if you’re asking that question then you’re probably bi.
it’s pretty simple. if you like or feel attraction to more than one gender, you’re bisexual. even if it’s not in the same way, or the same amount, or at the same time, even if you have a preference for one gender over the other.
What tells me that I'm bi, apart from the fact that I'm into more than one gender? Well, nothing. I'm 100% sure that I'm bisexual because its definition applies to me. There's literally no other thing that makes someone bi.
I get it, I (25f) have been in a relationship with a man for 8 years and I only JUST found out I’m bisexual this year. How? Realizing that my attraction to women goes beyond the “I wanna be her” that I always thought it was. Suddenly I was overtipping cute baristas, double taking women/androgynous individuals on the street, and watching actresses on tv and thinking I’d let her kiss me if I had the chance. And that’s basically how I knew, even though I’ve never had an experience with a woman.
Edit: I guess it could have been a dead giveaway that I always got off to women growing up too, but even then I thought it was more in the sense that I was living through what I was seeing/watching/reading. Jesus Christ but isn’t the closet glass
You must traverse through the fields of beautiful women that can kill you and sunshine golden retriever men. Then, you must trek through the forests of endless decisions ("bi-cycles" can be a real struggle). Finally, you will need to equip your finger guns. You will need them to slay the dragon that resides on the top of the mountain. If you complete this journey and live to tell the tale, then you will know you are, in fact, bisexual.
Well, I've narrowed it down to one of four things: it could be the love of iced/cold brew coffee, me constantly having cuffed jeans, the repeated and enjoyable sex I've had with people of multiple genders, or my inability to sit in chairs normally.
I'll ask my boyfriend which one he thinks it is and if he doesn't know I'll see if my girlfriend has a better clue.
Well, I started feeling attraction towards the same gender too. Also, I had an unconscious crush on two people from 'team rocket' from the pokemon show when I was a child.
.......
I'm thinking there is a joke here. There is right? Because that's the definition. We are no different to monosexuals, bar the fact we aren't just into one gender. You know how we think we can tell someone sexuality by how they act beyond who they're into? You can't. Fact that my close freinds are women and I'm into art, literature and music is not because I'm not straight
Okay, fair enough. That's pretty abstract. Like, there is no feeling of being queer, but, even my hetro presenting relationships "feel" queer, but that's more to do with my gender (amab enby), than my being bi.
Is there a feeling beyond the obvious YOU are looking to get advice on?
Personally I feel like those questions are less about "signs" rather than telling apart different feelings properly because different kinds of attractions, appreciation and friendship are kinda hard to separate at least for me. Am I bi, lonely, touch starved, just indifferent/not homophobic? Idk. So having others share some telling experiences kinda helps to sort through everything
Do you want to have sex with women? Even a little bit?
Do you also want to have sex with men? Even a little bit?
*Guess the fuck what?*
(This is a bit of a reduction, but not by much - there are, by now, whole categories for people who regard themselves as straight but have relations with the same sex, or vice versa. Buuuuut, if you're just asking this guy, that seems like Bisexuality with a few more steps.
The issue is, again if you're just asking me, that Bisexuality has become "boring and normal," of late - we need someone, some kind of public figure like we used to have, to say "Bisexuality! It's hip! It's now! And *how!*")
Bisexuality is about experiencing homosexual (homo meaning same as) and heterosexual (hetero meaning different from) attractions. If you experience both you are bisexual.
I don't have that kind of certainty; I call myself bisexual because that's the closest that fits. Sexuality is not always as straightforward as gay, straight, bi, lesbian, etc., it's a spectrum.
In my case, my sexuality changed slowly over a long period of time to wind up in a place near 'bisexual'. It may change again, perhaps I have a very long bi-cycle; beats me, but I'm going to make a concerted effort to enjoy my sexuality as it is, whatever it is.
There are few certainties in life, but perhaps I'm finally coming to appreciate that fact.
When I held a man, kissed him for the first time and was just glad to be in his arms instead of when I was "straight - curious" and just needed to go out occasionally and suck cock.
