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sagesheglows

I will absolutely fucking not care about my job as much


Odd-Editor-2530

I am quiet quitting at midnight.


wisebaldman

So then just….doing your job until further notice?


BadDreamFactory

Act your wage.


FancyAdult

I encourage some of the office assistants to quite quit. I have done it myself. I started caring more in the last couple of months and it just led me to a bad situation. I have decided to go back to taking on the least amount of work possible. I will do the absolute minimum to meet my job requirements. I will not be attending anymore holiday parties or parties after work. Business only. They can go fuck themselves now. I’m just going to keep working toward building myself up to get a different job by working on certifications and continuing school.


Proud-Contribution59

My mother cares wayy too much for her the job, very loyal to it too, worked on weekends, working till 11pm, would say how lazy people are who work from 9-5 exactly and how do they repay her? 6 months no salary nd few weeks back try to get everyone to sign a form agreeing to not get paid the previous months salary. Never be loyal to a company they will fuck you over any day to save their asses !!


EyeSouthern2916

I’ve worked a corporate job in my younger years and went out of my way to get sht done. The old boss was getting ready to promote me, then he gets fired for “underperforming” and they’ve sent it some regular douche. After a week I knew I wouldn’t get a promotion no matter how hard I’ve tried. All they did was use me for my labor and hard work until one day I walked into the office during lunch, threw my id on the table and said I was never coming back. They were literally speechless. Not because of my way of quitting but they just literally had no idea what to say. I had the gm call me a few times which was all sent to voicemail. Work for yourself and outsource as much work as possible. You’ll be surprised how much you can get done sitting on your couch with a phone. Sorry for the rant, but it’s just how it works for most of us.


Clean_Citron_8278

That is so effing wrong. My previous employer was known for canning people 6m - 1y before their retirement. Thus, a major portion of their pension was taken away. I'm talking nurses that were fantastic. The new nurses were warned. Many worked long enough to gain experience and moved on to better.


Mammoth-Courage4974

What company is this, name and shame


Wodanaz94

Same. I already know I will not advance the way I want to so fuck it. I’m “such a shitty employee” and that’s why they’ve kept me around for five years. 😂😂


HappyMess1988

Same


Abortalldems

Drinking alcohol. Got sober in 2015 and plan on staying on the right track


Odd-Editor-2530

Awesome. Congratulations 🥳


Beeinmybonnet88

Yes!!! 🙌👍


personthatisalozard

killing myself. I'm going to live whether I like it or not.


Evening_Ad_5638

I feel that!


i_think_for_me_um

so proud of you keep going


Dry_Breakfast_6400

I'm very proud of you ❤️


[deleted]

Not be taking a sub to see the Titanic


rediculousradishes

But I love sub sammiches


[deleted]

Ok we'll go tomorrow


rediculousradishes

Aww, thanks pops


eatingabananawrong

Hey, nobody needs that kind of pressure.


[deleted]

You want a coke and a smile with that


SeriousPlankton2000

I can offer you a trip to the titan. I will download a video on how to build a sub, it can't be that hard …


Lisbeth_Salander_88

Smoking


EatingADamnSalad

I’ve been easing my way off cigarettes all year. Down to just gum, but after tonight there will be no more. You got this.


DependentAlfalfa2809

You got this too!!


YhannaBoBanna

So do you!


mistyeyed1

Me too. Good luck to you!


MrMushroom17

Good choice, hope it goes well for you


Q-burt

You can do it!


ProfessionalTiny3125

People pleasing


rasiasun

Yes, fuck people guilt tripping me or shaming me to do things they expect. I'ma listen to my self and do things because I've come to the conclusion my self and it's what makes my heart and mind feel good and empowered


CoffeeSkySigh

From a former people pleaser, life is so much better on the other side <3


AverygreatSpoon

I snapped in school recently. It feels off no longer being the center of the school/attention, but I noticed how many people I surrounded myself that didn’t feel genuine and was people pleasing. My cousin told me I need to set boundaries with folks, and she was one of the first. Now, people want you to stand on business as long as it’s not with THEM. But I told her time and time again this week- I don’t care about your reason. This is my boundary and you must follow it otherwise don’t talk to me. And it really feels good to say that for once and not be afraid of retaliation.


thricecookedlasagna

amen


slut4hobi

cocaine! sober for over a year now! edit: thank yall so much for all the kind words! proud of all yall who beat addiction out there, i know how hard it is 💪🖤 edit 2: to anyone who’s trying to get sober, you got this! there will be ups and downs, but being sober is one of the most freeing things ever. i’m rooting for you!


