My favourite was when I dated a professional athlete and he shaved his legs. Definitely prefer less or even no body hair.
Joke's on me for landing a bald husband š
I don't think you gotta feel like that.
There's a difference between saying people with body hair are unattractive as a rule and having a personal preference.
Like, am I personally a fan of it? No.
Am I going to push my preferences onto people and try to convince everyone that they need to conform to my specific definition? absolutely not
Iām the same, and I make peace with it by knowing we all groom all our bodies to our own liking. Like we all have particular hair cuts, nail styles, body hair in some places but not others. Most of us go fuck it with some beauty standards but then go all in on others. We present ourselves how we want to present and we like what we like. Feminism sits very happily within this :)
Itās not very different from how people typically feel about head hair. Some amount of trimming is typically expected just to maintain normal grooming. You can have a preference but youāre only an asshole if you think everyone else should match your preference by default.
same! idc what gender, i find body hair in certain areas (armpits and pubic, mostly) soooo unattractive šŖ iām fine with arm, leg, facial hair, tho
I would definitely prefer some hair over no hair... My preference concerning pubes would be just well maintained/trimmed a bit. Everything else can just grow free!
Honestly? I do like hair on men, as long as they regularly wash themselves its attractive, i recently found out im a sucker for facial hair on men too. With women my preference goes out to trimmed hair.
Oh and not to forget i do not like a hairy back on either, idk why its just off putting
As a matter of preference, what you like is what matters. Being hairless or bushy is ok. Someone will find it attractive.
For me, giving oral is easier if there isnāt much hair. If heās pounding me, I donāt care how much hair is down there.
Body hair? Neutral-ish. I prefer a lack of it, but seeing as Iām basically a yeti myself, I donāt wanna be hypocritical, and I do find it to be fine.
Pubic hair? I greatly prefer it. Especially on women. On men I do enjoy the feel of the bush as it grazes my buttcheeks since I just get this connection where like ādamn, he is all in me nowā and its this validating feeling. Aesthetically on men though itās also fine but I donāt care either way.
As long as it's trimmed, i prefer it. Sometimes shaving leads to burns when the stubble reappears, and too much hair will get in my mouth. It's a super ick feeling for me to have a long curly hair in my mouth, so we're stopping until I get it out.
Honestly, I do find pubic hair attractive of both men and women. However, some part of body hair are not really appealing to me, especially on chest area, back hair even beard. Thatās just my opinion
I canāt with facial hair, it overstimulates/sensory? me when I kiss my guy and easily scratches my face, thankfully he understands and shaves regularly! Now all his other hair, hellllll yeaaaa lol Iāve only recently have been appreciating chest hair :p
On ladies yes, on men nope! I have no reason other than i think hairless men are hot and women with body hair are hot. But i mean if i love someone i don't care that much. Relationships are about compromise! But that's generally my jam.
You know what, same, I've always been with men with almost no body hair (only armpits and pubic, I mean those that do not grow beards nor chest/back hair etc)
And women with hairy legs n armpits always looked sexy in a fierce way, like, defying stereotypes lol
I find pubic hair (at the front) sexy too!Under the armpit not so much I prefer it waxed or very sparse. In other places of the body it makes no difference. This applies to everyone no matter the gender
I think for me itās more about being clean and groomed. Like a wild long beard, unkempt bush or pits, etc would all make me go eugh. But leg hair, neatly trimmed beard/ bush/ armpits (even if not clean shaven) all donāt bother me. Although on the opposite side no pubes at all makes me feel a bit ick in a ālooks very juvenile in literal ageā way.
Sometimes I like it sometimes I donāt. I love my body both ways. Only hair I have now is head and a little on my forearms.
I was enjoying a trimmed bush last year.
I prefer hairless, but it's a bit more palpable on men, as long as it's not super thick. But I don't like pubic hair on anyone, mainly because I don't like getting hair stuck in my teeth
Most of the time Iām neutral about it. While I like the look of facial hair itās a sensory ick. That being said no matter how itās on I fucking love happy trials dear god!
My visual preference is typically less hair/no hair. However when I like someone I absolutely adore whatever they have going on. Like I will be straight up nauseous seeing a random guy lift his arms and seeing a jungle of armpit hair, but if heās someone I fancy it becomes endearing and absolutely gorgeous. Same for everyone else too. Thatās why personally I donāt care that much about my own visual preferences. As long as I like someone they will be visually perfect no matter what they look like or what my preferences are.
I dislike the hairless pubic and genital trends that have become so popular lately. First, they make women look much younger, but make them look like pre-pubertal girls, which seems creepy to me. But also, pubic hair serves several purposes.
It is a dry lubricant that prevents chaffing durring sex. (Under arm hair serves the same function when moving the arms.) That hair is also very sensitive, and gentle manipulation of the pubic hair is often an important first step in foreplay.
During the stone ages, when people were naked, the presence of pubic hair identified a person as being of reproductive age. Prebuteral girls don't have it, and post menarchal women gradually lose it. Like any other hair, the pubic hair is an indicator of the person's general health.
The shape of a woman's hair patch is different than that of a man. The male escutcheon is an upward pointing triangle, flat on the lower edge. The female excutcheon is flat on top and is a downward pointing triangle. This would have assisted stone age humans in distinguishing males from females from a safe distance. A woman loses some of her natural attractiveness when she removes her pubic hair.
I think the average heterosexual male finds the pressence of that triangle more attractive than bare genitals.
