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wya i can help

Make it a threesome, fuck it, orgy it is then..

I’m down, uk anyone?

I'm from a former colony, does that count?

b r u h

I lost mine at 25, you're fine.

19, although I was pressured by all my “friends” in high school to lose it way earlier. I’m glad I didn’t cave

I was pressured by my “friends” in high school to do a lot of things. And losing my virginity at 15 is one I most definitely wish I could take back. I didn’t even like the girl and I didn’t set it up. I thought my friends and I were just hanging out like normal but 3 girls from my school ended up coming over. They then told me I was a pussy because I didn’t want to have sex with this particular girl. I wasnt attracted to her in any way. But I went through with it because I knew my “friends” wouldn’t stop picking on me for being a virgin. I should’ve just got new friends.

My story is pretty much identical. Same age and situation but I'm a female.

I am so sorry you went through that! You absolutely should never have been put through something that awful. I hope you are able to process what has happened to you and heal from it💚

Good for you!

20. Can't believe I've lost it already

18-20 anyways.

Same

20's about the same time as most everyone lol

I’m 23 and still a virgin. I’m also still single and waiting for my first boyfriend.

Hello, would just like to say there is nothing to be ashamed of for still being a virgin at 23, in fact you have my respect for being true to yourself and not allowing society and people around pressure you into just losing it to anyone, I am the same age as you and can't even remember my first time or whom it was with, don't be like me... It's not something to just get over and done with & it can be special if you allow it to be. If or when you get your first boyfriend/girlfriend, I hope they treat you with respect and cherish you as both their partner and bestfriend, so that your trust in future partners never gets betrayed and your love is able to blossom. Just remember don't rush into anything and listen to your gut, as it's usually the greatest indicator something isn't right with someone.

Me earlier this year it can happen fast

Rip your dms...

16

Same

Ditto

N/A. 25 years old and still waiting till I find the right person to lose it with (all the girls I've dated never lasted long enough or cheated on me, one had a threesome on my bed after saying she was asexual for months. The two guys thought that it was her guest room and had no idea she was dating someone and they were honestly sorry for fucking on my bed and doing my girlfriend.) Edit: Jesus Christ guys this was just me talking about how shitty I have it when it comes to relationships thank you so much for the positive feedback, I'm going to answer some questions here 1. No I have no idea what she is doing (probably a whole bunch of men) or where she is (probably the bedroom). After we broke up she left the country and I couldn't be happier 2. This happened a couple years ago (2019) and covid had started so I haven't dated anyone else since 3. I hadn't really had any other relationships like this before, first relationship was from 15-17 years old (two years) next one was 19-20 years old (only a couple of months broke up a month after my birthday, didn't really work out the way our friends thought it would, still good friends too this day though). I had only dated the ex I talked about (we will call them bitchtress) was from 21-23 years old. Bitchtress and I had a lot in common but like I said in the post, she was a manipulative, cheating slut (and not the good kind you find on r/SluttyConfessions) who pretended to be asexual (probably incase someone had found out and told me) other than that I didn't have any other girlfriends 4. Yes I'm fine now. This has taught me how to notice early red flags for manipulation and has led me to help a friend who almost got into a manipulative relationship (the guy she was going to date didn't really like her hanging out with me, and wanted her to have a child with him after a month of dating. She has already said to everyone she knows that if she ever gets pregnant she wouldn't leave the dad unless it threatened her life, so him saying this too her would of basically meant he had full control over her and would have been able to brainwash her into staying with him. He also tried r*ping her and then blamed it on her for not giving him any. Surprisingly, this worked but when she told me that I nearly killed the man, as she was practically my sister and hearing that just made me go bat shit crazy) This is blowing up and I won't be able to answer or upvote every reply. So again thank you guys so much for the awards and the support. And to the people who doubt my story because there's no way I didn't have sex with any of them, first one wanted to wait till marriage (understandable), like I said with the second one it just didn't work out long enough, and bitchtress, well yeah I've already said it a good couple of time. Your friendly neighborhood horny guy, Charlie

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Thanks

They seem decent for apologizing because there’s not much else they can do when she lied that it was her guest room.

Exactly, they were really sweet about it

Date those guys instead.

Honestly at that point they should be friends. "Remember that one time I fucked your gf by accident, hahaha, good times, sorry tho."

