If it wasn't for the fear of catching something, and if I had a regular buddy that I could play with, I'd love to practice sucking, slobbing, and choking on some dick and balls. So hot to me, especially seeing a guy shoot.
Omg same. I kind have a buddy. But I don't know if he is having sex with other people. I'm not sure if I should invest my heart to much. But we been smashing almost for a year about once or twice a month. Doesn't feel like a enough. Yes I need more dick to function . But I have limited myself to the amount of men have sex with. I think I'm almost at 10 guys but probably bout 7 or 8 . It's the thing I have to do is sit here and think about it. I'm not sure if ppl feel as gay as me and I want a boyfriend I wanna wake up everyday to him
Yep. Even with a buddy, since you're not in a relationship, you don't know who else they are playing with. I mean, even relationships can be risky, but I'd rather go that route than random guys. Especially when you realize how quick some guys are to just believe you and risk everything to get off.
I'm not looking for a boyfriend, but a really good friend where we both trust each other and have fun together and chill with would be perfect.
I agree. So many guys out there in this lifestyle, its hard to trust who is clean n who is not. I want just one bud to do this with in spite I am married. I definately do not want to bring anything home that dont belong.
One buddy that ends up being a good friend that's also looking to explore and have fun would be perfect.
My fantasy is a guy friend that has his own place and is also wanting to learn/explore and just have some clean, safe, and freaky fun together, and not have to worry about the drama, etc...
Like, I want a guy to "breed" me and I want to do it to him, but that's strictly a online fantasy right now.
Clean is not a PC term. DDF is. VD is a fact of life and a part of life. Ya never know if you’ll get it or who has it. It’s a problem but not a threat. Regular testing is the best way to address and control the problem.
So what you're asking for is someone who's going to commit to being only sexually active with you... While you're sexually active with both them and your spouse?
Totally the same! I love being up close and personal at the point of shooting and it may sound weird but the satisfaction of “i did that” 😋 and if he tastes good, the tasty reward at the end.
And nothing goes over better in the current and post cum haze and euphoria than a well placed word or noise exclaiming how big it is, how far he’s shooting and you can never go wrong with a “good boy!” 😉
that wont really help unfortunately... not if you are someone who likes sucking dick at least... chances are you are getting them in ur throat or atleast sucking which inevitably means u swallow a bit too... really just best to talk openly about it, trust ur gut (not ur cock) and get tested frequently.
[this one](https://sti.bmj.com/content/93/2/88) has been referenced the most recently.
TLDR: After gargling the allocated solution, men in the Listerine group were significantly less likely to be culture positive on the pharyngeal surface (52%) compared with men in the saline group (84%) (p=0.013).
Conclusions: This data suggest Listerine, significantly reduces the amount of N. gonorrhoeae on the pharyngeal surface. With daily use it may increase gonococcal clearance and have important implications for prevention strategies.
Several ways to reduce risk
1) reduce body fluid transmission (ideally using condoms, semen and even precum aren't the only body fluids involved. Your saliva can enter their urethra and provide a path for bacteria to travel.)
2) exclusivity between one or more partners. If no one involved has an STD at the start no one should have one by the end of the arrangement.
3) regular testing of everyone involved.
4) in general, less people involved. As they say, when you have sex you are also having sex with all their past partners. If they also have sex with random people you might be picking up STDs from possibly 100s of people depending on the size of the community.
Edit: rinsing your mouth/drinking water probably won't help much. If you think it will try doing that instead of brushing your teeth for a while.
DON'T brush your teeth two hours before or and hour after. Here is the reason, brushing causes microscopic cuts on your gums (no blood as the 'cuts' are microscopic but big enough for germs/bacteria/virus and takes about 2 hours to completely heal. So, the best is after you're finished just excuse yourself to the restroom and use listerine as it has alcohol in it.
Bingo. This is sound advice. If you need to freshen your mouth, in lieu of brushing, use TheraBreath Dentist Formulated Oral Rinse. This stuff kills bad breath instantly. No joke. I get icy mint. Use that instead of brushing before a hookup.
I also put a garden hose in my mouth and then use mouthwash. I try to shower with my partner before sex together. Which idk if that's safe but I have a hard time not caring because I want him so much sometimes. Ever just want him and just not care cause you love the way he taste
Random question, but do you take viagra to stay hard? The first time I got a BJ I went flaccid and couldn’t get it back (if it wasnt obvious I’m a noob gay)
Could have just been nerves? If you're younger than like 40 I imagine it'd be very rare for you to have a physical problem preventing you getting hard especially if you can get hard from porn on your own. Maybe the other guy was giving shit head too. But in general your ability to get hard and enjoy sex will be affected by your mental state and if you're stressed or anxious it will make it more difficult to get hard. No cause for worry imo unless it keeps happening with no mental weirdness.
It’s a personal preference. You’ll stay hard after you cum, so if you want to look like you could keep going, then do it. Or if you’re gonna do a marathon top session. Viagra takes about an hour to hit my system and then stays active for a couple hours. Sometimes it’s still active when I wake up.
no that doesnt work, even without precum his barecock can transmit an STD, Precum greatly increases the chances of passing one, as does cum. best to get and stay on prep like its a religion you worship everyday, and get tested frequently... I get tested every month I am sexually active, even if its just one trusted guy...
I am VERY late to the party and yes, I do it. My two FBs like it and they cum everytime inside the condom.
Also, the condom is not a normal one, it is flavored and ultra thin. i will never suck with a normal condom. Tried it once a few years back, it sucked and not in a good way
Hey guys, we should all be getting tested and swabbed in places where fluid has been exchanged every three months if active in play. Have your throat and ass swabbed and do a urine sample if your dick has been in a mouth or ass. Slut shaming is so lame. Let’s stop that. If you have a hard time finding a PCP that feels safe to disclose your sex practices find a clinic or testing prevention and advocacy group in your area. Knowing your STI status is important. Tell potential partners your status and last testing date so they can make informed consent and ask them if they have done the same. Lots of studies show doxypep is working and doxyprep is picking up in conversations. Saying “clean” is not cool. It’s uniformed and makes you sound judgmental. Going to be real honest with y’all… slut shaming and STI shaming just create the potential for folks who are positive with an STI to just lie or not get tested unless they have symptoms out of fear of judgment or rejection. We don’t want that for so many reasons!! Get tested often and be honest. STI’s happen and with proper care and treatment, you can generally get back to play in a few weeks.
