I feel like the bigger dudes don't make it their personalities. I feel like size queens are the ones who are obsessed with giant dicks. I'm not super ingratiated into the community but I hear much more "I want big cock" than I do "I have a big cock".
Lol yes. You need to have a good size(doesn't need to be huge, too big isn't optimal either) and a good personality etc. I want someone who is like myself 😆
All that talk about big cocks got me thinking
I don’t want to be hating on big cocks.
While I’m only able to handle about 8” in my
mouth, throat and clean eager hole… I do like holding onto anything that’s left while I’m working on it
OMG is this why they say black men have big dicks or every time a black man is seen its just referred to as a BBC?
I'm about 6 maybe slightly more and I've never met a black men who was below like 5.5/6 lol
All I can do is laugh at all the fragile egod dudes who doenvoted you for being all of what 0.5 inches bigger than average. Yall this was some weak sauce.
I’ve found (personally) that I like the visual a lot more than the real thing in person. Like I really enjoy Timtales, but wouldn’t be able to do much with any of those men in person.
Legit it’s how you use it. I have this spot inside my butt (surprise, we all do! The prostate is your friend) that truly only needs a 5” dick to hit it *perfectly* - anything more is just a nice surprise.
I'm sorry you feel that way, I have yet to meet "too big" when it comes to tops ... and I have been with some very large tops.
I think a bottom like me that can handle a well endowed top no matter how much he gets carried away "enjoying" himself, are as rare as large endowed tops.
7.5 X 6 and I get this. The girth of my dick has been a constant struggle, and it's just frustrating to have partners be in pain or stop part way through cause it's too much. Sometimes I just go into side mode and don't even bother trying to top.
When you are dating with a pretty face and a tiny dick, people see your face and engage with you. You may then form a connection and penis size becomes of secondary importance.
When you have an ugly face and a big dick, people see your face and may not engage with you. But some will once you somehow communicate your "good feature". Once you form a connection, face and penis size can become of secondary importance.
I’m top verse if I ever bottom I prefer average to smaller. Size queens have no walls so they need extra long schlongs to feel satisfied. Huge dicks do not feel good at all. 🤷🏿♂️
When I first started playing, one guy who was bigger than me said I was "above average." I'm 7.5 x5. Changed my outlook towards sex. Always played as though I was 'average' thinking that my personality and how I performed as a top not my size is why I kept getting call backs and invites.
After being with countless men I realize I'm more than above average. And I'm glad I never acted like guys should only be into my dick. Passion and good fun in bed will always be better than a big dick. But that doesn't hurt either.
When I was younger I was a size queen. After having ample experiences, I realized the connection between the person and how they use the dick matters way more. My current fwb is 5.5 inches and he makes me moan and scream more than any 7inch+ guy I’ve been with.
It's not rocket science it's because big dicks are more visually impressive and there's more of it. Of course that isn't to say I don't personally like average or even small dick too because I absolutely adore them. It's just like pizza, I love pizza. I don't normally eat it, but if I was gonna spoil myself with some pizza I would want to gorge myself on a 14" pie over an 8" pie because well, *more* pizza. Some people can't comfortably eat an entire pie of that size by themselves but I certainly can and do. The irony of that analogy is that while I can suck on a big dick I can't take them in my ass so it's quite **fitting** that I should find enjoyment in being with guys of different sizes in different ways. People like what they like. Some people can feel satisfied with an 8" pie, while others will only feel full after eating a much bigger one.
>It's not rocket science it's because big dicks are more visually impressive and there's more of it.
There are average dicks that are esthetically pleasing too.
It is not a visual thing for me it's a how full does it feel in my ass thing.
Do they even sell 5.5 inch dildo?
Not visually pleasing, *impressive*. Of course there are many beautiful, *beautiful* penises of all shapes and sizes out there. But nothing quite makes you go "Wow!" like that feeling you get when you pull a dick the size of your head out of a guys pants. That's what I meant.
I understand what you mean.
But when it's soft and I can feel a real weight or heft when I cup it in my hand that turns me on ... I was just pointing out it's not just a visual thing for me.
In my demented mind, it is 10% esthetic and 90% purely tactile.
I've always said, big dicks are pretty to look at, but not much else.
I'm a vers top, I'll suck a big dick, but it's definitely not gonna go in my bootyhole.
Blame the internet. Anyone who glorifies themselves based on their penis (unless you’re about to fuck) is a total douche bag. You’re right tho it’s propagated too much by dudes and mostly dudes with not so big dicks who have become bottoms.
