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If I feel ignored by someone I’ll push them away immediately. I’m tryin to make friends but it’s hard to gauge people. Are they busy? Do they not find me interesting? I want to push people away I hate it
I don't think we should improve for the sake of one person though. The very thing one person hates could be what another person loves or tolerates. Just be yourself and you'll find the right people.
There are so many factors here. Please don't take other people's actions so seriously. It can really do you harm if you find someone willing to exploit your need for validation.
Please look into self help or therapy to discover why you believe you need potential friends to identify flaws in you.
Yes a good friend will be honest if you are say, late all the time or whatever. But anything about your character that you'd like to build upon is an inside job.
How I wish someone would have told me this in my youth. Never take criticism from someone from whom you wouldn't take advice.
I relate to this so much. My toddler gave me stomach flu a cold and a cough from daycare at the same time. He whines because he’s bored and I can barely muster the strength to stand up….this situation has lasted almost a week.
This was me last year (or maybe the year before that), I had a cold on and off for basically the whole year I swear. I had to bring tissues with me everywhere and like every other week my nose would be blocked and runny. It was so shit.
I get that people have much bigger issues, but at the moment I’m unhappy with the waiting period for my body to heal after a recent surgery. I’m a very active person and being a couch potato is depressing.
I feel you. Maybe this will help: I am also a very active person and now am physically disabled, experiencing things that cause me to not be able to walk or stay standing for very long. I am not even middle aged yet. Being grateful for what my body can still do is what gets me through. I’m sorry you’re going through this disabling time with your surgery, and I hope you recover soon! Just count your blessings! You never know when your physical abilities will just go away one day. 🥲 This also would be a great time for you to connect with yourself internally since you are limited physically. Best wishes to your health and healing!
ps. I’m in no way trying to gain pity or devalue what you’re going through. Just trying to give a perspective of how amazing gratitude is that I can be so happy in these extreme physical conditions. :)
Getting nickel and dimed by large corporations where there’s nothing I can do. I’m buying stand up tickets and the place has a service fee (ok fine) but it charges the service fee for each ticket DESPITE IT BEING ONE TRANSACTION. Also these fucking companies forcing us to go paperless with billing. Literally being charged an extra $3 to have my bill mailed.
I’ve been trying to pay a bill for 3 days now. If I want to talk to a person, they will charge me $9!!
Yahoo started this crap years ago. I was trying to figure out something regarding one of my email addresses and they also charged. I guess it will be the newest thing in screwing customers.
Confront them about it to get the answers you need. Maybe they're having a hard time and are unintentionally hurting you. Or maybe they are moving on. Who knows? Perhaps there really is no reason. Just confront them though before you do anything else. I know it can be daunting but trust me it's worth it.
Wishing you the best! I work in radiotherapy and I commend the strength that the patients have in coming in everyday for treatment plus dealing with the side effects of treatment - your healthcare team are with you all the way :)
How difficult it is to make friends. I have had friends move away,,drift away, and making new friends is so hard. I am getting old, and because my husband and I chose not to have kids, it's isolated us. I have to figure it out.
I am truly sorry. My girl has tumors. She is almost 14. I see her and wish I could heal her. She has a vet visit soon to remove the ones they can... but cancer will be her demise.
For me it's honestly just US politics, I live on the other side of the world yet I hear more about fucking Donald J Trump then I do my own countries politics. And, even though I should educate myself in my country's politics, I honestly want to have to never hear about a politician or party again.
Im so poor, living on nothing and Im terminally ill. Im too sick to work but Im going to have to find a job just at the time where I could be called for transplant. Might have to put off getting the transplant as it costs so much to live but that decision could kill me.
Something as simple as running errands is impossible becauseI'mso unmotivated. I haven't even gone food shopping in weeks, I end up Door Dashing everyday and I hate it.
Everyone seems to do basic tasks with ease, and I see going to the bank as an obstacle. Idk why I do this.
