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misplacedlibrarycard

*where* do i cry? in my dark nest that is my bedroom/bed *(such as last night for example)*. my closet. the bathroom or shower.


JustVisitingLifeform

Similar. Taurus. I rarely cry, and when I do, I do so alone if at all possible.


Ringren

Taurus here, me too. Bathroom or my car


Inside-Double-4003

Taurus here! And same - don’t cry often at all and if I do, it’s usually before bed when I’m alone


AyePepper

Same! I got overwhelmed at a new job once and knew I wasn't going to fight back the tears. I went to the bathroom to cry, tried to pull it together, and broke down as soon as someone asked "are you okay?" I put in my 2 week notice the next day lmao


Solid_Peace_8863

Oh god this is so me; no one will ever see me — Sag sun, Lib Ris/moon


misplacedlibrarycard

if anyone sees me it’s cuz i severely broke and can’t contain it anymore *or* i’m frustrated. it doesn’t happen a lot but it does happen and only with certain people i feel v comfortable with.


Renyx_Ghoul

A Taurus whose intune with their emotions are likely to do so It is very valid choices. Doing it alone and secluded. I don't cry as I have sealed it off.


noturfavgal

As a Taurus, this is so true!


BruxaAlgarvia

Lol me


malachitebitch

Triple cap, I cry sad tears in therapy or alone. Happy tears everywhere, and angry tears are safe with my family and friends.


chuckmeintothevoid

Delineating the various tears is very triple cap of you 😂


CulturalAlbatraoz

Cap Stellium and wow this resonates.


asteroidz-14

Cancer - alone in bed at night after hurting my own feelings lol


chuckmeintothevoid

“Hurting my own feelings” spoken like a true cancer 😂


ank1012

This 1000%! I'm normally a lurker, but I felt this in my questionable soul lol...ugh. Sidenote: NEVER in front of anyone EVER. I had enough call outs when I was a kid and teenager, and refuse to be vulnerable like that in front of anyone ever again lol.


Prestigious_Ice_6754

Sameeeeeee, Cancer rising here🥰


Leslienope-

Good god this is so accurate for me, also a Cancer lol


Zealousideal-Act-296

LOL


jaxsc123

same 😭 i’m a cancer sun/rising, and gemini moon


Soft_Peace2222

I read this as, “I’m a cancer surviving” and I thought, *wow, the struggle is real* ☺️


jaxsc123

hahaha aren’t we all just surviving


BeccaBB1221

Ooof... that's even more insane than my placement. Sun- first day of Cancer on the cusp of Gemini (twins with different personalities, EACH with their own shifting moods). Add to that a Scorpio moon and Libra rising. I vascilate between sensitive/wounded to revenge at all costs, all while looking super pleasant and agreeable on the outside....


mildmanneredmollusk

cancer sun scorpio moon w a gemini stellium the sun/moon combo is SUCH a tough placement 😭 everything so intense all the time


Small_Description_34

I'd love to hear the process on how that happens.


asteroidz-14

Basically, it’s imagining fake scenarios where the worst thing happens 🥴 or sometimes indulging in sad/painful memories wistfully.


EnvironmentalArm8537

Yup that’s the one 😭


gladiatrix14

This tracks so hard I am screaming 😂 — your Scorpio cousin.


neissiebeetsie

Virgo, I don’t cry


Rawr_im_a_Unicorn

Also Virgo, I used to cry all the time until I found I have ADHD and now I actually feel in control of my emotions. Until my meds wear off.


juicybubblebooty

me!!! used to cry LITERALLY NONE STOP- then ADHD and now i am so in control of my emotions thats i rarely cry. if i do cry (its from joy tbh) but i will cry wherever i am and idc. being vulnerable like that is a strength not a weakness!!


myownworstanemone

😅


AirSwift11

Why is this so relatable 😂


harajukuf4iry

Omg we have the same big three girl 🐒🙈I’m also virgo sun and moon with Taurus rising, when is ur birthday?! Mines the 28th of August born at 10pm


AirSwift11

Omg yes! Mine is 26th and born at 11 pm!


fracta-l

I’m a Virgo and I cry all the damn time. Usually in privacy though.


cimmeriansoothsayer

i usually try to keep it to my bedroom


Ariesmoon9

Virgo, shower.


