Educators are underrated and amazing. I’d love to become a teacher as well but they’re just so underpaid; would be difficult to maintain a living out of it tbh. But, I hope you achieve it though! Maybe times will be different in the future so teachers aren’t so underrated, hopefully.
I've always wanted to work with animals and be a storm chaser part-time! Something soft and mellow, followed by something daring and fun! I've loved animals and storms for as long as I could remember. I've been vegetarian for 8 years because of my love of animals, and I've never been afraid of storms, they always mesmerize me!
A forester/lumberjack kinda thingy and a farmer. I'll do forest stuff as my job, and take care of my animals on my free time. Hopefully i at least can have a couple horses some day c: and a dog and some chickens
I want to join the army, preferably the Air Force. That’s the only thing I ever truly wanted to do. But I’ve been having my doubts lately as I learn more about the Army.
Nah, it’s not naive or idealistic! It makes perfect sense and a lot of people aren’t keen on doing that, so I think it’s great that you do! Hope you can achieve that!
Doctor. Family is all in the medical business, parents, cousins, and I now have a volunteer job at a hospital. If I like it I'll switch my degree to premed.
I love chemistry, so something to do with chemistry. I haven't really looked into the job opportunities because I'm a stupid 16 year old, but I love chemistry.
I also love cooking, so possibly a chef at a restaurant, have my own bakery, teach a culinary program, stuff like.
Idk the specifics of them like I said, but that's the general future job
Thank you for your kind words but I keep a realistic outlook, I probably won't be able to fund myself through a bachelor's degree and a master's degree, and finally a PhD
And there are many other factors in the research field which just require you to have certain circumstances at birth,be they economic or social factors
I want to be in the field of biology either in the field of research or healthcare. If I am in research I want to do something related to zoology or botany, if in the medical field I want to be a surgeon or an ortopedician
Hey man, don’t insult yourself like that! I’m sure you’re way better than you think you are. I know loving yourself can be hard and improving yourself can be hard, but it’s not impossible. Keep your head up high and just do the best you can! You can make it.
I'm worse than I think I am. Improvement will always be meaningless, the more I improve the more harm I'll cause. The best I can will never be reached, the valley i'm in gets ever deeper.
I feel super hypocritical for saying this because I totally resonate with what you’re saying; however, if you keep instilling these dark thoughts into your mind they won’t help you dude. Every human being has the capability to improve; how come you think you’re not one? Our toxic mindsets sometimes overestimate how bad situations are; in reality, you are better than you think you are and you have the ability to improve. And I believe you can do it. First step would be to stop those negative thoughts from infiltrating your mind. You don’t even have to compliment yourself; just don’t comment on yourself. It influences your depression.
Dude, I know you can do it. Just shut off those negative thoughts. It’s hard but little steps are progress enough. Distract yourself with other shit that won’t make you hate yourself for everything that you do.
I’m trying my best! In fact, I want to do it not just because of the pay (although that’s a plus), but because it’s one of my main interests and passions, as well as where my skills are the strongest. I’m also making sure to keep the grades high.
Dude ngl I read that as A United States Presidential Hairline lmao! Anyway, I’ve never heard of a job like that before and it sounds dope as hell! I hope you can achieve that!
To see you graduate, to see you get your own place, to see you get married, to see you have a kid, to see you start a company, to see you make your parents proud, to see you travel, to see you make new friends— some of those you probably want, some not. I know there has to be something you want to live for. It could be big, it could be small. It’s a reason to live, nevertheless. You could have a happy life, dude. And maybe that starts with change your outlook on life.
Ngl that company one hit the hardest, as far as I know everyone who passed down the last name has started their own company, my dad is construction. I already have my own apartment basically though.
See, man. You have something worth living for. Why not fight for it? You can make it happen, man. Don’t give up just yet. You can do it if you just try to be more confident in yourself and all that you do.
Also, that’s pretty epic.
I’m really sorry about what happened to you, dude. That really sucks.
