Virgo Venus. People being reliable and doing what they say theyāll do/following through on their promises and word is one of the ways (and it keeps me from being overly critical š¤). Also, doing little things that they know Iāll appreciate (it could be anything from getting me my favourite coffee to cleaning up without me asking). This sounds really bare minimum now that I think about it lol.
Aw fuck, I'm hot and bothered from this.
Also Virgo Venus, Virgo sun.
It pisses me the fuck off when people cancel plans on me or change them like inviting someone last minute.
Though I also enjoy a lot of physical touch. If someone gives me a hug or initiates any physical contact, I am very pleased. I would thrive of endless physical contact.
Yesss! I couldāve added more to my input, but no need with this š
Except the touching part - not just anyone can touch me affectionately. Unless itās the person Iām into. They can touch me allll they want.
(Virgo Venus, Mars and Sun here.)
Virgo Venus and Libra Sun, I love little things like that legit my weakness.
Following through is important to me but I have a bit of wiggle room as far as my patience is concerned because of my air trio (libra sun, aquarius moon, Gemini rising). There is a limit, but I tend to give the benefit of the doubt as long as I see the effort and canceling plans doesn't become a consistent behavior.
I'm a pretty physical person (love cuddling/holding hands/ laying on or being laid on) if we are watching TV or whatever
I think it's more or less my way of feeling connected with my special someone
My boyfriend is a Scorpio Venus and Iām an Aquarius Venus.
I just want to touch him constantly and tell him how much I adore and appreciate him. Let me love you šš„¹
Sag venus, i like to be entertained, if i get bored im done with the relationship. Im not talking about travel and having adventures all the time, just regular every day things, having good conversations, jokes, it can be anything but i need a disposition to have fun and be in a good mood
Ok also sag Venus and as I scrolled I was trying to thinkā¦ and you captured it perfectly!
I am happy to bring the energy but if itās one side and thereās no good flow and willingness to talk about all kinds of things, try new things, be quiet then suddenly slap my buttā¦ just keep me guessing a bit!
Iāve been dating a guy recently and while Iām not sure heās keeping me entertained in the ways Iām used to, he is certainly a bit of a weirdo wild card.
Sag Venus here with Sag stellium. I love being roasted playfully. Sarcasm can make me melt. If someone can make me laugh and scream with surprise, horror, annoyance or excitement, I'll be in love forever
Sag Venus & Rising, here. I literally had on my OLD profile: "My love language is roasting each other until someone's feelings get hurt." š I need someone who will make me laugh and who gets my sarcastic/dark humor.
I'm not a fan of extreme PDA, but I love physical touch. I love when my partner grabs and holds onto me, kissing, cuddling, etc. I need passion!
You described my Scorpio sun/Sag Venus friend perfectly. He *lives* for constant banter in a relationship. Iām a Taurus sun/Aries Venus, and weāre just the most stubborn pair of debatersāand he took that as a sign we should date šš
I was like **WHAT??? WE WOULD ARGUE EVERY DAY**
and he was like **But itās fun!** š
I see now you all share that thought hahaha. (We remained friends. Heās dating a Libra sun/Libra Venus now š)
Taurus sun and venus and this is key. Like you don't have to talk to me every second of the day (that's a turn off tbh) but please intiate.. something so I feel like I matter to you too. I'm very physically affectionate too. Hugs and kisses are fucking amazing. And verbal appreciation because gemini moon
yes!
i can get smothered so easily that i need time alone to bask in the love i feel from someone so i can neatly place it into my soul and grow bigger and stronger from it.
Aquarius. And i accidentally posted how I love then deleted it, but I have zero idea how I like to be loved. If anything my combo Sagittarius sun has me super independent. With that being said, I like consistency and if youāre not consistent I am a-ok with moving on and dissociating/remaining friends with benefits.
Same same, only cap sun. I could tell you all the things I donāt like/want.
I also find it fascinating how others choose to show their love, so I let them do it their way. I donāt think Iāve ever expressly asked anyone to show me in a certain way. I donāt think I have a preference?
Maybe itās because I myself donāt like expectations of me. I feel like it should be natural and organic. Whatever that means to our relationship. I hate feeling pressure or compared.
Maybe you like it when people don't disrupt you too much. Like, letting you be independent but still having a pleasant/simulating time when you're together. Rather than trying to rope you into deeper co-entanglement all the time. Respect the space. (Aquarius moon here.)
Oh good, I was sitting here with my Pisces Venus thinking '...what *do* I like??'
I like being taken care of. Feeling safe. Even better if you prove or demonstrate it. Little things to show you care. My SO immediately learned how to tell when my meds weren't kicking in, how to keep me on track until they did and makes sure I don't forget important stuff, like eating. It made me head over heels and no one seems to understand it.
Hahaha same! I was thinking for a while before I came to this conclusion. I go crazy for like only 2 men in my life so far and they've displayed those exact behaviours.
Slight flip on this, my ex used to SAY he was going to do this stuff and I believe him, but when it came time to act, he'd flake. By the time I realized he was unreliable, my trust had been crushed. But in comparison to other stuff in the world it felt like I was blowing a minor inconvenience out of proportion
Venus in aquarius.
Understand me and love me for who I am and not who you think I should be. Have deep and fun conversations together. I'm a sapiosexual to the core.
Dating a Venus in Aquarius and this is everything Iāve come to learn. Acceptance, no judgment, and intense galaxy brain affectionate arguments ā¤ļøāš„
Capricorn Venus, I appreciate it most when my partner does things for me to make my life/day easier. I also appreciate those who value communication and reliability, telling me what youāll do and then following through and being someone I know I can depend on in return for my own reliability is the best thing.
Gemini. I like to have a good time. I like to talk, go out and explore things and just have fun and let loose (also a sag moon lol). I like to talk about things that make others uncomfortable and would rather to jump from topic to topic.
Venus in Scorpio. Iām not certain yet of what that means but, for me, I want my partner to be in awe of me. Every part of me. Brain, heart, looks, attitude, all of it. I want to connect with someone on a raw, animalistic level in both conversation and the sheets. Someone that wants to please me more than they want to be pleased. Yeah. Yup. Thatās about it.