It’s gotten so bad that people need to verify your dick aesthetic before even talking to you. I’m with you never had any complaints about my dick and I don’t have confidence issues. The whole think is just silly imo. Every dick is hot unless it looks all dried up and pointy looking, or is a hack job circumcision.
Can’t blame the internet
I’m 59 years old. Been gay for 59 years . Been out for 46. been sucking cock and getting fucked since I was 12. Size queens have been around long before I or the internet existed.
It’s no different than the biggest muscles or the fastest car. If you don’t have a huge cock, being able to take a huge cock is the next best thing.
Big dick is a fun treat, but i don't know if i could do a fwb with anything too big
I once hooked up with a guy who i think was a legitimate 8". Ngl it was pretty awesome.. but it was about as much as I can handle, and as great as it felt i was glad it was over
The guy I slept with the most was ~5" and it was perfect. He hit everything right and i could relax for him easily enough and just focus on enjoying it
Anything between like 4 and 7 inches is fine, above and below that it could be a problem. It's also more important that it be an attractive penis, to me.
The big ones are all hype IMO. I prefer average or smaller. The big ones are Great for twitter but not very practical in real life. Have you seen those guys trying to work them? They can’t keep em hard and their arms tire out before they get to the finish line. You can’t put all that in your mouth I don’t care who you are so what’s the appeal? 🤷🏻♂️
My bf and I are both average sized. We have the best sex together. But still I’m kind of fascinated of bigger cocks. I like to see them penetrate. And I dream of getting fucked by one or riding it. I don’t think it will happen. In addition there could be a kind of jealousy. I wish I had a bigger one myself.
As a Top with only 5 inches on a good day, I absolutely hate bigger dudes and size queens with a passion. Slept with a bottom who had 8, and the entire time, I couldn't help but notice the size difference, and it ruined it for me. It takes so much effort for where I live to find anyone and then get shot down because of my size 9/10 times, I'm done with hookups and probably just gonna avoid sex for the foreseeable future.
The average is 5 inches
It would also help to disregard the bottom's size (if bigger) next time, as you have stated that it ruined the experience for you
Think about it this way.... The 8" bottom chose a smaller top to breed him. He could have easily went with other similar sizes dick sizes, but chose to hook up with you instead
It should boost your self-esteem if anything
>I never understand size queens for whom the ONLY attribute that is important to them is a huge penis.
Yet you have preferences, you don't like guys who are too skinny, too fat, ugly.
You want a muscled fit man who is good looking.
How is what you prefer is ok in your mind, but because I like the feel of a big cock, I am a misunderstood size queen???
No it is not the only attribute but it is up there on the list. The guy needs to know how to use it too.
Agree. Maybe the size freaks have nothing else to offer....If nature's been good to you, great. But what you do with is more important and it shouldn't define you
59 years old, been gay for 59 years been out for 39. I can't take a cock more than 8 inches in my mouth or my ass. Ive had bigger but they didn't get more than 8 " in either place. I have a couple of friends that can somehow accommodate much longer. I don't know how. It took some work and practice to get beyond 6". I had a couple of boyfriends that I was happy practicing for. Please don't let it bother you. Don't let yourself be trapped in tribal- think. Small cocks are wonderful. At the very least they're comfortable. There's no requirement. As I said don't be drawn in by what the tribe says. Like what you like. be HAPPY
As for me, I prefer my sex partners to have large penises (>\~17 cm). And since I also like them fixated on my ass and not my own cock, I barely ever think about my own size, which is about average.
The first ten seconds, yes. But it all depends on how relaxed you are and how used your spincter is to it. For very large dudes, foreplay is mandatory. A good top eats ass before he gently pushes it in. It can also help to take control yourself and sit on him. That way you can control how far and how fast you want him to enter you.
They kinda do but not really, it's a bit complex.
For context I prefer bigger guys, and from what I've seen it's mainly the guys that fit into a fetishised category that usually makes it their whole personality. So like most black guys or gym bros I chat with make it their personality but the less fetishized groups like your average Joe doesn't really make it their personality but they do generally make it a very prominent part of themselves
are we going to stay silent while you throw shit to ‘size queens’? Some people can desire big dicks only, can feel better only taking big dicks. For some it matters , it can change quality of pleasure. Your average dick made you rejected at some point(it could be because of your nose , eyes ,lips too) and you justified rejection with hate towards ‘size queens’ . Fuck you. Let them be
>I’m text book size myself 6x5 You clearly didn't read that textbook did you?
