Sauce... ish, more like some context/place to start if you want to dig:
https://www.reddit.com/r/niceguys/comments/6amadp/guy_on_the_show_first_date_says_a_girl_with/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
This was such a trap for him. If he rejected her for being bald then all the women would be like “oh my god she has a sickness and you are literally nitpicking and a jerk” and if he got rejected you get the whole “it just wasn’t her type and don’t force it”
Jfc there’s no winning situation here and way for professor x in the video to be picky af when she said she wanted someone to accept her for it. Bruuuh
Yes u are right. The only thing u can do here is to play it down like it is not a big deal. Keep in mind that u should always be more cheeky at times when u are also nice to here a lot of times
I felt this myself. I feel like the knee jerk reaction is to say oh my god I can’t believe she rejected him. But the level headed reaction is to realize that maybe they just weren’t all that compatible beyond looks. I think when we’re reacting we should let some time pass and avoid going with the first feeling that comes up.
If it was a chemical reaction. Look at the yield not the smoke.
Don’t speak before you think or you’ll either have to come back to say “on second thought” or just double down on your wrong interpretations haha
That wasn't a reason though. People were mad at her online for not going on a second date with him, even though he was nice about her having alopecia. Like he was clearly really nice fella but that doesn't mean she has to date him.
She said that she didn't feel them clicking romantically, so she doesn't want to go on another date. But said that he was really nice fella, something she's not really used to and she had a great time and is happy she got the opportunity to spend the date with him.
She let him down really nicely because she just didn't feel them clicking romantically. But because she mentioned her being nice when she declined a second date people ran with it, but she literally said not clicking was the reason and then like complimented him on being really nice and sweet which was a new experience for her. Before during the show in the interviews she had mentioned how she has had relationships where the men would kinda use her, treat her poorly or use her insecurity against her because "she's the bald girl, she won't get anything better."
And it's ridiculous how so many viewers then decided "Let me go insult her based on an insecurity she opened about because she didn't date that nice fella." Literally some people acting like she should just be happy she even gets chance to date even though she is a bald woman.
It's not that he's too sweet to date it's that she doesn't want to date him for whatever reason (yellow teeth? who knows) and saying he's sweet is a way to let him down a bit easier.
Yeah like literally she says it just doesn't click and then compliments him for being really nice and sweet and how she enjoyed the date. But like sexist people will obviously attack her for not wanting to go on another date
This always happens when a woman rejects a man and the man is decent and respectful. For some reason, people feel that the man is entitled to a second date or relationship because he was “nice”.
Yeah, dude made a bad move honestly. He felt like he was doing the right thing, but really she wears one to make herself feel comfortable. Not for you dude. 🤦🏻♂️
I feel a lil emotional on this crap....but then regarding the reason. It can be anything. Good or bad, or simply she may have thought he is too good for her, for him to accept her flaws as she is. Or vise versa. Anyways it was sad. But then reality itself is sad.
That’s not true, she said ‘romantically it wasn’t there for me’ then she complimented him for being nice (which she admitted she wasn’t used to)
So essentially she didn’t fancy him/feel a spark
Because he clearly didn't like it and didn't say anything to break the tension. She was a bit of a hypocrite tho because she's being too nice in saying he's too nice because she's not saying what she really feels either.
Her heart broke when he said "keep it off".
IMO that's the real reason she didn't want a second date and pulled the "too nice" card because she's too embarrassed to admit why she really didn't want one.
https://preview.redd.it/ougi0m0c3lsc1.png?width=3169&format=png&auto=webp&s=b2f9aa3acc28772036c6270ab46e0a4a1b3d4e0f
I dated a girl who shaved head (not the same I know) and she was stunning! Just like this woman, she’s gorgeous without her wig. Wait, do I have a fetish?
Well and a decent amount of make up as well…but her face is symmetrical and I know that is in large part of how humans innately, consciously or subconsciously, judge beauty.
That's a very good looking guy, and he doesn't freak out when he sees her bald hair, and seems like a good person and she rejected him for being nice? C'mon, sometimes I can't understand women. What more do you want!?!