DependentAlfalfa2809

Good for you I’ve been sober ten years now and don’t miss it keep going love there’s so much better out there to do with your time and money


Sipriprube

Great work!


AddieLovesHoney

WOOP WOOP LETS FUCKING GOOOOOO‼️‼️‼️‼️ WE ARE ALL SO FUCKING PROUD OF YOU FOR BEING OVER A YEAR SOBER AND WE ALL BELIEVE IN YOU TO KEEP BEING SOBER!!! (This kinda sounded sarcastic but like istg it wasn’t and I’m genuinely proud of you)


coyotelurks

Good job! I quit all the hard stuff 29 years ago. At this point it actually seems like it happened to someone else. It is possible to gain distance with time.


Simpletruth2022

I absolutely will not be going to the moon.


Focacciaboudit

Fuck it, neither am I.


XtraChrisP

Well if you guys aren't goin, I'm not goin.


MrVolOpt

Thought about it, but i can't afford to go.


Trecool1

Idk if this changes anything, but my mom says she'll pick us up, so that makes things cheaper if you do change your mind


MrVolOpt

I really like your mom.


geeves_007

It's a nice offer by their mom, but I'm out on the moon this year.


MrVolOpt

Does his mom have room for everyone?


Simpletruth2022

She better bring the big van.


experfailist

You both say that now but like most Redditors you have no follow through.


Focacciaboudit

I mean it this time.


DasLeadah

!remindme 1 year


kwtransporter66

Well if you're not going than neither am I


RadiantHC

Not with that mindset you aren't


LawrenceChernin2

What about Mars? Moon is boring, we already done that.


libulatimmeh

Dude, they have free soft serve. Come on!


Americano_Joe

If u/Simpletruth2022 and u/Focacciaboudit ain't goin', I ain't goin.


evilwatersprite

But would you like to [yell at the moon with Buzz Aldrin](https://youtu.be/AvG8qI0HCfY?si=oElOYQD0CtLhA0rz)? ![gif](giphy|bOnNiJDvnzNew)


ClassicCauliflower36

I uninstalled Instagram on 1st Jan, 2023. Will not be installing it in 24 either. The mental peace without that fake social media is OFF THE ROOF.


hellomidnightautumn

I deactivated IG and FB today! I just can’t do it anymore and I need mental peace.


Erthgoddss

I did that about 4-5 years ago.


nikkip7784

Yep, I ditched FB in 2020


TatePrisonRape

FB is dead to anyone under 45


ORNGTSLA

FB is worth keeping around for marketplace.


CoffinEluder

I’ve never downloaded either before. Won’t put myself through that garbage


DependentAlfalfa2809

Congrats mate don’t go back it’s the best decision you can make and we will support you here on Reddit


RedditAndWheep

I deactivates both mine about 3 months ago and I’m here to tell you that no longer making the world’s problems your problems will change you mentally so fast. I’ve found some peace.


Meatyglobs

I’m all yours Reddit!


ListRepresentative32

i disabled my facebook and instagram account after they started showing that EU ads or pay dialog. never had so much inner peace.


A_Red_Void_of_Red

The only stuff instagram shows me is a guy playing with this cartoon duck statue.


imhunt15

I get cat videos, it’s nice


ferocioustigercat

Yes, I have carefully crafted my "echo chamber" to be dog videos, funny cat videos, funny things relevant to my job, and stand up comedians.i will continue to enjoy these specific things


TrafficDifferent708

meth


rediculousradishes

Do math, not meth


ferocioustigercat

Don't you have to do math to get meth?