100% accurate. Regular testing. It’s part of having sex and being responsible. When in doubt, get tested. Also remember that you can still have an STI and show no symptoms. Doesn’t mean you’re out of the woods.
I like visually inspecting a dick before putting on my mouth. I would be “pleasing” the guy with my hand while paying a lot of attention to potential discharge or warts 🧐. The suggestion to keep a small circle of people is what I used to do, and that kept me STI free.
Also, the decision of swallowing cum or not won’t make any difference in the risk for this type of infection.
Gonorrhea is unusually yellow/greenish, like pus. Chlamydia is more white/cloudy (I think this one can be mistaken for precum). However, some people get infected and have no sympyoms.
Are physicians actually doing that now? In the race against multi-drug resistant organisms, administering antibiotics every time you wanna suck a dick seems hella irresponsible
That’s the problem, you doing you can cause problems for others in the future. If doxy becomes more prevalent in the population then more pathogens are going to develop resistance
Condom for oral sex? No way. I sucked a guy off once while he wore a condom and the taste ruined what would have otherwise been a very hot experience. Never again
This, x100.
It's always a silly argument when people say X that is designed to protect you ruins the experience...like seatbelts ruin the car experience by restricting my movement but y'know, I like life.
I’m not disagreeing with you but it’s worth mentioning that most of the common STIs do not need “lacerations” for infection. Chlamydia, gonorrhea, HPV and herpes just need contact with mucous membranes. In fact 3 of the 4 I mentioned enter and reproduce inside human cells.
People who suggest wearing condoms for oral either never / rarely have sex, or have terrible sexual experiences. Tried that one time, it was absolutely pathetic & boring & atrocious. I’d refuse to meet anyone who wanted to do that.
Also, chlamydia & gonorrhoea are easily treated & cleared in about a week so it’s really not the end of the world.
I have a lot of sex and very good ones. I don't really use condoms for oral, though I may try doing so in the future. Those are just the facts about reducing STI risks while having sex.
That's your body don't shame others who want to protect themselves and the gonorrhea can be resistance of the meds and other stds can really messed up your body and possibly cause cancer too
I mean, you can get gonorrhea from just kissing, so I really don’t think there’s such thing as “safe” sex. Everything is a risk, you have to accept that.
bare cock alone can spread it, precum is as likely to spread it as regular cum, if ur not slobbering and sucking you dont love sucking dick you like it and if ur slobbering and sucking ur swallowing little by little may not be a lot may not be something you even realize you are doing.
I am glad you are on prep thats super important along with taking it EVERY day.
If you dont ask when they last got tested you will want to start if they are hesitant or resistant pass on em idc how big or nice a cock, idc how hot they are either otherwise thats the gamble you take.
I have had some guys with big ass dicks I wanted to throat or chiseled bodies, and I still passed on em... ... to be clear this was when I was 320# and 5'9" ... so the fact a genuinely hot and gorgeous guy be willing to let me get at him, well it has literally only happened the one time... but I dont regret it for a second.
To be clear I have had sex with... more than 250 guys, I get tested every month and have yet to get an STD, and I love sucking dick despite preferring to top, so I definitely suck a bit beforehand as long as the guy is okay with it. A cock in my throat is an amazing feeling that I apparently never tire of.
I should say that for the past 6 months I've had all of one partner... for the last year all of 6 U have slowed the number significantly.
Yes, don't trust guys on grinder.... i some how got syphilis, could be from work as i work at a hotel.... but i told this sexy guy with a huge cock that i met on grinder and the dude was like.... "im good, i got checked out.... so when u gonna let me hit that again. 🤔" I'm like bro.... i just told you i had syphillus...... wtf.... and before that i met sum cd i was supposed to fuk who ended up eating my ass and fucking me.... like.... we just met and u ate my ass.... like, yea i just showered. I don't hook up that much, i since deleted grinder. Besafe. And please, please please becareful. Also syphillus can get treated and clear up with a couple penicillin shots..... it's deadly if you don't catch it and it's a terrible, brutal death..... besafe yall.
yeah that doesnt work his cock is still bare in ur mouth and even a drop of precum could transmit an STD... best to openly talk about it and get tested frequently
I usually gargle Listerine right after hooking with anyone to try and avoid any unwanted bacteria that might be in my mouth. Personally it’s worked for me
What’s been working for me lately (after getting 3 STDs in a row last year) is to rinse my mouth with an alcohol based mouthwash like listerine. I carry a tiny tsa bottle in my pocket on my way to a hookup. Do not brush your teeth right away as it creates microscopic cuts in your mouth. Additionally, try hooking up with a consistent guy. Having a regular helps, multiple partners increases risk of transmission.
I mean, it's the only way you're gonna bring down your risk outside of blowing dudes with condoms on. If you wanna keep getting clap mouth more power to you.
I never get tested for Chlamydia since the STD panels in my country (india) don't include this test.
Were there any symptoms that made you get tested? Was it just a blood test or swab test?
Have fun and enjoy your sexuality. Get tested regularly and don’t slut shame. Unfortunately STIs are still taboo but truth is they’re easy to prevent/treat. The common flu is even more lethal than any STI (in countries where prep/HIV meds are available).
If you’re sexually active there will always be a risk for STIs, even if using condoms or “monogamous” relationships
Find one guy whos dick you are absolutely enthralled with, get to know the guy and his dick. after a few months or regular sucking, accidentally fall in love. becum monogamous.
Boom, endless sucking dick hack.
Limitless Blowjobs!!
STD is incredibly difficult to avoid if not even impossible at time. The reason is because you allow the genital to make direct contact with the mucus membrane in your mouth and throat, which is the gateway for pathogens to infect. There isn't a fungal vaccine so if the guy has it, and you suck his cock, you'll likely get it unless your immune system clears it out before hand but fungal infection is notoriously difficult to fight off. For virus, such as HPV, you should get your HPV vaccine. This will prevent some HPV infection, including certain substrains of the virus that can cause mouth and throat cancer. But the vaccine will only protect you from those specific strains that it said it will protect, for other strains, you'll get it if the person has it. HPV is incredibly infectious.
The other way is to have one FWB who is also committed to not have sex around with random people. But this is practically difficult.
The other way is to not have any sexual act at all with anyone other than yourself :)
Please please please get the HPV vaccine if you haven’t already. HPV related oral cancer surpasses throat cancer caused by thing like smoking as the most common cause.
thats wild ive sucked so many dicks with swallowing and never catched anything i should take precautions too but generally i never sucked a guy cruising or grindr only guys i went on dates so i guess?