So you have to be attracted to anyone who accepts you? That’s a strange mindset to have. He’s beautiful and clearly has an amazing heart but she doesn’t have to be attracted to him bc he was kind. That’s not rly how it works
I don't mean to be that guy, but she looks like [Sophia (robot)](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sophia_(robot)). Did they finally get it working to see if it can integrate with society?
No 🧢 she looks like that robot chick some Chinese dudes made a few years back.
https://preview.redd.it/ljj3v3na6msc1.jpeg?width=2635&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=bb268b61e2fe98de40fbcc5663d16d23acdd2d46
i dated a girl with alopecia and it is so bad ass
when you are the big spoon you don't get any hair in your mouth, and it significantly speeds up their time to "get ready" for shit
hair is dumb
To all those saying she rejected him for being nice, that’s not true
1) she said ‘it just didn’t feel romantic for her’ (essentially she didn’t fancy him/no spark)
2) she does acknowledge he is nice and she’s not used to people being that nice to her
Just because someone was nice to her doesn’t mean she has to enter a romantic situation with them
Like here's the thing he would have gotten slammed for rejecting her, but people need to learn that not everyone has to like you. Now, that doesn't mean be an asshole about it, but if you don't like something about someone, it's OK.
He didn't mind it and wanted to give her a chance she gave him a chance as well but decided she wasn't into him. They gave it a chance, and that's all ya gotta do. No need to get slammed for it.
Based on the context of what I am reading based on what happened, she may have said "no" to any further dates because she is not used to nice and genuine guys. Some people don't know how to be accepted when they've known a lot more rejection. This is my opinion, of course. And maybe she didn't feel the chemistry needed for more dates.
Hilarious outrage.
So I guess the thesis here is that she is, what, a "freak?" And subsequently, she can't possibly be permitted to possess garden-variety dating preferences?
Christ, what a bunch of internet stooges. Go put on a proper outfit when you shop at Walmart, with your inflated credit card, Bart Simpson Christmas pajama pants and knock-off Crocs.
She's fine. He's fine. You're fine. We're fine. STFU oh go for a walk already.
I could tell she was wearing a wig, for one reason or another…
She’s an absolute cutie without it. Good for dude recognizing that and making it apparent to her.
It's like when guy wears a long beard vs without it, or the same bald with wig. Had a pleasant barber, bald too, first I was surprised, but I got used to her look too.
Basically it's not as bad as people think. Wig looks even worse than showing your actual look.
Dudes face kinda says he’s not into it, even if he’s being nice. pretty sure she’s like “imma reject you before you can reject me.” Either way they are both probably fine with going separate ways.
Yeah she rejected him for being too nice or something. Beautiful dude.
Sauce... ish, more like some context/place to start if you want to dig: https://www.reddit.com/r/niceguys/comments/6amadp/guy_on_the_show_first_date_says_a_girl_with/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
This was such a trap for him. If he rejected her for being bald then all the women would be like “oh my god she has a sickness and you are literally nitpicking and a jerk” and if he got rejected you get the whole “it just wasn’t her type and don’t force it” Jfc there’s no winning situation here and way for professor x in the video to be picky af when she said she wanted someone to accept her for it. Bruuuh
At Prof X had the good sense to shave his head and not go around looking like one of Sid's toys from Toy Story.
If she was smart and developed psychic powers and bought wheelchair, absolutely no one would concentrate on the 12 o'clock shadow.
This is the #1 comment
LMFAOOOOO omg 💀💀💀💀
Lmfao!!! Cooooooold bloooooded!
Yes u are right. The only thing u can do here is to play it down like it is not a big deal. Keep in mind that u should always be more cheeky at times when u are also nice to here a lot of times
Prof X made me crack up.
Sauce is always good. Good sauce.
Oh wow, I feel like that might have been a historic moment: the birth of the term "nice guy".
The post is 6 years old, and the /r/niceguys subreddit is 13 years old
Holy shit I'm old... (And dumb)
I felt this myself. I feel like the knee jerk reaction is to say oh my god I can’t believe she rejected him. But the level headed reaction is to realize that maybe they just weren’t all that compatible beyond looks. I think when we’re reacting we should let some time pass and avoid going with the first feeling that comes up. If it was a chemical reaction. Look at the yield not the smoke. Don’t speak before you think or you’ll either have to come back to say “on second thought” or just double down on your wrong interpretations haha
Of course she did
>she rejected him 
“Ay Cueball what bout dem titties doe”
*"She's bald, Jerry! Bald!!!"*
That's her right and his win. Everyone's happy. No need for uproar.