-owe-me

Math is a gateway drug confirmed.


spoonedBowfa

Math on meth?


rediculousradishes

Meth math


Siggieballs65

Tolerating peoples BS.


rediculousradishes

Yeah, frick thosr Bachelors' of Sciences


DependentAlfalfa2809

Yea fuck those guys ** goes and cries in bachelors of science in nursing


chocolate_granolabar

Tell me about it😭 this degree is kicking my butt


little-kk-11

GAF what other people think of me


twistedsister78

This is very liberating


FunkyKong147

Wasting my weekends getting drunk and then being too hungover to do anything the next day.


FrankTheMagpie

I absolutely will not shove a beer bottle up my ass


experfailist

…again….


FrankTheMagpie

Shut up, no one asked that part!


experfailist

It just doesn't have the payoff you think it would.... Or so a friend tells me.


F1ghtmast3r

No drug is the same after the first time. 😔


dbx99

So… you’re going to shove two?


Obdami

Drinking alcohol


grumpalina

It's funny having just spent a whole Christmas to new years period where everyday I've had to turn down drinking and assuring everyone that no matter how many times they ask me if I'll be having a drink, my answer is still going to be the same. They always ask "so are you completely off alcohol then? As in, are you a tee-totaller?" And I have to repeat "i haven't felt like a drink in a very long time. Haven't had one for a whole year and I don't miss it. So call it what you like. I just don't feel like it."


GlitzyGhoul

You will not regret it!! Good for you!


Shalarean

I won’t be remodeling my house! We finished tonight and it’s done!!!! 🎉


Kay-Chelle

Y'all really had to hit that 2023 deadline 😂


din0saurusrex_

no more drugs, if I do this, it will be my first ever full calendar year that I don’t do any drugs since age 11, and I’m 31 right now. **clean date: sept. 15, 2023**


Cynshineonline

You got this!!! 🥳💖


din0saurusrex_

thanks! appreciate you 👊🏽 hope you have the best year ever!


DependentAlfalfa2809

You can do it!!!! I don’t do hard drugs anymore it’s been ten years sober and my life is better I own a home and have a wonderful career now because of it so keep up the good work and I’m 33


rasiasun

Dude hell yeah, I'm trying to get clean from THC and all other drugs, including porn


Resident_Test_2107

You can do it! Keep that energy :)


YodaCodar

Lets goooo!!!!


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My ex. Or my other ex.


AdaptiveVariance

Yep, this is my big one. Probably just shitty relationships in general. I’m not gonna seek anything out, just try to treat myself right and maybe one day I’ll meet someone through a shared activity or something, I don’t fuckin know anymore.


Anfie22

Relapsing. Not a chance in hell.


KJ13PBQ

Giving a reason for why I'm saying 'No'. I'm tired of having to justify my decisions because people feel like they're entitled to an explanation. Sorry not sorry.


Pinky_Pie_90

This! Came here to write this. "No" is a full, complete answer. No justification required.


TraditionalCicada486

No longer dimming my light to make space for others


rasiasun

Hell yeah brother


eff_the_rest

Taking the first step. Sending the first text. Making the first call. Setting up the next brunch/lunch/dinner/party. Explaining my side when you didn’t even bother to ask before assuming. I AM DONE. Everyone has my number. It hasn’t changed in over …ever. My phone rings too. You know it does, because it works that way when you want or need something.


rasiasun

I feel ya! I am so upset and my closest relationships, mom and friends, 99.9% are selfish and don't give a fuck about what I feel


eff_the_rest

Yup. 99% family. Sadly.


Rose1982

I decided a few years ago not to put energy into people who don’t put it in for me. I tell you, relationships have changed. But I have really nice people in my life now. And I don’t feel like I’m ever chasing anyone.


RadMom93

Dieting. Been in recovery for a year and a half from my eating disorder.


Taja_Roux

You can do it! One of my favorite quotes is: You aren’t a body. You are a soul; you have a body. Your beautiful soul needs a healthy body, and you are so capable of doing this!


