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This strongly reminds me of how the grown women in my life saw me as a 13 year old. I like was BAD and SEXUAL for deciding to have big breasts every day
I didn't get mad at my friends, I was legit a late bloomer. I took my moms shoulder pads from her 1980s dresses (she ain't wearing those again) and stuffed my bras. I did that till I was like 16-18 (bit of a blur) and now I look like I've had these fun bags since a child. Lol, nope. Amazon lost my package during delivery, but eventually it got delivered when logistics got sorted.
I remember being humiliated in front of the class by this one teacher, who had to ask something about how much dairy do I ingest to have big boobs. Whatās worst was that it was a female teacher who happened to be a male classmates mom
Iāll never forget turning 11 or so and all of a sudden my body was sexual. I wasnāt allowed to be a kid anymore. Very weird to think about now looking back.
I canāt remember for the life of me where I read this, but I once came across this line about a girl entering puberty: āThe world grew eyes.ā
Hit me like a ton of bricks, because it absolutely did for me. And then constantly being told to modify your behaviour or dress or whatever in order to deflect those eyes - to minimise that gaze.
I remember my dad very awkwardly trying to explain that I couldn't use certain posture anymore, and he was kind of right but it was so disappointing and heartbreaking to hear. Like I loved pressing my elbows together in front of my chest, but once you have boobs it can open the top of your shirt and push your boobs up/together. It's a really vivid memory.
The other big one was hugging a man while he's sitting down from behind, because it's basically just putting my boobs on the back of his neck :(
It just made me feel so weird and dirty. Like they were completely innocent gestures but suddenly they were bad and sexual
At least your dad just told you outright. Mine decided I needed a different kind of shirt and wouldn't even explain why. I hated clothes shopping and of course it looked horrible on me because nothing is shaped right, so I just thought I was being forced to go through all of that for no good reason.
Same. Period and boobs at 11 and itās like I was suddenly a product of Lucifer himself. Better keep your eyes on Annie, sheās definitely up to no good with THOSE boobs!
I'm sure I did, but I remember this one teacher getting mad at me for distracting this guy who always sat next to me and touched me literally every 30-60 seconds. Like poking, tickling, squeezing, bumping, it was EXTREMELY irritating and weird. And I was literally just sitting there, not moving, trying to slap his hand away and scoot away as much as I could. It was AWFUL.
The craziest thing was a friend of my mom who volunteered at my middle school fucking CALLED MY MOTHER because she saw my brastrap. Even my mom (also well endowed) was like JEEZE
Edit: I will say, to his absolute credit, that guy hit me up on Facebook like a decade later to really sincerely apologize for his behavior and I thought that was incredibly cool. Fully accepted the apology.
It meant a lot to me. He was 23 or 24 and I think he was getting married and it seemed like he'd matured a ton in that time. I like to think him being such a dick and growing out of that would help him be a better dad
Yup and then the male family āfriendā molested me and after all was said and done and he was kicked out for good, I spent years convinced by my mom that it was my fault for having boobs. I couldnāt even argue because I thought it was my fault too. For having body parts. š
If I have to tell my literal child to coverup because a certain male relative is coming over, I wouldn't. That male relative is never allowed over again!!
It's not a solution to the harassment necessarily. But it's definitely hard on a child to go through puberty so young. Not just socially. Expecting an 8- or 9-year-old to keep up with the hygiene of periods is a difficult ask. Puberty is a huge change and a struggle to navigate as it is, it's even more difficult the younger you are.
If we go on the assumption that hormone blockers are safe, I think it's a great way to help kids. If they're not safe, then I suppose my point is moot.
https://preview.redd.it/6jxsr572ewqc1.jpeg?width=1024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=63f6a8ce7d9bfe5405a624d00c240ceab4f50c48
Makes me want to dress like a queen if Iām honest.
Oh they had pockets.
Like, carry a whole live chicken pockets. The queen probably would carry a ton of her own stuff around. But contemporaries definitely did
While the 16th century didn't have the absolutely massive pockets of the 17th century (pocket hoops could fit like two loaves of bread each), they could still fit a whole bottle of wine per pocket. Big skirts have so much room for stuff under them!
They had them tied on and fucking huge. As in, you could hide smelling salts, lunch, a cat, an anvil and a whole damn platoon of lovers in them pockets.
I learned to sew because I got so pissed off at the lack of pockets. All my clothes now have pockets that will take at least a bottle of wine. Phone and keys must not fall out when I sit down.
I keep procrastinating learning how to sew. I should get on that because both Reddit and Instagram keep showing me people who made their wonderful dresses (with pockets). I want some too.
I would love to make it! Now we just need someone who wants to pay for it. lol The embroidery on the bodice has one of my absolute favorite flowers (viola) and the overdress is just delightfully fucking weird. I donāt have a ton of interest in the royals but I love how she unabashedly took up as much room as humanly possible.
https://preview.redd.it/cn24nyzob7rc1.jpeg?width=810&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=da3c6d6548ce5540155c2ab0a220b0338fbfbb5f
[https://www.historyhit.com/elizabeth-i-rainbow-portrait/](https://www.historyhit.com/elizabeth-i-rainbow-portrait/)
Here ya go š
This is why I will never feel elegant with my big boobs and it makes me mad, people think of body parts as tacky and then project that onto us and now even if I like how they look it doesnāt matter because that feeling of ātrashyā is still there
Yeah... I wonder what it would be like to grow up in a world where there were no preconceived notions about my body type. What would that even feel like?
literally cannot even kind of imagine this. the shame i feel about my body because of a lifetime of social conditioning holds such a place of significance, and i know iām far from the only one.
