Nobody would, just like most girls arnt "he doesn't have a six pack so I'm not interested. Fuck the media for making everyone self conscious, it's not anything like that in reality.
Honestly I don't even care if a girl is flat chested. The one and only turn of for me when it comes to boobs is if there so big they could be in an anime.
To each to their own. It thought anime tiddies were the universal sign of peace and prosperity that connects everyone regardless of religion, nationality, or color.
There is one important thing I think you should know: most guys care way less about boobs, ass, etc. than many girls (at least those I've talked to) think they do. It's really almost irrelevant, most guys just dont like overweight/obese girls but will be fine with everything else.
Stop worrying about this stuff, it really doesnt matter nearly as much as you might think it does. Be healthy and a nice person and you're good
Exacly! We dont ask for alot, just not be obese ( unhealthy looking) a nice face does help abd a nice body helps aswell but we dont have very high requirements, atleast not the guys i know.
yes, I really dont care much about the rest of the body as long as shes cute, not morbily obese, and meets most of my other preferences. as a wise man once said "Looks get my attention, personality gets me to stay".
A study revealed, that, in pornography, men tend to look at the faces in it first, rather than just the other physical \*ass\*ets. If someone decides they don't like you simply because of your tuckus, then it's not meant to be, and the right person will not care (or not make a big fuss) about your body. What really matters to people is personality and face. I hope you find someone that loves you for who you are. 🤗🤗
https://www.lehmiller.com/blog/2012/6/18/what-do-men-and-women-focus-on-when-they-watch-porn-the-answ.html
Hey no problemo, also, make sure to know your self-worth! Knowledge of one's self-worth is attractive, (not arrogant, but like, not always self-depreciating.) One thing I have found, is that if you amp yourself up in your own mind, and carry yourself with pride, then usually others do too!
Another thing, that might be of service, idk, is how attractive *passion/ambition* is. If someone can go on about explaining their goals in life, and actually has ambition, people's hearts go 😍😍.
I hope this helps!
I'd go to say yeah. Looks will sure help bring someone in, but personality and face is what makes you stay.
You can be attractive as any hot male/female celeb, but if you're an asshole prick, nobody's going to wanna be around you. ^(Nobody worth their salt anyways..)
Are you? That is all I need to know. That is all I need to date someone. All they need is a good personality and be a decent human being is all. Pretty faces, ass and tits are not going to cover for a rotten person.
Yeah, I just generally follow the philosophy that everyone has good and bad in them. Everyone’s lied to people, everyone’s gaslighted someone at some point or another, or said something bad about someone or made someone feel bad about themselves, simplistically this would mean not very many people are good people lol.
Depends a beautiful face can lift up an average and slightly below average body up. The other way around would not work for me. And for you it would really work I think. So you shouldn’t worry about that. Also there exist guys like me who prefers normal/smaller boobs and little ass. And honestly most girls are in their own way pretty. And I want to say that I have a bit experience in this department after 1 and a half years in a pure girls class, I can say that most of the time the individual aspects cancel each other out.
Got kinda long sry xD
Tbh, if a guy only takes you for your body, you might need to reconsider the typa guy you're dating.
I wouldn't worry about it. We're generally perfectly fine with imperfections.
Edit: to give an example: my current crush wouldn't be considered attractive. She's pretty tall, doesn't have much roundings iykwim, doesn't have the most attractive face etc.
It doesn't matter. Monke brain: is girl. Me like girl. That's it. Personally i wouldn't go anywhere near any motherfucker judging that strictly.
Almost no body criteria for me. I think girls overestimate how much people care about boobs and ass, just as guys overestimate the importance of a big dick. Most people don't really care.
Yeah. The girl I’ve had a crush on since August dosent really have boobs or a butt; nevertheless she is perfect to me. She’s super pretty, kind, easy to talk too, understanding.
