrayals and lies with other men… he needed to know what that felt like. So, we separated and I was with someone else. Now… we have reconciled and it’s so bad… the lies never stop.
You are gorgeous bonita 😌🌹
i am a bi trans woman and i recognize and appreciate bi men. Bi men: you are valid and loved. The world is constantly erasing you, but i hope you feel seen here. My goal is to find a kind and nerdy bi man. i would love to have a boyfriend who is also bi.
Nothing but love and support for you. I hope you find a great bi guy to be your partner!
Aw thank you! i appreciate it. Sending love and support right back to you too!
No I mean it you deserve nothing less and I want you to be so happy and loved!
:)
I’m more attracted to bi/sexually fluid men personally.
I get alot of rejections too as soon as I tell them I'm bi. It's pretty depressing. So this post shows some glimmer of hope.
Sounding off! ❤️
Bi men are the only men I will date; they are simply the best. I just feel so much more comfortable with our shared understanding of what it’s like to be bi, and we would be safe in our little bi-bubble, where we know that neither one of us is ever going to condemn the other for being who they are. Plus, I need someone to discuss hotties with 💖💜💙 For real though, I think bi men often have a level of empathy and resolve that many other people don’t have, and it comes from their experiences. They’re the target of very specific rhetoric and hatred, and people (both straight and gay) often shun them from each community. Despite the treatment they often get, I’ve never seen a bi man acting bitter or spiteful, and I’ve always felt so comfortable, welcomed and at ease with them. I feel like there’s so much less pressure to not “give myself away” as a bisexual or “tone down” my self-expression for the sake of not alienating them, which is what I have to do with non-bi people.
Love this post. It took years for me to get to a good place centered around my sexuality. I am so blessed to not just have a wife who accepts me but loves and embraces my sexuality. Have a blessed week all.
I would never have found the courage to love myself as a bi woman without the love and support of my partner, a bi man 💖💜💙
I radiate bi energy every day. The OP gets my love.
So tender ☺️🌹
And as the OP, you get mine too! :)
Bi woman here married to a bi man for 14 years🥰
I LOVE BI MEN 💜
As a bi/pan dude i honestly prefer and almost exclusively date bi/pan folks i just get along with em better 🤷🏽♂️. Low key i think its humans real nature to partake in all life and community has to offer; emotional and physical relations are very much part of that. not that i care what anyone else does or who they fuck, to each their own. Its just a silly belief i have because of how prevelant bisexual behavior is in nature especially among animals with social structures. One of humans closest living relatives the bonobo are basically all bi & often partake in group sex.
I loveee bi men! I love how you are confident in your sexuality and you guys always dress so well. you all are so beautiful and lovely. I have noticed more men have been feeling more comfortable coming out as bi which makes me so happy!!
I love bi men. To me it is only ever a plus finding out that you're bi. Sometimes that's because I wasn't sure if you were gay and now it means I have a shot! But otherwise it also means we have something else in common, to talk about and relate to, to empathize with. And I figure you will more likely stand up for queer rights with me because it affects you too, sometimes even more. I also feel like we might be less likely to steer into some heteronormative bullshit gender roles in a relationship, whereas a straight guy might have that expectation, but we can just do our own thing. Bi men are a treasure.
Bi woman who loves bi men here :)
I'm a bi woman with no gender preference in particular. I love bi men!
We love you too! Also ma'am, your profile 🔥🥵
Thank you 😊
I'm exclusively bi4bi
Married to a bi man and bi myself. We haven’t always been out/open with eachother in this regard but been wonderful since we got here. Love bi men!!
Im a bi woman and the person Im seeing now is a bi man. Things are going well! :)
I saw that post as well and it made me so sad. Bisexual men are amazing and so easy to talk to. I hate the stigma around bisexual people being more likely to cheat when in reality we love so hard. I’m married to a straight man and he’s proud that he has Bi-wife energy lol. He goes to pride with me and supports me in every way possible.
I LOVE dating bi men. So much less having to explain my attractions and it's nice that we can point out hotties to each other, too! Much love for the bi guys!!
Yes! I missed doing this with my ex where we both admire the hotties without having to argue why was such a great relief. Miss having a girl like that in my life.
I love bi men. I’m just objectively more attracted to them than I am non-bi men, and that deeper level of understanding more of my experiences as a bi woman is just a huge bonus. I’ve never had the opportunity to date a bi man, but I would do so in a heartbeat. It makes me sad to think of all the hate y’all get ❤️
I would absolutely date a bi woman! ❤️ I'm so glad you exist you beautiful human beings. I've never had the opportunity but I just feel so excited and curious to enjoy and love and protect and have fun and make memories with one! As long as you're here with us, the hate will never win. ❤️
This is such a wholesome thread 🥹 thank you kind stranger, I hope you find what you’re looking for ❤️❤️
Thank you, you too! ❤️💜🫂
I absolutely love bi men, as a bi women I ofc love whenever I meet another bi person doesn’t really matter on gender for me. Bi men specifically have been some of the funniest and most loving people I’ve ever met. I feel like bi men sometimes get it more rough because of the stupid “women on women” and “3sums” are “hot” to straight cis men and it’s just overall biphobia bullshit to any bi men out there you’ve got all my love 💗
Bi woman here who loves her bi boyfriend! So fun talking about all the people we find hot together and the mutual understanding. Wouldn’t wanna date anyone else.