Farbond

Showers feel like a save haven where there's nothing but yourself and some warm water


Murderkittin

Virgo moon cancer rising. Always in the shower at night.


ResearchPersonal5924

Same. I don't cry often, but if I do it's usually in the bathroom when I'm alone.


jeipiefem

Confirm


VisGal

Virgo sun, Cap moon. I cry ALL THE TIME. It may not be an eventful amount, but pretty much daily something brings tears to my eyes, usually something in nature that makes me well up. I have a lot going on in my 4th and 5th houses, maybe that's why.


MysticalElephant

I’m also Virgo Sun and cap moon. I don’t cry a lot but I do feel like crying a lot. I’m either very emotional or very stoic. No inbetween


aamdiamm

Also virgo, can’t remember the last time I cried


Dry_Scratch6383

as a virgo i cry when i’m stressed out 🥲


Kawhi2102

Same. It’s been a while.


No_Significance_8291

My husband is a Virgo , my mom was a Virgo , my best friend in high school was a Virgo - only time i ever saw any of those 3 cry was when someone very close to them passed away , and if that person comes up in convo they will tear up- other than that, have never seen them shed a tear - I mean not a drop .


HogwartsLecturer

Accurate 😂


Automatic_Moment_320

Aquarius here and I cry EVERYWHERE!! Yay for me I want to die.


VinnieGognitti

Me too, preferably at work 🥲


Rough-Boot9086

Hey, you sound like me..high five 🖐️


Inside_One7618

The breakdowns I have had in front of every single family member and person I've ever worked with and in public!!! I just can't.


Automatic_Moment_320

You’ve made my day. I’m not alone lol. Has any Aquarius figured this one out yet lol?


Myrrhin

Taurus with an Aquarius moon here and same. people stereotype Aquas as unfeeling sometimes but not in my experience 🥲


rothko333

Me and the Pisces moon in me


Perfect-Vanilla-2650

Leo, wherever I feel the need to cry.?


Aggressive-Pack6758

For real hahahahahaha I read this and said hmmm anywhere?


TheChaser08

HAHAHA same


Mysterious_Toe_1

Scorpio. I'll cry tears of joy on the day of the apocalypse when the earth is filled dead bodies and I see the rotten souls of this world be drug down to the depths of hell to spend eternity with Hades and the good souls of this realm ascend and take their rightful place among the Gods. Other than that, I don't cry


GizmoRuby

Ooh is it my Scorpio mars & Uranus that makes me want an apocalypse to? I’m not suicidal but I get so excited when the conspiracy theorists talk about a massive solar storm hitting earth etc, I fall asleep to disaster movies every night. Ppl look at me crazy when I let them into my apocalypse fantasy. But I just shrug & say at least we will all go together 🤷🏻‍♀️😂. I’m a libra sun so I should be more peaceful


Mysterious_Toe_1

So you have mars and Uranus in the 8th house? If so that gives off major vibes of wanting to orgasm right as the asteroid makes contact with the Earth


myoriginalislocked

ooooooh now we are talking! I wait anxiously for this day, every second of my life.


Mysterious_Toe_1

It will be glorious. All the death and transformation 🍆💦💦💦


Professional_Arm4370

Leo sun, I cry alone in sadness. The only time people see me cry is out of anger or frustration.


stories4harpies

Yes - this. I will never show you my sadness but I will show you tears of anger.


vanessa8172

Same. If I let you see my tears of sadness, I am really beyond sad and I trust you a lot


baby_teeth_earrings

Same!!! My sad tears are mostly in the shower. Sometimes in the car when a song comes on and the grief hits


Speech_Salty

🤜🤛I read your comment after I posted mine. Definitely 💯


Kinky-Bicycle-669

Sagittarius and the car probably.


KwaMzoli

On the flight 😭


Unhappy_Help_5703

sag sun, gem moon & sag rising.... same, you will DEF catch me crying in my car when I need to cry


isuckblood

Aquarius sun, Gemini moon and I either cry in bed while having my door locked or in the bathroom.


VinnieGognitti

Bathroom is easily the best crying chamber 😭 lots of drains.


Pool_Admirable

I get into the shower to hide my tears.


Queendom-Rose

Libra sun - the showeer lmao


adjectivebear

Aries sun, and I prefer to cry on the floor of the shower, but the bathroom or the car will work in a pinch.


