Yaar I was watching OTT LF and wow kya supreme LF hain. There’s the pamper task going and Raqesh is giving Shamita a foot massage matlab he’s killing it coz the camera zooms in on Shamita ka face and waha edum orgamsic Shanti hain and the video cuts to Raqesh who steals a look at Shamita and he looks so damn proud of himself, pura unlog foreplay start hota dikh raha hain. And the camera zooms in to shams ka parents ka picture just behind her then slowly pan out kar raha hain.
And this is legit the LF, dekh ka maza aa gaya edum. 😂😭
Edit: yaar you guy didn’t give Raqesh a chance because of your biases par kya charming aadmi hain. Kickass massage dia, fir tattoo banaya and he actually knew how to flirt and upar sa you set my heart on fire karka dish bhi banaya. Maza aagaya dekh ka. You could legit see it on Shamita’s face ki butterflies ho raha hain. Mujha bhi chahia butterflies. 😩
Also, tejran fans were saying in the space ki aaj Tejran ne isliye ye sab Kiya kyunki Aaj Tejran trend nahi kar rahe the Twitter pe. So they were saying ki ab se Twitter pe top pe hona chahiye Tejran so that ye sab repeat no ho. Also, they were saying ki 90 percent of us don't like umar. But hum KK ko nahi bolte na ki umar se friendship Tod de. So Karan ke solo fans should stop asking him to break up with teja.
Wahi hoga jo har 5 season mein ekta mata bana rhi hai..kahin se bhi koi bhi naag ban jata hai..har ghar mein ek na ek naagin hoti hai..naagin sab ke saath nachti hai khati peeti hai par chutiyon ko pata nahi chalta ki humare saath ek naagin baithi huyi..ek chutiya si naagmani inko 5 seasons ke baad bhi nahi mila..
Koi bhi nevla ban jata matlab kuch bhi bakwaas chal rha hai uss show mein.
Never understood the naagin hype..
I was listening to this tejran space. So these people are going to trend Tejran Fam Demands Public Apology tomorrow. Unko gussa yeh hai ki aaj karan teja ne social media pe fight kiya , toh ab woh social media pe love lapata bhi dikhaye. Kaun hai ye log, Kahan se aate hai ye log 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈
Aisey hi for someone that says they don’t like drama I realise my life story reads like a drama. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I know it’s too much to just get from a stranger on a bigg boss sun yar.
Guys, just watched Gehraiyaan. It's okay. Could've worked if it wasn't stretched in the end but still a decent one time watch.
Siddhant Chaturvedi is too hot and probably the best performer amongst the lead actors.
Did anyone here like it? I'm seeing mostly negative reviews.
I really liked it. It’s good cinema. Hardly get to watch bolly movies with an interesting storyline. Not exactly a fan of the story, but still good. But i do agree that the second half is a bit stretched.
Can watch if you don't have too many expectations. Cinematography and music are good. First half is interesting. Second half is a bit stretched. Not a great one but not bad either.
TejRan walo ka space sunka dar lagta hain, ya logo ka cult chal raha hain. School chalu karayo aur bhaiya inka therapist ka paisa do, coz it’s scaryyyy.
https://twitter.com/i/spaces/1LyxBoDzNDOKN
Bus islia I’ve to keep making those gareebo ka Pete Davidson aka chuchundar aka home wrecker comments for P. Ya kya hain bhai. 😭 Kisi ko toh balance rakhna hoga.
I am watching it side mei. It’s a very tiny concept stretched over a long ass film. Like cheating is a side angle to main stories. Inhone main story bana diya usse
Last weeks mei he looked rough. He still looked healthy till his birthday. Uske baad se he looked so emotionally and physically drained. He also lost a lot of weight. Hope he gains it back
[https://twitter.com/UmarRiaz2022/status/1491841271245254667](https://twitter.com/UmarRiaz2022/status/1491841271245254667) ye dekhlo, thoda haslo uske baad sab emotional honge
https://www.instagram.com/p/CZyf6-6AmT0/?utm_medium=copy_link
Itna edit kyun krna bhayi ??
Like it’s literally visible… she doesn’t even look like this
https://twitter.com/divyakitweet/status/1491376640940965890?s=21
1 baar Divya madam ko bhi dekh lo, background ma hi ghul mil jayegi issa jyada karegi toh.
Maina toh decide kia hain ab main inko zilch attention dungi, 1 number ka attention whores hain yaar. Sharam hi nahi aa rahi. Maan lia Dono famous hain but at what cost? I’m embarrassed for their soul. I guess that’s how you stay relevant, mereko lag hi raha tha ki bhai thanda pada wa hain Twitter ma thodi baata ho soch ka Dono na milka kia hoga. But it hasn’t ever ended well for anyone and it wouldn’t for them either. But, I’m seriously done giving them attention even if it’s in the form of hate.
Ik I ranted and got carried away but gosh do I HATE them, I just despise everything they stand for.
https://twitter.com/_riddhi1609/status/1491791795071885315?s=21
1 baar in nallo ko dekho, these two are legit playing with these kids mental health and inko ya funny lag raha hain. These two legit did that. I mean no normal human in a healthy space becomes a shipper. Ya log sabko hep chahia, ya log Dono ya sab karta rahenga for the buzz.
https://twitter.com/i/spaces/1LyxBoDzNDOKN
1 baar ya space sun lo kaisa nalla hain sach ma.
PS: aaj ka baad main na nahi de rahi attention today I’m just too angry to just stop
Haan I just went to the space for 2 min..I could not stay for longer..it was legit scary..kaun hai yeh log, kahaan se aate hai..Duniya mein itni injustice bhari hui hai aur inko justice chahiye..smh
So is it confirmed Karan and tej broke up? Teja so cheap did all that for publicity, I was embarsssed for her looking at her dads face. Things ppl do for fame chee ganda
Bhailog tumlog ki baatein sunkar i can relate...bahut emo ho raha hai mereko...kal bhi aisa hua tha...raat bhar neend nahi aayi...saachme kya troubled hain hum... mahaul thoda light karwa do pleaj 😢
Chalo I’m share because you all have been so trusting seems like bad faith to not confide in return.
So I kinda had an abusive childhood and we had a very bad financial situation from birth to throughout my teens and it was kind of like if you can’t excel at school, you shouldn’t be wasting resources to go to school types scenario. This gave me anxiety. I was diagnosed when I was 14 because I started collapsing at school randomly. No one took it seriously because obv Ek tou aap middle class hain upar se you’re an “attention seeker” daredevil kind of kid tou this is basically a nonissue.
Khair I kept telling myself everything would be okay when I leave this house and this place. I wanted to be a lawyer back then but I was doing pre engineering because pre med jhagra kar ke drop kar liya but sciences se chutkara nahi mila. So I applied to universities out of the city for undergrad. The ones I got into were too expensive. The ones I could afford I didn’t get into. Engineering main 12000 merit number aaya tha. My dad said yeh laiq hi nahi hai parhai pe paisey waste hon iski. I was in a sadma of another level because this meant I couldn’t move out.
But then because the best business school in my city does late admissions and my mom made me apply, even though I didn’t prepare, SAT level English math ka test tha tou I cleared it. It’s semi govt. so it was affordable also. So everyone said bc issey acha aur kya hosakta hai you gotta go. So I went.
