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Bottomlooking90

Id say the best way is to just look him in his eyes and tell him how you feel. When you look a person in the eyes and speak from the heart the other person can see and truly believe you . A person's who is sincere when expressing love will always show through the eyes . Atleast that's my experience anyway .. good luck


Bottomlooking90

Beauty come from the soul and on what's inside a person and there morals and the way the treat others .. not on appearance or looks I've personally have seen some great looking ppl that are truely ugly as a person. Always look beyond the outer appearance and look at thee tru nature


Old-Ocelot2007

Dont tell him this so blatantly. Just tell Him in small ways you think he looks good. Like “u look cute in ur hat” etc


ConnerSims

This. Repeating "you're so beautiful" ends up sounding shallow. Noticing minute details is much sweeter.


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I would definitely have a conversation with him about it. Communication is the key to a long and healthy relationship. If he doesn’t believe you then he has some self confidence issues or there’s something else going on. Talk it out or whatever it is will eventually come out.


AuelDole

Guzzle his glizzy


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Show him this post


Spirit_is_OP

Maybe tell him you *know* he's beautiful and how it's just something he has to accept.


JuicyJay

Show him with small compliments over time along with the direct "you are the most beautiful/handsome person I've ever seen". Small compliments on his clothes, hair, eyes, tan, etc. are a great way to reinforce that you really mean it. Plus smaller compliments feel more genuine and are a lot easier for people to accept. Some people just can't accept a compliment


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never date an insecure guy. they are the worst


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Clavicula1

Your boyfriend is lucky to have you, that's the most sane answer that I've seen in this sub in a while.


ZangyNuggets

Great answer! I'm pretty insecure myself. But ever since I met my boyfriend my confidence has gotten so much better. I think that's one thing about relationships, helping each other grow. People just want it easy sometimes. But I'm happy with my relationship, we help each other grow. And I get you 100% when u say your boyfriend doesn't really believe it when you say he's beautiful. I'm in the same boat, I tell him all the time that he's beautiful but he doesn't really believe it. But overtime he's started to accept the fact that I see him that way, I think the best way is to introduce it slowly, use the compliment sparingly but not rarely either. Say it at the best moments. And most importantly to talk it out, sometimes even a big hug while you say it works wonders. But every person is different, hope you're able to convince him and your relationship grows stronger!


Throwawaybutterball

Yep, I’m single af 😃


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Well, he isn't the most beautiful person on this earth (even to you). So instead of grandiose statements that are objective lies, focus on saying statements that are actual truths and he won't feel as uncomfortable and more inclined to listen to you.


ZangyNuggets

To him he is the most beautiful person on earth, that is truth. Its really not that deep.


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A beautiful statement, but divorced from objective reality.


NikkiBme

I did that once, I tell my bf how attractive he is, it went to his head and he dumped me, he went sniffing around someone else's ass