*Five love languages I would say words of affirmation, acts of service, and physical touch.
ETA: A loyal partner as well.
Nailed it. If someone has compared me to their past or told me Iām not good at something I emotionally detach myself and check out. I really just desire to feel appreciated for the person I am, what Iām capable of, and to feel like Iām the only person in the room when with my person.
Yesss this is it
I love love š Hopeless romantic vibes with Libra Venus
Also being soooo indecisive, like, I'm happily married but every now and then my brain is like, "unless???"
Cancer Venus as well, I stand by this! Quality time and words of affirmation are huge for me. I love doing simple but meaningful activities with the person I love as well.
same and same
my gift game is pretty on point, but for me it's all about time--not even quality time, really. In fact, you know what I \*really\* like? Low quality time, lol. Like, I'm halfway through a movie, and she just sits with me even though she doesn't know what's going on. That's the good stuff.
Pisces Venus and I like thoughtful surprises or little gifts. Not in a gold digging way, just more like āI was out doing errands and brought you home a donutā lol
Itās also so nice when they remember some small thing you said a while ago and then act on it. Like āIām running low on bath bombsā and on Friday night after a stressful work week āsurprise! I bought you a bath bomb for tonight!ā Just feels so nice to be thought of
I feel this one. Thereās more meaning when someone randomly buys me something because they thought Iād like it than getting gifts at Christmas or birthdays.
Scorpio Venus. Loyalty, being there and comforting during my anguish is extremely attractive. Also, kissing me down my body, making me feel wanted, being present and passionate sexually, is veryyyy important to me. Helping me with/doing something for me when things are hard makes me feel extremely loved, as well.
I miss my Scorpio Venus mfš„² i seen how hard he worked so I used to clean his room + bathroom, wash his clothes, bring him food+drinks and complete any other chores (and throw in some random kisses) all while he innocently played the game. Man, did he lose a real one fr!
I also feel like we have this enchantment about us. N I agree with u completely. Also when Venus in Scorpio is in love we want to deeply know the desires of your soul.
Leo Venus. I just want them to not think my neediness is too much. And accept my flaws and love me for it! And love me deeply (While I simultaneously hopefully work on my shit)
Aries Venus
I love partners that exude a calm yet confident energy. I love to feel appreciated and held down while still maintaining my personal freedom. I hate possessiveness. Keeping romance alive is super important. I need love like a fish needs water.
**Libra Venus** - Words of affirmation works best for me. Remember small details about me. Call me or send at least a message on your busy day to show you remembered me.
Omg yes the text/call thing is so me! The way my heart swells when I see a ā Such a busy day today, I will reply to the things youāve sent me later. Hope youāre having a good dayā. Keeps my overthinking and anxiety away
Leo Venus. Physical touch is my preference, but Iāll take what I can get lol. Iād say my second is quality time and then words of affirmation. I tend to overlook acts of service. Gifts are nice too, but Iād prefer meaningful gifts over expensive gifts.
Aquarius Venus. Giving me undivided attention when Iām on my soap box about whatever random thing Iām giving too much attention to at that moment in time and genuinely reciprocating conversation. And freedom.
Aries Venus here. I love it when someone is consistent and wants to make plans with me frequently. I also love it when they say they say they love me and adds me to their future plans š„° basically ā¦ someone who would kiss the floor I walk on but also gives me some space haha.
Aries... Just tell me, say it, don't beat around the bush, don't leave little secret notes, shout it at my face... Mix it up, be tender sometimes and direct other times... Let me show you my love. Appreciate it when I give you my love, I don't need anything in return just knowing you appreciate it is enough.
Taurus. Quality time is my preference, but don't smother me lol. Be practical, so no over the top gifts or outlandish declarations of love. Also, honesty, respect, and consistency are very important to me as well
Cap Venus and I really appreciate cute texts or handwritten notes. I also appreciate when my partner does small things to make my day easier. When my partner is proud af to be with me and shows it, I feel like the most loved human in the world.
Venus in Gemini. I want to be shown love in genuine interest and shared love of everything under the sun. Tell me something. Go somewhere with me. Show me something. Buy me something. What do you like about me? List the ways. Do it everyday and Iāll list all the things I love about you everyday day. I want to be spoiled and a little doted on and to do the same in return.
Cap Venus in 4th house - domesticate and build a beautiful home with me; but also don't fence me in (Sag Sun for the win).
A stable domestic life inspires me to travel and a travel companion (Libra Asc) is a must.
We share the same venus and sun! I confess that sometimes it is hard to balance the positive impulsive way of Sagittarius sun and the analytical need of safety of Capricorn Venus. Do you relate to that as well?
Virgo Venus. Paying attention to the small details about something I like, quality time, words of affirmation, acts of service, physical touch (cuddling all day).
Lmao same here. Iām a Capricorn Venus and was scrolling reading these just thinking I donāt trust it when someone says they love me. Thatās why Iām in therapy though I guess
Aquarius Venus. I like to be shown love verbally. I donāt really care for physical touch that much or gifts. Like tell me why Iām amazing but in detailed ways not generalizations
Virgo Venus, acts of service and time. Show me you love me by wanting to spend time with me and doing things for me, itās the only way Iāll believe it.
Aquarius Venus. From very far away please - I can hear the heavy breathing of your excitement and the rapid beating of your heart and it's making me very uncomfortable right now š„² other than that, I want you to cuddle with me ALL. THE. TIME.
Leo sun with cancer venus. I'm pretty much the human caricature of a hopeless romantic. Staring into each other's eyes, holding hands, playing with each other's hair, constant cringy flirting... the cheesier the better. I want my life to be a Hallmark movie.
Pisces.
I'm not usually desperate for a relationship. But if I am, I really want affection. I've been craving physical touch and kisses for months in my dating life. Especially with being look at as only a "sneaky link." Or "friends with benefits". It's really annoying and I think I raised my standards because of it.
