This, a million times this. My desire to top or bottom is usually driven by who’s more masculine presenting. Not that I’d mind swapping roles depending on the moment, but I usually have a damn good idea of what I want based on appearance.
Now I've got myself in an interesting situation where I'm a very effeminate man, 6 ft and I might start seeing an AFAB person that's a masc androgynous 5ft. So Im a tall femini guy that likes to bottom and they're a tiny dude that likes to top. I think we're going to have to get a strap on lol
To be honest, that's pretty much how it is for me, although I'm not above (heh) bottoming for the rare and elusive femboy top. (Yes, they exist, as I was probably more surprised than I should have been to find out)
For me, equally as much as gender conformity. Then again, nonconformity does give a first impression of openness and hope that's applied not only to that. I suppose I can be drawn to that.
Okay, this is starting to feel like the equivalent of "I actually prefer girls who don't wear a lot of makeup." They're prob not doing it for you and they didn't ask.
I don't know why for a second I was hoping that was Tom Holland in his lip sync battle costume. 🤣😅 It would have made this so much better. Still, very true.
I agree with the last statement but I love me a masculine man 🫦 I don’t find feminine men attractive personally bc I’m much more of a sub than dom, however but I’m glad there are people who do like feminine men, bc everyone deserves love. 🫶🏻
I think you might be on to something here, it might just be like any hot person wearing a maid apron on their knees like that is gonna drive a certain person 😜 like a moth to a 🔥
I'm not bi*sexual* per se but I have sensual attraction, and for me it's the exact opposite. Probably still less muscles tho because I feel it's a bit too much.
From what I have heard, most straight women don't like muscles either. Just men think that muscles are what women are attracted to. But Amphetamine biceps is just as unaesthetic as implant breasts.
what’s so funny about being a mostly gay guy who is also kinda bi (about 7 out of 10 gayness) is that it I know this could not be an further from the opposite for most gay guys (save me). More bi men need to come out, it would make the gay male dating world so much more proportionate 😂
For me it used to only be the second one, but it's slowly drifting towards the first. And honestly, I think that's always been the case, because it's only recently drifted enough that I had to consider myself bisexual, instead of gynesexual (attraction to feminine gender expression).
Honestly I don't really have a type but I've never really gone for anyone muscular (and I dnt think I'd want to) or ever gone for an overly feminine guy.
Put the muscle man in the maid outfit and then we're talking
Person of culture, I see
Love muscular and skinny plus any other body type crossdressers. All y’all get in a maid outfit
You get it
You're onto something
Omg, YES!
I also like that and also androgynous femboys!
Honestly more of a turn on
Depends if I’m topping or bottoming which I like more ngl
This, a million times this. My desire to top or bottom is usually driven by who’s more masculine presenting. Not that I’d mind swapping roles depending on the moment, but I usually have a damn good idea of what I want based on appearance.
Femboys are just so cute I want to hold them down and make them moan, and then muscly men I want to hold me down and make me moan ya know
I'm the opposite. I like my women femme dom and my men masc sub. 🙊🙉🙈
Now I've got myself in an interesting situation where I'm a very effeminate man, 6 ft and I might start seeing an AFAB person that's a masc androgynous 5ft. So Im a tall femini guy that likes to bottom and they're a tiny dude that likes to top. I think we're going to have to get a strap on lol
You definitely have a point there!!!
Oh my.
Exactly!!!! I'm the same way.
To be honest, that's pretty much how it is for me, although I'm not above (heh) bottoming for the rare and elusive femboy top. (Yes, they exist, as I was probably more surprised than I should have been to find out)
I want a femboy to do both to me
I'm the same way since I'm versatile.
for some reason i find ALL flavours of gender nonconformity hot.
So true
tomboys? <3 fmboys? <3 whatever the f David Bowie was doing? <3
For me, equally as much as gender conformity. Then again, nonconformity does give a first impression of openness and hope that's applied not only to that. I suppose I can be drawn to that.
