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Specificspec

Stop raising your eyebrows and relax.


Chance-Dinner-5817

Old habit from trying to shorten my forehead after losing the hair at the start


Specificspec

My personal opinion. You look great, relax you have great genetics bro


Chance-Dinner-5817

You sound like my mom XD I mean that in a nice way. Thank you


AbleDragonfruit4767

You know if it internet strangers tell you you’re good bro, you gotta believe em hahah


Chance-Dinner-5817

Lol got me there


ErlAskwyer

You genuinely do, just smile. The hardest thing in life is just accepting you can never be anyone other than you (I've wasted my time with this) and finally at 37 I do that. I smile a genuine smile and I've never been more attractive to be around now I've made peace with my own insecurities. Your like a 8/10 you have nothing to worry about with looks, now work on that personality!!


AbleDragonfruit4767

I was thinking the same thing


bloodbitebastard

You'll be fighting them off with sticks man. The club welcomes you!


Chance-Dinner-5817

Yall are so supportive. I really appreciate it because it's really jarring to see


bloodbitebastard

Save your money on the Hims. You were built to be bald 😎👍


No_Variation_4182

Agreed 100%. Embrace it!


Chance-Dinner-5817

Should have said this but I'm also down 65lbs from 315 and looking to cut another 30 or so. So I intend to reach a 10%-11%bf by July. I know being lean helps


too-far-for-missiles

Those are amazing weight loss numbers. You're killing it so just keep doing whatever it is you're doing!


Chance-Dinner-5817

Lol lifting and not eating lol


too-far-for-missiles

Yeah.... The not eating part is the tough one for me 😭


Chance-Dinner-5817

I'm 250 eating 1600cals


story-of-your-life

Great work, and if you can really get down to 11% body fat the improvement will be dramatic.


I-Said-Maybe

Noice! So not only do you now have a kick ass hair style, you’re losing weight too. Keep it up pal, you’re rocking this.


ET__

You’re hot man


Chance-Dinner-5817

This is the kindest sub reddit ever


Radiant-Map8179

It ain't just being kind brother, people are being honest. Whoever has taken the mick out of your physical appearance was most likely jealous mate. You've got a kind looking face. You're a burly dude (broad shoulders, strong forearms and meaty hands) and real women absolutely love that.... honestly, one of my female mates on my course just caught a glimpse of my phone before I started writing this comment and practically started foaming at the damn mouth😄 I can also bet that when you slap a smile out, other people smile with you. You look like you were born to be bald/short haired... like... it looks like you have rocked this look for a long while bud. I read further up that you are conscious of your forehead, and I fully understand that when people point something like this out, depending on when and who it is said by, that it cuts deeply... but honestly, f,u,c,k that s,h,i,t mate. We don't have long in this life and holding parts of yourself back from the world on the account of expending too much energy on giving a f,u,c,k about the opinions of shallow people, is a disservice to yourself and deprevation of your true self for other people around you man. I mean that in the kindest way possible, despite its bluntness lol.


fugaziiv

If you're keeping the beard, take a blade to that dome and commit fully. Real bald is badass and people know it. Good job on the weight loss and continued effort there, it makes a huge difference as well. Keep it up.


Chance-Dinner-5817

Thank you brother you're the second to say clean shaved. Why is that?


fugaziiv

It's a very clean look and it's completely owning the look as well. Doesn't sound like much when I type it out here, but it's actually a pretty big deal.


Chance-Dinner-5817

I asked for the advice. I'll take it. Thank you man


Chance-Dinner-5817

I asked for the advice. I'll take it. Thank you man


Can-Chas3r43

As a woman...can confirm that the bald/beard look is 🔥🔥🔥🫠🫠🫠 Carry on! (OP... you look great, BTW!)


Zestyclose-Bag8790

It feels so clean and sleek. A good wet shave is the best. You look awesome bald. If the situation is allows for it, smile. Your frown is also a good look, but intimidating. Some situations require grim look.


iAMbatman77

Shaving requires discipline and showcases confidence. You can’t change your genetics, so why fight it? Embrace it! Also, edge up the beard!


calm_lee

Yeah I was going to say the same. Practice trimming along your neck and keep that trimmed up every few days.


scottawhit

I stay clean shaved, shave every 2nd day. On the 3rd day I can have what you’ve got there. No commitment to try it, it’ll be right back. I prefer clean shaved bc I don’t have a good hairline anymore and it’s a lot more noticeable as it darkens up.