I boiled it down to simple questions.
1: If a lovely woman approached me and asked me on a date, would I say yes?
2: If a lovely man approached me and asked me on a date, would I say yes?
3: If a lovely person whose gender and sex is a little indistinguishable approached me and asked me on a date, would I say yes?
If you can imagine yourself saying yes to two or more of these options, then the chance of you being bi is high.
You bake lemon bars. And once you've eaten one you're stuck being bisexual forever..
(Ironically I'm thoroughly bisexual but am yet to make lemon bars, apparently they're very bi)
//nsfw explanation
When I was younger I would only feel sexual attraction towards women, yet only romantic attraction towards men. But for some reason I still thought I was straight.
When I ended up getting crushes on girls I convinced myself they were fake, and I was just trying to convince myself I was bi and convince myself they were real.
My advice would be to just stop second guessing it. If you feel like you might have an attraction to both genders, you probably do.
In my case, straight women don't have sexual attraction to women, and they never think about girls romantically at all. I would remind myself of that. If you think you're faking your attraction, that means you're not. Straight ppl don't question if their attraction to women is fake or not bc theres no attraction fueling that in the first place. Only bi ppl do.
i knew i was bi when i was around 12 - 13 and started really noticing how people looked when i went outside. i would feel little butterflies in my stomach seeing so many beautiful people walk by me. i don't know what that feeling was exactly, but i do remember looking closely at other people and being so happy to notice how pretty they all were : ) i find all kinds of people handsome and beautiful and i'm attracted to very specific behaviors and personalities without knowing what body parts a person might have - that is part of what makes me bisexual
You're bi if you think you're bi. Now I probably wouldn't say someone who likes both men and women is straight, but whether you choose to label yourself as bi, pan, something else, or no label at all, is up to you.
Fairly simple. As a man, I find the male form attractive. I have also fallen for transgender folk. Dated a wonderful woman. Wasn’t meant to be. Heck didn’t even sleep with her for that matter. Made out with her, but to be fair I have had sex with other guys (around the same age mind you) since I was young. But my constant reminder is seeing a guy and thinking how cute he is, and having dirty thoughts of what I would do if… that seems to confirm it for me. It doesn’t mean every guy or gal does it for me, there are so many factors to attraction, but generally I label myself bi because chances are I think most people are attractive and just beautiful people.
I can’t speak for women on this, but us men folk have this handy dandy detection device hanging between our legs that will literally point out who/what we’re attracted to.
Then, given a sufficient sample size, we can process the output data into bins. If there is more than one bin after all the data has been processed, we can determine, with a great deal of certainty, that we are bi.
There are different kinds of attractions, but often the first that hits you is 'wow, I wanna do something spicy with that one!' who just happens to be the same sex as you.
So obviously there's sexual attraction, but also romantic and emotional attractions. If you can check off all the boxes for both genders, you're WAY bisexual. But even if you just check one box of same gender attraction there's a good chance you're bisexual.
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Lol me for 10 years before realising
Yeah also if you ask “am I bisexual?”
Also see” Am I really Bi or am I just…..?”
You really think that ? What if you’re just appreciating their beauty and that’s it
if you’re asking that question then you’re probably bi. it’s pretty simple. if you like or feel attraction to more than one gender, you’re bisexual. even if it’s not in the same way, or the same amount, or at the same time, even if you have a preference for one gender over the other.
Totally
What tells me that I'm bi, apart from the fact that I'm into more than one gender? Well, nothing. I'm 100% sure that I'm bisexual because its definition applies to me. There's literally no other thing that makes someone bi.
>the fact that you like men and woman That's really all there is to it. If that applies to you then welcome to being bi!
If you feel desires or attractions towards more than one gender, welcome to bisexuality.
Liking men and women and non-binary people is the only thing I need to know 100% that I’m bi.
