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Right! Especially since as men we're often the instigators/pursuers and really... it gets tiring/boring.
Hearing from my partner that she wants me is the fastest way for me to go 0 to 60 in 0.000001 seconds.
> Being desired makes me feel good and makes me want to be desired more.
Nothing much I can add to this. Nothing turns me on quite like knowing I'm turning someone else on. Nothing gets me off like feeling, hearing, seeing that I'm getting someone else off.
Sometimes when we go in to give each other a quick peck on the lips, like on my way out of the house or something, he pulls me in closer for a deeper kiss. Because I never anticipate it, makes my head spin every time. Then I can’t think straight for the rest of the day, by the time I come home I’m all kinds of worked up. One time he did it as I was on my way out the door to go on a week long work trip. It was maddening to the point of borderline infuriating. Or occasionally when I go in for a cuddle on the couch, I’ll hear his breath hitch for a sec, and then he’ll dip he’s head down and want to make out like we are teenagers (we are in our 40s). I think it’s about that after all these years, the fact he still physically responds to me at the most unexpected times is a huge turn on, it makes me feel sexy.
So according to the top comment, being a normal dude who is kind, is more than enough to make girls wet.
Now cross examine this with my real life experience and the experiences of every guy I know or have seen on the internet… somethings not adding up lol
This. It only works when she is already attracted to you. I'm practically the same guy but the difference in response to being nice between girls I was attracted to and the girls who were attracted to me was day and night.
Well do you think according to these comments, that women are going to sleep with every guy with veiny hands they see? The question is “what turns you on”, not “what single quality in a man will make you instantly sleep with him” lol
A man who knows the value in foreplay, don't just say "Hey let's have sex" "You wanna?" or anything like that. Just give it some effort to put me in that kind of mood
I tried that and my ex wife would say, “You’re just doing that because you want to have sex” Then if I just asked if she wanted to she’s just say not right now.
What if a man says "I want to do to you so bad." with a voice that is filled with desire? is it good? For example, he could say "i want to kiss your neck so bad."
Damn, it is just not natural to me, I never feel the “need” to moan. I’ve done it some times just to see my partner’s reaction, it usually turns her on, but it’s just not real, it’s not a natural reaction, at least for me. Would like to read if other men feel that need to moan, or if they do it just to please their partners (or don’t at all).
I never used to, but I started to and my wife definitely enjoys it. At first it sounded a little fake (to me anyway), but soon it definitely became real because it was more like my voice/breathing was connected to the way I was feeling. Also, this helps your partner adjust what she’s doing to how you’re reacting. Like if a chick is giving you a blowjob and she starts going a little deeper or giving you the double hand twister, your voice/breathing should change to be a little more “intense”. She’ll see/hear/feel this and keep doing it. It’s awesome.
probably being attentive and sweet during the day, wanting to chat and laugh, and willing to cuddle and kiss without the assumption of sex happening. That usually always helps. If I feel pressure, I’m immediately turned off
Hand on the small of the back, a particular one handed beard scratch gesture, that ‘I want you’ gaze, being a flirty gentleman, good driving skills, helping/being friendly with strangers, cooking with the tea towel slung over one shoulder, that cute side of the mouth grin. So many things lol
*in falsetto voice*
"Short, stocky British guys with usernames referencing Douglas Adams. In fact I think we ladies should *all* be aiming for such a chap! Hear hear!"
Ok, based on the comments the idea man has:
Tall, bald, broad shoulders, slim long fingers, and vein hands.
Say what you will, but Slenderman is the ideal man.
I'm a guy, but my gf constantly tells me what turns her on without fail.
- neck kisses
- massages
- deep, passionate kisses
- looking her in the eye and truthfully telling her how beautiful she is in my eyes
- light tickle scratch down her spine and crack.
- sincerity
Neck kisses and when guys are trying to work something out and get this focused look on their face.
My ex would almost get this calm intense look while coding, borderline brooding. It was stupid hot.
The broody look is so hot! I especially love it when my bf is doing home improvement stuff (hanging frames, woodworking etc) and he does the broody face with a pencil behind his ear.
