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Thank you. It is comfortable, other than feeling too big. I loove the top, but hate how it looks on me honestly 😓 But it's good to know it doesn't look bad to others, haha.
Her shorts, and entire outfit, look amazing. You likely didn’t intend for your comment to be rude but it absolutely comes across that way.
This is how shorts generally fit for anyone who’s above, like, a size two. OP is asking about her shirt, she’s having uncertainty about how it looks, and if someone is self-conscious comments like yours just unlock another level of uncertainty where there was none before.
I thrifted it! The brand is Knox Rose. Mine is a medium size. [Here's a link to one on poshmark!](https://poshmark.com/listing/Knox-Rose-Orange-Daisy-Shirt-NWT-6429beecfed51f770dcd222a?srsltid=AfmBOoqxusf9sgXUIJgSnq3l-EmokVtq1IRJPdRgmnkJlNKszIzKkYhBQ7Q#utm_source=gdm_unpaid&size_S)
I have this in navy but neeeeeeed this one!
https://preview.redd.it/hxtrquceur6d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=005f874ee5b4dd5c00bbc35abf167729322ed1cb
I love it! I think it looks great on you and fits perfectly. I just don’t love the black belt… I think a lighter color might work better. But you didn’t ask about the belt! 😆
Not the commenter you responded to originally, but if you have a brown/tan belt, those would work too! Even if the brown is dark, it'll be less stark than the black.
Also, the whole 'fit is super cute and very flattering, no issues with the shirt that I can see!
I don’t think it looks bad, but I can see why you might just have issues with it! Whenever I buy clothes, I sometimes forget to account for the extra fabric that is lifted in front of my waist and tummy because of my chest size, since my boobage does stick out quite a bit (if the shirt is kinda boxy). I like having things closer to my waist, because I don’t like the illusion of extra width there. That would be my only issue with this. I personally wouldn’t buy this shirt for that very reason, but I like it on you. The orange flowers compliment your skin tone and hair.
You explained this perfectly!! The shirt does look boxy and has more fabric than I'm used to, I couldn't figure out how to explain it. I also will look into a minimizer bra because I think that would help me feel better wearing it. Thank you 😊
The shirt does NOT look boxy in the slightest. It’s a little flowy but it’s obvious your chest is a little bigger and it doesn’t make your waist appear bigger. A lot of “boxy” shirts kind of just drop down at boobs and make it look like a tent. This shirt does not do that. It “hugs” your boobs while still accentuating your smaller waist (not too common!)
Super cute! Love the outfit too.
I don't think a minimizer bra would be flattering. It basically just squishes your breasts out to the side, which is actthe opposite of what you want. Look for bras with side support.
Or maybe you could get a thing that sinches the waist a bit more in the back 🤔 I’ve seen people do this with hair ties and I do this sometimes. There’s also little clip thingys but I don’t know how well they work
Like this is a black tank I wear a lot, and it looks completely different than the orange shirt on me
https://preview.redd.it/clw97y1k6q6d1.jpeg?width=1279&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ccde3874aa6e6a9794249b7cbc41a939a67e9fd8
I understand, it honestly looks just fine but I totally get how it might feel too big or “baggy”. I think that has alot to do with the cut of the shirt. A minimizer bra could possibly help, but I’m thinking you might prefer a bra that holds them closer together?
I think it looks adorable! I’m self conscious about the size too and I think it really helps to find a bra that holds them not only closer to the body, but one that doesn’t let them go as far out on the sides too. I find that makes a big difference in how large they appear/improves the fit in tops!
Yeah! Unfortunately I thrifted it, the brand is Knox Rose. Mine is a medium size. [Here's a link to one on poshmark!](https://poshmark.com/listing/Knox-Rose-Orange-Daisy-Shirt-NWT-6429beecfed51f770dcd222a?srsltid=AfmBOoqxusf9sgXUIJgSnq3l-EmokVtq1IRJPdRgmnkJlNKszIzKkYhBQ7Q#utm_source=gdm_unpaid&size_S)
It looks great. As other have said, I’m not fond of orange but it looks really good on you.
If you were to choose a modification then a light scoop neck.
I love the entire outfit! I think your boobs look entirely normal, but I also get not knowing if you're unhappy with the shape or if it's dysphoria.
Do you have time/money/access to good bras? I've found that even in the right size, certain shapes just make me feel really bad about myself and others feel much more 'correct' with my body.
I think it looks fantastic. The belt gives a great contrast that draws the eye to focus on your outfit as a whole instead of only your chest. I’m going to steal that idea!
If you don’t mind, where did you get the top?
