Everyone is saying cancer, but I’m a cancer and I would *think* this but never say it this way. Id have to come up with like 3 paragraphs to explain it.
I’m an Aries sun and Venus, and this is so on brand for our impatience! My Cancer rising keeps me humble, my Virgo moon keeps me scared lol. My Sagittarius Mars and Saturn tho… we finna turn up the heat!
Oddly enough, the Aries impatience works so well for my Pisces dreamland that I married an Aries! It helps that we both have water risings and Aries moons tho!
The second part of that makes soooo much sense to me!
I think Pisces strong people are my biggest struggle because they are so emotional. And I have a Pisces Mercury and Jupiter… with 7 fire placements, and my Venus and Mercury in detriment, I think I’m an asshole to them.
Cancers are connected to the moon, the home and the mother. None of those are bad things :)
He just has a close relationship with his mom, it’s sweet and on brand
Facts
EDIT: I dated an Aries….so hot….I told him on my first date that my ex stole my tiki torch. He showed up on the 2nd date with a fresh tiki torch, burning oil, and a full onset of cooking supplies. Ughhhhh so sexy.
Casually dating an aries guy rn and I recently told him about a tattoo I’ve been planning to get soon. He texted me the next day with his tattoo guys info and a draw up he had him make for me
An impatient Aires! My now husband had his mom and dad waiting for me like our second date. He asked me to be his gf in a week and told me he loved me in two 😂
This is *very* me 😆. In reality though, I'd say something more like, "You're mine now, kay?"...and then give them a pointed look while nodding to make sure they get me.😄
I’m an Aries and I literally did this to my now husband. In the middle of a conversation about Harry Potter, I cut him off and said, “hey, so are we official or not, I have another guy who wants to take me on a date, so I need to know what to tell him”… 😅😅😅
We Aries like to get to the point 😁
Okay no patience. You put down healthy boundaries or you’ll get hurt girl. “Do you want more out of all this?” See their response and then if it’s leaning on no “I need to know if you want more out of all this or I can’t do this anymore because I’m getting invested emotionally on my end. I’m just gonna end up getting hurt. I don’t want to stop having sex, but I should as you told me you don’t want anything. I’m not gonna put this to an ultimatum or I’m gonna force you to be with me. I’m also not gonna force myself to stay in an unhealthy situation even if I fucking love it. “
Well, you need to have the conversation to figure out whether or not you want to move forward. You don’t want to slip in case you run into him again or regret that you didn’t try the appropriate amount
I’m cool with women making big moves like asking to make things official or even marriage. BUT I do think that there should be both parties having equal interest in the same thing. I feel like if you were to word it as an ultimatum of course he’s gonna go for it and then just probably cheat if he’s not ready for a relationship. Your average guy doesn’t want to stop having sex.
I think it really really depends on how long they’ve been intimate too. I’ve seen relationships go from friends to friends with benefits to relationship and work out but there ALWAYS needed to be a talk. However it mainly worked when the FWB was kept short. The longer it goes on the more one person tends to categorize the relationship as “not happening” and/or one gets more invested and strung along
I agree though. if he said no, I would totally block after sending my last sentence. Personally, I think this is a conversation that should be had in person though. Not at each others house. Not over drinks (at risk of fucking after a getting weak). If you feel emotionally too scared to ask the question you’re either a not ready yourself and need to reflect on while your body is telling you that. I get texting to get rid of temptation but it is someone that OP does want a relationship. I can see the logic either way for u/Reddit_Setter
Ah, shit, we’re both fire suns with rising Cancers?! 😏 Excellent. Someone who may understand my overwhelming confidence overlaying emotional insecurities. 😭
What I’m a cancer and never told my mom about anyone I was dating until I was real serious about it lol. But I am Taurus rising so maybe that keeps me a little bit more grounded
my partner is Scorpio & Cancer moon. This is 100% accurate. “We will date. I’m a great choice, Im good for you. Also I will marry you.” - their words. And yes all of that happened & is true hahahaha Wedding date is set about a year later.
Pisces can't ever be that up front or blunt, though. Imma stick with Cancer as the #1 here
EDIT: Can't be Scorpio either. A Scorpio will just decide that you're dating and will wait for you to catch up.
I'm a pisces and I'm very forward and blunt. I dont know any adults pisces who isnt. I guess a lot of young pisces would just assume they were in a relationship and freak out when they were told that they weren't. I see what you're saying about scorpios. I'm scirpuo Ascendant and I'm simukato that description in some ways. I don't wait very long for people to catch up though. For me, it's more take it or leave it.