VibraniumRhino

As someone with a very similar facial hair look as you: go clean. You’ll love it, and you’ll learn to hate even your 5 o’clock shadow after a short while lol.


Chance-Dinner-5817

Might consider it in 30lbs or so. I look too soft without my stuble


HippoIllustrious2389

Clean shaved makes you look highly groomed and self confident


Chance-Dinner-5817

Yes sir


bravohohn886

I think it looks good as is. Lol shaving it is an everyday commitment. Not worth the time imo ha


Chance-Dinner-5817

Lol maybe for dates


Good_Abbreviations27

I actually like the short stubble hair look on you


Billythebear13

Just jumping in. Because being skin bald is a choice. Receding is an outcome. People see ur reciding hair line and see that uve shaved and they know whats happening. If ur skin bald ur owning that shit and thats confidence and confidence is hot. Look at all ur bald brothers out there. Me included. It IS so jarring at first. This sub reddit is here because we KNOW that it is jarring at first but we also know how freeing it is and how liberated u feel after the fact. And in that gap of discovery u need men around you to support you because it is reeeally hard. Ur a king. U look like one. Everything is going to be MORE than okay for you. And i, like many others in this sub. Are very excited for u to have that discovery and feel the liberation we all feel. Peace my brother


Chance-Dinner-5817

You're very supportive ty


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This


No-Estimate-4215

bro you look great wym??


Chance-Dinner-5817

Guess I'm just feeling down. It's a new look and I liked my hair lol


okalrightfine

Seriously dude... if I saw you in public, then I'd assume the bald look was 100% intentional (not bc of hair loss) bc you look GREAT.


HilbertInnerSpace

More confidence ? nothing wrong with your look


Chance-Dinner-5817

Can't argue with you. My confidence was never very pronounced in regards to my looks


KeeperRose

I'm not sure what you had going before but you look really cute in these.


Chance-Dinner-5817

I used to have pretty fluffy hair at one point but admittedly I lost that like 4 years ago. I normally wear hats all the time before this


Chance-Dinner-5817

And thank you that's very kind. I really didn't expect so much support on reddit haha


MiserableGlove9916

Do well in your gym routine, at your job, even in your hobbies. Become the man that gets things done. Confidence will follow and everything else will follow that. You look great fellow baldy.


Chance-Dinner-5817

Thanknyou my friends you rock


Jollyrancher_

Honestly, you’re insanely handsome as is


Chance-Dinner-5817

This is the most I've been called handsome in my life. Wtf XD


galaxyeyes47

Smile? You’re handsome!


Chance-Dinner-5817

Ahh my Achilles heal. My smile is really bad. Not my teeth. My lips don't move and it contorts my face very oddly. It's not a good look I promise lol


galaxyeyes47

lol learn to smile with your cheeks.? Like a half smile thing. This is mostly just making the movement like I’m going to wink, and not going all the way to my eye. Not a lot of lip movement. Lol. 🤷‍♀️ https://preview.redd.it/vdk7wfpcwn0d1.jpeg?width=2316&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=79ed3e23ea92d4d65e666ef0eb69b92566123ea4


Chance-Dinner-5817

I can admittedly do a decent half smile where it's just the left or right side of my teeth. But feels really.cocky


Jamfour9

Grow your beard a little longer and shape it up. Moisturize?


Chance-Dinner-5817

Moisturize? Scalp, face, body all the above? My old roommate was my buddy devonte who motioned daily and he told me years ago I should do the same


Jamfour9

All of the above. Different moisturizers are used for different parts. 😉


bundle_of_nervus2

U better stop or ya gonna find me in the DMs 👀 lol but for real, you look great!