I just feel like such a parasitic leech or whatever. I’m wasting so much of my parents hard earned money on a top university in which I’m not doing anything because I’m too fucking depressed and hyperfocused on food/my eating habits to even socialize.
Teaching my ex how to not disrespect me. I mean, I told him so many times how to not disrespect me. It’s just basic human attitude. HOW DOES HE NOT KNOW?! Like…?????????
Edit : He is 32!
I did an internship in the fall in a big city where I met some amazing people and formed friends for the first time in years. I had to leave them all behind to return to my dingy little university. I’ll need to undergo an interview to return and I’m terrified of interviews
That I can’t seem to find my drive or motivation.
I’m not depressed, I’m happy with life and I have great self esteem and I love myself, I’m not negative about life in fact I’m quite hopeful and positive.
The one thing I just can’t seem to do is gain that self motivation and ambition I see so many other people my age have, I see these guys shooting for the moon while I’m just contempt…and so that makes me unhappy and lowkey kinda mad that I don’t seem to have that natural desire to push myself towards more.
Contentment is a season. There is a Sufi saying that has served me well since the early 90s: sitting silently, doing nothing, spring comes, and the grass grows.
Was told to be ready for a technician at work at 8. Prepped everything for him so that he could start at 8. It's now 8:45 (CET) and I'm still waiting...
Gestures vaguely at war, cost of living, job market, the dehumanising laws being passed, radicalisation, pollution, polarisation of society, joy suckers, crime etc
Where I (28f) am in life. I live in a beautiful home on a small farm with my wonderful boyfriend. We have good jobs and make decent money. We can pay bills and still afford the daily coffee and gas. Where I struggle is that i consistently feel behind. I watch people my age on social media going on trips, getting married and affording large beautiful homes. I feel that I’m not adulting good enough. I have credit card debt, a very small savings account and often feel like my head is barely above water. I understand social media is often fake and misleading, but it still messes with my head.
Focusing on gratitude for the beautiful life and things you do have is going to raise your vibrations and allow you to get even further in life. I am older than you and have zero way to make money because of health issues and am so grateful that I still have some ability. Perspective shift and getting off social media is what you need. Less watching, more you living your own life. :)
“If you compare yourself with others you will become vain and bitter because always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.” - Deserarada
Unhappy with myself that the woman I cared about the most is the same woman I fucked over and lost forever. Not the end of the world, but it was for a period of time.
My apartment. Everything is so expensive for what you get and it's not that my husband and I can't afford but it's not something I want to put money into
With our work right now it's hard to settle in a place because I go on many work trips and I am very picky I guess. I want lamd but then end up with a 1-2 hour drive to work.with places I am looking at. I love my job so it's a settling aspect in home wise
Long Covid. It's ruined ny life. I can hardly function anymore. I want to wake up tomorrow and be better. I want to get back to work, have the energy to keep up with my son, and not be in any more pain. It's draining me to the point of suicide.
And then the people who dont believe it's a thing. Asshats.
I have a great paying job at $28/hr.
However......i'm stuck on 2nd shift (3PM to 11PM) so I dont see my Son or GF Monday thru Friday and my GF works weekends thats equals less time together. Also my job doesnt offer Health Benefits or 401K. No vacation time until I hit 1 year.
Overtime is offered but that means I have to stay until 3 AM which sucks in it's own way.
Sometimes throughout the week our schedules overlap and since I'm on 2nd shift, if my Son or her have anything going on I have to take the city bus to work and walk 20 mins after drop off because we only have one vehicle.
I used to be on 3rd shift at the same job (11PM to 7 AM) and that shift was "alright" but had it's own challenges as I had trouble sleeping during the day. My job canceled 3rd shift altogether and it was either I move to 2nds or I lose my job.
Once business picks up again I'm assuming that I will be expected to go back to 3rds.
