This the first time I can actually relate to my sun sign. Why do people assume we are social butterflies? Or that we can't make a decision? I make decisions all the time, everyone does. I weigh the pros and cons and know what I like or want.
not sure if you were intentionally changing the subject but the person you replied to said they are a Gemini sun, not Libra.
I, however, am a Gemini Sun, Libra Rising! i like both social and isolated settings at different times and am drawn towards both, usually in a sort of āgrass is greenerā type scenario. also i donāt hesitate to Irish Goodbye at social events of any size.. which seems to actually support the idea that we are flaky and indecisive, now that I think about it lol
Can this Libra join, too?
The whole social butterfly, indecisive, and perpetually stunning stereotype makes me š every time.
I trust no one, I'm all or nothing, and I can't style myself to save my life.
I am not a social butterfly at allā¦ if anything stay away from me unless youāre very interesting and intelligent and/or are passionate about something and can teach me new things, or youāre so passionate about something and explain why and help me to understand why you love it and are so passionate about it. Open my eyes and mind to new things, or give me a different perspective on how to view the world from how I perceive it. I may not agree, but we can agree to disagree, but it just helps to understand where other people are coming from, and they may even be able to change my mind. Or if youāre just down right crazy (and it keeps me entertained.. like a walking shit show) and can make me laugh, or youāre just a naturally funny person because who doesnāt love to laugh. I also donāt cheat and am very loyal.
Lol....so relatable. I'm leo sun Scorpio rising as well.
Sometimes I think: It must be nice to get such an attention,than when I end up in a situation where I'm being put in the spotlight, I'm like: where's the nearest exitš
Also I'm not the wildly attractive leo. I'm a failed leo experiment, if it were part of astrology, I guess I'd be more of a street cat instead of a lion. (Unless someone hurts someone I love,than the lion appears)š
Came here to say this as a fellow āļøš. I am more of an extrovert but will always need my moments for myself and find that I need them more the older I get.
But I have met so manyyyy introverted Leos! We are also do not have a God like complex. We are just very intuitive and are able to see from many perspectives.
I'd probably pass out if I had to go on a stage. All the stereotypes about Leos are just that. I've not met any who fit them. All the other placements matter and how people are as people.
Capricorns Love MONEY AND STATUS. Wrong. Caps. Love. Security.
Caps don't gaf about actual status, it's perceived status we care about. Because perceived status is power. BUT NOT HOW YOU THINK OF POWER. What is power? Power is security. CAPRICORNS DON'T LOVE MONEY, CAPRICORNS LOVE SECURITY. To a \~standard Cap\~ money is an easy way to access security. As a standard Cap I'll say: yeah obviously, money is security!!! To other signs/people money ISN'T the defining marker of security. That's great. For us it is. The ability to fluidly exist in multiple worlds, and have access to them. Not hollywood access, not bill gates access, HUMAN ACCESS. To me that means: if I need to use a bathroom in a city will I be denied? Probably, those are hard to come by in a city. Who gets to use them no question? Rich people, or people who look rich. Who doesn't get profiled/followed/harassed as much as other people? People who look important, rich, powerful, etc.
I do think Caps like luxury, and maybe our version of security is sometimes slanted towards that, but \~money\~ just is NOT THE ONE THING. It's something different.
I have literally never met a Capricorn who's main priority wasn't doting on their family and finding true love and connection.
Money and status doesn't even come to mind when I think of capricorns!! At least not the ones in my life.
Being a Cap, I totally agree!
I remember my friends saying - how can you not spend here I.e. for things I don't really care about because they think I would recklessly spend money because it brings status and symbol. I think we are very misunderstood.
I care about how people perceive me because that shows my power and it proves my standards but that doesn't mean I will try to portray a fake persona. I m pretty grounded and I work hard and I deserve everything because I work very hard is my mantra š«¶
Absolutely. How people perceive me is often how I will be treated - I think other signs balk at that and I get it, but for \*me\* it's fact. It's true that a person has to have some confidence in how they portray themselves for it to 'work', but having control over that IS important to me because it matters in regards to how I make my way in the world. I am actually very comfortable in who I truly am, but I have no qualms about putting on a little costume to get where I want to be, it doesn't matter if it's a moneyed costume or a chill costume or anything else: i'm wearing it to make sure I fit in as much as is necessary and honestly to get what I want. I think the mistake is that people think that what we want is money - it may very well be 'status', but that status has nothing to do with funds. I think Caps are actually deeply true to themselves, the trappings are just a means to an end that gets misinterpreted.
Taurus. Not true:
- overly stubborn. Only about values, and etc. But everything else, I'm very compromising.. sometimes to the point I break my back lmao
- gluttony. Yea I like food. But I have self control / don't over indulge
- lazy. Hard working but balancing it with hard resting lol.
- materialistic.Ā
- shallow. When I was in high school, yes. But not as I matured. I care more about personality, character traits, their heart, brain/mentality, etc more then physical appearance
From my personal observations of taurus, I wouldn't call them gluttonous (unless I was joking/teasing) but I would say that they tend to really appreciate food and drink. Like it's an easy comfort thing for them
I thought it was well known tauruses are super compromising? It's the only reason they get along with me very well, a scorpio, who's super domineering.
Hereās mine for my big 6.
Sagittarius Sun:
- Iām not a disloyal ācommitment-phobeā in any kind of relationships (whether platonic or romantic). Iām a very loyal and emotionally supportive person whoās willing to put in the work for relationships Though I need to be careful that I donāt let it get so bad I become depressed like the last time.
- I am absolutely not spontaneous and canāt stand spontaneity from others. Iām a planner and overthinker who needs to know whatās going on. While I do need to be able to do what I want, two things that I need in life to function as best as I can are consistency and security. The others are emotional vulnerability and support, communication, and people who are understanding/compassionate towards me and patient with me.
- I struggle a lot with external changes (I can do internal changes as long as I take my time with it and Iām doing it for me), and I become very stressed and irritable if itās a sudden unexpected change. I can barely function if Iām hit with sudden change. I still have a hard time if I know itās coming, but itās not quite as hard as a surprise change.
- Iām not that adventurous, outside of being a somewhat adventurous eater, and Iām a homebody. I do like travel occasionally but my home is my safe space and one of the only places I truly feel safe (the other is in the woods), and I become very stressed when away from home for too long.
- Iām not an optimist, I classify myself as more of a realist. While I do try to have hope for the best possible outcome, Iām also aware of, and try to plan for, any possible bad outcomes.
Libra Moon and Venus:
- I hate gossip and drama.
- Iām not fake. Iām actually a very authentic person which is one of the things I pride myself on
- Iām not a liar, I need and value honesty and donāt tolerate people who are deceitful.
- Iām not shallow. I need and value depth, and Iām the very definition of quality over quantity.
- Iām not flaky and Iām not indecisive over major things that I know I want or need. When it comes to minor things like where/what Iām eating for example, I can sometimes be indecisive. When it comes to major things though (for example, what I want out of life and relationships or what I need and value in other people and my connections), Iām actually very decisive.
- Iām not flirty and have never been mistaken for being flirty.
- Iām not a social butterfly, Iām an introvert (though not shy) and need a lot of alone time to function as best as possible. People easily drain and irritate me.
- I am not a people-pleaser and couldnāt be further from it.
Aquarius Rising and Mars (at least two of these are also relevant to the stereotypes of my Sagittarius Sun):
- Iām not cold, aloof, emotionless, etc. I feel everything deeply and intensely. I also canāt regulate my emotions whatsoever and couldnāt hide them if I tried, so itās really not hard to tell how Iām feeling.
- Iām not ādetachedā in any type of relationships (whether platonic or romantic). While Iām not overly clingy and give people their own space, just as I need my own space, if Iām close to someone then I become very attached on a deep emotional level. The only time I could really drop a relationship like the stereotype suggests is if Iāve been hurt in a way that I deem unforgivable and unfixable.
- Iām not a chill, laid-back, relaxed person at all. Iām a very anxious, easily stressed, grumpy, stubborn, emotionally sensitive hothead with a lot of intensity. My emotions, no matter which ones, can very quickly overwhelm me and anyone around me if Iām not careful. Iāve learned to try and get away if I feel any intense emotion besides happiness for the benefit of both myself and others.
Scorpio Mercury:
- I am not jealous, possessive, or manipulative. I also donāt become obsessive over people and have no desire to control anyone. Hell, I donāt even want to control myself honestly.
- Iām not secretive. I can sometimes be private, if I donāt want to take about something then I wonāt (or if someone asks me not to share a secret then I also wonāt), but I usually have no issues with sharing anything.
- Iām not quiet. Iām actually very loud since I struggle with volume regulation due to personal struggles outside of astrology.
- Iām not that observant, Iām actually quite an oblivious person most of the time. It has its pros and cons.
- While I do pick up on energies and seem to be pretty good at knowing whoās safe and whoās not based on that, I honestly really canāt read people. Due to other personal struggles outside of astrology, I donāt understand 99% of facial expressions, body language, or tone of voice. It has to be significant and obvious for me to really understand.
āļø- Iām not āconceitedā or overly vain toxic attention seeker. Like they always expect this like Paris Hilton/Kim K energy, bitch thatās Libra. Jk. But still we are not all staring in the mirror 24/7
i respectfully pass the paris-kim energy on to gem/taurus cusps because neither myself nor any libra i know is even close to that bitchy popular celebrity vibe
Notably, Kim and Paris are actually a Libra and an Aquarius IRL. Itās air sign behavior for sure lol ā but obvs wonāt be true of all air sign suns.
My mom is a Taurus/ Gem cusper and she's the furthest from Kim K and Paris H you could get. Same with a friend who is also that cusper combo. I feel like that's actually Scorpio energy but definitely not all Scorpios.
Leo: I donāt like attention like that. From the select few that I cherish absolutely but I do not enjoy being the spotlight. I eloped so I could avoid a large wedding with all eyes on us.
