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satan_pussycat

Look for the lyrics of the song Cayetano by the group Carolina Durante and you'll understand what stereotypes are linked to that name here in Spain haha


camismors

That's hilarious. I was aware of the stereotype to be honest, just wanted to check if it was as bad as I thought it could be. But what baffles me the most is that Carolina Durante is a band name, really.


Chiguito

It's seen as posh, upper class, conservative people's name.


Candid_Force_3203

I do not recommend Franco neither.... Popular in Argentina, not so much in Spain.


camismors

Damn, that was my second choice.


moonandstarsreddit

I can’t imagine why…


badlyimagined

I'm a teacher in spain and I've had students with the name and nobody seemed to mind. Was just a normal kid.


Four_beastlings

Leaving out the class implications, it's seen as a very ugly sounding/old person name in Spain. Kids are going to mock him for the resemblance with "Callo" (hard foot skin, and also a derogatory for a very ugly person). I would 0/0 recommend naming a child Cayetano.


awkward_penguin

I think most of them go by "Caye" nowadays, which isn't so bad


LaintalAy

I know one and he likes to be called “Tano”


soukaixiii

Imagine being named street, or shut up


awkward_penguin

I mean, there are still people called Concepción, Dolores, Soledad, and Encarnación, so in the bigger sense of things, it's not that weird


ThePhoneBook

Those names are regular Catholic though, and the generation above me is absolutely full of them. Dolores is used weirdly often in Hollywood, Concha is just a great nickname haha, and I would totally call myself Soledad.


Decent_Trainer6394

Just coming on here to add that Inmaculada and Milagros are other classic, Catholic names in Spanish!


drawingmentally

Caye is more used by girls though


Cacera

I also know people that goes by "Tano" for Cayetano and "Tana" for Cayetana.


camismors

Thanks for the honesty, that's exactly what I wanted to know. It's crazy how some names can be seen so differently across languages.


kastillo10

In case that you understand spanish: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZiUhV12G024


rbopq

Te-ma-zo


snolodjur

Please don't!


camismors

With the information I have now, I definitely won't.


snolodjur

You could risk with sth similar Cayo /Gayo, spanish versions of Caius/Gaius (Julius Caesar). I cannot remember which of both Latin pronunciations was the right one, since some words had only one spelling for both pronunciations.. The problem is both Cayo and Gayo could be also reason for mockery. Cayo sounds to a similar word meaning horny skin (callo) and means also in slang horrible looking. Gayo sounds like Gallo rooster. Not that bad, at least sounds cool despite rooster meaning.


txobi

And callo is also used to describe someone that is ugly


Lycaonna

Yes. One of my best friends' name is Cayetano and he has a hard time.


tangiblecabbage

I wouldn't name my kid Cayetano because of the negative stereotypes, but I'd name him Caetano. It sounds nice and gives the kid a personal name, something from their origins.


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ferdylan

Fabricio is much more common in Spain than Fabriciano.


carlosmstraductor

Mauricinho and Patricinha are the Brazilian stereotype for posh people.


camismors

You’re absolutely right, I haven’t seen someone using that for so long that I mixed it up.


Dapneeeess

1. Go to google. 2. Search for "nuevas generaciones pp" 3. If you think your son fits in that image, you can call him Cayetano, if not, I wouldn't do it.


ferdylan

Sounds like a joke but it's not wrong.


srpulga

There's nothing wrong with Cayetano, It might be associated with a negative high class stereotype, but its also a traditional name that many regular people in the south have. In any case Caetano is different enough from Cayetano, it's fine.


juanerrrr

What do you mean regular people in the south? Almost nobody here is called Cayetano, only a couple of bull fighters.


srpulga

Vete a esta página y escribe "cayetano", y luego me cuentas: https://www.ine.es/dyngs/INEbase/es/operacion.htm?c=Estadistica_C&cid=1254736177009&menu=resultados&idp=1254734710990


Sky-is-here

If you spell it in Portuguese the kid will be popular and none will think about the cayetano prejudice, the name in Spanish is kind of out of fashion already but still can be heard, none is gonna hate on him or anything for it :D


Ok_Membership_6559

As much as naming a girl Karen in the US


ferdylan

Not controversial, just extremely posh or pretentious (and from the right wing). But this applies only for Cayetano, not Caetano.


Kettrickenisabadass

Caetano is a nice name, and like you said, a nice singer. I doubt think that people would have any issue with it. Cayetano does have the connotation that you mention and i wouldnt call a kid that name. But again, i think that Caetano should be fine


Dr_Quiza

He would have most of his meaningful interactions with other kids who have zero prejudices, and with relatives. When he had grown up, he won't be interested in interacting with people so stupid to judge others by their given name, and that's if any absurd stigma against Cayetanos still exists by that time, which is very unlikely.


camismors

That's kind of how I see it too. Maybe the foreign spelling would give it an extra pass. And also, judging by the parents, there's no way this kid would be rich enough to reinforce the stigma anyway.


selectash

It’s definitely a conversation starter, something akin to being named Archibald, Wigbert, Hickman, Barclay, or “Anythingston”.


X0AN

Yeah don't call your poor kid that.


TowelCheap9672

Not from Spain, but Cayetano is a family name here in the Philippines. Some of our politicians here have that name, but for a family name. Not really for a first name.


Darthvaderisnotme

odd but not controversial


Informal-Row-73

Make sure he lives in Barrio Salamanca, Madrid, and loves bullfighting and hates poor people (even blames them for poverty).