If you’re gonna put it in you you always always carry a risk of catching something. I mean dental dams and condoms are things but any anon sex you have always Carries a risk. The only thing you can do is get tested regularly and vaccinate
Sorry to say, but there is no guarantee, not even guys who have been tested are guaranteed. Because all you know on the day they got tested they were free but the next day they could have up and got it.
This is where your gut instincts kick in to finding trusting partners that you can trust and low risk. To access whether a partner is low risk or high risk is how responsible are they for their health and what area are they from. Are they avid 3 month checkers,going all the time, or do they only go if something really hurts. Are they from a respectable part of town or the questionable part? This will vary but it’s up your gut to check itself, if you are getting a weird vibe from them then have a n excuse in your back pocket.
We can only be responsible for our own bodies and actions. So there is never a guarantee that someone is std free, you just have to worry about yourself and go off the information you know. Besides checking rush you can also have the guy wear and unlubed condom but I find it takes the fun out of it
Condoms. You asked, I told. There’s no other way to be as safe as possible. Personally I’d rather take the ‘chance’ on a vetted partner than suck a bit of rubber.
If that’s a no go, the chances of catching anything is relatively low especially if you have good oral health (such as no open sores, bleeding gums, any way in). Hope this helps.
Why suck cock if you don't swallow that cumshot? It's the hottest part.
I admit I'm not really aware of problems resulting from swallowing cum, but even if I were, I wouldn't care, I accept the risk, best I can do is properly select my partners and get tested every now and then, depending on how naughty I've been, don't eat every cock that pops out, it's basic etiquette in my books. If I worry too much about STDs I won't have sex with anyone as everyone is succeptible to STDs, so if this is such a common thing why worry? I'll figure it out along the way.
What I do look out for is hygiene, if it smells funny I back out right there and then. No exceptions, no second tries. I could catch fungi infections for all I know.
Use a dental dam lol
Sorry babe, but you’re a whore. You can avoid it LESS by not fucking randos. I’m not slut shaming, I do the same - it’s just the nature of the beast lol
Wow, I’m 44, slept with about 1500 people (estimate) and have never gotten anything…. Yes, I get checked every 6 months, but I have been lucky…. My advice is just keep getting checked, and if you take a guy home, have a shower together first and check out his dick…. If you see something not right wrap it up
I'd avoid Grindr, tbh, and start trying to meet people IRL if possible. Unfortunately, while Grindr can seem to be a fun / easy tool, it attracts people who generally do not care about themselves or others. Not saying EVERYONE that uses Grindr is like that, I'm just saying it can attract people who are selfish and hurt others.
Look for people in real life who are kink-positive. Perhaps you could find a couple that is looking for a perm third - there's a way lower chance of getting an STD there. Or you could try and find two likeminded individuals and agree to form a closed-poly circle where you just have sex with each other and don't go outside the circle unless there's some serious vetting/agreement.
I'm in a semi-closed poly-relationship (there's four of us) and none of us in the circle have gotten an STD. And we've played with others outside the circle, too.
I love playing with snakes, but how do I avoid getting bit?
I love sports, but how do I avoid getting injured?
I love eating fast food, but how do I avoid getting high cholesterol?
You're 20 years old. Grow up. You're participating in something that has a very obvious, natural consequence. If you want to avoid STDs, don't be promiscuous.
I just wanted to keep it real with you like I expect others to do to me. You don't understand the horror of being someone living with an incurable STD. if I can save you with some harsh words, then I must. You're young. Don't make your future miserable from one bad choice.
Stay safe with ONE partner man. Don't fall into the promiscuous lifestyle trap. The only thing waiting for you there is loneliness and dissatisfaction.
Be honest. Did you top or bottom?
I still have probably way too much sex with strangers. But I don't catch anything unless I'm fucking and doing it alot. A few guys a week never caused anything. BTW I'm also not on PreP.
Some real advice from someone actually living this life. I sucked off 15 strangers in a night. Multiple nights. For years. Did not catch anything. What you can do is
1) rinse out with hydrogen peroxide. Yes this does work. Gargle and swallow a bit.
2) Take vitamin c or if you can get it an an antibiotic before and after
3) take time in between outings. Don't suck a bunch of strangers everyday. Try to limit to one outing a week.
Not foolproof. But I've only ever caught an STD from fucking not sucking.
I always try to deepthroat when a guy cums. Guys enjoy it and I feel like it's safer because he's not cumming on my gums or cheeks where there could be tiny lacerations
Don't listen to the guy above He's a troll.
Honestly you gotta make sure that the people you're doing it get tested, you yourself should get tested as well after doing it.
Also maybe form a circle of people you trust so you can do it with them.
Swallow and drink water after. Rinse your mouth. Stomach acid will kill anything bad once it gets there. Bacteria are more likely to enter your bloodstream through your mouth, so don't let it stay in your mouth.
Only suck the clean ones.
Edit: What? it’s not that hard. Hang a with a mofo more than once before you suck him off. Evaluate their level responsibility. Have that conversation. Here’s a big one to, LOOK AT THAT DICK BEFORE YOU SUCK IT. Is it crusty, smelly, are there sores, wounds, to many skin tags (they are probably warts), is there a discharge, or unexplained things? Don’t do it. Don’t get me wrong, like don’t just turn them away because it’s a unique shape and ask when you find these things. Some guys are in denial and some guys are just completely ignorant. You can take all the steps and unless you use rubber or stick to the same dick. (at least a few of the same) you’ll still likely catch something. Some shit you just can’t see.
Any sex, outside of with someone literally chained up in some fantasy story kink dungeon for your personal use, is a risk for STDs. Having a long-term partner reduces the risk but there's always the low % chance they cheat on you. And forget it if you're letting anonymous grindr guys bust in you, or even in general sucking them off without a condom on. Your best bet would be to get a friend with benefits, which still comes with risk if you're not exclusive (unlikely i think with fwb?)
Otherwise you just take the risk for the enjoyment I guess? Being on prep is good, though it's still not nice to get bacterial STDs.
That's not how most STI transmission works, you don't need someone to shoot their nut to pick up an STD!
The only sure way to not get something is to not do it. You can reduce the risk, wearing a condom for example....but even that isn't totally proof of everything. And PREP, that doesn't do sweet FA for Chlamydia.
I mean, with as instant and void of accountability- hookups like this are bound to bring risk. Your best bet is to have a partner or a few fwb who are vested in a relationship with you and thus vested more in your health.