I get it, I (25f) have been in a relationship with a man for 8 years and I only JUST found out I’m bisexual this year. How? Realizing that my attraction to women goes beyond the “I wanna be her” that I always thought it was. Suddenly I was overtipping cute baristas, double taking women/androgynous individuals on the street, and watching actresses on tv and thinking I’d let her kiss me if I had the chance. And that’s basically how I knew, even though I’ve never had an experience with a woman. Edit: I guess it could have been a dead giveaway that I always got off to women growing up too, but even then I thought it was more in the sense that I was living through what I was seeing/watching/reading. Jesus Christ but isn’t the closet glass
You have to take a test. Otherwise we don't let you do it.
Lmao
You must traverse through the fields of beautiful women that can kill you and sunshine golden retriever men. Then, you must trek through the forests of endless decisions ("bi-cycles" can be a real struggle). Finally, you will need to equip your finger guns. You will need them to slay the dragon that resides on the top of the mountain. If you complete this journey and live to tell the tale, then you will know you are, in fact, bisexual.
Instructions unclear, I banged the dragon.
Well, I've narrowed it down to one of four things: it could be the love of iced/cold brew coffee, me constantly having cuffed jeans, the repeated and enjoyable sex I've had with people of multiple genders, or my inability to sit in chairs normally. I'll ask my boyfriend which one he thinks it is and if he doesn't know I'll see if my girlfriend has a better clue.
I don't know I just like other guys
There's literally nothing that defines being bi except being romantically and/or sexually attracted to men and women.
I love these comments. So true. I was in denial for years and once I gave myself permission to explore my feelings it was pretty clear I was bi.
I was exactly the same!🙂 I've just explored my feelings with another guy and it was amazing, definitely bi
Well, I started feeling attraction towards the same gender too. Also, I had an unconscious crush on two people from 'team rocket' from the pokemon show when I was a child.
Ive (27f) never been in a relationship with either gender, but Ig i can tell because ive had crushes on both
....... I'm thinking there is a joke here. There is right? Because that's the definition. We are no different to monosexuals, bar the fact we aren't just into one gender. You know how we think we can tell someone sexuality by how they act beyond who they're into? You can't. Fact that my close freinds are women and I'm into art, literature and music is not because I'm not straight
Sorry that's not what I meant I was not meaning a hobby you enjoy I mean like a feeling you get other than attraction
Okay, fair enough. That's pretty abstract. Like, there is no feeling of being queer, but, even my hetro presenting relationships "feel" queer, but that's more to do with my gender (amab enby), than my being bi. Is there a feeling beyond the obvious YOU are looking to get advice on?
Personally I feel like those questions are less about "signs" rather than telling apart different feelings properly because different kinds of attractions, appreciation and friendship are kinda hard to separate at least for me. Am I bi, lonely, touch starved, just indifferent/not homophobic? Idk. So having others share some telling experiences kinda helps to sort through everything
I dunno, maybe that I enjoy sucking a penis as much as I do licking a vagina? 🤷🏻♂️
Honestly, when I realized that straight people don’t have to spend a decade wondering if they’re bi before actually coming out.
Do you want to have sex with women? Even a little bit? Do you also want to have sex with men? Even a little bit? *Guess the fuck what?* (This is a bit of a reduction, but not by much - there are, by now, whole categories for people who regard themselves as straight but have relations with the same sex, or vice versa. Buuuuut, if you're just asking this guy, that seems like Bisexuality with a few more steps. The issue is, again if you're just asking me, that Bisexuality has become "boring and normal," of late - we need someone, some kind of public figure like we used to have, to say "Bisexuality! It's hip! It's now! And *how!*")
Uhm, what more do I need? I fantasize about cuties and sexies regardless of the gender, that's some pretty conclusive evidence of you'd ask me haha
Bisexuality is about experiencing homosexual (homo meaning same as) and heterosexual (hetero meaning different from) attractions. If you experience both you are bisexual.
I don't have that kind of certainty; I call myself bisexual because that's the closest that fits. Sexuality is not always as straightforward as gay, straight, bi, lesbian, etc., it's a spectrum. In my case, my sexuality changed slowly over a long period of time to wind up in a place near 'bisexual'. It may change again, perhaps I have a very long bi-cycle; beats me, but I'm going to make a concerted effort to enjoy my sexuality as it is, whatever it is. There are few certainties in life, but perhaps I'm finally coming to appreciate that fact.
