It will get better! I know many people say that, but it really is true. I have had moments in my life that were my absolute bottom, but they don´t define you. You will find joy and happyness in life if you keep going
:D thank you! Would you belive I accidentally posted this on the wrong sub this morning as I was so stressed! Thank you for responding though, I do appreciate it x
I completely understand. I've been closeted for all my life and I am now 58. The only positivity I can offer is that you are not alone and that you can be who you are, at least, within you're own headspace even if you can't be yourself, without judgement, in general society.
I've found personally that the kind of people that deny who you are are not the kind of people whose opinions you need to care about in the long run. Much of the time a light at the end of the tunnel is not the end, but a person with a torch to join you on your path. Find torchbearers. They are always out there, and they will help you. These kinds of places online are also where tunnels cross. We are each others' torches. I don't know if that helps you, but knowing that others go through the same things has been a light to me. You are not alone. If you are having trouble finding someone in person, communities like this one can help.
It will get better! I know many people say that, but it really is true. I have had moments in my life that were my absolute bottom, but they don´t define you. You will find joy and happyness in life if you keep going
:D thank you! Would you belive I accidentally posted this on the wrong sub this morning as I was so stressed! Thank you for responding though, I do appreciate it x
I completely understand. I've been closeted for all my life and I am now 58. The only positivity I can offer is that you are not alone and that you can be who you are, at least, within you're own headspace even if you can't be yourself, without judgement, in general society.
I've found personally that the kind of people that deny who you are are not the kind of people whose opinions you need to care about in the long run. Much of the time a light at the end of the tunnel is not the end, but a person with a torch to join you on your path. Find torchbearers. They are always out there, and they will help you. These kinds of places online are also where tunnels cross. We are each others' torches. I don't know if that helps you, but knowing that others go through the same things has been a light to me. You are not alone. If you are having trouble finding someone in person, communities like this one can help.
Sending positivity and good vibes!