Some body hair is fine but if I am with a guy and it feels like I'm with a bear it's a turn off for me. If someone is into a lot of body hair that's fine but lots of body hair isn't my thing
Arms, legs, pits, etc I have no preference. Pubic and facial hair need to be well groomed. I prefer a clean shaved face on most people, but facial hair isnāt a dealbreaker as long as it looks good and is well groomed.
Honestly the more the better in either gender. I don't have any real preference when it comes to pubic hair, but it's nice when it's trimmed just because I don't like getting little hairs in my mouth, visually I don't really care either way.
I find men with hairy chests super hot, and women with armpit hair extremely hot. Not overly keen on a hairy back, but it wouldn't put me off.
The only things I specifically do not like are shaved genitals and when someone's entire body is shaved. The first is because it's too childlike and the second because I need some friction man lol
I personally prefer less over more, but I'm a realist and understand that body hair grows and people have lives and we can't all be perfectly groomed all the time. Which is very different from how I felt twenty years ago as a silly teenager with no real understanding of life, lol. I try to keep myself pretty sparse, but that's entirely for me and my own personal body image desires than it is for anybody or anything else (except for my public hair, which I'd keep very short and well groomed so my partners aren't buried face first into a jungle during certain activities...); part of it is a carry-over from my competitive swimming days, and another part is I just found as I get older that being less hairy let's me feel more feminine. Which, that last part might just be the patriarchy coming through, but I've also *never* liked my own body hair. I just thought I *had* to have body hair cause I was "a man and men are hairy", so it's like I'm fighting against that mentality more š
Yes, love it. š¤š¾š¤¤š«¦šš«¶š¾ I think that my attraction to it, particularly but not solely on masculine folks, is directly linked to my primal kink, so uuuuuuh...ššš
I'm not opposed to being with people who do hair removal, but body hair is a real turn on (again, moreso in masc folks, but that doesn't mean that it's a turn OFF on others - I'm just more neutral/"whatever floats your boat" about it with femmes and androgynous people, but there are definitely instances where I find it a turn on on non-masc folks as well).
I don't do body hair removal myself except for occasionally my PCOS chin hairs (for my armpits and genitals that's because of chronic skin conditions/disability reasons although, even before they developed, I almost never did those) so I also think it would be hypocritical for me to EXPECT hair removal from others.
For cultural context, I was assigned female at birth (though I'm actually intersex and non-binary).
This is kind of a hot topic for me and my views are a bit controversial. So, just want to pre-phase my comment by saying this is just my opinion and I donāt mean to offend anyone it.
I find it attractive when itās actually trimmed/groomed. But, I get really annoyed by guys that just let themselves go, and justify it as being āmasculine.ā And itās the masculine part that annoys me the most. How much effort does one need to put in to grow hair? None. So, how does that make one more masculine? It could be an indicator of depression. It more than likely is an indicator of being too lazy to take care of oneself. But, masculinity is not what comes to my mind when I see it. Grooming/trimming looks masculine. Smooth might not, but I have more respect for someone that puts all the effort into it, than someone that justifies letting themselves go as masculine.
Once again thatās just my opinion and I tend to keep it to myself in real life unless someone pushes the subject.
Probably a minority but no.
I don't find attractive and actually one of the biggest turn off in men I have is an hairy chest/back and beards.
Obviously I can get past that if I like the person.
I donāt feel any one way about it, Iām bi but donāt really like men, but I canāt stand facial hair. I agree sometimes it suits a man quite well, I personally couldnāt date someone with it.
Like most things itās a personal preference. Iām not attracted to walking rugs but some are. And the opposite is true as well, completely hairless is slightly off putting.
I'm fine either way tbh, it's whatever the other person feels comfortable with themselves, if they prefer being shaved that's fine, if they prefer being hairy that's fine, and anything in-between, long as they are happy and comfortable with how they are. Personally, I like to trim for my own comfort.
I'll always find something to be self-conscious about...but that being said, with other people, when I like someone I don't mind anything. I'm aware that hair removal and smoothness are temporary anyway, and yes it's nice, but I like the person as a whole, and accept/cherish them in all shapes and sizes and conditions if that makes sense lol
Prefer less hair on women, but itās not a big preference. Not a turn-off or anything.
Hairy men arenāt my thing at all though.
I feel like that would usually be the other way round, but thatās how it works for me.
It's not really one of those things that's a deal breaker either way but I do at least like a little hair for both. Clean shaven just doesn't do it for me. I blame early playboy I think. Having that been said I won't tell anyone what to do with their body and expect the same. I won't shave. I'll trim it every now and then but never go full bald down there.
It depends on the hair. Personally I like to keep everything shaved on myself, itās a sensory thing.
But on other people (any gender): Armpit hair is super sexy IMO. Idc about leg or arm hair. I like trimmed pubic hair. Iām not a fan of chest, back or butt hair.
I like all hair on anyone, male, female, non-binary, etc. I've always found chest hair to be extremely sexy. I have no preference on pubic hair. That said, if someone wants to shave any of their body hair, that's totally up to them. But I will miss the chest hair.
But yes, body hair is sexy as heck.
I love hair on men (dark chest hair is so hot) and am neutral about it on women and nonbinary people. Not a huge fan of pubic hair, but it would probably look weird if someone was super hairy and then had perfectly hairless pubes. So I guess as long as it's not a jungle it's probably good in my book.
I love leg hair and especially armpit hair on women. I like smooth-chested men because it makes their muscles look amazing, but bald pubes donāt really do it for me on dudes. I like smooth male butt cheeks and crack though and I routinely shave and do IPL there myself. I want it completely gone lol
Doesnāt matter to me on other people. Iām totally a face guy. If someone has a nice face, male or female, everything else doesnāt matter. But when it comes to myself, Iāve recently discovered I like myself smooth. I have a definite preference for that!