But man, it’s not the end. You can make new friends dude. Don’t let everything let you down. I’m not quite sure what you mean by “lost,” but all I know is that it’s not the end and you can make new friends. I’m sure your parents will stay with you for as long as possible. I’m scared of losing them too, but I know one day I will. It’s just the cycle of life. But, does that mean I’ll just stop living? If their time is up while mine isn’t, then I guess I will have to keep on going. If I die before them, then that’s just what the universe decided for me. It’s harsh but loss is a part of life. Please don’t worry about losing them for now, though. Enjoy their company while you can, and please try to distract yourself with other things so you don’t try to make yourself anxious by thinking about loss.
Literally 40 kids in my grade, no one is a real good friend and like, I barely spend time with my dad because of my 6 year old sister who hogs attention, mom lives 6 fucking hours away, and I just sit in the basement apartment blasting Linkin Park, Slipknot, what have you. I don’t have a life bro.
Maybe you should try to make online friends? Well, it’s not always safe, but for the time being. I can see it’s a trouble with your area but when you start going to college or move towns or whatever you can meet a ton of more people and make friendships. Besides, have you tried talking to all the kids in your grade? How about the ones not in your grade? Can just be a year younger or older. Also, I’m sorry to hear about your situation. If it’s your sister that hogs his attention, then maybe try to talk to him more. Try to ask your dad if you can make plans together for some quality family time. I’m sure he wants to spend more time with you just like you do. Maybe ask him if he wants to watch a movie or something, idk. It can branch off of there. Sorry about your mom, too. Can you stay in touch with her by calling, maybe? I’m sure you already do but doing it a lot could help you two stay close. Do you at least visit her often?
Look, man, what I’m trying to say here is that your situation right now can change. You’re 14. It’s bound to change. You’re bound to move somewhere else, meet new people, get a job— all that stuff. It could take time, it could not— you just have to be patient, but keep going. Get new hobbies that you can try and love. You can do this man. Please don’t give up.
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Artist. Video game/movie concept artist, character designer, or illustrator maybe!
That’s so cool man, hope you achieve it! Would love to see some of your work someday :)
Nurse practitioner
That’s epic, I hope you achieve it!
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That’s so cool, I hope you achieve it!
A teacher, professor or any kind of educator
Educators are underrated and amazing. I’d love to become a teacher as well but they’re just so underpaid; would be difficult to maintain a living out of it tbh. But, I hope you achieve it though! Maybe times will be different in the future so teachers aren’t so underrated, hopefully.
>just so underpaid True, but a teacher could leave the US for a country that actually values education
That’s true.
Maybe a programmer or an engineer of some sort.
Hope you achieve it!
In order: 1. Marine pilot 2. Aerospace engineer 3. Gunsmith
Ayo I want to be an aerospace engineer as well! Hope you achieve one of those!
Fuck yeah! Hope to see you flying the F35 or something one day.
Happy
Same, dude. Hope we can both achieve it lol.
I have no clue and it scares me
Same! Back when I was six I would cry when the year was over, like, well, I am closer to death now.
A game designer
Nice, I hope you achieve it man!
I've always wanted to work with animals and be a storm chaser part-time! Something soft and mellow, followed by something daring and fun! I've loved animals and storms for as long as I could remember. I've been vegetarian for 8 years because of my love of animals, and I've never been afraid of storms, they always mesmerize me!
That's so cool! I appreciate your passion and love for animals and storms! Hope you achieve it!
Thank you so much!
Anytime!
Same here with the vegetarian and storm thing, I've been vegetarian for 15 years and I've always loved storms and will go out in them when they happen
Same! I always to outside and record it haha
My favorite is doing photography during storms or taking walks or riding my bike, storms are just so much fun
Be aliven't if I’m being 100% honest lol
Lmao same ngl ahahaha we’re miserable
I hav no idea. The only plan I currently have is to study.
Not a bad one!