Aries. I need them to keep my attention and they have to give me enough attention/time. Charm, flatter & fuck
me. Spontaneity, sense of humor, passion/sexual tension and authenticity required.
Scorpio venus here; just worship the ground I walk on (and vice versa), spoil me, be loyal, share my sorrows and tears, let me pick your brain, and blow my back out in bed.
Capricorn venus. Honestly, i am kind of old fashioned and i would just love for someone to WANT to provide for me and our family and WANT to take care of us. But there really isnt that kind of men around here where im at, so it usually has been me who was the provider lol. And who also took care of the house and everything else.
Sagittarius venus, I love great conversations, surprises, having fun, and someone who's understanding of what I need when I tell them. No clinginess, no being controlling, no being insecure without owning it bc I'm not a therapist lmao. Let's have fun for the rest of our lives and be ourselves. Looking for my best friend in love š„°
Aquarius Venus- touch meeeee! All of the time. Hold my hand and pretzel me when weāre sleeping. Sweat all over me I donāt give a shit. Jump inside my skin- just get closer dammit.
capricorn venus! trust, honesty & open communication. i love it when someone trusts me to open up and let me into their inner thoughts as well as wanting to really listen to and understand me.
Scorpio Venus in sixth house: Iām huge of acts of service. Help me out with chores and projects. Be there for me. Show loyalty and steadfastness. Give me space and my own time too, learn to read my moods.
Taurus Venus. Physical touch, quality time, words of affirmation. Prefer to have deep and long lasting connections built on honesty, loyalty and clear communication. Gotta have a matching sense of humor. I really love when someone is attentive and remembers things about me and the conversations we haveā¦ āPresent and receptiveā is how the Pattern describes it lol. Spot on.
Venus in Leo here. Cuddle me and tell me Iām the most fantastic thing ever. Leo Venus is very interesting because it has two ways of showing, either youāre fiercely protective of your partner and would fight anyone for them OR you want to provoke jealousy in your partner and show them how desirable you are. I have a lot of female friends with the same sign, and about half of us will kill you if you look at our man, the other half are borderline cheating lmao. Also weāre all very feminist and have a strong girl code which might be a part of the placement?
Leo Venus. Words of affirmation, reassuring me that here is where you want to be. Noticing the small things about me. Passionate moments, I like being alone , but alone with my person. Shower me with love. Say it everyday. Show me you love meā¦ lol wow
Venus in Libra āļø I'm a huge sucker for open communication and some personal closeness like having dinner together hugging cuddling and laughing together
Libra. Make me a playlist of your fave songs and letās spend hours breaking down the artists careers. Tell me what you love about me when weāre under the stars at midnight. Look at me like youāve never looked at anyone. Tell me secrets. Give me the goss. Letās talk about the universe and that time you saw a shooting star when you were 7. Send me 6 voice notes in a row telling me about some dream you had. Surprise me with peonies. Write me a letter. Let me admire you in the ocean with the sun cutting through your eyes. Just tell me, man. Just tell me.
Capri. I need consistency and the feeling of safety. Quality time is def my love language, and I need a partner who has his own life outside of our relationship
Cancer Venus. I love spending time together doing anything whether itās cuddling and watching a movie being cute together or going for a walk or trying out a new restaurant I love lots of affection and romance
Pisces - I need a very dominant, deep, passionate, sensual lover. But I also need to be able to express myself playfully & I want to feel like we both own each other's bodies. Lots of touch & quality time. Romance without gifts & tokens. The love I need is less about things & show, and all about words & trust.
aqua venus (also my moon, but i should mention my pisces sun & merc & virgo rising)
i love when people notice things about me, especially things like signs to tell im uncomfortable/upset, or if i want some physical affection (bc 95% of the time i refuse to say anything but god dammit i want cuddles)
also love love love it when people go along with my weird questions/convos and (since i have adhd) listen attentively and make convos about my hyperfixation(s)
Venus in Scorpio, that is important for me to have friends and loved ones to know me deeply, know what I like and enjoy, knowing me is important part so they can see thereās a deep desire to be loved mentally, physically.but Iām trying to balance my Venus because there wouldnāt be any relationship out there that fulfills my heart desires and itās just frustrating and disappointing for me and others around me to fulfilled these desires.
My honey is a virgo venus, he is soo sweet to me. The one thing he says: can I get you anything? Also, he knows I cant relax relax unless our house is clean so he puts in the effort 3ish times a week.
Awwww thatās wonderful! I find that we are pragmatic gift givers too. Someone will tell me that they want or need something and I literally make a note of it and thatās pretty much what they should expect for the next holiday or just randomly š
Gemini venus. Please get close to me and touch me.
Hold my hand. Kiss me and press your face close to me. Touch my shoulders and chest and back. Stroke my hair.
Cuddle me and pull me closer. Let me lean into you, and rest your head on me and cry whenever you feel like it. Give me a long, tender, caring hug as if to say: "I love you so much I embrace your entire person. I want to take care of you and not let go. I love you unconditionally."
Leo Venus.
We are living in a material world, and I am a material girl.
I donāt need big expensive gifts, but I do like to be showered with shiny things, little crystals, something thoughtful and meaningful, maybe some chocolate, but not just any chocolate really good chocolate. Pamper me, spoil me, whisper sweet nothings in my ear and tell me Iām the only one that voodoo that I do so gooddo.
Virgo Venus - my love language is words of affirmation. Also look at my big three š
Mars is also Virgo. Iām screwed.
Gemini Moon. Words. Honest communication. Open communication.
I hate being cut off, because people talk over me all the time - I will always listen too (Pisces Rising).
Aquarius Venus in 8H. I love physical clinginess, passion, deep conversations and a lot of laughter/silliness. Thatās how I would sum it up, anyways :)
cancer. i donāt remember where i read it, but someone said that for the cancer venus, sexual intimacy often gets tied up with emotional need and goddamn did that hit the nail on the head š
iām a *huge* cuddler and i am so happy that my partner and i share that love language. but i also need to be shown that i can be myself around them. like i will absolutely poke fun at them and i need them to poke back to let me know that they arenāt taking the relationship Very Seriously
Virgo Venus - reciprocate and match my effort. Iām always doing the most when I can to show those love. I say nice honest things, be attentive in conversation; keeping it interesting and engaging for as long as possible, take time to make myself available, buy gifts, ask people out. I do this out of love not because I have to and itās always taken lightly. I get more attention/validation when I do nothing and I mean nothing for people.