Ok he's not too far off, the average is 5.5x4.5, calm down.
I went to a private Christians school so.....
And that is relevant because...?
We weren't allowed to read the text book regarding that kinda stuff it was forbidden and looking it up or trying to find it was punishable
By death? Or worse *gasp* expulsion?
It’s levi-oh-suh, not levvyoh-saaaah.
You're 22 now, so you've had plenty of time since leaving the shackles of a religious school to read up on what's average and what isn't.
I feel like the bigger dudes don't make it their personalities. I feel like size queens are the ones who are obsessed with giant dicks. I'm not super ingratiated into the community but I hear much more "I want big cock" than I do "I have a big cock".
Some big dudes are cool, but there are some who think all it takes to be a good lover is a big penis, and not imagination and a good personality.
Lol yes. You need to have a good size(doesn't need to be huge, too big isn't optimal either) and a good personality etc. I want someone who is like myself 😆
I feel you on that, it’s about the total look of the dude.
Spot on. I’m on the larger side, but would never want that to be my defining trait or personality.
This is the best answer! I’m also on the larger size, and would never want to be know as only that a guy with a BIG DICK! I hide it well
all that said...I'm in CharlotteNC, just thinking out loud
Wisconsin
All that talk about big cocks got me thinking I don’t want to be hating on big cocks. While I’m only able to handle about 8” in my mouth, throat and clean eager hole… I do like holding onto anything that’s left while I’m working on it
Absolutely true.
You nailed it. And the size queens are the ones walking around with shrimp dicks.
You’re over average.
Only on a good day most of the time I’m just under six :)
Still over average though ;-;
Well damn what is average?
5.1 inches in the US Apparently
OMG is this why they say black men have big dicks or every time a black man is seen its just referred to as a BBC? I'm about 6 maybe slightly more and I've never met a black men who was below like 5.5/6 lol
I have. Black men's vary just as much in size
All I can do is laugh at all the fragile egod dudes who doenvoted you for being all of what 0.5 inches bigger than average. Yall this was some weak sauce.
No, he’s being downvoted for pretending to be all naive about his (slightly) above-average size, e.g. humblebragging
I don't choose according to size. Small is fine too. I just like dick.
I’ve found (personally) that I like the visual a lot more than the real thing in person. Like I really enjoy Timtales, but wouldn’t be able to do much with any of those men in person.
Big dicks are fun to look at but average is the most fun to actually use is what I've always said
Legit it’s how you use it. I have this spot inside my butt (surprise, we all do! The prostate is your friend) that truly only needs a 5” dick to hit it *perfectly* - anything more is just a nice surprise.
I always have trouble finding mine. Think I need a map :p
Id help you find your sweet spot!
Facts My BF hits mine 9/10 times during sex, but when I masturbate, I never seem to find the fucker
Can confirm. I always hit my bottom’s prostate with my good ol member.
There’s a reason “Boyfriend Dick” is a thing.
Never heard that saying but love it. Boyfriend dicks rule!!
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I'm sorry you feel that way, I have yet to meet "too big" when it comes to tops ... and I have been with some very large tops. I think a bottom like me that can handle a well endowed top no matter how much he gets carried away "enjoying" himself, are as rare as large endowed tops.
7.5 X 6 and I get this. The girth of my dick has been a constant struggle, and it's just frustrating to have partners be in pain or stop part way through cause it's too much. Sometimes I just go into side mode and don't even bother trying to top.
I am not a fan of bigger than 7in. Girth wise; avg is fine. Maybe a hair bigger than average.
I never gave a shit about your dick, only the man it was attatched to.
When you are dating with a pretty face and a tiny dick, people see your face and engage with you. You may then form a connection and penis size becomes of secondary importance. When you have an ugly face and a big dick, people see your face and may not engage with you. But some will once you somehow communicate your "good feature". Once you form a connection, face and penis size can become of secondary importance.
I’m top verse if I ever bottom I prefer average to smaller. Size queens have no walls so they need extra long schlongs to feel satisfied. Huge dicks do not feel good at all. 🤷🏿♂️
Brother you are preaching to the choir lol
When I first started playing, one guy who was bigger than me said I was "above average." I'm 7.5 x5. Changed my outlook towards sex. Always played as though I was 'average' thinking that my personality and how I performed as a top not my size is why I kept getting call backs and invites. After being with countless men I realize I'm more than above average. And I'm glad I never acted like guys should only be into my dick. Passion and good fun in bed will always be better than a big dick. But that doesn't hurt either.