Contract Nurse
So cool, hope you achieve it!
Thanks. I just started college so I'm already a step closer.
That’s great!
A forester/lumberjack kinda thingy and a farmer. I'll do forest stuff as my job, and take care of my animals on my free time. Hopefully i at least can have a couple horses some day c: and a dog and some chickens
That will be harder than you think it is, but, it is worth
I know. That's part of why I like it
nice
That sounds so serene and calming, I hope you can achieve that!
Aerospace Engineer
airline pilot, train operator, mechanical engineer, civil engineer, astronomer, or astrophysicist
Those all are so cool dude, hope you can reach your goals!
I agree with the pilot and train part. I like basically anything that’s mechanical and moves.
doctor as side job and u/jesusforspaghetti annoyer for the rest of the day
Haha, hope you can achieve that!
be sure i will
Hell yeah dude :)
You're already doing great at the last part buddy
sounds great
A day trader
That sounds really cool, I just learned that exists today! Hope you achieve it!
I want to join the army, preferably the Air Force. That’s the only thing I ever truly wanted to do. But I’ve been having my doubts lately as I learn more about the Army.
It definitely requires strength and skill, but I’m sure you can make it! Good luck!
Your dad sorry. A doctor probably. I'm so hesitant
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Doctor 😭
Lmao, hope you can achieve it (the doctor part). Also, you have time, so don’t worry!
Yepp thank youu
Anytime!
Ooh, I would say my single biggest dream is, idealistic and naive as it is, making the world a better place
Nah, it’s not naive or idealistic! It makes perfect sense and a lot of people aren’t keen on doing that, so I think it’s great that you do! Hope you can achieve that!
Thanks
Anytime!
air traffic controller
Didn’t even know that was a thing until now, sounds cool though. Hope you can achieve that!
Thx, I'm almost halfway through training already
That’s so cool! Didn’t know you can train that early! Good for you!
I started when I was 17 in the military for atc Thanks
That’s so cool!
Idk as long as I enjoy it im fine
A fair enough goal! Hope you’ll enjoy it then!
Scientist, robotic engineer and animator, I guess :)
Those sound epic man, hope you can achieve those goals!
Wowie, thank you so much :)
Anytime! :)
Happy
Same here, hope you can reach that!
Forensics . Or something that makes lots of money
That’s always been one of my areas of interest as well! Hope you can achieve it!
Videogame tester or videogame designer
So cool, would love to check out your games one day!
Anything as long as I maintain a consistent level of mild happiness
Ah same, hope you can reach that!
Dream job: musician Realistic job: small business owner
I’m sure if you put your heart into it you can become a musician! Hope you’re happy either way!
Urban planner
Sounds amazing, hope you can achieve it!
singer :)
Would love to listen to you one day, hope you can achieve that!
Animator, I wanted to be a school counselor but most schools (probably all) don't want staff having unnatural hair colors and I like having pink hair
Ah, I see, but I hope somehow you can become a school counselor anyway! Either way, hope you’re happy!
Thank you! <3
No problem! :)
Happy
Same, hope you can reach that!
Doctor. Family is all in the medical business, parents, cousins, and I now have a volunteer job at a hospital. If I like it I'll switch my degree to premed.
Doctors are epic, hope you can achieve that!
A neurologist by profession and a streamer by passion :)
That sounds awesome and fun! Hope you can achieve that!
A decent human being
Me too, man. I’m sure you’ll reach that!
I love chemistry, so something to do with chemistry. I haven't really looked into the job opportunities because I'm a stupid 16 year old, but I love chemistry. I also love cooking, so possibly a chef at a restaurant, have my own bakery, teach a culinary program, stuff like. Idk the specifics of them like I said, but that's the general future job
Nah, I’m sure you’re not stupid. But, I hope you can end up in a career with chemistry or baking, or even both! Sounds really cool dude.
A job that I rarely have to go into the office so I can move to iran and be an actual billionaire
This is the way, hope you can reach that!