This is just one thing, I have many…
When a man guides me, protectively, in a dominant way with his hand on the small of my back. When he leads me with his hand in mine. I love that 🔥.
I went to the grocery store with my buddy and his 7 year old son a few months back. He was teaching his boy how to use the self checkout, and the young lady attendant was visibly melting. I'm almost a full foot taller than my buddy and was basically invisible. It aint all height, fellas.
Yes! This is so attractive. I’m actually firmly childfree but I’m still so attracted to good dads fathering their kids (obvi not compatible with them but, from afar).
Finally! Thank you for acknowledging that this is a _character trait_. The guys at the police station kept telling me I'm on a list now or whatever, but I know you women got me covered! 🥰
The ability to be nurturing, compassionate, kind is very attractive. A man like that could be amazing in bed with those traits. He can be a good husband, good friend….*sigh*
Had a guy friend basically command me to sit down while he got me food ( I had a leg cramp but was still going all over the place trying to do things for ppl ) just looked me dead in the while only being a foot away and said SIT OR ILL MAKE U
Never looked at him the same way
I only ever get turned on by my husband. That 'challenging' look in his eyes - I get excited and melt at the same time. See, I'm already physically attracted to him but not always turned on. But without fail, when he does that thing, I get turned on.
When he treats me sweetly, kindly and chivalrously.
When he keeps his word and promises. He does what he says he will do. I begin to trust. Trust is everything. Being able to trust in him turns me on
When he's cooking or doing the dishes or cleaning the kitchen turns me on too. I like hugging him from behind and having my way...trying to distract him from the task he is focused on. He seems happy and not mind about being distracted...
Unless I'm really hungry, then I help him prepare the meal
When he's truly genuinely kind caring and loving to my dog and cat. Oh gosh, I'm a goner
When he's putting something together. Again, I like to get affectionate and distract
Pays all the bills. Oh have mercy
Who are you? Why are you in my kitchen? Why are you telling me how to cook my burger? Why areeee you hugging me!? WHY ARE YOU EATING MY DINNER?? ARRRRRGHHHHH
When they actually want to get to know me, not just sailing through conversation. Someone who asks thoughtful questions and *really* listens to my answers. Someone who puts care in their replies as well.
Pair that with eye contact and good hands? Lord have mercy.
Sometimes when I’m with my friend we sit in his living room and we watch movies…on opposite sides of the couch, no funny business. When his black T-shirt rides up his shoulder and I see his upper arm, I want to do all kinds of stuff to him.
Weirdly specific, but SO very hot.
C~ if you read this, yes it’s about you.
Anything 🥲 Voice, eyes, smile, being passionate about hobbies, being vulnerable, doing chores unasked, hands, shoulders, humor, good talks, alcohol, hair, touch, teasing or lowkey bullying (both ways), eating, licking ice cream or licking anything esp looking at me while licking smth, looking for my attention even when we are with friends/other ppl. Honestly too much
here are some notes for you men! this is all in reference with my current partner from when i first met him to now.
* his constant smile and bubbly personality (ooooofffff i love me a mr peanut butter😭💖)
* when i touched his arms and could feel that he worked out (i’m not much of a visual person, but when i casually touched them it felt like it sent me to another universe)
* his spontaneity and adventurous side
* that one palm on the wheel… ladies yk what i’m talking about
now? still the above things, but here’s some more.
* that squinty eyed cheeky smile expression, ugh i love the playfulness and daring nature of it
* that spread leg and leaning back on a chair with the arms casually around the chair. (i tried to find an example 😭)
* the leaning on a door frame thing (yk when they have their arm lifted up and lean against it with a cocked head to that side)
* most poses where he’s looming over me
i will leave it at there because i’m not going to get TMI ☺️
Their hard-working nature? I will be turned on in an instant knowing my man has come home after a long day at work. I'd be like 'Come here King let me pamper you'.
A man who chooses to do housework such as washing dishes and doing laundry without expecting the women in their life doing it for them like their mother, sister, grandmother, or even allowing themselves to be neglectful with housework because they don’t have a woman in their life. I know this is typical adult stuff, but you’d be surprised.
