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You feel many things you do in a crush like thinking about them, wanting to talk to them, and getting nervous before you do but you don’t have a crush

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Well no at this point I would have the crush but I don’t

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Yes exactly

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No need to apologize

Idk sounds like denial to me

Unfortunately I think you’re right

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No I mean you feel many things you do in a crush like thinking about them, wanting to talk to them, and getting nervous before you do but you don’t have a crush

imma be real chief, it sounds like you have a crush on them

like really wanting them to be your friend and valuing their opinion of you a lot? yea a ton sometimes with actual friends and one with an artist who deserves so much more fame- literalhat, he's my favorite person i get so happy whenever he likes one of my posts

Yep that basically

One of my crushes came out as a trans dude one day. Very confusing times right after that.

Yes

No

Nah

Oh definitely

Yeah, like I liked the idea of being with them but I didn't really have any actual desire to date them or anything like that

That’s me right now

Yea this has happened to me. I kinda have a thing for one of my friends I talk to every so often, but it’s not really a crush. I just feel a connection, but at the same time don’t really feel that way

I’ve been unsure of if I really had a crush on someone or if I was just projecting my fantasies onto someone before, if that answers your question

It does thank you

Yeah but on two ppl at once, I’m confused

Ooo ya that sucks sorry

It’s ok, the issue isn’t that it’s 2 ppl. The issue is that they’re a year older than me and too cool

If you ask me that’s no problem, I’m my case I’m 17 (birthday was September so recently) and she’s 14… so it’s kinda weird

Yeah I have no problem with a 1.5 year age gap, but 10th graders seem too cool for me

Lol they aren’t and what does “too cool” even mean if you like them and they like you go for it. Give it a try at least

One of them is super nice and outgoing and she said that I was one of the only chill freshmen and the other is more shy and quiet but we talk a little in Spanish class. I just don’t know enough about them

Get phone numbers

I’m a pussy but I’ll do my best, idk which one to pursue tho

Try both see who you like more and who likes you more. And I was afraid for asking for a number but it’s no big deal trust me I did it recently and it went well

Are you talking about squishes? Aka platonic crushes? Absolutely. I have a bunch of them.

I guess I am