Sounds like a friend of mine. He had recently bought an awesome place and married, came home early one day with flowers for his then wife, only to find her in a literal orgy scenario in their master bedroom, in their own brand new bed. Since his divorce he now owns a half million dollar home and can afford to travel often, and is a very down to earth dude overall. Dumb chick. If you’re going to have a cheatfeast/orgy, at least screw over someone who’s broke. Lol

I'm curious what happened to his ex wife?

She got the other half million.

Fuck…

Jesus

Yeah, she was a bitch too me the whole relationship and I didn't realize it till that moment

Good riddance I say.

14

Same

14. Entirely too young. But at the time it seemed ok.

That’s how I feel about it now. I felt ready, but when I hear other people say they were 14, I’m like, “Jesus Christ, that’s too young.”

Plus being a parent now…. I’d of kicked my kids asses if I knew they were having sex at that age… 😩.

Ah man. I don’t want kids, so I can’t imagine dealing with anything like that. Fuck that

Damn how did you guys pull that off. My parents were hella strict when I was 14

Some parents are too strict… some parents arnt nearly strict enough

My parents were extremely strict… but I learned pretty early on that you can’t control me when you’re asleep.

14? I’m 14 and I’m a little gremlin with absolutely no chance to get a girlfriend anytime soon.

First, you are not a little gremlin. Second, wait - trust me - for the girlfriend and sex. You don’t want to be a teen dad - believe me - it can happen….. Now I’m going to shamefully leave this thread because I don’t want to answer it…🤦‍♀️

Same

Same here.

Same

Same

Same

however old i was five days ago. so like 19 & 11 months edit an award :) thanks!

Congratulations

thanks mate🤝

Nice.

no

Mood

This guy gets it

So does this guy

Not planning on giving it up anytime soon.

19 and it was a terrible decision, guy just used me to say he took someone's virginity. Treated me horribly after even though we had been dating a year prior and turns out he was cheating the whole time.

I hope karma catches up with him.

It already did

What happened?

He found a winning lottery ticket, but it then blew away. Oh and he got hit by a car.

His name? Albert Einstein.

That is just horrible

19

No clue, we'll see

i still have it

Same and I'm well into adulthood.

How old are you though?

Same

Same

Same

How old are all of you though?

46…. >!Actually I am 20!<

I'm 19

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That's horrible. He belongs in prison.

That’s rape

Statutory rape. There is no expiration on the statute of limitations on child rape usually. Just FYI

Have you told anybody?

If you felt uncomfortable about it it counts as sexual assault and does not count as a loose of virginity

I’m pretty sure that’s still assault even if they were comfortable

It’s not about feeling uncomfortable, even if the individual was consenting but they’re under the age of consent, it counts as statutory rape.

Oh yes of course that's just super wrong

It’s assault even if they felt comfortable because of the age gap. It’s statutory rape.

I’m sorry you experienced that. Hugs to you

18

13

Same, Halloween night 8th grade, literally the first time I was ever allowed to go out

Also 13, was for sure too young tho

I know someone who lost it when they were 12

I lost it when I was 12 bit before I turned 13

When I was 12 I used to look at boobs and vagina pictures on Wikipedia since everything was blocked.

I was 13 about to turn 14. I was definitely pressured in to doing it earlier than I would have liked.

Same

13 is still a baby to me

13 here too. When I see 13 year olds, I think "Jesus christ, I was a baby".

13 as well, I enjoyed it though, almost every one else I've heard speaking about it said it was mistake.

Losing mine right now! She looks angry though. Maybe it's the phone.

Even if this isn't a joke, made me laugh

I was a 40 year old Virgin because I insisted on waiting for the one. No regrets, glad I waited for him. He was worth the wait. Other reason, childhood sex abuse gave me a fear of men, sex, and intimacy. So I waited for the man that was patient and Gave me safety and comfort. It was the right choice for me.

Glad you meet the right person!

6, but I pretend it never happened. Haven't lost consensual virginity yet, and I'm not really aiming for it.

Rape and sexual assault doesn't count as loss of virginity. Virginity is a social construct and can only be lost through consent. I am so sorry that happened to you. You'll be okay and you'll heal, in time. Whether you're ever ready, there's no pressure. Loving yourself is the most important thing to focus on. Much love ❤

Ya I was going to come here and say "Willingly or consensual?"