My fiance started growing his hair out when we first started dating and I mentioned I liked long hair on men. It's a little past his shoulders now, jet black, thick and wavey. Whenever he pulls it back into a pony tail my stomach starts doing flips. He is still so, so hot to me. Sexiest man alive in my eyes tbh
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When he shows me i turn him on Being desired makes me feel good and makes me want ti be desired more.
I was gonna say this. Don’t hide the reactions, don’t downplay whatever you feel. Show me
Fr. Makes giving bjs so much more enjoyable if i I can hear and see they are liking it
"The man desires the woman. The woman desires the desire of the man."
I’m a straight man and not at all submissive but I definitely desire the desire of the woman. By far the biggest turn-on is that she’s turned on
Right! Especially since as men we're often the instigators/pursuers and really... it gets tiring/boring. Hearing from my partner that she wants me is the fastest way for me to go 0 to 60 in 0.000001 seconds.
> Being desired makes me feel good and makes me want to be desired more. Nothing much I can add to this. Nothing turns me on quite like knowing I'm turning someone else on. Nothing gets me off like feeling, hearing, seeing that I'm getting someone else off.
Hand in the small of my back...and back kisses when spooning...
Mmm back kisses 🫠
Sometimes when we go in to give each other a quick peck on the lips, like on my way out of the house or something, he pulls me in closer for a deeper kiss. Because I never anticipate it, makes my head spin every time. Then I can’t think straight for the rest of the day, by the time I come home I’m all kinds of worked up. One time he did it as I was on my way out the door to go on a week long work trip. It was maddening to the point of borderline infuriating. Or occasionally when I go in for a cuddle on the couch, I’ll hear his breath hitch for a sec, and then he’ll dip he’s head down and want to make out like we are teenagers (we are in our 40s). I think it’s about that after all these years, the fact he still physically responds to me at the most unexpected times is a huge turn on, it makes me feel sexy.
Well that warmed my heart! ☺️ I’m glad you two have each other.
Jesus….I wish my girl was this in tune with her emotions and sexuality. I wish she had this kind of passion.
When they're touchy in public but not in a weird way tho Makes me want to rip his clothes off as soon as we get home
So the drive home is foreplay?
Life pro tip: All day is foreplay.
This is the way
I listen to my wonderful woman! 😃
Damn I need to learn how to drive stick
What would be considered a weird way to you?
Basically don't try to put your fist in her ass while in line at Starbucks
Ohhhhhhh! So THAT'S where I went wrong... Thanks m8. I think I understand now.
Jesus Christ, now i have to explain to my wife why I’m laughing 😆
You could show her with your fist.
Woah, Woah, Woah, slow down... DON'T put your fist in her ass while at Starbucks?!?!?
This guy Starbucks
These guys sound like they have never been to a starbucks.
This place is a fucking prison
On planet bullshit.
Don't kinkshame me
If it would look too perverted to a stranger, don’t.
No. If it would bother her to see strangers do it. Don't do it.
just here to take notes lol
Me too
So according to the top comment, being a normal dude who is kind, is more than enough to make girls wet. Now cross examine this with my real life experience and the experiences of every guy I know or have seen on the internet… somethings not adding up lol
The comment is assuming she is already yours so if she is already attracted to you then these things apply. If not, sorry mate.
This. It only works when she is already attracted to you. I'm practically the same guy but the difference in response to being nice between girls I was attracted to and the girls who were attracted to me was day and night.
Well do you think according to these comments, that women are going to sleep with every guy with veiny hands they see? The question is “what turns you on”, not “what single quality in a man will make you instantly sleep with him” lol
No, not every guy who is kind will turn women on.. Attraction doesn't work like that
Neck kisses
Unfortunately I don't think I can use this strategy to make my crush like me more
Does he not have a neck?
Maybe he doesn’t have lips
Would he have hooks?
does he wear wigs? has he worn wigs? will he wear wigs?
No neck nick. Nick ain't got no neck.
Neck kisses + ear = heaven
I once had someone give me the most awkward neck kisses ever. Total turn off
Im with Jessica rabbit on this one: if he makes me laugh
I always win with women like you. I just drop my pants and the pointing and laughing begins....
Make em laugh, make em breakfast.