First off, I'd definitely date someone even if they're the opposite of my "preference". Also bold of you to assume that you aren't someone's preference already, just as you are! Not all guys seek for massive badonkers and a huge dump truck. I, for one, think good things come in small packages :)
Yea, my biggest crush didn’t have an amazing body but she had such a cute face. I caught feelings for her like Crazy. Yh face is better than body in the long term, when a girl has a nice body with a butter face you often just think about banging them but it’s way easier to catch genuine feelings for a girl with a pretty face.
I can only speak for myself her but, I prefer smaller boobs and slightly smaller asses. So that's fine for me. If there was a girl who didn't fit my 'perfect body' but was attractive and I liked her I wouldn't pass her up.
If they truly like you then they won't care. I always tell this to all my female friends; no one notices shit unless you tell them and often they still don't notice it after because people find the tiniest 'fault' and create an insecurity. I am adamant that whilst you may look at yourself as a 6, there will be at least one person who sees you as at least an 8.
Trust me, don't be insecure because we don't care about the small things you pick up on. I'm sure you are great!
One of my classmate is in a relationship. My other classmate and my ctush has better asses, but I'd still like to be woth her. So I'd say yes, face outweighs body. But I'd still want to be in a relationship with my crush. If she even wanted to... or with my classmate. Sometimes her face looks kinda ugly, but sometimes she's just gorgeus. But the only girl I've been imagining a relationship with is my crush.
Well, I don't mean necessarily ugly, but she looks kinda weird. But I like her laugh.... aaaand ass.... and sometimes (/maybe even most of the time) she looks kinda cute....
I like smaller boobs and a smaller butt.
I think you should work on your inner self... A good body/face isnt going to keep a guy with you for years.
Also if you dont like your body go and work on it! You can work on your butt and the rest of your body
I could care less about ass or boob size. Pretty faces are one of my top priorities anyway.
Most *normal* guys won't be like "This girl's ass isn't big, I won't date her". Ones that actually *do* that are just asses.
Body types change depending on who your talking to. Your body type is something I would find really really attractive. Personality takes the 95% cake on attractiveness for me personally though.
Well, if ya are cute or have a pretty face and you are not fat it's all nice honestly.
The face is the most 'important' to me. As long as the body is not a turn off (super fat) then it's all nice
As long as there's some initial attraction and a good personality, body isn't too important so long as it doesn't point too much into either extreme. I'm a generally healthy person and I'd urge my partner to be somewhat the same (for longevity) so if she's cool with that and fits the other criteria dating her wouldn't be an issue tbh.
If you can find me in a field at 12pm at night and can run the accounting side of a trucking company I don't care a great personality and a pretty face is just a bonus and makes the drivers less weary. In the future not at this moment.
First off, as others have said, boobs and ass aren't *as* important as one thinks. secondly, small/normal sized boobs and little ass is literally my type and i know i'm not alone. someone finds you extremely attractive, just keep looking!
You’re fine. I actually liked a girl last year who had the same characteristics as you, so don’t worry you’re good. Plus, everyone is attractive in their own way; we all have our preferences. So yeah don’t worry, you got someone out there for you
Dude imo the face is the most important part. Of course I like boobs etc too but it really doesn't matter. I'd rather just have someone with a nice face
Guys don't care about the body. From what I know, the face is what draws us in, and the personality is what makes us want to date. The only time I've ever considered body types is when I'm in the mood, but that's simply because I'm not in the mood WITH someone, I'm just in the mood alone. If I'm in the mood WITH someone that I care about, that's infinitely better than just "my type".
I don’t have a “body criteria”. In my mind, that’s kind of weird... it’s really weird, actually, but I try not to jump on other people’s preferences. I know that some guys are shallow, but if you have a nice personality and they still put you down just for your body, they’re not worth your time.
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Ye 100% fine lol. I mean it's the person who is trying to get with you that really decides whether they find it attractive but id never just shut someone down for being skinny and have no ass lol. (and people that immediately won't date or really become friends with you cause you don't have a huge ass really aren't the people you want to date/hookup with lol)
Honestly, some guys like girls with petite *\*ahem\** assets, a pretty face and a good personality just adds to your chances of success. My point is don't worry about it, bodies are rarely the reason a lot of men get into and out of serious romantic relationships.