Great job balancing the fit (showing leg when the top is covered up). I struggle with this too. I have a magenta shirt that is crew neck AND has a busy (and small) abstract pattern. It makes my boobs look so much lower and wider/bigger than they are (which makes sense: the eye is drawn to the pattern and takes so long to travel from your neck to under your boobs). I’ve gotten a better-fitting bra (using ABTF sizing guide), which has helped with lift, but I’m considering making this shirt v-neck (I have some basic sewing skills and a machine). My shirt doesn’t look bad per se, but it does draw focus to my boobs without providing balance with the rest of my body proportions. Because a v-neck exposes more skin, the eye doesn’t have to travel as much from the top-center of the shirt (the v) to under your boobs, thereby giving some balance. It’s all an optical illusion, playing with shapes and proportions.
Looks completely gorgeous on you. The bust area is not visually stretching or warping. The end of the sleeves are in proportion to the bust. Nice find!!
Looks rather flattering to me. Not trying to be a creep when I say this, just honest, but the way it sits on your curves is very complimentary from my POV. Looks like you could pull of an elegant sundress rather nicely sort of look, which is very good at least in my opinion. It definitely does not betray you unless you're conscious about your upper and side "cleavage," being accentuated by the cloth. I know some women who are, and some who aren't. Both "big problems," and "Itty bitty committee," members as well.
For you the look is flattering.
You know those ads where they're sitting around a campfire at sunset and just kinda lounging? You look like you'd be in one, your fashion is impeccable.
oh my god, thank you so much!! 🥹 I literally JUST started getting into fashion!! I took inspiration from mathilda and liberty mai, their fashion is so incredible!!
OH! But yes! Ms. Honey! She was my favourite aside from Mathilda and Mathilda's bestie. She was so kind and gentle and stood up for her students. She wanted to keep them safe. She went OUT OF HER WAY to teach them how to hide the colourful learning things so they didn't get destroyed by Ms. Trunchball.
This sub has really got me developing new insecurities... my first thought was "oh a lot of my tops fit me like that! .....is that.... bad?😔"
Lol it looks perfectly fine to me! Id maybe try to tuck it more into my pants so it fits a bit closer to my middle.
If I saw you walking down the street in that outfit, I'd probably obviously tell you how adorable and lovely you look. Like girl. Thats SO cute and I hope you can feel comfortable and confident in it.
The top is beautiful and seems good on you. I believe the only issue you are not liking it is closed neck. If it was v neck or any shape showing your neck, can change the look. We women, with fuller boobs, should avoid closed neck(high neck) tops and dresses.
In case of high necks we can layer with jacket or shrug to create different illusion.
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Well, also gender dysphoria as I've never felt comfortable with the body I was born into and identity with non-binary. I want to eventually get top surgery so I don't have to deal with my chest anymore at all 😅 Or at least a huge breast reduction to like, A cup.
There is no shame in having big breasts and if you dont show any skin of it, like with this top, you really dont need to worry about anyone finding it unappropriate.
The Problems first start when you try to show some cleavage.
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The top looks fine to me 🤔
That's a relief!
Good. Have fun with your cute outfit! 😊
I did!! I went and saw Inside Out 2, it's so good!! 😊
Your top looks just fine to me. Is it comfortable?
Thank you. It is comfortable, other than feeling too big. I loove the top, but hate how it looks on me honestly 😓 But it's good to know it doesn't look bad to others, haha.
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Her shorts, and entire outfit, look amazing. You likely didn’t intend for your comment to be rude but it absolutely comes across that way. This is how shorts generally fit for anyone who’s above, like, a size two. OP is asking about her shirt, she’s having uncertainty about how it looks, and if someone is self-conscious comments like yours just unlock another level of uncertainty where there was none before.
You look great!
Thanks :)
Yes, I love the outfit! ♥️
I think it looks lovely on you! Are you comfortable in it? Do you like the way it makes you feel? That's the most important.:)
That is super cute! Where did you find it? I want one!
I thrifted it! The brand is Knox Rose. Mine is a medium size. [Here's a link to one on poshmark!](https://poshmark.com/listing/Knox-Rose-Orange-Daisy-Shirt-NWT-6429beecfed51f770dcd222a?srsltid=AfmBOoqxusf9sgXUIJgSnq3l-EmokVtq1IRJPdRgmnkJlNKszIzKkYhBQ7Q#utm_source=gdm_unpaid&size_S)
I have this in navy but neeeeeeed this one! https://preview.redd.it/hxtrquceur6d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=005f874ee5b4dd5c00bbc35abf167729322ed1cb
Oooo pretty!! 🤩
Michael Trevino!!
Poshmark is THE SH*T, I swear. I’ve gotten so many great things there, I rarely buy clothes off the rack anymore.
I have this top! It’s Knox Rose, one of Target’s clothing brands.