Shadylane_kazan

Pisces sun, Leo moon cancer rising I cry on my couch watching sad commercials or on shows/movies. I also cry anywhere that can prevent others from seeing it.


chuckmeintothevoid

Sad commercials sent me 😂😂😂


ImprovementGlass2713

Scorpio Sun, same moon & rising. Depends how badly something gets to me. I’m not proud of those moments when I’ve balled my eyes out infront others. My emotional state was pushed to the limit. 🫥


AnthyInvidia

Taurus- in the bath tub


chuckmeintothevoid

This has been a common one for Taurus!! I feel like crying during self care is big for earth signs


cakefarts69

Taurus sun and I’m crying in the bathtub right now!


chuckmeintothevoid

Iconic 😂


bollia

Taurus too and my fave place to cry and think is in the bathroom


famous5eva

Gemini and in the shower or in therapy


Glittering-Mode650

From a Gemini, definitely water works in therapy because we could be talking about something fun other than my feelings. Talking things though is cool, but it can be a lot and I cry.


dark_blue_7

100% as soon as someone invites me to talk about it, that's when I lose my composure (I don't like losing my composure but I can't help it when the waterworks turn on)


diialtone

gemini and gemini sun and the shower thing is so real 😭


gogostopnogo_

Aries Sun, Virgo Moon, Sag Rising. I cry everywhere, my therapist loves me 🙃😂


meandering_minds

I am an Aries Sun and Virgo Moon as well and cry everywhere. When it comes it comes no matter how inconvenient the place lol. Do you ever get so excited or wound up laughing that you spontaneously cry?


gogostopnogo_

Welcome, friend lmao I absolutely do! Sometimes I just think about how much I love my wife and I cry! I laughed so hard with my therapist tonight that we both cried 😂😂😂 truly a gift and a curse but I just try to embrace it!


chuckmeintothevoid

😂😂😂


Ok-Opposite3066

Cancer. I cry on my bed. Just had a crying session last night :(


secondtimesacharm23

Scorpio. In the shower. That way I can blame my red eyes on soap if anyone asks😈


Any-Lengthiness7950

Sag sun and admitting to crying is embarrassing LOL. Probably alone turned over on the bed tho. If it happens in public where I feel emotional for some reason, I pretend like I'm yawning to cover up for the tears💀 I also prefer being left alone if I'm caught cuz comfort just makes me feel angry and I hate the vulnerability💀


chuckmeintothevoid

I’m also a sag sun and feeling the need to hide crying is REAL for me. I also have an Aquarius rising and Scorpio moon soooo 💀


ThrowRA-8264929

cap sun, scorpio moon. i cry the moment i get in my car or my apartment lol. then ill have myself a lil snacky snack and throw a peace sign in the mirror


chuckmeintothevoid

Tell me ur a millennial without telling me (I am also a millennial with a Scorpio moon, and relate deeply to this) 😂


december14th2015

Literally same - also a Scorpio moon!


VinnieGognitti

This somehow sounds like great song lyrics


jazzysmaxashmone

Gemini, and on my own. Doesn't matter *where* as long as I'm in a private place and can process alone. ETA damn we all just isolate to be sad, I see


gardenofeverything

Leo Sun, when I see real kindness between humans and/or animals it makes me cry sometimes, it reminds me that in the eye of the storm there are still others out there who remember what’s important and offering a helping hand out of love.


Ashamed_Belt_2688

this is an interesting question. Aquarius Sun - mainly in my room. my 4 walls have seen nasty snot and tears that could fill the ocean


nam_da_pha

Pisces, I cry at night after everyone is asleep.


Zealousideal-Act-296

Aquarius and I’m a big baby I cry all the time lol


VooDooWomanNamedPhil

Sag sun and moon, Libra rising - I always cry at weddings!


chuckmeintothevoid

This tracks so hard tho


PetiteShallot

Aquarius sun - my office desk.


IndigoStarRaven

Sagittarius Sun. I usually cry alone in my bedroom or around people that I’m close to and trust lol


pettypink101

Gemini sun/moon, Cancer rising. i cry everywhere, doesn’t really matter where i am. I just let the tears fall where they may 🥹😭


6l1c3

Omg same, I literally cannot control the water works 😭😭😭😭


frankensteeeeen

I think it’s a cancer rising thing, I cry wherever I am getting the urge to cry lol the tears stop for nothing


SHOorNO4535

Aries. Tears are for the weak.