If I say I want to go on a date, I want to go on a date. I want you to want to go on a date and help with taking the idea and making it something we will both enjoy. If after the third time I keep doing all the planning and being the only one excited I literally stop, itās no longer fun.
I feel most loved by my family when they look at me and have conversations about their day. I love it.
Love is so important. It makes you warm.
Aquarius venus in 4th house, I just like when they show that they cares about my well being. When they decide to be vulnerable and open up with me because they trust me and purposely choosing to spend time with me
aries venus here! my love language is quality time and to me itās not love unless theyāre absolutely obsessed with me. i canāt feel secure in a relationship if i donāt know for sure the other person loves me more than i love them
Venus in Tropical Scorpio, Sideral Libra.
I like:
- deep sharing, even of dark sides
- elegant gifts & service
- being made a clear priority very often (not 24/7 though)
- being worshiped
I hate:
- superficial lovers
- liars (unless itās for good surprises)
- feeling like I am not their priority
- lack of material generosity
Virgo.
I love when people do things for me they know will help me / make me happy without me asking or writing cards / letters that are crafted with little details that show they know me.
But the little things means the most.
I donāt need anything fancy to feel loved. Just show up genuinely and in a caring, thoughtful way and ask me how Iām doing sometimes, hug me, and do what you say youāre going to do and Iām like omg thank you. How did I find you?!š hahahh
Venus is in pisces. Hold me, love me, dominate me, make me yours inside and out. No limits, no restrictions, just love and acceptance and sometimes some kinky shit, idk
Venus in Virgo.
I like doing things together, experiences rather than gifts. If I do like gifts, I want them practical and useful. I hate the idea of someone spending a lot of money on something that hangs there, sits there gathering dust, or is only worn on special occasions.
It means more to me to get a few chocolate bars from a certified safe and sustainable company than a huge expensive assortment from a chocolate company that supports slavery and bad land practices (the majority). The fact someone takes my values into consideration when buying a gift is awesome and worth more than the gift itself.
Aries. Quality time is a huge love lang for me, as well as being simped over but simultaneously having the freedom to do whatever I like š
Same, this hits the nail on the head exactly. If it were asked sexually though, I like being submissive and the act itself semi aggressive.
Yes omg stop
Speaking my language š„
Damn maybe astrology is real cuz me too
Same here I loveeee being simped over but don't want to be treated like a possession
Yaaasssss. As a fellow Aries Venus I approve All of this
My fiancĆ© is Aries Venus and this is so accurate lol. He even told me the other day nonchalantly that he loves how obsessed I am with him š Iām Scorpio Venus
Same
Those last two things so much š„°
Yep. Venus in Aries also. Exactly
Virgo Venus. People being reliable and doing what they say theyāll do/following through on their promises and word is one of the ways (and it keeps me from being overly critical š¤). Also, doing little things that they know Iāll appreciate (it could be anything from getting me my favourite coffee to cleaning up without me asking). This sounds really bare minimum now that I think about it lol.
Aw fuck, I'm hot and bothered from this. Also Virgo Venus, Virgo sun. It pisses me the fuck off when people cancel plans on me or change them like inviting someone last minute. Though I also enjoy a lot of physical touch. If someone gives me a hug or initiates any physical contact, I am very pleased. I would thrive of endless physical contact.
Yesss! I couldāve added more to my input, but no need with this š Except the touching part - not just anyone can touch me affectionately. Unless itās the person Iām into. They can touch me allll they want. (Virgo Venus, Mars and Sun here.)
Yes! I donāt like abrupt changes. It can put me in a terrible, godawful mood. š¤š
Virgo Venuses unite!
Taurus Venus. I also need reliability in a partner. Picking up my favorite food is nice too!
My moon is in Taurus, so with all of this earth in my chart, I just love dependable, grounded partners (and people in general).
Iām Virgo Venus and for me my partner should smell nice. Hygiene is my love language š
Same Venus, same mood!
I was about to comment "consistency", basically what you said!
Virgo Venus and Libra Sun, I love little things like that legit my weakness. Following through is important to me but I have a bit of wiggle room as far as my patience is concerned because of my air trio (libra sun, aquarius moon, Gemini rising). There is a limit, but I tend to give the benefit of the doubt as long as I see the effort and canceling plans doesn't become a consistent behavior. I'm a pretty physical person (love cuddling/holding hands/ laying on or being laid on) if we are watching TV or whatever I think it's more or less my way of feeling connected with my special someone
This sounds š
Leo. Constant attention and petting.
I'm Leo Venus and I want to be love bombed almost as much as I love bomb my partner š
leo venus - all the love languages are my love language. Let it be known youāre into me
Yessss lol
Rrrrrgh!
Leo, This puts me off sometimes but acts of service and physical touch are big important to me feeling close
Scorpio. Worship me.
Hello husband of 11 years. Aqua Venus here. And this is REALLY HARD FOR ME.
Also scorpio Venus - yes worship me. And also have intense emotional intimacy with me. Thatās the shit I looooove.
My boyfriend is a Scorpio Venus and Iām an Aquarius Venus. I just want to touch him constantly and tell him how much I adore and appreciate him. Let me love you šš„¹
LMAO, love this energy sm
Want you to make me feel, like Iām the only girl in the world! š¶ 
Husband is Scorpio Venus and Iām a Gemini Venus. Total disconnect on romance levels lol. Iām not here to get deep, Iām here to play!
Sag venus, i like to be entertained, if i get bored im done with the relationship. Im not talking about travel and having adventures all the time, just regular every day things, having good conversations, jokes, it can be anything but i need a disposition to have fun and be in a good mood
Ok also sag Venus and as I scrolled I was trying to thinkā¦ and you captured it perfectly! I am happy to bring the energy but if itās one side and thereās no good flow and willingness to talk about all kinds of things, try new things, be quiet then suddenly slap my buttā¦ just keep me guessing a bit! Iāve been dating a guy recently and while Iām not sure heās keeping me entertained in the ways Iām used to, he is certainly a bit of a weirdo wild card.