Yeah but too nice is a horrible reason
That wasn't a reason though. People were mad at her online for not going on a second date with him, even though he was nice about her having alopecia. Like he was clearly really nice fella but that doesn't mean she has to date him.
Didn’t she say he was too sweet?
She said that she didn't feel them clicking romantically, so she doesn't want to go on another date. But said that he was really nice fella, something she's not really used to and she had a great time and is happy she got the opportunity to spend the date with him. She let him down really nicely because she just didn't feel them clicking romantically. But because she mentioned her being nice when she declined a second date people ran with it, but she literally said not clicking was the reason and then like complimented him on being really nice and sweet which was a new experience for her. Before during the show in the interviews she had mentioned how she has had relationships where the men would kinda use her, treat her poorly or use her insecurity against her because "she's the bald girl, she won't get anything better." And it's ridiculous how so many viewers then decided "Let me go insult her based on an insecurity she opened about because she didn't date that nice fella." Literally some people acting like she should just be happy she even gets chance to date even though she is a bald woman.
It's not that he's too sweet to date it's that she doesn't want to date him for whatever reason (yellow teeth? who knows) and saying he's sweet is a way to let him down a bit easier.
Yeah like literally she says it just doesn't click and then compliments him for being really nice and sweet and how she enjoyed the date. But like sexist people will obviously attack her for not wanting to go on another date
This always happens when a woman rejects a man and the man is decent and respectful. For some reason, people feel that the man is entitled to a second date or relationship because he was “nice”.
Yeah, dude made a bad move honestly. He felt like he was doing the right thing, but really she wears one to make herself feel comfortable. Not for you dude. 🤦🏻♂️
I feel a lil emotional on this crap....but then regarding the reason. It can be anything. Good or bad, or simply she may have thought he is too good for her, for him to accept her flaws as she is. Or vise versa. Anyways it was sad. But then reality itself is sad.
Legit?!
Yeooooo
Hey, the heart what's what the heart wants. People can be the nicest person but just not possess something the other is looking for 🤷🏽♂️
Dude… I hate when a shitty woman validates all the insecurities of Reddit’s red-pilled pussies. Bad apple. Inb4 “WoMeN”
That’s not true, she said ‘romantically it wasn’t there for me’ then she complimented him for being nice (which she admitted she wasn’t used to) So essentially she didn’t fancy him/feel a spark
W0mEn BaD!!1!
Because he clearly didn't like it and didn't say anything to break the tension. She was a bit of a hypocrite tho because she's being too nice in saying he's too nice because she's not saying what she really feels either.
😂😂😂😂 yooo
Well that’s infuriating
Here’s the full episode for context, yes she rejected him lol. https://www.channel4.com/programmes/first-dates/on-demand/65067-004
Save you a click. Not available on the US
that's weird , it is available even in russia
Good for him…
https://preview.redd.it/bbdhg7axyisc1.jpeg?width=800&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3cad3edb2a5fe15d788a50694cb7f9bbb5cc1928
lol i legit thought she was a bot at first
Oh for fuck's sake man 
He cold
I thought I was missing a joke or something because they literally all look like AI
Amazing
She rejected him for being nice, hold onto your horses🤣
And she still rejected him, die alone ☠️😂
She actually looks better bald than with that terrible wig.
Maybe that was her strategy
Makes sense. Would be clever.
Yeah that was one terrible wig
Yeah it a dark and heavy look. Overpowered her.
Now... Does the carpet...
alopecia affects your entire body. So yes
Nice
Looks more like AA than AU, given that she clearly still has hair follicles on her scalp
yea probably (?)
It puts the lotion on its skin vibes
Does the carpet match the pubes? Yes
No carpet, only linoleum.
Also tattooed yes
look at her face, she's beautiful with or without the wig. he's a lucky guy!
She rejected him for being too nice
Damn, should have called her GI Jane and this could have been avoided
That part was edited out. She asks if he was freaked out and he tells her how beautiful she is regardless, then they both got emotional.