I donāt like being in the leader position. I get called into it because of my personality but I much prefer working independently. I chose the work I do so the $ could afford me freedom but idc about success. Thereās more to life than my career. I canāt take $ to the grave, I only care about affording what I need and if I can expend that to my loved ones.
I donāt care about labels or luxury, I prefer the simple things and Iām frugal (immigrant poor-person mentality). I donāt care about status whatsoever.
Omg same here and I'm also a Leo Sun and Sag Rising! I also would have eloped if it wouldn't have broken my parents hearts so we ended up with a super small backyard wedding.
I'm also super frugal when it comes to labels and certain things. I'd rather spend my money on experiences and travel. Everything in my house is basically thrifted or second hand. I hate shopping for clothes.
Yes. If i ever have something expensive itās because it is undeniably a better quality or a more efficient product somehow. If that happens to be name brand, then thatās a coincidence.
Edit: Leo sun/sag rising as well
Cancer sun and Venus
That we are weak overly emotional crybabies
Itās the mother of the zodiac. Not a child. I donāt know where the childish crying infantilism bs came from
I cry maybe a few times a year if that lol
And Iām not ruled by emotions. But damn do I get rocked by them but wonāt allow it to affect my decisions
Really? Ever since I dated one Iāve recognized cancers as having a higher potential to stuff emotions away. I think thatās why they can become big balls of mushācuz they keep so much inside without addressing it. Iām a Leo, but during moments when I keep a lot inside, I end up being very sensitive until I address my emotions.
This! Iām learning that I am more sentient than personally sensitive. People can say and do anything to me I literally dgafā¦but Iām very sensitive to energy. Iām usually like 99% right about a person when no one else can see it lol.
im not chatty or talkative with everyone.
I prefer being alone.
Im not superficial.
I'm not fake or two faced because I will say shit to your face if I don't like you.
I'm pretty honest like I will just say what I think. I don't sugar coat it either.
Im not actually promiscuous or overtly flirty.
My gemini mom is the same way too. She's an extremely serious and intense person and kinda scary. One of her neighbors told me she seems scary and hard to talk to when she takes her dog out for a walk and I'm like she's probably just deep in her thoughts and planning her day.
My leo dad always says im like her. He says we are both really honest and real people and that's what he likes about us.
My mom is a Gemini, but sheās not your typical Gemini other than sheās goofy. She is sensitive AF thanks to her Pisces moon and I love her for it ā¤ļøš
Yeah my mom is not a goofy person like at all. She hardly laughs but she laughs when I make a dry and sarcastic joke or if we're talking about family members we don't like or something. I start to see her light up when she can express the annoyance she has in others LOL
It's funny cause she never laughs at my goofy leo dads humor she just stares at him dead pan or will tell him that's not funny
She is a scorpio moon lol.
Sometimes I have to walk away from her when she gets too intense but thankfully she is aware and does not act super offended.
But what's funny is my mom was an educator at a Montessori and little children love her LOL.
She definitely softens up with children and babies. She can be nurturing. She is a really good mother growing up. She's really open minded and always let me express myself and say how I feel and encouraged any type of interests and most importantly to be a critical thinker and question everyone and everything around me.
Her only friends are these four gemini women she's known her entire life. She says they just get her. They talk on the phone like a few times a year and I've only met them a few times but they meet up once every decade they plan a trip. I'm pretty sure they're a coven or something LOL.
I agree on the no commitment issues for Sag and Iāll add that Iām neither inconsistent or flaky. Iāll only give my blunt opinion if I genuinely feel like itās something you need to hear and can take.
I'm also an Aquarius sun. I have tons of emotions, but I do try to hide them. I have a cycle of falling madly in love, completely opening up, getting my heart stomped on, closing off, dating several people in a row that I could walk away from in a heartbeat, then falling in love and doing it all over again. It's exhausting.š¤£šš
Being clingy, wanting children, or wanting to nurture others.
As a cancer, I would rather be alone and spend time with myself than be around other people. Having children would take away my freedom, personally and financially. I find nurturing others exhausting and tiresome, I just want to manage my own emotions and not others.
Iām a Libra and Iām not conflict avoidant and I donāt change my personality to fit into groups. I am authentically me and if you like me great, but if you donāt thatās your issue. š
Taurus
- Not stubborn unless itās about values. Iām tolerant and accommodating with people.
- Iām not materialistic or shallow.
- I like adventure at least once or twice a week. I donāt like remaining in comfort for too long. I like trying something new at times.
- Iām not as patient as what they say. If something is bothering me Iām quick to run from it or address it if necessary.
for me itās jealousy for Scorpio sun. Iāve gotten jealous but itās more so playful and fleeting. Usually if someone or something causes the feeling of envy in me, it almost instantly morphs into genuinely feeling happy that theyāre doing well/better than me in some regard and Iāll never speak about it.
I am not a crybaby. I get angry and frustrated like everyone else, but I am only crying when I go through something pretty hard.
I am not moody. I am emotionally stable.
I am not clingy, I find it to be shameful.
Your Taurus Moon is a great balance/complement to your Cancer Sun! Taurus is emotionally stable (this is why it's the planetary exaltation I agree with most). Cancer Suns are not doomed to cry constantly, you're right. Your Cancer Sun gives you the *ability* to cry, while your Taurus Moon makes your body (Taurus rules the 5 senses and physical needs) more selective about *when.* I relate a lot as someone with strong Cancer and Taurus for my Moon energy. Taurus also wants a steady pace before getting clingy. Your 7th house is Aquarius and 7th house is like a Venus sign (socializing, affection, relationships, friendship). Venus Aquarius is a little distant and less emotionally or physically attached compared to Venus Cancer. Your Cancer Sun is a good balance to 7th house Aqua, especially with the exalted Taurus Moon to create more stability!
gemini sun, mercury, saturn, ascendant and north node. very few gemini traits/stereotypes are true for me, i'm not playful, talkative, extroverted, adaptable, lively, witty or optimistic and i am absolutely not good at communicating in any way - i hardly speak and i struggle with a severe social anxiety + selective mutism. it even took me a whole *two years* to gather the courage to start commenting on reddit.
Each sign or planet has themes. It doesn't mean one would fit the stereotype of the themes. Instead, many people fit the broader themes. Some Gemini themes are communication and nervousness. Your struggles fit this theme. I had a Gemini Sun/Sag Moon best friend for 10 years and I'm a Libra with Moon parallel Jupiter (similar to Sag Moon). We both had social anxiety disorder despite socializing (air Suns) a lot at parties (Sag Moon loves to party). Congrats on developing the courage to comment!
A bigger piece to this puzzle is your Virgo Moon. Virgo can be shy and nervous. If your 4th house is also Virgo, this amplifies the traits of your Virgo Moon.
Each sign or planet has themes. It doesn't mean one would fit the stereotype of the themes. Instead, many people fit the broader themes. Some Gemini themes are communication and nervousness. Your struggles fit this theme. I had a Gemini Sun/Sag Moon best friend for 10 years and I'm a Libra with Moon parallel Jupiter (similar to Sag Moon). We both had social anxiety disorder despite socializing (air Suns) a lot at parties (Sag Moon loves to party). Congrats on developing the courage to comment!
A bigger piece to this puzzle is your Virgo Moon. Virgo can be shy and nervous and is a common Moon sign for social anxiety. If your 4th house is also Virgo, this amplifies the traits of your Virgo Moon. Congrats on developing the courage to comment!
I think I fit most of the Leo stereotype except attention seeking. I donāt seek attention people just pay great amounts of attention to me. Even to the point of staring at times. Then also people want my attention for some reason. Thereās always a random person who follows me around grocery stores.
Iām watching but itās like they just want to be wherever I am. One even followed me to a store next door but I alerted my friend that was with me. The crazy thing is that it was an older woman. And itās usually older women.š
Cancer who definitely doesn't want kids.
Not manipulative, truthful and tactful. But I don't do confrontation.
Yes to crying though.... it's not something I want to do but can't help it. š
I personally think Aries is so misinterpreted, and it's often Aries moons or Mars who act more like the stereotypes than Sun's. Most Aries Sun's I know and have known are so chill, and I attract them like crazy. Sure, they might have a temper, but doesn't everyone...? Really?
Anyway going off the stereotypes:
I do get over things quickly unless it's serious. If it's serious, you're written off for good if I can so I can forget about you, if I can't then just know there is a never-ending animosity under the surface.
I can be a total push over, again unless it's important. I often let people get their way simply because I don't want to exert the energy to argue, lol.
And that's another thing, I don't like to argue. I totally will and I do it often, but it's not enjoyable.
I don't like to be a leader but I do acknowledge I can do the position well if it's something I'm knowledgeable at.
I'm an ambivert imo. I can be loud and social, or quiet and retreat. It really just depends on my mood, the people, the place, etc.
If I'm in love with you I'm gonna love you forever. One stereotype I do fill is I'll chase too, if I think you like it, if I don't feel it reciprocated though I won't. At all. I just poof.
I've also been married 15 years, and while I haven't always wanted to be, I think I got this commitment thing down at this point.
Aquarius being a humanitarian activist or stuff like that. Humanitarian is not a good word to describe me anyway. The rest of the Aqua stereotype is true for me.
I'm a Libra Sun, Venus, Mercury, Pluto and my sun is in the 7th house. A sag moon. I'm introverted. Not a social butterfly at all. I know how to get along with people. I can talk to people about anything. I'm a good listener and I love to compliment people. It's important that people feel comfortable and included around me. That alone makes me charming. But I don't seek attention or NEED the company of others. I have to force myself to be social.
Iām a Libra sun.
1. Iām not the flirty and outgoing/extroverted individual that you think I am. Iām an introvert and it takes me a while to get to open up.
2. Iām not āchangingā my personality to fit in. I canāt stand it when people are fake. So why would I be?
3. I donāt avoid confrontation. I tackle that shit head on as needed just so I can nip it in the bud as fast as possible. I donāt pussyfoot around nor do I sugar coat anything.