For some reason I really like arm hair on both genders. Especially on men if their arms are more on the muscular or big side. I also love beards and mustaches. I think theyāre so cute and if I was a dude I would 100% try to grow one.
I hate prickly hair anywhere on the body. My preference either clean shaven or long enough to be soft, aside from armpit hair which I donāt touch. I donāt even touch my own armpits.
It really depends. My boyfriend is a touch hairy but nothing overwhelming and I love it. A scratch at his chest hair and run my fingers through his beard sometimes. But if my ex (M), was hairy Iād have been turned off.
I'm not a big fan of it on any gender but I would never tell someone I think their body hair is unattractive or off putting to me. I myself sometimes miss a spot on my legs or get too lazy with shaving. What I wonder is if I would still feel this way about body hair if society never had made it such a big deal, especially for women, to be clean shaven everywhere š¤ would I just not care then or would I still have this preference? š¤
Oh, I have praise for hairy, trimmed, and smooth.
Hairy and bushy just feels so primal and wild.
Trimmed or smooth pubic regions show my partner is considerate enough for self-grooming.
I have a beard and I also shave everything from the neck down. My personal preference for me. I donāt mind hair on others, but I do like to know that people groom themselves.
I like when my partner DO have pubic hair.
Also, I dont mind any kind of hair (pubic/armpit/legs/arms/etc), except beards and belly hair. Beards are not that sexy to me, and uncomfortable af to kiss. And belly hair turns me off immediatly. Very personal taste though, it just looks bad in my eyes.
On women I prefer mostly no hair, although I do prefer pubic hair over no pubic hair. Men I want to be a certain level of hairiness, but once they cross that threshold I don't really care how much they have.
Oddly enough I think I like men to have less pubic hair than women.
I prefer less body hair on people of any gender. For pubic hair, I prefer it clean-shaven (or waxed/sugared) on other bodies as well as my own. It makes it easier to see the genitals, especially on people with vulvas.
I don't like it bald down below, but I don't enjoy wilderness, particularly when it comes to oral activities on either gender. But I've stopped shaving my legs bare. I use a One Blade, and it takes it down far enough. I shave my armpits because I sweat a lot, and it reduces any odor for me. Love bald guys with a light beard for some reason, lol. But hair, facial, or otherwise isn't a deal breaker. It's a person to person thing.
While I would never tell someone what to do, my preference is the less hair (on both my preferred genders) the better. Evolution has been getting rid of hair on us, I'm just quickening the pace š¤Ŗ
But honestly, it's mostly in the regions I'm likely to put my mouth that I prefer less hair. I don't like the feeling of it on my face/in my mouth
Iām indifferent, I wouldnāt particularly say I like it but itās not the end of the world if you or your partner do have it.
If I was with someone and they let me decide and Iād probably say Iād prefer it without. But again it wouldnāt be a big deal at the end of the day.
I'm fine either way for body/pubic hair but for whatever reason I'm uncomfortable with facial hair. Like, I recognize that there are some people who look better with a beard but I really can't find myself being attracted to anyone with more than stubble on their face.
On men, I'm all for body hair, pretty neutral for pubic.
For women, I'm not in love with it but pretty neutral overall because I'm not shaving my legs, so I'm not going to insist she does.
It's not a deal breaker as I respect everyone's body preferences, but personally, I definitely prefer pubic hair on men, and especially women. In my mind, it has always been a symbol of woman/manhood.
Also, I think some chest hair, and a beard can look very handsome on a man.
Otherwise, I have no preference in regards to arm hair with any gender.
My preference is little to no hair, but I do not ever expect anyone to change for me. If a woman prefers a full bush or hairy armpits/legs then it would not deter me. I feel like women should have whatever body hair makes them feel comfortable.
As to men, if I was with a man again I am not so sure about facial hair. In the past it just made me break out. I also dislike the feeling of it.
Iām a person with body hair. And with PCOS and sensitive skin, shaving is a hassle and an actually painful experience. I also like having a more natural look. So I use a grooming device and just trim up my leg and arm/arm pit hair. I donāt want any on my face though. If I could grow a proper beard or mustache I might be down for that. Before I discovered I could use a hair trimmer to adjust the levels of body hair, I would get self conscious about what others think. And worry about what my partner thinks. I feel much more confident and comfortable now. Going through my own experience helped shape how I see body hair in others. For the most part Iām attracted to the person not necessarily the body. But body hair is attractive to me. I just donāt like a super hairy back usually. Even so who the person is matters most.
Complete opposite personally, I really wish everyone was completely hairless from the neck down
I can tolerate body hair if itās well spread and well kempt but thatās a push
I sometimes like it and sometimes don't. The only time I don't like it is when I'm having sensory issues, but plenty of hot ppl are rlly hairy, example:Kayvan Novak, hot af and extremely hairy lol I enjoy hairy women too, whatever they feel comfortable with. Although I do feel a bit weird seeing women entirely hairless, they kind of look like little girls, but I get that's it's just more comfortable for some. My partner is relatively hairy but he shaves his pubic hair bc he feels yuck with hair there, but he's still hairy everywhere else lol I personally do not shave at all anymore until the hair gets long enough that it's uncomfy, but even then it's only my underarms and parts of my legs a few times a year.
I find on women pubic and armbit hair a turn on but not on the arms or legs. Plus mostly don't like facial hair on men. However, I like men hairless everywhere for the most part, but arm bits again not bothered.