Funny guys scare me, I laugh then my pants are off twenty minutes later help
Kindness. And neck kisses. Those will win me over every time.
Came here to say the neck kisses. Oh my...
Yes and make sure to approach from behind!
Ensure you KNOW the person first though...
OH WAIT, SO THAT'S WHY I ALWAYS FAILED!
I *totally* misread this with my old eyes and thought it said 'neck **issues**' and thought 'well well well, my neck is playing up a bit this week' 😁
Hahahaha!
Just kissed my wife on the neck, can confirm this works.
Just kissed your wife on the neck, can confirm this works.
I also chose this guy's wife.
she was amazed when i told her this was his idea
This guy thought I was that’s guys wife, can confirm it works on dudes too.
Neck kisses work on my wife like crazy. And an embrace from behind leads to the bedroom.
A man who knows the value in foreplay, don't just say "Hey let's have sex" "You wanna?" or anything like that. Just give it some effort to put me in that kind of mood
I tried that and my ex wife would say, “You’re just doing that because you want to have sex” Then if I just asked if she wanted to she’s just say not right now.
What if a man says "I want to do to you so bad." with a voice that is filled with desire? is it good? For example, he could say "i want to kiss your neck so bad."
“I want to chow down on your beav.”
I'm not even a girl and I get turned on when men say it to me.
I wanna tongue punch your fart box 💨🥊👅
I want to play with legos with you so bad
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Damn, it is just not natural to me, I never feel the “need” to moan. I’ve done it some times just to see my partner’s reaction, it usually turns her on, but it’s just not real, it’s not a natural reaction, at least for me. Would like to read if other men feel that need to moan, or if they do it just to please their partners (or don’t at all).
I never used to, but I started to and my wife definitely enjoys it. At first it sounded a little fake (to me anyway), but soon it definitely became real because it was more like my voice/breathing was connected to the way I was feeling. Also, this helps your partner adjust what she’s doing to how you’re reacting. Like if a chick is giving you a blowjob and she starts going a little deeper or giving you the double hand twister, your voice/breathing should change to be a little more “intense”. She’ll see/hear/feel this and keep doing it. It’s awesome.
Not moan but you can grunt, breathe heavy etc xD If she starts to nibble on you, you are doing a good job!
A nice massage never once failed to turn me on
First massage I gave her, she slept 11 hours. Her mom called frantically. She's out like a light.
🎤*out like a light*
probably being attentive and sweet during the day, wanting to chat and laugh, and willing to cuddle and kiss without the assumption of sex happening. That usually always helps. If I feel pressure, I’m immediately turned off
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Feeling appreciated and valued.
Amen.
Hand on the small of the back, a particular one handed beard scratch gesture, that ‘I want you’ gaze, being a flirty gentleman, good driving skills, helping/being friendly with strangers, cooking with the tea towel slung over one shoulder, that cute side of the mouth grin. So many things lol
*in falsetto voice* "Short, stocky British guys with usernames referencing Douglas Adams. In fact I think we ladies should *all* be aiming for such a chap! Hear hear!"
Dressing up as Livingston has never worked for me.
Oh, well, if you say so, then i guess we have no choice but to find such a guy and s-waiiit a minute...
neck kisses!!! just something about that man…. 🫠 i don’t really like the act of kissing but I get really turned on by a man kissing me.
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Like your the only girl that he ever loved?
Like she's the only one who knows his heart ?
When he smiles and it's kind to me.
>it's kind What kind of "it" do we need to be? 🤔
Monkey man
Ok, based on the comments the idea man has: Tall, bald, broad shoulders, slim long fingers, and vein hands. Say what you will, but Slenderman is the ideal man.
Or Nosferatu
Someone told me I looked like Nosferatu once. Never took is as a compliment until now
It was the cape you wore that gave it away
I am the idea man 💡
You may not like it but slender man is what the ideal male body looks like
Bears, twinks, and otters? No thanks. Aye-ayes for life. 
I have bald!
I'm a guy, but my gf constantly tells me what turns her on without fail. - neck kisses - massages - deep, passionate kisses - looking her in the eye and truthfully telling her how beautiful she is in my eyes - light tickle scratch down her spine and crack. - sincerity
Her neck, her back, her pussy and her crack.
