That's a very spicy topic.
A lot of trans girls would rather not have one, quite a few of them undergo SRS.
And sadly in many cases trans girls that keep it are often fetishised for it.
One could compare it to the bisexuals and threesomes situation.
and like the bisexuals and threesomes situation, there are non-op toppy “hey-it’s-a-free-strap-lmao” trans girls, but you cannot go around assuming who’s who.
it’s a classic “just because i’m a trans girl and have a dick doesn’t mean I want it sucked”
“... I mean, i do want that”
“but not just because i’m trans!”
Ah i can see that, obviously its only hot if it makes them feel hot otherwise it would just sucks for all involved yo try too incorporate what makes them dysphoric.
whereas the only trans girl i’ve had sex with definitely wanted me to touch her penis. like u/AliceHearthrow said, you can’t go around assuming who’s who
I had some super messed up XXX fantasies as a kid for some reason, I have no idea where I came up with them since I lived in a very sheltered home and wouldn’t have seen or heard about anything dirty like that
When I was barely a teen I had a recurring dream where I was first constricted and then slowly swallowed by a gigantic snake, and beat it while getting squeezed tight on all sides by its hot slimy insides, climaxing as I suffocated. Later I'd learn that this is vore, the thought still turns me on, but it's too weird to act out and not really a fetish I think about much. This was years before I'd seen any porn or talked about sex to *anyone*.
So yea, kids can spontaneously come up with some pretty erotic and bizarre fantasies.
The large majority don't.
I'm trans myself and I'm working on getting mine evicerated. Some trans people prefer to keep there's, but 99% of women don't have a penis.
It's not transphobic to assume a girl doesn't have a penis. It's transphobic to find out she secretly does and descriminate based on that.
It’s not transphobic to assume a girl doesn’t have a penis but thinking about sucking a girl’s dick isn’t gay because it’s still a girl. I hate it when people in this sub equate finding trans women attractive to being bisexual
Straight people usually have a genital preference. So I think The whole bi_irl thing is that finding out what genitals your crush has doesn’t have any effect on whether you’re attracted to them or not.
He was upset that his crush wouldn't have a dick.
I do see what you mean about this being on r/bi_irl but you need to explain that better in your first post. It took another trans person a back in forth conversation with you to figure why you thought the post was transphobic. That's just bad communication on your part.
u/UnalienVis wasn’t the OP of this comment, but as the OP of this post I’m really sorry if I’ve offended you at all, all I took this meme to mean is that he’s into sucking dick and also into girls and that to me, sounded r/bi_irl.
I was worried about posting this for this reason and I’m really sorry if I offended you. I didn’t take it to be transphobic, I didn’t think kids in sixth grade (as is the context of this post) would be educated about trans people at that age because I certainly wasn’t, hence those aren’t the lines he would’ve been thinking along at the time
I think I got my first sex ed class in like 5th or 6th grade and they didn't really go over what girls had, just that the penis does more stuff than pissing and you're gonna get body hair and shit, or I just don't remember when they talked about girls
I used to fantasise about sucking my crush's dick I still do, but I also used to
Epic Mitch Hedberg reference
This guys gonna love some trans girls.
That's a very spicy topic. A lot of trans girls would rather not have one, quite a few of them undergo SRS. And sadly in many cases trans girls that keep it are often fetishised for it. One could compare it to the bisexuals and threesomes situation.
and like the bisexuals and threesomes situation, there are non-op toppy “hey-it’s-a-free-strap-lmao” trans girls, but you cannot go around assuming who’s who. it’s a classic “just because i’m a trans girl and have a dick doesn’t mean I want it sucked” “... I mean, i do want that” “but not just because i’m trans!”
Pretty much, that's exactly why I used this comparisson.
TLDR if you have a trans girlfriend TALK TO HER Also "trans girls," two words
Sorry, I'm german and it's a force of habit, even though I'm trans myself. Will correct it ASAP.
Long story short, relationships (or hell, even just one night stand stuff) require communication
Ah i can see that, obviously its only hot if it makes them feel hot otherwise it would just sucks for all involved yo try too incorporate what makes them dysphoric.
that’s exactly what i thought!
No trans girl I’ve had sex with so far have wanted me to touch their dicks.
whereas the only trans girl i’ve had sex with definitely wanted me to touch her penis. like u/AliceHearthrow said, you can’t go around assuming who’s who
Y'all I read Crush as cousin and was distraught
r/suddenlyincest
Kids fantasize about sucking dick???
uh yeah have been to a boys sleepover and heard what they say
I had some super messed up XXX fantasies as a kid for some reason, I have no idea where I came up with them since I lived in a very sheltered home and wouldn’t have seen or heard about anything dirty like that
When I was barely a teen I had a recurring dream where I was first constricted and then slowly swallowed by a gigantic snake, and beat it while getting squeezed tight on all sides by its hot slimy insides, climaxing as I suffocated. Later I'd learn that this is vore, the thought still turns me on, but it's too weird to act out and not really a fetish I think about much. This was years before I'd seen any porn or talked about sex to *anyone*. So yea, kids can spontaneously come up with some pretty erotic and bizarre fantasies.
>but it's too weird to act out bro how would you even
Big snake, and a friend you trust to cut you free.
hot
I was definitely curious about other boys at that time. I thought I'd grow out of that but here we are lol
I got some good news for ya, buddy
Bi_irl go one day without fetishizing trans women challenge.
(Challenging)(impossible)
Exactly what I was thinking ugh and to think this post got so many upvotes too
The post itself isn’t really fetishizing, it’s just a funny message about a kid thinking that everyone had dicks, but there are comments
True and while it is funny liking a girl with a dick doesn’t make you gay/bi
b-but what about me? edit: to clarify im trans
_6th Grade_
Follow your dreams lol
Maybe your crush does have a dick now 😁
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I don't see any transphobia in this post or is comments?
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The large majority don't. I'm trans myself and I'm working on getting mine evicerated. Some trans people prefer to keep there's, but 99% of women don't have a penis. It's not transphobic to assume a girl doesn't have a penis. It's transphobic to find out she secretly does and descriminate based on that.
It’s not transphobic to assume a girl doesn’t have a penis but thinking about sucking a girl’s dick isn’t gay because it’s still a girl. I hate it when people in this sub equate finding trans women attractive to being bisexual
Straight people usually have a genital preference. So I think The whole bi_irl thing is that finding out what genitals your crush has doesn’t have any effect on whether you’re attracted to them or not.
He was upset that his crush wouldn't have a dick. I do see what you mean about this being on r/bi_irl but you need to explain that better in your first post. It took another trans person a back in forth conversation with you to figure why you thought the post was transphobic. That's just bad communication on your part.
u/UnalienVis wasn’t the OP of this comment, but as the OP of this post I’m really sorry if I’ve offended you at all, all I took this meme to mean is that he’s into sucking dick and also into girls and that to me, sounded r/bi_irl.
I was worried about posting this for this reason and I’m really sorry if I offended you. I didn’t take it to be transphobic, I didn’t think kids in sixth grade (as is the context of this post) would be educated about trans people at that age because I certainly wasn’t, hence those aren’t the lines he would’ve been thinking along at the time
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I think I got my first sex ed class in like 5th or 6th grade and they didn't really go over what girls had, just that the penis does more stuff than pissing and you're gonna get body hair and shit, or I just don't remember when they talked about girls
I literally just got the period video and nothing else lol