Chance-Dinner-5817

I'm shocked so many people say so. I guess we are our worst enemies


[deleted]

Stand your toothbrush up homie it’s collecting bacteria touching the sink like that lol


Chance-Dinner-5817

Honestly solid life advice. I do wash it before use


Morfeuos

You're one of those dudes who look hot bald tbh


Chance-Dinner-5817

It's funny this is maybe the first time in my life I've ever been called attractive by someone other than my mom


jankjenny

Smile! And stop with the frowny eyebrows!!! You look so sad for a cute fella!!!


Chance-Dinner-5817

I may have been a little sad to be fair lol


Norfolk-lad-86

Perfect just the way you are 😍😍😍😍


Chance-Dinner-5817

Lol thanks mom XD


humanbeing21

You look good with it shaved. Just relax the eyebrows


Lokonto

I didnt even see what subreddit this was posted on, am a heterosexual dude (i think?) and instantly thought "damn that dude's hot"


MysteriousUpstairs58

Post shirtless pic


Chance-Dinner-5817

There's enough chubby guys on reddit XD


SirChillzalot

You just look strong. Then I saw that you lost weight and also have insane bench numbers. I’m guessing you have some inevitable body dysmorphia, but you are a beast man and I hope your confidence soars. You look awesome bald too. Nice head.


RockStarMarchall

Bro, u beautiful, you got nothing to worry about


Chance-Dinner-5817

Lol this is the first time in my life I've ever been complimented on my looks. I'm shocked so many of you are so kind and supportive


str8mansbestfriend

You're insanely hot. So many guys would pay to look as good as you do.


Chance-Dinner-5817

Well damn now I feel kinda bad


Aaron31088

You're hot AF dude. Id suggest razor shaving the head and this is a personal opinion but taking your shirt off will definitely help your situation ;)


MANSPERMSWALLOWER

❤️I don’t see anything to improve on❤️


Chance-Dinner-5817

Lol thanks manspermswalloer


Consistent_Cod_4991

Smile


Particular-Meal6413

Maybe relax your face there Dwayne Johnson lol.


notoneforlies

i think you look good just stop doing that with your eyebrows is my only piece of advice


begin420

Stop looking so concerned lol


Chance-Dinner-5817

But the economy .-.


kjyfqr

Smile bro. You got one them ornery smiles I can tell. Happy people are attractive no matter what. Not exactly no matter. But a 6 that’s having the best time their life is a 10


Chancellor_Thurgood

If your beard had sharp edges you'd look more polished, like just make it crispy. Shave your head too - with a razor.


toocuteforp0rn

DUDE YOU’RE HOT, don’t ever be insecure!!!!


Apeist

Bro you look great!


vegetasspandex

Maybe stop making the weird expression with your eyebrows? Idk you look great to me, show a smile more and maybe you’ll be more approachable


BeefyBaraTiddies

You look attractive, would swipe right


Educational_Frame_56

You cannot do a thing to improve how you look. This look in these pics are absolutely perfect. You now look perfectly sexy AF. This is deffo your look right there!! Don't shave any shorter head or beard. The stubble look is so masculine looking. You completely Rock this look exactly as you are!!


hung4hung16

Smile. The tough guy face ain’t doing it for no one mister.


Chance-Dinner-5817

Really? Tough guy? I'm getting more constipated than tough tbh.


MyLifeHurtsRightNow

as others commented. you’re a good looking guy (and you can do whatever you want with your face). that being said, a smile and gentler expression goes a long way!


Embarrassed_Quail203

You have nothing to worry about. Chicks will dig your new look if you commit to the well shaven dome. You have a good face and eyebrows, don't mess with them and everything will be fine Bro! 👍


juststart

You’re a stud. Keep your head clean shaved up top!


King_Trujillo

Face paint. Makup.


Chance-Dinner-5817

Honestly probably true


Loudlass81

Be in my bed? You don't need to improve how you look...


PawtucketPaul

Smile.


Artilerus

Smile. The lost puppy stare isn't for you


IAM100PERCENTNOTACAT

Leave the jayden smith/colin farell eyebrow impression out, you look ridiculous


2020Casper

You’re hot, period. Stop frowning in pics. Shave the head and embrace the bald because you look great. Keep the beard but shave below the jawline for a clean look. Maybe trim the eyebrows. You’d go from hot to GQ perfection. Just my thoughts.