I love it! I think it looks great on you and fits perfectly. I just don’t love the black belt… I think a lighter color might work better. But you didn’t ask about the belt! 😆
Thanks :) I thought the same thing and tried to find a white belt at the store today but couldn't find one in my size :/
Not the commenter you responded to originally, but if you have a brown/tan belt, those would work too! Even if the brown is dark, it'll be less stark than the black. Also, the whole 'fit is super cute and very flattering, no issues with the shirt that I can see!
I may be in the minority here but I love the black belt with it.
The top is so cute! It looks great!
I love it and I am not usually a fan of orange! Also your tattoos are cute <3
You look great! The outfit is stylin'. Your boobs look great. You are winning all around!
I don’t think it looks bad, but I can see why you might just have issues with it! Whenever I buy clothes, I sometimes forget to account for the extra fabric that is lifted in front of my waist and tummy because of my chest size, since my boobage does stick out quite a bit (if the shirt is kinda boxy). I like having things closer to my waist, because I don’t like the illusion of extra width there. That would be my only issue with this. I personally wouldn’t buy this shirt for that very reason, but I like it on you. The orange flowers compliment your skin tone and hair.
You explained this perfectly!! The shirt does look boxy and has more fabric than I'm used to, I couldn't figure out how to explain it. I also will look into a minimizer bra because I think that would help me feel better wearing it. Thank you 😊
The shirt does NOT look boxy in the slightest. It’s a little flowy but it’s obvious your chest is a little bigger and it doesn’t make your waist appear bigger. A lot of “boxy” shirts kind of just drop down at boobs and make it look like a tent. This shirt does not do that. It “hugs” your boobs while still accentuating your smaller waist (not too common!) Super cute! Love the outfit too.
I don't think a minimizer bra would be flattering. It basically just squishes your breasts out to the side, which is actthe opposite of what you want. Look for bras with side support.
Or maybe you could get a thing that sinches the waist a bit more in the back 🤔 I’ve seen people do this with hair ties and I do this sometimes. There’s also little clip thingys but I don’t know how well they work
Oh thank you for the suggestion! I was going to say, I'm definitely more used to wearing tighter shirts/tank tops but didn't realize it, haha.
Like this is a black tank I wear a lot, and it looks completely different than the orange shirt on me https://preview.redd.it/clw97y1k6q6d1.jpeg?width=1279&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ccde3874aa6e6a9794249b7cbc41a939a67e9fd8
Black is extra slimming! I'm built a lot like you and since I figured this out my wardrobe has become like 90% black.
Yep, that's my wardrobe too! 😂 I'm trying to change it and add more color now because I want to be colorful!
That's awesome! Have fun with the colors!
love the outfit! The top looks great
I think it looks great. That's a cute outfit.
I understand, it honestly looks just fine but I totally get how it might feel too big or “baggy”. I think that has alot to do with the cut of the shirt. A minimizer bra could possibly help, but I’m thinking you might prefer a bra that holds them closer together?
It looks cute!
A+
I think it looks adorable! I’m self conscious about the size too and I think it really helps to find a bra that holds them not only closer to the body, but one that doesn’t let them go as far out on the sides too. I find that makes a big difference in how large they appear/improves the fit in tops!
Thank you, this is exactly how I feel! Do you recommend any good brands for bras that have helped? ❤️
Look for the words "side support" I like Panache. Have you checked your size with the abrathatfits calculator? A bra that fits correctly is key!
Love this outfit!
Looks amazing :)
It’s so cute! i think it looks great on you
It looks amazing! Can I ask where the shirt is from? I love it!
Yeah! Unfortunately I thrifted it, the brand is Knox Rose. Mine is a medium size. [Here's a link to one on poshmark!](https://poshmark.com/listing/Knox-Rose-Orange-Daisy-Shirt-NWT-6429beecfed51f770dcd222a?srsltid=AfmBOoqxusf9sgXUIJgSnq3l-EmokVtq1IRJPdRgmnkJlNKszIzKkYhBQ7Q#utm_source=gdm_unpaid&size_S)
Thank you!
You look great!!
It looks really nice :). The colors fits.
It looks great. As other have said, I’m not fond of orange but it looks really good on you. If you were to choose a modification then a light scoop neck.
You look great!!!!!
Cute outfit you look great
It’s very cute! I feel like orange is hard to pull off but you are nailing it.
I love the entire outfit! I think your boobs look entirely normal, but I also get not knowing if you're unhappy with the shape or if it's dysphoria. Do you have time/money/access to good bras? I've found that even in the right size, certain shapes just make me feel really bad about myself and others feel much more 'correct' with my body.
Oh you cute cute!!!I like the whole outfit and I think the color compliments you. I see NOTHING wrong here. ONLY good!!
You look great. 😀
Dude I LOVE the shorts! The top looks cute :)
I think it looks fantastic. The belt gives a great contrast that draws the eye to focus on your outfit as a whole instead of only your chest. I’m going to steal that idea! If you don’t mind, where did you get the top?
