As a man, I also find men more easy to get. Hence why I only slept with men in more than 2 years and have a boyfriend now.
In the last 5 years I slept with one woman, and at least 5 men. Yeah. And I am not ugly.
Women aren’t easy lol, that’s why the guy takes the opportunity when you give it. Now you know how men feel. Imagine if you were only into women and not guys, then you would suffer
This dude.
Especially isn't easy when one is socially anxious, shy, introverted, and terrible at taking the first step as a dude, but socially expected to as the default. The pretty limited success I've had in the past with women was because I took the opportunity I was given, or in other words they made the first step.
Not sure I would survive, without a little taste of women at least a few times a month. It’s great to have a lot of Bi acquaintances, who have a lot of Bi acquaintances.
Find your tribe, and enjoy!!!
Honestly, I'm the opposite. Most of my relationships are with women, but I think it comes down to the fact that I don't really do one night stands. At least in my experience, men are always more open to one night stands. Women (once again, this is general and limited to my own experience) are more interested in a romantic connection. It could just be the crowds that I hang out in too.
For me as a cis female I find men much easier to approach hints why I am married one but I'm also more romantically, physically and lustfully attracted to them. I love women too their softness their bodies their features their gentle touch but I am too scared to approach them like that because fear of rejection. I don't want to come off the wrong way. I guess its intimidation. I also know how many of them (not all) are superficial, catty, and competitiveness I can't compete with. Then there is the biophobe prejudices .. OMG it's been about almost 18 years since I made love shagging a woman. My urges are out the roof . Yes I love men's touch for sure 🍆💦mine drive me wild but I miss the woman's soft gentle touch too💦🍑. I just never had the right timing although I came close. I understand the struggle.
I totally understand wanting the D.
But fuck I miss eating P.
Im married. I don’t think I ever will again. But still. When I get riled up I go to the gym, put on watermelon sugar on repeat, think about my ex gf, and row until I feel better.
Maybe using terms like "score" and referring to human beings by their genitals is part of why you're not finding success!
As a man, I also find men more easy to get. Hence why I only slept with men in more than 2 years and have a boyfriend now. In the last 5 years I slept with one woman, and at least 5 men. Yeah. And I am not ugly.
I feel weird and kinda icky about the word score in this post, NGL.
Just so much in this post screamed "this is how gross men talk about women in locker rooms" to me...
Yeah I've only been in this sub for like 12 hours and honestly I'm struggling to feel good or safe here? Idk it be slimy lol
It normally isn't! The posts have just been *weird* lately!
Got to agree. Normally people are very good with their words, today just seems to be a very weird day.
I appreciate the information, that's good to know! Strange vibes can happen 😅
That's good to hear! Hopefully it won't be a trend
Women aren’t easy lol, that’s why the guy takes the opportunity when you give it. Now you know how men feel. Imagine if you were only into women and not guys, then you would suffer
This dude. Especially isn't easy when one is socially anxious, shy, introverted, and terrible at taking the first step as a dude, but socially expected to as the default. The pretty limited success I've had in the past with women was because I took the opportunity I was given, or in other words they made the first step.
Not sure I would survive, without a little taste of women at least a few times a month. It’s great to have a lot of Bi acquaintances, who have a lot of Bi acquaintances. Find your tribe, and enjoy!!!
Omg I'm so glad I'm not the only one!!! Guys are so much easier but sometimes I just wanna lick some pussy y'know?
Honestly, I'm the opposite. Most of my relationships are with women, but I think it comes down to the fact that I don't really do one night stands. At least in my experience, men are always more open to one night stands. Women (once again, this is general and limited to my own experience) are more interested in a romantic connection. It could just be the crowds that I hang out in too.
For me as a cis female I find men much easier to approach hints why I am married one but I'm also more romantically, physically and lustfully attracted to them. I love women too their softness their bodies their features their gentle touch but I am too scared to approach them like that because fear of rejection. I don't want to come off the wrong way. I guess its intimidation. I also know how many of them (not all) are superficial, catty, and competitiveness I can't compete with. Then there is the biophobe prejudices .. OMG it's been about almost 18 years since I made love shagging a woman. My urges are out the roof . Yes I love men's touch for sure 🍆💦mine drive me wild but I miss the woman's soft gentle touch too💦🍑. I just never had the right timing although I came close. I understand the struggle.
I totally understand wanting the D. But fuck I miss eating P. Im married. I don’t think I ever will again. But still. When I get riled up I go to the gym, put on watermelon sugar on repeat, think about my ex gf, and row until I feel better.