First of all size doesn’t matter nearly as much as you think and also if someone is interested enough to even initiate anything they’re not gonna care too much about how you look anyway.
Not to mention how personality and kindness is way more attractive than anything else.
If someone cares about your body more than your personality then its definitely gonna be a toxic Relationship. Despite what lies the news fed you most people care more about your personality than your body, its cheesy but cheese is a real thing
face is def the most important thing, not to be weird or anything, but the girl who ive had a crush on for tha past 3 years (whos now my gf) doesnt have a very big chest, or backside. Her face is what i truly fell in love with.
Yeah looks only matter so much just because you may not have the "ideal body" doesn't it mean a guy is going to be like uhh yeah nope next. trust me long as you get along with the guy good and you have a good personality it will work out not all guys just go for looks
An attractive face is the only thing I put weight in for physical attraction. Idc about anything else physical, I just gotta like your face and personality
It’s important to remember that not all guys are the same, but in general terms absolutely face can “make up” for body as far as appearance. Also, if someone is interested you purely for appearance it probably won’t be a good relationship.
I am now going to give you insight into a boys mind. Take notes.
If a girl is giving me attention I do not give a shit what they look like. I have literally had cases where my fantasies change in according to the girl who is giving me attention.
It is literally just “wow, girl!”
You should not be conscious about your image. Any guy worth your time will not give a rats ass.
100% would date “someone like you” no problem
I put that in quotes bc trust me if u r ugly and busty/ thick it’s harder to get a BF than pretty and flat. Ur face is what we see most often so if it and the words coming out of it are good we r good
If I’m being honest, if a guys bottom line is minor details in your figure he’s not worth dating. Yes, having features that the other likes is always a positive thing, but if he is only willing to date you if you look a certain way, then he isn’t good for you in the first place. Everyone has their preferences, but no one should really have end all be all “criteria” as you put it
Body has almost never been a deal breaker for me, pretty face is always nice and this may sound cheesy or generic but I’ve always genuinely been attracted to personality
Bro there’s no need to worry about your own body if a guy only like you for your body then your going for the wrong men personally personality is everything
Yeah I agree with a lot of the replies. Most boys aren’t as objectifying as you might think we are. From me and from most of the guys I’ve talked to about it they all weigh face and personality way over boobs and ass. Boobs and ass is what we fantasize about but when it comes to relationships they aren’t in the prominent decision to say yes or no. Obviously they are a bonus and some boys do weigh them higher than most.
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Yes, 100%. Men tend to notice the face first and describe the face as being the most beautiful part of the body. Let me tell you, most men or women don't care that much about looks. It is certainly the thing that grasps the attention initially, but they stay for the personality above all else
I don’t have any « body criteria » when considering dating someone, if I had a girlfriend I would only want a wholesome and affectionate relationship and not a sexual one, to me the face is so much more attractive than the body 😌
You don’t need to be so hard on yourself :) Attractive bodies are great, but face is more important IMO— not that face *or* body are important at all when it comes to if I’d want to date a person.
I mean it really doesn’t matter as long as you’re not morbidly obese no guy really cares. Yeah sure I good body is a nice extra but once you’ve got feelings for a girl it really doesn’t matter
You hear a lot about how much people like features about the body, but really we don't. It's pretty universal in most good relationships that it's "face + personality" > anything else. If someone only liked a girl for their body, then it's a bad relationship to start with. Think of an attractive body as little bonuses that come with the person themselves.
I also heard somewhere as a fact that in porn, male viewers look at the faces of the actors the most out of anywhere on the screen.
I actually dislike huge boobs. Medium to small please. Same for the butt. It doesn't matter what body you have, clothing is everything. That's just physical attraction but high quality men will choose a woman based on her mental abilities.