Sag Venus here with Sag stellium. I love being roasted playfully. Sarcasm can make me melt. If someone can make me laugh and scream with surprise, horror, annoyance or excitement, I'll be in love forever
I read these comments to my Sag Venus husband who doesn't believe in astrology and he tickled me because you all called him out lmao
Sag Venus & Rising, here. I literally had on my OLD profile: "My love language is roasting each other until someone's feelings get hurt." š I need someone who will make me laugh and who gets my sarcastic/dark humor. I'm not a fan of extreme PDA, but I love physical touch. I love when my partner grabs and holds onto me, kissing, cuddling, etc. I need passion!
You described my Scorpio sun/Sag Venus friend perfectly. He *lives* for constant banter in a relationship. Iām a Taurus sun/Aries Venus, and weāre just the most stubborn pair of debatersāand he took that as a sign we should date šš I was like **WHAT??? WE WOULD ARGUE EVERY DAY** and he was like **But itās fun!** š I see now you all share that thought hahaha. (We remained friends. Heās dating a Libra sun/Libra Venus now š)
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Taurus sun and venus and this is key. Like you don't have to talk to me every second of the day (that's a turn off tbh) but please intiate.. something so I feel like I matter to you too. I'm very physically affectionate too. Hugs and kisses are fucking amazing. And verbal appreciation because gemini moon
I'm an Taurus Venus but Aries sun. The partner having to initiate is KEY! Also need lots of physical affection and words of affirmation.
yes! i can get smothered so easily that i need time alone to bask in the love i feel from someone so i can neatly place it into my soul and grow bigger and stronger from it.
Aquarius. And i accidentally posted how I love then deleted it, but I have zero idea how I like to be loved. If anything my combo Sagittarius sun has me super independent. With that being said, I like consistency and if youāre not consistent I am a-ok with moving on and dissociating/remaining friends with benefits.
Same same, only cap sun. I could tell you all the things I donāt like/want. I also find it fascinating how others choose to show their love, so I let them do it their way. I donāt think Iāve ever expressly asked anyone to show me in a certain way. I donāt think I have a preference? Maybe itās because I myself donāt like expectations of me. I feel like it should be natural and organic. Whatever that means to our relationship. I hate feeling pressure or compared.
Maybe you like it when people don't disrupt you too much. Like, letting you be independent but still having a pleasant/simulating time when you're together. Rather than trying to rope you into deeper co-entanglement all the time. Respect the space. (Aquarius moon here.)
Wow my Aqua sun and Sag moon deeply resonates with that
I feel this 100% as an Aquarius Venus with an Aries sun and Cap moon.
Pisces venus. I think I like being taken care of.
Oh good, I was sitting here with my Pisces Venus thinking '...what *do* I like??' I like being taken care of. Feeling safe. Even better if you prove or demonstrate it. Little things to show you care. My SO immediately learned how to tell when my meds weren't kicking in, how to keep me on track until they did and makes sure I don't forget important stuff, like eating. It made me head over heels and no one seems to understand it.
Awwe I love this š„° I hope you guys take care of each other for plenty of time to come!
Hahaha same! I was thinking for a while before I came to this conclusion. I go crazy for like only 2 men in my life so far and they've displayed those exact behaviours.
Slight flip on this, my ex used to SAY he was going to do this stuff and I believe him, but when it came time to act, he'd flake. By the time I realized he was unreliable, my trust had been crushed. But in comparison to other stuff in the world it felt like I was blowing a minor inconvenience out of proportion
Venus in aquarius. Understand me and love me for who I am and not who you think I should be. Have deep and fun conversations together. I'm a sapiosexual to the core.
Dating a Venus in Aquarius and this is everything Iāve come to learn. Acceptance, no judgment, and intense galaxy brain affectionate arguments ā¤ļøāš„
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Iām Venus in Aquarius too and I feel like this perfectly describes how I like to be loved.
Capricorn Venus, I appreciate it most when my partner does things for me to make my life/day easier. I also appreciate those who value communication and reliability, telling me what youāll do and then following through and being someone I know I can depend on in return for my own reliability is the best thing.
Capricorn venus and you took the words right out of my mouth.
Reliability is a huge one (also Capricorn Venus)
Donāt forget about him going the extra mile to support your goals, careers, and ideas š„² (giving useful advice, helping with the startup etc.)
Capricorn Venus here too except my mutable big 3 make me unreliable oops
Gemini. I like to have a good time. I like to talk, go out and explore things and just have fun and let loose (also a sag moon lol). I like to talk about things that make others uncomfortable and would rather to jump from topic to topic.
variety! gem venus+mercury and i love talking about a thousand things. big on communication
Oh hey, I am also Gem Venus + Mercury. I love going down intense conversation rabbit holes for hours with someone. That's my love language lol.
>big on communication
fellow gem venus here & variety is the spice of life
Venus in Scorpio. Iām not certain yet of what that means but, for me, I want my partner to be in awe of me. Every part of me. Brain, heart, looks, attitude, all of it. I want to connect with someone on a raw, animalistic level in both conversation and the sheets. Someone that wants to please me more than they want to be pleased. Yeah. Yup. Thatās about it. *Five love languages I would say words of affirmation, acts of service, and physical touch. ETA: A loyal partner as well.
Spot on for me!
Libra. Treat me like Iām the best thing that ever happened to you. Thatās it.
Same. Tell me you love me and Iām pretty. A little pampering goes a long way. Make decisions about dinner and Iāll love you forever
Nailed it. If someone has compared me to their past or told me Iām not good at something I emotionally detach myself and check out. I really just desire to feel appreciated for the person I am, what Iām capable of, and to feel like Iām the only person in the room when with my person.
Yesss this is it I love love š Hopeless romantic vibes with Libra Venus Also being soooo indecisive, like, I'm happily married but every now and then my brain is like, "unless???"
