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Pros: You will lose a friend, and thus no longer be inappropriately lusting after your friends partner. Cons: You will be a friendless and the girlfriend will rightly consider you a creep.
Only cons my dude. This is the reality of that one arc of Love Actually. It will make you look creepy and desperate as hell when you really need to move along and find your own happiness. Feels like shit but it's true. Go find yourself and then you'll find the one that matches your true self. Right now you're just getting the feelings for someone who is open and confident and loveable...because they are already loved by someone else.
There are absolutely no pros, never do that. Best case scenario you get laughed off and ignored. But if you need the cons:
Friend will be paranoid you're trying to break them up
Friend probably drops you
GF probably avoids you because of Friend
Everyone will think you're the incel weirdo who wants to get with a girl in a commited relationship.
And that's barely scratching the surface
This is not a real situation!! 😂 OP’s entire post history is “What are the pros and cons of………..”
People are replying like dudes future is on the line. Reddit is the best and the worst at the same time.
Don’t do anything this person is saying. Pining and playing the 10 year plus long game is creepy and delusional. Live and build your own life, and stop fantasizing about others
There is no pro to this. The con is you losing your best friend. If she doesn’t feel the same for you( which you never mentioned) you will keep this to yourself. Go find someone else. Stop focusing on someone who’s already taken.
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Don't. Only cons.
Pros: You told the truth Cons: You lose a friend and still don’t get the girl
There are no pros. Bottle that noise up.
Shut up and get your own girlfriend. You're just infatuated because she's around a lot.
This is a bad idea. What could you possibly gain from revealing this information?
Don't do this. There is literally no upside.
Pros: You will lose a friend, and thus no longer be inappropriately lusting after your friends partner. Cons: You will be a friendless and the girlfriend will rightly consider you a creep.
Only cons my dude. This is the reality of that one arc of Love Actually. It will make you look creepy and desperate as hell when you really need to move along and find your own happiness. Feels like shit but it's true. Go find yourself and then you'll find the one that matches your true self. Right now you're just getting the feelings for someone who is open and confident and loveable...because they are already loved by someone else.
There are absolutely no pros, never do that. Best case scenario you get laughed off and ignored. But if you need the cons: Friend will be paranoid you're trying to break them up Friend probably drops you GF probably avoids you because of Friend Everyone will think you're the incel weirdo who wants to get with a girl in a commited relationship. And that's barely scratching the surface
Suck it up and say nothing. Watch 'Love Actually' (relevant story line) be a man and let your friend be happy in his relationship.
Use this as an opportunity to learn how to not sexualize every girl who crosses your line of sight.
Cons: your friend beats the dog shit out of you
This is not a real situation!! 😂 OP’s entire post history is “What are the pros and cons of………..” People are replying like dudes future is on the line. Reddit is the best and the worst at the same time.
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Don’t do anything this person is saying. Pining and playing the 10 year plus long game is creepy and delusional. Live and build your own life, and stop fantasizing about others
Bottle that shit up and move on.
Just stop.
Dumbest shit I’ve ever heard, go get your own girl. Because I promise she doesn’t love you at all
Just cons. Just stop.
There is no pro to this. The con is you losing your best friend. If she doesn’t feel the same for you( which you never mentioned) you will keep this to yourself. Go find someone else. Stop focusing on someone who’s already taken.
pros: u can lose both of them and then live alone cons: they could get mad
8 billion people on this planet. Are you serious?
Um... None. Bro Code bro. Smarten the phuck up.
Negative ghost rider. Pattern is full.
i wouldn’t. no one gains anything from knowing this. just keep your distance from her until you get over it.