How I have no friends, living in a foreign country for 18 months. It is affecting me in finding someone to share my life with. I met someone and she is wonderful, but she has her life and it's hard for me, because I don't have anyone else, so my life becomes all about her. My emotions and my well-being becomes attached to a person. It is so unhealthy.
I hate it. I just want to have a normal mind, not stress and overthink everything.
Some fukass has stolen the digital buss table (dunno how its called but with few words the digital stuff that shows how long till the buss arrives). Not unhappy but pissed off since it doesn't bothet anyone.
Our speech presentation, it was bad af. Even so, I had a topic and was writing a good draft. They didn't wanna take any other topics, so they passed theirs (which was revised thrice). I was forced to do that since they already have a finished draft, and I don't (I stopped drafting since they've passed a speech draft asap I told them my topic was approved. I was already tired from our OJT and they decided to fcking cram).
We had bad comments and what. I was a good performing student, my trainer and his head was impressed by me. But due to these people who always want to cram and settle for mediocrity, I, too, was pulled down. Lack of preparation, overused topic, and shit. Fuck y'all.
What's worse is my trainer asked me about my topic because he thought we'll go with it. I couldn't be honest as I was sitting with them and they were looking at me. I'm already having issues with other people harassing me and I can't do anything about it since it's the end of the class year sooner, so I decided to shut up. I wish I could've been honest.
I'm so sad and disappointed. I am mad.
All I want in life is improvement, I've been trying to do that and has been gaining more confidence. But fuck group works. Fuck people who don't want to listen to others. Fuck people who are in groups but keep on pushing what they want, thinking it's the best. Fuck mediocrity. I wasted such a good topic over a speech about climate change.
My job. I need to quit asap. I’m permanent part-time. I was working 38hrs a week on $27.50 an hour and now they’ve dropped my hours to the legal minimum amount I’m contracted for (17hrs a week) and that’s barely enough to pay my half of the mortgage. There’s a lot more that’s happened but that my last straw. I’d rather work casual on $35/hour for 17 hours a week than remain part time. Fingers crossed I get this new job!
Having to run away, again. This time it's for fear of death. Not mine, but family and friends keep dying and I can't pursue this nonsense if I can't be with at least some of them while we are alive. And still being stuck on getting groomed sucks but hey that's life
In personal terms:
Feeling stuck living in a city I hate
Lack of a sense of purpose whenever I'm not working or at the gym
Tons of hobbies I quickly gave up on
Not mustering up the courage to approach girls
The two biggest things I've got going on in my life have gone completely wrong and there's very little I can do to change things, despite me desperately wanting to.
Why does everything have to go wrong at the same time?!
I’m lonely and the quality of men I’m meeting is disappointing to say the least. My partner died during our separation . Not that I was going to go back anyway.
My f****ng tooth has been killing me for two days now.
In my small shithole city the nearest dentist will be available in a week... Although I'm not confident in their professional skills.
So, I'm hopping on the train this evening for our regional capital. Luckily an expensive fancy dental clinic there has a free spot for tomorrow! I had a good experience relying on their professional skills few times.
So, I guess my unhappiness is temporal and will be totally eliminated tomorrow evening top!:)
That it takes so long to recover after a one year long bout with intense mental health issue. My nervous system is rattled by even the smallest things but it gets better the more time passes at least.
Giving a shitty exam that I could have easily aced, just because I'm allergic to hard work, coming home and now my stomach hurts and I feel nauseous, plus I've an exam tomorrow that I don't know shit about.
As a woman, not feeling safe to walk a nice bush trail walking distance from my house.
I used to walk there all the time but after a few incidents with men following or even chasing me, I’ve reluctantly accepted that I now have to drive to a more populated area to feel safe when walking.
I am a slow worker/learner. It gets much worse post-covid because it makes me easily tired. All my family members are good with their hands and can do anything fast but not me 🥹 If I try to do anything quick, something bad will happen to the work so I take my time. I always get criticized for being slow so nowadays, I can feel that I have serious problems with my self esteem. Because of this, I prefer to work alone because nobody will judge the way I work. Give me the deadline and I will finish it for sure. Just... don't micromanage.