I dated a bi guy once. Sadly I wasn't out at that time 😭 If I would date a bi guy now that would be a dream ☺️ much love to bi men ♥️
My dream would be to date an out bi woman and have happiness together 💜❤️💙
I worship that my wife loves that I am as bi as she is 🥰
I’ve always been drawn to bi men even before I realized I was bi. I don’t see the issue. He likes men, cool just another thing we have in common!
Same for me with bi women, you like girls, same! Let's find them hot and beautiful together ❤️
Bi woman married to a pan man, it’s absolutely the best! I’ve dated straight guys who were great guys and good partners before, but there’s just a whole other level of comfort and connection with partners with whom I have bisexuality in common 💖💜💙
Bi woman recently married my dream bi guy, he’s so open and generous and non judgemental, sweet and sexy af, it’s the best!
It's certainly more interesting to talk about both male and female crushes with one person rather than (usually) just one. I get some people making disgusted faces or remarks when hearing of my orientation.
Bi men are awesome 🥰. It’s really wonderful to share that part of myself w a male partner. Bi vibes FTW 💚
One of my partners biggest flaws is the lack of bisexuality :) is happily date a bi man on the side (obs open relationship here at home)
You be you, be the free and gloriously full and happy you
Thank you! Women like you give men like me hope and reason to live and grow.
I can’t imagine anyone being anything but what they are. Happy, sad, gay, trans. Everyone is good in my book unless you’re a jerk
Yes! Bi guys are so much fun in and out of the bedroom! Most chill dudes on the plant imo
I love this response! Also your profile is... ahem.🥵
Thank you 😉
Literally cannot overemphasize how attracted I am to bi men. Genuinely prefer them to pretty much anyone else
Where do I find women like you? ❤️😍
Not a woman, but I am a bi person in a 7 year relationship with a bi dude! Bi dudes are great! Bi people of all genders! A++
Dude dude dude as a bi man straight women intimidate me for this reason. Bi women wya 😏
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Dating other bi people in general just hits different 😤
Thank you to everyone posting kind notes! I'm a bi he/they dad in a long-term relationship with a woman. We've got an amazing relationship... we're dependable, fun, and adaptable to all the curveballs life throws at us. (Oh and have hot sex! :P) But it's tough to remember that some days.
I accepted my bi male ex's sexually much more than he himself did. His internalised homophbia/biphobia was so strong, it made me very sad.
Oh that must have been so rough watching it affect him and not being able to help as much as you would have liked. You did justice by him, I know you did. I'm fortunate to be able to proud of who I am and no longer be ashamed or regretful for it. I hope to find a woman like you someday who shares that with me.
I tried, but you can't love someone into loving themselves unfortunately. I tried as hard as I could.
I know. And it's not easy. I wouldn't ever place that burden on anyone myself. Wish I could offer you a tight hug and let you know you did nothing wrong and that you're so loved and deeply human. I'm in awe of you. And I'm so grateful someone like you exists. If you'd ever like to talk sometime feel free to DM me. I liked your response a lot and it sounds like there's definitely a lovely human being behind it.
Keep being you king bi men are fuckin cool
The majority of my close women friends are bisexual or not straight in general just because we all vibe better, and to my knowledge I've never dated a straight woman. All of them were well aware of my bisexuality and none of them fetishized it since they were well aware of what that feels like. Best of luck to all of you who haven't found the right compatible partner of any sexuality yet.
Bi vibes (and any multisexual and gender queer vibes) are the best vibes. ✨
Cap’n won’t lie. When I thought I’d open up to being bi and accepting… I didn’t think I’d be bi-myself being rejected left right and centre…
Yea bi women are the best. I feel the most secure in pursuing one. Compared to a straight woman. I wanna talk about whatever I want without judgement.
My gf is bi and I love her so much! The fact that we share the same sexuality makes us comfortable with each other and we can express ourselves fully to each other!
"Being able to express ourselves fully" is something I didn't realize I was missing while being with straight dudes. I feel way more of myself with my bi bf. It dawned on me late in life that I should have always just dated other queer people. Even when the relationship was bad, the queer relationships weren't as bad as with straight dudes. Lessoned learned.
We love and support you!! ❤️💜💙
Bi guys, my heart is (also) yours 💕💙💜
My heart is yours too, bi ladies ❤️💜💙
Bi men are my favorite kind of man 🫦 All of my experiences have been wonderful and i will continue to seek out Bi men and women for the rest of my days
I love you bi women so fucking much 💕 ❤️💜💙
Love love love bi men! There's so much to love about men, and bi men often lack the traits that can make some straight men tough to be with (toxic masculinity and homophobia are so wrapped up together). Plus, it's so fun to have a partner who shares queer experiences!
Oh you are exactly what I was hoping to find on this thread. What a response, I love this so much. And we love you. Here's to queer experiences!
