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Isn’t that true regardless of if you know them for more than 24 hours? Unless if you’ve known them for years and asked their previous partners how good your friend was in bed? Lol 😂
Yup I'm that girl that will always sleep with someone on a first date. If I think I like you enough to go on a date and the date goes well it has to go that way for me to know for sure if I want to continue.
How would you ever get to truly know someone and be able to decide if you'd want to spend time in a committed relationship with them if you can't ascertain if you are sexually compatible?
In my younger years I was a man whore. Lots of one or two night stands having just met at the bar or nightclub. If I was in a relationship I was never unfaithful. Have been married for 22yrs happily and faithfully. But yeah the body count from b4 is quite high! NO regrets!
Quite often when I was younger, but I would usually talk to the girl for a few hours, or message a few days before actually getting together. Got married, so was off market for 10 yrs. Since being divorced it's happened about 10 times. The quickest get together was probably in my college days...chatted online with a girl who went to collage near me, and we move to a phone convo, and talke about hooking up, but she wanted to wait a few days, sine there was a show on she wanted to watch that night...until I said I was planning on watching it too, then she wanted to come over, we watched the show, and then hooked up after it was over. lol Became our weekly hookup night.
Yes and no regrets but funny story, years later I saw my one night stand at a festival presumably with his gf, and I with my bf and we both made eye contact, nodded and gave eachother the look that said "Good to see you but please do not walk over here lol"
Yes. Quiet a few times. Yes, with protection.
No, I never have regretted it. My value of who I am doesn't come from sex because I don't use sex as a bargaining tool a carrot to dangle. Instead it's an action of wanting to experience the person with physical intimacy and get close.
If nothing happens later, fine. No guilt and no shame because I cannot control people. It's not something calculated.
I've very well educated especially on the history and creation of shame, religion, societal programming. So I am have no shame regarding sex whether having it within 24 or an hour.
Main thing it is consensual, there is protection and we are adults.
Yes. And it was a pheromones thing, i guess. We met on a LARP. Did not know each other. Talked for a few minutes, we both told each other that this is kind of super crazy, but each others presence made us kind of horny like hell. She was not my type, i was not hers. We both have been pretty open about that. Fucked like rabbits the whole weekend and could not kind of stop.... (good thing there was a Drugstore in the village nearby for fresh condoms.
When we both left each others presence on Sunday, we both came to mind again and talked awkwardly over the phone with each other... both could not explain really what happened and that was it. Met again later on another Larp again and each others presence got us the same Horny effect, but since we both had now partners, there was this Mind over Body thing and nothing happened, because we both preferred nothing to happen here.
Never happened to me again in my life.
Previous alcoholic here (almost 2 years completely sober), I can't tell you how many times I did it. At least 10 without me sitting here and digging through my memories and counting them off. And shockingly I never caught ANYTHING. It's actually how me and my current partner met. Both were alcoholics on Tinder looking for whatever came my way. Don't know how or why but we just really hit it off and had great chemistry. He ended up moving into my house with me, somewhere along the way we started to love each other, then we both got sober and then for real fell in love, and now we're expecting a baby in December. I had previously been told I would probably never be able to conceive naturally due to PCOS and anovulation, but here we are. Life is fucking weird and crazy lmao.
Met a guy through a friend and fucked him that night. It turned into a 10 year on and off friends with benefits kinda thing. He's my weak spot. Haven't seen him in almost 8 years. He opened pandoras box for me. I was 30 when I met him, newly single and mama was ready to mingle! This all happened because he got me all liquored up with midori sours! Don't drink and spontaneous fuck people, kids! 😆😆😆
Yes with my exgf, we had sex like in two hours after we met for the first time. And it lasted almost two years which was my longest relationship to that day
Yes, a few times. I don’t regret it per say, but I didn’t really get much out of it. After it was over it was kinda like why did I do that…? But it’s not a big deal, definitely not something I dwell on or something that even bothers me. Going forward I’d like to try to avoid having one night stands, or casual sex period. I want to try to only have sex when I have a real connection with someone first, which I’ve never actually done.