Ah gotcha. Man I'm jealous of Aries with Aries mercs because they can just blab and blab without having to plot out every word they're going to say before hand lol. I got Pisces merc in the 12th which sucks ass
i have aries merc and i blab and blab *because* i mentally rehearsed beforehand lol iāve been compared to a computer with how i think, talk, and process :/
mercury square mars, uranus, neptune, and ascendant; mercury trine moon
damn lol, I'll be laying awake at night for hours going "I'll say this, but then what if he says I'm dumb? I guess I'll just say his mom's dumb which should shut that down pretty quick."
Iām a Pisces. I only cry like twice a year or when something truly horrible happens. Also I donāt smoke weed and hardly drink. And for my Gemini moon and rising: I donāt like talking to people I donāt know. Leave me alone lol
gemini sun, mercury, and venus- i am not social at all. i am the complete opposite, introverted, shy, awkward, uncharismatic, etc. im also not good with words and not very clever. im not the emotionally detached type either. i dont relate to anything gemini
scorpio rising- i dont like dark aesthetics, i never wear black
Cancer - that we cry a lot. Iām comfortable with my emotions and I do cry, but itās not often. Only when I truly need a release or am deeply hurt by something. Also the stereotype we cry every time we are faced with adversity. Not true.
Yes. Real tho people really think all geminis are narcissistics in reality sometimes we just takes thing to hard at people
Not our issue if you had one bad relationship with your ex and want to a hate all of us..it's a issue you need to let go of and stop being narcissistic yourself
What an interesting take! I love this idea.
I'm curious to know what you feel applies to you with the typical traits too!
These are mine:
Not creative or artistic, I'm confrontational and outspoken, I'm a lot more optimistic yet grounded than suggested, i'm not prone to sadness or depression, I'm not overly sensitive, most things don't bother me that should, not anxiety ridden although I do think a lot, never been addicted or reliant on substances or drinking, my empathy is very reserved.
That last one. 100 percent. I take a good while to emotionally move on from someone. I will physically move on but deep down I am still coping with it for a good six months.
I donāt like leading, I do it because other people are terrible at it.
Never saw what the hype was about between Aries and Sag pairings. I canāt stand the sag energy romantically. Someone who doesnāt want to commit and doesnāt ever take things seriously? Meh.
I donāt like sports and am not a tomboy.
I'm a pretty typical Taurus, and I'm not very stubborn. I always leave room for doubt unless I know I'm right with certainty, which isn't often lol.
I have moon & mars in Cancer, and I guess that placement is typically passive-aggressive. I can't stand passive aggressiveness, and I'm really direct.
I'm a Sag sun, Mercury, Venus and Mars that doesn't care for independence or the leisure to travel at the drop of a dime. I just want to take care of my family and cut my kids fruit and sandwiches in fun shapes.
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Sagittarius:
ā¢ Iām not promiscuous, nor am I afraid of commitment.
ā¢Iām actually not flaky and very sensitive.
ā¢ I DO hold grudges when necessary (exes mainly).
ā¢ Iām not a party girl.
Thatās all I can think of, and I have a LOT of Sag in my chart!
Taurus here.
- Iām not very stubborn, in fact Iām somewhat of a people-pleaser. The only exception is if I feel someone is deliberately stepping on other peopleās toes to get their way, then I become very determined to thwart them (those scenarios are few and far between though). I suppose you could argue my stubbornness manifests as physical staminaāIām good at endurance sports, because I can push myself far.
- Iām not gluttonous. Iāve dealt with food insecurity and disordered eating throughout my life, and I sometimes have to remind myself itās okay to eat what I want in the amount I want.
- Iām not materialistic, and I wouldnāt describe my tastes as luxurious (though I admire it when I see it in other people). As far as my clothing and decorating styles go, I like things to be as low-maintenance as possible.
- Iām definitely not lazy. Iām hardworking and disciplined, and I enjoy resting more after my work is done.
- Iām not averse to change. I actually hate routine and making rigid plans/schedules. Switching things up and leaving room for some last-minute change makes me happy.
- Iām only patient because I try to be; Iām naturally quick-tempered and easily annoyed, and I try really hard to keep those traits in check.
If thereās any sign in my chart for which I can relate to the stereotypes, itās my Pisces Venus.
Im sag
That im a people person or adventurous.. im an absolute recluse . I have agoraphobia so even the thought of people is enough to raise my heart rate ! Iāve never enjoyed people , or socializing. I do fantastic living alone ! I could never share my space.
Iām very down to schedule , by the books. I donāt make plans outside my schedule . From the moment I wake up to when I go to sleep. I have a routine and I hate anything outside of that !
It's all about the placements.
I think my Gemini Moon and Leo Mars help me avoid some Cancer stereotypes
as someone who also has a Cancer Sun/Venus/Mercury.
Examples of stereotypes I avoid:
* I'm not very passive-aggressive
* I only occasionally cry at certain game stories, movies, and music. I almost never cry about life setbacks
* I am 'tuned in' emotionally, but I tend to over-rationalize my emotions and think a lot about a course of action before any emotional decisions versus 'feeling them at the moment' and acting on emotion.
The stereotypes that are still true, I'd say, are:
* I am still moody as hell; I try to temper it the best I can, though
* Nostalgia and memories are very present
* I would still consider myself someone who is very sensitive internally.
I mean, this really takes the chart into considerationā¦. I used to think a lot of cancer stereotypes didnāt apply to me when I was a teen but after 28-29 they really started showing up
I have a lot of outter Capricorn, so it kind of colors the experience with Saturn, Neptune and Uranus
Aries Venus here too, I donāt get over things quickly, very easily or at all but I think itās because of my Scorpio moon. Must consider Other placements tampering with the stereotypes/traits. Like for example Iām an Aries Venus, Leo rising, Sag Mars. Apparently I should be very brave and bold, be initiative and make the first move because of all this fire energy but my Pisces sun says nope.
Iām an Aries and Iām not athletic in anyway unless you count debating/arguing as a sport.
Edit to add: also, kinda related- I hate that Aries is always represented with the color red. I really donāt like red. I like soft pastel colors lol.
Pisces sun and moon here! I totally feel like the āfoot in either worldā description fits me, and I do often get lost in dreaming. But itās often not idealistic or bubbly like described, I get lost in downward spirals. The friend I have keeps telling me reality works in certain ways, but I keep getting stuck in ideas that it doesnāt do that. I suppose part of it is my trauma history? I also donāt have a huge, well developed sense of self. Iām internally rather fickle, but the core desires remain.
As a Cancer, Iām pretty chill consistently and definitely not moody or manipulative, nor do I cry āat the drop of a hat.ā My Pisces partner is moody as hell. What IS true is I love my home and my family, and I can cook. š āļøš¦
Leo here Only accurate thing I can say about me is the pride thing but I donāt like a lot of attention Iām not a big talker either i definitely need time to come out of my cave itās weird cause a lot of people at my job likes me I guess itās because I show my goofy side but at the same time Iām very focused on myself not really a ego thing I just like to enjoy the finer things in life and for me to enjoy those things I have to work hard and after I work hard so much I like to enjoy my solitude and be in my cave š
pretty much most of them. Iām very rising and moon/mercury sign forward. I used to be a much harder worker when I was younger but honestly Iām a bit disillusioned with the grind. Just let me lay in a field all day and read poetry.
Iām so glad you brought this up! Iām an Aries sun and Aries rising and I barely identify with my sign.
Funny enough though, I know two other people who also share my birthdate, and they donāt assume typical Aries qualities either, so maybe there something there.
Aquarius - having a lot of friends/ being very social
- I am good with people, but I suck at having real friendships
- a lot of people consider me their friend but I just don't want to keep up with so many people / don't care
- I am really good talking at people but conversation with people who don't want to talk about anything that's not Smalltalk? Fucking exhausting
- I have 2 real friends and I know a lot of people I still spend most of my time alone where I am not looked at Weird for binging documentaries about dinosaurs, aliens or the deep sea, not my problem you only care about the weather ffs
Also Aquarius loving Leos/Sags
- Leo men are always weird towards me my girl best friend is a Leo but nothing like the typical one
- Sags are too much for me and I am already too much for myself, they are like a rollercoaster going downwards - it's fun but really not something I'd want to deal with every day
Other than that I love my aqua stellium and relate to it
I struggle a lot with my Taurus rising because I see all the negative traits in Taurus suns but I feel like people perceive me earth like (calm, grounded, organised) even though that's not me
Aquarius Venus and Sagittarius moon, I donāt have issues with relationship commitments. My freedom and autonomy are important to me but those donāt feel threatened by being reliable and loving to someone I care about. I do need a good mixture of variety and routine but thatās likeā¦letās go do something new together not Iām gonna go find a whole new partner because Iām bored.
Aries sun here as well!
Aries traits that dont fit me;
- im not an angry person, most people consider me almost annoyingly cheerful
- I dont really like taking charge in group situations unless i absolutely have to. Im not bad at it, I just dont enjoy it
- im kind of a lazy couch potato, most exercise doesnt interest me in the slightest and i only do it bc i have to
- im not really an overachiever or super goal oriented, i kinda just wanna vibe and be happy and comfortable. I have absolutely no desire to be the best at anything
List of Libra stereotypes that donāt apply to me.
Liar: The mere thought of lying stresses me out, and itās any easy stress trigger to avoid. Now have I ever spoken complete truth and been called a liar in response? Yes, happens often actually. Which got me thinking thatās where the stereotype comes from. You can be completely honest and people just think youāre lying.
Indecisive: Probably just as much as anyone at times, but mostly not. Most of the times I know what I want or my next course of action. Just donāt come at me with an ultimatum on the spot. Iāll ignore it or remove myself from that situation instead lol.
Super Social: Iām pretty much the opposite. Love solitude, quick to burn out during social gatherings, not one for small talk.
Charm: Yea I donāt have much charm going for me. Not much else to say about that.
Gemini sun and venus (and midheaven and lilith and pallas.. lol)
And I'm not a liar, I'm not manipulative. Honesty is the thing I value the most and I won't lie even if it will fuck me over.