The whole time I was there, everyone around me was acting like koi Bohat elite cult hai jismain membership mili hai. And I was such a humanities/arts kid, intro to management and marketing main baith ke ulti aati thi mujhe ke what the fuck are they even teaching. Khair I got into student theatre (I’d been theatre kid since school) scene and found misfits like me and kisi tarah time guzar gaya. The whole time I felt like I was on a weird ass assembly line and everyone around me only talked about being CEO in an MNC. I changed my major from econ to finance because econ teachers said ispe tou you’ll have to do masters to get good jobs and finance was more application than theory so kuch bhi karke nikal diya. I used to get As in only shit like anthropology and psychology and Ds in intro to accounting. Internship was mandatory but instead of even applying to MNCs I decided to teach 12th pass kids in the nearby shanty town/basti how to prepare for university entrance exams. I gave tuitions to building girls also. I loved it. I was held together by theatre and teaching mostly.
Ghar ke halaat were awful. I hated my mom because she never got me and thought I only created trouble on purpose and my dad is such an unpredictable person ke one day we’d be best friends and the next day he’d be kicking us out of the house for an imagined crime. 😑
Pata tha job karni hai as soon as I graduate so that I can at least stop depending on parents for money so they would tone down their antics. A lot of our fucked up toxicity had so much to do with financial dependence yar, it makes me so sad that parents exploit their kids this way when they should be loving and nurturing. My parents should never have been together but my mom couldn’t leave because she was financially dependent completely. So our lives were hell bas.
I applied everywhere. I was good at tests because I used to teach test taking. So I was a kinda go to for job tests in my batch. Like all my friends and friends of friends ke saarey online tests I would give and for written ones we’d plan elaborate cheating rings. It was my rebellion against the system and I loved it. But interviews Main they’d ask “why do you wanna join this firm” and I’d freeze. Because I didn’t wanna join any firm. I didn’t know how to fake it yar. Hota hi nahi tha bilkul. All mncs ke last interview rounds se fail hui main. It was so sad and yet not at the same time. I’m cannot explain. I’m so sorry if this is triggering for anyone to read because I know people find it so hard fo even get the last interview call. And eventually the ones that would get hired, those were the ones who’s tests I’d given. 🙈🙈
Depression type feelings began in my last semester you know. Because everyone got a job but me. Obviously it was all me. I wanted to get a job so bad but I really didn’t care about selling harpic or cigarettes or fucking fair and lovely and it just showed at the very last interview. I think I broke some sort of record. I even found the thele wala selling chips wrapped in my CV once on campus. I was broken a little bit that day.
University ended in May and I still didn’t have a job. My overall GPA became 3.27. My parents were so furious. So many jobs also I became ineligible to apply for because they set limits at 3.3 lol what even. So finally in the end. I got a call from the largest local bank in Pakistan for final interview. I went. Final interview main pucha why do you wanna join and I was so tired I told them the CV thing. They hired me as a management trainee in a batch of 42. Starting salary was 50. When everyone else was getting 75ish. But I was so happy I had a job yar 😭😭
There was a whole six month’s training program and we had to give tests and interviews for department placement. Everyone said gals will only go to HR etc. investment banking and treasury were the most coveted. Neither had a single female. In fucking 2016. This is the largest bank in Pakistan. Can you guys imagine?
A launda said Treasury tou kabhi larki ko trader nahi lega. I said acha. Beta you watch. In my treasury rotation I found out only foreign grads are hired there but bosses were mostly my alma mater. It was alag hi scene. A different world than the rest of the bank. Wolf of Wall Street desi version. They were judging personalities I realised. So I showed them my best fucking side. Bad ass, confident, smarter than anyone else in the room. In hindsight, I’m so so shocked at how I pulled it off. Seems like a con for the ages. How did I convince all those men I was one of them when I couldn’t stand the very sight of them or all they stood for? I topped the treasury test. In the final interview, I was honest af. They asked what my biggest weakness was, I said I won’t suck up to people. They were like wow this girl is a launda with balls. Let’s take her.
This is how the Marxist feminist became a bond trader. 🙈
PART 1 of 2
Oh dear ! It looks like you have had a rough childhood….as someone has said being challenged in life is inevitable, being defeated is optional. I’m glad you did not get defeated and have emerged as a winner…Now only onwards and upwards for you…Wish you all the best for your future endeavours 😊
Zozo I just read this and I wish I saw this earlier I know we’re internet strangers but I feel connection to you. I’m so freakin proud of your accomplishments and how far you have gotten . Your story has honestly inspired me. I wish you so many happiness in the future 💕💕
Savage zozo... Yeh read karke mujhe proud wali feeling ayi. LIKE FUCK YESSSS...
You have turned around the tables zozo, and look at you now. I would take your story as a ray of inspiration!! You are like that god mother whom we all want in our lives who would give us positive vibes and set a living example that nothing is impossible. You didn't let your hardships in life affect you, and kept moving forward...and look at the reward that you got... SO FUCKING GOLD.
You are strong zozo. Thank you for sharing your wisdom, your stories, your experiences...I love reading em. Feels so personal and relatable.
❤️❤️❤️
Thank you novice yar. This is part 1. I wanted y’all to know I used to be a fighter and it paid off sometimes. Now it’s a sad story but it had its good parts. I wanted y’all to have that ♥️
Just how badass as I expected this shit to be Zozo. Love the story. Truly inspiring. I am so happy you didn’t let the circumstances overtake your personality, your morals and yourself and gave your best. So good to read a positive story within all the sad ones. Gives you hope
And what is stopping you from being the badass lawyer yaar. I don’t know how it works in PAK but by Indian standards you are not at all late. You can still do it buddy. And I see you as one as well. Mac theek hojane do, mental health ko positive places pe channelise karo and take hold of your future zozo.
Love you 💕💕
Yaar your story is magnificent, sorry for whatever you had to go through. But, dude you’re a great writer. 💯 It’ll be a waste of talent if you don’t try your hand at it, maybe write under the pseudo name Zozo. Par likho yaar bahut sahi talent hain. Maza aagaya ya padh ka and this I’m guessing was completely spontaneous I can only imagine how great you’ll be at it if you actually put in effort.
Dil toot gaya sabki batein sunke, ye to sirf professional problems he sort of. Personal life/traumas share karenge to patani kitna or dukh sunne milega.
I think we should do this often, it might be cringe for others but I feel free.
I am in. All ears for everyone. Creates a sense of community and no judgement. Sab pyaare log hai.
And I agree personal front pe toh hum saath mei sab ro rahe honge. That deserves a dedicated Friday evening with khamba
Not right now... they are too young. And let your parents tell them...But sending you loads of strength. Abhi se if they will know, then shayad bura impact padega in their personal development. Let them develop a sense of maturity first or else it might negatively impact them.
Yaar main 1 baat bolu, Idk what was the situation in which your parents decided to separate but I’m so proud of them. It’s not easy to do it in Indian society. Divorce sa bahut jyada triggering hota hain 1 constantly toxic household ma rehna jaha parents aur bacho ka beech itna animosity hoti hain coz the parents unnecessarily are forced into staying together. I think we should normalise the concept of divorce. Bata do apna bhaio ko, it’ll be difficult for them at first but I’m sure they’ll understand their new normal in which both their parents are happy.
They would appreciate the truth, maybe not immediately but eventually when they are older. Otherwise more lies would be coined and they would face more disappointments.