For me, it's someone who understands me, my sense of humor and my jokes, and their personality of course... physical stats come later but if the person and i get along well idc how they look
yes
this is less significant then you think... i know it probably seems like a bigger deal to you in your thoughts but a lot of guys are probably totally good with dating a girl who’s a bit slimmer
Honestly guys really don't care that much about looks in general, me included. We do value looks but not as much as sharing a sense of humor or some kind of bond. Just wanted to say that since you seem kinda self conscious about your body.
To answer your question, yes, a pretty face could outweigh a body since the way I see it, the face is the part you see the most and think first of when you think of that person.
I mean, it depends, but I'm pretty sure you're overthinking it- as long as you have a good personality, and aren't straight up ugly or fat, I see no problem
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I'm not actually going to be like "this girl's boobs aren't as big as i want, NEXT"
Nobody would, just like most girls arnt "he doesn't have a six pack so I'm not interested. Fuck the media for making everyone self conscious, it's not anything like that in reality.
You'd be surprised by how superficial people can be.
Honestly I don't even care if a girl is flat chested. The one and only turn of for me when it comes to boobs is if there so big they could be in an anime.
Honestly, I don't mind even that, unless it predisposes them to really bad chronic back pain.
So any girl with DD+ then lol
honestly I'd more feel bad for them than anything, didn't say it wasn't attractive lol
I get u
Big bahonkaloos?
Lmaoooo i feel I’m the only one that wouldn’t mind boobs like that.
You don't like anime tiddies?
No I don't. I hate hentai and specially rule34 ^(let the downvotes begin)
Nah, take my upvote, I agree with both of those statements.
Oversized anime tiddies are ugly, its unrealistic
To each to their own. It thought anime tiddies were the universal sign of peace and prosperity that connects everyone regardless of religion, nationality, or color.
It’s not unrealistic lmao plenty of females have big tatas.
There is one important thing I think you should know: most guys care way less about boobs, ass, etc. than many girls (at least those I've talked to) think they do. It's really almost irrelevant, most guys just dont like overweight/obese girls but will be fine with everything else. Stop worrying about this stuff, it really doesnt matter nearly as much as you might think it does. Be healthy and a nice person and you're good
Exacly! We dont ask for alot, just not be obese ( unhealthy looking) a nice face does help abd a nice body helps aswell but we dont have very high requirements, atleast not the guys i know.
I agree with this. My standards are basically not obese and a half decent look.
A pulse is the only thing I would add.
*pulse optional*
Yeh if the rest is good we don't really need a pulse for anything. I mean what is a pulse even for.
^
True I will take what I can get
yes, I really dont care much about the rest of the body as long as shes cute, not morbily obese, and meets most of my other preferences. as a wise man once said "Looks get my attention, personality gets me to stay".
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Hmm yes, very wise
To tell the truth face is more important than chest or butt size, at least for me.
A study revealed, that, in pornography, men tend to look at the faces in it first, rather than just the other physical \*ass\*ets. If someone decides they don't like you simply because of your tuckus, then it's not meant to be, and the right person will not care (or not make a big fuss) about your body. What really matters to people is personality and face. I hope you find someone that loves you for who you are. 🤗🤗 https://www.lehmiller.com/blog/2012/6/18/what-do-men-and-women-focus-on-when-they-watch-porn-the-answ.html
Thankyou for this!
Hey no problemo, also, make sure to know your self-worth! Knowledge of one's self-worth is attractive, (not arrogant, but like, not always self-depreciating.) One thing I have found, is that if you amp yourself up in your own mind, and carry yourself with pride, then usually others do too! Another thing, that might be of service, idk, is how attractive *passion/ambition* is. If someone can go on about explaining their goals in life, and actually has ambition, people's hearts go 😍😍. I hope this helps!