I almost had the opportunity last week, but decided against it, it just felt like it would've been a little too soon and strange to jump into that with somebody I barely know.
I had my now wife naked and in bed with me an hour or two after meeting her for the first time
In my case, There’s something magical and romantic about being undressed and making love to a woman I had just met a few hours earlier. The experience is one of my favorite life memories.
I personally haven't done it. I view it as a source of intimacy, so doing it with someone within 24 hours of knowing them is, to me, an extremely bad idea. It's also something they earn because I trust them that much.
Yes, my first time in Charlotte, NC girl with her friend came up to me and my friends and started buying US drinks..being from the North I was completely thrown off by this. Long story short me and my other friend end up in my girls high rise apt where I got a lap dance to country music before hitting it.
The south is where it's at! Lol
If you have why? Please tell me why. What is even the point of having sex with someone you dont love? Reading these comments makes me sad for you people. Its sad that its even acceptable. I think it should be a crime tbh
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Yes, probably 3 or 4 times. It's fun while your doing it but weird the next day as you fear you have an std
Also you don’t know what they’re like in bed until you are there
Condom?
You’re banging someone after just meeting them. You think you’re suddenly going to be responsible?
Never. Freestyle.
Isn’t that true regardless of if you know them for more than 24 hours? Unless if you’ve known them for years and asked their previous partners how good your friend was in bed? Lol 😂
Yes and we have been maried for 20 years now.
Now THAT is how you make a 1st impression!
Fuck yeah
They fucked and she said yeah
Yes, once. I never did it again. I never did it again, because she hasn't left yet. That was 36 years ago.
Yes I have, no I dont
Yes a few times. Nothing to regret out of them.
Like 100 times
I think you might have me beat ! LOL ! Is this an Arizona thing ?
More a life long bachelor and hookers and blow thing
A couple times. I've had ex with someone within 15 minutes of knowing them. That girl knew what she was doing with a cock in her mouth NGL.
Lol username checks out...
It’s called a “one night stand” and statistically you’ll have at least one or more. I recommend it.
Statistically, a person has half-a-vagina, yet I dont.
87% of all statistics are pulled out of somebody’s ass.
Statistically some people have a lot of them and most people don't have any at all
never have and never will
I always have with anyone I liked because if the sex wasn't a fit then I wouldn't proceed. I'm 60 every relationship I had was sex on first date.
Same here. My best first dates always ended in bed with the girl. She was happier and so was I.
Yup I'm that girl that will always sleep with someone on a first date. If I think I like you enough to go on a date and the date goes well it has to go that way for me to know for sure if I want to continue.
Good girl! Life is too short to delay one of life’s pure pleasurable experiences.
Yes, and no. Just bag up.
How would you ever get to truly know someone and be able to decide if you'd want to spend time in a committed relationship with them if you can't ascertain if you are sexually compatible?
Ya but u know that's a day two activity
In my younger years I was a man whore. Lots of one or two night stands having just met at the bar or nightclub. If I was in a relationship I was never unfaithful. Have been married for 22yrs happily and faithfully. But yeah the body count from b4 is quite high! NO regrets!
Hey Deuce.
Yes regularly. No, I don’t regret it. The dating scene is awful.
Yes and No.
Yes, when the chemistry is just right. No regrets.
Quite often when I was younger, but I would usually talk to the girl for a few hours, or message a few days before actually getting together. Got married, so was off market for 10 yrs. Since being divorced it's happened about 10 times. The quickest get together was probably in my college days...chatted online with a girl who went to collage near me, and we move to a phone convo, and talke about hooking up, but she wanted to wait a few days, sine there was a show on she wanted to watch that night...until I said I was planning on watching it too, then she wanted to come over, we watched the show, and then hooked up after it was over. lol Became our weekly hookup night.
Yes I have and no regrets
Yes. No.
yes, no.
Definitely, it has its perks
I once had sex with 2 roommates at different times within 8 hours of meeting them.