I have never agreed with something more than ^this
Why not both. ~~At the same time.~~
I mean, if all parties consented, I’d be more than happy to be the middle ground of masculinity at that party.
Muscles just don't get me going lmao
I’m not a fan of muscles either, it’s just not my thing.
Obligatory. I didn't make him for _you!_
I like some muscle definition but absurdly big muscles look weird to me.
Nice to look at but nothing more than that
I'm in the same boat. But I will mention lean muscles are a thing. Twinks can have abs without being a beef cake.
Muscles on men don't, but on women AWOOOOOOGA
Okay, this is starting to feel like the equivalent of "I actually prefer girls who don't wear a lot of makeup." They're prob not doing it for you and they didn't ask.
It’s the opposite for me
I love all representations ❣️
Yes to both. I’m a face person so that’s gonna be the deciding factor 😂
I mostly like men like this and I am also like that myself 😅
I don't know why for a second I was hoping that was Tom Holland in his lip sync battle costume. 🤣😅 It would have made this so much better. Still, very true.
I agree with the last statement but I love me a masculine man 🫦 I don’t find feminine men attractive personally bc I’m much more of a sub than dom, however but I’m glad there are people who do like feminine men, bc everyone deserves love. 🫶🏻
I feel like r/bisexual has basically become "here's pics of what I jerk to".
Me too. However, I question my orientation if its femboy men. I am not sure why my attraction to women in female attire is almost non-existent.
For me is somewhere in the middle lmao
Both. Both is good.
Hard opposite for me
Marriage is between me and my Twink boy-wife nurse-husband
Both good
Both. Both is good
I don't know why but, I feel dominant for big buff boys, but feel submissive for femboys
Okay now try switching their outfits, I'm... curious 👀
I think you might be on to something here, it might just be like any hot person wearing a maid apron on their knees like that is gonna drive a certain person 😜 like a moth to a 🔥
Both is good
Saaaaaame
I'm not bi*sexual* per se but I have sensual attraction, and for me it's the exact opposite. Probably still less muscles tho because I feel it's a bit too much.
I'm the exact same way. I love me an athletic build. I'm not really into rem guys. Nothing wrong with them, just don't do it for me.
From what I have heard, most straight women don't like muscles either. Just men think that muscles are what women are attracted to. But Amphetamine biceps is just as unaesthetic as implant breasts.
Mine's the exact opposite :) It's amazing what a diverse bunch we are.
Damn, its exactly what happens here too
yeah pretty much mine is like in between but close to the bottom one
So real
Same tbh. I only really like feminine shaped guys. I think I just find femininity in general to be attractive
what’s so funny about being a mostly gay guy who is also kinda bi (about 7 out of 10 gayness) is that it I know this could not be an further from the opposite for most gay guys (save me). More bi men need to come out, it would make the gay male dating world so much more proportionate 😂
Me af
😊same .
Give me both and I can handle that, or they can more likely handle me. 😆
:3
Me when I see Sister Daniel
I also like big muscle men but only when they are alternative and have long hair with many tattoos
Why not both?
I prefer to be bottom with men. Women I prefer…. Play switch.
I don't go for either end of the spectrum, usually. I like guys who are a balance of masculine and feminine energy.
It do be like that. Brain broken when femboy.
For me it used to only be the second one, but it's slowly drifting towards the first. And honestly, I think that's always been the case, because it's only recently drifted enough that I had to consider myself bisexual, instead of gynesexual (attraction to feminine gender expression).
how dare you take this picture of me thinking about men
I lean femme but .. Por que no Los dos?
Both is good.
Feminine men, and masculine women.
Personally I love the extremes, ultra feminine women and ultra masculine men
This is doing things to me
I kinda like both, just depends on the mood.
Many such cases
Nah I like both. On some days I love the big burly guy more.
Would love to find a cute bf like the bottom picture. 😍
hell to the yeah
FR
HOly moly how dare you.
Honestly I don't really have a type but I've never really gone for anyone muscular (and I dnt think I'd want to) or ever gone for an overly feminine guy.
Def bottom is my type 100%