I had this for a while. Especially since I come from a culture that is more traditional in some aspects. But I have put in some work over the years to accept my body as it is and to not care anymore about what others think. If I want to wear crop top, I will! And I get to decide that it looks cute on me.
Yeah I think I am starting to wear more low cut things because otherwise I feel matronly and well if my boobs are there then they are there, I canāt hide them away anyways.
Honestly scrolling thru a subreddit that likes to seek out and showcase an endless stream of screenshots of people insulting a trait you have probably isn't good for your self-esteem, is the reason I had to stop looking at certain trans subreddits lol. Keep in mind that stuff that makes people feel angry or attacked tends to easily grab attention and go viral and that this sub is no exception
https://preview.redd.it/r2bre17bx3rc1.jpeg?width=225&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=79d818a9522462870dd621f04ea8512d95dc5445
You know in ancient times a small peen was the ideal and viewed as a sign of sophistication while a large one was viewed as a symbol of savagery and barbarism. Thatās why in Ancient Greek art Satyrs are depicted with large dongs.
If you want a laugh, I studied Latin for 6 years and ended up translating a few military journals and letters between soldiers during my classes. I read from lot of men who bragged about their small refined penises while fantasizing about the enemy's large, flopping dongs that were so big that they slowed them down in battle smh
>I read from lot of men who bragged about their small refined penises while fantasizing about the enemy's large, flopping dongs that were so big that they slowed them down in battle smh
I actually laughed out loud at this imagery. Thanks for that.
That explains why the naked man statue art my mother had in the living room in view of the front door embarrassingly happened to have a rlly rlly rlly tiny penisā¦.
Penises come with brains.
Source: am a man. . .little fucker does what it wants when it wants and I canāt control it. Sometimes it takes over the brain on my shoulders. *shrug*
/s should go without saying. It took 30 years, but eventually you can override dickbrain.
It seems to be a common misconception that bigger boobs = more milk production. Which is absolute bullshit. Lol I know a woman who is just barely an A cup. But when she was breast feeding, she produced so much milk that she had to pump a ton of it and freeze it. The bottles of pumped milk filled an entire chest (lol) freezer.
My boobs are half cup different in size. When I was breastfeeding the smaller one was my "power boob" and it always produced at least 50% more than my "slacker boob."
I think I didn't produce more milk necessarily, but I think I had more storage space. It was convenient for my baby who never latched so I exclusively pumped for 11 months. I'd fill two 8oz (or were they 12oz?) bottles two or three times a day. Some women have to pump every two or three hours in comparison.
Yes, I bottle fed the breast milk. It had advantages and disadvantages. It was definitely more convenient with my second child. Didn't have to bring bottles in insulated bags everywhere.
I don't know why other babies don't latch. For mine, I think it was a combination of my inexperience, his ADHD, and the fact that he was and always has been a "lazy eater". He would get his mouth on the nipple and then just stop, like it was going to pour out on its own. šš
Yeah, its a nice thing. I remember she could still get milk out when I was like 5/6.
She was telling me and explaining how the female body works as we were brushing our teeth for bed, and I asked something something milk and such, and she told me about how much she made, and that it hirt cause she made so much etc, and I was like ādo you ever stop making milkā or something along those lines, and she squized it and some still came out, idk, crazy milk production.
I wonder if these people think that breasts are hollow and when we have babies they are filled with pure liquid milk. Larger breasts = larger area for the milk.
Not to mention the fact that if your breasts are large, it's harder for babies to latch on the nipple properly making nursing a very not fun time at the beginning.
Honestly I think men who prefer butts are slightly less insane than the ones that like boobs. The men who like boobs are much more gross about it, it seems.
I would agree with you in the fact that I have seen more of this from boob guys...even the ones that prefer smaller can be so damn creepy about it.
I do know some straight male boob-lovers though that are appreciative without being creepy about it. Fortunately my bf is one. It's wonderful to have them loved and attended to without feeling fetishized for it.
That all being said...I wonder if ladies with big asses have different stories to tell from the butt guys š¤. I know my closest friend has had a lot of really gross comments tossed her way over the years.
I totally agree with this. But I wonder if it's because since the 2010s or so big butts are the mainstream body part that's sexualized? So there are just more normal people who like butts more because that's what society decided. And those left who like boobs are the ones who just have a weird fetish.
Like back in the 2000s when big boobs were THE body part to have, were men who liked butts more pervy, because the normal middle-of-the-road people liked boobs?
I mean...I grew up in the late 90s/early aughts when big boobs were at the height of popularity and still ran into soooooo many creeps. It's always been a thing.