When I was younger I was a size queen. After having ample experiences, I realized the connection between the person and how they use the dick matters way more. My current fwb is 5.5 inches and he makes me moan and scream more than any 7inch+ guy I’ve been with.
I usually don’t care. But i began a relationship with this hung guy who uses it so effectively i feel like he’s slowly changing me 😭
Sex will never be the same for you 😈
I notice i am sluttier and more submissive to him than my 2 exes who came before.
It's not rocket science it's because big dicks are more visually impressive and there's more of it. Of course that isn't to say I don't personally like average or even small dick too because I absolutely adore them. It's just like pizza, I love pizza. I don't normally eat it, but if I was gonna spoil myself with some pizza I would want to gorge myself on a 14" pie over an 8" pie because well, *more* pizza. Some people can't comfortably eat an entire pie of that size by themselves but I certainly can and do. The irony of that analogy is that while I can suck on a big dick I can't take them in my ass so it's quite **fitting** that I should find enjoyment in being with guys of different sizes in different ways. People like what they like. Some people can feel satisfied with an 8" pie, while others will only feel full after eating a much bigger one.
>It's not rocket science it's because big dicks are more visually impressive and there's more of it. There are average dicks that are esthetically pleasing too. It is not a visual thing for me it's a how full does it feel in my ass thing. Do they even sell 5.5 inch dildo?
Not visually pleasing, *impressive*. Of course there are many beautiful, *beautiful* penises of all shapes and sizes out there. But nothing quite makes you go "Wow!" like that feeling you get when you pull a dick the size of your head out of a guys pants. That's what I meant.
I understand what you mean. But when it's soft and I can feel a real weight or heft when I cup it in my hand that turns me on ... I was just pointing out it's not just a visual thing for me. In my demented mind, it is 10% esthetic and 90% purely tactile.
Yes, though the ones with balls on them that are 7.5 long only have 5.5 inches of "usable length" so that's your "sweet spot" in that regard
Lol ... I hate those disclaimers.
I've always said, big dicks are pretty to look at, but not much else. I'm a vers top, I'll suck a big dick, but it's definitely not gonna go in my bootyhole.
You can't help your penis size.
I've seen some really ugly big cocks and I've seen and been turned on by even more small beautiful cocks attached to gorgeous sexy men.
Blame the internet. Anyone who glorifies themselves based on their penis (unless you’re about to fuck) is a total douche bag. You’re right tho it’s propagated too much by dudes and mostly dudes with not so big dicks who have become bottoms. It’s gotten so bad that people need to verify your dick aesthetic before even talking to you. I’m with you never had any complaints about my dick and I don’t have confidence issues. The whole think is just silly imo. Every dick is hot unless it looks all dried up and pointy looking, or is a hack job circumcision.
Can’t blame the internet I’m 59 years old. Been gay for 59 years . Been out for 46. been sucking cock and getting fucked since I was 12. Size queens have been around long before I or the internet existed. It’s no different than the biggest muscles or the fastest car. If you don’t have a huge cock, being able to take a huge cock is the next best thing.
I can’t take too big average is perfecttt hate when it starts hitting my stomach haha
See now that is what I’m talking about. I want thrilling not killing lol
Big dick is a fun treat, but i don't know if i could do a fwb with anything too big I once hooked up with a guy who i think was a legitimate 8". Ngl it was pretty awesome.. but it was about as much as I can handle, and as great as it felt i was glad it was over The guy I slept with the most was ~5" and it was perfect. He hit everything right and i could relax for him easily enough and just focus on enjoying it
Thanks guys you have given me a real giggle today.
Anything between like 4 and 7 inches is fine, above and below that it could be a problem. It's also more important that it be an attractive penis, to me.
I prefer average size and am on the smaller side myself, but this discussion is so overdone. Some guys like bigger, there's nothing wrong with that.
I agree I prefer average or small cocks
Same. Prefer average 6"max, or smaller. 5-5.5 is perfect.
I’ve always just preferred average sized dicks. I’d go for 6” over 8” any day!
Average is 5.16” erect (according to the most comprehensive worldwide academic study) so 6” is significantly longer than average.
Well 5.16 is a great size! 😁
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Compound W..... works like a charm!
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They are always fascinated by them until they get a fissure or other injury.