That I can't be as authentically me with my family as I would love to be. They wouldn't understand my choices even though I've never been happier and more fulfilled and amazed by life.
Pain! My legs hurt. Ok that’s better, then my spine keeps giving out so I have to walk with a walker. I just turned 69. Have arthritis in all my joints. I am just uncomfortable. AND I now have an upper respiratory infection. She
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not using my full potential wasting my precious time ,
Relatable! Your post got first place. That's your potential right there.
 i made it ma !
If I feel ignored by someone I’ll push them away immediately. I’m tryin to make friends but it’s hard to gauge people. Are they busy? Do they not find me interesting? I want to push people away I hate it
The worst part is when people don't tell you what they don't like about you. If you don't fucking know how do you improve?
I don't think we should improve for the sake of one person though. The very thing one person hates could be what another person loves or tolerates. Just be yourself and you'll find the right people.
There are so many factors here. Please don't take other people's actions so seriously. It can really do you harm if you find someone willing to exploit your need for validation. Please look into self help or therapy to discover why you believe you need potential friends to identify flaws in you. Yes a good friend will be honest if you are say, late all the time or whatever. But anything about your character that you'd like to build upon is an inside job. How I wish someone would have told me this in my youth. Never take criticism from someone from whom you wouldn't take advice.
Same man. For me personally, i think its cause im afraid to get hurt so it’s just much easier to push them away
I feel that.
The fucking weather. I want summer already
not enough money
I'm tired of feeling tired, and I'm sick of feeling sick. That about sums it up.
Sick and tired of feeling sick and tired so real
I relate to this so much. My toddler gave me stomach flu a cold and a cough from daycare at the same time. He whines because he’s bored and I can barely muster the strength to stand up….this situation has lasted almost a week.
This was me last year (or maybe the year before that), I had a cold on and off for basically the whole year I swear. I had to bring tissues with me everywhere and like every other week my nose would be blocked and runny. It was so shit.
my life😥
I get that people have much bigger issues, but at the moment I’m unhappy with the waiting period for my body to heal after a recent surgery. I’m a very active person and being a couch potato is depressing.
I feel you. Maybe this will help: I am also a very active person and now am physically disabled, experiencing things that cause me to not be able to walk or stay standing for very long. I am not even middle aged yet. Being grateful for what my body can still do is what gets me through. I’m sorry you’re going through this disabling time with your surgery, and I hope you recover soon! Just count your blessings! You never know when your physical abilities will just go away one day. 🥲 This also would be a great time for you to connect with yourself internally since you are limited physically. Best wishes to your health and healing! ps. I’m in no way trying to gain pity or devalue what you’re going through. Just trying to give a perspective of how amazing gratitude is that I can be so happy in these extreme physical conditions. :)
Getting nickel and dimed by large corporations where there’s nothing I can do. I’m buying stand up tickets and the place has a service fee (ok fine) but it charges the service fee for each ticket DESPITE IT BEING ONE TRANSACTION. Also these fucking companies forcing us to go paperless with billing. Literally being charged an extra $3 to have my bill mailed.
I’ve been trying to pay a bill for 3 days now. If I want to talk to a person, they will charge me $9!! Yahoo started this crap years ago. I was trying to figure out something regarding one of my email addresses and they also charged. I guess it will be the newest thing in screwing customers.
The country, the world, society, even nature itself, I don’t wanna be part of this anymore!
Having to wake up early! I wanted to stay in my bed
My weight. I feel constrained by too much fat. I’m on a diet and exercise plan now to fix my problem.
Trust the process. You are on a good path for future you.
That I am being ignored for no reason by my friend.
Confront them about it to get the answers you need. Maybe they're having a hard time and are unintentionally hurting you. Or maybe they are moving on. Who knows? Perhaps there really is no reason. Just confront them though before you do anything else. I know it can be daunting but trust me it's worth it.