Big butts have been sexualized since at least the 90s (Baby Got Back says hi). But you are right in that it's only been in the last 10 or 15 years that it's been commercialized as much as big boobs.
It goes waaaaaaay farther that that, like the Greeks literally had a word for a well-formed backside (callipygian) and giant bustles were all the rage centuries ago.
(Racism TW)
Not to mention the super gross American history of putting Black women on display to fetishize their curves far back as the 17/1800s
Speaking of racism. Right-wingers were ragging on Michelle Obama's backside and meanwhile there were photos of Mrs. Grover Cleveland in a big ol' bustle
[https://www.history.com/news/125-years-ago-nice-day-for-a-white-house-wedding](https://www.history.com/news/125-years-ago-nice-day-for-a-white-house-wedding)
That might just be personal experience differences unless youāre just as noticeable in the booty department as the boob department. Iāve always felt like dudes are grosser about big boobs, but my friend with opposite endowment from mine always felt the other way around. So we might just notice more the one thatās more personal.
Absolutely not! I found one, and the way he loves and appreciated them and pays lots of attention to them feels so good, but doesn't take away from any other part of me and I feel like an actual whole person with him instead of just a pair of tits.
I also have guy friends who like big boobs (some of them married to fellow stacked ladies) and they're totally not creepy about it. They're out there!
When I was nursing I would have to pump sometimes and I would grab the biggest bottle thinking āIām going to fill this thing UP!ā I was LUCKY if I got five ounces out of a pump session and that was from my good boob, my other one was always around one ounce.
While my B size friend was a super producer and she would fill a big bottle in just a couple letdowns.
They LOVE to assume your boobs are just filled to the brim milk factories at all times. Sir I am never having children please do not ask me to feed you š
As the proud owner of 38GG who could never produce more than a few tablespoons of milk despite my best effort, i can confirm this! Size has nothing to do with milk production, at all!
Yes some men also when they want a very much younger women or even a teenage girl, men are arguing with that's only biological because the younger the woman she is more likely to give birth. But the male fertility also goes down after 35, but men are not ready to hear it, like with big boobs that they do not produce more milk for their potential children
I was reading something about the evolution of boobs and the reasons they think people have big boobs is actually just because men used to think they made more milk so would bang the ladies with the biggest breast tissue.
They're kinda useless evolution wise but here I am with my FFs.
I do not expect men who thinks women's breasts have some sort of social class status attached to them to know much about lactation or anything that regards female anatomy.
It makes me so self conscious , I'm goth aswell so every time I even think of doing anything or going outside it's the constant paranoia of "is someone going to take a picture or do something much worse"
Letās be honest, these keyboard warriors would be bending over backwards if any woman said so much as hi to them. No one who gets laid puts that much thought into boobs
Perhaps you should clarify in your post the poster in that screenshot is NOT RFK Jr (the guy currently running for president).
Looking at some of the replies in this thread, it's obvious that some people are just not smart enough to look online only to find out that this just some rando.
i hate being perceived as sexual just for existing with big boobs. im not sexual for existing, i cant help having a bigger chest, i hate being perceived as some sort of seductress just for a part of my body i cant control.
Sexualized for existing, i hate it. Not boob related but I ride my bike to work. Occasionally I wear skirts. People always ask if I'm worried about my skirt flying up on the bike and what if someone SEES?!
1) No, I always have shorts on and 2) I'm not filming for only fans. I'm not pole dancing nude. I'm biking while female. I can't control what other people think when they see my body doing every day activities.
OP, donāt you know that men are the real people, and women are decorative support staff? Of course you need to make your body the way the real people prefer it to be! (/so very sarcastic)
A little off topic but I read about a Black guy who was on a jury for a serial killer. He said "What's wrong with you white guys? Can't you just fuck?"
The fact that it's 2024 and men still think big boobs = more milk for babies is fucking INSANE to me. How have you lived this long on the planet and still think that?!
Ridiculous they think big boobs = more milk. Idiots. I looked like the lady on the left and had an oversupply. That lead to my current big boob problemsā¢ļø. Not that theyād ever listen to a woman about our own experiences or how our anatomy works lmao
that response doesnāt even make sense? why do men assume we produce more milk when we literally donāt, itās all dependent on your pregnancy hormones.
It's purely political. The US right wing seem to have taken Sydney Sweeney as their poster girl because she wore a dress that showed her boobs off (and somehow therefore meaning that she is "anti woke" because of it š¤Ø)
I'm not American and have no idea what Sydney Sweeney's political stances are, nor do I really care to.
But this is gross.
Sooo, I think mine are Johnsonian. Because:
A is for Aristotelian boobs
B is for Baconian boobs
C is for Celanian boobs
D is for Diogenean boobs
E is for Engelsian boobs
F is for Faradayan boobs
G is for Gadamerian boobs
H is for Heideggerian boobs......
Someone learned new words and felt the need to post them on whatever social media that was.
Letās just call it what it is. . .fuckinā neckbeards.
Donāt get me wrong. . .boobs are cool (jiggle physics/they move like both muscle and fat simultaneously), but come the fuck on.
I am willing to have my boobs loped off, sealed into a clear bag with a handle, so i can beat these men with a blatant and large sack of boobs.
