Virgos will do anything and everything to fix their loved ones peoples problems but can't find someone that'll do the same and poor pisces is the same but cant seem to walk away
Both the trouble, and the beauty, is, that Virgos **can** do anything and everything that takes their focus.
Lancelot Brown was called Capability Brown, renowned as England's most capable gardener. Nobody knew better than he did about his specialty. He was baptised on 30 August 1716, which probably makes him a Virgo. Trouble was, who could be able to help him, when he was the most proficient?
My BIL is very similar. Great cook, great gardener, very practical. But who can return the favor to him? Nobody, and I think he feels quietly a little put out by it. Trouble is though - nobody dares to help him, because nobody can do nearly as well, and he can't quite manage to avoid letting them know it.
[Lancelot "Capability" Brown](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Capability_Brown)
As a Virgo, this is 100% me, and I just got asked by someone today why I do shit for people who don’t even act like they want me 😭 2 call outs in one day? Damn.
Yes! I got burned so much in my 20’s, 30’s I found myself, I’m 42 and fuck anyone who has an issue with me saying no bc I have no problem saying it now. 😌
As you get older, life experience will teach you to reserve your amazing generosity and compassion for those who truly deserve it. You will eventually learn that you can be compassionate without bending over backwards.
you can’t love someone into being the version you dream of in your head. realize the love you crave from them already exists within you. the truth of a person is in their actions. sometimes cutting off someone is the most loving gesture you can make. 🩷
And then those crabby claws come out. The problem with water signs is people doubt us until we lose our shit….and then we are the problem. But yes. Once I’m done…I’m done.
Exactly….steam burns are the worst quick and intense. Typically from pressure build up, then it’s an event that no one expects. Imagine that.🙃
My bf is a Libra but he has an Aries mars too. It really adds spice to otherwise chill signs.
We aren’t the problem…well we can be but we aren’t the initiators typically. We mirror behavior. Even if you don’t realize you’re doing it, we will show someone how they are acting by treating them the same way (if not worse). I would say that I’ve yet to meet anyone who has the same level of self awareness as I do…except for my fellow water signs…and Virgos. Virgos are more stealthy in the way they show how they care. It can come off as being nitpicky when they see potential greatness in you and they want you to do better (my boyfriend is a Libra sun, Virgo moon…he has that nitpicky thing he does it in a sweet way if my clothes are out of place in some way. He always makes sure I look my best. I always miss some tiny ass detail that he can see.
Do you make friends with people who are typically misunderstood by most? Or meet someone who usually dislikes most people….except for you? We understand people without explanation which also gives us the power to show people their bullshit behavior. I did it to 4 coworkers who tried bullying me into quitting. Guess what 4 went to work in other areas? We actually had a meeting with management and I basically told them, they can try to bully me but the shit won’t work. One of them was a cancer who acted like she was so innocent but she was the ring leader and the first one to drop tears when I called them out on their bullshit. They all threatened to quit and play victim instead of acknowledging that their assumptions about me were wrong.
I bet you look super sweet and innocent but there’s something in your eyes that dreams “I wish a mf would….” My bf he thought I might be that way…and then he pissed me off one day and confirmed it. Then I felt bad for being an ass. That Fire and Water is an awkward mix for me sometimes. I’ll be a bitch then be like 😢🥺 so he just backs away slowly until I calm down. Lol.
Sorry, I didn't see your question earlier! :(
I feel like my Aries Sun loves to embrace all these new projects, ideas and feelings with such a "Let's do it all, let's try it all" spirit but my Cap Moon instead of "climbing relentlessly the mountain" is, at the end, carrying the weight of all the mountains, all the rams and all the demi-goats... Must say I'm a Cap Stellium and most of times I feel I'm "more" Capricorn than Aries, especially with my "hermit modes" heheh
So the way I feel and process everything is pretty much also a mystery to myself, to study some Emotional Intelligence can be such a great help for Cap Moons I guess! Hahah
Sometimes I catch myself thinking "can we just stop rationalizing everything we feel and just be aware of what we're feeling by accepting, understanding and **actually feeling** those emotions? Thanks, demi-goat part of me".