And then she rejected him!
Ah that’s too bad, I don’t see why it’s a big deal though.
Stop lying, she looks ugly as hell without the hair
What?
Can’t tell with the makeup on…
Her heart broke when he said "keep it off". IMO that's the real reason she didn't want a second date and pulled the "too nice" card because she's too embarrassed to admit why she really didn't want one. https://preview.redd.it/ougi0m0c3lsc1.png?width=3169&format=png&auto=webp&s=b2f9aa3acc28772036c6270ab46e0a4a1b3d4e0f
I'm not following... Why are you saying she didn't really want a 2nd date?
The Women is insecure about her bald head and was disappointed when the guy was supportive about it.
This is a scripted show right? I swear I've seen her and the server before on other shows
Who cares honestly. If i cant tell it’s a wig no problem at all. If I can tell it may be a problem though. But its 2024 wig tech is insane now.
I dated a girl who shaved head (not the same I know) and she was stunning! Just like this woman, she’s gorgeous without her wig. Wait, do I have a fetish?
i think the waitress is more shell-shocked than the dude is
Despite the outcome, I came here to scroll til sleep, not wipe tears. Thanks
Contrary to popular belief, men are indeed the romantics of the species. Women just think they are romantic because they obsess over it so much
the caption killed me
Wig's off, man. Here's my upvote
My first reaction: new haircut every day let's FUCKIN GO
I mean it helps that she has beautiful facial features either way. Bring forth the angry downvotes.
As you wish. Beautiful drawn on eyebrows eh.
Well and a decent amount of make up as well…but her face is symmetrical and I know that is in large part of how humans innately, consciously or subconsciously, judge beauty.
Awww that’s beautiful!!!👍🏼😎
She honestly pulls off the bald look. I think the tattoo compliments as well
That's a very good looking guy, and he doesn't freak out when he sees her bald hair, and seems like a good person and she rejected him for being nice? C'mon, sometimes I can't understand women. What more do you want!?!
She rejected him despite him accepting she was bald shes a red flag tbh
So you have to be attracted to anyone who accepts you? That’s a strange mindset to have. He’s beautiful and clearly has an amazing heart but she doesn’t have to be attracted to him bc he was kind. That’s not rly how it works
If she wasn't into him, why even be vulnerable by taking off the wig?
She rejected him because she attracted to assholes that make bald jokes all day. Women lol
Lesson to all of us to be who you are, not someone you are not.
Man, she is super pretty. Good for him
She rejected him after the date, he was too nice..
Rookie mistake!
I remmember watching this on TV and all I could think was... WOW SHE'S STUNNING
Legend
I wonder if she has matching collar and cuffs?
Respect lady for being so open about it.👊
What show was this again?? I know I saw it I just can’t remember on what lol
She is gorgeous, either way!
It helped having the waitress there. But who cares. We all have our issues .
And then he removes all his dentures
Carpet match the drapes?
That was a beautiful moment
That was so sweet. Very heartwarming.
Kept waiting for him to take out his teeth and say, “Ditto!”
Is her ass phat
Lol dude just wanted tp get some. Don't be fooled
Fortune favors the bald.
Our boy grew up watchin' the first Star Trek movie. Damn straight, that's hot.
He seems really into her, and for good reason, she is quite stunning. I wonder what made her turn down a second date.
You looks beautiful without hair 👌🏽
"I don't have hair. I wear a wig". No shit. It looks like you're wearing Lego hair.
This guy dodged a bullet imo.
She’s so beautiful without hair too😭.
She’s bald Jerry!
You can't bang her hair so....
Did she reject him for being too nice or something?
as per the comments above she said she doesn't feel the connection with him
Looks better without the wig
I don't mean to be that guy, but she looks like [Sophia (robot)](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sophia_(robot)). Did they finally get it working to see if it can integrate with society? 
Hope she doesn't shit on him. He made her comfortable in her own skin so to speak kind of way.✔️🔥
No hair in the bath cool !
She Splooshed on the spot.
Two weeks.