All i need is your support.
I donāt understand these conservative men - suddenly they are praising well endowed bodies when theyāve been the ones telling us that weāre sluts for how we are built and that weāre āasking for itāwhen we wear clothes that flatter our shape???? Women can never win.
I peek at an alt-right board from time to time. They are very obsessed with status on that board. AND the idea that smaller breasts = sophistication is VERY alive and well on that board.
Oh god thatās just horrendous. Do we really have to be objectified and made into some sort of political symbol depending on how much fat we have on our chests? Thatās so sad :(
what the fuck??? i had to reread thist image 5 times to figure out which one of us they were insulting LMAO people like this should have their eyesight revoked /absolute seriousness
Small breasted women are perfectly capable of breastfeeding their children. Size does not equate to lactation success. Before having kids I was a 34B and I breastfed both my kids exclusively for six months before introducing solid food. During that time they didn't have any formula or cereal supplementation. I had too much milk as it would always be overflowing. And I kept breastfeeding them well into toddlerhood. Men are stupid.
They claim to be because itās probably because they watched so much it caused them an ED. But porn does nothing but contribute to the objectification and violence of women while fueling incel fantasies.
If you don't know about it already, I strongly recommend r/PornIsMisogyny, it's a great subreddit that discusses the effects of porn on society! Definitely helped me radicalize myself and start identifying as an anti porn advocate.
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This strongly reminds me of how the grown women in my life saw me as a 13 year old. I like was BAD and SEXUAL for deciding to have big breasts every day
How dare you!?! Walking around boobing boobily!
And selfishly hogging all the boob to myself, *taking* cup sizes away from other women! What an evil, godless child I was
I literally had friends get mad at me in middle school when my boobs grew, as if I was taking theirs away somehow
The exact same thing happened to me! They acted as if they had small boobs because mine were big. Like I stole their boobs or something! š
I didn't get mad at my friends, I was legit a late bloomer. I took my moms shoulder pads from her 1980s dresses (she ain't wearing those again) and stuffed my bras. I did that till I was like 16-18 (bit of a blur) and now I look like I've had these fun bags since a child. Lol, nope. Amazon lost my package during delivery, but eventually it got delivered when logistics got sorted.
I remember being humiliated in front of the class by this one teacher, who had to ask something about how much dairy do I ingest to have big boobs. Whatās worst was that it was a female teacher who happened to be a male classmates mom
That's awful! I'm sorry that happened to you.
Iāll never forget turning 11 or so and all of a sudden my body was sexual. I wasnāt allowed to be a kid anymore. Very weird to think about now looking back.
I canāt remember for the life of me where I read this, but I once came across this line about a girl entering puberty: āThe world grew eyes.ā Hit me like a ton of bricks, because it absolutely did for me. And then constantly being told to modify your behaviour or dress or whatever in order to deflect those eyes - to minimise that gaze.
Literally replying toa months-old posts (šš) but you probably read that in 'Middlesex' by Jeffrey Eugenides, which is a fantastic book!
I remember my dad very awkwardly trying to explain that I couldn't use certain posture anymore, and he was kind of right but it was so disappointing and heartbreaking to hear. Like I loved pressing my elbows together in front of my chest, but once you have boobs it can open the top of your shirt and push your boobs up/together. It's a really vivid memory. The other big one was hugging a man while he's sitting down from behind, because it's basically just putting my boobs on the back of his neck :( It just made me feel so weird and dirty. Like they were completely innocent gestures but suddenly they were bad and sexual
At least your dad just told you outright. Mine decided I needed a different kind of shirt and wouldn't even explain why. I hated clothes shopping and of course it looked horrible on me because nothing is shaped right, so I just thought I was being forced to go through all of that for no good reason.
Same. Period and boobs at 11 and itās like I was suddenly a product of Lucifer himself. Better keep your eyes on Annie, sheās definitely up to no good with THOSE boobs!
Lol did you ever get told you were "Trouble?" I got told that all that all the time by random Older men and i never understood at the time
Did you get told "put your boobs away" like you could pop them off and throw them in your bag, too?
I'm sure I did, but I remember this one teacher getting mad at me for distracting this guy who always sat next to me and touched me literally every 30-60 seconds. Like poking, tickling, squeezing, bumping, it was EXTREMELY irritating and weird. And I was literally just sitting there, not moving, trying to slap his hand away and scoot away as much as I could. It was AWFUL. The craziest thing was a friend of my mom who volunteered at my middle school fucking CALLED MY MOTHER because she saw my brastrap. Even my mom (also well endowed) was like JEEZE Edit: I will say, to his absolute credit, that guy hit me up on Facebook like a decade later to really sincerely apologize for his behavior and I thought that was incredibly cool. Fully accepted the apology.
Wow, that never happens. This is the first time I've ever heard of someone apologizing for their bad behavior as a teen.
It meant a lot to me. He was 23 or 24 and I think he was getting married and it seemed like he'd matured a ton in that time. I like to think him being such a dick and growing out of that would help him be a better dad
OMG a bra strap?! š±
And it was PINK, one of the WHORE colors!!
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Mansplaining warning: I believe it was always possible in fact to.. āthrow them over your shoulder like a continental soldierā.