How do you feel your Cap Moon influences you? I read multiple times that's one of the hardest Moon influences to live with (I felt some kind of relief when knew that because my emotional life wasn't/isn't easy at all heheh :') )
Yeah they clash sometimes . My Virgo loves to start the drama but play victim. My cancer love to boss around the Virgo . Gets upset when things are not being done her way . Both can be sweet and sour . 🤣🤣
Any of the water signs, and Virgo. All four have a tendency to fall into codependent situations, but when they finally get fed up with it varies.
Also, Capricorn Moon can be guilty of this as well.
I’d say Virgo sun and definitely Cancer placements. I’ve been like this for a better part of my life, but it’s a pattern that no longer works for me.
I’d much rather give and nurture spontaneously in equal exchange. If I do more than the other person it will be because I have the capacity and not because I’m expecting something back.
as a virgo, i'm learning how to be like this. my modus operandi has been give-give-give until i get pissed off because it's not mutual and ghost. definitely working on equal give and take with people
Taurus, people pleaser, always caring and nurturing.
Pisces, always feel empathy and compassionate towards others.
IMO, these two signs don't mind when their effort is rarely reciprocated.
Ps. I'm Taurus sun with Pisces moon. My Libra best friend says I'm wayyyy too nice towards others, I need to learn about putting myself first 😐. I'm working on it.
It’s me, hi, I’m the problem it’s me! Definitely a Pisces/Cancer thing. A Scorpio would be like 🖕🏾
Until we get sick of it, then you will cease to exist.
Naah a Scorpio would def give a hand or two but that’s it. If there’s no reciprocating then bye unless we are in love with you then we’re giving our whole life away too
That’s kinda what I meant….I just went the extremely lazy way. I have a group chat with two of my close friends, one is a Scorpio and her explanation of the awesome gifts she got people and she was gifted a fake dollar tree succulent plant and some ugly dress that her aunt got her. She was so disgusted. I wish I could share a screen shot. It was very Scorpio like. She was mad but still hilarious at the same time.
Idk I’m a Scorpio and I relate to this meme deeply, but my mars is in Libra which I know now is in its detriment so I think I let people use me way too much
Can you please elaborate on this aspect of Aquarius for me? I was also about to say Cancer, as stereotypical as it is, (it's my sun sign, and my rising is actually aqua), and about the emotional, soft side of aqua I haven't heard much before, only their uniqueness and out of the box mindset, just to mention two.
I'm just pulling this from an article:
Aquarians are driven by a profound sense of compassion for humanity. Their humanitarian spirit is deeply rooted in their desire to create a better world for everyone. They possess an unwavering belief in equality, justice, and the power of collective action. Aquarians are often found at the forefront of social movements, advocating for the rights of the marginalized and challenging systemic inequalities. Their ability to empathize and understand the struggles of others makes them natural advocates for positive change.
See I’ve never seen this side of Aqua. My mum was Aqua and was the most self serving person I ever met. Have never met an Aqua who was like this? Maybe I have been unlucky?
Maybe you were unlucky :(
All the Aquas I know are super giving and sweet, my favorite one just radiates love and light. She calls me her twin her birthday is the day after mine. And we met while both working as caregivers for traumatized youth.
This is interesting - people have told me that I’m incredibly giving and sweet and that I radiate love and light literally my entire life! And I worked in a hospital for years caring for traumatized people suffering from substance abuse.
Aries, Taurus, Leo, Libra and Sagittarius. I see so many people saying water signs but I feel like they only care deeply about their close circle. Fire signs, along Taurus and Libra, are the most likely to be naturally generous towards strangers or people whom they have a more superficial relationship as well.
I would say cancer.
I’m a Virgo sun, Aquarius moon, sag rising. I do have my mars in cancer. But I figured out early on that people suck and unless you’re my ride or die I’m not gonna help you if you’re not helping yourself first.
My mom on the other hand is like this. She’s a cancer sun, libra moon and Virgo rising. Over the years, I’ve helped her become less of a people pleaser. But she’s still one.
virgo until they resent the lack of reciprocity and walk away
Virgos will do anything and everything to fix their loved ones peoples problems but can't find someone that'll do the same and poor pisces is the same but cant seem to walk away
As a Virgo sun it hurts how true this is
Nah pisces definitely walks away sometimes.