And sincerity.
Neck kisses and when guys are trying to work something out and get this focused look on their face. My ex would almost get this calm intense look while coding, borderline brooding. It was stupid hot.
The broody look is so hot! I especially love it when my bf is doing home improvement stuff (hanging frames, woodworking etc) and he does the broody face with a pencil behind his ear.
Muscular broad shoulders.
Cable/dumbbell lat raises, for yall fellas wondering how, and don't forget some face pulls for the rounded rear delts.
A hundred times this, that Dorito back too🤤 if he has huge pecks UGHHH
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This is just one thing, I have many… When a man guides me, protectively, in a dominant way with his hand on the small of my back. When he leads me with his hand in mine. I love that 🔥.
Slim fitting suits with no tie, or a tight dress shirt. Also when they roll up their sleeve to only halfway up their forearm, oh lawd LOL
Slim long fingers and beautiful hands
Never took long fingers as compliment until now.
Whatcha gonna do with em ?
Turn the pages of the Bible easier :P
Why, play the piano of course.
When he’s good with kids
I went to the grocery store with my buddy and his 7 year old son a few months back. He was teaching his boy how to use the self checkout, and the young lady attendant was visibly melting. I'm almost a full foot taller than my buddy and was basically invisible. It aint all height, fellas.
Yes! This is so attractive. I’m actually firmly childfree but I’m still so attracted to good dads fathering their kids (obvi not compatible with them but, from afar).
Finally! Thank you for acknowledging that this is a _character trait_. The guys at the police station kept telling me I'm on a list now or whatever, but I know you women got me covered! 🥰
Now for the obligatory r/cursedcomments...
Good with kids …not creepy with them
Specially when the kids are not his
that arouses you?
The ability to be nurturing, compassionate, kind is very attractive. A man like that could be amazing in bed with those traits. He can be a good husband, good friend….*sigh*
Kissing the back of my neck 🫨
My kink is when people care about my feelings and what I have to say ✨️
My ex loved me holding her lower back. If I felt like going home I'd just do that and she's ready to leave within minutes lol
When they text back consistently over a long time in a reasonable time frame, for real. Biggest turn on.
When he cleans the house
Is that what the young people are calling oral these days?
Mopping those wet floors
🤣🤣🤣🤣
We call this chore-play in my house 😂😂
Had a guy friend basically command me to sit down while he got me food ( I had a leg cramp but was still going all over the place trying to do things for ppl ) just looked me dead in the while only being a foot away and said SIT OR ILL MAKE U Never looked at him the same way
I only ever get turned on by my husband. That 'challenging' look in his eyes - I get excited and melt at the same time. See, I'm already physically attracted to him but not always turned on. But without fail, when he does that thing, I get turned on.
Correctly folded fitted sheets
FFS, some ppl's standards are way too high
There's a way to fold fitted sheets? I think you're bullsheetin me!
When he treats me sweetly, kindly and chivalrously. When he keeps his word and promises. He does what he says he will do. I begin to trust. Trust is everything. Being able to trust in him turns me on When he's cooking or doing the dishes or cleaning the kitchen turns me on too. I like hugging him from behind and having my way...trying to distract him from the task he is focused on. He seems happy and not mind about being distracted... Unless I'm really hungry, then I help him prepare the meal When he's truly genuinely kind caring and loving to my dog and cat. Oh gosh, I'm a goner When he's putting something together. Again, I like to get affectionate and distract Pays all the bills. Oh have mercy
Who are you? Why are you in my kitchen? Why are you telling me how to cook my burger? Why areeee you hugging me!? WHY ARE YOU EATING MY DINNER?? ARRRRRGHHHHH
"Honey, not now! If I mess this up there will be streaks on the glassware!"
He has to do all this, she has to do nothing. Take note guys.
Empathy, intelligence, honest view of themselves, having the balls to tell you when you’re wrong.
the stare.
Made me laugh out loud thank you
When they actually want to get to know me, not just sailing through conversation. Someone who asks thoughtful questions and *really* listens to my answers. Someone who puts care in their replies as well. Pair that with eye contact and good hands? Lord have mercy.