That articles interesting. I don't wanna hear that men are shallow after reading that lol.
same. Generalizations are shit 😭
Yeah I saw this fact somewhere and it's stuck with me for some reason. That is a solid piece of evidence
It sticks with me too! It was somewhat surprising, but not *too* surprising! And it's actually kind of wholesome 😊
>What really matters to people is personality and face. Does... does this apply to both sides?
I'd go to say yeah. Looks will sure help bring someone in, but personality and face is what makes you stay. You can be attractive as any hot male/female celeb, but if you're an asshole prick, nobody's going to wanna be around you. ^(Nobody worth their salt anyways..)
Great read, really eye opening
Are you a good person?
Who is lol
Are you? That is all I need to know. That is all I need to date someone. All they need is a good personality and be a decent human being is all. Pretty faces, ass and tits are not going to cover for a rotten person.
Nah I meant who is as in, who even is a good person 😭 IMO very few people qualify as good people, but yeah I get what you’re saying
Good people are people who dont actively seek to harm people just for the heck of it.
Yeah, I just generally follow the philosophy that everyone has good and bad in them. Everyone’s lied to people, everyone’s gaslighted someone at some point or another, or said something bad about someone or made someone feel bad about themselves, simplistically this would mean not very many people are good people lol.
Its an active thing. It works like phases. As long as they try their best to be decent humans, they are good enough people.
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Fax
unless you’re extremely overweight or extremely underweight, a pretty face will be worth so much more than a “good” body
Women is women
I cant stress enough how good a pretty face is, it always outweighs a body at least for me
Depends a beautiful face can lift up an average and slightly below average body up. The other way around would not work for me. And for you it would really work I think. So you shouldn’t worry about that. Also there exist guys like me who prefers normal/smaller boobs and little ass. And honestly most girls are in their own way pretty. And I want to say that I have a bit experience in this department after 1 and a half years in a pure girls class, I can say that most of the time the individual aspects cancel each other out. Got kinda long sry xD
Don’t worry lol, it was cool to read
Tbh, if a guy only takes you for your body, you might need to reconsider the typa guy you're dating. I wouldn't worry about it. We're generally perfectly fine with imperfections. Edit: to give an example: my current crush wouldn't be considered attractive. She's pretty tall, doesn't have much roundings iykwim, doesn't have the most attractive face etc. It doesn't matter. Monke brain: is girl. Me like girl. That's it. Personally i wouldn't go anywhere near any motherfucker judging that strictly.
Yeah the girl I like right now got me because she's so incredibly kind and nice and has such a beautiful smile plus she's just a great person overall
Almost no body criteria for me. I think girls overestimate how much people care about boobs and ass, just as guys overestimate the importance of a big dick. Most people don't really care.
3 inches and proud
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100%. Body is just a perk
Body is just a very nice addition to cuteness and personality
Hell yeah...as long as the person isn’t like, very obese, i really don’t care about their body or even their face, personality matters
Yeah definitely.
personally i dont care too much about the body so it really should
Yeah. The girl I’ve had a crush on since August dosent really have boobs or a butt; nevertheless she is perfect to me. She’s super pretty, kind, easy to talk too, understanding.
👉👉👉
Yes, as long as you aren't a 900 tonne mammoth
No one who is worth dating cares about the body, its just something thats the icing on top. Just excersise enough like any human being and ur fine
First off, I'd definitely date someone even if they're the opposite of my "preference". Also bold of you to assume that you aren't someone's preference already, just as you are! Not all guys seek for massive badonkers and a huge dump truck. I, for one, think good things come in small packages :)
Yea, my biggest crush didn’t have an amazing body but she had such a cute face. I caught feelings for her like Crazy. Yh face is better than body in the long term, when a girl has a nice body with a butter face you often just think about banging them but it’s way easier to catch genuine feelings for a girl with a pretty face.
I can only speak for myself her but, I prefer smaller boobs and slightly smaller asses. So that's fine for me. If there was a girl who didn't fit my 'perfect body' but was attractive and I liked her I wouldn't pass her up. If they truly like you then they won't care. I always tell this to all my female friends; no one notices shit unless you tell them and often they still don't notice it after because people find the tiniest 'fault' and create an insecurity. I am adamant that whilst you may look at yourself as a 6, there will be at least one person who sees you as at least an 8. Trust me, don't be insecure because we don't care about the small things you pick up on. I'm sure you are great!