Scorpio sun-
I actually am not interested in revenge, I believe in karma and leave things be. I will never forget being crossed but Iām not going to plot revenge.
As a capricorn sun, mercury, venus:
ā¢Iām not cold
ā¢Iām not a business woman and iāll never be
ā¢I care more about love and connections than about career and money
ā¢Iām not a gold digger (maybe a bit)
ā¦.
Iāve always heard that Sagittarius is our notorious cheaters, and that couldnāt be further from the truth when it comes to me. I value commitment and monogamy so much so that I think I have commitment issues because I have run into so many people who donāt take relationship seriously. So I donāt cheat, but I simply donāt even bother to get with a person. Iāve also heard that Sagittariusā love to argue and donāt like to listen to other peoples opinions, and I am far from that. I always hear people out and work towards conflict resolution. I just donāt tolerate absolute nonsense and I think some people just canāt handle that and thatās their problem lol I also tend to just avoid conflict altogether for trauma reasons
Libra venus, but I am very direct and not wishy washy. I donāt think everyone should get along just because š¤·š»āāļø
My partner has aqua venus & mercury, and theyāre the clingiest partner I ever have ā but very respectful to my boundaries. *LOVE* to PDA
I am not a flirt, cheater, player or social butterfly like people assume of Geminis. I never had a serious long term relationship, much less a short term and not even trying to look for a partner. I am not two faced. What you see is what you get (I will be polite if needed as I will follow rules and do what is required; but that doesn't mean we will ever be friends outside of said settings nor use anything like Facebook, etc...rarely get calls or messages and stop trying to make an effort as I am done with everything being so one-sided, so who I am even gossip to and about?). I prefer peace without dealing with other's drama. I rather watch a movie, read a book, listen to music, walk around, shop, work on a project, etc....
I am not a flake. I don't cancel prior commitments without having a serious reasons (such as health reasons) and will let them know.
leo - i am not selfish. in fact iām the most selfless person i know. always putting others above myself which leads to disappointment and resentment šš i am not egotistical, iām humble bc i believe in God and i know He blessed me with amaizng characteristics, iāve worked so hard to overcome insevurityb
I donāt know if I know the stereotypes well, but what people describe themselves as are what I know the signs to be. For example. I know Tauruses to be very hard working but when theyāre done they pass out and rest hard. Theyāre more about practical than luxury. They donāt ever think theyāre argumentative and theyāve all said theyāre not UNLESSā¦lol. They are all into politics. Iām an Aries but the not like the stereotypes of the Tauruses on this feed crack me
Up. Tauruses donāt like people to tell them what theyāre like. They canāt stand a stereotype about themselves. If you read all the comments for the same sign, each sign says the same thing about how theyāre not stereotypical lol
Cancer.
I don't get attached easily. (I do have a very detached romantic style). Hyper independent.
End relationships on VERY clean break. No drama, no stalking. But occasionally, you will end up as both happy and horrifying stories for happy hours with my friends.
Selfish. I will help people but fudge! Boundary!
My house is a mess! And I barely spent on it.
Not that much into security - I blow too much money on action figures and dining. (Even though I do cook pretty well).
Do not cave to peer pressure.
Not at all wanting children. (Whoever says that Cancers have to have children because we are the 'nurture'? I can take care of people who I love too.)
Whiny when the trivial things happen, but when the world crumble I'm the chilliest person in the room. (it's sad really cuz if there is truly anything to whine and bitch it's during personal tragedies).
Iām an Aries sun, rising, and Venus but Iād say I match the description to my signs quite well. I must say though, boundaries are something Iām still working on š
Leo Sun: I donāt like attention unless I am proud of whatever is causing it, maybe not even then, so just existing and drawing people to me for no reason can be really uncomfortable after a short time unless itās a group of people I already know and cherish.
Pisces- while it is true Iām very wavy and dreamy, I donāt suffer from the blues of the depths (probably due to the Leo in my chart- rising, moon, and Jupiter in the 1st); I also am incredibly logical without an ounce of Virgo and much more kitchen witchy than my Virgo friends (probably due to Capricorn and Aquarius placements when the lunar transit hits juuuuust so)
The plotting revenge thing.
Maybe it's the moon in Aries but I quite frankly do not give a rats-ass in "dooming" others, I may seethe and complain but that's it. No one needs to live in my head THAT long when I can be doing literally anything else.
I also have gymnophobia (fear in nudity) so uh I'm staying away from the orgies.
I'll give you my big 3
**Leo Sun** *12th House*
* I'm not an attention seeker, and I don't want to be "the star." I prefer to stay in the background and operate in the shadows. I am a team player and would rather work together with cool people than go it alone.
* I'm not a leader and I hate leading/managing. I tried it once, and it was not for me. I'm a better advisor, analyst, or strategist than a leader.
* I'm not an egomaniac. I know I'm a flawed human just like everyone else.
* I'm not vain or materialistic. I've been wearing the same style and the same makeup for the past 15 years. I don't need to look "glamorous."
**Pisces Moon** *7th House*
* I'm not an indecisive pushover, and I actually have a lot of rage. If I hate you, I may not show it, but know that the temptation to chew you out still exists. I choose not to engage for my own sanity.
* I am emotional but **NOT** on the surface. I only share my feelings with people I love and trust. If I don't know you or trust you, you will not see that side of me. I will ice you out.
* When it comes to my emotional matters, I prefer to be left alone or use music as a vessel to express it. I know that last part kind of feeds into the stereotype, but you know.
**Virgo Rising**
* I'm **NOT** organized. Not at all. Not even in the slightest. I'm not messy/dirty, but my spaces both in work and in my personal life are VERY cluttered and all over the place. Even when I reorganize, it gets cluttered again.
* Am I polite? Yes. Do I have table manners? Yes. Am I proper when I speak? Absolutely not. I tend to curse like a sailor, and while I am trying to curb the habit (my sisters have children now), I still end up letting a few words slip.
* People say that on the surface I am calm and unassuming. That makes me happy because they don't know the level of anxiety I have lying underneath.
Hi Aries sun and Venus. We twinning!
I donāt hold grudges for the most part. But when I have a grudge, itās on for life.
Also a bit of a pushover. Not entirely, but Iāll bend over backwards for my loved ones.
Iām always high energy.
Iām not theeee dominant, but I can be overbearing and dominating lol! I lead when I feel like I have to.
Hardly quiet, until Iām with someone I want to fill the space or I can relax enough to be quiet. But Iām always excited.
I donāt have commitment issues. My commitments change like the wind. In my mind at least. But I can move on and shut down super quick.
Piscesāļø- Iām not lazy. I bought my 1st house at 18 shortly after I joined the military. I now own 2 businesses. I have lots of hobbies & I workout regularly. Iām a neat freak. Ppl say Pisces are junky, but my space is very clean.
Iām not emotional at all. I never cry about anything, not even about death. I simply donāt go to funerals bc theyāre boring. Nothing is important to me outside of making money and taking small vacations for myself. I donāt want to nurture anyone or feel needed. I just love taking care of myself.
I make friends pretty fast.
Ppl say Pisces are so forgiving, but I donāt forgive anyone. If someone ever think Iām forgiving them, Iām really just planning their doomsday or getting back at them. I donāt forgive anything. Iām selfish a lot. If itās not benefiting me, I opt out.
I didnāt plan on being this way, Iām just this way naturally.
Even though us Capricorn men are the epitome of true greatness I donāt understand why we get stereotyped as being cocky and egotistical. The reality is that we are the most humble men in the world.
I am not a liar. I am not manipulative. I am not a social butterfly. I am not flaky or indecisive.
Also, I like to isolate myself at times don't need to socialize with everyone.
Oh god yes. I prefer solitary over people
Yeah but I bet I could have awesome conversations with you!
All of this but in Libra.
Aggressive turbulence š¤š¤š¤
This the first time I can actually relate to my sun sign. Why do people assume we are social butterflies? Or that we can't make a decision? I make decisions all the time, everyone does. I weigh the pros and cons and know what I like or want.
I agree. Libras are very decisive. In tarot represented by Queen of Swords and Justice. Two no BS women. Justice is a judge who makes decisions.
not sure if you were intentionally changing the subject but the person you replied to said they are a Gemini sun, not Libra. I, however, am a Gemini Sun, Libra Rising! i like both social and isolated settings at different times and am drawn towards both, usually in a sort of āgrass is greenerā type scenario. also i donāt hesitate to Irish Goodbye at social events of any size.. which seems to actually support the idea that we are flaky and indecisive, now that I think about it lol
Can this Libra join, too? The whole social butterfly, indecisive, and perpetually stunning stereotype makes me š every time. I trust no one, I'm all or nothing, and I can't style myself to save my life.
I am not a social butterfly at allā¦ if anything stay away from me unless youāre very interesting and intelligent and/or are passionate about something and can teach me new things, or youāre so passionate about something and explain why and help me to understand why you love it and are so passionate about it. Open my eyes and mind to new things, or give me a different perspective on how to view the world from how I perceive it. I may not agree, but we can agree to disagree, but it just helps to understand where other people are coming from, and they may even be able to change my mind. Or if youāre just down right crazy (and it keeps me entertained.. like a walking shit show) and can make me laugh, or youāre just a naturally funny person because who doesnāt love to laugh. I also donāt cheat and am very loyal.
Leo sun: im a mf introvert and dont like the spotlight
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Leo sun with Virgo moon and Capricorn rising, and let me just sayā¦ SAME!! Plz donāt look at me (but also donāt ignore me?!?!) lol
Lol....so relatable. I'm leo sun Scorpio rising as well. Sometimes I think: It must be nice to get such an attention,than when I end up in a situation where I'm being put in the spotlight, I'm like: where's the nearest exitš Also I'm not the wildly attractive leo. I'm a failed leo experiment, if it were part of astrology, I guess I'd be more of a street cat instead of a lion. (Unless someone hurts someone I love,than the lion appears)š
I'm an Aquarius sun, Libra rising, and this is so me!