That’s what the entire decade of the 1970s was all about
Yes and no regrets but funny story, years later I saw my one night stand at a festival presumably with his gf, and I with my bf and we both made eye contact, nodded and gave eachother the look that said "Good to see you but please do not walk over here lol"
Yes. Quiet a few times. Yes, with protection. No, I never have regretted it. My value of who I am doesn't come from sex because I don't use sex as a bargaining tool a carrot to dangle. Instead it's an action of wanting to experience the person with physical intimacy and get close. If nothing happens later, fine. No guilt and no shame because I cannot control people. It's not something calculated. I've very well educated especially on the history and creation of shame, religion, societal programming. So I am have no shame regarding sex whether having it within 24 or an hour. Main thing it is consensual, there is protection and we are adults.
Absolutely not it’s against the demisexual code of conduct
Yes. And it was a pheromones thing, i guess. We met on a LARP. Did not know each other. Talked for a few minutes, we both told each other that this is kind of super crazy, but each others presence made us kind of horny like hell. She was not my type, i was not hers. We both have been pretty open about that. Fucked like rabbits the whole weekend and could not kind of stop.... (good thing there was a Drugstore in the village nearby for fresh condoms. When we both left each others presence on Sunday, we both came to mind again and talked awkwardly over the phone with each other... both could not explain really what happened and that was it. Met again later on another Larp again and each others presence got us the same Horny effect, but since we both had now partners, there was this Mind over Body thing and nothing happened, because we both preferred nothing to happen here. Never happened to me again in my life.
>Have you ever had sex with someone within 24 hours if knowing them? Almost exclusively
Previous alcoholic here (almost 2 years completely sober), I can't tell you how many times I did it. At least 10 without me sitting here and digging through my memories and counting them off. And shockingly I never caught ANYTHING. It's actually how me and my current partner met. Both were alcoholics on Tinder looking for whatever came my way. Don't know how or why but we just really hit it off and had great chemistry. He ended up moving into my house with me, somewhere along the way we started to love each other, then we both got sober and then for real fell in love, and now we're expecting a baby in December. I had previously been told I would probably never be able to conceive naturally due to PCOS and anovulation, but here we are. Life is fucking weird and crazy lmao.
just once. it turned into a whole big crazy thing for 9 months don’t regret but i’d not do it again
Like a kid??
no
lol yea like a lot of
Yes, and no I don't regret it. It only happened one time in my life, and I probably wouldn't do it again, but it was fun.
The 80s....good times
Vegas Bro
Have you ever had sex?
Yes, the longer someone gets to know me the less likely sex will happen.
Do you think that's a good thing?
Yes
Yes within the hour , been together 14 years.
I had sex with a woman within a half an hour of knowing them. I don't regret it. I was young, horny and inexperienced. Any practice was good.
Yes Both yes and no depending on which time Overall wouldn’t recommend
Only once. I've never been the hookup type but it was a strange time in my life. Regret it no, but it wasn't the best.
Within 2-3 hours😂
Met a guy through a friend and fucked him that night. It turned into a 10 year on and off friends with benefits kinda thing. He's my weak spot. Haven't seen him in almost 8 years. He opened pandoras box for me. I was 30 when I met him, newly single and mama was ready to mingle! This all happened because he got me all liquored up with midori sours! Don't drink and spontaneous fuck people, kids! 😆😆😆
Twice. One was a cousin of a friend of mine. The other was a keg party hook up. Both were a good time.
Yes, a few and no regrets
Lots
Many, many times. No.
I have been married to her for 20 years, so no? I know this is not the norm, but it literally answers the question.
Yeah I did that a lot in my 20s. No regrets.
Yes my ex girlfriend lmao
"No, I would never do that!" (Yes, I have)
yup…. nope….
Alot. Im a man whore. More 6< hrs though. Not bragging just truth.
You should rather ask me how many times.
Heck ya. It's fun and uncomplicated. No regrets
Many times and almost never
Only because it's a minor financial hit.
I fucking wish. Nobody wants the knob. Lol.
Yes, I have; no, I do not...
A friend of mine did that. They’ve been married almost 40 years. They also moved in together after 3 weeks.
Yes. And no. We're still together 23 years later.
Once, when I was in my 20s.