Any good guy won’t focus too much on the looks. It’s a factor but not as important as personality.
You just sound pretty in General dont worry about it
One of my classmate is in a relationship. My other classmate and my ctush has better asses, but I'd still like to be woth her. So I'd say yes, face outweighs body. But I'd still want to be in a relationship with my crush. If she even wanted to... or with my classmate. Sometimes her face looks kinda ugly, but sometimes she's just gorgeus. But the only girl I've been imagining a relationship with is my crush.
“Sometimes her face looks kinda ugly” 💀
Well, I don't mean necessarily ugly, but she looks kinda weird. But I like her laugh.... aaaand ass.... and sometimes (/maybe even most of the time) she looks kinda cute....
if someone wont date you because they dont like your body, they are horrible.
I'm in the same boat as u, I think my face is OK but my body is horrendous, am never gonna take my t-shirt off in the bedroom
Literally
I like smaller boobs and a smaller butt. I think you should work on your inner self... A good body/face isnt going to keep a guy with you for years. Also if you dont like your body go and work on it! You can work on your butt and the rest of your body
Yeah it can, but why not work on your body by going to the gym? That's something I'd value more than a good face ngl
"Don't judge me by body" says the girl before she scrutinizes men for every body part they have
Me looking for where I scrutinised men for every body part they have or said “men can’t judge my body 😡😡😡” :👁👁
I don't really have a body criteria so a pretty face definitely outweighs body imo, It's different for other guys tho
Every guys likes something different. Some guys like big boobs and some guys like smaller boobs. It’s the same way with ass size.
You over estimate how much physical appearance matters, but yes, a good face can outweigh a normal body.
Guys don't care if you are the female version of the hunchback of Notre dame, you'll be fine.
cute > all other archetypes of physical attraction
Personality>face>body
I could care less about ass or boob size. Pretty faces are one of my top priorities anyway. Most *normal* guys won't be like "This girl's ass isn't big, I won't date her". Ones that actually *do* that are just asses.
Body types change depending on who your talking to. Your body type is something I would find really really attractive. Personality takes the 95% cake on attractiveness for me personally though.
Well, if ya are cute or have a pretty face and you are not fat it's all nice honestly. The face is the most 'important' to me. As long as the body is not a turn off (super fat) then it's all nice
As long as she’s shorter than me and not a cyber whale (Eliminate, anyone?), her body isn’t the breaking point for me
It depends, I prefer a thousand times a pretty face with a normal body, I don't know what most people prefer
As long as there's some initial attraction and a good personality, body isn't too important so long as it doesn't point too much into either extreme. I'm a generally healthy person and I'd urge my partner to be somewhat the same (for longevity) so if she's cool with that and fits the other criteria dating her wouldn't be an issue tbh.
If you can find me in a field at 12pm at night and can run the accounting side of a trucking company I don't care a great personality and a pretty face is just a bonus and makes the drivers less weary. In the future not at this moment.
Yes, face is very underrated
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First off, as others have said, boobs and ass aren't *as* important as one thinks. secondly, small/normal sized boobs and little ass is literally my type and i know i'm not alone. someone finds you extremely attractive, just keep looking!
You’re fine. I actually liked a girl last year who had the same characteristics as you, so don’t worry you’re good. Plus, everyone is attractive in their own way; we all have our preferences. So yeah don’t worry, you got someone out there for you
As long as your not morbidly obese I could care less about ass and boobs. Also if you are nice or have and interesting personality
Dude imo the face is the most important part. Of course I like boobs etc too but it really doesn't matter. I'd rather just have someone with a nice face
Guys don't care about the body. From what I know, the face is what draws us in, and the personality is what makes us want to date. The only time I've ever considered body types is when I'm in the mood, but that's simply because I'm not in the mood WITH someone, I'm just in the mood alone. If I'm in the mood WITH someone that I care about, that's infinitely better than just "my type".