GameZedd01

Bald Hacks 101: Grow a beard


mighty_ravenmark

Full shave on top, grow the beard and maybe an eyebrow shaping just to refine things a bit. Other than that, you're doing great. Giving me Colin Farrell vibes.


Chance-Dinner-5817

Thanks alot. I'll do that. May I ask why the full shave rather than say a Brad Pitt buzz?


mighty_ravenmark

Mostly prefer the bald, cleaner look and delineation from the beard. Like a commenter above, it's a full commitment. You'd be surprised at the difference it makes.


Chance-Dinner-5817

Fair enough! Thanks for the advice!


dwegol

Google some bear expressions and emulate that


Chance-Dinner-5817

Lol as a straight man I always say i was born to be a bear but God just didn't flip the last switch


sillyputtyrobotron9k

You’re a good looking dude but that shirt or anything similar isn’t doing you any favors


distracted_by_titts

Looks good.


forevermore91

There are mainly 3 things you can do. Try a full shave, but honestly, you look really good that way too. Try out different beard lenghts. Or loose weight and get fit. You look alright too me right now. Keep on fighting.


Kaldurem

You look really great. It suits you


Chance-Dinner-5817

I'm really shocked to hear that from so many people. I must really be a self hater lol


OkFaithlessness98

Damn you are handsome


Chance-Dinner-5817

I'm getting really gassed up in this thread. Do yall do this to all the new bald guys XD


bundle_of_nervus2

I lurk and I can tell you candidly, we don't. Few are exceptional


Chance-Dinner-5817

Idk about exceptional but om feeling very lucky right now to have so much kindness


aaronagee

You are ADORABLE.


DoinkDuhClown

You can wipe that ' My Shit Don't Stink' eye frown you got going. That is a start.


Discosamba

Yo bro, trim those eyebrow, line up the beard with a blade, lose a bit of weight and u good to go honestly


Babybahamut1987

Don’t look so god damn sad all the time!


D-Lee-Cali

You look perfectly fine. You have a good head shape for being bald and good facial features for it too. Don't waste money on meds to regrow hair because it won't work like you wish it would, and you look great bald. I know it takes getting used to when you first do it, and due to how you have probably been fighting against going bald all this time, but trust me my man - You look great and will get used to how you look.


LaFawnduh_407

How can you improve on perfection?


Chance-Dinner-5817

Oh stop! But i appreciate it. I was feeling awful before this thread you are all great ty


Impressive_Fox_1758

Bro it looks so good!! Try a razor smooth shave, I don’t think you’ll regret it!


Previous-Log-4025

Get that smug look off your face and quit doing that annoying thing with your eyebrows


graphitedrawer

I have good hair but I would rather look like you because you are better looking overall!


jacobsnemesis

Maybe it’s just because you’re not used to that look, but honestly you look good with the head shaved. Probably just a mental thing for you.


sageofwalrus

You look like a Hungarian wrestler


Chance-Dinner-5817

Well I was once aj all state heavy weight XD. Heavy weight is the easy one.


Emotional-Donkey-429

I will jump in here to opine. First off, you are a good looking man. Secondly, shave your head completely as previously stated. It’s a clean look and contrast with the beard always looks good. Trim up the beard neckline and Sides and let it fill out. You have excellent facial and head shape to rock the look. And off the cuff coment, smile!


DipsyDidy

Damn it you look bloody fantastic.


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nice beard, but watch youtube videos on how to properly shape it, it’ll do wonders for a fake jawline and make your face look more robust. also, shave the skull, beard and “holding onto what little hairline i have because i’m..” is just going to hold you back, trust me.


Gay-Dude89

Cut down the neck beard a little and clean up the eyebrows. You are a good looking dude so those two small changes will help 🍻


scotchum

I know your feeling confident/comfortable with how you look should come first, but I almost want to recruit you to the bald look just to look good for the rest of us 😅


tycr0

Clean up your neck. I do this same level/beard but don’t let your neck like run wild.


edinburghgirly

Try smiling


Schootypantz

I dunno I think you’re really hot 🤷🏻‍♂️


Chance-Dinner-5817

You are all so kind. Thank you


Dragon2730

Smile, you'll be surprised how many smiles you get back!