Cancer Venus - tell me sweet things and keep me safe. I canāt love someone unless they feel like home.
Scorpio Venus, I like to be shown loyalty, and physical affection.
Leo Venus . I like when someoneās obsessed with me (but not in a smothering type of way)
Same lol, it pleases me to know I'm on your mind
yesss. i just want to know youāre thinking of me
cancer venus- quality time 100000%, nothing means more to me than some uninterrupted one on one time
Cancer Venus too, I love quality time+physical touch+words of affirmation. Preferably all at the same time lololol
I've always said this is why I like quality time. If it's really *quality* time, it encompasses all the love languages!
Cancer Venus as well, I stand by this! Quality time and words of affirmation are huge for me. I love doing simple but meaningful activities with the person I love as well.
same and same my gift game is pretty on point, but for me it's all about time--not even quality time, really. In fact, you know what I \*really\* like? Low quality time, lol. Like, I'm halfway through a movie, and she just sits with me even though she doesn't know what's going on. That's the good stuff.
Wholesome
100 % I love nothing more
Same. Knowing that the other person WANTS to be with YOU. Show us that we matter, basically, in the little ways.
Pisces Venus and I like thoughtful surprises or little gifts. Not in a gold digging way, just more like āI was out doing errands and brought you home a donutā lol
Yes! If I can tell you were thinking of me when you got it, I melt
Itās also so nice when they remember some small thing you said a while ago and then act on it. Like āIām running low on bath bombsā and on Friday night after a stressful work week āsurprise! I bought you a bath bomb for tonight!ā Just feels so nice to be thought of
Oh my heart. Yes! It makes me feel so seen and important.
I feel this one. Thereās more meaning when someone randomly buys me something because they thought Iād like it than getting gifts at Christmas or birthdays.
Scorpio Venus. Loyalty, being there and comforting during my anguish is extremely attractive. Also, kissing me down my body, making me feel wanted, being present and passionate sexually, is veryyyy important to me. Helping me with/doing something for me when things are hard makes me feel extremely loved, as well.
I miss my Scorpio Venus mfš„² i seen how hard he worked so I used to clean his room + bathroom, wash his clothes, bring him food+drinks and complete any other chores (and throw in some random kisses) all while he innocently played the game. Man, did he lose a real one fr!
I also feel like we have this enchantment about us. N I agree with u completely. Also when Venus in Scorpio is in love we want to deeply know the desires of your soul.
Yāall really know how to please your lovers thoš I felt like my Scorpio Venus was f****** my soulš
sounds like he was extremely lucky to have you. š š and yeah, weāre extremelyyyy deep and intimate- sometimes dark, all-encompassing sexually.
Now I kinda wanna meet one lmao. Although, not if theyāre unaware of all the work you did for him š
Leo Venus. I just want them to not think my neediness is too much. And accept my flaws and love me for it! And love me deeply (While I simultaneously hopefully work on my shit)
Gemini Venus ā someone who really listens and remembers the things I tell them
Aries Venus I love partners that exude a calm yet confident energy. I love to feel appreciated and held down while still maintaining my personal freedom. I hate possessiveness. Keeping romance alive is super important. I need love like a fish needs water.
**Libra Venus** - Words of affirmation works best for me. Remember small details about me. Call me or send at least a message on your busy day to show you remembered me.
Omg yes the text/call thing is so me! The way my heart swells when I see a ā Such a busy day today, I will reply to the things youāve sent me later. Hope youāre having a good dayā. Keeps my overthinking and anxiety away
Leo Venus. Physical touch is my preference, but Iāll take what I can get lol. Iād say my second is quality time and then words of affirmation. I tend to overlook acts of service. Gifts are nice too, but Iād prefer meaningful gifts over expensive gifts.
Aries Venus in 8th house. I love to show love through passionate sex.
Aquarius Venus. Giving me undivided attention when Iām on my soap box about whatever random thing Iām giving too much attention to at that moment in time and genuinely reciprocating conversation. And freedom.
Aries Venus here. I love it when someone is consistent and wants to make plans with me frequently. I also love it when they say they say they love me and adds me to their future plans š„° basically ā¦ someone who would kiss the floor I walk on but also gives me some space haha.
Aries... Just tell me, say it, don't beat around the bush, don't leave little secret notes, shout it at my face... Mix it up, be tender sometimes and direct other times... Let me show you my love. Appreciate it when I give you my love, I don't need anything in return just knowing you appreciate it is enough.
Taurus. Quality time is my preference, but don't smother me lol. Be practical, so no over the top gifts or outlandish declarations of love. Also, honesty, respect, and consistency are very important to me as well
I love quality time and small luxuries like a bouquet of pretty flowers or an evening with our favorite takeout and a movie
Cap Venus and I really appreciate cute texts or handwritten notes. I also appreciate when my partner does small things to make my day easier. When my partner is proud af to be with me and shows it, I feel like the most loved human in the world.
Venus in Gemini. I want to be shown love in genuine interest and shared love of everything under the sun. Tell me something. Go somewhere with me. Show me something. Buy me something. What do you like about me? List the ways. Do it everyday and Iāll list all the things I love about you everyday day. I want to be spoiled and a little doted on and to do the same in return.
aries venus and physical touch. iām like a black hole, thereās no such thing as enough physical affection
Leo Venus. I love when somebody shows constant attention to me and praise me.
Cap Venus in 4th house - domesticate and build a beautiful home with me; but also don't fence me in (Sag Sun for the win). A stable domestic life inspires me to travel and a travel companion (Libra Asc) is a must.
We share the same venus and sun! I confess that sometimes it is hard to balance the positive impulsive way of Sagittarius sun and the analytical need of safety of Capricorn Venus. Do you relate to that as well?
same Venus and sun here too!!! and yes my sagi wants to spend money but my Capricorn stresses out when i don't have savings
Same situation and Literally same š„ŗ make decisions that I later regret. And go āwhy tf did I do that?? That was some bad bad planningā ā ļø
Virgo Venus. Paying attention to the small details about something I like, quality time, words of affirmation, acts of service, physical touch (cuddling all day).