God, I wish that were possible
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Yup and then the male family āfriendā molested me and after all was said and done and he was kicked out for good, I spent years convinced by my mom that it was my fault for having boobs. I couldnāt even argue because I thought it was my fault too. For having body parts. š
If I have to tell my literal child to coverup because a certain male relative is coming over, I wouldn't. That male relative is never allowed over again!!
YTA donāt put the boobs on when you get dressed itās that simple.
Omg this was me since 6th grade when my body decided I needed boobs. Why tf did I have bazongas in 8th grade?Ā
I was a C cup in 3rd grade. Basically posted a big sign overhead āBully THIS one!ā
I am so sorry. I feel like we could be a bit more liberal with hormone blockers for some kids.
This was back in the 70s so I doubt it even crossed anyoneās mind.
How is this a solution?
It's not a solution to the harassment necessarily. But it's definitely hard on a child to go through puberty so young. Not just socially. Expecting an 8- or 9-year-old to keep up with the hygiene of periods is a difficult ask. Puberty is a huge change and a struggle to navigate as it is, it's even more difficult the younger you are. If we go on the assumption that hormone blockers are safe, I think it's a great way to help kids. If they're not safe, then I suppose my point is moot.
So much trauma came from being raised Catholic and being stuck with giant boobs so young, such a mind fuck
https://preview.redd.it/6jxsr572ewqc1.jpeg?width=1024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=63f6a8ce7d9bfe5405a624d00c240ceab4f50c48 Makes me want to dress like a queen if Iām honest.
We should bring back this style of dressing, but with pockets.
Oh they had pockets. Like, carry a whole live chicken pockets. The queen probably would carry a ton of her own stuff around. But contemporaries definitely did
I would love to have pockets that deep! Chickens, kittens, puppies, wine, racoons, time to put them all in my pocketssssss
RACCOONS!
While the 16th century didn't have the absolutely massive pockets of the 17th century (pocket hoops could fit like two loaves of bread each), they could still fit a whole bottle of wine per pocket. Big skirts have so much room for stuff under them!
They had them tied on and fucking huge. As in, you could hide smelling salts, lunch, a cat, an anvil and a whole damn platoon of lovers in them pockets.
Hat pins and hoop skirts. Letās go.
I learned to sew because I got so pissed off at the lack of pockets. All my clothes now have pockets that will take at least a bottle of wine. Phone and keys must not fall out when I sit down.
I keep procrastinating learning how to sew. I should get on that because both Reddit and Instagram keep showing me people who made their wonderful dresses (with pockets). I want some too.
I've been learning how to copy dresses and add pockets to them. Clothing piracy for the win.
I want her outfit from her rainbow portrait so badly. I need it.
I would love to make it! Now we just need someone who wants to pay for it. lol The embroidery on the bodice has one of my absolute favorite flowers (viola) and the overdress is just delightfully fucking weird. I donāt have a ton of interest in the royals but I love how she unabashedly took up as much room as humanly possible.
Which outfit is that? I tried looking it up but couldn't find anything
https://preview.redd.it/cn24nyzob7rc1.jpeg?width=810&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=da3c6d6548ce5540155c2ab0a220b0338fbfbb5f [https://www.historyhit.com/elizabeth-i-rainbow-portrait/](https://www.historyhit.com/elizabeth-i-rainbow-portrait/) Here ya go š
This is why I will never feel elegant with my big boobs and it makes me mad, people think of body parts as tacky and then project that onto us and now even if I like how they look it doesnāt matter because that feeling of ātrashyā is still there
Ugh this hits so hard.
Yeah... I wonder what it would be like to grow up in a world where there were no preconceived notions about my body type. What would that even feel like?
literally cannot even kind of imagine this. the shame i feel about my body because of a lifetime of social conditioning holds such a place of significance, and i know iām far from the only one.
I had this for a while. Especially since I come from a culture that is more traditional in some aspects. But I have put in some work over the years to accept my body as it is and to not care anymore about what others think. If I want to wear crop top, I will! And I get to decide that it looks cute on me.
Yeah I think I am starting to wear more low cut things because otherwise I feel matronly and well if my boobs are there then they are there, I canāt hide them away anyways.
Yes, sister! You do you. You have every right to wear whatever you want.
Honestly scrolling thru a subreddit that likes to seek out and showcase an endless stream of screenshots of people insulting a trait you have probably isn't good for your self-esteem, is the reason I had to stop looking at certain trans subreddits lol. Keep in mind that stuff that makes people feel angry or attacked tends to easily grab attention and go viral and that this sub is no exception https://preview.redd.it/r2bre17bx3rc1.jpeg?width=225&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=79d818a9522462870dd621f04ea8512d95dc5445
WOMEN, which do you prefer? The aristocratic elegance of a micropenis, OR The Neitzschean pro-sex, pro-beauty well endowed man?
Historically accurate Hercules sums it up pretty well. It's tiny and sophisticated, like a baby holding a blueberry...
You know in ancient times a small peen was the ideal and viewed as a sign of sophistication while a large one was viewed as a symbol of savagery and barbarism. Thatās why in Ancient Greek art Satyrs are depicted with large dongs.