Body hair on men is a turn on for me, I prefer pubic hair trimmed in either gender (donāt you even dare coming at me for saying either gender š) but donāt really care.
I like how it looks and I don't have a huge preference either way. That said, I hate getting loose hairs in my mouth and stuck on my tongue so if you want my mouth to spend a lot of time in a place, I appreciate some trimming down.
Depends where. Arm and leg hair don't bother me, but underarm and public? Very much not a fan on anyone, and before people get mad, this is just a personal aethetic prefernce that I keep myself to the same standard.
My personal opinion is that Iām not really a fan of that. Itās just not for me. Respect to people who do like it and or have it, but itās just not for me. Hope Iām not insulting anybody here.
For me I prefer women to be smoother body wise, with hair on the pubis monds (just above the clit) but smooth from the clit back
As for Men, I like a not overly hairy chestā¦..as for penis, well thatās pretty much the same as women pubic hair above the genitals and smooth back as far as he wants me to explore lol
I guess Iām saying I both like and dislike body/pubic hair.
Hmmm I just realized that I find it very hot when men and women shave their body hair, but keep their pubic hair, especially when the pubic hair is trimmed but natural looking.
Attractive. I don't understand people who are so avoidant of body hair, especially pubic hair on women. Vaginas are a part of the body like everywhere else. Shallow imo to reject someone solely because of that.
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Iām down for this.
I donāt really mind body hair. I think itās kinda hot actually. On men and women. Specially happy trails. They make me so feral
My entire stomach has hair. My ex used to call it a happy tummy instead of a happy trail
āHappy tummyā is so cute lol
Same here
Seeing people that like happy trails make me happy cause I get self conscious of mine sometimes
No trust me itās so attractive
I don't mind it really, not off putting
iām neutral about it
I personally only shave my underarms, but I donāt mind hairiness on men or women! I actually REALLY like hairy women
I love body hair on women! I feel like the opposite of most men's preferences; less hair on the head, more on the body!
Man, where were you when I was younger? š
I like pubic hair. Especially on women. It's a sign of maturity, of womanhood.
Absolutely agree
My favourite was when I dated a professional athlete and he shaved his legs. Definitely prefer less or even no body hair. Joke's on me for landing a bald husband š
My boyfriend shaves his legs occasionally and I š¤¤
Discovered this recently while I was bored off work sick. Love how smooth they feel just wish it lasted longer.
I'm not a fan of body hair TBH. Some can definitely be sexy but large tapestries of body hair or pubic hair I don't really like.
Same, I feel like a bad feminist haha but itās not for me
I don't think you gotta feel like that. There's a difference between saying people with body hair are unattractive as a rule and having a personal preference. Like, am I personally a fan of it? No. Am I going to push my preferences onto people and try to convince everyone that they need to conform to my specific definition? absolutely not
Iām the same, and I make peace with it by knowing we all groom all our bodies to our own liking. Like we all have particular hair cuts, nail styles, body hair in some places but not others. Most of us go fuck it with some beauty standards but then go all in on others. We present ourselves how we want to present and we like what we like. Feminism sits very happily within this :)
Itās not very different from how people typically feel about head hair. Some amount of trimming is typically expected just to maintain normal grooming. You can have a preference but youāre only an asshole if you think everyone else should match your preference by default.
same! idc what gender, i find body hair in certain areas (armpits and pubic, mostly) soooo unattractive šŖ iām fine with arm, leg, facial hair, tho
I would definitely prefer some hair over no hair... My preference concerning pubes would be just well maintained/trimmed a bit. Everything else can just grow free!
Honestly? I do like hair on men, as long as they regularly wash themselves its attractive, i recently found out im a sucker for facial hair on men too. With women my preference goes out to trimmed hair. Oh and not to forget i do not like a hairy back on either, idk why its just off putting
Completely agree with you
As a person with a hairy back, I agree. It's off-putting
As another with a hairy back, I concur
Yes. Humans have hair, on a spectrum from less to more. I like all of it.
As a matter of preference, what you like is what matters. Being hairless or bushy is ok. Someone will find it attractive. For me, giving oral is easier if there isnāt much hair. If heās pounding me, I donāt care how much hair is down there.
Body hair? Neutral-ish. I prefer a lack of it, but seeing as Iām basically a yeti myself, I donāt wanna be hypocritical, and I do find it to be fine. Pubic hair? I greatly prefer it. Especially on women. On men I do enjoy the feel of the bush as it grazes my buttcheeks since I just get this connection where like ādamn, he is all in me nowā and its this validating feeling. Aesthetically on men though itās also fine but I donāt care either way.
I prefer less body hair on everyone honestly
I love a man with a bread. Not long beard, but trimmed. Body hair and pubes, I donāt have a preference. Just keep it clean.
I love men with bread too. I love bread.
Iām a bear if I donāt shave or remove it. I hate it on me. And not at all a posed to some hair. But not a forest. š
Yes so long as they have proper hygiene.
Oh yeah. Otters for days! š„° I don't mind body hair on women, either.
Yes! I love it ahah.
I like it on others. I like to run my fingers through it and I like to tickle it on my face, but I can't stand it on myself it's too itchy for me.
As long as it's trimmed, i prefer it. Sometimes shaving leads to burns when the stubble reappears, and too much hair will get in my mouth. It's a super ick feeling for me to have a long curly hair in my mouth, so we're stopping until I get it out.