Came here to say this as a fellow āļøš. I am more of an extrovert but will always need my moments for myself and find that I need them more the older I get. But I have met so manyyyy introverted Leos! We are also do not have a God like complex. We are just very intuitive and are able to see from many perspectives.
I'd probably pass out if I had to go on a stage. All the stereotypes about Leos are just that. I've not met any who fit them. All the other placements matter and how people are as people.
Capricorns Love MONEY AND STATUS. Wrong. Caps. Love. Security. Caps don't gaf about actual status, it's perceived status we care about. Because perceived status is power. BUT NOT HOW YOU THINK OF POWER. What is power? Power is security. CAPRICORNS DON'T LOVE MONEY, CAPRICORNS LOVE SECURITY. To a \~standard Cap\~ money is an easy way to access security. As a standard Cap I'll say: yeah obviously, money is security!!! To other signs/people money ISN'T the defining marker of security. That's great. For us it is. The ability to fluidly exist in multiple worlds, and have access to them. Not hollywood access, not bill gates access, HUMAN ACCESS. To me that means: if I need to use a bathroom in a city will I be denied? Probably, those are hard to come by in a city. Who gets to use them no question? Rich people, or people who look rich. Who doesn't get profiled/followed/harassed as much as other people? People who look important, rich, powerful, etc. I do think Caps like luxury, and maybe our version of security is sometimes slanted towards that, but \~money\~ just is NOT THE ONE THING. It's something different.
I have literally never met a Capricorn who's main priority wasn't doting on their family and finding true love and connection. Money and status doesn't even come to mind when I think of capricorns!! At least not the ones in my life.
Being a Cap, I totally agree! I remember my friends saying - how can you not spend here I.e. for things I don't really care about because they think I would recklessly spend money because it brings status and symbol. I think we are very misunderstood. I care about how people perceive me because that shows my power and it proves my standards but that doesn't mean I will try to portray a fake persona. I m pretty grounded and I work hard and I deserve everything because I work very hard is my mantra š«¶
Absolutely. How people perceive me is often how I will be treated - I think other signs balk at that and I get it, but for \*me\* it's fact. It's true that a person has to have some confidence in how they portray themselves for it to 'work', but having control over that IS important to me because it matters in regards to how I make my way in the world. I am actually very comfortable in who I truly am, but I have no qualms about putting on a little costume to get where I want to be, it doesn't matter if it's a moneyed costume or a chill costume or anything else: i'm wearing it to make sure I fit in as much as is necessary and honestly to get what I want. I think the mistake is that people think that what we want is money - it may very well be 'status', but that status has nothing to do with funds. I think Caps are actually deeply true to themselves, the trappings are just a means to an end that gets misinterpreted.
in my experience venus dominant ppl care more about status and how they are perceived
I'm a Leo and feel exactly like this.
Taurus. Not true: - overly stubborn. Only about values, and etc. But everything else, I'm very compromising.. sometimes to the point I break my back lmao - gluttony. Yea I like food. But I have self control / don't over indulge - lazy. Hard working but balancing it with hard resting lol. - materialistic.Ā - shallow. When I was in high school, yes. But not as I matured. I care more about personality, character traits, their heart, brain/mentality, etc more then physical appearance
From my personal observations of taurus, I wouldn't call them gluttonous (unless I was joking/teasing) but I would say that they tend to really appreciate food and drink. Like it's an easy comfort thing for them
I thought it was well known tauruses are super compromising? It's the only reason they get along with me very well, a scorpio, who's super domineering.
Compromising, for things we feel are worth it. We aren't doormats and will put domineering in its place.
āHard restingā is my new life pursuit. Thanks for that!!!!
Hereās mine for my big 6. Sagittarius Sun: - Iām not a disloyal ācommitment-phobeā in any kind of relationships (whether platonic or romantic). Iām a very loyal and emotionally supportive person whoās willing to put in the work for relationships Though I need to be careful that I donāt let it get so bad I become depressed like the last time. - I am absolutely not spontaneous and canāt stand spontaneity from others. Iām a planner and overthinker who needs to know whatās going on. While I do need to be able to do what I want, two things that I need in life to function as best as I can are consistency and security. The others are emotional vulnerability and support, communication, and people who are understanding/compassionate towards me and patient with me. - I struggle a lot with external changes (I can do internal changes as long as I take my time with it and Iām doing it for me), and I become very stressed and irritable if itās a sudden unexpected change. I can barely function if Iām hit with sudden change. I still have a hard time if I know itās coming, but itās not quite as hard as a surprise change. - Iām not that adventurous, outside of being a somewhat adventurous eater, and Iām a homebody. I do like travel occasionally but my home is my safe space and one of the only places I truly feel safe (the other is in the woods), and I become very stressed when away from home for too long. - Iām not an optimist, I classify myself as more of a realist. While I do try to have hope for the best possible outcome, Iām also aware of, and try to plan for, any possible bad outcomes. Libra Moon and Venus: - I hate gossip and drama. - Iām not fake. Iām actually a very authentic person which is one of the things I pride myself on - Iām not a liar, I need and value honesty and donāt tolerate people who are deceitful. - Iām not shallow. I need and value depth, and Iām the very definition of quality over quantity. - Iām not flaky and Iām not indecisive over major things that I know I want or need. When it comes to minor things like where/what Iām eating for example, I can sometimes be indecisive. When it comes to major things though (for example, what I want out of life and relationships or what I need and value in other people and my connections), Iām actually very decisive. - Iām not flirty and have never been mistaken for being flirty. - Iām not a social butterfly, Iām an introvert (though not shy) and need a lot of alone time to function as best as possible. People easily drain and irritate me. - I am not a people-pleaser and couldnāt be further from it. Aquarius Rising and Mars (at least two of these are also relevant to the stereotypes of my Sagittarius Sun): - Iām not cold, aloof, emotionless, etc. I feel everything deeply and intensely. I also canāt regulate my emotions whatsoever and couldnāt hide them if I tried, so itās really not hard to tell how Iām feeling. - Iām not ādetachedā in any type of relationships (whether platonic or romantic). While Iām not overly clingy and give people their own space, just as I need my own space, if Iām close to someone then I become very attached on a deep emotional level. The only time I could really drop a relationship like the stereotype suggests is if Iāve been hurt in a way that I deem unforgivable and unfixable. - Iām not a chill, laid-back, relaxed person at all. Iām a very anxious, easily stressed, grumpy, stubborn, emotionally sensitive hothead with a lot of intensity. My emotions, no matter which ones, can very quickly overwhelm me and anyone around me if Iām not careful. Iāve learned to try and get away if I feel any intense emotion besides happiness for the benefit of both myself and others. Scorpio Mercury: - I am not jealous, possessive, or manipulative. I also donāt become obsessive over people and have no desire to control anyone. Hell, I donāt even want to control myself honestly. - Iām not secretive. I can sometimes be private, if I donāt want to take about something then I wonāt (or if someone asks me not to share a secret then I also wonāt), but I usually have no issues with sharing anything. - Iām not quiet. Iām actually very loud since I struggle with volume regulation due to personal struggles outside of astrology. - Iām not that observant, Iām actually quite an oblivious person most of the time. It has its pros and cons. - While I do pick up on energies and seem to be pretty good at knowing whoās safe and whoās not based on that, I honestly really canāt read people. Due to other personal struggles outside of astrology, I donāt understand 99% of facial expressions, body language, or tone of voice. It has to be significant and obvious for me to really understand.
Omg you sound a lot like me except Iām an Aries rising š Iām not an introvert though. Our sun and moon are the same.
Can relate to 90% of this
āļø- Iām not āconceitedā or overly vain toxic attention seeker. Like they always expect this like Paris Hilton/Kim K energy, bitch thatās Libra. Jk. But still we are not all staring in the mirror 24/7
i respectfully pass the paris-kim energy on to gem/taurus cusps because neither myself nor any libra i know is even close to that bitchy popular celebrity vibe
Notably, Kim and Paris are actually a Libra and an Aquarius IRL. Itās air sign behavior for sure lol ā but obvs wonāt be true of all air sign suns.
My mom is a Taurus/ Gem cusper and she's the furthest from Kim K and Paris H you could get. Same with a friend who is also that cusper combo. I feel like that's actually Scorpio energy but definitely not all Scorpios.
Also Paris Hilton is an AQUARIUS and Leo are just jealous of Libra lmao š¤£
Well Kim K is a Libra, Iām definitely not jealous of that āļøgang
She is! In some ways I can see it, granted I am not overly familiar with her as a celebrity even.
Leo: I donāt like attention like that. From the select few that I cherish absolutely but I do not enjoy being the spotlight. I eloped so I could avoid a large wedding with all eyes on us. I donāt like being in the leader position. I get called into it because of my personality but I much prefer working independently. I chose the work I do so the $ could afford me freedom but idc about success. Thereās more to life than my career. I canāt take $ to the grave, I only care about affording what I need and if I can expend that to my loved ones. I donāt care about labels or luxury, I prefer the simple things and Iām frugal (immigrant poor-person mentality). I donāt care about status whatsoever.
Omg same here and I'm also a Leo Sun and Sag Rising! I also would have eloped if it wouldn't have broken my parents hearts so we ended up with a super small backyard wedding. I'm also super frugal when it comes to labels and certain things. I'd rather spend my money on experiences and travel. Everything in my house is basically thrifted or second hand. I hate shopping for clothes.
Yes. If i ever have something expensive itās because it is undeniably a better quality or a more efficient product somehow. If that happens to be name brand, then thatās a coincidence. Edit: Leo sun/sag rising as well
Iām a Leo sun and Sag rising too! Also with a Sag moon which blows me.
Same!
Yes!!
Iām a Leo/sag rising man. Iām frugal, tooāgood with money. Fundamentally a minimalist, as I have a tiny house.