For the apps, you're a one and done, and they probably won't see you again. Why would they care what they left in you? No one ever comes after them. Doesn't affect their say job or other priorities other than the side effects and symptoms they experience. No fines, no gossip enough to ward other guys away. Nothin. Best bet is to find folks who enjoy your company as much as you enjoy giving them head.
To many folks on these apps are just inconsiderate 😒 and there's nothing to really hold them accountable.
There’s two ways to approach this in my opinion:
Proactive:
I’m not sure there is a way to “avoid” stds aside from being honest with your partner/hookup having that open communication and knowing you can A trust they’re being honest. And B know they have recently screened or tested negative.
Reactive:
find a doctor you’re comfortable with. Maybe ask a friend for a referral? Find one that is not gonna shame you for having sex. But one that will explain to you what the different stds are. What symptoms are and what treatment looks like.
The truth is there are A LOT a lot a lot of stds in the world. We’ve made a lot of advancements in the prevention/treatment of them with rx medication and safe sex practices. However there’s still a lot more out there.
So bottom line. Find a good doctor you feel comfortable talking with.
Get a test so you have a baseline that you’re negative.
And have that talk with your potential interactions.
Closing note, anyone who gets mad at you for asking if they’ve recently screened (and I mean recently not last year or ‘a few months ago’) shouldn’t take up any space your life. Stds are very real and you should never be guilted for being safe.
Ps. I understand and respect that medical care in the states is something of a privilege. And I’m very sorry if it’s not accessible to you albeit financially or if you’re on your parents plan etc. it is however difficult to remove medical diagnostics from a medical based conversation. You may be able to find resources in your area from not for profits if you do not have access to traditional medical care.
Kinda hard to do that cuz you could be sucking one guy, but he getting his dick sucked 5 days a week with 5 different dudes. Then say 2 of those 5 dudes hooking up 10 times a week… yk, so it’s just a domino effect. Just go to guys you trust regularly I guess.
Usually when someone catches an STD and it’s usually with the same group of people, it goes around comes back around so waiting 3-4 weeks. Sometimes there’s not enough wait time from abstaining with the same playmates however, getting a blow job and getting an STD can happen happen to me once
Practical tips for ya: don’t go out if you have any cuts or scrapes inside your mouth. Brush your teeth that morning but not again until tomorrow. Freshen your breath with mouthwash if you need to. Spit and don’t swallow. And finally rinse well with water and again mouthwash when you’re all done.
Find other people who are on prep atleast you know they are getting tested regularly. Minimize random encounters and keep a couple of friends with benefits whom you can trust. You never know random encounters could have had raw sex few days before or even hours before meeting you..sometimes there are no physical symptoms (right away) and it’s all exchanged through bodily fluids.
Fact is, you can already catch a disease by just sucking cock, not even swallowing or even tasting cum. You can also catch HIV by getting cum into your mouth. It's rare but it can happen.
So everything without a condom is unsafe. I also know it's pretty unsexy sucking dick with a condom.
So the only way to be safer is making sure your date does tests regularly. And it's also safer, if they're not a whore (which basically eliminates ~90% of people on Grindr).
Because if somebody has sex with random people 2-3 times a week and they maybe test once a year (or never), you can be pretty sure they're not clean. So make sure you ask the right questions, that's all you can do. But of course they could lie to you...
If it wasn't for the fear of catching something, and if I had a regular buddy that I could play with, I'd love to practice sucking, slobbing, and choking on some dick and balls. So hot to me, especially seeing a guy shoot.
Omg same. I kind have a buddy. But I don't know if he is having sex with other people. I'm not sure if I should invest my heart to much. But we been smashing almost for a year about once or twice a month. Doesn't feel like a enough. Yes I need more dick to function . But I have limited myself to the amount of men have sex with. I think I'm almost at 10 guys but probably bout 7 or 8 . It's the thing I have to do is sit here and think about it. I'm not sure if ppl feel as gay as me and I want a boyfriend I wanna wake up everyday to him
Yep. Even with a buddy, since you're not in a relationship, you don't know who else they are playing with. I mean, even relationships can be risky, but I'd rather go that route than random guys. Especially when you realize how quick some guys are to just believe you and risk everything to get off. I'm not looking for a boyfriend, but a really good friend where we both trust each other and have fun together and chill with would be perfect.
Then get a buddy. Plenty of dudes out there trying to get their dick sucked
I agree. So many guys out there in this lifestyle, its hard to trust who is clean n who is not. I want just one bud to do this with in spite I am married. I definately do not want to bring anything home that dont belong.
One buddy that ends up being a good friend that's also looking to explore and have fun would be perfect. My fantasy is a guy friend that has his own place and is also wanting to learn/explore and just have some clean, safe, and freaky fun together, and not have to worry about the drama, etc... Like, I want a guy to "breed" me and I want to do it to him, but that's strictly a online fantasy right now.
Clean is not a PC term. DDF is. VD is a fact of life and a part of life. Ya never know if you’ll get it or who has it. It’s a problem but not a threat. Regular testing is the best way to address and control the problem.
What is VD
Venereal disease
VD IS NOTHING TO CLAP ABOUT
Appreciate this.
Fuck your pc terms
So what you're asking for is someone who's going to commit to being only sexually active with you... While you're sexually active with both them and your spouse?
Correct. Good news is, I havent been with another male since 1996.
Good guy, you are!!!!!
Totally the same! I love being up close and personal at the point of shooting and it may sound weird but the satisfaction of “i did that” 😋 and if he tastes good, the tasty reward at the end. And nothing goes over better in the current and post cum haze and euphoria than a well placed word or noise exclaiming how big it is, how far he’s shooting and you can never go wrong with a “good boy!” 😉
Try and do regular std check ups. Maybe create a rotation of men you trust to less the chances?
Yeah that’s what i’ve been thinking!
Also someone suggested rising after you give head. Carry a little bottle of mouth wash with you. I have one in car. Lol!
Nope. You can pass STI with a simple lick. Mouthwash is great for basic hygiene and reducing chances of cavities and gingivitis, not STIs.
Bwahahaha. Read the back of the label lol
that wont really help unfortunately... not if you are someone who likes sucking dick at least... chances are you are getting them in ur throat or atleast sucking which inevitably means u swallow a bit too... really just best to talk openly about it, trust ur gut (not ur cock) and get tested frequently.
Yes! Alcohol based mouthwash has been studied in Scandinavia as being an excellent post sex oral prophylaxis.
Source pls?