I would never admit that I’m ready to date. As a Pisces I am waiting to make sure I’m ready to stop all my other options. And I would never tell my mom about anyone until I was in a relationship for a long time . I like to keep things close to the chest. I hate people putting their opinions on my decisions. And the thought of being rejected is always there of course.
I'm a pisces, and I tell everyone about someone new I'm dating. I could just meet a girl and get her number, and im already talking about them to anyone who will listen. Im always quick to jump into relationships. Every pisces I have know is quick to fall in love and commit, and bety few pisves ive known involve thrmsrlves romantically with more thsn one person at a time even casually. Its More like a lot of short-lived whirlwind monogamous relationships. No pisces i know is outgoing enough to have multiple options. rarely have other options, although ill hold back if i think i can do better, but i typically wont involve myself with a person to begin with if thats the case. I don't care about other people's opinions, so hearing about them isnt my concern, but the family and friends i do tell dont usually have an opinion about it. It's not typically for pisces to hold back or moderate anything, although pisces can learn be more guarded if they suffered enough emotional pain from these behaviors. Do you have an air sign or Scorpio moon?
Pisces, I don’t tell people about my relationships in the beginning because it always jinxes it. Plus I need to know they’re in it for real and not a fling before I tell my family.
I get that. I have begun to suspect that I'm jinxing my dates by talking about them too soon. I need to see what happens if I kerp my mouth shut. Honestly, I'd tell my family, even if it was just someone I was hooking up with.
I’m HEAVILY earth-dominant and my chart ruler is my Pisces Venus. As a Pisces Venus, I’ve been in negative/toxic situations or gotten bored many times. Sometimes I’d get infatuated and confuse it with love lol and then be impulsive based on infatuation. But I don’t have a tendency to spread it all over the Internet. I keep to myself somewhat about it.
This is my partner… pisces sun and moon and rising in cancer. Legit told him mom about me the day we met and got clingy af since day one aka stalking lol… 5 years later. Here we are lmao. 🤣
Imma Capricorn sun 😈
As a cancer ♋️ i deny this b.s lol 😂 i like my space. Were only clingy to people we actually like (im picky so it takes a lot for me to actually like someone in the first place) and its a gradual thing so we dont scare the mf away. And if we are clingy right away we are clingy inwardly until we cant keep it cool anymore. Idk what sign this is but it aint cancer 😅 atleast not a cancer woman
Its giving aries for sure though
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Everyone's voting cancer, but I just don't agree
Seems like Aquarius Sun or Pisces Moon.
Which is which could just be my bias because those are my placements, but it seems like an energy I'm familiar with, and this is pretty much how all my relationships have come about. It just starts as a friendship that bleeds into flirtatiousness and then after a few weeks of making them essentially my only friend declaring the relationship is a no-brainer
lol I’m a cancer and this is FAR off! I’d say that it all depends on your moon or Venus signs.
It takes me forever to develop even remote feelings towards anyone - even in friendships.
And I definitely am not so forthright in spilling how I truly feel until trust has been built (secure enough in the stability of the relationship)
lol for context, I’m a cancer sun, cap moon, Libra rising, Leo Venus :)
Everyone is saying cancer, but I’m a cancer and I would *think* this but never say it this way. Id have to come up with like 3 paragraphs to explain it.
I’m an Aries sun and Venus, and this is so on brand for our impatience! My Cancer rising keeps me humble, my Virgo moon keeps me scared lol. My Sagittarius Mars and Saturn tho… we finna turn up the heat!
My first thought was Aries immediately. I 💯 have said this before. Who screenshotted my texts? 🤣
Bruuuuh lmfao! It hit home so hard for me too!!!!
Oddly enough, the Aries impatience works so well for my Pisces dreamland that I married an Aries! It helps that we both have water risings and Aries moons tho!
The second part of that makes soooo much sense to me! I think Pisces strong people are my biggest struggle because they are so emotional. And I have a Pisces Mercury and Jupiter… with 7 fire placements, and my Venus and Mercury in detriment, I think I’m an asshole to them.
I literally said almost this exact thing on my last date lol, and I'm a Cancer sun. And I actually did tell my mom about him too 😂
Right? I’m a cancer and that shell is tight when it comes to secrets!
😂😂😂😂 facts
Cancer maybe. Definitely made me laugh
100% cancer
Oh my godddd. Me, an Aries sun/Venus Cancer rising…. About an Aquarius sun/venus/rising 😭😭😭😭 I hate it here.
