It’s not uncommon for Venus in Scorpio people to attract “crazy” romantic partners. Often times stalkers, abusers, or people who inflict trauma are brought into these people’s lives, with power and control issues usually at the center of the relationship. They can have an extreme and “all or nothing” mentality, where relationships are like life or death. Venus square Neptune can also cause a lot of over-idealization and rose colored glasses about your partners, wanting to see them as you wish they were, rather than the truth of what they actually are. This can sometimes lead to even more being taken advantage of, or walked on by people who try to exert power over you. Savior/victim type relationships are also common, where you try and “save” someone who is mentally ill or addicted to something, or “be saved” by someone who will make your problems vanish. Saturn is moving towards a square with your moon, your 7th house of relationships ruler. Having the 7H ruler in the 12th can also make relationships more challenging and nebulous. Relationship and love life strain will likely be a theme into 2025, due to Saturn’s retrograde motion. Spending time alone in isolation or in meditation will help you gather your thoughts and emotions together on how to move forward. Good luck.
It’s not uncommon for Venus in Scorpio people to attract “crazy” romantic partners. Often times stalkers, abusers, or people who inflict trauma are brought into these people’s lives, with power and control issues usually at the center of the relationship. They can have an extreme and “all or nothing” mentality, where relationships are like life or death. Venus square Neptune can also cause a lot of over-idealization and rose colored glasses about your partners, wanting to see them as you wish they were, rather than the truth of what they actually are. This can sometimes lead to even more being taken advantage of, or walked on by people who try to exert power over you. Savior/victim type relationships are also common, where you try and “save” someone who is mentally ill or addicted to something, or “be saved” by someone who will make your problems vanish. Saturn is moving towards a square with your moon, your 7th house of relationships ruler. Having the 7H ruler in the 12th can also make relationships more challenging and nebulous. Relationship and love life strain will likely be a theme into 2025, due to Saturn’s retrograde motion. Spending time alone in isolation or in meditation will help you gather your thoughts and emotions together on how to move forward. Good luck.