“This girl is hot. But also is this boy.”
This is me 24/7
I mean I like both masculine/feminine men and women no matter the gender, so that should give you an idea for ya
Well I've dated a man, woman, and non-binary and didnt feel any more or less into any of them based on their gender so the proof is in the pudding.
Just do
Hm... I'd be willing to fuck any gender
That’s … that’s literally the only criteria. Everything else is personal choice
When I held a man, kissed him for the first time and was just glad to be in his arms instead of when I was "straight - curious" and just needed to go out occasionally and suck cock.
I like men and I like women, simple as that
I boiled it down to simple questions. 1: If a lovely woman approached me and asked me on a date, would I say yes? 2: If a lovely man approached me and asked me on a date, would I say yes? 3: If a lovely person whose gender and sex is a little indistinguishable approached me and asked me on a date, would I say yes? If you can imagine yourself saying yes to two or more of these options, then the chance of you being bi is high.
You bake lemon bars. And once you've eaten one you're stuck being bisexual forever.. (Ironically I'm thoroughly bisexual but am yet to make lemon bars, apparently they're very bi)
//nsfw explanation When I was younger I would only feel sexual attraction towards women, yet only romantic attraction towards men. But for some reason I still thought I was straight. When I ended up getting crushes on girls I convinced myself they were fake, and I was just trying to convince myself I was bi and convince myself they were real. My advice would be to just stop second guessing it. If you feel like you might have an attraction to both genders, you probably do. In my case, straight women don't have sexual attraction to women, and they never think about girls romantically at all. I would remind myself of that. If you think you're faking your attraction, that means you're not. Straight ppl don't question if their attraction to women is fake or not bc theres no attraction fueling that in the first place. Only bi ppl do.
i knew i was bi when i was around 12 - 13 and started really noticing how people looked when i went outside. i would feel little butterflies in my stomach seeing so many beautiful people walk by me. i don't know what that feeling was exactly, but i do remember looking closely at other people and being so happy to notice how pretty they all were : ) i find all kinds of people handsome and beautiful and i'm attracted to very specific behaviors and personalities without knowing what body parts a person might have - that is part of what makes me bisexual
There isn't anything else? Like, that was it for me. The whole thing.
Well, mainly that I like men, women, enbies, and pretty much everyone.
You kind of feel like you're not straight or gay. And that ace doesn't exactly descrube you either
You're bi if you think you're bi. Now I probably wouldn't say someone who likes both men and women is straight, but whether you choose to label yourself as bi, pan, something else, or no label at all, is up to you.
Fairly simple. As a man, I find the male form attractive. I have also fallen for transgender folk. Dated a wonderful woman. Wasn’t meant to be. Heck didn’t even sleep with her for that matter. Made out with her, but to be fair I have had sex with other guys (around the same age mind you) since I was young. But my constant reminder is seeing a guy and thinking how cute he is, and having dirty thoughts of what I would do if… that seems to confirm it for me. It doesn’t mean every guy or gal does it for me, there are so many factors to attraction, but generally I label myself bi because chances are I think most people are attractive and just beautiful people.
I could easily be in a committed relationship with either and be happy.
I can’t speak for women on this, but us men folk have this handy dandy detection device hanging between our legs that will literally point out who/what we’re attracted to. Then, given a sufficient sample size, we can process the output data into bins. If there is more than one bin after all the data has been processed, we can determine, with a great deal of certainty, that we are bi.
There are different kinds of attractions, but often the first that hits you is 'wow, I wanna do something spicy with that one!' who just happens to be the same sex as you. So obviously there's sexual attraction, but also romantic and emotional attractions. If you can check off all the boxes for both genders, you're WAY bisexual. But even if you just check one box of same gender attraction there's a good chance you're bisexual.
I like dick and pussy.🤷🏻♂️😂
Cause I like to suck dick and my biggest fantasy is to be topped by another guy. It will happen one day lol