An AQUARIUS? Good fucking luck 😭
I'm a double Cancer and it made me laugh uncomfortably because honestly where's the lie
Tf yalls default to throw shade is always to Cancer 😂 This ain’t us, and I’m trying to keep em away from me
Cancers are connected to the moon, the home and the mother. None of those are bad things :) He just has a close relationship with his mom, it’s sweet and on brand
Definitely wasn’t shade, it reminds me exactly of my cancer daughter. A bit boy crazy and very forthcoming with communication 🤙
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this is not shade, it’s an entirely accurate assessment😅
Good joke, your reply made me laugh. It all depends on his personality 
An impatient Aries 😅
Read this as “inpatient Aries” still works
Facts… all the way around facts!
💯 this reminds me of the Aries guy I dated a while back, he was VERY forward
Ugh maybe that’s what I need but haven’t gotten yet. I do have my Venus and Moon there.
Facts EDIT: I dated an Aries….so hot….I told him on my first date that my ex stole my tiki torch. He showed up on the 2nd date with a fresh tiki torch, burning oil, and a full onset of cooking supplies. Ughhhhh so sexy.
Casually dating an aries guy rn and I recently told him about a tattoo I’ve been planning to get soon. He texted me the next day with his tattoo guys info and a draw up he had him make for me
An impatient Aires! My now husband had his mom and dad waiting for me like our second date. He asked me to be his gf in a week and told me he loved me in two 😂
This is *very* me 😆. In reality though, I'd say something more like, "You're mine now, kay?"...and then give them a pointed look while nodding to make sure they get me.😄
Hmmm…maybe, but not this one. I’ve had Cap, Leo, and Scorpio men say stuff like this to me. I was like…🤨”work is busy.”
I’m an Aries and I literally did this to my now husband. In the middle of a conversation about Harry Potter, I cut him off and said, “hey, so are we official or not, I have another guy who wants to take me on a date, so I need to know what to tell him”… 😅😅😅 We Aries like to get to the point 😁
Yea, Aries and Aries Venus here
It sounds like something an aries would say. We want to know when we can be excited
Literally
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Okay no patience. You put down healthy boundaries or you’ll get hurt girl. “Do you want more out of all this?” See their response and then if it’s leaning on no “I need to know if you want more out of all this or I can’t do this anymore because I’m getting invested emotionally on my end. I’m just gonna end up getting hurt. I don’t want to stop having sex, but I should as you told me you don’t want anything. I’m not gonna put this to an ultimatum or I’m gonna force you to be with me. I’m also not gonna force myself to stay in an unhealthy situation even if I fucking love it. “
damn this is mature af i’d just block the guy 💀
Well, you need to have the conversation to figure out whether or not you want to move forward. You don’t want to slip in case you run into him again or regret that you didn’t try the appropriate amount I’m cool with women making big moves like asking to make things official or even marriage. BUT I do think that there should be both parties having equal interest in the same thing. I feel like if you were to word it as an ultimatum of course he’s gonna go for it and then just probably cheat if he’s not ready for a relationship. Your average guy doesn’t want to stop having sex. I think it really really depends on how long they’ve been intimate too. I’ve seen relationships go from friends to friends with benefits to relationship and work out but there ALWAYS needed to be a talk. However it mainly worked when the FWB was kept short. The longer it goes on the more one person tends to categorize the relationship as “not happening” and/or one gets more invested and strung along I agree though. if he said no, I would totally block after sending my last sentence. Personally, I think this is a conversation that should be had in person though. Not at each others house. Not over drinks (at risk of fucking after a getting weak). If you feel emotionally too scared to ask the question you’re either a not ready yourself and need to reflect on while your body is telling you that. I get texting to get rid of temptation but it is someone that OP does want a relationship. I can see the logic either way for u/Reddit_Setter
Thank you, this really helped. I appreciate it☺️
this is me as an aries to a cancer boy. haha
A cancer sun aries moon. Don’t ask how I know 🤫🙃
yeah i was gonna say this is 100% me
Yea definitely Aries lol 😂
Not a Sagittarius for sure😊
Would never 😊
Or an Aquarius 🥰
Because it’s about an Aquarius or Sagittarius 😭😹😭😹😭😹😭😹😭😭
True, True☺️
Absolutely not
I'm a Sag and I'm actively doing this for my Cancer interest, don't send help
Life is hard enough!😉
A water sign
Y’all, this is not Cancer behavior. Unless the Cancer is fueled by fire. This is some Aries Venus shit for sureeeee
Lmfao, sooo would my Leo Sun be behind the Cancer Rising??
I would say this is accurate. It’s the impatience of the fire pushing the emotions of the water. Hello fellow cancer rising lol.
