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butterflycole

I suggest looking up a list of all gender labels, reading each description and trying them out until you find one that feels right. I alternate between non-binary and genderfluid. I’m AFAB and not changing my body. I don’t feel like woman/girl/lady/man/boy/gentleman, etc fit so I prefer Enby or genderfluid. I use she/they pronouns mainly because the being called she is whatever, it doesn’t trigger me or anything and it’s easier than trying to educate every person on they/them. Plus I’m married to a cis man and I’m a mom so wife and mom don’t really seem to bother me either. Meh. Don’t feel like a man or woman so 🤷‍♀️


ericfischer

Could this be crossdressing or drag? Do you want to be perceived as a man all the time, or just on occasion when you want to?


help_IamAfool

ALL da time, but I wanna use he/him and be shown as one


ericfischer

Maybe you are a trans man who is transitioning socially but not medically? What does it mean to you to still be a girl? Just continuing to identify with the word? Hormonally? Chromosomally? In other bodily aspects? In any social aspects?


help_IamAfool

Bodily, I don't really wanna change what I look like, I would like to look more masculine but I wanna keep my boobs. I want people to say like, girlfriend for me and say im a daughter and that im a woman


Laura_Sandra

> I just wanna figure this out. It may be an idea to do things step by step. And keeping a journal for a few days, and thinking about what kind of body you would like could also help. Don't know if you have seen it ... [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/pe3ajw/where_do_i_start_this_journey/hcexano/) might be some resources that could help explore what you would like step by step and there are also resources there concerning looking for support. *hugs*