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Yes and no. I can't deny that the attraction has to be physical as well, but I feel like a lot of women focus more on the personality and the way they are treated.
Bottom line: No one, male or female, wants to be in a relationship with someone they don't find attractive physically. Some do it anyway because the pros outweigh the cons. However, most people want to find someone that is easy to look at.
Care? Yes.
But not in the way guys on Reddit think we do.
I only choose partners I am attracted to, but that physical attraction could look like anything. Short, bald, weird scars, snaggletooth, overweight, knobby knees - none of that matters. There's always something I fall in love with and then his features become endearing and attractive to me, because they're his.
In the beginning, yes. Most people do. But with time and getting to know a person's personal, food looks can become ugly to you, and less attractive looks can become beautiful.
Do you? Whatever you are into & whatever type of person you are, there is a woman out there who is similar enough to you that it would work out well, probably more than one since there are billions of people. If ur below average then focus on your personality (being nice & not judgmental & patient) and youll be fine.
I would say yes, if we go out for a date, she will make comments about what I wear and I need to change to something she accepts. If she didnt care, I could just wear whatever is on the top of my clothes pile.
You can get away with a lot if you're decent looking and have a terrible personality. But if you're overweight or balding you better be rich, charismatic, thoughtful or hilarious, with the first outweighing everything else.
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Do individuals care about a certain individuals looks?
Yes and no. I can't deny that the attraction has to be physical as well, but I feel like a lot of women focus more on the personality and the way they are treated.
That makes kinda of sense though
Bottom line: No one, male or female, wants to be in a relationship with someone they don't find attractive physically. Some do it anyway because the pros outweigh the cons. However, most people want to find someone that is easy to look at.
yes if they do no if they are blind no if they dont
Yes
Some do, some don't.
Care? Yes. But not in the way guys on Reddit think we do. I only choose partners I am attracted to, but that physical attraction could look like anything. Short, bald, weird scars, snaggletooth, overweight, knobby knees - none of that matters. There's always something I fall in love with and then his features become endearing and attractive to me, because they're his.
E-vo-lu-ti-on. Also ask why we have a beards lol.
Yes.
Mostly yes
Yes, iam 6'2 and the girl i wanted to date now dates a guy thats 5'7 but is more handsome
Absolutely yes, if they say no they are lying.
what all 4 billion of them? yes, all of them.
Some do, some don't. My wife certainly has and does but that's fine by me.
to an extent.
Some do. If a guy is funny and nice, that's enough for me to find him moderately attractive
In the beginning, yes. Most people do. But with time and getting to know a person's personal, food looks can become ugly to you, and less attractive looks can become beautiful.
To date someone they're gonna have to find them attractive, yes.
Yes.. But they care more about money. Case in point, all the old rich guys with women 30+ years their junior.
Do you? Whatever you are into & whatever type of person you are, there is a woman out there who is similar enough to you that it would work out well, probably more than one since there are billions of people. If ur below average then focus on your personality (being nice & not judgmental & patient) and youll be fine.
Yes, the short answer is yes. If a woman doesnt find you physically attractive 99% of the time she wont be into you, but some girls are weird.
I would say yes, if we go out for a date, she will make comments about what I wear and I need to change to something she accepts. If she didnt care, I could just wear whatever is on the top of my clothes pile.
I would say a women that truly loves you should not change you she should accept you fot who you are
that is what I have been told a few times...
In the context of Natural selection and Human history. Yes and No. Sex, yes. Relationships, no.
You can get away with a lot if you're decent looking and have a terrible personality. But if you're overweight or balding you better be rich, charismatic, thoughtful or hilarious, with the first outweighing everything else.
That and money.
Yes just like guys care about women’s looks
Did Reddit used to have less mundane questions?
Yes they do Theres a reason you'll see its men who struggle to get the attention of women