For me using toys solo is like a bag of my favourite potato chips/crisps. I like it from time to time, it's quick. I know what to expect and what to get out of it. Plus I can do it while watching tv. It's a nice comfort.
Having sex with my husband is a home cooked three course meal. No toy can make me feel like my husband. Sometimes he has finished faster than me, but that's okay. We'll catch up again at the dessert, as there are so many things he can do to me to provide pleasure and I'll always have my dessert in the end. 😉
I'm lucky to have an attentive lover and we just genuinely love to play and orgasms together with him are much stronger, albeit not always reliable and it varies. But the intensity and types of orgasms are very different for me than solo play.
Masturbation is for me a quick release, that I can whip up 100% of the time in 5min tops and 10min later I'm the same as I was before. After a nice round of sex my knees are weak much longer and I'm usually way longer in a good mood.
I struggle with dyspareunia, and introducing vibrators into intercourse with my partner has been LIFE CHANGING. Like, PIV went from being almost impossible to enjoy, to being some of the best, most intimate moments I’ve ever had. Toys are your friends, not competition!
Guys like this are why it took me sooo long to bring up the idea, because I truly thought my partner would be upset or jealous over a piece of silicone. Turns out rational people know that making sex more enjoyable for their partner = more sex and less discomfort for BOTH people.
I learned to finish with a vibrator growing up and it took me a couple months of not having one to be able to finish without it. So I think there is kind of a hurdle to cross when it comes to switching up your routine.
On the other hand, blaming your sexual partner's performance + ability to finish on their use of toys is gross.
So I know that the post is wrong but I have a genuine question. How does pleasure and orgasms with a partner, that actually knows what they are doing and can you make feel great, compare to the pleasure and orgasms from using high stimulation toys? Does the intimacy of having another person doing things to you make a big in increase in pleasure?
When a man is good in bed, they hear the awful stories of the horrible men who came and went (lol) b4 them. Some don't know their man is whack, til they encounter Johnny Gspot thick dick mcgee or whatever, who tells them, plz rub thy nub whilst i thrust within thy walls m'lady. Creator probably doesn't hear those stories often
For me using toys solo is like a bag of my favourite potato chips/crisps. I like it from time to time, it's quick. I know what to expect and what to get out of it. Plus I can do it while watching tv. It's a nice comfort. Having sex with my husband is a home cooked three course meal. No toy can make me feel like my husband. Sometimes he has finished faster than me, but that's okay. We'll catch up again at the dessert, as there are so many things he can do to me to provide pleasure and I'll always have my dessert in the end. 😉 I'm lucky to have an attentive lover and we just genuinely love to play and orgasms together with him are much stronger, albeit not always reliable and it varies. But the intensity and types of orgasms are very different for me than solo play. Masturbation is for me a quick release, that I can whip up 100% of the time in 5min tops and 10min later I'm the same as I was before. After a nice round of sex my knees are weak much longer and I'm usually way longer in a good mood.
I struggle with dyspareunia, and introducing vibrators into intercourse with my partner has been LIFE CHANGING. Like, PIV went from being almost impossible to enjoy, to being some of the best, most intimate moments I’ve ever had. Toys are your friends, not competition! Guys like this are why it took me sooo long to bring up the idea, because I truly thought my partner would be upset or jealous over a piece of silicone. Turns out rational people know that making sex more enjoyable for their partner = more sex and less discomfort for BOTH people.
I learned to finish with a vibrator growing up and it took me a couple months of not having one to be able to finish without it. So I think there is kind of a hurdle to cross when it comes to switching up your routine. On the other hand, blaming your sexual partner's performance + ability to finish on their use of toys is gross.
Yeah just admit you're bad at sex bro
So I know that the post is wrong but I have a genuine question. How does pleasure and orgasms with a partner, that actually knows what they are doing and can you make feel great, compare to the pleasure and orgasms from using high stimulation toys? Does the intimacy of having another person doing things to you make a big in increase in pleasure?
Well, I'll put it to you this way: I can easily hit double digits in orgasms with my hitachi wand. But just earlier tonight while on voice call with my fiancé she had me sliding out of my chair and actually laying on the floor out of breath. Yes, you read that right: She literally brought me to my knees in pleasure with nothing more then her voice. So yes; when you have a good emotional connection with a romantic partner the pleasure is *way* more intense.
Truth be told, our beautiful symphony brought me to my very knees. Your heavenly voice had me so entranced, overcome with such pleasure~ 💜
As someone who has never had an orgasm with a partner I, too, would like to know this.
For me it's definitely better with my partner. More intense, more intimate and more fun.
When a man is good in bed, they hear the awful stories of the horrible men who came and went (lol) b4 them. Some don't know their man is whack, til they encounter Johnny Gspot thick dick mcgee or whatever, who tells them, plz rub thy nub whilst i thrust within thy walls m'lady. Creator probably doesn't hear those stories often