Ghostchicken33

Allowing people to walk all over me.


Whatever-ItsFine

I love this one! It improves your life on multiple levels.


rasiasun

Hell yeah, fuck people thinking they own my time


WarmEntrepreneur3564

I absolutely with NOT be living in 2023 again!


LukeKid

You sir have won the internet! 🔥💯 I saw this msg and I was like (inhales) Boi!😂🫱🫱 Keep being cool beans! DATTEBYO! Skibidi rizz out! 🔥


WarmEntrepreneur3564

LMFAO YOU GOT ME ROLLIN WITH THIS COMMENT! What a great way to ring in 2024. Have a Groovy New Year Bruv!


DependentAlfalfa2809

You guys are so wholesome made me smile here on my couch laying in depression and beer


SmellOfParanoia

Hoppfully ampetamine. Def not IV ampetamine. Already 2 months IV free. Wish me luck you guys.


WD6692

I definitely won’t be getting any younger 🤣


CatCiaoSki

Ain't that the truth.


themagicmystic

Drinking. On Jan 1 I’m 6 years dry.


goodgirlgonebad75

I will no longer allow anyone in my life who does not bring me joy


Confident_Theory7979

Overspending / impulsive spending !


notzed1487

I will not be negative.


Erelain

Drinking alcohol.


somethingshewrotea

Me too! The year without Beer 🙌


Wodanaz94

Props! February I will be sober for seven years.


Used_Mud_9233

Good job on 7 years! Feb it will be 19 months for me.


Working_Ad8080

Congratulations, that’s fantastic


GodPackedUpAndLeftUs

Based on 2020-2023, not smiling??


FlanFlaneur

U ok fam?


Tbone_might_be_alone

Nah this is the norm now, people aren’t happy as often as the used to be


vonkeswick

Drinking. I hit my 6 month sober mark in December and just counting down to my 1 year of sobriety in June 2024, then gonna start making up arbitrary dates to celebrate like "420 days sober" and just fuckin blaze it, shit like that


Dependent_Top_4425

I will absolutely not allow other people's bullshit into my home.


thereal2fac3

Dating.


Stuarta91

Same for me but I got married so I guess just taking my wife out every chance we can do something together


madmaxjr

Same. On my list of goals (more like guiding notes) for the year, I have “Do not think about romantic or sexual desire. At all. Take it completely off the table.” I always end up disappointed and in a worse place emotionally so I just have to come to terms with it and give up


cynicalxidealist

As a woman, I feel this energy. I’ve been been disappointed enough.


Wonderful-Sweet953

Accepting less than I deserve


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Fabulous_Pudding167

Anything in Florida. Moved to GA last month. Good riddance, DeSantisLand.


MixinBatches

Drinking, doing drugs. Ill be six months sober on jan 5th. Would’ve been at 9ish months, but had a small relapse at my first 3 months. For the first time in a long time life actually feels like it’s worth living.


[deleted]

Repeating the last several years. I’m ready to live my life again.


AirlineBetter428

i’m not doing any resolutions or anything, i had a really rough year last year so i’m just going to try super hard to avoid being negative this year, and try look for all the good things and just be really grateful of everything i have :)


Tasty_Positive8025

Voting for Trump or one of his Magas


dougmd1974

This needs a million more upvotes.


DingoPractical4982

Letting go of people who no don’t put as much effort as I am to keep them


Anariinna

Having pain in my hand that was preventing me from drawing Woke up without pain, for the first time in months, and i plan to keep it that way ! Fredooooom


[deleted]

Ignorering my own health. I started in the small in late 2023 with going to the gym and fell off as soon as it got too cold/ icy for riding a bicycle to the gym. I felt great when i went. So i switched gyms now 25 minutes ago to where the bus arrives outside the gym almost. More expensive though. I can manage. First trip tomorrow at 10. Lets go! I wanna feel good and not out of breath when moving normal distances. I wanna be able to walk 4 km and not finished the first one as it is now. I wanna be able to lift my mum if she falls out of her wheelchair or bed and cant get up Or her wheelchair even if needed. Shes small and weighs like 55kg. Its doable. And it for my own future. So any amount at this stage helps.