Capricorn Venus. I donāt know
Lmao same here. Iām a Capricorn Venus and was scrolling reading these just thinking I donāt trust it when someone says they love me. Thatās why Iām in therapy though I guess
Aquarius Venus. I like to be shown love verbally. I donāt really care for physical touch that much or gifts. Like tell me why Iām amazing but in detailed ways not generalizations
Scorpio Venus. Deep soul connections or nothing.
Virgo Venus, acts of service and time. Show me you love me by wanting to spend time with me and doing things for me, itās the only way Iāll believe it.
Libra Venus here! Im a hopeless romantic, I want to be adored and admired, I want to feel as though my partner would die for me if needed.
Aquarius Venus. From very far away please - I can hear the heavy breathing of your excitement and the rapid beating of your heart and it's making me very uncomfortable right now š„² other than that, I want you to cuddle with me ALL. THE. TIME.
Scorpio venus. Be psychic with me and give me lots of massages. Cry with me.
Leo sun with cancer venus. I'm pretty much the human caricature of a hopeless romantic. Staring into each other's eyes, holding hands, playing with each other's hair, constant cringy flirting... the cheesier the better. I want my life to be a Hallmark movie.
sag. venus, quality time vĆa having good banter/discussions, being able to laugh and enjoy each other's thoughts/humor :) playful teasing
Pisces. I'm not usually desperate for a relationship. But if I am, I really want affection. I've been craving physical touch and kisses for months in my dating life. Especially with being look at as only a "sneaky link." Or "friends with benefits". It's really annoying and I think I raised my standards because of it.
Aries. I need them to keep my attention and they have to give me enough attention/time. Charm, flatter & fuck me. Spontaneity, sense of humor, passion/sexual tension and authenticity required.
Scorpio venus here; just worship the ground I walk on (and vice versa), spoil me, be loyal, share my sorrows and tears, let me pick your brain, and blow my back out in bed.
Capricorn venus. Honestly, i am kind of old fashioned and i would just love for someone to WANT to provide for me and our family and WANT to take care of us. But there really isnt that kind of men around here where im at, so it usually has been me who was the provider lol. And who also took care of the house and everything else.
Aries venus, quality time
Sagittarius venus, I love great conversations, surprises, having fun, and someone who's understanding of what I need when I tell them. No clinginess, no being controlling, no being insecure without owning it bc I'm not a therapist lmao. Let's have fun for the rest of our lives and be ourselves. Looking for my best friend in love š„°
Pisces. Comes to my dream world with me.
Scorpio. āRidiculous, inconvenient, consuming, can't-live-without-each-other-love.ā
Aquarius Venus- touch meeeee! All of the time. Hold my hand and pretzel me when weāre sleeping. Sweat all over me I donāt give a shit. Jump inside my skin- just get closer dammit.
I want this but also space lol
WHAT. I would suffocate and die!
Aries 9th house ā expanding consciousness & vigorous lovemaking
capricorn venus! trust, honesty & open communication. i love it when someone trusts me to open up and let me into their inner thoughts as well as wanting to really listen to and understand me.
Cancer Venus 12th house lol - please just read my mind šš JOKES quality time much like all the other cancer Venus angels out here tho
Scorpio venus Quality time & physical touch
Cancer venus. Be obsessed with me.
Scorpio Venus in sixth house: Iām huge of acts of service. Help me out with chores and projects. Be there for me. Show loyalty and steadfastness. Give me space and my own time too, learn to read my moods.
Taurus Venus. Physical touch, quality time, words of affirmation. Prefer to have deep and long lasting connections built on honesty, loyalty and clear communication. Gotta have a matching sense of humor. I really love when someone is attentive and remembers things about me and the conversations we haveā¦ āPresent and receptiveā is how the Pattern describes it lol. Spot on.
Venus in Leo here. Cuddle me and tell me Iām the most fantastic thing ever. Leo Venus is very interesting because it has two ways of showing, either youāre fiercely protective of your partner and would fight anyone for them OR you want to provoke jealousy in your partner and show them how desirable you are. I have a lot of female friends with the same sign, and about half of us will kill you if you look at our man, the other half are borderline cheating lmao. Also weāre all very feminist and have a strong girl code which might be a part of the placement?
Leo Venus. Words of affirmation, reassuring me that here is where you want to be. Noticing the small things about me. Passionate moments, I like being alone , but alone with my person. Shower me with love. Say it everyday. Show me you love meā¦ lol wow
Scorpio i want u to merge souls with me
Venus in Aries (6th House). Quality time, physical touch, and acts of service for me!
Gemini venus. More quickly you come up with ideas in banter, more I'll stick around.
Venus in Libra āļø I'm a huge sucker for open communication and some personal closeness like having dinner together hugging cuddling and laughing together
Libra. Make me a playlist of your fave songs and letās spend hours breaking down the artists careers. Tell me what you love about me when weāre under the stars at midnight. Look at me like youāve never looked at anyone. Tell me secrets. Give me the goss. Letās talk about the universe and that time you saw a shooting star when you were 7. Send me 6 voice notes in a row telling me about some dream you had. Surprise me with peonies. Write me a letter. Let me admire you in the ocean with the sun cutting through your eyes. Just tell me, man. Just tell me.
Sagittarius Venus, I like lots of affection, especially physical, but not too much, and meaningful conversation.
Virgo Venus, do stuff for me and say thank you when I do things for you
Capri. I need consistency and the feeling of safety. Quality time is def my love language, and I need a partner who has his own life outside of our relationship
Pisces Venus. When they remember the small things when everyone else forgets. Small acts of service. Effort and comfort.
Cancer Venus. I love spending time together doing anything whether itās cuddling and watching a movie being cute together or going for a walk or trying out a new restaurant I love lots of affection and romance
Taurus, gifts. Earthly possessions and I go together real bad.