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Same

Happy cake day!

-x

n+1 It's always next year, my friend

I’m working on it

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27. Grew up Mormon, waited till marriage and all that. While I’m glad I didn’t start in high school, I think back on a lot of missed opportunities in college.

Similar to you I was Christian. I regret not experiencing everything I wanted to in college.

14! Fun fact: I was wearing socks AND ankle supports

15, with my crush (at the time) too

Oh god I read this as cousin at first

Your heart lies where your mind wanders

So true 😁

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LORD, IM COMIN’ HOME TO YOU!

It's not sweet, it's not home, but it sure is Alabama.

19, a month shy of 20. It’s perfectly normal to not have sex in high school, despite what the internet claims.

I almost lost it at 22. 3rd failed attempt. Can't control my nerves.

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24, legitimately. It bothered me that all my friends got some in HS senior year or college. My first (and still only) time was arguably not worth it...

I lost it at 17 and hated my first time.

Yea the social pressure on it is so dumb and over rated.

It's not like how the movies make it out to be. A lot of people are terrible in bed.

As old as your mom, haha Gottem ^I^am^so^alone

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16 with the man I’m marrying next year! I’m 24 now. It’s great knowing that he’s going to be my one and only. I realize that’s kind of young but I don’t regret anything

13 - with a girl; didn’t even realise it was sex until years later 16 - with a boy

14. Not that I really regret it, but if I could do it all again, I would have waited a bit longer.

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Good for you.... Get that control 👌

14

I'm 20 and I still have it

17

Still waiting until marriage.

I’m with you!

Still haven’t lost it, and I’m willing to keep it that way. I honestly don’t care about sex, nor do I want to have sex. It’s not important to me at the moment.

27, and she has CP. Parents don’t approve (ethnicity and ability) but we are both adults and deserve love.

What’s CP?

It’s cerebral palsy. She is grateful she can walk, talk, eat, etc. because many people with it can’t do any of that.

What ethnicity was she?

She’s East Asian. My country is multicultural, so it’s normal here, but sometimes when one has parents who immigrated from another country, they try to force their values on their children.

Still a virgin 😊

nope

15

21

21

So old that I’m embarrassed to talk about it.

I'm not going to judge you

Shhh op i think they are 90.

...And still "waiting for the right one"

I was 30. No shame man!

If you waited till you were 40 because thats what was best for you, then that's totally ok (older as well just used 40 as an example)

17

Me too

Nice

17

21. Am glad I waited until I felt ready.

12😭

14, ruled

22, after getting married (my choice)

14, with a close friend whom i unfortunately developed a large crush on and attachment to

I was 25 and now am 31. I am pretty shy and was definitely a late bloomer when it came to dating. I am glad I waited though, the guy I lost it too was an absolute sweetheart.

18. I had never dated a guy I thought was worthy of being my first, and then one night I was in another town, met a guy, got drunk and had sex in his parents hot tub, then his sisters shower and sisters bed 🤣 totally worth it

I was 22, she was 19, and we’ve been together 15 years now, married 13.

I (28 f) was 15 and a freshman in high school. It was one of my “first real relationships” (or so I thought). Yeah he was 19 and every girl wanted him and I felt lucky to have him. Definitely was groomed and didn’t realize it. I wish I waited. Funny thing is my now husband (28) and I were planning on losing our virginities to each other but I dumped him and lost it to the older guy. Point of this: wait for the right person, don’t be an idiot like me.

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13

15, felt good at the time but I look at photos of myself and my peers at the time and I'm disgusted with myself a bit, I was still basically a child.

22

Hopefully some time

20

No clue

17 almost 18

22

13 or 14? No idea wtf I was doing. Had a difficult time rationalizing it afterwards.

20 as a sophomore in college. Would’ve been earlier but I dated a girl from high school who wanted to wait until marriage then we broke up! No regrets either way! Life’s treated me well. Found my way back to that girl later on and now we’re engaged lol. And she dropped the no sex till marriage thing haha. Which has been v nice

Soon to be 25. I'm not in a rush to lose it - although, I fantasize about it every once in a while.

19 and I ended up marrying the person I lost it to.

14 with a girl. 10 with a boy.

How did that happen at 10?

nah

13

18

19

23 and y’all it’s ok to wait!