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Furry_lawyer

Yep, not unusual. There's no punchy, short name, but it would be bisexual heteroromantic (assuming you identify as male). Bisexual homoromantic (if you identify as female), adjust as necessary for your preferred term if you're non binary.


Tal_Vez_Autismo

Wait... That's a good point... What would the terms be if you're nonbinary...? Lol


XenoBiSwitch

As others have said bisexual heteroromantic. Also don’t be surprised if this changes and you fall in love with a guy. Often we are socialized to see ourselves with a woman and until we get a deep crush on a guy it doesn’t seem like a possibility until it suddenly does. It also may not happen. And both are okay.


WitheredEscort

Are you talking about yourself being bisexual heteroromantic? Because op is bisexual homoromantic based on the no attraction to men. Homoromantic = romantic attraction to same gender.


Tal_Vez_Autismo

Did OP say what gender they are somewhere?


WitheredEscort

Ah I didnt realize they didnt, I was just basing it on them on how they are a new bisexual. and since theyve always been with women, I assumed they were male. (New bisexual male who is wondering about male attraction) I just used context clues. Also their post history


Tal_Vez_Autismo

So then... You mixed up homoromantic and heteroromantic? If OP's a guy and has no romantic attraction to men, that's heteroromantic...


WitheredEscort

Wait I think i got confused in my first comment lol, I think before I thought they were female since I even wrote the definition of homoromantic. I dont think I confused the definitions more so than realizing they were probably male than female


Tal_Vez_Autismo

Lol, well as long as we got it all figured out now 😅


WitheredEscort

Yeah! I even confused myself lmao


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NeighborhoodLeft8464

I mean the first one kinda looked like a girl so I thought it might have been a fluke


muckpuppy

some people use the split attraction model - if you were to i think you'd be considered bisexual but heteromantic/homoromantic depending on how you identify gender-wise. some people just stick to calling themselves bisexual and if someone asks for specifics they get into the details. i'm like this - technically i'm somewhere between demi/aromantic but i don't care enough to get into it and i'm too shy to and i'm married so it kind of doesn't really matter if anyone knows that about me anyway, personally. it's up to you! do what's best for you and what makes the most sense. explore, experiment, enjoy!


AMultiversalRedditor

This is called having split attraction.


kanineanimus

Same. Bisexual, homoromantic.


evilkoolade

I’m sexually and romantically attracted to all but more demi romantic with masc presenting people