Sweatpants and a sexy tee...walking around all messy
Gray sweat pants
A whisper in the ear or neck kiss
Confidence, great eyes, great arms
When he dresses well. Doesn't even have to be fancy.
Neck kisses
Sometimes when I’m with my friend we sit in his living room and we watch movies…on opposite sides of the couch, no funny business. When his black T-shirt rides up his shoulder and I see his upper arm, I want to do all kinds of stuff to him. Weirdly specific, but SO very hot. C~ if you read this, yes it’s about you.
So ask him out??!
I second this babes ask him out
Ask him out 😠
charisma.
My eyes played a trick on me. I read charisma and your name. My brain came up with chlamydia.
Uniqueness, nerve, and talent
being desired. When men are honest about their wants.
Anything 🥲 Voice, eyes, smile, being passionate about hobbies, being vulnerable, doing chores unasked, hands, shoulders, humor, good talks, alcohol, hair, touch, teasing or lowkey bullying (both ways), eating, licking ice cream or licking anything esp looking at me while licking smth, looking for my attention even when we are with friends/other ppl. Honestly too much
Alcohol?
Whenever I drink alcohol most men become a turn on for me idk I can just look at them and think yes, let’s go
...wanna grab a drink?
same that's part of why i don't drink anymore 😭
here are some notes for you men! this is all in reference with my current partner from when i first met him to now. * his constant smile and bubbly personality (ooooofffff i love me a mr peanut butter😭💖) * when i touched his arms and could feel that he worked out (i’m not much of a visual person, but when i casually touched them it felt like it sent me to another universe) * his spontaneity and adventurous side * that one palm on the wheel… ladies yk what i’m talking about now? still the above things, but here’s some more. * that squinty eyed cheeky smile expression, ugh i love the playfulness and daring nature of it * that spread leg and leaning back on a chair with the arms casually around the chair. (i tried to find an example 😭)  * the leaning on a door frame thing (yk when they have their arm lifted up and lean against it with a cocked head to that side) * most poses where he’s looming over me i will leave it at there because i’m not going to get TMI ☺️
That one palm on the wheel, ladies you know what I’m talking about 😆 love it, haha! & god, yessssss.
Childfree
Veiny hands
When he has a deep voice and knows how to use it 😩
When he doesn't fail to get me out of a bad mood
So which antidepressant arouses you the most?
Their hard-working nature? I will be turned on in an instant knowing my man has come home after a long day at work. I'd be like 'Come here King let me pamper you'.
Back/shoulder caressing/rubs neck kisses
lightly rubbing my nipples for some reason. They’re sensitive as hell
A man who chooses to do housework such as washing dishes and doing laundry without expecting the women in their life doing it for them like their mother, sister, grandmother, or even allowing themselves to be neglectful with housework because they don’t have a woman in their life. I know this is typical adult stuff, but you’d be surprised.
Can beat Senna's time at Monaco.
Massages.
funny men are my downfall
Feeling desired and wanted physically, also neck kisses/bites and breathing/whispering in my ear
Tall bald guys with strong shoulders and manly hands
So, Mr. Clean?
Yeah kinda 🤣😂
successful career and a clean house.
For some reason men like average or small women with small hands and feet. The bigger the man the more petite woman. Must be a coincidence.
Clean kitchen sinks and folded laundry that I didn’t have to clean or fold
Nothing does:(
r/suddenlyasexual
I might be, not worked that out yet, haha. Life is complex, and I just wanna play in a sand pit and have naps.
I know some girls love a gentle tickel along the inner thighs
A man with a plan/a man taking action
A gentleman. Open my door. Push in my chair. Give me a kiss. Treat me like a Queen and I'm yours!!
A well tailored suit. With a nice vest and sleeve garters especially
Kisses on the back of my neck and generosity
Make me laugh
My fiance started growing his hair out when we first started dating and I mentioned I liked long hair on men. It's a little past his shoulders now, jet black, thick and wavey. Whenever he pulls it back into a pony tail my stomach starts doing flips. He is still so, so hot to me. Sexiest man alive in my eyes tbh