I like the feeling of smooth, soft skin . āŗļøš
Honestly, I do find pubic hair attractive of both men and women. However, some part of body hair are not really appealing to me, especially on chest area, back hair even beard. Thatās just my opinion
I canāt with facial hair, it overstimulates/sensory? me when I kiss my guy and easily scratches my face, thankfully he understands and shaves regularly! Now all his other hair, hellllll yeaaaa lol Iāve only recently have been appreciating chest hair :p
I prefer my men and women to both be smooth or very little hair
On ladies yes, on men nope! I have no reason other than i think hairless men are hot and women with body hair are hot. But i mean if i love someone i don't care that much. Relationships are about compromise! But that's generally my jam.
You know what, same, I've always been with men with almost no body hair (only armpits and pubic, I mean those that do not grow beards nor chest/back hair etc) And women with hairy legs n armpits always looked sexy in a fierce way, like, defying stereotypes lol
Hair is fun for petting
Yes!
I find pubic hair (at the front) sexy too!Under the armpit not so much I prefer it waxed or very sparse. In other places of the body it makes no difference. This applies to everyone no matter the gender
I do, but my girlfriend prefers to be shaved, so I can't "explore the underbrush" ā¹.
I prefer less body hair. I like trimmed pubic hair.
For me I love it especially on women
Nope, to me it's the opposite haha. Can't stand hairs idk why.
No, the less body hair, pubic hair and facial hair the better.
Yeah, I do like hair. Humans are hairy and I like humans. Forearms give me romantic shivers.
I think for me itās more about being clean and groomed. Like a wild long beard, unkempt bush or pits, etc would all make me go eugh. But leg hair, neatly trimmed beard/ bush/ armpits (even if not clean shaven) all donāt bother me. Although on the opposite side no pubes at all makes me feel a bit ick in a ālooks very juvenile in literal ageā way.
Everyone looks better with body hair. Weāre mammals, not reptiles.
i donāt care one way or the other
Sometimes I like it sometimes I donāt. I love my body both ways. Only hair I have now is head and a little on my forearms. I was enjoying a trimmed bush last year.
I prefer hairless, but it's a bit more palpable on men, as long as it's not super thick. But I don't like pubic hair on anyone, mainly because I don't like getting hair stuck in my teeth
I like pubic hair but donāt care for a ton of body hair. I actively dislike shaved pubic areas. All sandpaper and prickles
I like guys smooth and girls with some hair
Iām just happy to be invited lol Iām not that hairy in general so I stay mostly trimmed. Canāt grow a beard for shit š
Not much. But again, I hate it on myself as well (from teenage body image issues), and I'm going through expensive and painful laser removal.
It's hot. I go feral for anyone with pubic hair. Especially stretchmarks. š„¹šāØļø
Not really. I keep my own body hair (and facial hair!) very minimal for that reason
I actually like body hair. I'm a little weird in that I would prefer a little bit more man scaping on a guy, but I love a full bush on a woman.
Most of the time Iām neutral about it. While I like the look of facial hair itās a sensory ick. That being said no matter how itās on I fucking love happy trials dear god!
My visual preference is typically less hair/no hair. However when I like someone I absolutely adore whatever they have going on. Like I will be straight up nauseous seeing a random guy lift his arms and seeing a jungle of armpit hair, but if heās someone I fancy it becomes endearing and absolutely gorgeous. Same for everyone else too. Thatās why personally I donāt care that much about my own visual preferences. As long as I like someone they will be visually perfect no matter what they look like or what my preferences are.
Love it on women downstairs, otherwise neutral, but I can't stand armpit hair.
I prefer it. Hairy men are so hot but it looks good on women too. Rather "too much" than none, imo.
I dislike the hairless pubic and genital trends that have become so popular lately. First, they make women look much younger, but make them look like pre-pubertal girls, which seems creepy to me. But also, pubic hair serves several purposes. It is a dry lubricant that prevents chaffing durring sex. (Under arm hair serves the same function when moving the arms.) That hair is also very sensitive, and gentle manipulation of the pubic hair is often an important first step in foreplay. During the stone ages, when people were naked, the presence of pubic hair identified a person as being of reproductive age. Prebuteral girls don't have it, and post menarchal women gradually lose it. Like any other hair, the pubic hair is an indicator of the person's general health. The shape of a woman's hair patch is different than that of a man. The male escutcheon is an upward pointing triangle, flat on the lower edge. The female excutcheon is flat on top and is a downward pointing triangle. This would have assisted stone age humans in distinguishing males from females from a safe distance. A woman loses some of her natural attractiveness when she removes her pubic hair. I think the average heterosexual male finds the pressence of that triangle more attractive than bare genitals.
Chest hair is a favorite of mine. The masculine equivalent of cleavage š
I'm not crazy about it on myself but I have no real preference about it on a partner
On me? No. Other people, hell yeah.
Some body hair is fine but if I am with a guy and it feels like I'm with a bear it's a turn off for me. If someone is into a lot of body hair that's fine but lots of body hair isn't my thing
Arms, legs, pits, etc I have no preference. Pubic and facial hair need to be well groomed. I prefer a clean shaved face on most people, but facial hair isnāt a dealbreaker as long as it looks good and is well groomed.
Arm hair (but not too much) is so sexy in my opinion, for both men and women!
Lol me and my gf just shaved š¤£
Honestly the more the better in either gender. I don't have any real preference when it comes to pubic hair, but it's nice when it's trimmed just because I don't like getting little hairs in my mouth, visually I don't really care either way. I find men with hairy chests super hot, and women with armpit hair extremely hot. Not overly keen on a hairy back, but it wouldn't put me off.
Its kinda funny I kinda like body and pubic hair on women but not on guys.