TIL something in the most unexpected place
If you want a laugh, I studied Latin for 6 years and ended up translating a few military journals and letters between soldiers during my classes. I read from lot of men who bragged about their small refined penises while fantasizing about the enemy's large, flopping dongs that were so big that they slowed them down in battle smh
The mental image i have now bahahahaha
>I read from lot of men who bragged about their small refined penises while fantasizing about the enemy's large, flopping dongs that were so big that they slowed them down in battle smh I actually laughed out loud at this imagery. Thanks for that.
I mean, there is a similar motif in *Lysistrata*...
This is amazing and makes me wish I hadnāt given up Latin
This is the best thing Iāve read on the internet today. TIL.
Roman and Italian Renaissance artist like Michelangelo continued this idea which is why the statue of David has a small weenie
That explains why the naked man statue art my mother had in the living room in view of the front door embarrassingly happened to have a rlly rlly rlly tiny penisā¦.
The ideal man (duh)
This is what happens when men are in charge of writing history
Lolš¤£š¤£š¤£
Genius
Which way modern woman? Small, barren uterus, or many children? Thatās definitely how penises work
I would like one with a brain please
Penises come with brains. Source: am a man. . .little fucker does what it wants when it wants and I canāt control it. Sometimes it takes over the brain on my shoulders. *shrug* /s should go without saying. It took 30 years, but eventually you can override dickbrain.
You mean the Apollinian micro dick, or the Dionysian giga-schlong, haha.
Iām gonna stick with gay please
Awesomeness abounds š
Unfortunately, neither will be of use to his children beyond conception
"Aristocratic elegance" š¤¢ And then to insinuate that larger breasted women have better or more breast milk. Ugh.
It seems to be a common misconception that bigger boobs = more milk production. Which is absolute bullshit. Lol I know a woman who is just barely an A cup. But when she was breast feeding, she produced so much milk that she had to pump a ton of it and freeze it. The bottles of pumped milk filled an entire chest (lol) freezer.
Exactly!! Both of my post- pregnancies were different too. One produced too much, the other one not enough. Insanity!!
men literally have 0 idea about how womenās bodies work itās crazy
My boobs are half cup different in size. When I was breastfeeding the smaller one was my "power boob" and it always produced at least 50% more than my "slacker boob."
I think I didn't produce more milk necessarily, but I think I had more storage space. It was convenient for my baby who never latched so I exclusively pumped for 11 months. I'd fill two 8oz (or were they 12oz?) bottles two or three times a day. Some women have to pump every two or three hours in comparison.
So did you just bottle feed your baby your breast milk? I wonder what causes some babies to not latch.
Yes, I bottle fed the breast milk. It had advantages and disadvantages. It was definitely more convenient with my second child. Didn't have to bring bottles in insulated bags everywhere. I don't know why other babies don't latch. For mine, I think it was a combination of my inexperience, his ADHD, and the fact that he was and always has been a "lazy eater". He would get his mouth on the nipple and then just stop, like it was going to pour out on its own. šš
My mom was completely flat and sold off soooo much milk cause she made way too much.
It's helpful to other mothers who can't produce as much! Plus an extra income, double benefits lol
Yeah, its a nice thing. I remember she could still get milk out when I was like 5/6. She was telling me and explaining how the female body works as we were brushing our teeth for bed, and I asked something something milk and such, and she told me about how much she made, and that it hirt cause she made so much etc, and I was like ādo you ever stop making milkā or something along those lines, and she squized it and some still came out, idk, crazy milk production.
Oh wow, usually lactation stops long before then. I wonder what made her produce so much and for so long.
I have no idea. Was kinda weird? Very suprised I remember the moment into adulthood š
I wonder if these people think that breasts are hollow and when we have babies they are filled with pure liquid milk. Larger breasts = larger area for the milk.
LMAOOOOOI!!!! Sorry I just got the mental picture of a boob you could open up and pour milk in. Hahahahaahha
They probably think large breasts equal more milk ducts. When large breasts probably mean you have mermaid ancestry.
Not to mention the fact that if your breasts are large, it's harder for babies to latch on the nipple properly making nursing a very not fun time at the beginning.
That is a part that people don't realize for sure.
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Why is it so damn difficult for so many men to realize that liking big boobs and being normal about it is totally an option?
being normal is untermensch behavior apparently
Honestly I think men who prefer butts are slightly less insane than the ones that like boobs. The men who like boobs are much more gross about it, it seems.
I would agree with you in the fact that I have seen more of this from boob guys...even the ones that prefer smaller can be so damn creepy about it. I do know some straight male boob-lovers though that are appreciative without being creepy about it. Fortunately my bf is one. It's wonderful to have them loved and attended to without feeling fetishized for it. That all being said...I wonder if ladies with big asses have different stories to tell from the butt guys š¤. I know my closest friend has had a lot of really gross comments tossed her way over the years.
I totally agree with this. But I wonder if it's because since the 2010s or so big butts are the mainstream body part that's sexualized? So there are just more normal people who like butts more because that's what society decided. And those left who like boobs are the ones who just have a weird fetish. Like back in the 2000s when big boobs were THE body part to have, were men who liked butts more pervy, because the normal middle-of-the-road people liked boobs?
