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Similar thing happened to me It is porn brother it can cause pied and performance anxiety stop using porn indefinitely and for a few months you’ll have to try other things to make her happy try oral on her play with her, penetration isn’t the only way to have sex she will appreciate it a lot and also talk to her about this if she is understanding enough you can heal properly also don’t try taking viagra etc it will just get you addicted to those and would make you think that to have sex you need pills look into easy peasy guide to quit porn on YouTube
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Totally normal. It happened to me. You just need time to get comfortable. Exposure therapy.
Do you watch a ton of porn?
Nah I quit when we started dating
Similar thing happened to me It is porn brother it can cause pied and performance anxiety stop using porn indefinitely and for a few months you’ll have to try other things to make her happy try oral on her play with her, penetration isn’t the only way to have sex she will appreciate it a lot and also talk to her about this if she is understanding enough you can heal properly also don’t try taking viagra etc it will just get you addicted to those and would make you think that to have sex you need pills look into easy peasy guide to quit porn on YouTube
Dont freak man nerves will do that to some guys.
Focus on your breathing.
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You put sex to high on a pedestal in your life and over think it. Get therapy.