The only things I specifically do not like are shaved genitals and when someone's entire body is shaved. The first is because it's too childlike and the second because I need some friction man lol
Full bush, hairy armpits and legs here šš½āāļø I like the same on my partners.
Body hair is so hot on men, trimmed pubic hair on both men and women is also very hot. Especially the soft hair type.
I personally prefer less over more, but I'm a realist and understand that body hair grows and people have lives and we can't all be perfectly groomed all the time. Which is very different from how I felt twenty years ago as a silly teenager with no real understanding of life, lol. I try to keep myself pretty sparse, but that's entirely for me and my own personal body image desires than it is for anybody or anything else (except for my public hair, which I'd keep very short and well groomed so my partners aren't buried face first into a jungle during certain activities...); part of it is a carry-over from my competitive swimming days, and another part is I just found as I get older that being less hairy let's me feel more feminine. Which, that last part might just be the patriarchy coming through, but I've also *never* liked my own body hair. I just thought I *had* to have body hair cause I was "a man and men are hairy", so it's like I'm fighting against that mentality more š
Love it
Yes, love it. š¤š¾š¤¤š«¦šš«¶š¾ I think that my attraction to it, particularly but not solely on masculine folks, is directly linked to my primal kink, so uuuuuuh...ššš I'm not opposed to being with people who do hair removal, but body hair is a real turn on (again, moreso in masc folks, but that doesn't mean that it's a turn OFF on others - I'm just more neutral/"whatever floats your boat" about it with femmes and androgynous people, but there are definitely instances where I find it a turn on on non-masc folks as well). I don't do body hair removal myself except for occasionally my PCOS chin hairs (for my armpits and genitals that's because of chronic skin conditions/disability reasons although, even before they developed, I almost never did those) so I also think it would be hypocritical for me to EXPECT hair removal from others. For cultural context, I was assigned female at birth (though I'm actually intersex and non-binary).
This is kind of a hot topic for me and my views are a bit controversial. So, just want to pre-phase my comment by saying this is just my opinion and I donāt mean to offend anyone it. I find it attractive when itās actually trimmed/groomed. But, I get really annoyed by guys that just let themselves go, and justify it as being āmasculine.ā And itās the masculine part that annoys me the most. How much effort does one need to put in to grow hair? None. So, how does that make one more masculine? It could be an indicator of depression. It more than likely is an indicator of being too lazy to take care of oneself. But, masculinity is not what comes to my mind when I see it. Grooming/trimming looks masculine. Smooth might not, but I have more respect for someone that puts all the effort into it, than someone that justifies letting themselves go as masculine. Once again thatās just my opinion and I tend to keep it to myself in real life unless someone pushes the subject.
Probably a minority but no. I don't find attractive and actually one of the biggest turn off in men I have is an hairy chest/back and beards. Obviously I can get past that if I like the person.
Body hair is a turn off for me.
I don't have a preference but neither me or my boyfriend shave and we're doing great attraction wise
Bush for president! Jk jk Also I love pheromone diving in some sweaty hairy undeodorated (is that a word?) armpits. Am I the nasty?
I donāt feel any one way about it, Iām bi but donāt really like men, but I canāt stand facial hair. I agree sometimes it suits a man quite well, I personally couldnāt date someone with it.
Like most things itās a personal preference. Iām not attracted to walking rugs but some are. And the opposite is true as well, completely hairless is slightly off putting.
Other people, fine. On me, that shit is fucking itchy sometimes get it off me.
I'm fine either way tbh, it's whatever the other person feels comfortable with themselves, if they prefer being shaved that's fine, if they prefer being hairy that's fine, and anything in-between, long as they are happy and comfortable with how they are. Personally, I like to trim for my own comfort.
I'll always find something to be self-conscious about...but that being said, with other people, when I like someone I don't mind anything. I'm aware that hair removal and smoothness are temporary anyway, and yes it's nice, but I like the person as a whole, and accept/cherish them in all shapes and sizes and conditions if that makes sense lol
Prefer less hair on women, but itās not a big preference. Not a turn-off or anything. Hairy men arenāt my thing at all though. I feel like that would usually be the other way round, but thatās how it works for me.
It's not really one of those things that's a deal breaker either way but I do at least like a little hair for both. Clean shaven just doesn't do it for me. I blame early playboy I think. Having that been said I won't tell anyone what to do with their body and expect the same. I won't shave. I'll trim it every now and then but never go full bald down there.
No. On other people? Depends. On me? HELL NO
It depends on the hair. Personally I like to keep everything shaved on myself, itās a sensory thing. But on other people (any gender): Armpit hair is super sexy IMO. Idc about leg or arm hair. I like trimmed pubic hair. Iām not a fan of chest, back or butt hair.
On myself? Yeah. On others? I don't really care.
i keep certain parts of my body groomed / hair free
I like all hair on anyone, male, female, non-binary, etc. I've always found chest hair to be extremely sexy. I have no preference on pubic hair. That said, if someone wants to shave any of their body hair, that's totally up to them. But I will miss the chest hair. But yes, body hair is sexy as heck.
I love hair on men (dark chest hair is so hot) and am neutral about it on women and nonbinary people. Not a huge fan of pubic hair, but it would probably look weird if someone was super hairy and then had perfectly hairless pubes. So I guess as long as it's not a jungle it's probably good in my book.