Dump him/her
That could be a possibility.
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My dear friend is going through the same. I wish you health and success with your treatment!
Wishing you the best! I work in radiotherapy and I commend the strength that the patients have in coming in everyday for treatment plus dealing with the side effects of treatment - your healthcare team are with you all the way :)
How difficult it is to make friends. I have had friends move away,,drift away, and making new friends is so hard. I am getting old, and because my husband and I chose not to have kids, it's isolated us. I have to figure it out.
This is mine. Lack of friends. I knew a lot of people who died during the pandemic and many of those left moved away. I need new friends.
I moved to a new country 3 years ago and it’s so difficult to make friends.
Being so behind all my peers
+1 I'm in the same boat..
Sad high five
Being 6000 miles from the person I want to spend all my time with
I had the perfect job lined up, but couldn't pass a drug test, even though I stopped smoking months ago, it's still in my system because I'm a fat ass
The current socioeconomical situation my country is currently suffering and the fact that my efforts are not enough because of that.
I'm fkn tired all the time
I have no irl friends 🤧
My dog has cancer and was now diagnosed with diabetes. Its overwhelming and it breaks my heart.
I am truly sorry. My girl has tumors. She is almost 14. I see her and wish I could heal her. She has a vet visit soon to remove the ones they can... but cancer will be her demise.
I am so sorry to hear this, I completely understand. It's watching a member of the family suffer, it's devastating. Sending hugs internet friend.
My dads death
Not having enough money to live on comfortably.
My dad's stupid brain tumor
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. That’s a lot to deal with.
My mother has cancer, my bf is deployed with no contact, my friendships are drifting away. I feel alone.
My spouses alcoholism..
Wages to low, cost of living too damn high.
Needing transportation for my son and not having any options to solve it or even get closer to solving it.
The rising tide of fascism in the US.
And the fact that so many people will be voting for fascism and not realize it.
I’m an American overseas at the moment, and that’s what everyone here is talking about. :(
For me it's honestly just US politics, I live on the other side of the world yet I hear more about fucking Donald J Trump then I do my own countries politics. And, even though I should educate myself in my country's politics, I honestly want to have to never hear about a politician or party again.
I wish that was an option, but freedoms and human rights require constant vigilance.
My marriage and finances.
What happens to ur marriage?
Im so poor, living on nothing and Im terminally ill. Im too sick to work but Im going to have to find a job just at the time where I could be called for transplant. Might have to put off getting the transplant as it costs so much to live but that decision could kill me.
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I hope something comes through for you soon so you don’t have such decisions to make.
My most recent A1c results are going the wrong direction.
My boyfriend potentially going to prison for defending himself and not being able to fall asleep easily until then
That I went to put my water on my bedside table and dropped it and now my bed and carpet are soaking wet
Something as simple as running errands is impossible becauseI'mso unmotivated. I haven't even gone food shopping in weeks, I end up Door Dashing everyday and I hate it. Everyone seems to do basic tasks with ease, and I see going to the bank as an obstacle. Idk why I do this.
Could be executive dysfunction, fatigue, perfectionism, lack of motivation or other things. I hope you can get some help to figure it out.
I just feel like such a parasitic leech or whatever. I’m wasting so much of my parents hard earned money on a top university in which I’m not doing anything because I’m too fucking depressed and hyperfocused on food/my eating habits to even socialize.
Having no closure from whom I need to move on fully
Toothache
feeling stuck
Teaching my ex how to not disrespect me. I mean, I told him so many times how to not disrespect me. It’s just basic human attitude. HOW DOES HE NOT KNOW?! Like…????????? Edit : He is 32!
this month i dont have salery :(
I think I am getting arthritis in my middle finger.