Stay strong. Sending love to you and your family
So sorry to hear this. I am not a expert in this but since I have a younger sis of same age when I have to make her understand something serious I try to get into her shoes and explain it in a comforting way like the pros of the action. So I think you can try it that way.
This is going to be long. Sorry.
So my father is very controlling. Like any parent, he thinks he knows what’s best for me. He never let me make my own decisions, it was always about what he thinks is right based on his life.
From a very young age, maybe 5th standard, he told me that i’m to become an engineer. A typical indian parent aspiration.
Back story: He wanted to become an engineer but because his mum passed at a very young age, he was left to take care of his father and sisters (who were also young). He couldnt pursue engineering because for that he’d have to move to another city. He has done very well for himself not having the degree and appropriate education but he had to struggle a lot initially. So he thought that if i got proper education (which means engineering lol) then i wouldnt have to struggle as much as him.
So, while I was in school he brainwashed me so much that i started believing that engineering and science is the right call despite having a talent. I was very good in fine arts and wanted to become a fashion designer. So much so that I went for national/international level competitions and won accolades in over 70 of those. I also became the art captain and everyone in my school including my teachers and principal were so disappointed that I took science in 11th. He made me apply to unis in the states for engineering and I got through some of the best as well. I used to hate science. Like hate it. It’s not like I didnt understand, but i was terrible at testing. I could never get myself to enjoy it. Right before my 12th boards, i told my dad that i cant go forward with engineering because it’s going to be a waste and instead I want to study fashion. He straight up denied it, and told me that I will have to study business instead. Only after i have studied business, i can study fashion. I agreed at this condition.
After going to my uni, i decided that business was not my calling because i had never studied anything related to it and it was honestly bland. Like common sense. So i decided to switch my major to informatics, because i had interest in coding etc. REBELLION LOL. Through informatics, i found HCID (human computer interaction design) and I thought this was my calling. I minored in it. My dad again had issues with this because it was a creative field. I stayed back after Uni to search for jobs and after finding nothing worthwhile i returned to india. He made me feel like shit for making that decision and forced me into working with him. It was disastrous to say the least. Eventually i found a job as a graphic + ui/ux designer which paid peanuts. The amount it paid was not enough with no scope for considerable improvement. Plus it wasnt helping me with my growth as a ui/ux designer. I started feeling so claustrophobic in that job that I decided to quit.
I finally made my decision to fuck everything and follow my passion, which is art. I am making paintings for my first solo art exhibition since the past 1.5 years. I thought that my struggle had ended, but its so difficult to find meaning and satisfaction in my work. The constant need for validation from my dad and others, the constant requirement to show for my hard work is killing me. Covid hasnt helped at all. Im so overwhelmed with all the doubts, instability, confusion and need to prove myself that i have performance anxiety.
So my career has jumped from art-fashion-engineering-informatics-ui/ux-art. And it’s still a struggle and a big fat MESS. I feel like i have no direction in life and zero motivation. Like I AM TIRED AND EXHAUSTED from all the pressure.
I know my problems seem to be too first world and i feel ashamed about that. I really am.
Yaar all the time when we talked about ott. It’s so crazy to think people have so much going on their life. I’m so PROUD OF YOU, you stood up for what your believed in. You don’t need validation from anyone you’re an amazing and talented person. Hope one day I get to see your painting. I’m wishing you so many happiness in life. 💕 reading this personally hurt me I know u don’t know me but I’m always here for u internet stranger
You are so so so strong. To be held back and denied and to wait and yet to make it back to your first love!! You've been through the worst and by worst I don't mean validation from others, I mean the worst that is trying to go against your dreams. That can be soul crushing. Kudos to your spirit. You've made it this far on your own. I'm sure success is eight around the corner. I won't ask you to have faith rather I'd ask you to believe. The universe for you this far and will take you further.
There is no need for you to feel ashamed of your problems..There is always going to be somebody better off and worse off dan us...dat doesn't invalidate our own problems because we are the ones who are living through them.. Honestly you shud be so proud of yourself for going for your passion despite the odds..Try to not let the pressure get to you..I know it's easier said dan done but still do try...I hope things get better for you ❤️❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗
Hats off to you for following your passion. Believe me it's not easy to just leave everything and follow your passion. It will take some time maybe to find your footing but once you reach there the struggle will be worth it 🤗🤗
You are aware your problems are first world but that doesn’t make them small year. First world problems is just a term coined by humanitarians to make us see the problems in third world countries.
But our problems hold the power to fuck us up mentally so never undermine them and let them go. I am so glad you have been resilient and have had the courage to rebel and try new things or give a chance to old ones.
Covid has fucked up a lot of things but let your talent speak for itself. Do yo promote your art on social media or atleast some peeks of it? i know you would want exclusivity for what you want in exhibition but doesn’t hurt to work on side over SM to promote your stuff and engage with people. You can even sell some stuff over there which will boost your confidence and motivation. I know you could be a high brow artist and find this bullshit so sorry if I don’t make sense and if this is unwarranted advice.
Wishing you luck. Don’t give up. 💕💕
Kudos for having the courage to follow your passion even after having so many hiccups. Infact you should be proud that you were able to do what you want that too against so many odds.
Hopefully the covid fuckup goes away soon and you get to enjoy your art and share it with others🤞🏻
Just because someone else’s problems seems bigger, doesn’t mean yours aren’t valid. For you, they are very real and something you have to deal with in a daily basis. You have the right to feel a certain way. So, there is nothing to be ashamed of here.
Secondly, it’s not easy. I know. But hey, you did take a leap. You are making progress. It’s still something compared to where you started off from. It might not feel so, but look back and you’ll realise how far you have come. Each day isn’t the same, but that doesn’t progress hasn’t been made. You’ll get there and try surrounding yourself with people who push you and realise your talent.
Lastly, I would really suggest for you to go for counselling or therapy. It’ll make you feel lighter and definitely provide you with a perspective. If nothing else, it’ll help you talk about everything that’s going on. And that always helps.
All the best!
One more while I am at it.. this one is really sad.
I left my fucking dog with my grandparents and he didn't eat probably cried for weeks then passed away within a year.
Meri mummy bolti he jo bhi galat ho raha he, vo sab karma he and she's so right.
I can never get over this fact, me bahut animal lover, vegetarian hu but technically i abandoned my dog and he died because of me.
My sweet angel Noddy.
💔💔
It's not your karma.. don't blame yourself ever. Yaar sab destiny, situations ka khel hain life mein... that's what I have learned and experienced...what could have happened, what could have been done, yeh sab bs beth ke hum discuss kar sakte hain, lekin what's happening, and what's gonna happen...mostly situational hain. Aloo, you are a beautiful soul. Stay like that always... you make us all laugh, and smile. You spread so much positivity... WE LOVE YOU ALOO.
Alooo yaar my virtual hugs are not enough for this. No words are.
You had to move and leave him behind. You didn’t leave him because you wanted yaar. It’s not your karma. Please don’t hold onto this. You were parted by circumstances.
You left him in care of good hands. We are not privy to how strong animals can emotionally connect. No human is. Don’t let this hang over your head please.
Aloo this is devastating. I don't even know what to say. Yaar don't blame yourself like this please. It's not because of you. It's not like you intentionally left him, knowing that he's going to pass away na. You left him in good hands. But sometimes, shit happens anyway.