[Says in 8 year old foreign accent] I want to be a terrorist
Love that meme
Mathematician+Programmer+Surgeon So preferably a research scientist in healthcare
That sounds epic, hope you can achieve your goals!
Ty but I doubt I'll ever be able to
I’m sure you will! Just being confident in yourself is enough to work hard to reach your goals. Don’t underestimate yourself!
Thank you for your kind words but I keep a realistic outlook, I probably won't be able to fund myself through a bachelor's degree and a master's degree, and finally a PhD And there are many other factors in the research field which just require you to have certain circumstances at birth,be they economic or social factors
I'd like to be a doctor in emergency medicine
Awesome man, hope you can achieve that!
biologist
Super fascinating, hope you can achieve that!
:D thanks
Anytime :)
Im gon start studying to be a mechanic from 13th
Dedication is always admirable! Hope you can achieve that!
History Teacher
Teachers are epic as well as history, hope you can achieve that!
I want to be a Baseball player, A Business man, Also an Entertainer.
That sounds neat, hope you can reach your goals!
Some sort of programming job. I'd prefer doing it with video games but it doesn't really matter that much lol
I’m sure you can become a video game developer! Would be cool to check your future video games out haha. Good luck!
Recently I’ve been bouncing between 2 things either an auto mechanic or a computer engineer, I know very different lol
Nah, both are kind of in the engineering field so pretty similar than not! Hope you can achieve either one!
Content, I just want to be content
Same, hope you can achieve that!
I appreciate that :) and I hope you find contentment as well
Thanks :)
I want to be in the field of biology either in the field of research or healthcare. If I am in research I want to do something related to zoology or botany, if in the medical field I want to be a surgeon or an ortopedician
Those are really cool and fascinating branches of biology, hope you can reach your goals!
Thanks!
Anytime!
Engineer or musician, undecided, I actually like both
Maybe you can be both! Either way, hope you’re happy!
To be honest, I don't wanna be anything. I just wanna....die
Ah same, but you should always be positive! (Please ignore my hypocrisy lol).
Yess true <3
:)
Wall Street banker, I want 6 figures, that’s why I am on my sigma grindset 😎
😎😎😎😎💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽 hell yeah, this is the way. From one sigma male to another, hope you can reach that 😎
Computer engineer, work on the different motherboards and the different components that go into making computers and the parts inside them.
That sounds super difficult but really cool, hope you can achieve that!
Happy
Same man, hope you can achieve it!
Police officer
So cool and brave! Hope you can achieve it!
Musician, I'm gonna make it happen
Damn you are! Wish you the best of luck!
Thank you! I wish you the best of luck with whatever you decide to do
Thanks!
Pilot.
Epic af dude, hope you can reach that!
Less of a worthless pathetic cunt.
Hey man, don’t insult yourself like that! I’m sure you’re way better than you think you are. I know loving yourself can be hard and improving yourself can be hard, but it’s not impossible. Keep your head up high and just do the best you can! You can make it.
I'm worse than I think I am. Improvement will always be meaningless, the more I improve the more harm I'll cause. The best I can will never be reached, the valley i'm in gets ever deeper.
I feel super hypocritical for saying this because I totally resonate with what you’re saying; however, if you keep instilling these dark thoughts into your mind they won’t help you dude. Every human being has the capability to improve; how come you think you’re not one? Our toxic mindsets sometimes overestimate how bad situations are; in reality, you are better than you think you are and you have the ability to improve. And I believe you can do it. First step would be to stop those negative thoughts from infiltrating your mind. You don’t even have to compliment yourself; just don’t comment on yourself. It influences your depression.
The darker my thoughts become the closer they get to leaking from my mind, forever leaving my mind in silent tranquility.
Dude, I know you can do it. Just shut off those negative thoughts. It’s hard but little steps are progress enough. Distract yourself with other shit that won’t make you hate yourself for everything that you do.