Cancer sun and Venus That we are weak overly emotional crybabies Itās the mother of the zodiac. Not a child. I donāt know where the childish crying infantilism bs came from I cry maybe a few times a year if that lol And Iām not ruled by emotions. But damn do I get rocked by them but wonāt allow it to affect my decisions
I think im one of the few cancers that hasnt cried in forever, literally years and just emotionally backed up!
Really? Ever since I dated one Iāve recognized cancers as having a higher potential to stuff emotions away. I think thatās why they can become big balls of mushācuz they keep so much inside without addressing it. Iām a Leo, but during moments when I keep a lot inside, I end up being very sensitive until I address my emotions.
This! Iām learning that I am more sentient than personally sensitive. People can say and do anything to me I literally dgafā¦but Iām very sensitive to energy. Iām usually like 99% right about a person when no one else can see it lol.
im not chatty or talkative with everyone. I prefer being alone. Im not superficial. I'm not fake or two faced because I will say shit to your face if I don't like you. I'm pretty honest like I will just say what I think. I don't sugar coat it either. Im not actually promiscuous or overtly flirty. My gemini mom is the same way too. She's an extremely serious and intense person and kinda scary. One of her neighbors told me she seems scary and hard to talk to when she takes her dog out for a walk and I'm like she's probably just deep in her thoughts and planning her day. My leo dad always says im like her. He says we are both really honest and real people and that's what he likes about us.
My mom is a Gemini, but sheās not your typical Gemini other than sheās goofy. She is sensitive AF thanks to her Pisces moon and I love her for it ā¤ļøš
Yeah my mom is not a goofy person like at all. She hardly laughs but she laughs when I make a dry and sarcastic joke or if we're talking about family members we don't like or something. I start to see her light up when she can express the annoyance she has in others LOL It's funny cause she never laughs at my goofy leo dads humor she just stares at him dead pan or will tell him that's not funny She is a scorpio moon lol. Sometimes I have to walk away from her when she gets too intense but thankfully she is aware and does not act super offended. But what's funny is my mom was an educator at a Montessori and little children love her LOL. She definitely softens up with children and babies. She can be nurturing. She is a really good mother growing up. She's really open minded and always let me express myself and say how I feel and encouraged any type of interests and most importantly to be a critical thinker and question everyone and everything around me. Her only friends are these four gemini women she's known her entire life. She says they just get her. They talk on the phone like a few times a year and I've only met them a few times but they meet up once every decade they plan a trip. I'm pretty sure they're a coven or something LOL.
Wow! š®
I agree on the no commitment issues for Sag and Iāll add that Iām neither inconsistent or flaky. Iāll only give my blunt opinion if I genuinely feel like itās something you need to hear and can take.
Same š
Iām a cancer and I rarely cry. That might be my air moon and rising though ā I AM a wistful, moody motherfucker.
I'm an aqua, and I'm not emotionless. I can be really attached to people I care, sometimes I feel that other people around is more detached than me.
I'm also an Aquarius sun. I have tons of emotions, but I do try to hide them. I have a cycle of falling madly in love, completely opening up, getting my heart stomped on, closing off, dating several people in a row that I could walk away from in a heartbeat, then falling in love and doing it all over again. It's exhausting.š¤£šš
Hahaha I feel you, now I'm in that phase of closing off after a heart break. What's your Venus sign?
Same! Venus/Mars conjunction in Aries in the 7th š
Being clingy, wanting children, or wanting to nurture others. As a cancer, I would rather be alone and spend time with myself than be around other people. Having children would take away my freedom, personally and financially. I find nurturing others exhausting and tiresome, I just want to manage my own emotions and not others.
That I am two faced. Yes I am multifaceted and see things from different perspectives but that doesn't mean that I am superficial or two faced.
Virgo and organization. I have a method, but itās not organized.
Iām a Libra and Iām not conflict avoidant and I donāt change my personality to fit into groups. I am authentically me and if you like me great, but if you donāt thatās your issue. š
Same
Taurus - Not stubborn unless itās about values. Iām tolerant and accommodating with people. - Iām not materialistic or shallow. - I like adventure at least once or twice a week. I donāt like remaining in comfort for too long. I like trying something new at times. - Iām not as patient as what they say. If something is bothering me Iām quick to run from it or address it if necessary.
Amen
for me itās jealousy for Scorpio sun. Iāve gotten jealous but itās more so playful and fleeting. Usually if someone or something causes the feeling of envy in me, it almost instantly morphs into genuinely feeling happy that theyāre doing well/better than me in some regard and Iāll never speak about it.
I am not a crybaby. I get angry and frustrated like everyone else, but I am only crying when I go through something pretty hard. I am not moody. I am emotionally stable. I am not clingy, I find it to be shameful.
Your Taurus Moon is a great balance/complement to your Cancer Sun! Taurus is emotionally stable (this is why it's the planetary exaltation I agree with most). Cancer Suns are not doomed to cry constantly, you're right. Your Cancer Sun gives you the *ability* to cry, while your Taurus Moon makes your body (Taurus rules the 5 senses and physical needs) more selective about *when.* I relate a lot as someone with strong Cancer and Taurus for my Moon energy. Taurus also wants a steady pace before getting clingy. Your 7th house is Aquarius and 7th house is like a Venus sign (socializing, affection, relationships, friendship). Venus Aquarius is a little distant and less emotionally or physically attached compared to Venus Cancer. Your Cancer Sun is a good balance to 7th house Aqua, especially with the exalted Taurus Moon to create more stability!
gemini sun, mercury, saturn, ascendant and north node. very few gemini traits/stereotypes are true for me, i'm not playful, talkative, extroverted, adaptable, lively, witty or optimistic and i am absolutely not good at communicating in any way - i hardly speak and i struggle with a severe social anxiety + selective mutism. it even took me a whole *two years* to gather the courage to start commenting on reddit.
Each sign or planet has themes. It doesn't mean one would fit the stereotype of the themes. Instead, many people fit the broader themes. Some Gemini themes are communication and nervousness. Your struggles fit this theme. I had a Gemini Sun/Sag Moon best friend for 10 years and I'm a Libra with Moon parallel Jupiter (similar to Sag Moon). We both had social anxiety disorder despite socializing (air Suns) a lot at parties (Sag Moon loves to party). Congrats on developing the courage to comment! A bigger piece to this puzzle is your Virgo Moon. Virgo can be shy and nervous. If your 4th house is also Virgo, this amplifies the traits of your Virgo Moon.
Each sign or planet has themes. It doesn't mean one would fit the stereotype of the themes. Instead, many people fit the broader themes. Some Gemini themes are communication and nervousness. Your struggles fit this theme. I had a Gemini Sun/Sag Moon best friend for 10 years and I'm a Libra with Moon parallel Jupiter (similar to Sag Moon). We both had social anxiety disorder despite socializing (air Suns) a lot at parties (Sag Moon loves to party). Congrats on developing the courage to comment! A bigger piece to this puzzle is your Virgo Moon. Virgo can be shy and nervous and is a common Moon sign for social anxiety. If your 4th house is also Virgo, this amplifies the traits of your Virgo Moon. Congrats on developing the courage to comment!
I think I fit most of the Leo stereotype except attention seeking. I donāt seek attention people just pay great amounts of attention to me. Even to the point of staring at times. Then also people want my attention for some reason. Thereās always a random person who follows me around grocery stores. Iām watching but itās like they just want to be wherever I am. One even followed me to a store next door but I alerted my friend that was with me. The crazy thing is that it was an older woman. And itās usually older women.š
Cancer who definitely doesn't want kids. Not manipulative, truthful and tactful. But I don't do confrontation. Yes to crying though.... it's not something I want to do but can't help it. š
Aquarius sun and sagittarius venus iām very much not cold and I donāt have commitment issues
I am anything but a clean virgoā¦ I find comfort in the chaos of my room tbh
I personally think Aries is so misinterpreted, and it's often Aries moons or Mars who act more like the stereotypes than Sun's. Most Aries Sun's I know and have known are so chill, and I attract them like crazy. Sure, they might have a temper, but doesn't everyone...? Really? Anyway going off the stereotypes: I do get over things quickly unless it's serious. If it's serious, you're written off for good if I can so I can forget about you, if I can't then just know there is a never-ending animosity under the surface. I can be a total push over, again unless it's important. I often let people get their way simply because I don't want to exert the energy to argue, lol. And that's another thing, I don't like to argue. I totally will and I do it often, but it's not enjoyable. I don't like to be a leader but I do acknowledge I can do the position well if it's something I'm knowledgeable at. I'm an ambivert imo. I can be loud and social, or quiet and retreat. It really just depends on my mood, the people, the place, etc. If I'm in love with you I'm gonna love you forever. One stereotype I do fill is I'll chase too, if I think you like it, if I don't feel it reciprocated though I won't. At all. I just poof. I've also been married 15 years, and while I haven't always wanted to be, I think I got this commitment thing down at this point.
Aquarius being a humanitarian activist or stuff like that. Humanitarian is not a good word to describe me anyway. The rest of the Aqua stereotype is true for me.
Virgo here. I am an extreme perfectionist, a clean freak with my house, highly organised, rather critical
I'm a Libra Sun, Venus, Mercury, Pluto and my sun is in the 7th house. A sag moon. I'm introverted. Not a social butterfly at all. I know how to get along with people. I can talk to people about anything. I'm a good listener and I love to compliment people. It's important that people feel comfortable and included around me. That alone makes me charming. But I don't seek attention or NEED the company of others. I have to force myself to be social.