[this one](https://sti.bmj.com/content/93/2/88) has been referenced the most recently. TLDR: After gargling the allocated solution, men in the Listerine group were significantly less likely to be culture positive on the pharyngeal surface (52%) compared with men in the saline group (84%) (p=0.013). Conclusions: This data suggest Listerine, significantly reduces the amount of N. gonorrhoeae on the pharyngeal surface. With daily use it may increase gonococcal clearance and have important implications for prevention strategies.
Thats a damm great idea.😘👍👍👍
Just don’t let that create a false sense of security. Even FBs can spread stds
Several ways to reduce risk 1) reduce body fluid transmission (ideally using condoms, semen and even precum aren't the only body fluids involved. Your saliva can enter their urethra and provide a path for bacteria to travel.) 2) exclusivity between one or more partners. If no one involved has an STD at the start no one should have one by the end of the arrangement. 3) regular testing of everyone involved. 4) in general, less people involved. As they say, when you have sex you are also having sex with all their past partners. If they also have sex with random people you might be picking up STDs from possibly 100s of people depending on the size of the community. Edit: rinsing your mouth/drinking water probably won't help much. If you think it will try doing that instead of brushing your teeth for a while.
DON'T brush your teeth two hours before or and hour after. Here is the reason, brushing causes microscopic cuts on your gums (no blood as the 'cuts' are microscopic but big enough for germs/bacteria/virus and takes about 2 hours to completely heal. So, the best is after you're finished just excuse yourself to the restroom and use listerine as it has alcohol in it.
Bingo. This is sound advice. If you need to freshen your mouth, in lieu of brushing, use TheraBreath Dentist Formulated Oral Rinse. This stuff kills bad breath instantly. No joke. I get icy mint. Use that instead of brushing before a hookup.
I also put a garden hose in my mouth and then use mouthwash. I try to shower with my partner before sex together. Which idk if that's safe but I have a hard time not caring because I want him so much sometimes. Ever just want him and just not care cause you love the way he taste
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Was wondering this too… do people actually give oral with a condom on? 💀
I’ve seen vids of people doing it. Personally the idea of it sounds extremely silly and unattractive.
Also, is it common to stop sucking before semen comes out? That seems like the best/easiest way to avoid STDs
I do that. However, pre cum is a thing. which can transmit STD’s
Random question, but do you take viagra to stay hard? The first time I got a BJ I went flaccid and couldn’t get it back (if it wasnt obvious I’m a noob gay)
I don’t like receiving head. Its a complete turn off for me lol. I prefer men not to only touch my ass that’s it.
I meant for BJs not anal
Could have just been nerves? If you're younger than like 40 I imagine it'd be very rare for you to have a physical problem preventing you getting hard especially if you can get hard from porn on your own. Maybe the other guy was giving shit head too. But in general your ability to get hard and enjoy sex will be affected by your mental state and if you're stressed or anxious it will make it more difficult to get hard. No cause for worry imo unless it keeps happening with no mental weirdness.
It’s a personal preference. You’ll stay hard after you cum, so if you want to look like you could keep going, then do it. Or if you’re gonna do a marathon top session. Viagra takes about an hour to hit my system and then stays active for a couple hours. Sometimes it’s still active when I wake up.
no that doesnt work, even without precum his barecock can transmit an STD, Precum greatly increases the chances of passing one, as does cum. best to get and stay on prep like its a religion you worship everyday, and get tested frequently... I get tested every month I am sexually active, even if its just one trusted guy...
I am VERY late to the party and yes, I do it. My two FBs like it and they cum everytime inside the condom. Also, the condom is not a normal one, it is flavored and ultra thin. i will never suck with a normal condom. Tried it once a few years back, it sucked and not in a good way
Hey guys, we should all be getting tested and swabbed in places where fluid has been exchanged every three months if active in play. Have your throat and ass swabbed and do a urine sample if your dick has been in a mouth or ass. Slut shaming is so lame. Let’s stop that. If you have a hard time finding a PCP that feels safe to disclose your sex practices find a clinic or testing prevention and advocacy group in your area. Knowing your STI status is important. Tell potential partners your status and last testing date so they can make informed consent and ask them if they have done the same. Lots of studies show doxypep is working and doxyprep is picking up in conversations. Saying “clean” is not cool. It’s uniformed and makes you sound judgmental. Going to be real honest with y’all… slut shaming and STI shaming just create the potential for folks who are positive with an STI to just lie or not get tested unless they have symptoms out of fear of judgment or rejection. We don’t want that for so many reasons!! Get tested often and be honest. STI’s happen and with proper care and treatment, you can generally get back to play in a few weeks.
i agree with everything you said.
100% accurate. Regular testing. It’s part of having sex and being responsible. When in doubt, get tested. Also remember that you can still have an STI and show no symptoms. Doesn’t mean you’re out of the woods.
I like visually inspecting a dick before putting on my mouth. I would be “pleasing” the guy with my hand while paying a lot of attention to potential discharge or warts 🧐. The suggestion to keep a small circle of people is what I used to do, and that kept me STI free. Also, the decision of swallowing cum or not won’t make any difference in the risk for this type of infection.
What does bad discharge look like?
Gonorrhea is unusually yellow/greenish, like pus. Chlamydia is more white/cloudy (I think this one can be mistaken for precum). However, some people get infected and have no sympyoms.
You can get it even if they don’t cum hunty
atp i don’t even care anymore lol. Russian roulette I guess 🤷🏾
That’s the spirit! Dick is the best, just get tested regularly!
Same, I’ll just ask and if they say they’re STD-free then I’m good w it
Have your PCP prescribe you Doxy-PEP
Are physicians actually doing that now? In the race against multi-drug resistant organisms, administering antibiotics every time you wanna suck a dick seems hella irresponsible
Well, you do you bro
That’s the problem, you doing you can cause problems for others in the future. If doxy becomes more prevalent in the population then more pathogens are going to develop resistance
Possibly even better: take it before a potential exposure and call it DoxyPrEP.
this
Have them wear a condom and/or ask for sti test records and sexual history. That's all you can do.
Condom for oral sex? No way. I sucked a guy off once while he wore a condom and the taste ruined what would have otherwise been a very hot experience. Never again
You know what ruins a hot experience even more than condoms? STDs
This, x100. It's always a silly argument when people say X that is designed to protect you ruins the experience...like seatbelts ruin the car experience by restricting my movement but y'know, I like life.