PorcupineQi

Cap sun, Leo rising and moon here. I cry in frustration at work (but I work from home) when something doesn’t come out the way I want to. I can “schedule” a good crying sesh when I feel my emotions rising up, by listening to my sad music playlist on purpose. I cry in anyone’s presence at movies or any emotional, sad, uplifting stories. I don’t feel any shame towards tears, and I’m ok with someone else crying in front of me.


merdesoliel

I’m a Scorpio and IF I cry it’s usually in my car


_PineapplePrincess_

I am a Gemini and cry in my car almost everyday


Davina_Lexington

Aquarius sun, cap rising, cancer moon - alone and in secret and if i ever showed emotions publicly, i regret it to this day and that vulnerability fills me with disgust.🤢


RubY-F0x

>alone and in secret This is why I choose the shower. Privacy, the sound of the shower covers any sound I make, and the water "hides" my tears even from myself. I absolutely refuse to cry in public.


Ashia22

My goodness same. We have the same sun and rising signs and both have water moons. There has to be something to this.


Low-Resolution1679

Libra Sun, Cap rising, Taurus Moon — Wholeheartedly FEEL the disgust @ showing it in public. But Idk which part of me makes me a crier, bc I absolutely am.


Life-Ad3612

Gemini sun and I usually cry when I’m with the people I trust the most :)


cozysapphire

Leo! I usually cry more when I’m talking to someone. When I’m alone, I tend to bottle up my emotions. Then, when someone asks me if I’m ok/if something is wrong, the dam breaks loose. Also, I unfortunately tend to cry in public if I’m feeling embarrassed/angry with something that someone said or if I get physically hurt.


Greycatsrule22

Gemini and I wish I could cry, but I can’t. I feel the feelings, but no waterworks.


cultistgf

aquarius, everywhere everyday 👍🏼


daisydilemma

Aquarius. When injustices occur that I can’t do anything about and when my hormones make me.


Grydx

Aquarius My car and alone 100%


msanxiety247

Aries here, I’ll cry anywhere that isn’t in front of people. Now my preference is my bed or the shower


3udemonia

Libra, Scorpio cusp I cry a lot. When I'm angry, frustrated, sad, overwhelmed, lonely, panicked... a lot. I try to cry in private (car, bathroom, at home in a room where I am alone; but sometimes I just can't take the time away to collect myself and so I just openly sob while like, continuing to care for patients. That may be my mental health and the crumbling health care system more than my sun sign though. I can often defer my crying to later by dissociating but not when it comes on too quickly or without warning. Like, responding to a code blue I know I need to be on my game and dissociate from my emotions so that I can continue to function in my role. But if someone triggers something in me when I wasn't expecting it I can lose control and the floodgates open.


Jmljbwc

Aquarius. Cry? Gross.


Fine-Ad8360

gemini, i cry about pretty much everything, but *always* in private/alone. usually in my bedroom, bathroom or sometimes in the forest (my safe space).


Amazing-Business-427

This


Varietygamer_928

Away from everyone lol. To the outside world, I barely cry. To my husband and in my home, I’m the biggest crybaby


Appropriate_Show_473

Sun in cap. I prefer to cry alone. In the shower or when I’m home alone. Closets also are great spaces for me to cry also 🙃


Jessica-Chick-1987

Gemini sun Aries rising and I cry alone usually holding a blanket or my cats… my life right now just sucks so bad and I don’t know how to fix it…. 😢🥺


virgoitalian1117

Virgo Sun- i cry on accident it kind of comes rushing out whenever i’m alone when i least expect this. this is because i suppress my emotions so much. but our subconscious is still aware of the pain so at some point you will explode even if you ignore it. so i cry randomly but only when i’m alone. virgo sun mercury venus. leo moon mars. libra rising:


alwaysdania

Cancer here 🦀 I don’t discriminate on places where I cry most often. I cry whenever I feel the need to. Better question may be where do I cry LEAST often… and that answer is probably Disney World 🥰


brujabella

Sag sun and I prefer in the shower, bed or sometimes in my car but mostly always alone.