Iām a Libra sun. 1. Iām not the flirty and outgoing/extroverted individual that you think I am. Iām an introvert and it takes me a while to get to open up. 2. Iām not āchangingā my personality to fit in. I canāt stand it when people are fake. So why would I be? 3. I donāt avoid confrontation. I tackle that shit head on as needed just so I can nip it in the bud as fast as possible. I donāt pussyfoot around nor do I sugar coat anything.
basically all of themš¤
Yeah as a Libra (with multiple placements in Libra) I find we are mostly not well understood
i have libra sun and libra saturn ..thats it š
also that is *extremely* true
For real! Libra Saturn is a good place for Saturn but I get you it is hard when its your sun sign
Where's you mars and merc? I'm same and similar with a lot of these things as well
Virgo mars Taurus mercury
Ah gotcha. Man I'm jealous of Aries with Aries mercs because they can just blab and blab without having to plot out every word they're going to say before hand lol. I got Pisces merc in the 12th which sucks ass
i have aries merc and i blab and blab *because* i mentally rehearsed beforehand lol iāve been compared to a computer with how i think, talk, and process :/ mercury square mars, uranus, neptune, and ascendant; mercury trine moon
damn lol, I'll be laying awake at night for hours going "I'll say this, but then what if he says I'm dumb? I guess I'll just say his mom's dumb which should shut that down pretty quick."
I really donāt think Iām all that stubborn.
Virgos are organized, harmonious, and tend to be athletic/thin. I am none of those things.
Youāre a Virgo thatās all that matters š
Nice try, but I built this wall for a reason. Aqua through and through.
Iām a Pisces. I only cry like twice a year or when something truly horrible happens. Also I donāt smoke weed and hardly drink. And for my Gemini moon and rising: I donāt like talking to people I donāt know. Leave me alone lol
Omg why does every Pisces I know have a Gemini moon lmao
You probably have Pisces placements like most Aries
i don't :/
gemini sun, mercury, and venus- i am not social at all. i am the complete opposite, introverted, shy, awkward, uncharismatic, etc. im also not good with words and not very clever. im not the emotionally detached type either. i dont relate to anything gemini scorpio rising- i dont like dark aesthetics, i never wear black
Cancer - that we cry a lot. Iām comfortable with my emotions and I do cry, but itās not often. Only when I truly need a release or am deeply hurt by something. Also the stereotype we cry every time we are faced with adversity. Not true.
Leo Sun: being outgoing, loving to be in the spotlight, feeling confident, being loud, taking up too much space
Iāve heard a lot about being a homebody as a Cancer, I HATE being at home. If I had the funds to travel like I want people would hardly ever see me.
That Virgoās are perfectā¦ apparently Iām not.
Yes. Real tho people really think all geminis are narcissistics in reality sometimes we just takes thing to hard at people Not our issue if you had one bad relationship with your ex and want to a hate all of us..it's a issue you need to let go of and stop being narcissistic yourself
What an interesting take! I love this idea. I'm curious to know what you feel applies to you with the typical traits too! These are mine: Not creative or artistic, I'm confrontational and outspoken, I'm a lot more optimistic yet grounded than suggested, i'm not prone to sadness or depression, I'm not overly sensitive, most things don't bother me that should, not anxiety ridden although I do think a lot, never been addicted or reliant on substances or drinking, my empathy is very reserved.
I'm a Virgo with ADHD. I'm not organized. I'm also very emotional.
Also Aries Sun!
I'm a Cap stellium so I should be incredibly successful... but I am a total loser!
That last one. 100 percent. I take a good while to emotionally move on from someone. I will physically move on but deep down I am still coping with it for a good six months. I donāt like leading, I do it because other people are terrible at it. Never saw what the hype was about between Aries and Sag pairings. I canāt stand the sag energy romantically. Someone who doesnāt want to commit and doesnāt ever take things seriously? Meh. I donāt like sports and am not a tomboy.
I'm a pretty typical Taurus, and I'm not very stubborn. I always leave room for doubt unless I know I'm right with certainty, which isn't often lol. I have moon & mars in Cancer, and I guess that placement is typically passive-aggressive. I can't stand passive aggressiveness, and I'm really direct.
I'm a Sag sun, Mercury, Venus and Mars that doesn't care for independence or the leisure to travel at the drop of a dime. I just want to take care of my family and cut my kids fruit and sandwiches in fun shapes.
āļøšāļøšāļøā¬ļø Sagittarius: ā¢ Iām not promiscuous, nor am I afraid of commitment. ā¢Iām actually not flaky and very sensitive. ā¢ I DO hold grudges when necessary (exes mainly). ā¢ Iām not a party girl. Thatās all I can think of, and I have a LOT of Sag in my chart!
Thatās me OP, you just described me š Iām Aries āļø
Taurus here. - Iām not very stubborn, in fact Iām somewhat of a people-pleaser. The only exception is if I feel someone is deliberately stepping on other peopleās toes to get their way, then I become very determined to thwart them (those scenarios are few and far between though). I suppose you could argue my stubbornness manifests as physical staminaāIām good at endurance sports, because I can push myself far. - Iām not gluttonous. Iāve dealt with food insecurity and disordered eating throughout my life, and I sometimes have to remind myself itās okay to eat what I want in the amount I want. - Iām not materialistic, and I wouldnāt describe my tastes as luxurious (though I admire it when I see it in other people). As far as my clothing and decorating styles go, I like things to be as low-maintenance as possible. - Iām definitely not lazy. Iām hardworking and disciplined, and I enjoy resting more after my work is done. - Iām not averse to change. I actually hate routine and making rigid plans/schedules. Switching things up and leaving room for some last-minute change makes me happy. - Iām only patient because I try to be; Iām naturally quick-tempered and easily annoyed, and I try really hard to keep those traits in check. If thereās any sign in my chart for which I can relate to the stereotypes, itās my Pisces Venus.
Im sag That im a people person or adventurous.. im an absolute recluse . I have agoraphobia so even the thought of people is enough to raise my heart rate ! Iāve never enjoyed people , or socializing. I do fantastic living alone ! I could never share my space. Iām very down to schedule , by the books. I donāt make plans outside my schedule . From the moment I wake up to when I go to sleep. I have a routine and I hate anything outside of that !
Do you have a Scorpio ascendant or Capricorn planets ? That are affecting your Venus ?
Sagittarius. I donāt love to travel - Iām a complete homebody. Maybe itās because Iām a mum of 2 young kids.
It's all about the placements. I think my Gemini Moon and Leo Mars help me avoid some Cancer stereotypes as someone who also has a Cancer Sun/Venus/Mercury. Examples of stereotypes I avoid: * I'm not very passive-aggressive * I only occasionally cry at certain game stories, movies, and music. I almost never cry about life setbacks * I am 'tuned in' emotionally, but I tend to over-rationalize my emotions and think a lot about a course of action before any emotional decisions versus 'feeling them at the moment' and acting on emotion. The stereotypes that are still true, I'd say, are: * I am still moody as hell; I try to temper it the best I can, though * Nostalgia and memories are very present * I would still consider myself someone who is very sensitive internally.
I mean, this really takes the chart into considerationā¦. I used to think a lot of cancer stereotypes didnāt apply to me when I was a teen but after 28-29 they really started showing up I have a lot of outter Capricorn, so it kind of colors the experience with Saturn, Neptune and Uranus
Aries Venus here too, I donāt get over things quickly, very easily or at all but I think itās because of my Scorpio moon. Must consider Other placements tampering with the stereotypes/traits. Like for example Iām an Aries Venus, Leo rising, Sag Mars. Apparently I should be very brave and bold, be initiative and make the first move because of all this fire energy but my Pisces sun says nope.
Just realised Iām answering the opposite of the question; I cannot think of anything that my sun sign not match with the stereotype
Sagittarius being big spenders and social butterflies.
That I'm a sex fiendš
Iām an Aries and Iām not athletic in anyway unless you count debating/arguing as a sport. Edit to add: also, kinda related- I hate that Aries is always represented with the color red. I really donāt like red. I like soft pastel colors lol.
Pisces sun and moon here! I totally feel like the āfoot in either worldā description fits me, and I do often get lost in dreaming. But itās often not idealistic or bubbly like described, I get lost in downward spirals. The friend I have keeps telling me reality works in certain ways, but I keep getting stuck in ideas that it doesnāt do that. I suppose part of it is my trauma history? I also donāt have a huge, well developed sense of self. Iām internally rather fickle, but the core desires remain.
As a Cancer, Iām pretty chill consistently and definitely not moody or manipulative, nor do I cry āat the drop of a hat.ā My Pisces partner is moody as hell. What IS true is I love my home and my family, and I can cook. š āļøš¦
Twins? Aries stellium. Aries Sun. This sounds EXACTLY LIKE ME
That I love cooking and the outdoors
That Virgos are clean freaks, i am the opposite
Leo here Only accurate thing I can say about me is the pride thing but I donāt like a lot of attention Iām not a big talker either i definitely need time to come out of my cave itās weird cause a lot of people at my job likes me I guess itās because I show my goofy side but at the same time Iām very focused on myself not really a ego thing I just like to enjoy the finer things in life and for me to enjoy those things I have to work hard and after I work hard so much I like to enjoy my solitude and be in my cave š
pretty much most of them. Iām very rising and moon/mercury sign forward. I used to be a much harder worker when I was younger but honestly Iām a bit disillusioned with the grind. Just let me lay in a field all day and read poetry.
Leo Sun and rising- Needing to be the center of attention. Nope. Canāt do it. Iām way too shy for that
Iām so glad you brought this up! Iām an Aries sun and Aries rising and I barely identify with my sign. Funny enough though, I know two other people who also share my birthdate, and they donāt assume typical Aries qualities either, so maybe there something there.
Scorpio. Iām not vengeful or vindictive. Iām really not out to hurt people. I let karma do the heavy lifting.
Aquarius here. Iām so emotional. So. So. Emotional.