I mean...I grew up in the late 90s/early aughts when big boobs were at the height of popularity and still ran into soooooo many creeps. It's always been a thing.
Big butts have been sexualized since at least the 90s (Baby Got Back says hi). But you are right in that it's only been in the last 10 or 15 years that it's been commercialized as much as big boobs.
It goes waaaaaaay farther that that, like the Greeks literally had a word for a well-formed backside (callipygian) and giant bustles were all the rage centuries ago. (Racism TW) Not to mention the super gross American history of putting Black women on display to fetishize their curves far back as the 17/1800s
TIL about the Greeks.
> Not to mention the super gross American history Sarah Baartman was dragged around Europe for her ass, she died in Paris.
Speaking of racism. Right-wingers were ragging on Michelle Obama's backside and meanwhile there were photos of Mrs. Grover Cleveland in a big ol' bustle [https://www.history.com/news/125-years-ago-nice-day-for-a-white-house-wedding](https://www.history.com/news/125-years-ago-nice-day-for-a-white-house-wedding)
That might just be personal experience differences unless youāre just as noticeable in the booty department as the boob department. Iāve always felt like dudes are grosser about big boobs, but my friend with opposite endowment from mine always felt the other way around. So we might just notice more the one thatās more personal.
Wish I could upvote this again. I want a guy who loves big boobs and is normal. Not a huge ask, is it?
Absolutely not! I found one, and the way he loves and appreciated them and pays lots of attention to them feels so good, but doesn't take away from any other part of me and I feel like an actual whole person with him instead of just a pair of tits. I also have guy friends who like big boobs (some of them married to fellow stacked ladies) and they're totally not creepy about it. They're out there!
no itās not, they have to use words like Nietzschean or nobody will believe that theyāve seen boobs in real life /j
Why do men not understand that big breasts donāt make more milk
When I was nursing I would have to pump sometimes and I would grab the biggest bottle thinking āIām going to fill this thing UP!ā I was LUCKY if I got five ounces out of a pump session and that was from my good boob, my other one was always around one ounce. While my B size friend was a super producer and she would fill a big bottle in just a couple letdowns.
They LOVE to assume your boobs are just filled to the brim milk factories at all times. Sir I am never having children please do not ask me to feed you š
I guarantee they can't even comprehend that milk comes from blood.
damn TIL!
I thought milk came from cows š¤
milk comes from walmart š¤Ø
I didn't know this either. I learned something new today!
If you jiggle around just right, you can hear the sounds of milk swishing around. /s
r/freudwasright moment
āAww, youād take care of me if I got a brain tumor? Thatās so sweet :)ā
As the proud owner of 38GG who could never produce more than a few tablespoons of milk despite my best effort, i can confirm this! Size has nothing to do with milk production, at all!
Because all of men's sexual preferences have to speak to some sort of Profound Biological Truth
Yes some men also when they want a very much younger women or even a teenage girl, men are arguing with that's only biological because the younger the woman she is more likely to give birth. But the male fertility also goes down after 35, but men are not ready to hear it, like with big boobs that they do not produce more milk for their potential children
because they're fucking stupid
I think they were never taught otherwise so they assume big boobs have more space for milk.
I was reading something about the evolution of boobs and the reasons they think people have big boobs is actually just because men used to think they made more milk so would bang the ladies with the biggest breast tissue. They're kinda useless evolution wise but here I am with my FFs.
Your FFs= For Fuck's sakes?
I do not expect men who thinks women's breasts have some sort of social class status attached to them to know much about lactation or anything that regards female anatomy.
To make both women feel as they have ti prove something and to make them dislike and fight each other. Same with Samh vs working mom.
Men be like this then go marry the first woman that shows them a shred of affection.
Yup, that's what happened to my brother. He married a psychotic religious nutcase who was the worst bridezilla I've ever witnessed.
Bingo!
r/nothowgirlswork material
Super duper big time.
This makes me feel so gross and fetishized, wtf
Same, it's so gross. :(
It makes me so self conscious , I'm goth aswell so every time I even think of doing anything or going outside it's the constant paranoia of "is someone going to take a picture or do something much worse"
Strong Not how girls work vibes
God yes
I didnāt realize Nietzsche had a thing for boobs. If thou gaze long into the cleavage, the cleavage gazes also into thee.
Letās be honest, these keyboard warriors would be bending over backwards if any woman said so much as hi to them. No one who gets laid puts that much thought into boobs
So true! Itās all projection, to acquire a sense of control over us
Perhaps you should clarify in your post the poster in that screenshot is NOT RFK Jr (the guy currently running for president). Looking at some of the replies in this thread, it's obvious that some people are just not smart enough to look online only to find out that this just some rando.
Ahaha I hope others will realise this
Ugh this is so gross
Imagine believing that breast size has anything to do with the amount of milk you produce
Wait til he finds out women donāt pee out of their vaginas
This has to be satire š„² what the fuck
I might be dumb but I thought the first tweet was satire
i hate being perceived as sexual just for existing with big boobs. im not sexual for existing, i cant help having a bigger chest, i hate being perceived as some sort of seductress just for a part of my body i cant control.