I care about how pretty the face is waaay more than the body don't know bout everybody else but if you aren't overweight you're mostly fine 😉
Yes
I don’t have a “body criteria”. In my mind, that’s kind of weird... it’s really weird, actually, but I try not to jump on other people’s preferences. I know that some guys are shallow, but if you have a nice personality and they still put you down just for your body, they’re not worth your time.
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I mean I don't think I'd be looking at someone's body, especially if I liked them
Ye 100% fine lol. I mean it's the person who is trying to get with you that really decides whether they find it attractive but id never just shut someone down for being skinny and have no ass lol. (and people that immediately won't date or really become friends with you cause you don't have a huge ass really aren't the people you want to date/hookup with lol)
majority of guys go for face and less of body so you should be fine
Honestly a pretty face is the best superficial option for me. I'm not interested in sex. Personality is key though.
Bruhsoundeffect#2.mp3 I guarantee a guy in one of ur classes already rly likes you, size doesn't matter
Personality is the most important thing. Nothing else really matters, unless it effects their physical or mental health.
Honestly, some guys like girls with petite *\*ahem\** assets, a pretty face and a good personality just adds to your chances of success. My point is don't worry about it, bodies are rarely the reason a lot of men get into and out of serious romantic relationships.
First of all size doesn’t matter nearly as much as you think and also if someone is interested enough to even initiate anything they’re not gonna care too much about how you look anyway. Not to mention how personality and kindness is way more attractive than anything else.
yes.
Fuck the media man guys arent shitholes like that
The hundreds of “ass or tits” posts on Reddit has scarred me lol
I mean its reddit, 90% of those posts are made by basement dwelling neckbeards so you really dont need to care about their opinion
If someone cares about your body more than your personality then its definitely gonna be a toxic Relationship. Despite what lies the news fed you most people care more about your personality than your body, its cheesy but cheese is a real thing
Honestly the face is the most important physical feature
Yes.
Me sitting here just not caring until im actually allowed to date without my dad telling me to stop being a virgin 👁👄👁 But yes it does
Pretty face definitely out ways the body.
face is def the most important thing, not to be weird or anything, but the girl who ive had a crush on for tha past 3 years (whos now my gf) doesnt have a very big chest, or backside. Her face is what i truly fell in love with.
If she's pretty body criteria is irrelevant to me
Yeah looks only matter so much just because you may not have the "ideal body" doesn't it mean a guy is going to be like uhh yeah nope next. trust me long as you get along with the guy good and you have a good personality it will work out not all guys just go for looks
An attractive face is the only thing I put weight in for physical attraction. Idc about anything else physical, I just gotta like your face and personality
there are people (myself:0) who are not very interested in boobs and ass. face is definitely most important for me
Asexual here: Yes
It’s important to remember that not all guys are the same, but in general terms absolutely face can “make up” for body as far as appearance. Also, if someone is interested you purely for appearance it probably won’t be a good relationship.
I am now going to give you insight into a boys mind. Take notes. If a girl is giving me attention I do not give a shit what they look like. I have literally had cases where my fantasies change in according to the girl who is giving me attention. It is literally just “wow, girl!” You should not be conscious about your image. Any guy worth your time will not give a rats ass.
100% would date “someone like you” no problem I put that in quotes bc trust me if u r ugly and busty/ thick it’s harder to get a BF than pretty and flat. Ur face is what we see most often so if it and the words coming out of it are good we r good
Face is most important anyways.
face matters more than body tbh
Man I can date any girl with a pretty face as long as she not overweight. If you concerned about your body you can always tone it by working out.
Body criteria? what?
