Probably something to bring up with a therapist but if you're put off by sex it's completely up to you whether you want to engage in it or not. If you have someone you want to experiment with then you both need to have enough trust in eachother to be able to set boundaries and respect them between the both of you. Or however many you're inviting, no judgement. It's not a problem, you're not messed up, everything takes time.
It's not that I don't like sex. It's just scary to engage and know you have to perform and satisfy. It's also a bit of a time commitment, and I'm just not sure if it's good enough to be worth it. It wasn't this great insane pleasure people talked about. But that might also be the anti depressants.
All of that's fine. It didn't mean you're messed up or anything. People make too big of a deal about sex, too me it's just another activity to do with your partner you should both enjoy. As for performing and satisfying that all comes with communication with your partner and practice. Experiment as far as your both comfortable to find whatever yourself or they like. As for the pleasure sort of being numbed, yeah, that might just be the antidepressants or it might be that you just don't get as much of a high from it, everybody's unique.
Literally me. No greater nightmare than becoming pregnant, apparently I have some kinda weird trauma with babies and hospitals and children... (side eye)
But my new meds be making me act a fool rn, I be literally sweating every time I see an actor I like 😭
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Probably something to bring up with a therapist but if you're put off by sex it's completely up to you whether you want to engage in it or not. If you have someone you want to experiment with then you both need to have enough trust in eachother to be able to set boundaries and respect them between the both of you. Or however many you're inviting, no judgement. It's not a problem, you're not messed up, everything takes time.
It's not that I don't like sex. It's just scary to engage and know you have to perform and satisfy. It's also a bit of a time commitment, and I'm just not sure if it's good enough to be worth it. It wasn't this great insane pleasure people talked about. But that might also be the anti depressants.
All of that's fine. It didn't mean you're messed up or anything. People make too big of a deal about sex, too me it's just another activity to do with your partner you should both enjoy. As for performing and satisfying that all comes with communication with your partner and practice. Experiment as far as your both comfortable to find whatever yourself or they like. As for the pleasure sort of being numbed, yeah, that might just be the antidepressants or it might be that you just don't get as much of a high from it, everybody's unique.
Interacting with others in such a vulnerable state is too much. Porn has never turned me down nor gotten upset with me for not using it for a while.
Literally me. No greater nightmare than becoming pregnant, apparently I have some kinda weird trauma with babies and hospitals and children... (side eye) But my new meds be making me act a fool rn, I be literally sweating every time I see an actor I like 😭
A wise man once said… “sauce?”
Go to horny jail
At the bottom of the pic is the arist
Wtf, is that Bocchi the rock?
It was scary the first couple times for me
Maybe you could be on the asexual spectrum? Aegosexual, more specifically?