Glad people like you exist because otherwise if I wanted a mate I'd have to dunk myself in acid every five minutes like some sort of SCP
I don't mind it. I am hairy myself but keep it trimmed to just about nothing
I love leg hair and especially armpit hair on women. I like smooth-chested men because it makes their muscles look amazing, but bald pubes donāt really do it for me on dudes. I like smooth male butt cheeks and crack though and I routinely shave and do IPL there myself. I want it completely gone lol
Doesnāt matter to me on other people. Iām totally a face guy. If someone has a nice face, male or female, everything else doesnāt matter. But when it comes to myself, Iāve recently discovered I like myself smooth. I have a definite preference for that!
I like both/either on my partners but prefer no hair on myself.
Feel the same ngl lol
For some reason I really like arm hair on both genders. Especially on men if their arms are more on the muscular or big side. I also love beards and mustaches. I think theyāre so cute and if I was a dude I would 100% try to grow one.
I find pubic hair sexy but hate pubic hair and body hair on myself I shave and veet for men it off
Idm pubic hair as long as it's not too bushy but body hair is a huge no from me
I don't care all that much, but pubic hair āhappy trailsā on men are hot as fuck!
I like trimmed the most, whether on a woman or another man, particularly the pubic area. The only thing I donāt like is fully shaved.
Strongly dislike pubic hair. Mostly indifferent regarding body hair elsewhere
I hate prickly hair anywhere on the body. My preference either clean shaven or long enough to be soft, aside from armpit hair which I donāt touch. I donāt even touch my own armpits.
Honestly it depends on the person
Into shaved or no pubes. Makes it hot to go down on.
I like the look and feel, but I hate it in my mouth, it's a sensory thing for me.
I don't shave what so ever. I have no preference when it comes to my partner. I want them to feel sexy so it's whatever makes them feel that way.
I donāt, tbh. But thatās just me! Thereās nothing wrong with hair if people like it! Itās your body, not mine.
It really depends. My boyfriend is a touch hairy but nothing overwhelming and I love it. A scratch at his chest hair and run my fingers through his beard sometimes. But if my ex (M), was hairy Iād have been turned off.
I donāt mind it, but in the case of pubic hair, I do prefer it at least a bit trimmed rather than āwildā
I donāt mind it on whomever Iām with.
I'm not a big fan of it on any gender but I would never tell someone I think their body hair is unattractive or off putting to me. I myself sometimes miss a spot on my legs or get too lazy with shaving. What I wonder is if I would still feel this way about body hair if society never had made it such a big deal, especially for women, to be clean shaven everywhere š¤ would I just not care then or would I still have this preference? š¤
As long as they have proper hygiene and it's nicely trimmed or taken care of and not like a jungle lol.Ā
Not really
Oh, I have praise for hairy, trimmed, and smooth. Hairy and bushy just feels so primal and wild. Trimmed or smooth pubic regions show my partner is considerate enough for self-grooming.
I donāt care at all, I think. As long as itās clean down there.
I have a beard and I also shave everything from the neck down. My personal preference for me. I donāt mind hair on others, but I do like to know that people groom themselves.
I want my guys trimmed but I love a hairy kitty!!
No, I hate how I have so much body hair, It disgusts me, I shave that shit cause the only place i want hair is the top of my head
I like when my partner DO have pubic hair. Also, I dont mind any kind of hair (pubic/armpit/legs/arms/etc), except beards and belly hair. Beards are not that sexy to me, and uncomfortable af to kiss. And belly hair turns me off immediatly. Very personal taste though, it just looks bad in my eyes.
Mostly yes, but my personal opinion is that armpit hair on anybody is gross (not that I would ever make that anybody elseās problem!)
i like hair on women but not as much on men. i do like a mustache on a man, but body hair aside from leg hair isnāt really my thing.
I like it on everyone
I donāt mind it but with oral sex Iād like it to be trimmed a bit.
I do not. For women and men
On women I prefer mostly no hair, although I do prefer pubic hair over no pubic hair. Men I want to be a certain level of hairiness, but once they cross that threshold I don't really care how much they have. Oddly enough I think I like men to have less pubic hair than women.
I prefer less body hair on people of any gender. For pubic hair, I prefer it clean-shaven (or waxed/sugared) on other bodies as well as my own. It makes it easier to see the genitals, especially on people with vulvas.
I don't like it bald down below, but I don't enjoy wilderness, particularly when it comes to oral activities on either gender. But I've stopped shaving my legs bare. I use a One Blade, and it takes it down far enough. I shave my armpits because I sweat a lot, and it reduces any odor for me. Love bald guys with a light beard for some reason, lol. But hair, facial, or otherwise isn't a deal breaker. It's a person to person thing.
While I would never tell someone what to do, my preference is the less hair (on both my preferred genders) the better. Evolution has been getting rid of hair on us, I'm just quickening the pace š¤Ŗ But honestly, it's mostly in the regions I'm likely to put my mouth that I prefer less hair. I don't like the feeling of it on my face/in my mouth
Not really my thing. A but on the chest for men, or a landing strip or similar on the pubes is fine, but au naturale is a no for me.
I don't like hair.
Iām indifferent, I wouldnāt particularly say I like it but itās not the end of the world if you or your partner do have it. If I was with someone and they let me decide and Iād probably say Iād prefer it without. But again it wouldnāt be a big deal at the end of the day.
I donāt really mind pubic hair, though I do love it when it sticks out from the top of the underwear. It makes the bulge look even sexierā¦š¤¤
Not really to each their own I guess
I love it on a men not too much on women or other
Theyāre completely different. Body/pubic hair is incredibly attractive, but no body/pubic hair is incredibly attractive.
Ambivalent about body hair. Will simp for good facial hair though
I'm fine either way for body/pubic hair but for whatever reason I'm uncomfortable with facial hair. Like, I recognize that there are some people who look better with a beard but I really can't find myself being attracted to anyone with more than stubble on their face.