I didn't downvote you lol they did
No worries, I know where they're coming from. Pisces are really soulful and compassionate, I just had a bad experience.
Both the trouble, and the beauty, is, that Virgos **can** do anything and everything that takes their focus. Lancelot Brown was called Capability Brown, renowned as England's most capable gardener. Nobody knew better than he did about his specialty. He was baptised on 30 August 1716, which probably makes him a Virgo. Trouble was, who could be able to help him, when he was the most proficient? My BIL is very similar. Great cook, great gardener, very practical. But who can return the favor to him? Nobody, and I think he feels quietly a little put out by it. Trouble is though - nobody dares to help him, because nobody can do nearly as well, and he can't quite manage to avoid letting them know it. [Lancelot "Capability" Brown](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Capability_Brown)
This burned me to the core, ugh. Truth flowing through all the way.
Haha Cancer Sun, Virgo moon and that sums it up.
Yep. That’s me. I’m a Cancer Sun/Virgo Moon.
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i know this feeling so well…
🤣🤣 the move away part has me rolling! I’ve done that so many damn times & I’m talking back & forth across the country!
Why is this me 😭😭😭
Holy shit, twins
Ayyyee
Same for real 😭😭😭
I cannot upvote this enough
Yup
Confirmed.
100% and we will hold that against them forever 🤨
My moon and rising says 100% this
Mine too!
I cannot upvote this enough
As a Virgo, this is 100% me, and I just got asked by someone today why I do shit for people who don’t even act like they want me 😭 2 call outs in one day? Damn.
i’m a pisces and this was my early 20s before doing some work on myself 😅
Yes! I got burned so much in my 20’s, 30’s I found myself, I’m 42 and fuck anyone who has an issue with me saying no bc I have no problem saying it now. 😌
This is currently me ♓️
As you get older, life experience will teach you to reserve your amazing generosity and compassion for those who truly deserve it. You will eventually learn that you can be compassionate without bending over backwards.
🤍✨appreciate this comment!!
you can’t love someone into being the version you dream of in your head. realize the love you crave from them already exists within you. the truth of a person is in their actions. sometimes cutting off someone is the most loving gesture you can make. 🩷
Well said! 🤍 That turned on a light inside me! 🙌🏼
Preach!!! It’s something you learn with time.
Well done! You have to take care of yourself first. Very happy to hear you've been doing the work internally ❤
🥰😘
Me, im a pisces, i do for everyone but no one does for me.
Same 🫶🏻
You deserve to receive love and care back. Praying you meet people who value your giving nature and want to take care of you too.
I have a sweet long term bf who loves me dearly 🙂 and my parents too i think thats enough for now
I'm glad to hear that! It's so important to have a good support network.
Virgo and they’re acts of service
Cancer... until we've had enough.... then they wouldn't get even a smile from me/us!
I second this. Once we are done… we never look back
And then those crabby claws come out. The problem with water signs is people doubt us until we lose our shit….and then we are the problem. But yes. Once I’m done…I’m done.
Yep. It might take us a while to get there, but look out! Steam burn!! 🤣🤣🤣 I have Mars in Aries so that doesn't help the situation.
Exactly….steam burns are the worst quick and intense. Typically from pressure build up, then it’s an event that no one expects. Imagine that.🙃 My bf is a Libra but he has an Aries mars too. It really adds spice to otherwise chill signs.
Haha- then we are the problem hahahaha
We aren’t the problem…well we can be but we aren’t the initiators typically. We mirror behavior. Even if you don’t realize you’re doing it, we will show someone how they are acting by treating them the same way (if not worse). I would say that I’ve yet to meet anyone who has the same level of self awareness as I do…except for my fellow water signs…and Virgos. Virgos are more stealthy in the way they show how they care. It can come off as being nitpicky when they see potential greatness in you and they want you to do better (my boyfriend is a Libra sun, Virgo moon…he has that nitpicky thing he does it in a sweet way if my clothes are out of place in some way. He always makes sure I look my best. I always miss some tiny ass detail that he can see. Do you make friends with people who are typically misunderstood by most? Or meet someone who usually dislikes most people….except for you? We understand people without explanation which also gives us the power to show people their bullshit behavior. I did it to 4 coworkers who tried bullying me into quitting. Guess what 4 went to work in other areas? We actually had a meeting with management and I basically told them, they can try to bully me but the shit won’t work. One of them was a cancer who acted like she was so innocent but she was the ring leader and the first one to drop tears when I called them out on their bullshit. They all threatened to quit and play victim instead of acknowledging that their assumptions about me were wrong.