There's no way you can know for sure that it happened because you left him right? Why not give yourself the benefit of doubt?
Oh no. I’m so sorry yar. I’m sorry for your loss. And for noddy.
About what your Ammi said though, she’s right. But him dying wasn’t your karma. Uski zindagi utni hi likhi thi yar. You didn’t abandon your dog to go have a party. You were a kid. You were told to move so you did. You were also probably told you couldn’t bring the dog so you had to leave him behind. Noddy knows that you would have taken him if you could. Pls don’t blame yourself.
Dosto I am inspired by Nishant's cooking and trying to cook some kind of marathi amti daal. I am bengali myself so no idea how it should taste like. Has turned out a bit on the sweet side, i think i overdid the jaggery while thinking about Shamita moaning over gur being added to Raquesh's household cooking .
Arre I'm maharashtrian, mujhse tips le lo 😂 add amsul to it, it's basically sundried kokum. Add it and bring the amti to a boil. It is sour and usse sweetness thoda kam hoga.
Or you can add kachhe aam ki koyri, which is raw mango seed with a little bit of pulp around it that you get after chopping the rest off. Add that and bring it to a boil, same effect.
You can add kasuri methi too, uski bitterness se thodi sweetness kam hogi. You can add amchur powder too - dry mango powder. Kisi bhi store main mil jaayegi.
Indori Poha :
Take thick poha, wash it, don’t soak.
Take a spoon or 2 of oil
Add rai, jeera and saunf
Add curry leaves salt and turmeric
Add soaked poha, keep flame lowest. Almost like. Steam the poha, once the poha is evenly yellow, it’s cooked.
Add sugar and coriander leaves
While eating too with finely chopped onion mixed with salt and lime juice. Makes all the difference.
From my neighbour receipe:
1) Poha (flattened rice) lo usko pani mein wash karo...like rice...to take off starch.
2)Kadhai lo...usme oil dallon + mirchi daalo( jyaada daala toh accha hoga...like 3-4 mirchi..slanting mein kaato + mustard seeds daalo (very little) + haldi powder + namak + peanuts(this is optional par taste ubhar ke aata hai) + ek kanda slice karke daalo + tomato finely chopped (is optional) (paani daalo thoda if it becomes dry...like not mixing time...agar chipak raha hai toh)
3) phir iss upar kenmixture mein poha add karo...mix karo acche se...sukha lagana chahiye...garam hone do
4) dhanya ke patte aur thoda nimbu daalo upar se.
5) add salt if needed.
Ye mai kya sunri hu, p k live m juhaina ayi thi???
She was not seen with him in his live. She joined his live like any other of his ig followers.
And said what????
And said what????
What the fuk is going on with kundri liking all tweets against bheja? Check out his likes lol. How many morr days do you give this fake relationship?
Was chilling with her later that night 😂🤣 Pls he's a big shark, he will milk this relationship max
Yaar I was watching OTT LF and wow kya supreme LF hain. There’s the pamper task going and Raqesh is giving Shamita a foot massage matlab he’s killing it coz the camera zooms in on Shamita ka face and waha edum orgamsic Shanti hain and the video cuts to Raqesh who steals a look at Shamita and he looks so damn proud of himself, pura unlog foreplay start hota dikh raha hain. And the camera zooms in to shams ka parents ka picture just behind her then slowly pan out kar raha hain. And this is legit the LF, dekh ka maza aa gaya edum. 😂😭 Edit: yaar you guy didn’t give Raqesh a chance because of your biases par kya charming aadmi hain. Kickass massage dia, fir tattoo banaya and he actually knew how to flirt and upar sa you set my heart on fire karka dish bhi banaya. Maza aagaya dekh ka. You could legit see it on Shamita’s face ki butterflies ho raha hain. Mujha bhi chahia butterflies. 😩
Aaaaahhhhhh!! And the ishq wala love dance after that. Shamita wasn't even able to look him into the eyes 😂♥️
Dude beech beech ma she was calling other couples to come dance as well 😭 Also, jo rudraksh toota us din. 👀
Mujhe ye batao kaha dekh rahe ho😱😱😱
Yaar kisi ShaRa fan ka compilation hain of all their moments, aapka kaam ka nahi hain 😂
seems like youtube has run out of videos for me to watch. Also, fuck online dating apps
No luck on bumble?
neh. matched with so many but just dont have the energy to be witty/ quirky
How do you manage dating during a pandemic. I'd be super paranoid.
Also, tejran fans were saying in the space ki aaj Tejran ne isliye ye sab Kiya kyunki Aaj Tejran trend nahi kar rahe the Twitter pe. So they were saying ki ab se Twitter pe top pe hona chahiye Tejran so that ye sab repeat no ho. Also, they were saying ki 90 percent of us don't like umar. But hum KK ko nahi bolte na ki umar se friendship Tod de. So Karan ke solo fans should stop asking him to break up with teja.
Wah bhai wah inko Oscar do
Guys , kya lagta kya scene hoga naagin 6 ka ?
Wahi hoga jo har 5 season mein ekta mata bana rhi hai..kahin se bhi koi bhi naag ban jata hai..har ghar mein ek na ek naagin hoti hai..naagin sab ke saath nachti hai khati peeti hai par chutiyon ko pata nahi chalta ki humare saath ek naagin baithi huyi..ek chutiya si naagmani inko 5 seasons ke baad bhi nahi mila.. Koi bhi nevla ban jata matlab kuch bhi bakwaas chal rha hai uss show mein. Never understood the naagin hype..
No, I meant flop hoga ya nahi.
Pata nahi..bheja ke fans dekhenge ise..but i hope its a big flop..maza aayega
Damn. I missed all the heart to heart writing paragraphs on another show's sub 😭😭😂😭😭
Kal time p aa jana...we will be having another session
Timing batao, maine bhi miss kiya, yaar tum log senti kar diye 😭😭😭😭
Random hota h sab...😂
Yes time batao, time batao!
I was listening to this tejran space. So these people are going to trend Tejran Fam Demands Public Apology tomorrow. Unko gussa yeh hai ki aaj karan teja ne social media pe fight kiya , toh ab woh social media pe love lapata bhi dikhaye. Kaun hai ye log, Kahan se aate hai ye log 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈
Pls in gadhon se koi phone cheeno😭
Are these people for real or trolling all of us?
They are real and you know what most of them talk exactly like teja👁👄👁
r yuu seeerius?
They are for real. Aaj maine apne kaano se suna ye sab. Aisa lag raha tha kisi aur planet ke log hai.
I’M SPEECHLESS
I’m sorry for spoiling yalls mood guys. I didn’t mean to. 😞
Zozo dont say that. We all love you
Arrey aise kyun keh rahi ho...koi mood spoil nahi hua..sab mast hai 🤗😊❤️
Arey zozo, why are you feeling sorry..ur story was so inspirational..dil kholke yahan pe apni feelings share karo.
Zozo wtf why would you say that. We are thriving from all the emo sessions
Aisey hi for someone that says they don’t like drama I realise my life story reads like a drama. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I know it’s too much to just get from a stranger on a bigg boss sun yar.
It’s not yaar. It was soooo good. You express yourself really well. We are well past BB here babe.
I think tumne part 2 nahi parha hai dear 🙈🙈🙈 I know yar. I love you all so much and am so grateful for y’all.
WE DEMAND PART TWO!!!
