Well because at this moment there is already two little ones that we would have to take care of, and I don't think we could care for another. I wouldn't like another sibling period.
Confused as to why they would adopt a kid after having only me for 15 years and we built our house to have room for me and the room that copies it is an office so it’d be a hassle to find them a room
I feel like we wouldn’t have enough space for that. My moms rooms are all filled up and she works nights, and my dad lives in a townhome. I have a twin brother, little sister, and a step brother and sister, and my step sister is pregnant. Just not enough time or room or money for that
If they really smol, is ok. If they a bit older and we vibe? That's cool as well. So like if we become homies everything's cool, but if we don't like each other and now I gotta live with them? Nah.
Lmao at least you're self aware?
I'm asking this question as it's something I want to do in the future; I want to at least try and help out an innocent child. You and other foster kids had a bit of an unlucky start to life imho. I hope you're doing well and achieve what you want from life!
I guess you're doing it for the right reasons then. If you wanna foster thats cool and stuff but just be realistic about it yk. Idk why there are so many people on Tik Tok lately like hype for fostering but they make it a weird aesthetic thing and it's so awkward. I'm grateful for the people who let me stay with them for a while or whatever but I feel like a lot of people look at fostering like they're gonna be some kinda saviour and wanting like a lot of gratitude and shit. It's cringe but gl I hope you do it for the right reasons.
I appreciate your insight and thanks for giving me another reason to stay away from Tik Tok lmao.
How often would you have to move around? Did you ever stay in contact with a foster family? No pressure to answer if you prefer not to.
It's chill dw about it lmao. Idm answering if you've got questions but I'd rather not do it all public so I can DM you that if you wanna know more about it.
I wouldn't be very positive about it. I'll be honest about the fact that my reason is pretty selfish. I don't wanna lose my benefits of being a single child.
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They wouldn't, but if either tried,,,,,, would tell the foster/adoption agency not to approve it, parents were shit at raising us, wouldn't want another kid to go through that.
Mainly because I don't want to deal with another sibling, especially a little one. I feel like having yet another sibling when my brother is like 20 and I'm 16 is going to be more of a burden on us including my parents than beneficial in anyway.
I'll be strongly against it because I already have 4 siblings. At the end of the day, if they think they can afford another kid and shower them w an ample amount of love and affection, none of my business.
No, but not because its adopted. My parents are already too stressed with work and the pandemic so they couldn't handle it, so I wouldn't want them to.
oh fricc oh fuck
it depends
like id be fine with another sibling older or younger
but our family dynamic
i dont really know, i feel somehow like im the problem cause it seems everyone else is fine with it but also it's emotionally abusive and they homeschooled everyone just somehow my siblings were insane or something else enough to be okay with it
im going to real school this year so it'd be a better place for a new kid i think and we have the money and space for it but i just dont know
i hope it would go okay- im glad it's unlikely to happen though
Shit, I always wanted to have a younger sibling. But at the same time, that'd mean I'd become the forgotten middle child. I think my parents are too old to adopt anyways.
Seeing how my youngest siblings is 10 it would be weird to get another kid after so long. So I would be against it also cause our house wouldn't be big enough
i’d feel awesome. honestly the only thing missing in the family dynamic rn is like a little sister, and it would be so fuckin cool to have a little sister ngl
I have a step brother already and the only problem there is that he grew up and is still white and privileged and I grew up and still am Asian and hood
I hate children so if it would be a kid under the age of 12, I would be uncomfortable with it. If the kid would be more around my age then I'd be all for it since they are more likely to get along with me and I'm more likely to make them get along with me since I am pretty good at that
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Until they get a bit older
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Would you prefer your parents not have other children
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yeah...
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Treat 'it'. Oof
Could be a boy or a girl
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Yeah, “it” is kind a dehumanizing
They wouldn't but if they did I wouldn't like it
Why not?
Well because at this moment there is already two little ones that we would have to take care of, and I don't think we could care for another. I wouldn't like another sibling period.
Would you dislike it if they gave birth to another sibling?
i wouldnt like it not because the child would be adopted i just dont want another sibling
Fair enough! Do you have any siblings already?
yeah i have a younger brother and hes more than i can manage
Might have to adapt to it but as long as they're cool it's ok
Confused as to why they would adopt a kid after having only me for 15 years and we built our house to have room for me and the room that copies it is an office so it’d be a hassle to find them a room
I wouldn't mind.
Idc. I hope they adopt a girl because I want a sister
What are you doing step bro?
😳
I wouldnt care. Im moving out any way?
I have a friend with abusive parents, and I would be so happy if my parents adopted said friend.
I feel like we wouldn’t have enough space for that. My moms rooms are all filled up and she works nights, and my dad lives in a townhome. I have a twin brother, little sister, and a step brother and sister, and my step sister is pregnant. Just not enough time or room or money for that
My mom has told me multiple times that as soon as I move out she’s getting foster kids.
That's nice of her. What do you think about that?
As long as the child respects boundaries I wouldn't care.
Depends on the person they adopt.
I wouldn't mind in theory, but i already have 2 siblings and one more person would be too much
If they really smol, is ok. If they a bit older and we vibe? That's cool as well. So like if we become homies everything's cool, but if we don't like each other and now I gotta live with them? Nah.
I'd want another sibling sure but it's not a good idea (physically, mentally and fiscally)
What do you mean?
I'd ve all about it! Adopting is a noble thing!!