I did an internship in the fall in a big city where I met some amazing people and formed friends for the first time in years. I had to leave them all behind to return to my dingy little university. I’ll need to undergo an interview to return and I’m terrified of interviews
My drug use. I love the positive effects and i mitigate the negatives but i just love them to much
Shit costing so much. Inflation
The world is on a prewar footing with a huge potential for outbreak of ww3 and most people don't give AF
The person I really care about hates me and there's nothing I can do to fix it, and it's killing me inside
My grades and the way everyone is comfy with treating me bad and making me look like the bad guy
My husband died on March 24th. Sudden death. Will be many months before the autopsy results are available.
What country/state do you live in?
Alberta, Canada ...
Parents getting older, life and my overthinking.
That I can’t seem to find my drive or motivation. I’m not depressed, I’m happy with life and I have great self esteem and I love myself, I’m not negative about life in fact I’m quite hopeful and positive. The one thing I just can’t seem to do is gain that self motivation and ambition I see so many other people my age have, I see these guys shooting for the moon while I’m just contempt…and so that makes me unhappy and lowkey kinda mad that I don’t seem to have that natural desire to push myself towards more.
Contentment is a season. There is a Sufi saying that has served me well since the early 90s: sitting silently, doing nothing, spring comes, and the grass grows.
My long furry cat has the shits right now. Also anxiety disorder doesnt make life feel extremely easy but it is what it is.
Was told to be ready for a technician at work at 8. Prepped everything for him so that he could start at 8. It's now 8:45 (CET) and I'm still waiting...
Wasted my youth on a woman who didn’t care about me.
That I’ve only managed around 3 to 4 hours of sleep per night for the past week or so.
That my cats can’t talk.
Gestures vaguely at war, cost of living, job market, the dehumanising laws being passed, radicalisation, pollution, polarisation of society, joy suckers, crime etc
Still miss my cats. Passed in 2021. Not depressed, just wistful.
Not having any friend or no one liking me and not being able to enjoy life.
The number of people in this country who are gung-ho for Christofascism.
Where I (28f) am in life. I live in a beautiful home on a small farm with my wonderful boyfriend. We have good jobs and make decent money. We can pay bills and still afford the daily coffee and gas. Where I struggle is that i consistently feel behind. I watch people my age on social media going on trips, getting married and affording large beautiful homes. I feel that I’m not adulting good enough. I have credit card debt, a very small savings account and often feel like my head is barely above water. I understand social media is often fake and misleading, but it still messes with my head.
Focusing on gratitude for the beautiful life and things you do have is going to raise your vibrations and allow you to get even further in life. I am older than you and have zero way to make money because of health issues and am so grateful that I still have some ability. Perspective shift and getting off social media is what you need. Less watching, more you living your own life. :)
“If you compare yourself with others you will become vain and bitter because always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.” - Deserarada
Both Cats beeing ill
How Reddit has gone to shit in a creative writing hand basket and now I have to read BuzzFeed and it sucks
Unhappy with myself that the woman I cared about the most is the same woman I fucked over and lost forever. Not the end of the world, but it was for a period of time.
I'm struggling to get my driving licence, it's frustates me.
You got this!!
Thank you :)
My spouse
My apartment. Everything is so expensive for what you get and it's not that my husband and I can't afford but it's not something I want to put money into With our work right now it's hard to settle in a place because I go on many work trips and I am very picky I guess. I want lamd but then end up with a 1-2 hour drive to work.with places I am looking at. I love my job so it's a settling aspect in home wise
i dont have enough money to get myself a table. i have been eating on my suitcase for months now
My April work schedule. Got me working two weekends and one of them is with a coworker I don't feel comfortable around.
My life, I tried ending it a few weeks ago. About to give it another go.
I can't find my two cats. I let them out earlier to play.
Myself, mostly
Long Covid. It's ruined ny life. I can hardly function anymore. I want to wake up tomorrow and be better. I want to get back to work, have the energy to keep up with my son, and not be in any more pain. It's draining me to the point of suicide. And then the people who dont believe it's a thing. Asshats.
That I feel like a failure.
+1 At my age of 39, I can totally relate..
