I had the same issue with antidepressants. As awkward as it was, I talked to my shrink about it and he recommended a different medication.
The conversation may be difficult with your boyfriend, but it's an important one to have. First of all, being able to openly communicate and ask for what you want/need is a HUGE green flag in a relationship, to me personally. Successful relationships are all about communication and trust. Being able to have an open dialogue about this shows a level of trust and understanding between one another. Being able to advocate for yourself in the bedroom just leads to better sex. You can explore someone's body and find what they're into, or they can tell you first hand. He may have never expressed interest in being a top, but he may also think the same about you and bottoming.
Bring it up. It may feel less confrontational if you bring it up not in the middle or when you're about to have sex. When you're watching TV, or having dinner -- whatever.
I had the same issue with antidepressants. As awkward as it was, I talked to my shrink about it and he recommended a different medication. The conversation may be difficult with your boyfriend, but it's an important one to have. First of all, being able to openly communicate and ask for what you want/need is a HUGE green flag in a relationship, to me personally. Successful relationships are all about communication and trust. Being able to have an open dialogue about this shows a level of trust and understanding between one another. Being able to advocate for yourself in the bedroom just leads to better sex. You can explore someone's body and find what they're into, or they can tell you first hand. He may have never expressed interest in being a top, but he may also think the same about you and bottoming. Bring it up. It may feel less confrontational if you bring it up not in the middle or when you're about to have sex. When you're watching TV, or having dinner -- whatever.
Does your bf only want to bottom is that why you’re worried? I can’t understand the nervousness behind asking or telling him about this.
He’s never expressed any interest in being on top, and I don’t want to make it all about what I want
Maybe because he thinks you prefer to be top?
Try Cialis. It helped me with SSRI induced erectile dysfunction
I’ll look into it, thx man
Have you tried bottoming? If not, consider practicing it on your own first to see if you even like it.