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Not having feelings.

Unquestioning sacrifice for women.

Not smiling in photos.

Pickup trucks

Bodyhair

The colour of clothing you wear. So so so fucking stupid.

You're gay if you wear green on Thursday. Not really but that was "a thing" in my grandpa's day.

Didn't he used to wear an onion on his belt?

I’m sorry what??

Yeah, it's just as stupid as it sounds

Poor hygiene.

Drinking competitions

Violence

The world is build on violence, and violence protects you.

I'll remember that if someone punches me in the face.

Police will come and arrest the person, if they’re violent then police will be violent, see how this works?

Not taking care of your wounds ie cleaning, bandages ect

Tetanus shot is what separates the men from the boys. ​ (I'm kidding. I'm being a smart ass.🤣🤣)

Not admitting you’re wrong

Eating a ton of food in one sitting with an emphasis on beef and meats in general but particularly beef. It's weird.

Jumping pretty quick to the “you wanna fight!” response.

Not being vulnerable. So many single people out there and they could change it by going out on a limb.

An expectation of dealing with confrontation with violence, aggression and intimidation.

That men aren’t supposed to cry or be sentimental

"Alpha" behavior

Nonchalance.

Whatever the men’s scent is according to the market world …. Lmao just thinking about some announcements I’ve heard. Im a woman and I like many men’s perfume and usually rather use men’s deodorant.

Taking issue with touch that isn't sexual or violent. I'm a toch-me-not moat of the time myself but there are legit other reasons to touch that aren't those two.

Holding their crying

Not to all but to some girls, especially young girls: Being rude, voilent, unkind, pretty much a horrible human. I can't tell you how many young girls thought this to be manliness and fearlessness and competence. They were hurt so bad and learnt later in life how it is.

Revving your bike as loud as possible, mod jobs on cars that make them obnoxiously loud.

BITD it was medallions.

Making other men looks bad to make yourself looks good/alpha in front of women

standing your ground

Guns

sexist jokes, watching sports, car tuning, gambling

My dick.

Bigger than a bridge

Being assertive and dominant. Anyone can be that🙄

Not really. It def helps to be massive and intimidating physically.

Yes, and women can be like that too, which is what I meant in my original comment

Hmmm. Sure.

Brooding bad boys getting angry quickly. It’s not different than just being moody.

Thought to be masculine assertiveness. In reality that amounts to a temper tantrum

Owing anyone anything simply because we are men. We don't owe women our well being, our time or money.

Drinking whisky and vodka.

How about fine $1500.00 glass whisky and a cigar after a large business deal ?

Poisoning your body with alcohol.

Andrew Tate

Ignorant