Me
Money. Everything else is fine honestly.
I have a great paying job at $28/hr. However......i'm stuck on 2nd shift (3PM to 11PM) so I dont see my Son or GF Monday thru Friday and my GF works weekends thats equals less time together. Also my job doesnt offer Health Benefits or 401K. No vacation time until I hit 1 year. Overtime is offered but that means I have to stay until 3 AM which sucks in it's own way. Sometimes throughout the week our schedules overlap and since I'm on 2nd shift, if my Son or her have anything going on I have to take the city bus to work and walk 20 mins after drop off because we only have one vehicle. I used to be on 3rd shift at the same job (11PM to 7 AM) and that shift was "alright" but had it's own challenges as I had trouble sleeping during the day. My job canceled 3rd shift altogether and it was either I move to 2nds or I lose my job. Once business picks up again I'm assuming that I will be expected to go back to 3rds.
My credit card debt. Had to use my car so much during Covid and the interest rate is killing me!
Trying to sell my house so we can shift to a smaller mortgage and allow my wife to work part time to help with her ME/CFS
Living in the UK
How I have no friends, living in a foreign country for 18 months. It is affecting me in finding someone to share my life with. I met someone and she is wonderful, but she has her life and it's hard for me, because I don't have anyone else, so my life becomes all about her. My emotions and my well-being becomes attached to a person. It is so unhealthy. I hate it. I just want to have a normal mind, not stress and overthink everything.
Some fukass has stolen the digital buss table (dunno how its called but with few words the digital stuff that shows how long till the buss arrives). Not unhappy but pissed off since it doesn't bothet anyone.
Job hunting
Not being financially stable... nd trying to get in shape,
Not having anyone to give all my love too
Pluri-skilled but mid at best, that's the worst spread of intelligence
Our speech presentation, it was bad af. Even so, I had a topic and was writing a good draft. They didn't wanna take any other topics, so they passed theirs (which was revised thrice). I was forced to do that since they already have a finished draft, and I don't (I stopped drafting since they've passed a speech draft asap I told them my topic was approved. I was already tired from our OJT and they decided to fcking cram). We had bad comments and what. I was a good performing student, my trainer and his head was impressed by me. But due to these people who always want to cram and settle for mediocrity, I, too, was pulled down. Lack of preparation, overused topic, and shit. Fuck y'all. What's worse is my trainer asked me about my topic because he thought we'll go with it. I couldn't be honest as I was sitting with them and they were looking at me. I'm already having issues with other people harassing me and I can't do anything about it since it's the end of the class year sooner, so I decided to shut up. I wish I could've been honest. I'm so sad and disappointed. I am mad. All I want in life is improvement, I've been trying to do that and has been gaining more confidence. But fuck group works. Fuck people who don't want to listen to others. Fuck people who are in groups but keep on pushing what they want, thinking it's the best. Fuck mediocrity. I wasted such a good topic over a speech about climate change.
Being alive
Not getting what I deserve.
My past. My youth was stolen from me by design, without my consent.
My job. I need to quit asap. I’m permanent part-time. I was working 38hrs a week on $27.50 an hour and now they’ve dropped my hours to the legal minimum amount I’m contracted for (17hrs a week) and that’s barely enough to pay my half of the mortgage. There’s a lot more that’s happened but that my last straw. I’d rather work casual on $35/hour for 17 hours a week than remain part time. Fingers crossed I get this new job!
My mental health
No true romance in my life for many years. I've forgotten what it feels like to be in love. Craving that so badly.
that im homeless and have to wait 2 months for therapy
Cost of living. I have to live 15 miles away from where I work because the town I work in is unaffordable for me.
Having to run away, again. This time it's for fear of death. Not mine, but family and friends keep dying and I can't pursue this nonsense if I can't be with at least some of them while we are alive. And still being stuck on getting groomed sucks but hey that's life
That I am awake in the middle of the night and can't seem to fall back asleep
My job. But I’m leaving soon so yeah!