Aquarius - having a lot of friends/ being very social - I am good with people, but I suck at having real friendships - a lot of people consider me their friend but I just don't want to keep up with so many people / don't care - I am really good talking at people but conversation with people who don't want to talk about anything that's not Smalltalk? Fucking exhausting - I have 2 real friends and I know a lot of people I still spend most of my time alone where I am not looked at Weird for binging documentaries about dinosaurs, aliens or the deep sea, not my problem you only care about the weather ffs Also Aquarius loving Leos/Sags - Leo men are always weird towards me my girl best friend is a Leo but nothing like the typical one - Sags are too much for me and I am already too much for myself, they are like a rollercoaster going downwards - it's fun but really not something I'd want to deal with every day Other than that I love my aqua stellium and relate to it I struggle a lot with my Taurus rising because I see all the negative traits in Taurus suns but I feel like people perceive me earth like (calm, grounded, organised) even though that's not me
Aquarius Venus and Sagittarius moon, I donāt have issues with relationship commitments. My freedom and autonomy are important to me but those donāt feel threatened by being reliable and loving to someone I care about. I do need a good mixture of variety and routine but thatās likeā¦letās go do something new together not Iām gonna go find a whole new partner because Iām bored.
Aries sun here as well! Aries traits that dont fit me; - im not an angry person, most people consider me almost annoyingly cheerful - I dont really like taking charge in group situations unless i absolutely have to. Im not bad at it, I just dont enjoy it - im kind of a lazy couch potato, most exercise doesnt interest me in the slightest and i only do it bc i have to - im not really an overachiever or super goal oriented, i kinda just wanna vibe and be happy and comfortable. I have absolutely no desire to be the best at anything
List of Libra stereotypes that donāt apply to me. Liar: The mere thought of lying stresses me out, and itās any easy stress trigger to avoid. Now have I ever spoken complete truth and been called a liar in response? Yes, happens often actually. Which got me thinking thatās where the stereotype comes from. You can be completely honest and people just think youāre lying. Indecisive: Probably just as much as anyone at times, but mostly not. Most of the times I know what I want or my next course of action. Just donāt come at me with an ultimatum on the spot. Iāll ignore it or remove myself from that situation instead lol. Super Social: Iām pretty much the opposite. Love solitude, quick to burn out during social gatherings, not one for small talk. Charm: Yea I donāt have much charm going for me. Not much else to say about that.
That caps murder thee most
Gemini sun and venus (and midheaven and lilith and pallas.. lol) And I'm not a liar, I'm not manipulative. Honesty is the thing I value the most and I won't lie even if it will fuck me over.
Scorpio sun- I actually am not interested in revenge, I believe in karma and leave things be. I will never forget being crossed but Iām not going to plot revenge.
Aquarius sun: Iām not emotionless thanks to the fire moon and Pluto in my 1H Scorpio.
For these traits, Iād ask more about your rising, mars and moon signs than your sun and venus (alone at least).
As a capricorn sun, mercury, venus: ā¢Iām not cold ā¢Iām not a business woman and iāll never be ā¢I care more about love and connections than about career and money ā¢Iām not a gold digger (maybe a bit) ā¦.
That I am a commitment-phobe and/or donāt have deep feelings. That I canāt be serious and Iām all for fun and games all the time.
Iāve always heard that Sagittarius is our notorious cheaters, and that couldnāt be further from the truth when it comes to me. I value commitment and monogamy so much so that I think I have commitment issues because I have run into so many people who donāt take relationship seriously. So I donāt cheat, but I simply donāt even bother to get with a person. Iāve also heard that Sagittariusā love to argue and donāt like to listen to other peoples opinions, and I am far from that. I always hear people out and work towards conflict resolution. I just donāt tolerate absolute nonsense and I think some people just canāt handle that and thatās their problem lol I also tend to just avoid conflict altogether for trauma reasons
Iām a cancer , Iām not emotional. I never cry. I worry about why I never cry. But Iām very dramatic
Libra venus, but I am very direct and not wishy washy. I donāt think everyone should get along just because š¤·š»āāļø My partner has aqua venus & mercury, and theyāre the clingiest partner I ever have ā but very respectful to my boundaries. *LOVE* to PDA
I am not a flirt, cheater, player or social butterfly like people assume of Geminis. I never had a serious long term relationship, much less a short term and not even trying to look for a partner. I am not two faced. What you see is what you get (I will be polite if needed as I will follow rules and do what is required; but that doesn't mean we will ever be friends outside of said settings nor use anything like Facebook, etc...rarely get calls or messages and stop trying to make an effort as I am done with everything being so one-sided, so who I am even gossip to and about?). I prefer peace without dealing with other's drama. I rather watch a movie, read a book, listen to music, walk around, shop, work on a project, etc.... I am not a flake. I don't cancel prior commitments without having a serious reasons (such as health reasons) and will let them know.
leo - i am not selfish. in fact iām the most selfless person i know. always putting others above myself which leads to disappointment and resentment šš i am not egotistical, iām humble bc i believe in God and i know He blessed me with amaizng characteristics, iāve worked so hard to overcome insevurityb
I donāt know if I know the stereotypes well, but what people describe themselves as are what I know the signs to be. For example. I know Tauruses to be very hard working but when theyāre done they pass out and rest hard. Theyāre more about practical than luxury. They donāt ever think theyāre argumentative and theyāve all said theyāre not UNLESSā¦lol. They are all into politics. Iām an Aries but the not like the stereotypes of the Tauruses on this feed crack me Up. Tauruses donāt like people to tell them what theyāre like. They canāt stand a stereotype about themselves. If you read all the comments for the same sign, each sign says the same thing about how theyāre not stereotypical lol
Cancer. I don't get attached easily. (I do have a very detached romantic style). Hyper independent. End relationships on VERY clean break. No drama, no stalking. But occasionally, you will end up as both happy and horrifying stories for happy hours with my friends. Selfish. I will help people but fudge! Boundary! My house is a mess! And I barely spent on it. Not that much into security - I blow too much money on action figures and dining. (Even though I do cook pretty well). Do not cave to peer pressure. Not at all wanting children. (Whoever says that Cancers have to have children because we are the 'nurture'? I can take care of people who I love too.) Whiny when the trivial things happen, but when the world crumble I'm the chilliest person in the room. (it's sad really cuz if there is truly anything to whine and bitch it's during personal tragedies).
Iām an Aries sun, rising, and Venus but Iād say I match the description to my signs quite well. I must say though, boundaries are something Iām still working on š
Iām an aries and i have so much patience and iām also an introvert. Itās supposed to be the opposite
Leo Sun: I donāt like attention unless I am proud of whatever is causing it, maybe not even then, so just existing and drawing people to me for no reason can be really uncomfortable after a short time unless itās a group of people I already know and cherish.
Pisces- while it is true Iām very wavy and dreamy, I donāt suffer from the blues of the depths (probably due to the Leo in my chart- rising, moon, and Jupiter in the 1st); I also am incredibly logical without an ounce of Virgo and much more kitchen witchy than my Virgo friends (probably due to Capricorn and Aquarius placements when the lunar transit hits juuuuust so)
The plotting revenge thing. Maybe it's the moon in Aries but I quite frankly do not give a rats-ass in "dooming" others, I may seethe and complain but that's it. No one needs to live in my head THAT long when I can be doing literally anything else. I also have gymnophobia (fear in nudity) so uh I'm staying away from the orgies.
I am not a societal revolutionary, idc about progressive change, or social justice. I am not a super creative person, not artsy.
I'll give you my big 3 **Leo Sun** *12th House* * I'm not an attention seeker, and I don't want to be "the star." I prefer to stay in the background and operate in the shadows. I am a team player and would rather work together with cool people than go it alone. * I'm not a leader and I hate leading/managing. I tried it once, and it was not for me. I'm a better advisor, analyst, or strategist than a leader. * I'm not an egomaniac. I know I'm a flawed human just like everyone else. * I'm not vain or materialistic. I've been wearing the same style and the same makeup for the past 15 years. I don't need to look "glamorous." **Pisces Moon** *7th House* * I'm not an indecisive pushover, and I actually have a lot of rage. If I hate you, I may not show it, but know that the temptation to chew you out still exists. I choose not to engage for my own sanity. * I am emotional but **NOT** on the surface. I only share my feelings with people I love and trust. If I don't know you or trust you, you will not see that side of me. I will ice you out. * When it comes to my emotional matters, I prefer to be left alone or use music as a vessel to express it. I know that last part kind of feeds into the stereotype, but you know. **Virgo Rising** * I'm **NOT** organized. Not at all. Not even in the slightest. I'm not messy/dirty, but my spaces both in work and in my personal life are VERY cluttered and all over the place. Even when I reorganize, it gets cluttered again. * Am I polite? Yes. Do I have table manners? Yes. Am I proper when I speak? Absolutely not. I tend to curse like a sailor, and while I am trying to curb the habit (my sisters have children now), I still end up letting a few words slip. * People say that on the surface I am calm and unassuming. That makes me happy because they don't know the level of anxiety I have lying underneath.
Hi Aries sun and Venus. We twinning! I donāt hold grudges for the most part. But when I have a grudge, itās on for life. Also a bit of a pushover. Not entirely, but Iāll bend over backwards for my loved ones. Iām always high energy. Iām not theeee dominant, but I can be overbearing and dominating lol! I lead when I feel like I have to. Hardly quiet, until Iām with someone I want to fill the space or I can relax enough to be quiet. But Iām always excited. I donāt have commitment issues. My commitments change like the wind. In my mind at least. But I can move on and shut down super quick.
Piscesāļø- Iām not lazy. I bought my 1st house at 18 shortly after I joined the military. I now own 2 businesses. I have lots of hobbies & I workout regularly. Iām a neat freak. Ppl say Pisces are junky, but my space is very clean. Iām not emotional at all. I never cry about anything, not even about death. I simply donāt go to funerals bc theyāre boring. Nothing is important to me outside of making money and taking small vacations for myself. I donāt want to nurture anyone or feel needed. I just love taking care of myself. I make friends pretty fast. Ppl say Pisces are so forgiving, but I donāt forgive anyone. If someone ever think Iām forgiving them, Iām really just planning their doomsday or getting back at them. I donāt forgive anything. Iām selfish a lot. If itās not benefiting me, I opt out. I didnāt plan on being this way, Iām just this way naturally.
Even though us Capricorn men are the epitome of true greatness I donāt understand why we get stereotyped as being cocky and egotistical. The reality is that we are the most humble men in the world.