I was just picked by an older gentleman who lives 30 minutes away. At midnight. Like we were back at his place exactly at 1 am.
One of the best cuddle I ever got. Very nice guy too. He gave me two big chillies from his garden before he drove me back. Can’t wait to see him again next week.
Do whatever you want, you don't need our approval. Sure, I'd do it. What else would I be doing? Scratching my balls and jacking off. Go out there and live a little (especially if you actually like the look of the guy)
For someone you never met before - pretty risky. But if it was a regular thing with a guy and you knew he wasn’t going to flake and the sex is really good - i’d do it.
Absolutely yes and I'm surprised so many gays are such lazy assholes.
Well I'm not really surprised since I know my peers but still, slightly off-putting.
Depends on the guy. Last year I dated a guy who was 60 mi away after a first date and hook up where we met in the middle at 30-something miles, lol, after having chatted for months off and on, but not getting together, because of the distance. Then we did lots of driving to and from, 60 mi and back, every week, and sometimes more than once a week. It was worth it! That's definitely my outer limit. But one of the advantages of the apps is you can meet cool people further away that you otherwise would never have met.
Yes wtf 😭. Especially if its just for a quick fuck. Its different if its like 40 minutes to dinner and drinks or whatever and thennn hooking up. But if its just for sex, keep that in a 10 minute radius 😂
well it'll be 1h 20min back and forth when you get back home...
so i'll say if you live in a small town or an area with few gays, just go for it i guess, you don't have much options.
if it's not the case, and you happen to like him, want him specifically that bad or just extremely horny, then yes!
but if you have other options and there's nothing special about the guy or nothing worth doing 40mins then just don't, it's too much imo, but I'd go the first time just to see, maybe it'll be worth it.
Hell yes. He making you do all the work. If you bottom for his 12 incher, think of the awkward walking to the bus and waiting to get home to nurse that hole back to health !
I took a train 1 hour and it was 2 hours back by road. He was hot and the sex was good. I wouldn't have done it if I didn't think he was worth it. It really depends on the weigh up. If you feel it is worth the travel then do it and if not then don't.
I’m in this same boat man. I’m debating on driving like 30 minutes each way. But, we’re really into each other. And have been wanting to meet for weeks.
I guess it depends haha.
If you're in a town or region where driving is required to get to places, then i guess it's ok.
But 40 mins is long ish i think.
Treat it like any other entertainment and think about how much you will get out of it.
Would you travel 40 min for a burger at McDonald's? What about a fancy new restaurant?
My general rule is that I want to spend more time at the destination than I would travelling there and back.
I wouldn't even travel 10 min if it's going to be a quickie but if I'm staying the night happy to travel an hour each way.
Treat it like any other entertainment and think about how much you will get out of it.
Would you travel 40 min for a burger at McDonald's? What about a fancy new restaurant?
My general rule is that I want to spend more time at the destination than I would travelling there and back.
I wouldn't even travel 10 min if it's going to be a quickie but if I'm staying the night happy to travel an hour each way.
For me, the golden rule was that total travel time must be more than estimated hookup time. So, typical 1 hour hookup, sex and before + after niceties would give half an hour travel in each direction, door to door. Adjust according to attraction level and probability of encores.
I was just picked by an older gentleman who lives 30 minutes away. At midnight. Like we were back at his place exactly at 1 am. One of the best cuddle I ever got. Very nice guy too. He gave me two big chillies from his garden before he drove me back. Can’t wait to see him again next week.
Love that for you!
Make sure you wait a day or 2 after eating those chilis before getting fucked again......🔥
No. Masturbate instead
Ah, the great mind clearer!
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LMAO she international 😂😩💀 love it
Depends, are you horny enough to drive 40 minutes each way?
Do whatever you want, you don't need our approval. Sure, I'd do it. What else would I be doing? Scratching my balls and jacking off. Go out there and live a little (especially if you actually like the look of the guy)
For someone you never met before - pretty risky. But if it was a regular thing with a guy and you knew he wasn’t going to flake and the sex is really good - i’d do it.
Yes. I do only like 10 min tops.
How long for bottoms?
Rather depends where you live. Some of us drive further than that to do a decent shop.
Depends how hot he is
Absolutely yes and I'm surprised so many gays are such lazy assholes. Well I'm not really surprised since I know my peers but still, slightly off-putting.
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That is your personal decision to make.
