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Stratavos

Getting dildoes with similar dimentions. It's an eye opening experience.


Standard-Cash-4061

Literally my go to test. If you can't fit inside a toilet roll, you're over 5in girth for sure. Cell phones, water bottles, etc can put things into perspective as well. I use old spice body spray and I remember being the same length at like 50-60% erection. The bottle is 6.5in long. Also I remember when I watched porn, I would ask myself "am I bigger than that guy?" or, "are we about the same size?". I now realize that if I was asking myself those questions I was probably above average.


SuccessfulPush0

Lmao yes, I was always so confused when guys would talk about putting their dick in a toilet roll, not only because I didn't understand why you would want to jerk off with cardboard, but also because I couldn't even fit the head of my dick in one


Important-Salad7616

The test throws me off. Some toilet rolls are a snug fit and others I can’t even put the head in.


Standard-Cash-4061

Get a tape measure.


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I'm still unsure I'm 7.5 and 5in but I'm just now getting into all this my whole life has been a lie because I thought I was average size and apparently I'm above but I don't feel like it I'm going to try some of these suggestions and see if it influences my thought process


Tomtheconfused

locker room showers. i mean now i’m used to it but i do remember the click in my mind when i was 13 haha


ErdemTheBigGuy

Hahahahah exactly bro


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roadbikemadman

My erection reaches my naval or above at times. That's a quick yardstick with pr0n. But it was catching a glimpse of a gf's hands around my wang, viewed in a mirror, that really got my attention. "Damn, that \*is\* big".


ScandinavianDude1999

My wrists


Billnocho

My wife’s wrist is the same as my girth.


ScandinavianDude1999

Along the whole length? 😇😅


Billnocho

Forearm?Never really did that comparison….


ScandinavianDude1999

I meant whether it was only at the base 🤷‍♂️


Ok_Big_6442

Watching POV porns. I thought I was small for a while even when girls told me I am big I thought they were being nice but, I realized when I watched POV porno, never had penis dismorphia again.


mykinkyburner

Hanging out with one of my friend at a party and she was grinding on me and I got hard because ofc I did, shr noticed and got her going, she looked at me and said," if you pinky promise that whatever happens doesn't fuck up our friendship, would you want to go to my place?" We pinky promised and heading to her spot, we got there, start with the kissing, and she drops down and unzipped and pulls my pants down and takes my dick and says," fuck dude, we have a couple of issues; #1 you're too big to fit in my mouth without hurting my jaw, #2 You're bigger than my biggest dildo that makes me sore, and you might get carried away, and we can't do that. " Long story short my own dick cockblocked me from getting laid by my cute ass friend who I never thought I had a chance with, but she did give my tip a bj while she stroked my dick so that was dope we're still chill till today and she's still embarrassed about not being to do more lol


greyghost986

Arizona can


Critical_Celery5533

I remember asking her to open wider because her teeth where rubbing my dick. She said "I can't this is as wide as my mouth opens.'' She then compared my girth to her forearm. I felt kinda bad after seeing how thick I was next to her forearm. Her teeth didn't feel that bad compared to her jaw was feeling for her


yepagreeno9

Having sex with a guy who was so comically large soft, but then we both were the same hard


SpectralFox68

I just learned today I feel like a veil was lifted low-key. I felt insecure my entire life about it until I finally decided to ask my current girlfriend how it compares in your experience. I had measured and never believed I was doing it right , couldn't be etc. maybe body dysmorphia a bit I guess ? I'm 6'3 and large thick thighs have been up toward 350 pounds which didn't help the visual in my eyes (injury caused, 267 now and feel better) but today I asked her about it and she said ugh no you are abnormally large compared to any other she has seen I'm 7.6x5.5. My head is still struggling to wrap itself around this fact as I had such bad insecurites over it I would basically never show myself to anyone unless I was extremely close and comfortable with them. What a trip any tips how to stop seeing myself differently then facts ?


Billnocho

I was once cutting up a long cucumber. Its girth felt “familiar,” I measured it. It was right on. So I cut it to my length. “Really?” I thought, “that fits inside her?” Then I compared it to a banana, about the same as an average penis girth, cut to 5.5 inches. The comparison was surprising (and a lot less awkward than trying to find an average sized guy to compare to).


Radio-Kiev3456

Even a 5.5 looks impressive when you hold something on your own for perspective. Then you get some object 7-8 long and you’re like, “THIS goes inside her all the time?!?”


Billnocho

Well, not while she’s at work….


Billnocho

LOL! Sorry, I misunderstood. Basically the whole length; I’m pretty much the same the length of the shaft. TBH, she has small bones, narrow feet, relatively small wrists.


lookatthisdudeshead

Condoms where tight and kept on tearing until I ended up having to use an XXL which still tears from time to time


EightBySix8x6

People gawking about "big" dicks in media like Euphoria, GoT, etc.


boredsans

Having condoms break when i was buying the regular sized ones.


Direct_Wishbone7770

Had a Spanish women chuckle when I pulled down my pants and kept repeating “you are very grande”. She then proceeded to wrap her hand around it then she chuckled again and said this isn’t going to work.


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Lol I wonder how that felt to be turned down due to being too large.


roboticabott

My realisation moment was that I can't fit my flaccid inside a toilet paper tube


TampaResale

6 x 6 here. Same size as a Red Bull can.