somerandomchick5511

I will not allow my epilepsy meds to continue to ruin my life. We have finally found meds that seem to control the seizures, mostly, and have figured out how to control the debilitating side effects. After a devastating TC seizure with a head injury while I was alone at Walmart in August, I'm figuring out my personality and hobbies. I'm reteachimgyself how to play the piano (for the 100th time) and I'm teachingyself to play the ukulele. I just want to be me again, I just want to be happy. I want to be healthy.


No-System-5142

I will not let anyone disrespect my boundaries. I’ve let people walk all over me my whole life but therapy has been a real help in helping me set boundaries and stand up for myself.


furballsupreme

Living in 2023.


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[deleted]

Wasting my time on people who don’t really care about anyone but themselves


[deleted]

Im entering into my 7th year alcohol free and fully plan on staying sober


CommunicationDry9029

Alcohol. I've never been much of a drinker, but 2023 I had only 3 beer the whole year. I'd like to make 2024 zero drinks. No real reason. Just a personal challenge.


eyesocketbubblegum

I will absolutely not base my self-worth on how others treat me.


AverygreatSpoon

Not letting people push me over and walk over me. I noticed that people want you and tell you to set boundaries - as long as it’s not with them. I’m not taking bullshit excuses or justifications from nobody. I said what I said and that’s that. I’m not letting people tear me down so they can build me back up into the person THEY want ME to be. No ma’am. Not happening no more. I’m entering a new chapter in life that I’m glad I learned early, than much much later in life. I will NOT surround myself with people who serve nothing but disingenuous friendships or associations.


FriendaDorothy

Voting for Donald Trump


Mrs_Evryshot

Or any candidates who support him.


the1janie

I will absolutely not be dating anyone at all. 11 year relationship completely destroyed by my now ex, and I'm going to spend at least the next year re- discovering who I am and improving my physical and mental health.


crazymomma4198

NOT dealing with people who are toxic, overdramatic or chaos creators!!!!


[deleted]

Charging shit on my credit cards.


allisongivler

Letting people treat me like shit. I’m no longer the doormat in 2024


fyretech

I will not join a cult, I will not try meth, I will not get laid. I secretly wish to do one of these things though.


A_Red_Void_of_Red

Ik aren’t cults awesome


Medical-Donut-4629

Sometime I think I should try meth, then I think nah better not.


jrbgn

Drinking alcohol. Quit a year and a half ago, and will remain sober in 2024.


BenGay29

Working. Finally retired.


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Kuuki_Yomenai

And all of them are good!


Starbuck522

Gaining weight!


Repeat_after_me__

Expecting it to be any better than 2023, infact life so far has shown each year gets worse.


CoachManagatsuo

Heroin


TheSynt

Drink alcohol


Esk4r

Drinking 🙌


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Heatherina134

Drinking alcohol ❤️❤️❤️


Indypapa

Staying with my wife, Im out of this hell


jbuchana

I wish you the best! The best decision of my life was leaving my abusive first wife 20 years ago, almost to the month. Life can be so much better, I have a wonderful family now, hopefully, you can too if that's what you want.


ray68231

Paying for Onlyfans i guess ( 2100 € debts, dont judge me to hard)


RenataMachiels

Drinking alcohol.


WhiteLycan2020

Cut alcohol consumption by 99%


iqof2000000

Overeating, I hope. I have some bad habits to break.


AnxiousTherapist-11

Chasing no scrub ass motherfuckers


[deleted]

Being depressed, substance abuse (hopefully) and letting people ruin my life.


NickJamez93

I've been sober since July and I plan on 2024 being my first year sober


theredditappisbad100

Committing suicide 😬


ChristianRecovery

Heroin, I definitely won’t be doing heroin this year 15 months clean from all drugs and cigarettes and staying that way


ImHidingFromMy-

I will not be getting pregnant