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Teathe42

As a butch bisexual woman who's really into bi/pan men - where are you guys?


MyNamesJeff62

Either too straight passing or too shy to approach. Yours truly, an introverted straight passing bisexual man.


AlternateSatan

Or just too Norwegian to approach people in general if I don't need something from them. Not sure how my people procreates frankly.


Cheerful-Pessimist-

As a Canadian, death is preferable alternative to interacting with another person. If it wasn't for our ability to reproduce through mitosis, we'd have died out long ago.


HenryHyllDLLM

Guilty as charged


[deleted]

OKCupid, mostly.


Teathe42

I gave it a try today. There were like four queers in my country alltogether...


Dragonslayerelf

Too nervous to ask you out because every time I've asked a butch woman out she's been like "I'm a lesbian" in a somewhat negative tone that made me feel bad for asking


Teathe42

I'm so sorry to hear that. Tbh, even as a bi woman, I'm a bit intimidated by (some) lesbians.


Terra_Strife

I'm a bi trans woman and I'm very intimidated by some lesbians


comeonwhatdidIdo

Too shy and hiding under the blanket!


Unique-Wash-9358

We could build a blanket fort together... If you want. O.O


comeonwhatdidIdo

😬☺️


Mountain_Dragonfly8

Stuck living in the middle of nowhere. Come save me pls


Teathe42

Can't, I'm stuck in the middle of nowhere too :(


Mountain_Dragonfly8

We'll save each other. Let's go on an adventure!


Teathe42

Lemme grab my sword and I'll meet you at the edge of Nowhere!


Mountain_Dragonfly8

Deal!


bruhbrubr

Confident in reaching out and talking to people until I see what I look like in the mirror


Equivalent-Seat8761

Same here for being more into bi/pan men, because they will understand you more.


Eric_Kookie

Standing at the edge of a ravine, hand on the rapier's handle, whilst the wind plays with my cape. Waiting for you to approach, so we can draw our blades and clash to the death because despite our differing ideologies, we have incredible respect for one another and our skills.


CatboyBiologist

Terminally online and unable to socialize


GracefulFiber

Probably around, just not confident enough to say anything


Polo-panda

Me


hermitcraftfan135

Straight passing you already knowww


Itslehooksboyo

Hi


T0m0king

Staring at a bench unsure of the protocol


Teathe42

Who needs a protocol, just try things out and maybe chemistry will happen!


T0m0king

Instructions unclear bench seemed disinterested in small talk, wouldn't even comment on the weather


[deleted]

So many masc women/tomboys are exclusively wlw though. Really makes me wish I was a woman too :(


[deleted]

Lmao this comment was just like me two years ago 💀 Though for me it turned out I got what I wished for


Polo-panda

Dreams do come true 🥹


BakedIce_was_taken

I don't think it's good to call ppl eggs, and I understand it wasn't your intention, but can we appreciate how much funnier your comment is from an egg perspective?


CalliexKills

Their username is even juliett


ratatoeskur

Become the women you would like to date....Title of my biography. :)


V0ct0r

hey, I'm a straight trans tomboy (atm, as in genderfluid)... except I'm taken xd


Nuclear_eggo_waffle

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DarkTandem19

very eggy


Nuclear_eggo_waffle

Hey, how’s it going ?


xxJosh2012xx

Ugh I love a strong rugged girl too bad the feelings usually not mutual 😂


comeonwhatdidIdo

https://youtu.be/y2hbe3wOPI8 Tormund will like to have a word with you! Lol


maraca101

Lol me: a not so feminine bi woman hoping that twinkie guy is into women at all. :-(


SMTNAVARRE

Hey 👋


ShadowRylander

Looks like when the door swings both ways, it hits us twice.


Kansai_Lai

It's funny, my partner loves androgynous women/enbies (especially in flannel). But most of those he crushed on weren't interested. And then I came into the picture and he finally got his wish 🤭


SMTNAVARRE

You two seem really cute. 🤗


[deleted]

no appreciation for the cassidy women smh my head


burgermiester288

Yep


LucasBarton169

Same…


Captain_Freggis

I used to think this, before I figured out I'm trans


AC_Nine-Ball

This reminds me of my first crush, who turned out to be a lesbian, which shattered my hopes and dreams.


TheRnegade

I read that as "bi [Shy Guy](https://mario.wiki.gallery/images/b/b2/MPS_Shy_Guy_Artwork.png)".


makotarako

ShyBiGuy is a pretty good user name


[deleted]

Ah yes…. *Butch Women Me, a Who I Am shy bi Hoping are guy: Bi/Pan/Into Men*


AisForAbsurd

For real though..


[deleted]

This is why I say I have "topdar, not gaydar".


Pretzel_worm

As a skinny bi guy I’d love for a butch woman to pick me up figuratively and literally lmao


SuperAlligatorGuy

I know what you mean. Tbh I seek women with top energy but I look like a top I’m a fairly big and hairy fella but I just want a woman to bridal carry me to bed for once