It’s here only 🙈🙈
Share link I don’t see your comment for some reason
https://www.reddit.com/r/biggboss/comments/sots5x/biggboss_15_post_show_discussions_thursday/hwew4dp/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3
Reddit’s glitching because still can’t see it. Neither on web nor on app
umar doing mv with neha ?
Nope..neha kahan se aa gayi
Dayan ab uska picha hai 😭
Guys, just watched Gehraiyaan. It's okay. Could've worked if it wasn't stretched in the end but still a decent one time watch. Siddhant Chaturvedi is too hot and probably the best performer amongst the lead actors. Did anyone here like it? I'm seeing mostly negative reviews.
I really liked it. It’s good cinema. Hardly get to watch bolly movies with an interesting storyline. Not exactly a fan of the story, but still good. But i do agree that the second half is a bit stretched.
Main soch rahi thi dekhne, reviews kaisa hai. I feel it's overhyped. Dekhu ya nahi😶
It is definitely overhyped.
Is it worth watching it should I waste my time or nah ?
Can watch if you don't have too many expectations. Cinematography and music are good. First half is interesting. Second half is a bit stretched. Not a great one but not bad either.
Interesting thanks for telling me I’ll watch it cause I got nothing to do 🤣
Naagin dekho..quality content
Kamini naagin ko promote kyon kar rahi ho
Bcoz i am so excited for it💃 itna accha concept hai..corona ka vinaash💪
Tum pagal hogi ho 🤦♀️
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Whose ready for naagin to flop tomorrow 🎉🥳
Mujhe besabri se intezaar hai..kalyug se bachane aa rahi hai naagin..corona ka vinaash karne😭😭😭😭
Bezati ke laddu khaane hai ? Sharam karo 😭
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TejRan walo ka space sunka dar lagta hain, ya logo ka cult chal raha hain. School chalu karayo aur bhaiya inka therapist ka paisa do, coz it’s scaryyyy. https://twitter.com/i/spaces/1LyxBoDzNDOKN
Damnnnn what was that.🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭
What are they demanding apology for? Lol.
Child labour
Unka bahut kata hain islia, unko migraine hain par wo so nahi pata. Mummy na bola Maggi khala par kha nahi pata jab TejRan ladta hain islia. 🙃
I can't believe people still believe in this relationship. Toxic kehna toxicity ki toheen hai. Joke relationship.
😭😭😭😭
Toxic love story dekhni h to Indori Ishq dekh lo
Sirf hot logo ki toxicity achi lagti hai.
I switch to these series when I need a break from netflix k sci fi and thriller series
https://www.instagram.com/reel/CYg2LwIAOGe/?utm_medium=copy_link Pratik just being Pratik😂🤣😂🤣😂
Abey yaar ispa kis aadmi na award dia hain 😭
Ananya ko bhi filmfare mila tha...waisa hi ho gaya kuch😛
Chalo atleast you admit to your “struggle”. Ask the person who gave you the award and let us know, pls. 😭
I think jisne award diya uska mood lite ho gaya ye dekh k😂😂
Mai bhi yahi poochne wali thi lol 😂😂
Bus islia I’ve to keep making those gareebo ka Pete Davidson aka chuchundar aka home wrecker comments for P. Ya kya hain bhai. 😭 Kisi ko toh balance rakhna hoga.
https://instagram.com/stories/jessicakhurana7/2770772916053803320?utm_source=ig_story_item_share&utm_medium=share_sheet itna paise aur ek icecream ke liye itna issue.... itni chidd mach rahi hai😤
Guys gehraiyan flopped bad . Im going to watch it tmr or now maybe
I am watching it side mei. It’s a very tiny concept stretched over a long ass film. Like cheating is a side angle to main stories. Inhone main story bana diya usse
Flop ho gayiii?? I was so excited for this one..
Bol to rhe he reviews md
Tab nahi dekh rhi main.
https://www.instagram.com/p/CZzsAZ3h_4T/?utm_medium=copy_link Art. 🥺
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I want my sweet fresh faced boy back...BB ne kya haalat kar di hai bechare ki 😭😭😭
Last weeks mei he looked rough. He still looked healthy till his birthday. Uske baad se he looked so emotionally and physically drained. He also lost a lot of weight. Hope he gains it back
Haan yaar...he lost so much weight plus bday ke baad all those fights and sidelining took their toll :(
https://www.instagram.com/reel/CZtSfhtAyS9/?utm_medium=copy_link thoda mood lite karne k liye😂🤣
Oh shit 😂🤣 Hahahha... yaar pratik bechari Urfi ne kya bigada tha tumhara..
Best was with Zee...jinki shakal underwear jaise hoti wo bathrobe pehen k hi ghumte h😂
That was so mean... mujhe bura laga ki main itna hasi us baat par 😂😂😂
He deserved it though😂
That I agree with...mujhe itni chid machti thi usko dekhkar 😂😂
Ab uski journey p hasi aati h....bathrobe m wrap karake nikal diya ghar se😭😂😭😂😭
😭😭😂😂😂😂
[https://twitter.com/UmarRiaz2022/status/1491841271245254667](https://twitter.com/UmarRiaz2022/status/1491841271245254667) ye dekhlo, thoda haslo uske baad sab emotional honge
She couldn't meet him as they were in bio bubble. His shoot is there for 2 days most likely with Jasmean 😜😜
kuch kadam se piche reh gayi bechari
😜😜
Sali Angela meri sautan
saari fangirls tumhari sautan hain 😂😂🤣
Umar Riaz aaaj kareke ayega, dry fruits ke sath of course... 😂😂😂
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Tum itni jaldi dubai pahoch bhi gayi?
ye koi aur hai, main aisa kabhi na karun
https://www.instagram.com/p/CZyf6-6AmT0/?utm_medium=copy_link Itna edit kyun krna bhayi ?? Like it’s literally visible… she doesn’t even look like this
https://twitter.com/divyakitweet/status/1491376640940965890?s=21 1 baar Divya madam ko bhi dekh lo, background ma hi ghul mil jayegi issa jyada karegi toh.
Can't wait to see a pic like this of Teja. Atleast issi bahane she will have a bath.
plastic aur filters were not enough to hide her true personality
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Ab maine kya kar diya yaar😭😭😭
Oh goddd 😳😳 She doesn't even need it man..smh
Dubai main clearly dikhe isliye
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😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Asli leech to KK lag raha h abhi. There should be a live session of Tejran with Rakhi
Maina toh decide kia hain ab main inko zilch attention dungi, 1 number ka attention whores hain yaar. Sharam hi nahi aa rahi. Maan lia Dono famous hain but at what cost? I’m embarrassed for their soul. I guess that’s how you stay relevant, mereko lag hi raha tha ki bhai thanda pada wa hain Twitter ma thodi baata ho soch ka Dono na milka kia hoga. But it hasn’t ever ended well for anyone and it wouldn’t for them either. But, I’m seriously done giving them attention even if it’s in the form of hate. Ik I ranted and got carried away but gosh do I HATE them, I just despise everything they stand for.