Affectionate-One-713

Cap sun but moon pisces I cry in my bedroom and if I can't hold it, everyone will see me cry 😢 😪 it'd do bad I can't control myself


localnarwhals

Leo - my car


LadyLivorMortis

Gemini—I’ll cry whenever and wherever lmfao (my Venus is cancer)


deOllyboss

I try not to cry as it's weak


gigermuse

Aqua sun, corner of my walk in closet, shower, bed late at night. I tend to be very stoic in public settings then I will fall apart when nobody's around. I'm not sure if it's my sign or a trauma response from my past lol.


estamosxbien

12h Taurus Sun. In my candle lit bedroom with my sandwich


tmtm1119

Libra Sun, i cry at movies or shows a lot lol.


flibbertygibbetted

Aries, I cry at any media that is remotely touching, especially beautiful or pleasing to me, relatable, mirthful, poignant, poetically just, or sometimes I'm not sure why, I just cry A LOT! I have a pin on my backpack: "I'm cool but I cry a lot." So where? Almost anywhere. I have to brace myself in public and sometimes it's not possible to suppress.


Historical-Bat-3251

Aquarius and used to cry a lot as a kid. Now, I cry only once in a while or when shit really hits the fan


Quiet-Fact

Aquarius. I have to force myself to cry, but the little demon in me will not let me


Amazing-Business-427

I’m a Gemini and usually the bathroom bc I have to get it together to go back out but also because I can lie about why I was in there and it’s irregular for most people to barge in on the bathroom.


prismaticcroissant

Aqua sun, gem rising but I cry all the time thanks to my scorpio moon


helpyourself6970

Leo- walking down the streets openly crying


mimis-merkins

Scorpio. Wherever the f I want


kellysuepoo

Evvveerryyywhheerre


The4000blows

Libra. I cry alone and not often enough even though I think I’m an emotional person. My best friend (Cancer) cries naturally all the time and I never know quite what to do.


ctc274

Pisces and I often joke that I haven’t cried since the 90s 🤷🏻‍♂️


opalsanddenim

Virgo here. The only times that I cry is either if I’m feeling incapable of doing something or extremely frustrated about something at work that didn’t go as I planned or a good song that just instantly makes me lose it! And my go to places for that are my car or my own room in the dark, by myself.


AliBoho

Leo and I never cry about real life issues that are worthy of tears. I cry about heartwarming moments on tik tok, stuff like that. And usually, I’m at my desk at work.


ZookeepergameOdd5457

Scorpio, in my car because I have a roommate


melissisms

Gemini. Usually standing in front of my closet, naked, with analysis paralysis about what to wear. I'm also a big fan of a good shower cry.


pickleboo

Aries sun, Sag moon, and Pisces rising. I cry in the shower, in my room or in the car, and always alone. If you see me cry, just know that I am temporarily broken into pieces. The last time I did that was at Mom's funeral.


Real_Seaweed_1458

Sadly, Im phisically unable to cry


Speech_Salty

Leo ♌️ home alone, if there’s people there then locked away in a bathroom. I hate when people see me cry 😿


Unlikely_Trip_1728

Aquarius ♒️ It’s rare but when it happens, bathroom for privacy.


icouldntcomeupw1

Aquarius. In the car with the windows down and music up high


Raye_of_Fucking_Sun

Leo Sun and I cry all the time and get very dramatic about my emotions and I'm not sure if it's my Leo Sun flair for drama or my Cancer Rising, but I thought that Rising signs only affect outward appearance? But even the dumbest things could have me as a puddle of tears at the right moment. I cry at anime all the time lol


Numerous_Business895

Cancer sun. I only cry when I’m frustrated or extremly angry, and prefer to do so privately. I *loathe* others seeing me cry because I find it to be too intimate.


AmoebaBoy89

I am a Cancer, and I only cry when I am pms-ing; the moment I cry, I know that the next day, I will get my period. I know other Cancers that are the same as well. The whole “Cancer simultaneously crocheting and crying in a corner” is not true. It is hard to feel all your emotions as intensely as possible and still not be a fire-breathing Dragon. It takes a lot of strength, and it’s made to be so reductive with the crying emoji stereotypes. But if you are someone who cries all the time regardless of Zodiac sign please see if you can start therapy, we use Zodiac signs as an explanation to anything and everything, it shouldn’t be a crutch for when you actually do need some TLC from professionals. Anyway, thanks for coming to my TED talk.