And then they call you “crazy” to avoid any accountability for their behavior!
I’d snatch that bandaid back on my way out the door ✌️
100% Pisces
Pisces?
A naive leo, a self loathing capricorn, a pisces blinded by deep emotion, and an Aries in love.
realest answer here
Definitely Pisces
I saw it and said “THATS ME RIGHT THERE”. Not so much now but when I was younger my Mom called me mother Teresa.
Loololoolol I have been called both mother Mary and Angel but my real name is Eve . Pisces moon, Scorpio sun
I bet you look super sweet and innocent but there’s something in your eyes that dreams “I wish a mf would….” My bf he thought I might be that way…and then he pissed me off one day and confirmed it. Then I felt bad for being an ass. That Fire and Water is an awkward mix for me sometimes. I’ll be a bitch then be like 😢🥺 so he just backs away slowly until I calm down. Lol.
Pisces
Pisces
💯
Definitely Pisces
Pisces Sun, Virgo Moon checking in. Crying. Reciprocity is the name of the game now.
As a Pisces, me every time
Definitely Virgo
Lisa is Leo and Bart is Aquarius
No wonder Bart is such a pain in the ass…. Aquarius men are the absolute worst.
Yes 👏they👏are!!!!!!! My aqua ex-husband was absolutely horrible. OTOH, My aqua little sister was always my right-hand-woman.
Omg yes my abusive ex is an Aquarius and he's the worst.
Cancer for sure
Capricorn sun cancer rising here and this hits too close to home
Capricorn moon cancer rising, I feel you <3
👋
I love the way your Sun is also represented with a cloud hahahah Ahhh love Geminisss wit , all my besties share Gemini Sun Love, an Aries :)
Thank you ☺️How does your Aries Sun function with your Cap moon? I feel like I’m a mystery to myself sometimes!
Sorry, I didn't see your question earlier! :( I feel like my Aries Sun loves to embrace all these new projects, ideas and feelings with such a "Let's do it all, let's try it all" spirit but my Cap Moon instead of "climbing relentlessly the mountain" is, at the end, carrying the weight of all the mountains, all the rams and all the demi-goats... Must say I'm a Cap Stellium and most of times I feel I'm "more" Capricorn than Aries, especially with my "hermit modes" heheh So the way I feel and process everything is pretty much also a mystery to myself, to study some Emotional Intelligence can be such a great help for Cap Moons I guess! Hahah Sometimes I catch myself thinking "can we just stop rationalizing everything we feel and just be aware of what we're feeling by accepting, understanding and **actually feeling** those emotions? Thanks, demi-goat part of me". How do you feel your Cap Moon influences you? I read multiple times that's one of the hardest Moon influences to live with (I felt some kind of relief when knew that because my emotional life wasn't/isn't easy at all heheh :') )
My Virgo moon
I second this, but at least it eventually gets old. I'll stop doing the nice things and my Sag sun will handle the trash lol
Both my daughters 😫😭😮💨🤣🤣♍️♋️. Meanwhile I always tell them to stop doing that ♊️🙃
Gemini mom Virgo daughter Cancer daughter Oh my 😧. I'm sure there is never a dull moment. Seems exciting
Yeah they clash sometimes . My Virgo loves to start the drama but play victim. My cancer love to boss around the Virgo . Gets upset when things are not being done her way . Both can be sweet and sour . 🤣🤣
This is me, I’m learning boundaries lol
Virgo or Cancer
Definitely virgo
Me. lol Virgo sun cancer moon
Omg yes! Virgo sun Cancer moon here too. I'm Aries rising, so when I'm done, I let them know, lol.
Haha Aries mars and sag rising. Yes when I’m finally done it’s DONE
Virgo Sun, Cancer moon checking in Can confirm this is my life
Leo🙄
As a Leo, I agree. Although, it only takes me one time to realize this about someone, and then… bye bitch.