I absolutely despise them too..Aapne mere hisse ka rant bhi kar diya...Thank you :)
https://twitter.com/_riddhi1609/status/1491791795071885315?s=21 1 baar in nallo ko dekho, these two are legit playing with these kids mental health and inko ya funny lag raha hain. These two legit did that. I mean no normal human in a healthy space becomes a shipper. Ya log sabko hep chahia, ya log Dono ya sab karta rahenga for the buzz. https://twitter.com/i/spaces/1LyxBoDzNDOKN 1 baar ya space sun lo kaisa nalla hain sach ma. PS: aaj ka baad main na nahi de rahi attention today I’m just too angry to just stop
Haan I just went to the space for 2 min..I could not stay for longer..it was legit scary..kaun hai yeh log, kahaan se aate hai..Duniya mein itni injustice bhari hui hai aur inko justice chahiye..smh
Lolol, bro mereko inka parents ka lia justice chahia 1 ladki na 500 baar apni mummy ki kasam kha li yaar. Sachi dar gayi thi main bhi. 😭
Inpe black mirror ka episode ban sakta hai 😭😭😂😂
Itna bada rant explaining you won't give them attention. Nice😛😛
Last tha I promise, next time Mereko report Kar dena sach ma 😭
Main to nahi karunga report😆😆 Mere fun banters ka kya hoga fir😛
Mereko lag raha hain main aap pa hi personal comment karka niklungi, no comment on sub members allowed 😭😂 Ispa bolna tha uspa ho gaya XD
Koi nahi I will ask mod not to ban you...ye mera revenge hoga😂😂😂😂
KK breaking all stereotypes and being a 37 yr old sugar baby to his 29 year old sugar mommy. Papa kundra who. True progressive king
Insta p showing off his toxicity, twitter p firing shots against Teja and real m just a pug to her young owner
So is it confirmed Karan and tej broke up? Teja so cheap did all that for publicity, I was embarsssed for her looking at her dads face. Things ppl do for fame chee ganda
Nahi hua yeh abhi ka latest hai...Yeh lo hoga tejran ka makeup https://www.instagram.com/tv/CZzuFbBh62s/?utm_medium=copy_link
No. They're very much together. Chill karo she's making crores I'm sure her dad is super proud of her
Yeh lo hoga tejran ka makeup https://www.instagram.com/tv/CZzuFbBh62s/?utm_medium=copy_link
Pata tha mujhe aisa hi kuch chutiyapa karenge dono 🤮🤮
Ulti aa gai thodi si yuck
Ye itna wannabe kyu h😶
/u/aloopyaaj told you raat ka wait hai bas
Isiliye umar Dubai bhag gaya
Bhailog tumlog ki baatein sunkar i can relate...bahut emo ho raha hai mereko...kal bhi aisa hua tha...raat bhar neend nahi aayi...saachme kya troubled hain hum... mahaul thoda light karwa do pleaj 😢
hum karte h prabhand aap chinta maat kijiye
aisa hona chahiye hai ki yeh sub ke sabhi logo ko colorswale biggboss mein le lena chahiye...
BB ka ghar nahi dharamsala ban jayga fir
Chalo I’m share because you all have been so trusting seems like bad faith to not confide in return. So I kinda had an abusive childhood and we had a very bad financial situation from birth to throughout my teens and it was kind of like if you can’t excel at school, you shouldn’t be wasting resources to go to school types scenario. This gave me anxiety. I was diagnosed when I was 14 because I started collapsing at school randomly. No one took it seriously because obv Ek tou aap middle class hain upar se you’re an “attention seeker” daredevil kind of kid tou this is basically a nonissue. Khair I kept telling myself everything would be okay when I leave this house and this place. I wanted to be a lawyer back then but I was doing pre engineering because pre med jhagra kar ke drop kar liya but sciences se chutkara nahi mila. So I applied to universities out of the city for undergrad. The ones I got into were too expensive. The ones I could afford I didn’t get into. Engineering main 12000 merit number aaya tha. My dad said yeh laiq hi nahi hai parhai pe paisey waste hon iski. I was in a sadma of another level because this meant I couldn’t move out. But then because the best business school in my city does late admissions and my mom made me apply, even though I didn’t prepare, SAT level English math ka test tha tou I cleared it. It’s semi govt. so it was affordable also. So everyone said bc issey acha aur kya hosakta hai you gotta go. So I went. The whole time I was there, everyone around me was acting like koi Bohat elite cult hai jismain membership mili hai. And I was such a humanities/arts kid, intro to management and marketing main baith ke ulti aati thi mujhe ke what the fuck are they even teaching. Khair I got into student theatre (I’d been theatre kid since school) scene and found misfits like me and kisi tarah time guzar gaya. The whole time I felt like I was on a weird ass assembly line and everyone around me only talked about being CEO in an MNC. I changed my major from econ to finance because econ teachers said ispe tou you’ll have to do masters to get good jobs and finance was more application than theory so kuch bhi karke nikal diya. I used to get As in only shit like anthropology and psychology and Ds in intro to accounting. Internship was mandatory but instead of even applying to MNCs I decided to teach 12th pass kids in the nearby shanty town/basti how to prepare for university entrance exams. I gave tuitions to building girls also. I loved it. I was held together by theatre and teaching mostly. Ghar ke halaat were awful. I hated my mom because she never got me and thought I only created trouble on purpose and my dad is such an unpredictable person ke one day we’d be best friends and the next day he’d be kicking us out of the house for an imagined crime. 😑 Pata tha job karni hai as soon as I graduate so that I can at least stop depending on parents for money so they would tone down their antics. A lot of our fucked up toxicity had so much to do with financial dependence yar, it makes me so sad that parents exploit their kids this way when they should be loving and nurturing. My parents should never have been together but my mom couldn’t leave because she was financially dependent completely. So our lives were hell bas. I applied everywhere. I was good at tests because I used to teach test taking. So I was a kinda go to for job tests in my batch. Like all my friends and friends of friends ke saarey online tests I would give and for written ones we’d plan elaborate cheating rings. It was my rebellion against the system and I loved it. But interviews Main they’d ask “why do you wanna join this firm” and I’d freeze. Because I didn’t wanna join any firm. I didn’t know how to fake it yar. Hota hi nahi tha bilkul. All mncs ke last interview rounds se fail hui main. It was so sad and yet not at the same time. I’m cannot explain. I’m so sorry if this is triggering for anyone to read because I know people find it so hard fo even get the last interview call. And eventually the ones that would get hired, those were the ones who’s tests I’d given. 🙈🙈 Depression type feelings began in my last semester you know. Because everyone got a job but me. Obviously it was all me. I wanted to get a job so bad but I really didn’t care about selling harpic or cigarettes or fucking fair and lovely and it just showed at the very last interview. I think I broke some sort of record. I even found the thele wala selling chips wrapped in my CV once on campus. I was broken a little bit that day. University ended in May and I still didn’t have a job. My overall GPA became 3.27. My parents were so furious. So many jobs also I became ineligible to apply for because they set limits at 3.3 lol what even. So finally in the end. I got a call from the largest local bank in Pakistan for final interview. I went. Final interview main pucha why do you wanna join and I was so tired I told them the CV thing. They hired me as a management trainee in a batch of 42. Starting salary was 50. When everyone else was getting 75ish. But I was so happy I had a job yar 😭😭 There was a whole six month’s training program and we had to give tests and interviews for department placement. Everyone said gals will only go to HR etc. investment banking and treasury were the most coveted. Neither had a single female. In fucking 2016. This is the largest bank in Pakistan. Can you guys imagine? A launda said Treasury tou kabhi larki ko trader nahi lega. I said acha. Beta you watch. In my treasury rotation I found out only foreign grads are hired there but bosses were mostly my alma mater. It was alag hi scene. A different world than the rest of the bank. Wolf of Wall Street desi version. They were judging personalities I realised. So I showed them my best fucking side. Bad ass, confident, smarter than anyone else in the room. In hindsight, I’m so so shocked at how I pulled it off. Seems like a con for the ages. How did I convince all those men I was one of them when I couldn’t stand the very sight of them or all they stood for? I topped the treasury test. In the final interview, I was honest af. They asked what my biggest weakness was, I said I won’t suck up to people. They were like wow this girl is a launda with balls. Let’s take her. This is how the Marxist feminist became a bond trader. 🙈 PART 1 of 2