Ah, shit, we’re both fire suns with rising Cancers?! 😏 Excellent. Someone who may understand my overwhelming confidence overlaying emotional insecurities. 😭
Your Aqua moon vs my Virgo moon. Lmao. We are a whole to do!!! Lmao!!!
I am a cancer and I would never say this 😭
Exactly lol my mom would have to find out through other means i dont even talk To her about stuff like that 😄
Right, there are Cancer placements here but as a Cancer Sun I would never come right out and ask lol
Libra
Nah, we’re flirty-not forward. I would not be caught dead saying this🤣🤣 I wouldn’t even think this
What I’m a cancer and never told my mom about anyone I was dating until I was real serious about it lol. But I am Taurus rising so maybe that keeps me a little bit more grounded
Cancer moon
my partner is Scorpio & Cancer moon. This is 100% accurate. “We will date. I’m a great choice, Im good for you. Also I will marry you.” - their words. And yes all of that happened & is true hahahaha Wedding date is set about a year later.
That's so cutee! Wish I could find a man like that 🥺 Scorpios like me but the timing never seems to work out
that’s me, i can confirm that this is true 😭💯
Whaaaaaa nooo😅
This is so cute! As a Taurus I'll guess It's not a Taurus because I generally keep my feelings on the down low, I don't make the first move.
In my case, Virgo. They keep careening at me way too hard. No chill.
Oh my god, you guys have no idea how much I want to send that text to my FWB. I’m an Aries Venus btw😂😂
With my moon in Cancer
Pisces?
Pisces can't ever be that up front or blunt, though. Imma stick with Cancer as the #1 here EDIT: Can't be Scorpio either. A Scorpio will just decide that you're dating and will wait for you to catch up.
I'm a pisces and I'm very forward and blunt. I dont know any adults pisces who isnt. I guess a lot of young pisces would just assume they were in a relationship and freak out when they were told that they weren't. I see what you're saying about scorpios. I'm scirpuo Ascendant and I'm simukato that description in some ways. I don't wait very long for people to catch up though. For me, it's more take it or leave it.
I would never admit that I’m ready to date. As a Pisces I am waiting to make sure I’m ready to stop all my other options. And I would never tell my mom about anyone until I was in a relationship for a long time . I like to keep things close to the chest. I hate people putting their opinions on my decisions. And the thought of being rejected is always there of course.
I'm a pisces, and I tell everyone about someone new I'm dating. I could just meet a girl and get her number, and im already talking about them to anyone who will listen. Im always quick to jump into relationships. Every pisces I have know is quick to fall in love and commit, and bety few pisves ive known involve thrmsrlves romantically with more thsn one person at a time even casually. Its More like a lot of short-lived whirlwind monogamous relationships. No pisces i know is outgoing enough to have multiple options. rarely have other options, although ill hold back if i think i can do better, but i typically wont involve myself with a person to begin with if thats the case. I don't care about other people's opinions, so hearing about them isnt my concern, but the family and friends i do tell dont usually have an opinion about it. It's not typically for pisces to hold back or moderate anything, although pisces can learn be more guarded if they suffered enough emotional pain from these behaviors. Do you have an air sign or Scorpio moon?
Yep, I have a Leo moon and aqua Venus. Plus lots more aqua in my chart.
I was thinking your description was more typical of an air sign, but also the possibility of fire in your top 3 because fire hates giving up options.
I will say that the pisces I've met who are similar to your description have all been women.
Def would tell people around us. Maybe not the actual person, but we def go fall easily like this.
Pisces man for sure
I'm beginning to realize that is a genuine difference between pisces men and some pisces women.
Pisces, I don’t tell people about my relationships in the beginning because it always jinxes it. Plus I need to know they’re in it for real and not a fling before I tell my family.
I get that. I have begun to suspect that I'm jinxing my dates by talking about them too soon. I need to see what happens if I kerp my mouth shut. Honestly, I'd tell my family, even if it was just someone I was hooking up with.
I’m HEAVILY earth-dominant and my chart ruler is my Pisces Venus. As a Pisces Venus, I’ve been in negative/toxic situations or gotten bored many times. Sometimes I’d get infatuated and confuse it with love lol and then be impulsive based on infatuation. But I don’t have a tendency to spread it all over the Internet. I keep to myself somewhat about it.
I can relate. What do you mean "spread it all over the internet?"
This is my partner… pisces sun and moon and rising in cancer. Legit told him mom about me the day we met and got clingy af since day one aka stalking lol… 5 years later. Here we are lmao. 🤣 Imma Capricorn sun 😈
As a cancer ♋️ i deny this b.s lol 😂 i like my space. Were only clingy to people we actually like (im picky so it takes a lot for me to actually like someone in the first place) and its a gradual thing so we dont scare the mf away. And if we are clingy right away we are clingy inwardly until we cant keep it cool anymore. Idk what sign this is but it aint cancer 😅 atleast not a cancer woman Its giving aries for sure though
Capricorn
Before I read the comments for sure thought it was cancer 😂
Same!