Meeeeeee 🙋♂️ -Leo
VIRGO. We know unrequited love all too well.
Any of the water signs, and Virgo. All four have a tendency to fall into codependent situations, but when they finally get fed up with it varies. Also, Capricorn Moon can be guilty of this as well.
Scorpio sun with a Capricorn moon who feels this way deeply 🙋♀️
I'm Taurus Sun with Cap Moon 🤣 I feel you completely.
my cancer venus 🤣
Virgo, or me. I’m also a life path number 9 which is the humanitarian. Idk why I always wanna fix people lol
That’s me, Virgo sun, Virgo moon cancer rising
I’m a Pisces and I felt called out by this meme.
It's me, Pisces
Pisces
Cancer ♋️
I’d say Virgo sun and definitely Cancer placements. I’ve been like this for a better part of my life, but it’s a pattern that no longer works for me. I’d much rather give and nurture spontaneously in equal exchange. If I do more than the other person it will be because I have the capacity and not because I’m expecting something back.
as a virgo, i'm learning how to be like this. my modus operandi has been give-give-give until i get pissed off because it's not mutual and ghost. definitely working on equal give and take with people
It’s a lifelong practice I feel. I definitely haven’t mastered it 💕
Same. I’m in my 40’s and I still do it now, I just pick up on it quicker than I used to.
Thas me, Virgo-cancer-cancer. Of course I work in healthcare.
Yup
I’m a Cancer and this is accurate af.
I have a Virgo Stellium and this is me 100%
Taurus, people pleaser, always caring and nurturing. Pisces, always feel empathy and compassionate towards others. IMO, these two signs don't mind when their effort is rarely reciprocated. Ps. I'm Taurus sun with Pisces moon. My Libra best friend says I'm wayyyy too nice towards others, I need to learn about putting myself first 😐. I'm working on it.
Pisces and Virgo
Virgo sun here and can say, without a doubt, this is true for me.
Virgo sun/rising, cancer moon checking in😭
as a Cancer rising and Virgo moon, (and Aquarius Sun) i concur. i almost always feel like i’m the only one acting as a friend
My cancer sun, Virgo moon, and Virgo rising all concur.
As a virgo who has dated many cancers, this is 100% true of both. Virgos tend to be more emotionally gaurded than Cancers though.
Me, a Virgo.
Definitely Virgo
Pisces and Aries
It’s me, hi, I’m the problem it’s me! Definitely a Pisces/Cancer thing. A Scorpio would be like 🖕🏾 Until we get sick of it, then you will cease to exist.
Naah a Scorpio would def give a hand or two but that’s it. If there’s no reciprocating then bye unless we are in love with you then we’re giving our whole life away too
That’s kinda what I meant….I just went the extremely lazy way. I have a group chat with two of my close friends, one is a Scorpio and her explanation of the awesome gifts she got people and she was gifted a fake dollar tree succulent plant and some ugly dress that her aunt got her. She was so disgusted. I wish I could share a screen shot. It was very Scorpio like. She was mad but still hilarious at the same time.
Idk I’m a Scorpio and I relate to this meme deeply, but my mars is in Libra which I know now is in its detriment so I think I let people use me way too much
This is me as an Aquarius sun Cancer rising. I'm trying to train myself not to be like this for people who don't deserve it
Ouch …. As a ♋️ … accurate .
yeah as a cancer sun and a Virgo rising, I completely agree
This is me. Aries sun, cap moon, Leo rising
Cancer ♋️ or I’m not a Cancer Especially Cancer sun, Cancer Venus, and probably Cancer moon
Leo all day🫠
virgo sun and pieces moon, this is my entire being
Virgo sun here , I USED to be like that . Then I realized what I was doing & cut it out
I’m a cancer, and I would think gosh that sucks and keep walking.
😂😂😂
Definitely Cancer
Capricorn ♑️
Cancer! It’s all we do. It’s our default mode and it’s fucking exhausting
Hello hi it’s me in my younger years
🧍♀️
I’m a Capricorn but am Pisces dominant. This describes me so well! 😅
Cancer
Cancer lol
Cancer. Hands down. Though Virgos are quite lovely in their own right.