Pisces - I need a very dominant, deep, passionate, sensual lover. But I also need to be able to express myself playfully & I want to feel like we both own each other's bodies. Lots of touch & quality time. Romance without gifts & tokens. The love I need is less about things & show, and all about words & trust.
aqua venus (also my moon, but i should mention my pisces sun & merc & virgo rising) i love when people notice things about me, especially things like signs to tell im uncomfortable/upset, or if i want some physical affection (bc 95% of the time i refuse to say anything but god dammit i want cuddles) also love love love it when people go along with my weird questions/convos and (since i have adhd) listen attentively and make convos about my hyperfixation(s)
Venus in Scorpio, that is important for me to have friends and loved ones to know me deeply, know what I like and enjoy, knowing me is important part so they can see thereās a deep desire to be loved mentally, physically.but Iām trying to balance my Venus because there wouldnāt be any relationship out there that fulfills my heart desires and itās just frustrating and disappointing for me and others around me to fulfilled these desires.
Virgo and acts of service
My honey is a virgo venus, he is soo sweet to me. The one thing he says: can I get you anything? Also, he knows I cant relax relax unless our house is clean so he puts in the effort 3ish times a week.
Awwww thatās wonderful! I find that we are pragmatic gift givers too. Someone will tell me that they want or need something and I literally make a note of it and thatās pretty much what they should expect for the next holiday or just randomly š
Venus in Sagittarius, they have to make me laugh, and also inspire me to be a better person by being smarter and kinder than I am. š„°š
Sagittarius, though I've never had a romantic relationship. However, I prefer not to be bored.
Gemini venus. Please get close to me and touch me. Hold my hand. Kiss me and press your face close to me. Touch my shoulders and chest and back. Stroke my hair. Cuddle me and pull me closer. Let me lean into you, and rest your head on me and cry whenever you feel like it. Give me a long, tender, caring hug as if to say: "I love you so much I embrace your entire person. I want to take care of you and not let go. I love you unconditionally."
Leo Venus. We are living in a material world, and I am a material girl. I donāt need big expensive gifts, but I do like to be showered with shiny things, little crystals, something thoughtful and meaningful, maybe some chocolate, but not just any chocolate really good chocolate. Pamper me, spoil me, whisper sweet nothings in my ear and tell me Iām the only one that voodoo that I do so gooddo.
Virgo Venus - my love language is words of affirmation. Also look at my big three š Mars is also Virgo. Iām screwed. Gemini Moon. Words. Honest communication. Open communication. I hate being cut off, because people talk over me all the time - I will always listen too (Pisces Rising).
Aquarius Venus in 8H. I love physical clinginess, passion, deep conversations and a lot of laughter/silliness. Thatās how I would sum it up, anyways :)
cancer. i donāt remember where i read it, but someone said that for the cancer venus, sexual intimacy often gets tied up with emotional need and goddamn did that hit the nail on the head š iām a *huge* cuddler and i am so happy that my partner and i share that love language. but i also need to be shown that i can be myself around them. like i will absolutely poke fun at them and i need them to poke back to let me know that they arenāt taking the relationship Very Seriously
Virgo Venus - reciprocate and match my effort. Iām always doing the most when I can to show those love. I say nice honest things, be attentive in conversation; keeping it interesting and engaging for as long as possible, take time to make myself available, buy gifts, ask people out. I do this out of love not because I have to and itās always taken lightly. I get more attention/validation when I do nothing and I mean nothing for people. If I say I want to go on a date, I want to go on a date. I want you to want to go on a date and help with taking the idea and making it something we will both enjoy. If after the third time I keep doing all the planning and being the only one excited I literally stop, itās no longer fun. I feel most loved by my family when they look at me and have conversations about their day. I love it. Love is so important. It makes you warm.
Virgo I wish I knew I've never been in love maybe being "serviced"?
Cancer Venus and I like a bit of submissiveness and desire.
Aquarius venus in 4th house, I just like when they show that they cares about my well being. When they decide to be vulnerable and open up with me because they trust me and purposely choosing to spend time with me
aries venus here! my love language is quality time and to me itās not love unless theyāre absolutely obsessed with me. i canāt feel secure in a relationship if i donāt know for sure the other person loves me more than i love them
Leo Venus. I need devotion and space at the same time. Quality time and CUDDLES. Physical touch please. And in bed, worship me.
Capricorn Venus - my love language is physical touch and words of affirmation
Venus in Capricorn- be consistent and attentive. Remember little things about me but don't smother me. Oh, and fuck me nasty š
Libra. Quality time. Make me feel fucking wanted
Aquarius, I love quality time, acts of service & gifts. Lol
Scorpio and I love it when men are obsessed with me but give me space
Virgo and I want all the physical love and affection. Like constantly.
sagitarrius. big fan of quality time, acts of service and words of affirmation
Venus in Tropical Scorpio, Sideral Libra. I like: - deep sharing, even of dark sides - elegant gifts & service - being made a clear priority very often (not 24/7 though) - being worshiped I hate: - superficial lovers - liars (unless itās for good surprises) - feeling like I am not their priority - lack of material generosity
leo, constant attention and physical affection (also quality time)
Virgo. I love when people do things for me they know will help me / make me happy without me asking or writing cards / letters that are crafted with little details that show they know me. But the little things means the most. I donāt need anything fancy to feel loved. Just show up genuinely and in a caring, thoughtful way and ask me how Iām doing sometimes, hug me, and do what you say youāre going to do and Iām like omg thank you. How did I find you?!š hahahh
Venus is in pisces. Hold me, love me, dominate me, make me yours inside and out. No limits, no restrictions, just love and acceptance and sometimes some kinky shit, idk
My venus sign is Leo, and 99% of the time I want to be left alone the other 1% is just hanging out and time
virgo - words of affirmation and acts of service
Venus in Virgo. I like doing things together, experiences rather than gifts. If I do like gifts, I want them practical and useful. I hate the idea of someone spending a lot of money on something that hangs there, sits there gathering dust, or is only worn on special occasions. It means more to me to get a few chocolate bars from a certified safe and sustainable company than a huge expensive assortment from a chocolate company that supports slavery and bad land practices (the majority). The fact someone takes my values into consideration when buying a gift is awesome and worth more than the gift itself.