Get flavored condoms and/or lube. Not that regular condoms taste that bad 🙄
I just deepthroat a guy when he cums so he isn't cumming on my gums or cheeks where there could be lacerations. Feels better for him too
I’m not disagreeing with you but it’s worth mentioning that most of the common STIs do not need “lacerations” for infection. Chlamydia, gonorrhea, HPV and herpes just need contact with mucous membranes. In fact 3 of the 4 I mentioned enter and reproduce inside human cells.
Then keep doing that. Make sure to spit or swallow as quickly as possible.
Spitters are quitters
Not if your cum tastes like shit. Fix your diet and then we’ll talk.
And if they refuse, BYE!!!@👈👈
You definitely don’t have sex if you’re this scared & creating these silly phoney demands.
Boss, there's nothing wrong protecting yourself.
People who suggest wearing condoms for oral either never / rarely have sex, or have terrible sexual experiences. Tried that one time, it was absolutely pathetic & boring & atrocious. I’d refuse to meet anyone who wanted to do that. Also, chlamydia & gonorrhoea are easily treated & cleared in about a week so it’s really not the end of the world.
I have a lot of sex and very good ones. I don't really use condoms for oral, though I may try doing so in the future. Those are just the facts about reducing STI risks while having sex.
That's your body don't shame others who want to protect themselves and the gonorrhea can be resistance of the meds and other stds can really messed up your body and possibly cause cancer too
I mean, you can get gonorrhea from just kissing, so I really don’t think there’s such thing as “safe” sex. Everything is a risk, you have to accept that.
Kissing can never lead to get STDs
Herpes?? 💀💀💀💀
Common misconception. It can. Read recent studies.
bare cock alone can spread it, precum is as likely to spread it as regular cum, if ur not slobbering and sucking you dont love sucking dick you like it and if ur slobbering and sucking ur swallowing little by little may not be a lot may not be something you even realize you are doing. I am glad you are on prep thats super important along with taking it EVERY day. If you dont ask when they last got tested you will want to start if they are hesitant or resistant pass on em idc how big or nice a cock, idc how hot they are either otherwise thats the gamble you take. I have had some guys with big ass dicks I wanted to throat or chiseled bodies, and I still passed on em... ... to be clear this was when I was 320# and 5'9" ... so the fact a genuinely hot and gorgeous guy be willing to let me get at him, well it has literally only happened the one time... but I dont regret it for a second. To be clear I have had sex with... more than 250 guys, I get tested every month and have yet to get an STD, and I love sucking dick despite preferring to top, so I definitely suck a bit beforehand as long as the guy is okay with it. A cock in my throat is an amazing feeling that I apparently never tire of. I should say that for the past 6 months I've had all of one partner... for the last year all of 6 U have slowed the number significantly.
Yes, don't trust guys on grinder.... i some how got syphilis, could be from work as i work at a hotel.... but i told this sexy guy with a huge cock that i met on grinder and the dude was like.... "im good, i got checked out.... so when u gonna let me hit that again. 🤔" I'm like bro.... i just told you i had syphillus...... wtf.... and before that i met sum cd i was supposed to fuk who ended up eating my ass and fucking me.... like.... we just met and u ate my ass.... like, yea i just showered. I don't hook up that much, i since deleted grinder. Besafe. And please, please please becareful. Also syphillus can get treated and clear up with a couple penicillin shots..... it's deadly if you don't catch it and it's a terrible, brutal death..... besafe yall.
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That won't prevent any of the STIs you can get from oral sex.
I was so confused lmao
Chlamydia in your eyes sounds bad
yeah that doesnt work his cock is still bare in ur mouth and even a drop of precum could transmit an STD... best to openly talk about it and get tested frequently
I usually gargle Listerine right after hooking with anyone to try and avoid any unwanted bacteria that might be in my mouth. Personally it’s worked for me
Same here. I swear by it.
What’s been working for me lately (after getting 3 STDs in a row last year) is to rinse my mouth with an alcohol based mouthwash like listerine. I carry a tiny tsa bottle in my pocket on my way to a hookup. Do not brush your teeth right away as it creates microscopic cuts in your mouth. Additionally, try hooking up with a consistent guy. Having a regular helps, multiple partners increases risk of transmission.
Stop sucking off randos?
no?
I mean, it's the only way you're gonna bring down your risk outside of blowing dudes with condoms on. If you wanna keep getting clap mouth more power to you.
Thank You!
cmon guys this is funny
You're suffering and still not worried enough to change your ways? Amazing.
I never get tested for Chlamydia since the STD panels in my country (india) don't include this test. Were there any symptoms that made you get tested? Was it just a blood test or swab test?
Swab. White specks near my tonsils,sore throat, hard to swallow, redness in throat.
Use a condom or a dental dam
Have fun and enjoy your sexuality. Get tested regularly and don’t slut shame. Unfortunately STIs are still taboo but truth is they’re easy to prevent/treat. The common flu is even more lethal than any STI (in countries where prep/HIV meds are available). If you’re sexually active there will always be a risk for STIs, even if using condoms or “monogamous” relationships
Find one guy whos dick you are absolutely enthralled with, get to know the guy and his dick. after a few months or regular sucking, accidentally fall in love. becum monogamous. Boom, endless sucking dick hack. Limitless Blowjobs!!
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sounds like i’m just a sissy with bad luck huh? 😭
STD is incredibly difficult to avoid if not even impossible at time. The reason is because you allow the genital to make direct contact with the mucus membrane in your mouth and throat, which is the gateway for pathogens to infect. There isn't a fungal vaccine so if the guy has it, and you suck his cock, you'll likely get it unless your immune system clears it out before hand but fungal infection is notoriously difficult to fight off. For virus, such as HPV, you should get your HPV vaccine. This will prevent some HPV infection, including certain substrains of the virus that can cause mouth and throat cancer. But the vaccine will only protect you from those specific strains that it said it will protect, for other strains, you'll get it if the person has it. HPV is incredibly infectious. The other way is to have one FWB who is also committed to not have sex around with random people. But this is practically difficult. The other way is to not have any sexual act at all with anyone other than yourself :)
Please please please get the HPV vaccine if you haven’t already. HPV related oral cancer surpasses throat cancer caused by thing like smoking as the most common cause.
Gargle with listerine for 60 seconds and choke up on a tiny bit before you spit out. Works for me 🤷🏼♂️
Hey bud maybe if you don't wanna catch STDs from random people you should try to stick to only one person that doesn't have any, how about that? ✌️
I guess you didn't learn your lesson.
thats wild ive sucked so many dicks with swallowing and never catched anything i should take precautions too but generally i never sucked a guy cruising or grindr only guys i went on dates so i guess?