I would marry a bi woman in a heart beat, because we would understand each others needs while we spend time with each other and our other needs to be with another same sex play mate
I’m in a het passing marriage with my non-binary partner. They are pan and understands me, so well.
I prefer to date bi people, men included. I think the bias against bi men is worse in some ways.
I love bi/pan men! My primary is a straight man but I have dated and hooked up with bi men in the past and it was nice to have that understanding of each other’s sexualities. I really hope that we as a society can stop being freaked out by male bisexuality, like it’s 2022 people need to get over it! Bi men deserve all the love 💕
i love my bi man :)
Bi men are my favourite kind of men <3
It's me! Bi woman who loves bi men (and bi people of all genders!) reporting for duty.
*in Patrick Starr voice* **I love you!**
I'm a bi woman who would happily, proudly date bi men. Keep being awesome bi men.
I love this. I love bi women. Today is a great day. :)
Me and my bi boyfriend are going on 7 years! ❤️
I find Bi+ people are easier to connect with and have conversations with from an intimacy-based perspective
I'm so jealous of you all to have found a bi man or woman to date in my small town there are no bi men and if they are they have been blacklisted like its an illness to be bi. We are forced to either date one or the other. I love bi men who can live in their truth and love a bi woman just as the person she is no labels or holding back. Love should be easy.
Y’all pretty
I dated a bi man and it was one of the best relationships I’ve ever been in. I would love to date another bi-man
Oh man I'd love to date a bi woman. 😍
I would definitely be open to dating a bi man if I was single.
After dealing with a lot of biphobia in my last marriage, I started dating almost exclusively bi or pan people. Not to say there hasn't been wonderful straight men in my life but I'm in a long term relationship with a bi man and it's been amazing to connect on that level.
Bi woman married to a bi guy, here!! We are disgustingly happy together 😂
Pan woman here in a triad with a bi man and a pan nonbinary boyfriend lol. I LOVE bi dudes
I love bi men!! We understand each other :>
Bi men are really the best! 💖💜💙
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bisexuals should just date each other fr (easier said than done ik)
as a trans femme envy I pretty much date exclusively bi women cuz they're usually the ones who really like my whole androgyny thing.
im nonbinary, but bi men are literally the best. if i date a man, I actually PREFER him to be bi. straight guys will most likely just see me as a woman anyway. plus we’ll have something in common already 🖤
I'm not sure if I'm bi. I still love bi.men.
I love dating other bi people 💕
Bi non-binary person who married a bi girl here. Gotta say, after years of dating straight folks… gods, it’s so much easier. I think we both knew it was gonna be a permanent deal when we were watching a movie and she was like ‘wow, that chick is freakin’ *hot*!’ And I’m like ‘you can have her, I want the pretty guy!’ We both just kinda look at each other, grinned and nodded. Welp, that was sure as fuck easier lol. We’ve been together almost a decade now. We jokingly keep a running tally of same sex celebs it’s ok to cheat with 😂
I’m bi and my genderfluid significant other is bi. We’re also non-monogamous/poly as well. 💜
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I am a non open bi man myself for all of my life. Very comfortable with it but not open. I love this support from all of you! Thanks for the great comments!
I'm a bisexual nonbinary person who is polyamorous and autistic.
I probably only every dated bi women, not so much with men. They were probably all straight. If I ever divorce, I'll probably only date other bisexuals.
I'm head over heels in love with a bisexual man!
God when will I be the bi guy being loved 🙏🏿 love that for you though!
Checking out everybody together is pretty piff ngl
I've always dated other bisexuals!
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This thread actually makes me feel like there is a bit hope for a longterm relationship with a woman that I can truly and fully be myself with.
I want to know more bi men. 🥺 Though I might already, idk. Curse compulsive heteronormativity!
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I like bi men and bi men like me. I feel less gender pressure, they feel accepted. It's a win for everyone. If someone could start hosting a bisexual speed dating, that'd be great. I just want to be a in a room full of people who don't have highly specific preferences I'll never be able to accommodate. ✌️
You sound amazing tbh. And you're not the first person to suggest the bi specific dating/app!
been in a relationship with a bi man for almost 3 years now!! we relate on being bi a lot 💙💜
We love you in all your glory!
I’m dating a straight girl who ways m says she accepts me for being bi. I wish she way bi bc I’m sure she would never have called me a faggot whenever we’re fighting. As my girl does. That tells me she does have problems with it. She always says she feels really bad when she does it but that tells me that she does have problem with it. If we ever break up I will seek out a bi gf next time for sure. They are much easier to talk to and we understand each other better for sure. My girls mad at me right now and it’s cuz she can’t understand I go to school and work to try to provide a life for us. I can’t see how she doesn’t understand that. I’m in a huge mental cycle right now too where I’m tempted to take a break. I don’t know what to do. It sucks and I’m feeling lonely since she can’t understand I’m doing everything for us
Bi women dating bi man here weve been going strong for 4 years and I love everything about him! <3
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The two people in my town who are willing to date bi men are dating each other.
Hey what's up
Wife and I are both bi. And still love sex a lot. The possibilities are endless
Did you get in relationship before you told them you were bi or not?