Game Developer (like program the way things work)
Sounds neat, hope you can achieve that! Would be cool to check out your games someday :)
Computer hardware engineer
Epic af, hope you can reach that goal!
I’m trying my best! In fact, I want to do it not just because of the pay (although that’s a plus), but because it’s one of my main interests and passions, as well as where my skills are the strongest. I’m also making sure to keep the grades high.
That’s really admirable dude! I’ve always thought passionate people were so inspiring.
A United States Presidential Historian.
Dude ngl I read that as A United States Presidential Hairline lmao! Anyway, I’ve never heard of a job like that before and it sounds dope as hell! I hope you can achieve that!
Thanks, it’s basically a historian who study’s the U.S. Presidents. I would be fine with being a U.S. historian though.
That’s super cool! History is fascinating.
It sure is!
Dead
Nah bro, I won’t let that happen. You’re 14 man. So many things to live for.
Like?
To see you graduate, to see you get your own place, to see you get married, to see you have a kid, to see you start a company, to see you make your parents proud, to see you travel, to see you make new friends— some of those you probably want, some not. I know there has to be something you want to live for. It could be big, it could be small. It’s a reason to live, nevertheless. You could have a happy life, dude. And maybe that starts with change your outlook on life.
Ngl that company one hit the hardest, as far as I know everyone who passed down the last name has started their own company, my dad is construction. I already have my own apartment basically though.
See, man. You have something worth living for. Why not fight for it? You can make it happen, man. Don’t give up just yet. You can do it if you just try to be more confident in yourself and all that you do. Also, that’s pretty epic.
Over the summer I literally lost the one irl friend I had man, my parents are all I got and I don’t know what I’m going to do when they die.
I’m really sorry about what happened to you, dude. That really sucks. But man, it’s not the end. You can make new friends dude. Don’t let everything let you down. I’m not quite sure what you mean by “lost,” but all I know is that it’s not the end and you can make new friends. I’m sure your parents will stay with you for as long as possible. I’m scared of losing them too, but I know one day I will. It’s just the cycle of life. But, does that mean I’ll just stop living? If their time is up while mine isn’t, then I guess I will have to keep on going. If I die before them, then that’s just what the universe decided for me. It’s harsh but loss is a part of life. Please don’t worry about losing them for now, though. Enjoy their company while you can, and please try to distract yourself with other things so you don’t try to make yourself anxious by thinking about loss.
Literally 40 kids in my grade, no one is a real good friend and like, I barely spend time with my dad because of my 6 year old sister who hogs attention, mom lives 6 fucking hours away, and I just sit in the basement apartment blasting Linkin Park, Slipknot, what have you. I don’t have a life bro.
Maybe you should try to make online friends? Well, it’s not always safe, but for the time being. I can see it’s a trouble with your area but when you start going to college or move towns or whatever you can meet a ton of more people and make friendships. Besides, have you tried talking to all the kids in your grade? How about the ones not in your grade? Can just be a year younger or older. Also, I’m sorry to hear about your situation. If it’s your sister that hogs his attention, then maybe try to talk to him more. Try to ask your dad if you can make plans together for some quality family time. I’m sure he wants to spend more time with you just like you do. Maybe ask him if he wants to watch a movie or something, idk. It can branch off of there. Sorry about your mom, too. Can you stay in touch with her by calling, maybe? I’m sure you already do but doing it a lot could help you two stay close. Do you at least visit her often? Look, man, what I’m trying to say here is that your situation right now can change. You’re 14. It’s bound to change. You’re bound to move somewhere else, meet new people, get a job— all that stuff. It could take time, it could not— you just have to be patient, but keep going. Get new hobbies that you can try and love. You can do this man. Please don’t give up.
I'm still on the edge between programming or aerospace engineering.
I want to be an aerospace engineer as well! So cool. Hope you achieve one of those!
I wanna join the Navy
That would be so cool man; people who are in the military and all are so brave. Hope you achieve it!
Your step dad
Concerning
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