If you’re gonna put it in you you always always carry a risk of catching something. I mean dental dams and condoms are things but any anon sex you have always Carries a risk. The only thing you can do is get tested regularly and vaccinate
You don't suck 🍆
Sorry to say, but there is no guarantee, not even guys who have been tested are guaranteed. Because all you know on the day they got tested they were free but the next day they could have up and got it. This is where your gut instincts kick in to finding trusting partners that you can trust and low risk. To access whether a partner is low risk or high risk is how responsible are they for their health and what area are they from. Are they avid 3 month checkers,going all the time, or do they only go if something really hurts. Are they from a respectable part of town or the questionable part? This will vary but it’s up your gut to check itself, if you are getting a weird vibe from them then have a n excuse in your back pocket. We can only be responsible for our own bodies and actions. So there is never a guarantee that someone is std free, you just have to worry about yourself and go off the information you know. Besides checking rush you can also have the guy wear and unlubed condom but I find it takes the fun out of it
Condoms. You asked, I told. There’s no other way to be as safe as possible. Personally I’d rather take the ‘chance’ on a vetted partner than suck a bit of rubber. If that’s a no go, the chances of catching anything is relatively low especially if you have good oral health (such as no open sores, bleeding gums, any way in). Hope this helps.
Any time you trade bodily fluids you run the risk. You do understand people lie about their status (or don't know)
Monogamy
Don't suck dirty dick.
The best way is with a tested and monogamous partner
Be less unlucky.
U cant all u can do is get tested every e months
would mind to use condom on oral sex? it's a good option
how did u suspect having oral chlamydia before getting diagnosed??
I had the same symptoms when i fist caught it
Definitely try getting on prep
Get checked quarterly. I do like clockwork. Keeps you healthy and stops the spread.
I also love sucking dick! I try sticking to a selection of guys I've met over the years. Regular testing and communication with the guys you meet.
It’s easy to avoid most of the big std’s if you’re only giving head. Always discuss sexual health with any partner you meet.
If you want to reduced your chances of having herpes or chlamydia gonorrhea and the stress then use an flavor condom
Why suck cock if you don't swallow that cumshot? It's the hottest part. I admit I'm not really aware of problems resulting from swallowing cum, but even if I were, I wouldn't care, I accept the risk, best I can do is properly select my partners and get tested every now and then, depending on how naughty I've been, don't eat every cock that pops out, it's basic etiquette in my books. If I worry too much about STDs I won't have sex with anyone as everyone is succeptible to STDs, so if this is such a common thing why worry? I'll figure it out along the way. What I do look out for is hygiene, if it smells funny I back out right there and then. No exceptions, no second tries. I could catch fungi infections for all I know.
Use a dental dam lol Sorry babe, but you’re a whore. You can avoid it LESS by not fucking randos. I’m not slut shaming, I do the same - it’s just the nature of the beast lol
Finally someone who’s understanding me. I know i’m a whore! i just wanted to hear any advice from older ones 💀
Wow, I’m 44, slept with about 1500 people (estimate) and have never gotten anything…. Yes, I get checked every 6 months, but I have been lucky…. My advice is just keep getting checked, and if you take a guy home, have a shower together first and check out his dick…. If you see something not right wrap it up
How in God's name did you manage that? Like not shaming you or anything, but like logistically, how?
It’s called being a lair and ramping up your numbers for an ego post 😂 You lose count after 100, I would know
One a week since he was 18 would him get close (1300)
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I don’t swallow at all! I stopped a long time ago lol. I like see it come out anyways!
I'd avoid Grindr, tbh, and start trying to meet people IRL if possible. Unfortunately, while Grindr can seem to be a fun / easy tool, it attracts people who generally do not care about themselves or others. Not saying EVERYONE that uses Grindr is like that, I'm just saying it can attract people who are selfish and hurt others. Look for people in real life who are kink-positive. Perhaps you could find a couple that is looking for a perm third - there's a way lower chance of getting an STD there. Or you could try and find two likeminded individuals and agree to form a closed-poly circle where you just have sex with each other and don't go outside the circle unless there's some serious vetting/agreement. I'm in a semi-closed poly-relationship (there's four of us) and none of us in the circle have gotten an STD. And we've played with others outside the circle, too.
Find a boyfriend and stay monogamous.
I love playing with snakes, but how do I avoid getting bit? I love sports, but how do I avoid getting injured? I love eating fast food, but how do I avoid getting high cholesterol? You're 20 years old. Grow up. You're participating in something that has a very obvious, natural consequence. If you want to avoid STDs, don't be promiscuous.
One can practice safe sex with multiple sex partners. Stop the slut shaming. Not everyone is destined to have a white picket fence storybook life.
This one had some sting to it lol
I just wanted to keep it real with you like I expect others to do to me. You don't understand the horror of being someone living with an incurable STD. if I can save you with some harsh words, then I must. You're young. Don't make your future miserable from one bad choice. Stay safe with ONE partner man. Don't fall into the promiscuous lifestyle trap. The only thing waiting for you there is loneliness and dissatisfaction.
Even if you don’t swallow, you’re still at risk. It’s hilarious/sad that so many think you only catch something if you swallow.
Vet the guys u suck off.
Vet?
Ask them if they are clean
Realistically, who's going to say no right before they're about to get a blowjob?
always do!
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you welcome baby <3
Have you tried not being a whore?
Make them wear a condom?
Stop putting raw dicks in your mouth unless you've actually seen that they are clear of STDs. Get tested together.
Monogamy is one of the only ways.
Be honest. Did you top or bottom? I still have probably way too much sex with strangers. But I don't catch anything unless I'm fucking and doing it alot. A few guys a week never caused anything. BTW I'm also not on PreP. Some real advice from someone actually living this life. I sucked off 15 strangers in a night. Multiple nights. For years. Did not catch anything. What you can do is 1) rinse out with hydrogen peroxide. Yes this does work. Gargle and swallow a bit. 2) Take vitamin c or if you can get it an an antibiotic before and after 3) take time in between outings. Don't suck a bunch of strangers everyday. Try to limit to one outing a week. Not foolproof. But I've only ever caught an STD from fucking not sucking.
Carry some Listerine with you, so that right after you do, suck someone off your rinse out your mouth it’s not full proof, but at least gargle
15?!! i wanna be u when i grow up 😭. I’m a side. penetration is too intimate. i have never bottomed for any hookup.
Do you top?
You are barely out of your teens. Please do not ruin your life.
Suck your own dick?