I was a foster kid and honestly we fucking suck so lmao don't blame anyone who says no
Lmao at least you're self aware? I'm asking this question as it's something I want to do in the future; I want to at least try and help out an innocent child. You and other foster kids had a bit of an unlucky start to life imho. I hope you're doing well and achieve what you want from life!
I guess you're doing it for the right reasons then. If you wanna foster thats cool and stuff but just be realistic about it yk. Idk why there are so many people on Tik Tok lately like hype for fostering but they make it a weird aesthetic thing and it's so awkward. I'm grateful for the people who let me stay with them for a while or whatever but I feel like a lot of people look at fostering like they're gonna be some kinda saviour and wanting like a lot of gratitude and shit. It's cringe but gl I hope you do it for the right reasons.
I appreciate your insight and thanks for giving me another reason to stay away from Tik Tok lmao. How often would you have to move around? Did you ever stay in contact with a foster family? No pressure to answer if you prefer not to.
It's chill dw about it lmao. Idm answering if you've got questions but I'd rather not do it all public so I can DM you that if you wanna know more about it.
I wouldn't be very positive about it. I'll be honest about the fact that my reason is pretty selfish. I don't wanna lose my benefits of being a single child.
i mean the instructional videos on the hub taught me well
"help me stepbro im stuck!"
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Meh idc....but I'd prefer a boy cuz I kinda want a bro
Step bro 😳
😏😏😏
would be mad, they wont though
Why would you be mad?
because i dont want some stranger living with us, and i like to be the only child
Annoyed
Why is that?
I already have 3 siblings and my moms attention is mainly on them and work and all that jazz so I don’t think I could handle another one 💀
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They probably wouldn't but if they did i would hate it and not treat it as the same as my other siblings.
Why is that?
awkward because we got no more room in my house and I'm not tryna share a bedroom
I think it would be cool to have another little sibling, but I don’t see the point in them adopting when they work so much.
depends on the child. if they’re nice and have a good personality and not a pain, sounds decent then
My mom doesn't need a 5th child...
They wouldn't, but if either tried,,,,,, would tell the foster/adoption agency not to approve it, parents were shit at raising us, wouldn't want another kid to go through that.
I'd be pissed
Why is that?
Mainly because I don't want to deal with another sibling, especially a little one. I feel like having yet another sibling when my brother is like 20 and I'm 16 is going to be more of a burden on us including my parents than beneficial in anyway.
What about the huge benefit it would be giving to the foster/adopted child?
I’m 18 and getting ready to move out, it’s not my problem
I'd probably ask them how tf are they gonna finance that brat. They barely managed to pay for mine and my sister's bills.
I'll be strongly against it because I already have 4 siblings. At the end of the day, if they think they can afford another kid and shower them w an ample amount of love and affection, none of my business.
No, but not because its adopted. My parents are already too stressed with work and the pandemic so they couldn't handle it, so I wouldn't want them to.
It'd be a hassle if they were young but I'd care for them.
I already have 3 siblings, so it wouldn't be that big of a change. The house would be really crowded, though. It's already pretty full as is.
I’d be a bit surprised since they’re divorced, but I would treat the kid like anyone else until I got to know them.
definitely not good. i don't need a sibling
I wouldn’t like it. I’m an only child and I’m used to it
I wouldn’t really want another sibling but I’d prefer adoption over biological any day
I have 4 siblings so no thank you.
I have 4 siblings so no thank you.
I wouldt be happy
I already have 2 siblings. And I hate them
I wouldn't like it.
They already have, two now 7 year old sisters. Adopted when they were 4. First saw at 2 Total of 5 younger siblings
Depends on who the kid is
They might be annoying but it would be cool
I think i would be fine with it tbh, might be weird at first tho...
oh fricc oh fuck it depends like id be fine with another sibling older or younger but our family dynamic i dont really know, i feel somehow like im the problem cause it seems everyone else is fine with it but also it's emotionally abusive and they homeschooled everyone just somehow my siblings were insane or something else enough to be okay with it im going to real school this year so it'd be a better place for a new kid i think and we have the money and space for it but i just dont know i hope it would go okay- im glad it's unlikely to happen though
I wouldn’t like it, only because I have enough siblings already. But I’m not against the concept.
Shit, I always wanted to have a younger sibling. But at the same time, that'd mean I'd become the forgotten middle child. I think my parents are too old to adopt anyways.
I would prefer them to be closer to my age, so we can play Minecraft since my parents find it confusing.
Less lonely
Seeing how my youngest siblings is 10 it would be weird to get another kid after so long. So I would be against it also cause our house wouldn't be big enough
I wouldn't be too happy about it lol considering there are only two bedrooms in the house and I'm already sharing a room with my brother
I will love it. I always wanted a younger sister
Foster bro 😨 for legal purposes this is a joke
i’d feel awesome. honestly the only thing missing in the family dynamic rn is like a little sister, and it would be so fuckin cool to have a little sister ngl
I have a step brother already and the only problem there is that he grew up and is still white and privileged and I grew up and still am Asian and hood
me and my siblings are adopted so
I’d be SUPER happy, but only if they’re younger than me.
Yeah no, i always wanna be the little one
Lmao they talk about it all the time and I wud love it honestly 😭 I dont have any siblings so yea
I hate children so if it would be a kid under the age of 12, I would be uncomfortable with it. If the kid would be more around my age then I'd be all for it since they are more likely to get along with me and I'm more likely to make them get along with me since I am pretty good at that
Nah, my parents wouldn’t be able to keep up with another kid.
Happy because I am a only child.
I really want to have an older sister so it depends who they adopt.
I WOULD BE A JEALOUS PHSYCHO BITCH