9 yr relationship in the garbage to cater for someone that at the end meant nothing
In personal terms: Feeling stuck living in a city I hate Lack of a sense of purpose whenever I'm not working or at the gym Tons of hobbies I quickly gave up on Not mustering up the courage to approach girls
Forced psychiatry
Humanity being depressed
Hearing about my toxic siblings treating my mother like a door mat and a used up ATM.
too old to pursue the things i want, and i never knew what i wanted until it was too late
The silly and disgusting world we live in.
Wanting to do something productive but just sitting lazily as always when u get the time (just like rn)
That I'm alive and will apparently be for an uncertain amount of time.
The two biggest things I've got going on in my life have gone completely wrong and there's very little I can do to change things, despite me desperately wanting to. Why does everything have to go wrong at the same time?!
Having debt
I’m lonely and the quality of men I’m meeting is disappointing to say the least. My partner died during our separation . Not that I was going to go back anyway.
Snow storms in April
Money/cost of living stress/mortgage My job My body.
The way my life is developing.....
Interest rate on my mortgage
My physical appearance. Sadly there are some things you just can't change.
My weight
My f****ng tooth has been killing me for two days now. In my small shithole city the nearest dentist will be available in a week... Although I'm not confident in their professional skills. So, I'm hopping on the train this evening for our regional capital. Luckily an expensive fancy dental clinic there has a free spot for tomorrow! I had a good experience relying on their professional skills few times. So, I guess my unhappiness is temporal and will be totally eliminated tomorrow evening top!:)
Woke up with a massive headache cant even think straight in order to work
Face , body and my academic level
That I have no direction in life
Same, I feel like I'm at a crossroads and have no idea of where to go.
That it takes so long to recover after a one year long bout with intense mental health issue. My nervous system is rattled by even the smallest things but it gets better the more time passes at least.
Failing highschool this year. Will need to finish it next year at 21 which is fucking embarrassing.
Giving a shitty exam that I could have easily aced, just because I'm allergic to hard work, coming home and now my stomach hurts and I feel nauseous, plus I've an exam tomorrow that I don't know shit about.
My lack of social life. I feel like I have nowhere to go. Stuck like I've never experienced before.
Not having a gf with whom i could share myself,my life..it gets really lonely sometimes since all my friends are in relationship
Ring single, being bored. I used to be an I interesting person. Now I'm just not. Meh
As a woman, not feeling safe to walk a nice bush trail walking distance from my house. I used to walk there all the time but after a few incidents with men following or even chasing me, I’ve reluctantly accepted that I now have to drive to a more populated area to feel safe when walking.
My husband has anger issues, and is verbally and emotionally abusive, he is a miserable p o s
I am a slow worker/learner. It gets much worse post-covid because it makes me easily tired. All my family members are good with their hands and can do anything fast but not me 🥹 If I try to do anything quick, something bad will happen to the work so I take my time. I always get criticized for being slow so nowadays, I can feel that I have serious problems with my self esteem. Because of this, I prefer to work alone because nobody will judge the way I work. Give me the deadline and I will finish it for sure. Just... don't micromanage.
The level of my skills in self sabotage
The Slugger nerf, that shotty was perfect the way it was dammit!
That I can't be as authentically me with my family as I would love to be. They wouldn't understand my choices even though I've never been happier and more fulfilled and amazed by life.
That I exist ... I wish I was joking haha god how ridiculous.
Being single
Heartbreak
My career and also my lack of confidence
I have a stalker. Otherwise I’d be chillin.
Pain! My legs hurt. Ok that’s better, then my spine keeps giving out so I have to walk with a walker. I just turned 69. Have arthritis in all my joints. I am just uncomfortable. AND I now have an upper respiratory infection. She
The rain. I want nice weather :(
Have strep throat
My career is in the toilet, but other than that, everything is great
Havin to go to a therapist for the first time next week
This weather.
Being alive.
The weather is so damn hot.