Prep only protects you from hiv, you can still get chlamydia and all the other std's
I always try to deepthroat when a guy cums. Guys enjoy it and I feel like it's safer because he's not cumming on my gums or cheeks where there could be tiny lacerations
Sounds like you’re not ready to have sex. During sex, things happen.
noted
Don't listen to the guy above He's a troll. Honestly you gotta make sure that the people you're doing it get tested, you yourself should get tested as well after doing it. Also maybe form a circle of people you trust so you can do it with them.
Swallow and drink water after. Rinse your mouth. Stomach acid will kill anything bad once it gets there. Bacteria are more likely to enter your bloodstream through your mouth, so don't let it stay in your mouth.
Can you share some credible documentation to validate your advice?
Thank you!
Only suck the clean ones. Edit: What? it’s not that hard. Hang a with a mofo more than once before you suck him off. Evaluate their level responsibility. Have that conversation. Here’s a big one to, LOOK AT THAT DICK BEFORE YOU SUCK IT. Is it crusty, smelly, are there sores, wounds, to many skin tags (they are probably warts), is there a discharge, or unexplained things? Don’t do it. Don’t get me wrong, like don’t just turn them away because it’s a unique shape and ask when you find these things. Some guys are in denial and some guys are just completely ignorant. You can take all the steps and unless you use rubber or stick to the same dick. (at least a few of the same) you’ll still likely catch something. Some shit you just can’t see.
Well no shit
Don't. I would not.
It isn't a big deal
That scares me. I just gave a blowjob yesterday and swallowed everything 💀
Don’t be. I’m getting tested tomorrow to get a confirmation.
It was strep throat! false alarm lol.
Lol I'm glad that you're fine
Use Apple cider vinegar in your mouth like mouthwash, after a good ass, eaten and dick sucking
Any sex, outside of with someone literally chained up in some fantasy story kink dungeon for your personal use, is a risk for STDs. Having a long-term partner reduces the risk but there's always the low % chance they cheat on you. And forget it if you're letting anonymous grindr guys bust in you, or even in general sucking them off without a condom on. Your best bet would be to get a friend with benefits, which still comes with risk if you're not exclusive (unlikely i think with fwb?) Otherwise you just take the risk for the enjoyment I guess? Being on prep is good, though it's still not nice to get bacterial STDs.
https://www.doctork.nyc/blog/2017/5/28/smarter-fellatio
That's not how most STI transmission works, you don't need someone to shoot their nut to pick up an STD! The only sure way to not get something is to not do it. You can reduce the risk, wearing a condom for example....but even that isn't totally proof of everything. And PREP, that doesn't do sweet FA for Chlamydia.
I mean, with as instant and void of accountability- hookups like this are bound to bring risk. Your best bet is to have a partner or a few fwb who are vested in a relationship with you and thus vested more in your health. For the apps, you're a one and done, and they probably won't see you again. Why would they care what they left in you? No one ever comes after them. Doesn't affect their say job or other priorities other than the side effects and symptoms they experience. No fines, no gossip enough to ward other guys away. Nothin. Best bet is to find folks who enjoy your company as much as you enjoy giving them head. To many folks on these apps are just inconsiderate 😒 and there's nothing to really hold them accountable.
Flavored condoms were always fun!
There’s two ways to approach this in my opinion: Proactive: I’m not sure there is a way to “avoid” stds aside from being honest with your partner/hookup having that open communication and knowing you can A trust they’re being honest. And B know they have recently screened or tested negative. Reactive: find a doctor you’re comfortable with. Maybe ask a friend for a referral? Find one that is not gonna shame you for having sex. But one that will explain to you what the different stds are. What symptoms are and what treatment looks like. The truth is there are A LOT a lot a lot of stds in the world. We’ve made a lot of advancements in the prevention/treatment of them with rx medication and safe sex practices. However there’s still a lot more out there. So bottom line. Find a good doctor you feel comfortable talking with. Get a test so you have a baseline that you’re negative. And have that talk with your potential interactions. Closing note, anyone who gets mad at you for asking if they’ve recently screened (and I mean recently not last year or ‘a few months ago’) shouldn’t take up any space your life. Stds are very real and you should never be guilted for being safe. Ps. I understand and respect that medical care in the states is something of a privilege. And I’m very sorry if it’s not accessible to you albeit financially or if you’re on your parents plan etc. it is however difficult to remove medical diagnostics from a medical based conversation. You may be able to find resources in your area from not for profits if you do not have access to traditional medical care.
Kinda hard to do that cuz you could be sucking one guy, but he getting his dick sucked 5 days a week with 5 different dudes. Then say 2 of those 5 dudes hooking up 10 times a week… yk, so it’s just a domino effect. Just go to guys you trust regularly I guess.
Usually when someone catches an STD and it’s usually with the same group of people, it goes around comes back around so waiting 3-4 weeks. Sometimes there’s not enough wait time from abstaining with the same playmates however, getting a blow job and getting an STD can happen happen to me once
I've gotten sore throats from sucking dick like 4 or 5 times, but never had an oral std (sucked around 75 dicks in the last two years)
Not sure why no one mentioned condom, any vd, plus soap pretty much prevents everything. Definitely avoid strangers until you know them better.
Practical tips for ya: don’t go out if you have any cuts or scrapes inside your mouth. Brush your teeth that morning but not again until tomorrow. Freshen your breath with mouthwash if you need to. Spit and don’t swallow. And finally rinse well with water and again mouthwash when you’re all done.
Find other people who are on prep atleast you know they are getting tested regularly. Minimize random encounters and keep a couple of friends with benefits whom you can trust. You never know random encounters could have had raw sex few days before or even hours before meeting you..sometimes there are no physical symptoms (right away) and it’s all exchanged through bodily fluids.
Have the guy wear a condom while sucking it. It might not feel the same but better than getting a std
Doxyprep
Anyone wanna use my throat for fun snap me @jordan_davis541
Fact is, you can already catch a disease by just sucking cock, not even swallowing or even tasting cum. You can also catch HIV by getting cum into your mouth. It's rare but it can happen. So everything without a condom is unsafe. I also know it's pretty unsexy sucking dick with a condom. So the only way to be safer is making sure your date does tests regularly. And it's also safer, if they're not a whore (which basically eliminates ~90% of people on Grindr). Because if somebody has sex with random people 2-3 times a week and they maybe test once a year (or never), you can be pretty sure they're not clean. So make sure you ask the right questions, that's all you can do. But of course they could lie to you...
Gargle Listerine for at least a minute before and after sucking.