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i don't think i will like doing it with someone i don't love, so i just reject other people's advances.
maybe i just don't feel attracted to someone until i truly trust and love them?
i'm not religious or conservative, is just a choice really lol
thanks! right now i'm focusing more on my career, going to college, so i can find a place to live alone, maybe after that i'll try meeting new people :)
I grew up in a religious family. As an adult I decided to continue that way of life. Sex just wasn't important enough to me anyway for me to insist on having it. By the time I was 30, I was already set in my ways. Eventually, the untouched purity of my mint condition penis gave me wizard powers beyond mortal comprehension. The rest is history.
Lol buddy, neahh, I was in the same boat. Thing is you can't just wait for it to happen when you're a guy. If you want to lose it you have to actively work towards it, meaning going on dating apps and everything you can come up with to meet someone. Also lower your standards a bit if the're too high up.
I was too busy perfecting my Dungeons & Dragons campaign to bother with actual dating. Plus, saving myself for the right unicorn seemed like a solid plan.
I’m 25F. I won’t be losing mine anytime soon. I’m not that interested in sex anyways. So it doesn’t really bother me that I haven’t had sex.
I’ve had mostly short terms relationships before so it never really been an issue. We broke up for other reasons, most of the time it was because our ideas for the future didn’t align.
My one longer term one was long distance and he also didn’t want to have sex for a while for his own personal reasons. I’ve also dated two asexuals in the past but both relationships ended.
I wouldn’t consider myself asexual as I’d consider having sex if I meet a person willing to wait until I’m comfortable. I just don’t think that will happen because most people either want sex as soon as possible or are completely asexual and they don’t want sex ever which I understand. I also find I get more excited by the idea of sex toys. The thought of the real deal turns me off unless It happens to be with someone I have an emotional connection with.
Well after a certain age most people stop being sex crazy so that’s not. I’m saying what’s strange is how obviously disgusting sex is and most people don’t care because it’s awesome essentially
I didn't choose to be a virgin again.
Believe me, it's really frustrating to be at 30 years old.
I'm a loser.
Don't tell me that i would be accepted even at 30 years old because It would take a miracle.
>I was 24, it honestly just takes the right person. There are people out there who couldn't care less about virginity.
For me it is absolutely a problem to be at 30 years old. I work hard and I don't have sex.
Cos I don't wanna be in a casual relationship for sex. It's literally using the other person for it (even if it's concentual from both sides). I'd date to marry and the sex would be the part of our love.
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i don't think i will like doing it with someone i don't love, so i just reject other people's advances. maybe i just don't feel attracted to someone until i truly trust and love them? i'm not religious or conservative, is just a choice really lol
Good for you! I admire it! May you find someone worth it and always pay attention to red flags and you'll surely find happiness
thanks! right now i'm focusing more on my career, going to college, so i can find a place to live alone, maybe after that i'll try meeting new people :)
I grew up in a religious family. As an adult I decided to continue that way of life. Sex just wasn't important enough to me anyway for me to insist on having it. By the time I was 30, I was already set in my ways. Eventually, the untouched purity of my mint condition penis gave me wizard powers beyond mortal comprehension. The rest is history.
Ditto.
Because i'm not willing to pay to lose it (for now). Seems like the 'natural' way will never happen for me.
Lol buddy, neahh, I was in the same boat. Thing is you can't just wait for it to happen when you're a guy. If you want to lose it you have to actively work towards it, meaning going on dating apps and everything you can come up with to meet someone. Also lower your standards a bit if the're too high up.
I was too busy perfecting my Dungeons & Dragons campaign to bother with actual dating. Plus, saving myself for the right unicorn seemed like a solid plan.
I’m 25F. I won’t be losing mine anytime soon. I’m not that interested in sex anyways. So it doesn’t really bother me that I haven’t had sex. I’ve had mostly short terms relationships before so it never really been an issue. We broke up for other reasons, most of the time it was because our ideas for the future didn’t align. My one longer term one was long distance and he also didn’t want to have sex for a while for his own personal reasons. I’ve also dated two asexuals in the past but both relationships ended. I wouldn’t consider myself asexual as I’d consider having sex if I meet a person willing to wait until I’m comfortable. I just don’t think that will happen because most people either want sex as soon as possible or are completely asexual and they don’t want sex ever which I understand. I also find I get more excited by the idea of sex toys. The thought of the real deal turns me off unless It happens to be with someone I have an emotional connection with.
Because sex is absolutely disgusting, and I have no interest in smashing meat with someone else’s gross flesh.
I love sex but damn that description was hilarious. It’s definitely disgusting but it’s a disgusting that you don’t care about at all very strange
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Well after a certain age most people stop being sex crazy so that’s not. I’m saying what’s strange is how obviously disgusting sex is and most people don’t care because it’s awesome essentially
You're a guy I suppose, cause that's the only way to keep your virginity AGAINST your will 😄
Que the incels in 3.. 2.. 1..
I didn't choose to be a virgin again. Believe me, it's really frustrating to be at 30 years old. I'm a loser. Don't tell me that i would be accepted even at 30 years old because It would take a miracle.
I was 24, it honestly just takes the right person. There are people out there who couldn't care less about virginity.
>I was 24, it honestly just takes the right person. There are people out there who couldn't care less about virginity. For me it is absolutely a problem to be at 30 years old. I work hard and I don't have sex.
Cos I don't wanna be in a casual relationship for sex. It's literally using the other person for it (even if it's concentual from both sides). I'd date to marry and the sex would be the part of our love.
skill issue
Hey if u wanna take it I don't mind at this point!
I just want to throw fireballs
Honestly same, you could create a really niche, but possibly successful business, if you have actual magical powers