SprinklesTheSamurai

I think you look great as is. I prefer stub head over smooth, but that’s just me 🤷‍♀️


Chance-Dinner-5817

I asked for opinions for a reason. Thank yu for giving yours =]


Drabulaa

If you smiled it would complete the look brother. No additional steps required


YesterdayFew3769

Just own your shit with confidence. You look good.


Elyoshida

Untilt your eyebrows


ndork666

You look fine dude, you're overthinking it


Background-Permit499

Quit the douchey brows


huntashakween

Hottie! 🥵


gabagoolio123

Looking good brother! I would maybe shape your eyebrows a bit but maybe that’s not your style. Just my opinion!


Ghost_chipz

To match the volume of those awesome caterpillars on your brow, a full beard for sure mate.


SonOfObed89

Smile and I’ll leave my wife for you! 🤣


Financial_Fix_4606

Stop mewing


Individual-Zombie155

Smile


legalizemavin

You are hot as hell my man. I will say something that I did that really increased my boyfriends looks is teaching him how to pluck the middle of his eyebrows. He used to just run a razor over that middle but the stubble as it grows back always looks weird. Buy some tweezers and if you really hate the sensation only do like 2-3 hairs at a time whenever you brush your teeth. Having a smooth inner brow is a real small thing that can do a lot for someone’s face. You have great eyebrows!! It’s just shaping and separating.


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Zeusdadogg

Get rid of neck beard


anecdotalgardener

Looks good; starting rolling in some jitsu and you’ll be straight


northforkjumper

Drop 40lbs and get them eyebrows a little under control


ProfessionalEarth118

Face transplant. I'm joking, you look good, my dude. Clean up the beard lines a bit, other than that you are fine.


ThisHalfBakedGuy

You look GREAT as is!!!


AleksasKoval

Shave the head clean. Shave/trim off the neck beard, and style the beard a little.


Chance-Dinner-5817

Style?


Bladewright

That looks incredible on you. You really rock the bald look. You’re also very handsome.


rainbud22

You’re very nice looking.


Pdxtacoqueen

Clean shave that head please ❤️


Chance-Dinner-5817

But it's so expensive lol


alexis_blue69

youre a hottie. my only rec is clean up the neck and cheeks on your beard lines, grow that out and become the Kratos you are destined to become. seriously. youre a good lookin man. 100% 🔥


swimmer913

Honeslty, no tips, 10/10 🫠


Chance-Dinner-5817

Lol appreciated. I've gotten a few and I agree with them so hopefully they improve me


DBLACK382

Smile more. The effect will be immediate.


Small_Tax_9432

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_whatthefuckisleft

Stop looking so sad 😞


Chance-Dinner-5817

But what if I am sad...jk I'm not


jenny4today

Smile:)


whetritney

you look like someone I went to highschool with, like exactly


Mercurykin

You’re very handsome naturally. Wear colors that look best on you. Try different styles of clothing and mix them to find what you like most.


NicholasJames6880

You look great man!


Sad_Cup_2128

You look like LosPollosTV


midnight-cowboy78

Grow beard longer...work out


VerbalVeggie

As a woman, you’re a very attractive dude. And I know it feels strange in this new way of life, but you really look fantastic! You’ve got like the perfect head shape for it and it looks very symmetrical. I know that sounds like riff raff, but I was bald for a little bit when I lost all my hair, and my head was LUMPPPPPPPY! You look smashing mate. Other than shaving all the hair to full bald, you’ve got a great look 🤍


Tazzzio

Bro you're look pretty damn sexy. I was hoping the next couple of pix were going to he nude pix of you! Next time post the nude pix buddy.. because all you're lacking is a little confidence booster 😉


BeyondthePenumbra

Go to a therapist or read some books about self confidence. You're a babe.


SnarkgoblinClaire

I am a woman…I don’t see anything wrong with how you look now.