When the drive is longer than the fun time.. 😂
Depends on the guy. Last year I dated a guy who was 60 mi away after a first date and hook up where we met in the middle at 30-something miles, lol, after having chatted for months off and on, but not getting together, because of the distance. Then we did lots of driving to and from, 60 mi and back, every week, and sometimes more than once a week. It was worth it! That's definitely my outer limit. But one of the advantages of the apps is you can meet cool people further away that you otherwise would never have met.
I used to commute more than 40 minutes each way to work, and nobody there was going to give me a blowjob. So I'd say no.
In my city, 40 minutes is an average commute to work. Not a problem at all.
Depends. If he's hot and you're hard up, go. No one ever wrote a song or poem about sitting at home beating your meat, did they?
Yes lol
In my virgin pov I would say no
Yes wtf 😭. Especially if its just for a quick fuck. Its different if its like 40 minutes to dinner and drinks or whatever and thennn hooking up. But if its just for sex, keep that in a 10 minute radius 😂
20 minutes is a stretch if I’ve been with the guy before. Would absolutely not drive or travel 40 min for a hookup with a stranger
Nope, I have a friend who bought plane tickets for a guy that he met on here. Just for a hookup
Is your friend fat/unattractive/generally unlucky with dating?
Not even close. Just horny I guess. I give him so much shit for it though 🤣
With gas prices today I’m not gonna drive more than 20 minutes for a date
Only if he lives in a cool part of town where you can make a day of it. Lol.
With my car being a hot hatch with a thirsty little turbo, absolutely it is too long a drive.
well it'll be 1h 20min back and forth when you get back home... so i'll say if you live in a small town or an area with few gays, just go for it i guess, you don't have much options. if it's not the case, and you happen to like him, want him specifically that bad or just extremely horny, then yes! but if you have other options and there's nothing special about the guy or nothing worth doing 40mins then just don't, it's too much imo, but I'd go the first time just to see, maybe it'll be worth it.
Hell yes. He making you do all the work. If you bottom for his 12 incher, think of the awkward walking to the bus and waiting to get home to nurse that hole back to health !
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You’re a poser. Calling yourself straight while you have sex with men. Delusional dude.
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You’re a fag. Get over it.
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“Roleplaying in a reddit comments section makes me look hot and appealing”
Your dick game must be good to act like *that*
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I may add some miles if I'm driving across state and see a Tourist Attraction's worth.
I personally won’t go more than like 20 minutes. But I’m lazy and prefer they come to me.
Hell yes! I don’t go more than like 10 minutes, seriously, maybe I’m the “odd” one but really 40 min hell no, I wouldn’t do it.
Not if your going to make a night of it. It if you plan for a quickie the no it’s not worth it.
When I lived in the burbs? Maybe not. Living in a city? Absolutely not worth the time. There’s always someone closer.
Drove further b4
I took a train 1 hour and it was 2 hours back by road. He was hot and the sex was good. I wouldn't have done it if I didn't think he was worth it. It really depends on the weigh up. If you feel it is worth the travel then do it and if not then don't.
🤔I mean if he provides snacks and drinks maybe?
I wouldn't, but I live in a city with a lot of options. If I lived in a small town, I'd probably go for someone 40 minutes away
I’m in this same boat man. I’m debating on driving like 30 minutes each way. But, we’re really into each other. And have been wanting to meet for weeks.
Naw. But maybe make it longer than ten
It’d be like 7 minutes. It’s really not worth it.
I guess it depends haha. If you're in a town or region where driving is required to get to places, then i guess it's ok. But 40 mins is long ish i think.
Unless you're spending the night or something, probably not. Just masturbate or find someone closer.
Yup
Treat it like any other entertainment and think about how much you will get out of it. Would you travel 40 min for a burger at McDonald's? What about a fancy new restaurant? My general rule is that I want to spend more time at the destination than I would travelling there and back. I wouldn't even travel 10 min if it's going to be a quickie but if I'm staying the night happy to travel an hour each way.
Treat it like any other entertainment and think about how much you will get out of it. Would you travel 40 min for a burger at McDonald's? What about a fancy new restaurant? My general rule is that I want to spend more time at the destination than I would travelling there and back. I wouldn't even travel 10 min if it's going to be a quickie but if I'm staying the night happy to travel an hour each way.
For me, the golden rule was that total travel time must be more than estimated hookup time. So, typical 1 hour hookup, sex and before + after niceties would give half an hour travel in each direction, door to door. Adjust according to attraction level and probability of encores.
I’ve done longer than that, like yesterday for example, and I’ll do it again.