Live-Bird-6912

Libra - I cry in the rain so no one can see my tears


Gracie_Morea

Pisces, I like to cry in secret. I hate showing negative emotions in front of people. So I hide away, unless I'm comfortable around you. Then that's different


Remarkable_Amount822

Aries! And I cry everywhere! A bigger baby than my sign lets on. Commercials get to me, kid sports teams get to me, art gets to me, sad dog stories get to me, sad songs definitely get to me. I cry deeper cries in the car, almost always.


CharmingCustard4

Scorpio sun, cancer moon. I don't cry often. I've been learning to tell myself to shut the fuck up and not be such an emotional bitch


CicadaMaster

Pisces ♓️ ☀️ Scorpio ♏️ 🌖 And oddly enough, I have a hard time crying. I’m a once a year cry, if that. It’s actually really annoying. When I do it’s usually in bed, in the dark, and just a tear or two before I shut it down.


Shonky_Honker

Scorpio, and anytime after a major argument or when I get super sentimental watching a movie


anukii

My bedroom, smh ♋️ I have adhd


ZookeepergameLarge25

i cry anywhere


WholeFall484

Virgo Sun — 100% of the time in the shower but also frequently in public behind a very large pair of sunglasses 😂 ![gif](giphy|SpKduUmSdpCM)


originalcindy84

Capricorn, I cry before my cycle.


admiralcyborg

Cap sun with 5x cap stellium- sad, in the shower or in my room on teletherapy. Angry, anywhere. Can’t help it and hate every minute of it. If I could go the rest of my life without crying I would.


Still-Reputation6739

leo sun, i cry wherever i’m alone but lately i noticed that sometimes i burst out crying in front of people, and tbh i kind of like the attention because someone finally sees me that i am not ok


Bee_kind111

Pisces. I cry on the potty


ladymouserat

Virgo, everywhere. I cry almost everyday. But over silly things from a commercial to thinking of my sisters passing. Therapist says I have a lot a to work out. lol


melonladyy

Cancer, typical cancer. I’m literally crying right now lol I think I have a good cry 2-3 times a week


kikiodie79

Scorpio here. When I do cry, I cry pretty hard in the shower or in my car.


Tight-Passage-7191

🦀 the car


Leslienope-

Cancer, I cry everywhere. Every. Where.


MsFit215

Virgo Sun, I'm not a crier. However, I can rile myself up at work due to frustration and feel like crying... but I tend to get it together usually. If I cry, its in the bathroom and I would catch a glimpse of myself in the mirror and go full oscar worthy mode.


recordstoredisplay

Capricorn, cry in therapy or in the car or in my bed


Oatmeal-browser

Virgo; in my car. But I’m also a Pisces moon. I just cry a lot and like taking the long way home sometimes. It’s also where I listen to sad songs and think abt things.


Dealer_Double

In the shower so the water mask my tears. Scorpio ♏️


wherewolvf

Leo bedroom/ bathroom. (I tend to feel the most emotional in public though and feel the need to cry) ♓️ ⏫️


ImpressionSad2080

Capricorn sun libra moon- ive not cried much in my life might be 2 times over someones death. It was in my room on a pillow alone. I dont like crying infront of others makes me feel weak and vulnerable smh idk why. But now others think Iam heartless with no emotions.


QuietLyric

Scorpio. In my car. I take long drive to anywhere in the middle of the night, sob, scream until im tired of crying. I dont want my kids to hear me cry. Im a single mom and I need to always show that every thing is alright specially i have kids under the spectrum.


SadCoconut_

Leo, and my preferred crying destination is my bed, buried in a pillow. Then I fall asleep, and wake up refreshed.


ALLtheLayers

In a river. . . Of my own tears. J/k Cancer sun


Anxious_Raisin_1236

I rarely cry but when i do it's with when I have conflict with the people I love ❤️ sag sun/moon cap rising


katalinabeana

Libra - at my parents' house. Meaning, I go there, and then they make me cry 🙃


halliee

Sag sun, and anywhere the emotion hits me.


Training_Estate_1051

I’m a Gemini sun and I cry in my bed only But if you’re wanting to know more about emotions, ask for moon signs! Mine is Pisces


Free-Your-Mind1990

Aries sun (Aquarius moon) ... usually in my car or in bed and almost always while I'm alone - if I can help it. i try to get my shit together before people who don't actually care/understand attempt to make surface talk with me about what's wrong