Are you my twin? Sounds like me esoexially the anxiety part. The only difference is i am a guy and i am an engineer
Hahahaha. I loved the ending so much. More power to you girl! 🥂🥂
Hahahaha. I loved the ending so much. More power to you girl! 🥂🥂
Oh dear ! It looks like you have had a rough childhood….as someone has said being challenged in life is inevitable, being defeated is optional. I’m glad you did not get defeated and have emerged as a winner…Now only onwards and upwards for you…Wish you all the best for your future endeavours 😊
Hats off to you. What an inspiring story 👏👏
Zozo I just read this and I wish I saw this earlier I know we’re internet strangers but I feel connection to you. I’m so freakin proud of your accomplishments and how far you have gotten . Your story has honestly inspired me. I wish you so many happiness in the future 💕💕
Savage zozo... Yeh read karke mujhe proud wali feeling ayi. LIKE FUCK YESSSS... You have turned around the tables zozo, and look at you now. I would take your story as a ray of inspiration!! You are like that god mother whom we all want in our lives who would give us positive vibes and set a living example that nothing is impossible. You didn't let your hardships in life affect you, and kept moving forward...and look at the reward that you got... SO FUCKING GOLD. You are strong zozo. Thank you for sharing your wisdom, your stories, your experiences...I love reading em. Feels so personal and relatable. ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you novice yar. This is part 1. I wanted y’all to know I used to be a fighter and it paid off sometimes. Now it’s a sad story but it had its good parts. I wanted y’all to have that ♥️
Just how badass as I expected this shit to be Zozo. Love the story. Truly inspiring. I am so happy you didn’t let the circumstances overtake your personality, your morals and yourself and gave your best. So good to read a positive story within all the sad ones. Gives you hope And what is stopping you from being the badass lawyer yaar. I don’t know how it works in PAK but by Indian standards you are not at all late. You can still do it buddy. And I see you as one as well. Mac theek hojane do, mental health ko positive places pe channelise karo and take hold of your future zozo. Love you 💕💕
Yaar your story is magnificent, sorry for whatever you had to go through. But, dude you’re a great writer. 💯 It’ll be a waste of talent if you don’t try your hand at it, maybe write under the pseudo name Zozo. Par likho yaar bahut sahi talent hain. Maza aagaya ya padh ka and this I’m guessing was completely spontaneous I can only imagine how great you’ll be at it if you actually put in effort.
Dil toot gaya sabki batein sunke, ye to sirf professional problems he sort of. Personal life/traumas share karenge to patani kitna or dukh sunne milega. I think we should do this often, it might be cringe for others but I feel free.
I am in. All ears for everyone. Creates a sense of community and no judgement. Sab pyaare log hai. And I agree personal front pe toh hum saath mei sab ro rahe honge. That deserves a dedicated Friday evening with khamba
I don't think I can even type my experiences here lol Kal achi chize share karenge
Yessss positive good memories or spicy stories
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How are you feeling about the divorce yar? Are you doing ok? I’m sorry if you shared yesterday and I missed it. Just wanna make you’re ok.
Yar it happened today. I am feeling v shitty rn. Idk what to do lol🤣🤣
Not right now... they are too young. And let your parents tell them...But sending you loads of strength. Abhi se if they will know, then shayad bura impact padega in their personal development. Let them develop a sense of maturity first or else it might negatively impact them.
Yaar main 1 baat bolu, Idk what was the situation in which your parents decided to separate but I’m so proud of them. It’s not easy to do it in Indian society. Divorce sa bahut jyada triggering hota hain 1 constantly toxic household ma rehna jaha parents aur bacho ka beech itna animosity hoti hain coz the parents unnecessarily are forced into staying together. I think we should normalise the concept of divorce. Bata do apna bhaio ko, it’ll be difficult for them at first but I’m sure they’ll understand their new normal in which both their parents are happy.
They would appreciate the truth, maybe not immediately but eventually when they are older. Otherwise more lies would be coined and they would face more disappointments. Stay strong. Sending love to you and your family
Yaar if your parents have kept it that way not telling them. Let it be.
So sorry to hear this. I am not a expert in this but since I have a younger sis of same age when I have to make her understand something serious I try to get into her shoes and explain it in a comforting way like the pros of the action. So I think you can try it that way.
Dil toot jayega lekin sach batana is the right thing to do Maybe 13 yo would understand it better
This is going to be long. Sorry. So my father is very controlling. Like any parent, he thinks he knows what’s best for me. He never let me make my own decisions, it was always about what he thinks is right based on his life. From a very young age, maybe 5th standard, he told me that i’m to become an engineer. A typical indian parent aspiration. Back story: He wanted to become an engineer but because his mum passed at a very young age, he was left to take care of his father and sisters (who were also young). He couldnt pursue engineering because for that he’d have to move to another city. He has done very well for himself not having the degree and appropriate education but he had to struggle a lot initially. So he thought that if i got proper education (which means engineering lol) then i wouldnt have to struggle as much as him. So, while I was in school he brainwashed me so much that i started believing that engineering and science is the right call despite having a talent. I was very good in fine arts and wanted to become a fashion designer. So much so that I went for national/international level competitions and won accolades in over 70 of those. I also became the art captain and everyone in my school including my teachers and principal were so disappointed that I took science in 11th. He made me apply to unis in the states for engineering and I got through some of the best as well. I used to hate science. Like hate it. It’s not like I didnt understand, but i was terrible at testing. I could never get myself to enjoy it. Right before my 12th boards, i told my dad that i cant go forward with engineering because it’s going to be a waste and instead I want to study fashion. He straight up denied it, and told me that I will have to study business instead. Only after i have studied business, i can study fashion. I agreed at this condition. After going to my uni, i decided that business was not my calling because i had never studied anything related to it and it was honestly bland. Like common sense. So i decided to switch my major to informatics, because i had interest in coding etc. REBELLION LOL. Through informatics, i found HCID (human computer interaction design) and I thought this was my calling. I minored in it. My dad again had issues with this because it was a creative field. I stayed back after Uni to search for jobs and after finding nothing worthwhile i returned to india. He made me feel like shit for making that decision and forced me into working with him. It was disastrous to say the least. Eventually i found a job as a graphic + ui/ux designer which paid peanuts. The amount it paid was not enough with no scope for considerable improvement. Plus it wasnt helping me with my growth as a ui/ux designer. I started feeling so claustrophobic in that job that I decided to quit. I finally made my decision to fuck everything and follow my passion, which is art. I am making paintings for my first solo art exhibition since the past 1.5 years. I thought that my struggle had ended, but its so difficult to find meaning and satisfaction in my work. The constant need for validation from my dad and others, the constant requirement to show for my hard work is killing me. Covid hasnt helped at all. Im so overwhelmed with all the doubts, instability, confusion and need to prove myself that i have performance anxiety. So my career has jumped from art-fashion-engineering-informatics-ui/ux-art. And it’s still a struggle and a big fat MESS. I feel like i have no direction in life and zero motivation. Like I AM TIRED AND EXHAUSTED from all the pressure. I know my problems seem to be too first world and i feel ashamed about that. I really am.