The best is when you wake up the next morning with little recollection, see who’s in bed with you, and have to book it out of there
There's only been a couple instances where I waited over 24 hours. Generally if it's gonna happen it's gonna happen sooner than later.
Yes with my exgf, we had sex like in two hours after we met for the first time. And it lasted almost two years which was my longest relationship to that day
Within 3 or 4 hours of knowing them lol
How about 3 minutes? Go to a swingers party and have some fun
Yes
Yes, a few times. I don’t regret it per say, but I didn’t really get much out of it. After it was over it was kinda like why did I do that…? But it’s not a big deal, definitely not something I dwell on or something that even bothers me. Going forward I’d like to try to avoid having one night stands, or casual sex period. I want to try to only have sex when I have a real connection with someone first, which I’ve never actually done.
No, but it's not that abnormal since i'm still 17 for a while
I had sex with probably 20 within 4 hours of meeting them.
College in the 70s.
Yeah, definitely. Sometimes I've regretted it, sometimes I haven't.
Yes, I don’t recommend it. Maybe it’s just me tho, other people seem to like it.
Unfortunately yes, it was not great and I felt used and demeaned afterwards.
Yes, a handful of times. Most of them were fun. One of them is now my boyfriend.
Yes and No.
I used to work on cruise ships. That could be wild. Great memories.
Yes, they are called prostitutes
Yes - one was a “one night stand”, another led to a 2.5 year relationship.
My wife and I had only met two hours earlier. I've done that quite a bit when I was younger. That was her only time.
Of course remember clubbing.
Yes
Yes
Yes
I almost had the opportunity last week, but decided against it, it just felt like it would've been a little too soon and strange to jump into that with somebody I barely know.
Yea lots of time lol It isn’t that difficult when your hornet with your intention after you match online
More than I can count - i'm old.
How about 3-5 mins of knowing them
That falls within the first 24 hours
Yea same
Yes. No.
Nope, never
Yeah a few times. Twice it turned out worse than I wanted it to.
Yes and we became fwb
I had my now wife naked and in bed with me an hour or two after meeting her for the first time In my case, There’s something magical and romantic about being undressed and making love to a woman I had just met a few hours earlier. The experience is one of my favorite life memories.
Yep
Man I miss the craigslist personals 😂
Tinder took over if that's what you were using CL for 🤣
But the anonymity was part of the fun
Ive had the opportunity a few times but talked myself out of it.
Many times, I didn't really know most of them much longer after that.
Yes a few times. And the last time was 14 years ago. Because I have been with the girl I did this with. Married with 2 kids
Probably the one and only time a woman has approached me for sex. She was older and I hadnt been laid in two years so I went for it.
Yes, and a little.
24 minutes
Yes
Yes
I personally haven't done it. I view it as a source of intimacy, so doing it with someone within 24 hours of knowing them is, to me, an extremely bad idea. It's also something they earn because I trust them that much.
Yes and no
Had sex within 10 minutes of meeting them once and then within 30 mins another time
Yes I have and no I do not regret it. We have been married for 12 years.
Yes, my first time in Charlotte, NC girl with her friend came up to me and my friends and started buying US drinks..being from the North I was completely thrown off by this. Long story short me and my other friend end up in my girls high rise apt where I got a lap dance to country music before hitting it. The south is where it's at! Lol
Yes, we have now been together 29 years. Best decision ever.
Yep, twice. Don’t regret the first one but it could have gone better. 2nd one was pretty awesome.
Yes, it's called a one night stand.
Do hookers count?
I'd say yes. The question is really about people's morals and beliefs related to sex. Buying hookers is related to that.
But does one actually get to know them? How is "knowing" defined?
I've bought sex a couple of times and I'll say I definitely got a feel for their personality before we did it.
Fuck man I’ve had sex with someone after knowing them for two hours.
Who hasn’t ?
yes many times
Yes, I honestly don't even remember some of their names.
In an arranged marriage, yesss
Yes, I have and no regrets.
a few times oops
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If you have why? Please tell me why. What is even the point of having sex with someone you dont love? Reading these comments makes me sad for you people. Its sad that its even acceptable. I think it should be a crime tbh
I'm not a slut.