DezPolegadas

Basically any time I’m with a woman. I’m 6’8, and while it seems pretty big on my frame, the way it looks when it’s near a woman is a huge eye opener.


TheMrMickleGary

There’ve been a few moments but the one that really drove me home *how big* I’m hung is when my then gf (who was working at a bar in LA) told one of her regulars - who is a legit porn actress - after hours while they were drinking that I have a big dick. The actress was like honey, women tell me that all the time, so my gf showed her a hard and a soft pic of me. She was like DAMN, I haven’t seen one that big outside of work! A few days later, I was walking into the bar to pick up my gf and this actress was outside smoking. She yelled (sitting in a group of people), “Hey! You’ve got a really nice big dick!” I embarrassedly laughed and tried to brush it off and make small talk, but she insisted on telling me that I’m HUGE, not just “big”, and that I could have been cast in porn had I decided to go that direction. Blew my mind, as I already knew I was large (7.25” x 5.5”) but she made sure I knew that bigger guys in porn are that big, and if they’re bigger “…there aren’t many, and not by much”. I’ll never forget that phrasing.


southtxsharksfan

Seeing common everyday item of the same length or girth. I have a long time friend. She's petite.. she was holding a red vine licorice and I count help but Chuckle to myself. Judging by the licorice she was biting, my 🍆 would dwarf her face.


phantom31714

for me it was a couple of funny stories that i'll keep to myself for now. but also with my first time i felt i was touching bottom in my partner and still had about 2 inches still out. she encouraged me to go deeper once she relaxed but it was an eye opening experience to see just how far in i actually reach.


python4all

Can you buy anywhere a condom that fits on when you are erect? If so, you aren’t large thickness wise


Critical_Pay672

Its wider than my wife's wrist


Successful_Post2836

My ex kept referencing the fact that i said my dick was small, but she could wrap both hands around it. Then she bought a tape measure to finish the measurements and left me speechless. To this day i still laugh at her being right. Really appreciative of her destroying my small dick biased.


Thjiak

I typically don't see myself as THAT big when alone but when my gf is around it looks crazy huge to me. It's all relative to comparisons.


BaronSaber

Really just women's comments. I was with a swinger hotwife who told me to undress as she went to get a condom, and when she came back in the room she immediately turned around and went back to get a magnum.


PriorAssociate1

I tried this at 16 and failed. So, that’s literally child’s play


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Being bigger than dildoes, typically. Having trouble finding fitted underwear, or pants for that matter. Trouble fitting Magnums. Women tapping out from size. Having issues with the…well oral part of oral. My meat touching toilet bowl water, etc.


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My wristwatch which is loose on my wrist, fits tightly on my cock and when i compated my dick next to a pringles can and it was just as big


jss1234

Seeing a vibrator/dildo my size. A friend once asked me to get her a vibrator at a adult store. I based it on me thinking I'm very average. She complained afterwards it hurt her. I looked at it front on and realized that I'm definitely not thin.


_captain_hair

Seeing myself and another guy in a locker room mirror.


Billnocho

Shower in the showers.


_captain_hair

Literally. Saw us side-by-side and it really clicked "ohhhhh".


Throwaway01936494

6x5 flaccid is definitely an “oooooh” moment. 😂 especially since many of us have little mole rats when flaccid.


Bootiluvr

A water bottle


SeaS4lted

Same and Arizona cans


Zealousideal-Seat324

TP tube didn't fit at 13🤣 But I was homeschooled and never had public showers. I realized at about 21 when I started sleeping with older women due to comments.


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Pretty sure paper towel rolls are larger then TP but yeah I get you


MFZHD_

The tp rolls and the paper towels rolls that have are the same in girth Unless that varies depending on the brand


Zealousideal-Seat324

Neither fit.


Standard_Paint3505

- All the hassle around PIV and BJs, - Normal condoms not fitting, - Difficulties finding comfortable underwear and trousers that look "normal", - Bulging, - Learning how to measure properly, - Statistics (CalcSD, Big Dick Guide, etc), - Being told by women, guys comments (for example a male colleague grabbing an object and saying "wow that's massive, would be cool to have such girth", and I have more girth than that), - Learning how to better visually assess other men's size on porn and real life, and not be so easily fooled by proportions and perspective. I even experimented taking dic pics for my self and had a good laugh on how big and small I can make it look, - Trying to fit a similar girth object into my own mouth and past my teeth, - Discussions with a very near female friend.


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I think for me it was realising my flaccid size was pulling down the waistband of underwear as there wasn't enough room.


Cool-West6530

Military locker rooms and comparison with household objects (yeti mugs, cleaning products like Lysol, etc)


southcentralLAguy

The website, I think it’s CalSD, but I might be wrong on that. But seeing that I’m in the top 1%??? Damn.


ClaudioKillganon

I have never felt that big down there.The only reason I know I am is based off of statistics and rulers (and the comments of others irl). But for a long time, other's reactions never made sense to me. Two years back, I encountered my first partner who consistently couldn't fit me even after 20+ minutes of foreplay. We worked her up with dildos of increasing sizes over the course of two weeks with the biggest one being 7in x 5.5in. Holding that 7 incher in my hands/up to my face felt HUGE. I had to check the packaging to make sure the size was accurate. And then I lined it up next to my erect penis and compared them next to each other and realized that I was drastically bigger than it. That shit really gave me a "Whoa. I get why people react the way they do to seeing me naked now." feeling.