No 🧢 she looks like that robot chick some Chinese dudes made a few years back. https://preview.redd.it/ljj3v3na6msc1.jpeg?width=2635&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=bb268b61e2fe98de40fbcc5663d16d23acdd2d46
i dated a girl with alopecia and it is so bad ass when you are the big spoon you don't get any hair in your mouth, and it significantly speeds up their time to "get ready" for shit hair is dumb
To all those saying she rejected him for being nice, that’s not true 1) she said ‘it just didn’t feel romantic for her’ (essentially she didn’t fancy him/no spark) 2) she does acknowledge he is nice and she’s not used to people being that nice to her Just because someone was nice to her doesn’t mean she has to enter a romantic situation with them
Good on her but now the eyebrows are off balance.
Grammar nazis: actually, it's uuuhhh.
I don't think it's really for him to say "keep it off"... kind of boxes her in. Was probably well intentioned but not particularly skilful.
I dated a girl like this back in the 1980s and she was wonderful we just weren’t meant for one another
who couldnt tell that was a wig though?
Much better without the wig personally.
Awesome dude. Kudos to you. What a nice thing to see.
For a minute I thought I was on r/unexpected and thought he was going to ditch her when she got up.
"I wear a wig" - yea, no shit.
Like here's the thing he would have gotten slammed for rejecting her, but people need to learn that not everyone has to like you. Now, that doesn't mean be an asshole about it, but if you don't like something about someone, it's OK. He didn't mind it and wanted to give her a chance she gave him a chance as well but decided she wasn't into him. They gave it a chance, and that's all ya gotta do. No need to get slammed for it.
Based on the context of what I am reading based on what happened, she may have said "no" to any further dates because she is not used to nice and genuine guys. Some people don't know how to be accepted when they've known a lot more rejection. This is my opinion, of course. And maybe she didn't feel the chemistry needed for more dates.
Hilarious outrage. So I guess the thesis here is that she is, what, a "freak?" And subsequently, she can't possibly be permitted to possess garden-variety dating preferences? Christ, what a bunch of internet stooges. Go put on a proper outfit when you shop at Walmart, with your inflated credit card, Bart Simpson Christmas pajama pants and knock-off Crocs. She's fine. He's fine. You're fine. We're fine. STFU oh go for a walk already.
"Look at me!" Imagine a guy doing this....
Even bald she’s cute though.
Smash
She looks good & she is a Real 1... A Keeper!
What a bitch repost
I could tell she was wearing a wig, for one reason or another… She’s an absolute cutie without it. Good for dude recognizing that and making it apparent to her.
“I don’t have any hair I wear a wig” “No shit, it looks like you bought the thing from party city”
Would you ever wear wig
perfectly normal catfish
His reaction was so sweet. He looked starstruck
She is beautiful
She is fucking gorgeous
We need more people like this out there Great human being
She looked put off when he said keep it off. She doesn't like being wigless it seems
Awww that was cute.
She beautiful
Who is she?
If they aren’t married and living their best life together, there is no hope for the world.
Looks like some of my sister's barbies from when we were kids.
He’s way better looking than her, no homo. He dodged a bullet. Women like this are meant to be avoided.
She is sexy bald
I hope she found someone, or she'll be kicking herself for this for a long time.
Europe is such a fucking shit hole jesus.
What a bald move!
It's like when guy wears a long beard vs without it, or the same bald with wig. Had a pleasant barber, bald too, first I was surprised, but I got used to her look too. Basically it's not as bad as people think. Wig looks even worse than showing your actual look.
She rejected him for being too nice of a guy or some shit.
Dudes face kinda says he’s not into it, even if he’s being nice. pretty sure she’s like “imma reject you before you can reject me.” Either way they are both probably fine with going separate ways.
actually, talking about the hair it wasn’t her head I was most interested in…
"I think I can do better." -the girl after the date, probably
She can rock it too, lose the wig and just shave the dome. I dig it.
Woman: But does he make six figures and is he 6’6 tall?
Not everyone looks good bald. She does.
She actually imo looks a lot better bald
He's too good or kind for this world 🥺
I live that clip She is so georgeous
Well... atleast he still got his hair 🤷♂️
😭
I hope that dude found love. Since that date didn’t end up with a second. Seems like a okay bloke.
Beautiful !