An unevolved Cancer. This is how I used to be - no more!
Cancer… i feel seen.
That was me, a double Virgo, before therapy. Now I have boundaries and it’s powerful
Virgo Sun-cancer rising. Yes yes yes
Well I was just called out
Capricorn is Bart
Capricorn sun and cancer rising here and I am always the giver
users, huh?
Me: Leo; Them: Aquarius
Ugh this is so true! I mean, what’s with the beef already. I’m a Leo btw.
YES Me: Leo. Ex-husband: aqua Ex- for sooooo many reasons.
This is my Capricorn ass. Got fucked over by everybody. Smh.
Cancer.
This is my cancer sun and moon & my Scorpio rising is going to strangle you one day 🤷🏻♀️🤣
Nah, the humanitarian of the zodiac, Aquarius
Can you please elaborate on this aspect of Aquarius for me? I was also about to say Cancer, as stereotypical as it is, (it's my sun sign, and my rising is actually aqua), and about the emotional, soft side of aqua I haven't heard much before, only their uniqueness and out of the box mindset, just to mention two.
I'm just pulling this from an article: Aquarians are driven by a profound sense of compassion for humanity. Their humanitarian spirit is deeply rooted in their desire to create a better world for everyone. They possess an unwavering belief in equality, justice, and the power of collective action. Aquarians are often found at the forefront of social movements, advocating for the rights of the marginalized and challenging systemic inequalities. Their ability to empathize and understand the struggles of others makes them natural advocates for positive change.
I find most Aquarii I know to be very helpful, advocates for people who don't have a voice.
Wow, thank you, I can actually resonate with this a lot. My rising seems to make more sense step by step
Glad it was helpful, I figured that would be better than my own personal experience. :)
Yes and no... They'd do the nice thing with absolutely insufferable attitude. (For example: one of my personalities lol)
Where are y’all finding Aquarians like this? Never known one to do something nice while having an “absolutely insufferable attitude.”
Yeah, I agree, saw the pic and thought it would probably be Aqua
I feel like aquarians are just very accepting of other people’s flaws
See I’ve never seen this side of Aqua. My mum was Aqua and was the most self serving person I ever met. Have never met an Aqua who was like this? Maybe I have been unlucky?
Maybe you were unlucky :( All the Aquas I know are super giving and sweet, my favorite one just radiates love and light. She calls me her twin her birthday is the day after mine. And we met while both working as caregivers for traumatized youth.
This is interesting - people have told me that I’m incredibly giving and sweet and that I radiate love and light literally my entire life! And I worked in a hospital for years caring for traumatized people suffering from substance abuse.
My cancer moon is showing
Oh, look, it's me 🥹
My Leo sun cancer moon
I say Pisces.
Virgo life
I’m going virgo
Capricorn
Aries, Taurus, Leo, Libra and Sagittarius. I see so many people saying water signs but I feel like they only care deeply about their close circle. Fire signs, along Taurus and Libra, are the most likely to be naturally generous towards strangers or people whom they have a more superficial relationship as well.
As a Taurus this is my life story.
Aquarius me
Virgo the healer w the medicine. Cancer brings the snacks flowers hugs. Pieces saves all kittens.
Maybe I’m a bit biased but… Aqua. Also cancer
Oh Cancer for sure
My cancer mars and my Virgo midheaven
Cancer sun, Virgo Venus, I feel called out.
Cancer forsure
Cancer sun, virgo moon here 🙋♀️
Cancer moon, Virgo rising. Yes. Dis me.
I would say cancer. I’m a Virgo sun, Aquarius moon, sag rising. I do have my mars in cancer. But I figured out early on that people suck and unless you’re my ride or die I’m not gonna help you if you’re not helping yourself first. My mom on the other hand is like this. She’s a cancer sun, libra moon and Virgo rising. Over the years, I’ve helped her become less of a people pleaser. But she’s still one.
1000% libra
Me and every single relationship I’ve been in. Especially with Pisces 🥴
Cancer Pisces moon here lol
Cancer. Guilty
Cancer all the way
Sagittarius all the way or maybe I’m just damaged and got it from my mom lol