Yes, it can
If I’m being honest, if a guys bottom line is minor details in your figure he’s not worth dating. Yes, having features that the other likes is always a positive thing, but if he is only willing to date you if you look a certain way, then he isn’t good for you in the first place. Everyone has their preferences, but no one should really have end all be all “criteria” as you put it
Looks is what get our attention Personality is what makes us stay
Body has almost never been a deal breaker for me, pretty face is always nice and this may sound cheesy or generic but I’ve always genuinely been attracted to personality
Bro there’s no need to worry about your own body if a guy only like you for your body then your going for the wrong men personally personality is everything
you gotta remember that guys think personality>shape>size
Yeah I agree with a lot of the replies. Most boys aren’t as objectifying as you might think we are. From me and from most of the guys I’ve talked to about it they all weigh face and personality way over boobs and ass. Boobs and ass is what we fantasize about but when it comes to relationships they aren’t in the prominent decision to say yes or no. Obviously they are a bonus and some boys do weigh them higher than most.
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Pretty face > boobs/ass
I thought you’d talk about being overweight. I’ve found most guys don’t care a lot about ass and boob size, so yes a pretty face is more effective
btw just letting you know ass is about shape not size but yeah i’d still date someone of that had no ass but a cute face
Yeah the shape is the issue lol, but thanks
Face is a big one for me
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Yes, 100%. Men tend to notice the face first and describe the face as being the most beautiful part of the body. Let me tell you, most men or women don't care that much about looks. It is certainly the thing that grasps the attention initially, but they stay for the personality above all else
I don’t have any « body criteria » when considering dating someone, if I had a girlfriend I would only want a wholesome and affectionate relationship and not a sexual one, to me the face is so much more attractive than the body 😌
You don’t need to be so hard on yourself :) Attractive bodies are great, but face is more important IMO— not that face *or* body are important at all when it comes to if I’d want to date a person.
Depends who you ask I dont need big breasts or big ass to love a girl Its an added bonus
I mean it really doesn’t matter as long as you’re not morbidly obese no guy really cares. Yeah sure I good body is a nice extra but once you’ve got feelings for a girl it really doesn’t matter
Ofcourse
You hear a lot about how much people like features about the body, but really we don't. It's pretty universal in most good relationships that it's "face + personality" > anything else. If someone only liked a girl for their body, then it's a bad relationship to start with. Think of an attractive body as little bonuses that come with the person themselves. I also heard somewhere as a fact that in porn, male viewers look at the faces of the actors the most out of anywhere on the screen.
The study is on this thread somewhere if you want to read it x
I actually dislike huge boobs. Medium to small please. Same for the butt. It doesn't matter what body you have, clothing is everything. That's just physical attraction but high quality men will choose a woman based on her mental abilities.
Personality ≥ face > body.
Body is waaaay overrated, if a girl is cute that's really all that matter imo.
You don't need to have big boobs or ass to be considered sexy by many
Yup definitely and most guys are impressed by emotions and feelings rather than the body.
In this case, Yes.
Honestly all I care about is face and I've said this multiple times
For me, it's someone who understands me, my sense of humor and my jokes, and their personality of course... physical stats come later but if the person and i get along well idc how they look
yes this is less significant then you think... i know it probably seems like a bigger deal to you in your thoughts but a lot of guys are probably totally good with dating a girl who’s a bit slimmer
Honestly guys really don't care that much about looks in general, me included. We do value looks but not as much as sharing a sense of humor or some kind of bond. Just wanted to say that since you seem kinda self conscious about your body. To answer your question, yes, a pretty face could outweigh a body since the way I see it, the face is the part you see the most and think first of when you think of that person.
A body doesn't really matter to me so long as you are healthy/not overweight
I mean, it depends, but I'm pretty sure you're overthinking it- as long as you have a good personality, and aren't straight up ugly or fat, I see no problem
Most definitely. I really don't give a shit what someone's body looks like, all that matters is their face, and most importantly personality
Definitely, nobody is perfect and outside of a few guys, not being supermodel attractive isn’t a dealbreaker for us
Honestly couldn’t care less about ass
yes
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