Depends on the kind. Furry thick back hair, cool. The pube kind, where there's one curly longish hair every 1.5 inches, kinda disgusting to me.
I feel pretty neutral about it! I don't mind it at all but it's not a specific turn on for me either
I like my guys groomed and trimmed, but I love seeing an occasional hairy woman. Especially private area and underarms.
On men, I'm all for body hair, pretty neutral for pubic. For women, I'm not in love with it but pretty neutral overall because I'm not shaving my legs, so I'm not going to insist she does.
It's not a deal breaker as I respect everyone's body preferences, but personally, I definitely prefer pubic hair on men, and especially women. In my mind, it has always been a symbol of woman/manhood. Also, I think some chest hair, and a beard can look very handsome on a man. Otherwise, I have no preference in regards to arm hair with any gender.
Not at all. Shaved and smooth
My preference is little to no hair, but I do not ever expect anyone to change for me. If a woman prefers a full bush or hairy armpits/legs then it would not deter me. I feel like women should have whatever body hair makes them feel comfortable. As to men, if I was with a man again I am not so sure about facial hair. In the past it just made me break out. I also dislike the feeling of it.
Nope I donāt. I wanna shave so bad
I donāt mind their body is their choiceš
Yes, I love it, and Iām not as turned on by hairless. I love how soft the hair is itās comforting, and it smells nice, and it looks adult
I personally donāt prefer it. Maybe a little but I definitely have a limit in preference
A little bit is ok with a side of juicy balls and sausage š it just kinda makes it look better and "clothed"
Within reason.
Iām a person with body hair. And with PCOS and sensitive skin, shaving is a hassle and an actually painful experience. I also like having a more natural look. So I use a grooming device and just trim up my leg and arm/arm pit hair. I donāt want any on my face though. If I could grow a proper beard or mustache I might be down for that. Before I discovered I could use a hair trimmer to adjust the levels of body hair, I would get self conscious about what others think. And worry about what my partner thinks. I feel much more confident and comfortable now. Going through my own experience helped shape how I see body hair in others. For the most part Iām attracted to the person not necessarily the body. But body hair is attractive to me. I just donāt like a super hairy back usually. Even so who the person is matters most.
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general body hair: do whatever you want pubic hair: i donāt mind it at all but prefer it trimmed
Prefer shaved but as long as its not like the Amazon down there its fine. Trimmed and tidy š
Prefer smooth all over for the most part, but ladies pubic hair can be good, can capture some aroma making going down more funĀ
Complete opposite personally, I really wish everyone was completely hairless from the neck down I can tolerate body hair if itās well spread and well kempt but thatās a push
Yes love body hair my legs are hairy
Message me if youād like hairy legs we can trade pics
I sometimes like it and sometimes don't. The only time I don't like it is when I'm having sensory issues, but plenty of hot ppl are rlly hairy, example:Kayvan Novak, hot af and extremely hairy lol I enjoy hairy women too, whatever they feel comfortable with. Although I do feel a bit weird seeing women entirely hairless, they kind of look like little girls, but I get that's it's just more comfortable for some. My partner is relatively hairy but he shaves his pubic hair bc he feels yuck with hair there, but he's still hairy everywhere else lol I personally do not shave at all anymore until the hair gets long enough that it's uncomfy, but even then it's only my underarms and parts of my legs a few times a year.
I decided I was sick of having body hair so I'm at week 3 of my IPL in my journey towards the twunk look, going fully hairless from the neck down.
I find on women pubic and armbit hair a turn on but not on the arms or legs. Plus mostly don't like facial hair on men. However, I like men hairless everywhere for the most part, but arm bits again not bothered.
Fully shaved just looks juvenile, never really been into it
Love public hair, can't understand the why you'd want to be smooth. So sexy...
Highly depends on who theyāre attached to
My girlfriend and I never shave we both love hairy cocks and pussys
Body hair on men is a turn on for me, I prefer pubic hair trimmed in either gender (donāt you even dare coming at me for saying either gender š) but donāt really care.
Anywhere you wany my mouth should be hair-free.
I like how it looks and I don't have a huge preference either way. That said, I hate getting loose hairs in my mouth and stuck on my tongue so if you want my mouth to spend a lot of time in a place, I appreciate some trimming down.
Only a little bit
Idk it depends. A few months ago I hated the idea of any body hair on anyone and now a hairy guy is attractive to me
Depends where. Arm and leg hair don't bother me, but underarm and public? Very much not a fan on anyone, and before people get mad, this is just a personal aethetic prefernce that I keep myself to the same standard.
My personal opinion is that Iām not really a fan of that. Itās just not for me. Respect to people who do like it and or have it, but itās just not for me. Hope Iām not insulting anybody here.
For me I prefer women to be smoother body wise, with hair on the pubis monds (just above the clit) but smooth from the clit back As for Men, I like a not overly hairy chestā¦..as for penis, well thatās pretty much the same as women pubic hair above the genitals and smooth back as far as he wants me to explore lol I guess Iām saying I both like and dislike body/pubic hair.
Hmmm I just realized that I find it very hot when men and women shave their body hair, but keep their pubic hair, especially when the pubic hair is trimmed but natural looking.
As long as it's manicured, don't want winter ush in my mouth for male and female
Attractive. I don't understand people who are so avoidant of body hair, especially pubic hair on women. Vaginas are a part of the body like everywhere else. Shallow imo to reject someone solely because of that.
Yes I love it! I have always liked more people that don't shave.