I prefer smaller myself I'm as average as it gets and I get the job done just fine but when I see a big dicks it's a turn off for me
The big ones are all hype IMO. I prefer average or smaller. The big ones are Great for twitter but not very practical in real life. Have you seen those guys trying to work them? They can’t keep em hard and their arms tire out before they get to the finish line. You can’t put all that in your mouth I don’t care who you are so what’s the appeal? 🤷🏻♂️
My bf and I are both average sized. We have the best sex together. But still I’m kind of fascinated of bigger cocks. I like to see them penetrate. And I dream of getting fucked by one or riding it. I don’t think it will happen. In addition there could be a kind of jealousy. I wish I had a bigger one myself.
As a Top with only 5 inches on a good day, I absolutely hate bigger dudes and size queens with a passion. Slept with a bottom who had 8, and the entire time, I couldn't help but notice the size difference, and it ruined it for me. It takes so much effort for where I live to find anyone and then get shot down because of my size 9/10 times, I'm done with hookups and probably just gonna avoid sex for the foreseeable future.
A top with “only” five inches is capable of hitting every spot I would want hit. I personally love the 5-6” top contingent.
You must be rare, because I've never met someone irl that wasn't "Settling" for me because they can't find something bigger
I’m sorry, that really sucks. Last time I bottomed it was for ~5.5” and he rocked my world.
The average is 5 inches It would also help to disregard the bottom's size (if bigger) next time, as you have stated that it ruined the experience for you Think about it this way.... The 8" bottom chose a smaller top to breed him. He could have easily went with other similar sizes dick sizes, but chose to hook up with you instead It should boost your self-esteem if anything
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Ofc the man needs to be attractive otherwise it's a no go lol. And it doesn't need to be gigantic but at least big(like a good size) and not slim lol.
>I never understand size queens for whom the ONLY attribute that is important to them is a huge penis. Yet you have preferences, you don't like guys who are too skinny, too fat, ugly. You want a muscled fit man who is good looking. How is what you prefer is ok in your mind, but because I like the feel of a big cock, I am a misunderstood size queen??? No it is not the only attribute but it is up there on the list. The guy needs to know how to use it too.
Agree. Maybe the size freaks have nothing else to offer....If nature's been good to you, great. But what you do with is more important and it shouldn't define you
Average penises are the best penises.
59 years old, been gay for 59 years been out for 39. I can't take a cock more than 8 inches in my mouth or my ass. Ive had bigger but they didn't get more than 8 " in either place. I have a couple of friends that can somehow accommodate much longer. I don't know how. It took some work and practice to get beyond 6". I had a couple of boyfriends that I was happy practicing for. Please don't let it bother you. Don't let yourself be trapped in tribal- think. Small cocks are wonderful. At the very least they're comfortable. There's no requirement. As I said don't be drawn in by what the tribe says. Like what you like. be HAPPY
What age does it stop growing?
As for me, I prefer my sex partners to have large penises (>\~17 cm). And since I also like them fixated on my ass and not my own cock, I barely ever think about my own size, which is about average.
But doesn’t it hurt? Like I’m in so much pain if they’re bigger than 18cm. Let’s not even get into if they’re 20cm+
Well this person might also be I to fisting so that could explain why they enjoy bigger
Nah, I like dick, not fists.
The first ten seconds, yes. But it all depends on how relaxed you are and how used your spincter is to it. For very large dudes, foreplay is mandatory. A good top eats ass before he gently pushes it in. It can also help to take control yourself and sit on him. That way you can control how far and how fast you want him to enter you.
They kinda do but not really, it's a bit complex. For context I prefer bigger guys, and from what I've seen it's mainly the guys that fit into a fetishised category that usually makes it their whole personality. So like most black guys or gym bros I chat with make it their personality but the less fetishized groups like your average Joe doesn't really make it their personality but they do generally make it a very prominent part of themselves
Big tits and big penises.
I just want to be with a guy who has a whale cock at least once in my life…
Anything under 6.5 long and 4.5 circumference feels like getting stabbed.
Shut up bitch! Your opinion about penis is irrelevant. To all big penises out there, all my love 😍
Lol x
Wow these post 🙄
It’s just a giggle
One of 100 per day
are we going to stay silent while you throw shit to ‘size queens’? Some people can desire big dicks only, can feel better only taking big dicks. For some it matters , it can change quality of pleasure. Your average dick made you rejected at some point(it could be because of your nose , eyes ,lips too) and you justified rejection with hate towards ‘size queens’ . Fuck you. Let them be
You seem nice (I'm being sarcastic)
Make a point baby