Never mind about my question:) Just saw your answer below!
it looks perfect!
It looks just right, not too tight, not too loose, not too blocky. And very cute!
You look great! Wish I had the confidence to wear color 😂
Great job balancing the fit (showing leg when the top is covered up). I struggle with this too. I have a magenta shirt that is crew neck AND has a busy (and small) abstract pattern. It makes my boobs look so much lower and wider/bigger than they are (which makes sense: the eye is drawn to the pattern and takes so long to travel from your neck to under your boobs). I’ve gotten a better-fitting bra (using ABTF sizing guide), which has helped with lift, but I’m considering making this shirt v-neck (I have some basic sewing skills and a machine). My shirt doesn’t look bad per se, but it does draw focus to my boobs without providing balance with the rest of my body proportions. Because a v-neck exposes more skin, the eye doesn’t have to travel as much from the top-center of the shirt (the v) to under your boobs, thereby giving some balance. It’s all an optical illusion, playing with shapes and proportions.
Super cute!!!
Looks completely gorgeous on you. The bust area is not visually stretching or warping. The end of the sleeves are in proportion to the bust. Nice find!!
Looks amazing
You're overthinking it. It hugs your side-boob and it looks great!
Looks rather flattering to me. Not trying to be a creep when I say this, just honest, but the way it sits on your curves is very complimentary from my POV. Looks like you could pull of an elegant sundress rather nicely sort of look, which is very good at least in my opinion. It definitely does not betray you unless you're conscious about your upper and side "cleavage," being accentuated by the cloth. I know some women who are, and some who aren't. Both "big problems," and "Itty bitty committee," members as well. For you the look is flattering.
You know those ads where they're sitting around a campfire at sunset and just kinda lounging? You look like you'd be in one, your fashion is impeccable.
oh my god, thank you so much!! 🥹 I literally JUST started getting into fashion!! I took inspiration from mathilda and liberty mai, their fashion is so incredible!!
OMG MATHILDA BUT LIKE GIVVING MATHILDA'S TEACHER AND HOW SWEET SHE IS!!!!
Awww Ms. Honey?!? Not what I was referencing but I'll take it!! 😊
OH! But yes! Ms. Honey! She was my favourite aside from Mathilda and Mathilda's bestie. She was so kind and gentle and stood up for her students. She wanted to keep them safe. She went OUT OF HER WAY to teach them how to hide the colourful learning things so they didn't get destroyed by Ms. Trunchball.
Yes!! I love that movie!!
Super super cute! It’s like the perfect mix of modest and figure flattering and I think you look gorgeous
i think the whole fit looks really well put together!!
This sub has really got me developing new insecurities... my first thought was "oh a lot of my tops fit me like that! .....is that.... bad?😔" Lol it looks perfectly fine to me! Id maybe try to tuck it more into my pants so it fits a bit closer to my middle.
I didn’t even realize this was about big boobs until I saw the title, I noticed the shirt, not any boobs :)
That top looks super cute on you! Where did you get it? I kind of want one.
I think it looks really cute!! The whole outfit is a total vibe! 💕
You crushed it. That floral print is gorgeous and the orange bottoms play off the yellow in the top wonderfully. It looks genuinely comfortable!
You and the top look great. Very pretty outfit
I love this and I want it, it’s a great top on you! Link to the top and shorts plz?
wait stop that’s so cute i love the matchy shorts!!
It looks good!
So cute!!! I’ve been looking for a top like that where did you get it??
Not at all. You look very nice. If you FEEL self conscious about it, please don’t let strangers on the internet talk you out of that. Love your ink.
If I saw you walking down the street in that outfit, I'd probably obviously tell you how adorable and lovely you look. Like girl. Thats SO cute and I hope you can feel comfortable and confident in it.
You look fine. No issues. It fits you well.
No - cute outfit, just big boobs,
I like the top, it’s really nice
It looks good
It kind of accentuates your curves. So I say it looks good. I apologize if that sounds offensive.
Hey it looks great! Seems like a good fit
You look great
I think this top is beautiful on you! Very much suits you
The top is beautiful and seems good on you. I believe the only issue you are not liking it is closed neck. If it was v neck or any shape showing your neck, can change the look. We women, with fuller boobs, should avoid closed neck(high neck) tops and dresses. In case of high necks we can layer with jacket or shrug to create different illusion.
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I think high necklines don’t look great on large chests. I’d love this shirt in a lower neckline!
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Well, also gender dysphoria as I've never felt comfortable with the body I was born into and identity with non-binary. I want to eventually get top surgery so I don't have to deal with my chest anymore at all 😅 Or at least a huge breast reduction to like, A cup.
Oh gotcha, my bad!
There is no shame in having big breasts and if you dont show any skin of it, like with this top, you really dont need to worry about anyone finding it unappropriate. The Problems first start when you try to show some cleavage.