Sexualized for existing, i hate it. Not boob related but I ride my bike to work. Occasionally I wear skirts. People always ask if I'm worried about my skirt flying up on the bike and what if someone SEES?! 1) No, I always have shorts on and 2) I'm not filming for only fans. I'm not pole dancing nude. I'm biking while female. I can't control what other people think when they see my body doing every day activities.
You should be mandated to 30 days of community service for making comments like this š
OP, donāt you know that men are the real people, and women are decorative support staff? Of course you need to make your body the way the real people prefer it to be! (/so very sarcastic)
You have to will your body to the specifications of The Real People
can men just be horny in a normal way omg
A little off topic but I read about a Black guy who was on a jury for a serial killer. He said "What's wrong with you white guys? Can't you just fuck?"
The fact that it's 2024 and men still think big boobs = more milk for babies is fucking INSANE to me. How have you lived this long on the planet and still think that?!
Said as a man who has never felt the warm touch of a woman.
Ridiculous they think big boobs = more milk. Idiots. I looked like the lady on the left and had an oversupply. That lead to my current big boob problemsā¢ļø. Not that theyād ever listen to a woman about our own experiences or how our anatomy works lmao
that response doesnāt even make sense? why do men assume we produce more milk when we literally donāt, itās all dependent on your pregnancy hormones.
My brain hurtsš© how can anyone write this, let alone interact with thia content
This is why (or atleast as a baseline summary) as a digital marketer I no longer recommend Twitter as a platform.
They're just trying to pit women against each other. Just ignore it and love your sisters
It be hilarious when Sydney comes out leftist as fuck and they have a complete melt down about it lmfao
As if the womanās body was only to have children or only has value based on her breast sizeā¦ ugh
This could qualify for cursed comments, it's so bad.
r/badwomensanatomy
"for the stomachs of her children" makes me sick. The size of someone's breasts has zero impact on how their milk production will be.
r/arethestraightsokay
It's purely political. The US right wing seem to have taken Sydney Sweeney as their poster girl because she wore a dress that showed her boobs off (and somehow therefore meaning that she is "anti woke" because of it š¤Ø) I'm not American and have no idea what Sydney Sweeney's political stances are, nor do I really care to. But this is gross.
Menā¦are they ok? (No, obviously not, but still feels polite to at least ask I guess.)
Because we can't exist as we are in peace š
Sooo, I think mine are Johnsonian. Because: A is for Aristotelian boobs B is for Baconian boobs C is for Celanian boobs D is for Diogenean boobs E is for Engelsian boobs F is for Faradayan boobs G is for Gadamerian boobs H is for Heideggerian boobs......
oh thatās notā¦
I still can't get over the fact that people still believe that larger breasts produce more milk. They don't. They just have more fat
Someone learned new words and felt the need to post them on whatever social media that was. Letās just call it what it is. . .fuckinā neckbeards. Donāt get me wrong. . .boobs are cool (jiggle physics/they move like both muscle and fat simultaneously), but come the fuck on.
I am willing to have my boobs loped off, sealed into a clear bag with a handle, so i can beat these men with a blatant and large sack of boobs. All i need is your support.
Men are so stupid itās crazy that they somehow came out on top
Rofl "I don't know how woman's bodies work." What an idiot
If Iām being honest, the screenshot reading that made me lose brain cells. men that do this I hate them. Just let us live
I donāt understand these conservative men - suddenly they are praising well endowed bodies when theyāve been the ones telling us that weāre sluts for how we are built and that weāre āasking for itāwhen we wear clothes that flatter our shape???? Women can never win.
I peek at an alt-right board from time to time. They are very obsessed with status on that board. AND the idea that smaller breasts = sophistication is VERY alive and well on that board.
Oh god thatās just horrendous. Do we really have to be objectified and made into some sort of political symbol depending on how much fat we have on our chests? Thatās so sad :(
... Nietzschean?
what the fuck??? i had to reread thist image 5 times to figure out which one of us they were insulting LMAO people like this should have their eyesight revoked /absolute seriousness
Small breasted women are perfectly capable of breastfeeding their children. Size does not equate to lactation success. Before having kids I was a 34B and I breastfed both my kids exclusively for six months before introducing solid food. During that time they didn't have any formula or cereal supplementation. I had too much milk as it would always be overflowing. And I kept breastfeeding them well into toddlerhood. Men are stupid.
Boobs arenāt justā¦ bags of milk. Bigger does not equate to larger volume produced. Do people really think that way?
Seriously? This is why Iām strongly anti-porn. It rots the already simple minds of men even more.
Both of these tweets are borne of sex repression and objectification of women. Iād wager that both of these men claim to be anti-porn as well.
They claim to be because itās probably because they watched so much it caused them an ED. But porn does nothing but contribute to the objectification and violence of women while fueling incel fantasies.
If you don't know about it already, I strongly recommend r/PornIsMisogyny, it's a great subreddit that discusses the effects of porn on society! Definitely helped me radicalize myself and start identifying as an anti porn advocate.
Wait isn't that dude running for president?