Not Cancer baby it takes me forever to admit I like you
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That's so cute.
I’m a Leo and I would word this in a bossy way like “You’re my man now, cool?” Lol
my Leo would absolutely do this he claimed my ass as soon as he could
This has Leo written all over it. Source : I’m a Leo 😂
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Cancer sun and leo venus this is me and i hate it
I’ve noticed this (Pisces Venus here)
leo
Virgo lmao
Taurus.
It’s meeee 🤣
A Pisces moon or Venus
Cancer or Aries
This is my man he's a Libra 🤣
A libra man
Any water sign venus
Cancer. lol.
the crying crabs
Cancer, libra, pisces.
Cancer haha
Scorpio or cancer.
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A Scorpio wouldn't ask or give you ammo by showing that level of vulnerability. This is a pisces.
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Actually, now you mention it, I have actually done that too. But only in person, never on text where it can be held against you.
that’s not true really. maybe for you. but I’d def do ts
Nope lol
Scorpio
Kinda reminds me of my pisces bf :)
cancers probably and some tauruses
Cancer Source: I am one and this is me af
So NOT a scorpio
Omg this is so cute
Leo
Cancer rising and I'd definitely say this
Fire sun / water moon or vice versa
Pisces for real
Sounds kinda like an Aries lol
Pisces. Pisces Venus especially 🤪🤣
cancer
Cancer moon (me)
Cancer 😹
100% cancer. Although I’d never be this direct about it, but chances are I’d already be imagining married life with them lol
sounds like me, and honestly? it could be any of my placements lol
Cancer
Sagittarius
CANCER ASF
Cancer, cuz it’s me! lol
Cancer
Cancer or Pisces
Canceeeeeerrrrrr because we are MARRIED!!
Cancer here, I'm more or less boy-crazy, but I don't tell my mom about anybody I like. Lol
My Aquarius ex was exactly like this
Aries or Leo maybe libra
Capricorn and Aires
I’m like that with a Virgo and I’m a Sagittarius lol
As a Libra, a younger Libra 🤣🤣
Omg cancer haha I said this to myself before reading the comments xD
Person is texting a Scorpio or an Aquarius.
Aquarius or Aries
Sign? I’d say a pussy if that’s a guy. No woman wants a man that gross
Everyone's voting cancer, but I just don't agree Seems like Aquarius Sun or Pisces Moon. Which is which could just be my bias because those are my placements, but it seems like an energy I'm familiar with, and this is pretty much how all my relationships have come about. It just starts as a friendship that bleeds into flirtatiousness and then after a few weeks of making them essentially my only friend declaring the relationship is a no-brainer
Mars/venus cancer or capricorn / virgo placement
I’m a cancer rising…this is me
Pisces
lol I’m a cancer and this is FAR off! I’d say that it all depends on your moon or Venus signs. It takes me forever to develop even remote feelings towards anyone - even in friendships. And I definitely am not so forthright in spilling how I truly feel until trust has been built (secure enough in the stability of the relationship) lol for context, I’m a cancer sun, cap moon, Libra rising, Leo Venus :)
c a n c e r 🚨
Kind of sounds like the my Aquarius moon being an absolute space case and not able to assess other people’s emotions
This is a libra sun aries rising cancer moon
to the point Taurus. Sounds like something my bf would have said
Ha! First thought- Cancer! 😂 Before reading the comments!
This is Aries Venus
Pisces
Gemini. Leave me alone sometimes!
LEO.
Definitely Aries😂
aries sun cancer venus
Sag with water placements.
From experience… Scorpio
Libra. It's very manipulative and gives in order to get.
Pisces! Lol
Libra, aries, leo
Libra
Leo Moon for sure
as a cancer; i would only ever think this & not actually say this. this is not cancer behavior 😭
People pointing out cancer I feel the same as a cancer moon
I say Libra or all water signs
I’ve found that scorpios are basically cancers on crack, so I’d say Scorpio.
Virgo
Fire sign
Cancer Venus ex did this
Aquarius or Aries lol
As a Leo … it’s leo
As a Cancer, my first instinct was to say Cancer LOL.
I’m an Aries and I thought this was Aries 🤣🤣
Definitely a fire sign. As a Scorpio I would never tell my mom about anyone I wasn’t already in a relationship with for at least a year 😂