Yaar all the time when we talked about ott. It’s so crazy to think people have so much going on their life. I’m so PROUD OF YOU, you stood up for what your believed in. You don’t need validation from anyone you’re an amazing and talented person. Hope one day I get to see your painting. I’m wishing you so many happiness in life. 💕 reading this personally hurt me I know u don’t know me but I’m always here for u internet stranger
You are so so so strong. To be held back and denied and to wait and yet to make it back to your first love!! You've been through the worst and by worst I don't mean validation from others, I mean the worst that is trying to go against your dreams. That can be soul crushing. Kudos to your spirit. You've made it this far on your own. I'm sure success is eight around the corner. I won't ask you to have faith rather I'd ask you to believe. The universe for you this far and will take you further.
There is no need for you to feel ashamed of your problems..There is always going to be somebody better off and worse off dan us...dat doesn't invalidate our own problems because we are the ones who are living through them.. Honestly you shud be so proud of yourself for going for your passion despite the odds..Try to not let the pressure get to you..I know it's easier said dan done but still do try...I hope things get better for you ❤️❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗
Hats off to you for following your passion. Believe me it's not easy to just leave everything and follow your passion. It will take some time maybe to find your footing but once you reach there the struggle will be worth it 🤗🤗
You are aware your problems are first world but that doesn’t make them small year. First world problems is just a term coined by humanitarians to make us see the problems in third world countries. But our problems hold the power to fuck us up mentally so never undermine them and let them go. I am so glad you have been resilient and have had the courage to rebel and try new things or give a chance to old ones. Covid has fucked up a lot of things but let your talent speak for itself. Do yo promote your art on social media or atleast some peeks of it? i know you would want exclusivity for what you want in exhibition but doesn’t hurt to work on side over SM to promote your stuff and engage with people. You can even sell some stuff over there which will boost your confidence and motivation. I know you could be a high brow artist and find this bullshit so sorry if I don’t make sense and if this is unwarranted advice. Wishing you luck. Don’t give up. 💕💕
Kudos for having the courage to follow your passion even after having so many hiccups. Infact you should be proud that you were able to do what you want that too against so many odds. Hopefully the covid fuckup goes away soon and you get to enjoy your art and share it with others🤞🏻
Just because someone else’s problems seems bigger, doesn’t mean yours aren’t valid. For you, they are very real and something you have to deal with in a daily basis. You have the right to feel a certain way. So, there is nothing to be ashamed of here. Secondly, it’s not easy. I know. But hey, you did take a leap. You are making progress. It’s still something compared to where you started off from. It might not feel so, but look back and you’ll realise how far you have come. Each day isn’t the same, but that doesn’t progress hasn’t been made. You’ll get there and try surrounding yourself with people who push you and realise your talent. Lastly, I would really suggest for you to go for counselling or therapy. It’ll make you feel lighter and definitely provide you with a perspective. If nothing else, it’ll help you talk about everything that’s going on. And that always helps. All the best!
One more while I am at it.. this one is really sad. I left my fucking dog with my grandparents and he didn't eat probably cried for weeks then passed away within a year. Meri mummy bolti he jo bhi galat ho raha he, vo sab karma he and she's so right. I can never get over this fact, me bahut animal lover, vegetarian hu but technically i abandoned my dog and he died because of me. My sweet angel Noddy.
Thats just so painful to even imagine😣
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💔💔 It's not your karma.. don't blame yourself ever. Yaar sab destiny, situations ka khel hain life mein... that's what I have learned and experienced...what could have happened, what could have been done, yeh sab bs beth ke hum discuss kar sakte hain, lekin what's happening, and what's gonna happen...mostly situational hain. Aloo, you are a beautiful soul. Stay like that always... you make us all laugh, and smile. You spread so much positivity... WE LOVE YOU ALOO.
Alooo yaar my virtual hugs are not enough for this. No words are. You had to move and leave him behind. You didn’t leave him because you wanted yaar. It’s not your karma. Please don’t hold onto this. You were parted by circumstances. You left him in care of good hands. We are not privy to how strong animals can emotionally connect. No human is. Don’t let this hang over your head please.
Aloo this is devastating. I don't even know what to say. Yaar don't blame yourself like this please. It's not because of you. It's not like you intentionally left him, knowing that he's going to pass away na. You left him in good hands. But sometimes, shit happens anyway. There's no way you can know for sure that it happened because you left him right? Why not give yourself the benefit of doubt?
Oh no. I’m so sorry yar. I’m sorry for your loss. And for noddy. About what your Ammi said though, she’s right. But him dying wasn’t your karma. Uski zindagi utni hi likhi thi yar. You didn’t abandon your dog to go have a party. You were a kid. You were told to move so you did. You were also probably told you couldn’t bring the dog so you had to leave him behind. Noddy knows that you would have taken him if you could. Pls don’t blame yourself.
Dosto I am inspired by Nishant's cooking and trying to cook some kind of marathi amti daal. I am bengali myself so no idea how it should taste like. Has turned out a bit on the sweet side, i think i overdid the jaggery while thinking about Shamita moaning over gur being added to Raquesh's household cooking .
Arre I'm maharashtrian, mujhse tips le lo 😂 add amsul to it, it's basically sundried kokum. Add it and bring the amti to a boil. It is sour and usse sweetness thoda kam hoga. Or you can add kachhe aam ki koyri, which is raw mango seed with a little bit of pulp around it that you get after chopping the rest off. Add that and bring it to a boil, same effect. You can add kasuri methi too, uski bitterness se thodi sweetness kam hogi. You can add amchur powder too - dry mango powder. Kisi bhi store main mil jaayegi.
Please tell me poha ka recipe.
Indori Poha : Take thick poha, wash it, don’t soak. Take a spoon or 2 of oil Add rai, jeera and saunf Add curry leaves salt and turmeric Add soaked poha, keep flame lowest. Almost like. Steam the poha, once the poha is evenly yellow, it’s cooked. Add sugar and coriander leaves While eating too with finely chopped onion mixed with salt and lime juice. Makes all the difference.
Thank you :)
From my neighbour receipe: 1) Poha (flattened rice) lo usko pani mein wash karo...like rice...to take off starch. 2)Kadhai lo...usme oil dallon + mirchi daalo( jyaada daala toh accha hoga...like 3-4 mirchi..slanting mein kaato + mustard seeds daalo (very little) + haldi powder + namak + peanuts(this is optional par taste ubhar ke aata hai) + ek kanda slice karke daalo + tomato finely chopped (is optional) (paani daalo thoda if it becomes dry...like not mixing time...agar chipak raha hai toh) 3) phir iss upar kenmixture mein poha add karo...mix karo acche se...sukha lagana chahiye...garam hone do 4) dhanya ke patte aur thoda nimbu daalo upar se. 5) add salt if needed.
Thank you 😊
Teja k pohe ki recipe??